This video explores how Black people have historically been conditioned to modify their speech and self-expression due to systemic oppression, and argues that liberating one's voice is essential for authentic self-expression and community empowerment. The discussion emphasizes that Black people should not feel compelled to censor themselves or modify their speech to accommodate others, and that authentic expression—whether in art, conversation, or media—should be valued for its merit rather than its demographic representation. The hosts argue that forcing representation in creative works (like anime) is a tactic used to control Black creators, and that Black artists should be valued for their work rather than their identity. The conversation also addresses the importance of trust, communication, and mutual respect in relationships, emphasizing that both partners should be willing to learn from each other and that authenticity in relationships requires understanding and acceptance of each other's natural behaviors and boundaries.
Are We In The New Jim Crow? Big Matt Joins The Too Much Dip On The Chip PodcastAñadido:
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I don't talk loud but the room get quiet when I enter.
Heavy is the crown. Got my shoulders built to bear.
Been outside learn lessons from the splinter. Pain in my palm but my grip just made me better. Walk with a lean.
Let my soul got rhythm. Every step say earn. Every scar got wisdom. Ain't chasing moments, I let them come get me.
When you rooted in truth, you ain't never too empty. Seen both sides. I don't trip off the tension. Left hand humble, right hand got intention. Day one noise. I prefer the pocket where the baseline talk and the drums stay honest.
I ain't pressed for approval or praise.
I've been good with my name and rooms full of haze. Still mean no disguise. No costume, just presence. That's the real flex assume. Yeah. Left foot, right foot. Still in my stance. I don't rush moves. I let the groove advance. Yeah.
Left hand fake, right hand grind. I don't pick a side. I balance both mind.
Yeah. Left and right. Yeah. I move like that. Soul in my step. Let the beat do left. Left and right. I'm aligned. I'm tight. When you stand on truth, you don't lean, you glide.
Yeah.
Yeah. I done sad with the wise. I done laugh with the wolves. Learn silence.
Talk louder than a room full of fools.
They mistake for weak. That's a lie.
They believe I don't bark much but my bike got teeth. No cap in my tongue. No gimmicks to sell. I'm too busy being free. I don't sit in the cell. They chasing the look. I'm chasing the feel.
When the groove locked in, that's when it get real. I ain't here for the moment. I'm built for the loan. Every verse feel and every word got a home. If it don't move the spirit, I leave it alone. I rather say less and let the beat talk wrong. Been through fire, still cool with the flame. I don't beg for respect. I just walk with my name.
If you know you press the code out, right, two feet on the ground. Yeah, left and right.
Left foot, right foot. Still in my stance. I don't rush moves. I let the move advance. Yeah. Left hand faith, right hand grind. I don't pick a side. I balance both minds. Left and right.
Yeah. I move like that. Soul in my step.
Let the beat do raps. Left and right.
I'm aligned. I'm tight. When you stand on truth, you don't mean you got it.
Ain't got to prove it.
If it's real, it show.
Let the base be right there.
Left and right, steady pace. No rush, no fear in my face. Left and right, still alive when the rhythm right. So is my mind right.
Let that ride.
Wait, are we just doing Oh, wait. I'm supposed to introduce the show. That's right. We're doing this. Uh we're doing this now. All right. Here we are, ladies and gentlemen. Uh boys and girls, children of all ages. This is something that has been long overdue, something that is uh actually quite underdone. Um some would say that what is about to happen is a marker in history, one that they will look back on for eons, and I'm just talking too much [ __ ] Welcome to another episode of Too Much Dip on the Chip. I am one of the main hosts tonight. It's your boy King with me. Of course, we have Cass some where there.
And then uh we got of course my man's V some >> where they do.
>> This man.
Hey, look. I don't never know which way y'all be popping up from. Y'all just, you know what I mean?
>> I'm always on the left. That might help.
>> All right, Captain America. Um, and do I do I do it now or do we still do our banter?
>> Well, we we'll we'll we'll we'll get into the intro first, but um yeah, we got um got a surprise from y'all. Um we don't we don't normally do this in this format, especially where you could see our faces in real time, hear us breathing and, you know, clearing our throats and stuff. You know what I'm saying? And we're not going to get taken down. King can smoke his blizzies up here. You know what I'm saying? like we could go we could take we could do this as many ways that we want to. Um, and you know, we're here. We're about to get live. Before we get into all that, we got something for y'all, too. We got some got some more music. I know you may not like it, but we're going to keep giving y'all some more music. We got to uh drop the intro.
Hey, load up the game. Hey, slide in joystick click crowd echo faintly low spawn in first stealth mode stage talk slick like dojo when he step on stage king press star ain't no capping my script final boss energy boy never miss a glitch got the vibe Jojo pose in the mix aura in the booth every word do a crit mother with the mayhem drip with the blick and the power up lipo bilingual doing with the flame Talking XP, spirit points, whole different game, but we leveling up. No trip. Welcome to >> Too much Dip on the chip.
>> King Eminem and Caspino in the building where the mic feel.
All right, fellas.
>> Take it away, King.
>> Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the first live streamed episode. Although at the time, well, no, it's live stream if you're watching it right now. If you're watching it post, I guess it's was live.
However the [ __ ] that works. Either way, welcome to another beautiful episode of Too Much Dip on the Chip. I'm of course King V is supposed to be over there and our main man's cast is supposed to be over here. So, hey, look at that. I did it or not.
>> Wow.
>> And we got our mascot dude over here in the corner. I can't remember his name, but I'm gonna call him Jonathan today.
So, meet Jonathan.
>> You're definitely inverted just a tad bit.
My bad.
>> All good.
>> Now, do I do it? Now, do I >> Yes. Yes.
>> You won't stop yelling at me. Okay, >> ladies and gentlemen, on this very special live episode, not only am I excited because we're live, but I'm excited because the guest that we have on the show, and yes, we have a guest.
The guest that we have on the show is a main man, one would argue a new staple in black American history and culture.
someone that is I want to say just keeping tradition alive but when he when he gives his his point of view when he gives his aspects when he stands on business he is what you expect when you hear the term black man this man has accolades from just being on side quest you know what I mean like let's just call it what it is the man is great the man is great at his job is great at doing what he does y'all know him y'all love him please give a round of applause for our main MAN OH, YOU GONE.
>> You muted.
>> I'm sorry. Let me wake back up. How y'all doing, man? Thank you for having me on. You know, hey, hey, I said this before and I'll say it again, man. We just trying to hang out like big titties, you feel me? So, thank you for having me on the show. Is this Can we cuss? is I don't want to be messing up >> y'all because my [ __ ] >> So, hey, thank you. Um, I try my best. I like I tell Casper, I'm just a regular [ __ ] who is doing [ __ ] that, you know, people like because most people can't say it. Um, I believe in liberating those one way or another. and I myself and I'll share this for the first time um really incorporating my voice and like using my voice um I don't know if you guys uh heard about the study that happened in China or uh Japan one of the two but the class had ferns on each side and uh one part of the class would say good things to the ferns and then the other side would say bad things uh the class that said all bad things to the ferns. Uh, the fern died. So, it was already established that words have power. Words words are strong and I basically weaponized my voice because one of the components is black history, our lineage. We would get killed for speaking, for standing up, for for for vocalizing mistreatment, wrongdoing, injustice, etc. Right? And I think a lot of us uh somehow forgot about it and fell into systems to where even though we won't be hung, lynched, or murdered, we can still possibly lose something that would prevent us from taking care of our family. So, in some way, you were confined to not being able to say how you truly feel and me being able to say, "Damn, I ain't got no job.
I'm retired.
I can go ham sandwich and well with no one to say, "Nigga, pump the brakes and I can fight." That's another thing.
I talk [ __ ] cuz I can fight.
>> Can I say >> this man is an inspiration? Can I say that this man is an inspiration for me as someone who probably talks the biggest [ __ ] on this podcast out of the five?
>> Okay, maybe. No, I am top two for talking the biggest [ __ ] No, hold on.
[ __ ] that.
>> That is facts. You definitely have a PhD in being a pretty huge dick. But yeah, that that's you.
>> Hey, maybe serious pause. I I was I was like >> I am quoting this man because I've known this man for almost going on what 10 years, King. My god. This is I'm just quoting you back to you. But my bad.
>> But yeah. No, as someone that that talks the biggest [ __ ] on this podcast, when I do see like big man come across my Tik Tok on my Instagram, I do sit down and watch because like that's just me on a regular day. And it's it's beautiful to see that I'm not alone in just being like, yo, let's just call it what the [ __ ] it is. I should not have to sprinkle and put frosting on [ __ ] to acknowledge it as [ __ ] This is [ __ ] >> Yeah.
>> Let's just acknowledge it as [ __ ] Why do we need to have all these extra formalities? It's it's [ __ ] >> Yeah.
>> When I say King be in the in the chats like, "Yo, bro, can I go off?" I was like, "Bro, this is a free space. Do what the [ __ ] you want to do, >> man? Just motherfuckers." I like, "Damn, damn. We just gonna start out with motherfuckers." All right, cool.
>> Yeah, it makes my job It makes my job a lot easier as the editor. Um I'm kidding, of course. Um definitely be violating on the mark. Yeah.
>> See, but here's the thing, though. This that was a staple rule when we made when we made this this whole project. That was a staple rule that I I had personally was like, yo, if I'm not allowed to just if I have to censor myself in any which way, I'm I'm off the project. Like I definitely don't want to do that. Like, >> oh, >> I want to be able to just do it.
>> Saying being before we get forward, we going to hurt feelings. We gonna say a lot of [ __ ] that really, you know, we don't do the whole what's the word I'm looking for? That little caution cringey [ __ ] No, if we hurt your feelings.
Yeah, we don't have trigger warnings out here. We we gonna say a lot of [ __ ] So, if we hurt your feelings, uh, you be all right.
>> Well, actually, the the new phrase should be deconstructing safe spaces.
>> Black people have been killed for speaking.
We've been conditioned to modify how we talk to save the feelings of white people. And if we control how people talk, they would never utilize their voice in the way to weaponize it, to inspire it, to resonate.
>> And the more weed I smoke, the more I realize this is this needs to happen. And young man, for you to be like, I inspire you.
Thank you very much. Because that's the [ __ ] make people do exactly that. Like, [ __ ] you. I'm no longer I'm no longer You [ __ ] graduated. I'm not teaching.
There's no lesson plans. You graduated.
Your ass is a grown man. Your ass is off the porch. You don't get a J O. You ain't got to worry about catching a dog.
You got to worry about a dog catching your ass. That's what it is with white America. There is no more modifying speech to make you feel comfortable.
[ __ ] I'm slapping two 12s rolling up to the picnic. That's just what the [ __ ] I'm doing. I don't care if you're out with your kids. your kids are going to hear a [ __ ] slapping because I no longer care about your space and and and modifying, you know, dying down my isms, me being black, this culture, what we represent, because like [ __ ] no, if you gonna follow my black ass in the sto, I'mma be hella allowed in the movie theater.
Not really, but you catch my drift like a crop crop dust, you feel me? So that's what it is.
>> For sure. For sure.
>> My hero right here. Yo, >> to be like this, man.
>> For sure. For sure.
>> Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm not trying to take over.
Someone in the comments uh >> Oh, >> says, "Why don't you guys ever talk about the gener uh the generacy in your own community? It's very dishonest. I'll tell you.
>> God damn.
>> I You know what? Let Let me Let me be transparent here because I've noticed this a lot in Army.
>> Come on real quick. Come on, OG. I got you. Go ahead.
>> No, no. This is This ain't going to be no ether. I ain't clowning. I ain't clowning. This is educational an educational thing.
>> Okay.
>> We as black people are critical of other black people. Other black people ensure that the standards we're held to are in order. So if [ __ ] is walling out like an and one game, everyone going to think we walling out. I understand that. We do do a lot of things to one another that isn't cool. Like there's a lot of things that we do to one another that isn't cool. Check. But because of society and majority of the population not liking us, for us to get on social media and talk about us will only allow people who don't like us to weaponize our voices to target people they don't like. So in short the conversations i.e. talking about us will not be on social media.
It's for more formal intimate settings. We no longer need to talk about one another so white people can be like see that black guy right there is saying the exact same thing weaponizing what we say to validate their point.
[ __ ] that.
So that's why we don't talk about what we're doing. We do not need to leave keynotes, any [ __ ] nothing for these people to weaponize, to target us.
[ __ ] that.
>> Now, hit the eat the beat.
>> Ahead and open the third eye for all of y'all.
>> You feel me?
>> Yeah. We about to get into some chakras.
>> Oh my gosh. Oh shoot. Oh shoot. I deal with this. I deal with this every day, by the way.
>> For sure. For sure. Um but yeah, so I I think it would only do some good um especially when it comes to um first time us being live and also sharing space with Big Matt is really just talking about the the connect, right? So like how this really came to be. So, um, for those that know, uh, me and, um, me and Big Matt, uh, we worked together on his podcast, uh, But can you take a Punch? However, uh, he came on my podcast a couple years back. Uh, this man, uh, knew me before I became a father. And anytime like I had something going on as far as, hey, I need to shine a light to like this cause I need awareness to, brother's right there with a retweet. Um, anytime, forget sharing a link. He's like, "Bro, a donation is never too much." Um, this man, you know, some I saw somebody ask a couple weeks ago in his comment section, does he offer mentorship? He just kind of does.
And I what I what I admire about this brother is it's like he doesn't need to say he's a leader, he leads. And the people that follow him follow him. So, you know, um I thought that he would be a a perfect person to frankly just, you know, bless us with his presence, uh with his words, his commentary, because that's what he's good for. And plus, I call him OG because I feel like, and I I'm only speak I'm speaking for myself here. I would feel like he sees a lot of himself in me. Um he'll probably see a lot of himself in these young men as well that we're sharing screen with and we're occupying the space with. And you know, this is this is what this is about. So, this is going to be fun. This is going to be dope. We're going to talk about a lot of things. We're going to talk about a lot of things in culture.
Um, uh, news flash for people that don't know, uh, Big Matt is a huge blur. Uh, yes, he is a huge, huge blur. He from everything from Dragon Ball Z, uh, to to video games, we got that. You know what I'm saying? Um, so yeah. So, with that, uh, if you could just give us like a if you can give us a rundown because as if we don't know who you are, uh, OG, could you tell us, um, in a very like elevator's pitch to who Big Matt is before we get into the, um, the topics today?
>> [ __ ] Who is Big Matt?
>> Who is Big Matt?
Okay, Big Matt is the final form of what can only be considered a dope ass [ __ ] who never believed in himself that was oppressed in a sense. Uh, not oppressed. Take that back.
The final form of adult dope [ __ ] who never believed in himself, who grew up getting severely beaten alone with my imagination and thinking more than really interacting with people, being withdrawn from people, uh having ADD, um and just being not really knowing who the [ __ ] I am and and having these ambitions and wanting to be knowing that there's more out there, but never really never really uh never really wanted to to look at it until I found myself being homeless. And then that's when I started focusing and, you know, doing drugs and living like a rock star. I was just I guess I had to come off a high being afraid and hating myself for whatever reason to go to the army and come back and realize who I am and understand that I'm dope. Like like if I would have believed in myself a long time ago, God knows where I would be at. So Big Matt is just the final form of a really dope dude who never believed in himself but ultimately come to know who he is and value values himself and how I inspire motivate people. You know I'm I'm like every like I said I'm a regular [ __ ] who just believed in himself. You know what I'm saying? and >> Big Mac uh you know I mean I you say final form and I feel like if you are an anime guy like you say you are you know if you're Goku there is no final form there's always a next form >> yeah yeah I could push I could push further but my kids are technically mini Cell juniors and I tell you you know I'm running low on sensor beams and I ain't really got time to train so you know I I would say maybe I might have another form maybe if my children, have children, but right now they're pushing me. And who knows, you know, I might I might have another farm. You know, I it might happen. I don't know. But um I'm I'm just a guy who really [ __ ] up, [ __ ] off, lost, upset with himself, self-doubt, and I just decided to believe in myself one day. And when I was allowed to be myself by Larry Bird, um, you know, she allowed me to be myself. So, that allowed me to bring everything together and what you have right now is is that.
So, >> and and for our audience that doesn't know who's Larry Burton because for like it took me a little bit even while working with you, >> our don't know who the hell Larry Bird is.
>> Is my wife. My wife is Larry Bird. Um, some dude some dude some dude was trying to clown her like, "Yo, your wife looks like Larry Bird." And just me being the dope [ __ ] that I am, I was just like, "That's your name, Larry Bird." And like I was like, "Hold on, let me see something right quick." Hey, watch this.
Hold on. The the what's name is blurred.
Let me um Hey, Larry Bird.
>> Come here.
>> This Larry Bird.
>> Hi, Larry. What it do?
>> Jump shot.
>> Jump shot.
>> Um, so that's that's Larry Bird. Um, and we just ran with it and now she has a legion a legion of people who follow Larry Bird. You [ __ ] with Larry Bird, you [ __ ] with a lot of people. So, >> right.
>> And how does Larry Bird feel about this?
>> She's to be honest with you, she um if we weren't married, you wouldn't even know who she is. Like, she's totally out the she's just along for the ride and [ __ ] she just roll with it. So, she has fun with it. What's up, homie?
>> Hi.
>> What's up?
>> Nothing.
>> You good?
>> Why snake going to come on?
>> I don't know, son. But I'm in the car.
This is so casual, >> my man.
>> He He He got to talk to Snoop Dogg include Jean Gray. So, it's like, "Oh, Snoop Dog." So, but um she she uh No, she's along for the ride. She likes it. I mean, um the comments that she gets alone is is dope as [ __ ] You know what I mean? Like there's like tell Larry Bird I say how she gets mad love.
someone in the comment Larry Bird is the best like what's the odds of my wife being in your platform and you know what I mean so it just turned into something and I think uh we're not like regular interracial couples where she tries to sound and act black you know what I mean and we don't do that tonguey cheeky [ __ ] just we just have fun right >> with the kids Jean Greg [ __ ] so very dope Yeah.
>> Okay. Uh you fellas got any uh got any questions for for the OG before we get into these topics?
>> None at the moment, man. Let's get ready to roll.
>> Okay. What about you, King?
>> [ __ ] it. Let's get into the dockets, man. I'm I'm curious to see how he how he feels about what we got to talk about.
>> Okay. Okay. So, um so to kind of paint this picture, and I feel like this is also important as well. Um, is it fair to say that that um, you know what, I'll let you take care of this, King. Um, when you think about too much dip on the chip and when we address our bag of chips, that's our fans. What does that look like? What is too much when we get into these topics and then let's take a swing for the fences when it comes to this?
there. So to say that there's too much dip on the chip is an expression that means that you're kind of you're going too far. You're reaching the point where you may not like the reaction that comes next. You have too much dip on the you have too much dip on your chip because you know like it's just like a physical dip and chip. You have too much dip, the chip's going to crack. You know what I mean? Now you double dipping in the chip. Now no one likes you because you double dipped and you know now you kicked out of the park. hate those [ __ ] >> You know what I mean? So, like it's a series of events that you're not going to like. That's too much. That's having too much debt. A lot of times what we talk about, uh, either the situation in and of itself is already going too far or you can see where it is going to go too far or one of us are just going to go too far with it. And >> I've never gone too far.
>> Eight and a half out of times out of 10, it's probably myself or love. Shout out love. I I have never gone out um gone too far. That is >> sir, >> cuz you raising your hand the damn time, >> sir. Remember, we used to have unedited footage of you going too far. You went on like a 45minute rant. What are you talking >> 45? [ __ ] >> It was Listen, it was it was right after the Charlie Kirk situation. All I said I didn't say anything that I wouldn't repeat on air, but I wouldn't say I I went off per se. Um but this isn't about me. Um, brother brother King, uh, can you can let's get into these topics real quick.
>> All right. Now, I'm gonna switch up the layup a little bit only because of something that Big Man had touched on earlier, and that was, you know, just the limitation of how black people were able to speak.
>> Um, so I know we were going to start off with one thing, but I'm gonna kind of switch the order up a little bit, >> okay?
>> And talk um talk about getting into the nitty-gritty of everything. Um, a lot of it seem I don't want to address that. Am I allowed to say the L word?
>> Um, >> because we're live. Am I >> strange fruit? Say strange fruit. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah.
>> So, there's been a reoccurrence of an old I can't even say reoccurrence because it's always been around, but it's becoming more and more predominant of hanging fruit in the southern states, >> right?
uh a lot of hanging fruits. A lot of young uh people are experiencing this hanging fruits and it's at the moment of the time of us doing this there's only been a record of 15. Now none of this has been fully uh what you how you want to put that? They haven't been fully uh con not >> there haven't been there haven't been heavy enough investigations to confirm that these hanging fruits are in fact selfdoing or if there was involvement >> right >> by other people >> uh given our time in c given our dating state of mind like I said there was one one instance where I'm going to actually pull up this young man's name Um where is he at here?
>> Are you talking about one of the um the victims?
>> Yeah.
>> Um one of them I have is a Kayla Huff.
This is um this is a young young black woman. I'm not sure what the age of her is, but this is this is after this was on saying this happened on May 13th. Um of these of these children. I just say children because even when you like 20, you still a baby to me. That's just me.
Um but there's been a lot of instances of strange fruit um hanging from trees um taking place in the southern states.
And um unfortunately, even when it comes to these things, these things aren't even really being highlighted the way that they're supposed to. So a lot of the names of these these victims, these these frankly these babies, they're kind of going unnoticed. And with that compounded of the recent um over overturn of certain things, whether it be in the Supreme Court and just certain people getting put in positions of power. Um are we stepping into the new Jim Crow? Like is that happening? Uh Big Matt, what do you think by chance?
>> Um no. I mean, yes, if you do nothing.
No. Uh if you do do something. Um >> right.
>> Remember I work with dead bodies. Um, [ __ ] just don't hang theelves. Whether you know it or not, there's two things that hurt more than anything. And that's exfixiation. So, basically drowning or suffocating. It hurts. It burns. So, no one willingly does that [ __ ] No one just willingly hangs themselves. What's happening is that some of these white boys is getting out here kidnapping our black babies and [ __ ] hanging them.
That's all. And the reason why there's no coverage because people only know what you tell them. And the moment you tell them as much information as you give them is the much information they need to find out the truth. What should we do? I don't know. I don't know what we could do about it. But it should involve death in the name of protection protecting our babies. Because if if white people are out here um kidnapping black people and and [ __ ] hanging them, then that means how we as black people move need to move to where those individuals can be quickly neutralized. I.e. if there's some young girls walking three three to eight meters away should be some other people or [ __ ] should be hiding.
Something needs to happen to where to and from they're protected. And if something happened, she put two in the tits, one in the teeth. See, when we talk about Jim Crow, it's synonymous with Jim Crow. Violence towards black people. That's what Jim Crow was. Violence towards black people.
And they're already starting in these southern states hanging. What needs to happen? Need to kill the [ __ ] End of story.
>> We shall overcome. We marching. We marching. All that peaceful protest.
What was happening to black men and women in the 60s? Peaceful protesting.
They were meant they were met with violence, right?
>> And dogs.
>> How do how do how the [ __ ] do you stop violence?
>> Or how do you stop someone from trying to kill you? You kill them.
>> That's just that's just the unfiltered real life answer that people are afraid to say. They're going to have to die because if you're killing black people, we need to ensure that we kill you so you don't kill black people. There is no, once again, there is no safe space.
There is no we're going to talk to you in a manner that you understand. No, we're going to speak your language.
You're out here hanging black men, women, and children. When we find you, we're going to kill you. Or if we catch you in the act, we going to dump on you.
Make you go back to the drawing board, be like, "We can't do this [ __ ] And if we do, we need to push some shit." So, how many white [ __ ] gonna die before you throw your hands up like no moss?
>> Let's have real life conversations.
>> See, that's the thing. It reminds me of what's recently been happening like uh I think his name Chud something. Um he was going around using his freedom of speech to just be calling random black people >> and then somebody was to roll up and someone was like, "Okay, this this white boy that's doing this [ __ ] So what we're going to do is we're gonna go look for the [ __ ] >> Oh, there that's the dude right there. We ain't even know. We we gonna put the slug on you." Boom. Dome shot. Hop in. Roll out.
What happened to he got he got his whole face blown off for [ __ ] around. This the message, white people. You say the n-word, one of two things are going to happen and you want to hope that you're able to go home to your [ __ ] family with a a broken nose or some [ __ ] like that. That's where it's at.
>> Freedom of speech, but not freedom of consequence.
Like I said, >> here's the thing. Here's the thing with this freedom of speech [ __ ] That's white people [ __ ] Uneducated white people at that. Why?
Because freedom of speech just means the government can't black your ass for saying some [ __ ] That's all it [ __ ] means.
>> Freedom of speech is for a body of government.
>> So I'm I'm all for freedom to punch him in the [ __ ] mouth.
>> This is being offered for real. Golly.
>> Like for real. Because you I have freedom of speech. Well, if I was a body of government, [ __ ] I'm a singularity.
You can't do that.
>> All right. Damn.
>> Now both of y'all holding each other's boo boos. I'm at a point in my life, man, where if we ask you not to do something across the board. Across the board. I don't give a [ __ ] who you are. How long does a person have to ask you respectfully, cordally, formally not to say or not to do before you get your [ __ ] head split open? How long?
Because if you really care, if you really have respect, if I come over King House and I'm I say something and I do something, he like, "Yo, uh, you can't you can't say that." One of two things are gonna happen. If I don't respect him, [ __ ] [ __ ] you. I'll say whatever the [ __ ] I want. But if I respect him, especially for bringing me into his house, my my apologies, man. I I'll find something else to say or be mindful not to say it. But be mindful. I've been saying this [ __ ] for a long time, so I'm just not going to stop. But thank you for letting me know that I need to focus on this. And while I'm with you, I'll be working on trying to unlearn this [ __ ] Right.
>> It's that [ __ ] simple. And these [ __ ] would rather say, "Oh, well, you say it." Well, how come you say it? You playing. I'mma knock your ass out because [ __ ] you're not black, so you're always putting yourself in what we do so you can validate saying it. I'mma knock your ass out and we gonna run that [ __ ] back. Marshawn Lynch, and see if you understand better.
>> That is crazy.
>> Right. Right. We actually um we had this conversation, what was it, two weeks ago, gentlemen? Uh what did you >> We literally said uh what we were having this the the discussion um I'm not gonna say who it was um but we were talking about like what's the out like what is the we're having the [ __ ] conversation and K finally was just like you know what we're playing too nice about this [ __ ] you ain't get your ass whooped enough to say this word like what are we talking about we you know what I'm saying like we there wasn't enough you ain't get enough behind whoopings you ain't had your speaking to you with a belt in every syllable that that didn't happen with you. So like there's not enough equity to even have this conversation. Um I think I think the thing with this especially with this subject matter about I would just say like the the the lack of empathy with all of this and like I said right here. Um anyway um here's the thing and maybe we need to educate some people. So, I think even in in today's society, you guys don't know the You know what? We can say it on here. I just Googled it up. Yeah.
Anyway, so I don't think y'all understand the history of things like lynch mobs. Like, a lynching is not as simple as like somebody's wearing a rope necklace. No, we're talking about people get getting up together in a gang of folk, right? And then they are deciding to chase down and harm depending on who that people group is or just that person in general. And going back to even um rest in peace George Floyd, we just um we just memorialized him on Memorial Day, right? Five years five six years ago now. Six years ago, right?
>> That man was lynched on the street on t on on television for like 10 minutes.
That that was a lynching. Like we can't just because it didn't have a rope. And I think even like with this response, it's just like fam, like a lot of times like we we we try to qualify certain things or disqualify certain things by making like concessions like this. It's just like, oh, I'm sorry. Um the the way that somebody's body was brutalized was not in the fashion that you're you're normally accustomed to. It doesn't take away from the definition or the history of that word. You know what I'm saying?
So, >> now to show this person some grace real quick though. We don't know what context they meant it. If they were just saying that, hey, just so y'all know, they wasn't exactly that. They were this instead or if they meant it in a condescending manner. So, >> yeah, but it's got but it's kind of like, oh, but like they didn't get stabbed to death, they got shot first.
>> No, no, no. But what I'm saying is we don't know if they mean in a context to help us not mispread misinformation or if they meant in the context of just being an [ __ ] I want to take it with grace and say that they're probably just trying to make sure that we're not spreading misinformation because we are live versus the other end of them being an [ __ ] because if they're being an [ __ ] then we can be an [ __ ] right back.
>> Yeah, >> that ain't [ __ ] >> But I want >> Please respond by saying you wasn't trying to be [ __ ] You do not want >> I just want I just want to shoot >> Who we Who are we talking to? Who is this?
>> Um the devil in disguise uh 2008.
>> Yeah. I want to I want to say that they probably meant it in in good graces cuz you know what I mean? We are live. We don't want to spread this.
>> Oh yeah. Yeah. I think so too. I saw that. Like Okay, cool. All right.
>> That's that's how I want to take it.
That's how I want to.
>> And with that being said, with that being said, um >> there should be some conditioning with with uh social media. And in conditioning, I mean with ourselves because um one thing that I noticed about Facebook and just the texting is that we don't hear tones.
>> So how are they saying it? Are they saying it? And and sometimes we'll read it a certain way and um that itself creates more conversation. So Mark taking psychology and some other classes that I was made aware of allowed for him and his friends to create something. So when initially Facebook came out with what's on your mind or tell us how you feel.
It's always engaging you to say something. And when you type it, it's up to the person who sees it to interpret it a certain way. And if they don't know how you set it, it can then spread off in this direction or that direction. So just highlighting how this uh I don't know devil whatever um the comment, you know, how do we say it? you know, and that's something you got to be mindful of uh with social media because it can it it just it's like a I don't know the name of it, but it creates >> it's a game of telephone >> different variants of of a perceived context, which is sort of crazy.
>> All depends you. People pick out the smallest things and um they blow it up.
It could be the smallest comments or they revamp it or clip it or you know what I'm saying? So you just got to watch what you say and how you say it or how you read it.
>> And know some people don't have real good reading comprehension.
>> So >> true.
>> So and >> most people are mad illiterate.
>> Very y'all being mad polite. Y'all being a lot real real politically corrected.
>> You got ignorant people out here. You want me to say that ignorant to say they can't read. They know their password.
They know they they know they um they don't know their names. They don't know their socials, but they know how to give you their Instagram links and [ __ ] I understand mad ignorant ignorant people.
>> But hey, >> I gotta give grace when I have to give grace.
>> Nonetheless, as far as like the the hanging trees and strange strange fruits or whatever it's called >> because we can't say the word, this shit's got to stop. And if it's not even so much an if when it gets to the point of the retaliation that will come at the masses, it's not going to be in the form that you think it's going to be.
>> True.
>> A lot of people are thinking that, you know, oh well, black people said that we're not, you know, we're we're putting our hands up and we're backing away and we're and we did. We were just like, hey, look, y'all wanted this. This is what's going to happen. Okay, you know what? Our hard head makes us all fast.
>> Yes, sir.
>> That's between This is between you, them, and God. Y'all have fun with that.
Where are we backed up? And then slowly but surely, those that respect and represent, you know, us to a certain degree, we're just like, yo, um, please help. We're trying. Please help. And we're, you know, for a moment we're like, nah. Because we, you got to learn your lesson. But I guarantee you those that are keep provoking those those the the rage baiting trenders. So people like uh Chuck the Builder and other people like him and everything. I want y'all to go into your lacky blackest up neighborhoods.
>> Travel to Compton. Come to visit Detroit.
>> You know what I mean? Go ahead and hit up Atlanta and try those same acts.
Please come >> because you not you not come. Listen, you not you're not coming to North A and saying the N word to Jarquavius. It's not happening. Like >> it's not happening under any circumstance.
>> You want to rage bait so much you want to be you know what I mean the king rage baiter and do all of this that this is this is you want to build up a following and all of that. I'm daring you. You can actually clip this and put it on your time stamp to show me where you at. And I want you to do it. I want you to be in in a blacky black black neighborhood.
Biggity black neighborhood.
those same exact things that you're doing in them suburbs. And I want to record I want you to see I want to see all of the actions that occur.
>> Yeah. There you go.
>> I want you to go down if you're if you're from Maryland, whatever. I want you to go down Green Mount >> and and say that [ __ ] >> [ __ ] won't fly here.
>> Let's see what happens. Hit up. Go up on Monument. Let me see what happened. Yo, let me see what happened. I guarantee you >> you get followed.
be subscribing.
>> By all means, I understand we can go ahead and get them hyped. But it's more of a the social media thing. Everybody's just getting a lot of information all at once. So, yeah, the algorithm is hitting you all at once with the same thing that gets you hyped, to get you pumped, to get you upset.
>> Now, there's no fact checking. You know, no one watches the news anymore.
Remember back in the day, the news made it seem like we was out there just robbing white women in their purses at night. You know, it was the scare. It was to scare a bunch of people into thinking we were the enemy.
>> Yeah.
>> Internet just social media is just doing the same thing. They just filter out your algorithm just to get you upset, just to get you hyped, just to get you mad. You know what I mean? Just the same way they be getting us and our women to go at each other all day, every day. And it's just crazy. My Tik Tok just algorithm just [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] They gay, but [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] ain't [ __ ] So, >> you know, >> and I I thank for bringing that up because one thing that uh home girl taught me is >> what you got to do every like either every half a year or every year is reset your algorithm.
>> Yeah.
>> You got to reset your algorithms. Even if you're on whether you're on uh you know Tik Tok, YouTube, Instagram, whatever, there's a way for you to go in your settings and just kind of just dump everything and reset your algorithms and just >> cleanse your mind of everything because there's been I can't tell you how many times we've had conversations on this podcast. I have conversations outside and I've had female friends come and ask me, "So, y'all [ __ ] really believe that we do da da da da da?" At the whole time I'm like, >> I'm not them [ __ ] >> Them [ __ ] >> them [ __ ] don't speak for me.
>> Them >> like they they don't speak I that either there's the stuff is scripted. It's blown up way out of proportion. It makes no logical sense or something that just does not apply to me whatsoever.
>> Giddies, titties, weeds, tizzy.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Hold on. Wait. [ __ ] Who's that?
>> Okay.
>> Who was this bag of chip last?
>> Who the [ __ ] is that?
>> Oh my god.
>> Oh, >> like to get into, you know, you talked about earlier about losing losing history and losing recipes, right? So my question to you, Big Mac, did you cook this Memorial Day. Were you on the grill this Memorial Day?
>> All right. So, I'mma keep it real with y'all and y'all gonna laugh at me.
>> No, we're not, man.
>> Yes, you are. Cuz I don't You know, I'mma keep it real, man. I don't do >> You the Breakfast Club.
>> Let Larry Bird do all that [ __ ] >> Okay. Okay.
>> She cook breakfast. I do breakfast like a [ __ ] In the morning, your ass be at Denny's in this [ __ ] But after 12, I ain't No, >> [ __ ] You could at least said IHO. You said Denny's, bro. Come on, Denny's.
Hold on, man. Denny's blow Denny's blows IHOP out of the water.
>> That was That was >> We're not doing that.
>> I should have said I should have said like Waffle House or some [ __ ] like that.
>> N never Waffle House. Go ahead. New egg or something fancy. First watch.
>> Waffle House is my [ __ ] >> Waffle House.
>> I love it though. Yeah, man. I [ __ ] with Waffle House. this man. I've been I've been I've been I've been to hell of places. Like so we got a spot out in Texas called Toasted Yolk. They [ __ ] good as [ __ ] But um Waffle House I just Waffle House to me is just like they cheese eggs. Like the how they do that [ __ ] is is better than you know some of the place and I've I've been around, you know, some good eeries and [ __ ] but to be honest with you, um I'm more partial to [ __ ] like the the mom and pop joints like you know what I mean? not the the big franchises, >> right?
>> So, you know what I'm saying? Like, but but Waffle House has always done it. But no, with that being said, no. Um, my wife my wife does all the cooking.
My wife >> I'm I'm very concerned about this question. Who is this?
>> Shack as soon as I open it up. Wow, that's crazy.
>> What the That's crazy.
>> I feel like I need Chris Hansen. I need somebody on the phone right now. N [ __ ] is big Matt as soon as I open it up. I don't know what the [ __ ] that mean.
>> Your stomach.
>> Elaborate. Elaborate.
>> I need some I need more context. Like I just >> You know what I mean? We getting distracted because the reason why I brought that up is is that um Memorial Day weekend my Tik Tok feed was just hitting me with just stupid [ __ ] Supreme stupid [ __ ] They was talking about man ain't grillin.
They just out here in bedazzled jeans out here being weird, but they not they not cooking on the grill. Where the men at? And my thought process was like that's that's to me that's a father's duty, a husband's duty to be on the grill cooking. Like I when you know what I'm saying? When I was a husband, that's that's what I did. We got on the grill, we cooked. Now I'm single. But who the [ __ ] I'm going to someone else's house.
We eating over there, >> right? You know what I'm saying?
>> And it's not it's with me. It ain't even like, "Yeah, go out there and cook, bitch." [ __ ] you's a really good cook. In my humble opinion, when we were dating, you know, and I'm a [ __ ] My wife is white. Oh, you can cook. Okay, let's see what you got then. You You can cook, huh? All right.
Okay. You You can cook. You Okay, you you you shattered that stereotype. But I got some bad news for you. Your ass going to be cooking.
And plus, food tastes better when other people cook it anyway. You can be dope as [ __ ] cooking it. Other people [ __ ] tastes better. You know what I'm saying?
So, you know, ain't no shame in my game, man. She's a She's an awesome cook. She can really cook and I like to eat. So, it's a it's a win-win, you know. I don't do no grilling and [ __ ] >> Yeah. I have I have an apartment. And here here's the thing. in Baltimore City. You bust the grill out, all the crackheads gonna come out like everybody name mama gonna want a link.
It's like fam, I didn't I didn't ask for this. I was just trying to I was just trying to put some brz on the grill and now I got to feed the whole block. So, and also I've never touched a grill in my life. Like I've just I don't I've never had to. Like I just >> like as long as you my [ __ ] >> No, no, no. It's I've never touched a grill meaning like I just as long as I've lived on my own. I've been on my own since I was 18. I've always had an apartment and I've never had like a deck or a balcony to like when am I going to use a grill and my pops was not going to let me touch the grill while I was still living at his house. Are you Are you nuts? You can't touch a black man grill.
Absolutely not. So I just never You know what I'm saying? So call me say I'm not a man. That's fine.
>> Yeah. You know, you know, but but in all fairness, I think it's because we grew up, we saw Uncle our grandfathers, like >> Right.
>> But I think that was just some old take charge, you I think that was just something like that bro [ __ ] like yeah you know I'm about to get on the grill throw some [ __ ] on the grill cuz that's just what you I don't know like okay you know it's it's almost like you know the I'm cooking you know like I I don't know I never really Okay [ __ ] shut the [ __ ] up and [ __ ] cook >> right >> you know pull your socks down they too high up to your knees [ __ ] like >> did he have sandals on >> Yep got TO HAVE SANDALS HEY, that is >> I think I think I think that was just I just think that was just the the the the times back then. Um, >> right?
>> You know, where uh >> that that was just the the the staple of what it is to be a [ __ ] man. Now that ain't necessarily true, you know? I mean, who can cook in this [ __ ] Oh, the little person. The little person. Woman, right? Okay. Well, get her ass stupid. She can cook, you know, cuz I don't want no nasty ass food. So, she can cook better than everybody. She got the duty. You know what I mean? So, >> and also, may I might I add, it's like if we're going to start making these um if we're going to start making these concessions, I don't trust all y'all trifling people to make the egg s make the potato salad. And some of y'all haven't been vetted by auntie yet. So, if we're gonna make these concessions, where are your credentials at? Because I've had >> Listen, listen. I I BS you not. I was um King, you might know this person. I had me some potato salad and that had walnuts in it.
>> Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
What?
>> I said, "What in the blue hell is this?
Why are there nuts in my food?" Pause.
Why are there walnuts in my potato salad?
>> And this was a system. This was a system, mind you. So, some of y'all haven't been vetted yet. So, I ain't trying to hear all that. I'm sorry.
>> They on that high gluten. You know what I'm saying? New track of living. This is going to, you know, digest better in your system. If you don't give me some cheesy ass mac and cheese, stop [ __ ] with me.
>> I don't trust no white mac and cheese.
>> I'm telling you, >> I think a white person been like, "You got us beat with that shit." Like, you got potato like walnuts in in in your potato.
>> Yeah.
ain't gonna sound too bad after all, huh?
>> See, I don't know because I love I love grilling. Like, I ain't going to lie, this is my time of the year. I love being out on the grill. I prefer charcoal over propane. If you like propane, you ass should just be in the kitchen. There's no point in you grilling outside with propane. You're just literally taking your kitchen and putting it outside.
Use charcoal like a real man. Um, >> I like to use propane and propane accessories. So, I don't >> anyway. Um, nah, but I do love grilling. It's something about just grill food. And even so, like one of the things, um, my family and I used to do was just like we would find a spot to grill, whether it be like my brother's house, my sister, or you know, like wherever, a park or whatever. Everybody would contribute like, "Yo, we're gonna like, yo, we're gonna we're all gonna call out of work on this particular day. We're gonna meet up at this spot. We all gonna throw in like, you know, 10 $10 back when $10 could get you some food.
>> 10 $20 in.
>> We gonna go ahead. We gonna, you know, get these ribs. We going to get uh the dogs, the burgers, and all this other shit." You know what I mean? And >> it would be like one of those the more the marrier kind of thing. You know what I mean? because it's just like it became like a big potluck and a big thing. So, I liked it because of the family orientation with it.
>> 10 times out of 10, I would be the be the one grilling. Of course, I would have like my OG's with me. I would have, you know, my uh my cup of Henny or my cup of um [ __ ] ENTJ with me. You know what I mean? We got the music.
>> Diet Hennessy, >> you know what I mean? Yeah. Like, we we we vibing. The vibes is right.
>> Diet Hennessy.
>> Yeah. ENTJ is Diet Hennessy, man. Just just to put that out there. Oh, I don't I don't I don't drink anymore. I'm 14 years sober a couple couple of weeks ago. So, I don't Yeah, I don't I don't really, you know, that don't apply to me. You know what I'm saying? For sure.
For now, though. For sure.
>> I love the camaraderie. You know what I'm saying? Like, that's what I was trying to get into, too. Like, grilling and family time. That's basically it.
Bringing everybody together. Nobody brings sods.
>> Nobody brings the the the the card so we can play uh [ __ ] spades. No one brings the Uno. You know what I'm saying? What's going on? I haven't seen a family get together in a minute.
>> Can I just say something though? I feel like Spades has done more harm to the black community than Joe Biden. I just I don't want to I don't want to be at a spades table anymore. I just >> pause GET [ __ ] GOOD. WHAT YOU MEAN?
>> NO, I have anxiety. Y'all have to relax.
Like it's never that serious.
>> Y'all want another bombshell? You want You want another bombshell from Big Matt?
>> Y'all ready? I don't know how TO PLAY SPADES.
>> OH, NO. NO.
>> ME NEITHER.
>> ME NEITHER. Me neither.
>> Minute. Wait the [ __ ] minute. You got two brothers. Where's your cards at? Put it on the table.
>> I don't know what you're doing.
>> Well, I I'll tell you. Um, my lack of card my lack of card knowledge.
>> I was about to thank Thank you to the misses because listen, this man been clearing his throat for the last week. I was about to ask, did you do that remedy? I told you about that that >> No, I didn't. I didn't. I gotta I gotta >> Thank Appreciate you. Um uh King, I put King I put him on to that uh to that Jamaican uh remedy that you and Lo told me about and he been sitting on that recipe for like a week. He been over here just hacking up a lung like just >> Yeah, man. Just on purpose.
>> I don't know. Maybe I got tuberculosis.
I don't know. I doubt >> smoking weed and gotten a head and having having a sore throat. I don't understand.
>> Hold on now. Don't be blaming weed for [ __ ] Weed didn't do anything.
>> No, IT'S NOT. IT'S NOT helping though, King. It's not.
>> Yeah, it's not.
So, I I got some I probably go to Actually, there's no problem. I'll go tomorrow and see what the hell going on.
Nine times out of 10, it I got a respiratory infection. Um >> so, but no, um my dad asked like, "Yo, you want to play 50 52 car pickup or something like that?" I was like, "Sure, dad." You know, like 50 52 car pickup. So he shuffled the cards and he just threw them all up. He's like, "You got to pick them up." And I was like, "The cards all over the place." And I never picked up another I didn't give a [ __ ] about cards. Jim Ry [ __ ] Uno, give me some cards. I'm I'mma rip them shits up. I don't >> That's the backstory.
>> Yeah, that's why I don't play cards.
That was That was really triggering to me. Like >> I wanted to play cards with you and you just you made up some game where I got to pick up the cards.
I was like, "Yeah, [ __ ] [ __ ] you. I'm not ever touching cards again. Ever."
And but but I started playing dominoes and like I'm the pime.
>> Yeah. Now now some bones. I'll get I'll get down with some bones now. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah.
>> Like some dominoes. Dice.
>> We can make >> Dominoes don't give you Dr. Domino's give you anxiety, but Spain do >> [ __ ] I'm Dominican. Of course not.
Like what are you talking about?
>> You haven't played with Jamaicans. You haven't really played dominoes with Jamaicans. The fact of the matter is that table will not be standing. You don't know how it's standing after they're done playing. The way >> this is what we do. See, see, let me put you on real quick. Right. We'll grab We'll either grab You see them little like green electric boxes that we have in like the the neighborhoods and stuff like that. We'll put a checkerboard on that thing, flip that thing over and play bones on that before we actually use the table. That's how Dominicans get down. You know what I'm saying? Or we just get down on some concrete. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. go to a skate park, get like get a nice little flat area, put a checkerboard down. But no, no, no.
Dominicans don't play by bones now. And then let you not say your number out loud. Somebody gonna burn your house down. Then then we And then if you say you said your number, everybody's yelling because everybody's probably Dominican in that game of bones. Can't nobody hear anybody. It's a It's a whole contentious fest >> when it comes to Domino's and the Jamaicans, man. Boy, that's the funnest [ __ ] on any black person. That [ __ ] is fun as [ __ ] and his Jamaicans are funny to me any [ __ ] way because they they're like Japanese people like their their language is so aggressive and they just say the simplest [ __ ] you know Japanese like would you like some tea like you KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING DON'T WORRY he's excited he's happy for it you're like [ __ ] >> and the funny thing is like we have our resident Jamaican >> I'm not Jamaican >> Jamaican Oh my god, >> I am not Jamaican. Okay, you see >> you Jamaican.
>> I am not the Jamaican one.
>> I am not the Jamaican one.
>> Lo is >> Oh, the nubis. Yeah, >> that nubis. My bad. He barely, you know.
>> Wow.
>> That brother, you know, mistaken identity.
>> Yo, I feel like that was a little bit racist.
>> They saying all black people look the same. I'm just saying.
>> Well, well, Low Low looks a little different than the rest of us. Lo is the darkest out of all of us if you catch my drift.
>> My dreads. Yo, that's that's crazy. Yo.
Yeah, but Jamaican Jamaicans are are good people, man. They they'll [ __ ] you up, though.
>> Them Jamaicans, they don't be playing, man.
>> Not at all.
>> Did you know Tyson Beckford's Jamaican?
>> Yeah, he's Jamaican, man.
>> I didn't know that.
>> And And what's crazy is that Jamaicans are really good at um Pete Rock. He's Jamaican, I do believe. And um you would never know. And then you be like, "Oh, you're Jamaican." Then you look at them different. You always look at Jamaicans different when you find out they're Jamaican. Like you Jamaican.
Okay.
>> Them and Nigerians.
>> Yeah. Because you don't know when they're going to [ __ ] turn up on you.
You know, it's normally described by how they talk to you.
>> Just say all Africans, bro. It's all Africans, not just Nigerians, my [ __ ] >> Africans, man.
>> Not a pack. So >> wait wait wait wait wait. Do you have another example?
>> Hey look. So check this out. My son my son got locked up right Friday. Took him to go get his [ __ ] locked up.
>> I'm sorry. I got really I got really concerned. I was like wait I just saw him.
>> Where's my I knew exactly what he was talking about when he said >> I haven't gotten mine yet. I'm still waiting.
>> The fact that he was saying it so casual. I was like yeah he got his he got my man.
>> Yeah he got he got locked up. So she was like, "Don't go into the water if you do have a swim cap." Okay, cool. We have a swim cap. [ __ ] still came off, you know, and his [ __ ] got wet. So now shit's all funky looking and I'm trying to hit her up. This, that, and the third. And um when I hit her on TikTok, she was like, "Yeah, bring them in." So, we go in and um like she was like like why you why you didn't call me on my cell phone? Like she was just like like she was really like how come you didn't [ __ ] call me? Why you on TikTok? I was like cuz I did text you. She was like that's the wrong number. But it was though. I was like oh okay. She was like get you know and I get my number right now. Take my card and you call me right there. Any problem. the most aggressive love I've ever seen in my life.
>> It It was aggressive, but it was really like affirming like, >> you know, so and I was like, "Oh [ __ ] okay. I I was introduced to something."
>> Yeah. I When you when you get people from, you know, I mean, the other other countries and you hear how they talk like a lot of people like, "Yo, why is your mom screaming?" I was like, "She's not that's just how she that's that's how she speaks. That's her normal voice.
You will know when she's yelling. And everybody's like, "Yo, when she's yelling." I'm like, "No, she's she's talking. That's She's not yelling. I promise you that."
>> Jesus.
>> No, my mom is my mom is the opposite.
When she scared me when she get quiet like when she quiet enough, you can hear her like like like pick a a sun a sunflower seed out of her teeth and you could hear you you could be at a party, you could hear her go it's like, "Ah, she's pissed."
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. She's She's She's about to get black and B on somebody real quick.
>> Oh, shoot.
>> My mom's never lost her accent.
>> Wait, what happened?
>> I said my mom has never lost her accent.
My mom is born and raised Trinidad.
She's been Trinidad. She's been in the States for I don't [ __ ] a while now. And you know, I mean, you talk to her to this day and you would think that she just came in like her plane just landed yesterday. Like that accent has never left. The strength behind the words has never left.
>> Where's your Where's your mom from?
>> Trinidad.
>> Oh, okay. Okay. Okay.
>> Yep. Mom's from Trinidad. Dad's from Antigga.
>> Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
>> Casper, >> did you did you just [ __ ] suggest that >> a guy from Trinidad?
>> I know. It It was Listen, >> to suggesting a tongen is Samoan. Like, >> listen, bro. Listen. to get tombstone.
>> Listen, listen. Y'all work me too hard.
Okay. I was getting the hell >> I told you to take the day off yesterday. Hold on, [ __ ] I told you to take the day off yesterday.
>> Y'all working me too hard.
>> That's like in South Central like what's up cuz like [ __ ] is you crazy?
>> Listen, you in the jungles yelling out cuz like >> listen, y'all gentlemen worked me too hard. Okay, that's why one of them gave me a day off yesterday. Shoot. And then then >> I feel like I I I raised my hand too and said, "Yeah, you go take the day off."
Also, I agreed. Not like I said, >> and then and then today and then today it was right back to kingdom come. I said, "Fam, my god, >> bro."
>> The amount of anxiety.
>> I don't want to hear whining. What is next?
>> Um, let's see. So, next thing on the docket is, and this will be interesting, um, because I feel like we kind of covered both in these. So, let's go to the anime. Um, King, did you want to bring this uh subject up?
>> How many have many of you have watched Gacha Cuda or Gacha Cuchi? I know that's Gacha Cuchi, but it's apparently called Gacha Cuda.
>> Gacha Gotauda.
>> Gacha Cuchi. Is that Is that Donald Trump?
What?
>> Gotcha.
>> Yeah, that one. I was corrected on it earlier today.
>> Gotcha Cuda.
>> Okay. Nonetheless, Gacha Cuda is a is a hype anime. Um, right now there's only one season and we were kind of touching like P said, we were kind of touching on it earlier. Uh, but she was more or less bullied off of her Twitter account.
>> Um, >> oh, >> and she or it was taken down for a little bit. Now, at the time of us going live from when I just checked, it looks like her uh her Twitter account did come back. So, it is up and running allegedly at this time. Um, >> I did a video about her.
>> So, yeah, she was uh it looked like she was just like bullied offline. A lot of people were upset with her and giving her pretty much like just toxic reviews and just toxic just being just being [ __ ] And it's not even just being it's not even just on the sense of >> judging her anime, but judging the how the anime compared to the manga, how some characters are now black that in a black and white anime they are perceived to be >> white, >> but in the show they're black. And apparently there are some, let's just call them racist. Let's just call them racist.
There a bunch of pissed off white people who are mad that someone who created something is given a perception or a perspective that doesn't reflect them.
>> I did video I did a video about that and I was like y'all the [ __ ] problem.
>> That's not all you said.
>> Well, I be forgetting [ __ ] But the gist of it is, you know, you [ __ ] are the problem. Like this woman is creating anime. She doesn't owe you guys [ __ ] >> If she owns If she owns the [ __ ] anime, she can depict her her characters however the [ __ ] she wants.
>> And this is once again a tactic that white America uses bullying people to give them the representation. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, stop that [ __ ] [ __ ] you. Don't watch the manga then. Don't Don't read the manga. Don't Don't watch the anime.
>> Don't do the cosplay.
>> Don't Don't do none of that [ __ ] Like, >> this is my realm. I love this [ __ ] As you can see, Aasky all day, baby. Um, [ __ ] this is anime. This is Japanese.
>> It's fake.
>> I mean, >> it's fake.
>> For anybody that says this character is not black. He ain't white either, stupid. I mean, at the end of the day, >> well, >> he's Japanese.
>> I don't know. Ichigo don't sound like a white name, does it? Does Goku sound white to you? Or does >> Piccolo? Piccolo black.
>> Piccolo. We know he black.
>> The first anime character was like there ain't no qu that's that that's a [ __ ] >> He what? He what? He green but >> he he steps in. Who who else you know be stepdaddy is somebody else's kid.
>> No but no but no if you think about it Piccolo is this like a real [ __ ] cuz he like step in like [ __ ] I got you [ __ ] You know I got you little homie. I got you. Don't even trip. Your daddy ain't [ __ ] [ __ ] I got you.
>> That's wild because >> we gonna put you outside though [ __ ] We going to lace your tennis shoes, [ __ ] You You the homie. You feel me?
But >> he gave Gohan drip. Like he's the only dude that's like, "Yo, bro, you're not looking fly enough." Bam.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Now he purple and green. Like if you think about it, when Gohan went Super Saiyan level two, he didn't have on his daddy [ __ ] He had on He had on the big homie.
>> He had on He had on the the the Mechian uh uh uh garbs and [ __ ] you know? And Vegeta Black, too. Vegeta. Vegeta. That hood [ __ ] that fell in love. That's Vegeta. The [ __ ] who was a monster out there robbing [ __ ] and got married and it was like, "Nigga, I still beat your ass, but [ __ ] I love my wife and kids, nigga." So, >> a lot of people say he's the only [ __ ] that he's he's a big woman on Earth, you know.
>> So, Big Matt, we found a good comparison. Big Matt then because, you know, he done he done met Larry Bird and and became domesticated in some capacity.
>> In some capacity.
>> Yeah. I mean, when you when you have a family, um, it it it actually that that was a, you know, we talk about the final form that that helped solidify the final form because you learn to balance. I would kill a [ __ ] but at the same time, I love my wife and my kids. Like, I love them. I cherish them.
And when I wasn't my final form way back in the [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] all that [ __ ] I don't give a [ __ ] about none of that. So giving a [ __ ] allowed me to see the importance, but the importance put me in a position to not hesitate to kill, to preserve it, and protect it, if that makes sense. So >> that's how they write Vegeta story.
That's what's up.
>> When you when you when you do get a family and children, um, you will get your final form because you're going to have to balance nurture verse slaughtering [ __ ] if they dare cross the threshold to harm your family.
And when it comes to your family, there is no off switch. There is no speech from Android 16. It's an automatic Super Saiyan level two or Majin depending on, you know, how you get off and it's just going to be ugly in the name of your your wife and your kids.
>> Hell yeah.
>> So yeah, man.
>> But back to the nonsense.
>> Yeah.
>> Of the [ __ ] because it's the fans that talks to this [ __ ] >> Um damn, I'm blurry as [ __ ] But it don't matter. you going to hear these words. Uh, >> I told you it's going to be cleaned up on the on the on the edit. It's all right.
>> The fans are toxic and [ __ ] They pretty much feel like they have they can say whatever the [ __ ] they want to say. And a part of me is like, yeah, you can always turn off the app, close the computer, and not listen to the [ __ ] But I'm like, yo, they do this for the Dragon Ball Z fandom does this. The My Hero Academia fandom does this. U, the One Piece fans. Well, I am one of the One Piece fans, but we do it, too. I'm gonna have to throw me throw me in there. And it's just the West that's just like, "Yo, why y'all tripping? This is their story." Let them tell it the way they want to and not shift it because y'all like, "Nah, bro. I'm enjoying this, so let me enjoy it the way I want to enjoy it by telling them and bugging them." Hey, yo, you should change this [ __ ] Like, >> the [ __ ] >> They've been doing the same thing to Jesus for 2,000 years. They're definitely going to do it to some anime characters.
>> Yeah, dead ass serious.
>> Because I know uh there's um you know there was one black cosplayer, a female cosplayer uh I had to find her name. She um you know unalived herself because of the bullying. You know what I'm saying?
>> And she was a great cosplayer. She cosplayed you different variations of um anime and she was good at it. She's actually pretty dope. But people like, "Oh, she ain't black. She ain't black.
Why you got to be, you know what I'm saying?" I'm like, "Nah, bro. If she doing a cosplay clothing wise, hairs wise to the tea, it don't matter the color."
>> At the end of the day, if the artist want to go on and animate that [ __ ] and change their color color palette, they can.
>> You know what I'm saying?
>> I mean, uh, Ed Boon and um, what's the name did it with, uh, [ __ ] Mortal Kombat? I mean, [ __ ] Scorpion and Scorpion and and and and Subzero, all them [ __ ] was the same ninja with different colors. So, it's an easy way to manipulate and give it a whole different [ __ ] look if you think about it. But, you know, >> Exactly.
>> people just I mean that that's that's the [ __ ] problem though, man. Like, [ __ ] white folks, man. Like, >> they did it with Ariel. They did it with Ariel. They It's like I mean, if you think about it, it's Barack Obama's fault. And I'm being facicious. I'm being facicious when I say that. Um because Barack Obama was the first time that black or white America didn't have anyone that looked like them. And they were open to four years.
Give a [ __ ] four years because there would be another white president, right?
He won again. And it was at that moment that white America came ungoomed because they were willing to give four, but they couldn't do another four. So his policies became [ __ ] His wife was a trans woman. He was everything bad. He didn't do nothing wrong. I mean, for Christ's sakes, he won the election again because he did such a wonderful [ __ ] job. It happened that way. And [ __ ] they were disgruntled. And it scared them to the point where they psychologically wanted to ensure that every aspect of their life in this reality regardless of anyone who isn't white to ensure the integrity of white is upheld. So everything has to [ __ ] be white.
Everything. Oh, Ariel's about to be black. Oh my god, [ __ ] It's a fairy tale.
You know what I'm saying? It's a fair It's fake. But you're so used to white representation that the the thought of it, you know, the thought of the the changing like uh Nick Fury, he went from white to black. Oh my god.
Let's not >> Samuel Jackson the best Nick Fury hands down.
>> Let's not talk about Miles Morales.
And not only that, they made Miles Morales stronger than Superman or Spider-Man.
He's He can like right now Miles can kill Peter.
>> Oh, dude. One of my favorite parts of Spider-Man 2 is when Peter's got the symbiote on and Miles got he just got the he just got the um the starter locks and he rinsed Peter Parker >> so bad cuz he got Venom. But yeah. Yeah, I can attest to that.
>> So, so they they've always been mad about um the representation of them and it's like like No one gives a [ __ ] Like, [ __ ] out of here with that [ __ ] Um I I it's it's a bully tactic and they're bullying this young woman um for not catering to white people and that is a technique that needs to be destroyed.
Not everything has to be white.
You know what I mean?
>> Yeah. I actually have what you said.
you're not comfortable with anything being non-white says more about y'all than anything else.
>> I actually have what you said on this subject matter and I'm able. By the way, fellas, I finally figured out how to hook my phone up to my board. So now I could just, you know what I'm saying?
Yes. Cast away. Um, but this is what Big Matt had to say about this situation. I can't pull it up on screen cuz you don't make me Why? Why can't I download videos off of your profile?
>> That's crazy.
>> What? Mine?
>> Yeah. Why can't I download videos off your profile? That's ridiculous. We're not talk about that.
>> Because I I constantly forget to go in there and make them downloadable. That's why I mean I thanks for reminding me.
But guess what? You're going to forget again.
>> Well, we'll have we'll talk about that right now.
>> Wait, Cass, before you do that, I see that King is pondering. I want to hear his ponder because he's thinking out loud. is thinking out loud >> cuz I'm trying to figure out how to formulate my words properly because for me this topic expands to more than just anime and manga and I have a lot of hatred um for the kind of people that put us as fans in these predicaments.
>> Right. I have a and I say hatred and I mean it because of the fact that shows like Gotcha Jakuda shows like um Canon Busters that was on Netflix a couple years ago. Uh characters like I cannot pronounce that boy that man's name at all, but the black samurai that was supposed to be in Assassin's Creed and all of that. All of these historic like >> um Yusuke. Is it Yusuke? I think it's something like something of that nature.
But like all of these moments where mind you the black samurai is based on a real legitimate person. He is in the history books in Japan. He's legitimately in the history books.
All of you certain type of fans that you call yourselves.
You whine, cry, [ __ ] and complain.
threaten even threaten the person who made their who's making this is their project mind you.
>> Yeah. I'm writing a book and this is my book and I say, you know, such and such happens to so and so. You as a fan can sit there and tell me, well, I don't think that it should happen that way.
And it's my duty as the person who's creating this >> to either acknowledge >> your [ __ ] >> or to sit there and be like, you know, no, you know, for Okay, so I'll give you I'll give you an example, right? There's a uh uh black creator right now, Rabo Petty. Shout outs to Rabo Petty. He does this series called Hood JJK. He basically made it a bridge series of JJK, Jiujitsu Kaiser. Um, [ __ ] phenomenal show. The Hood version is [ __ ] phenomenal. It does not totally derail from the main story whatsoever.
It It just is made for an urban audience. It's made for black people, anybody. You know what I mean? As long as you catch the lingo and you know already about Jiu-Jitsu Kaisen, you can fall in easy. A lot of the there's a lot of quotable sayings and everything from the show and all that. They asked the panel of the legitimate Jiu-Jitsu Kaizen show, like the uh the dub the dub voice actors, "How do you feel about the hood, the bridge series that are going on?" And they were like, "To be real.
This shit's cool. This [ __ ] is >> Yes. But yes, they were like, by the way, I think that's Eminem, by the way.
I think that's Eminem in the chat.
That's dope.
>> What's up, man? But no, so Cycling Beck, it's like y'all caught a dub with the Sonic the Hedgehog thing because y'all remember when Sonic Sonic the uh live action Sonic movie was about to come out?
>> I don't want to talk about it.
>> You know what I mean? And because of that one because of that one victory, that one [ __ ] victory you got, y'all think y'all can go to any of these creators and bully them into doing something that they don't necessarily need to do? This is their project. if they want to kill off Goku. Guess what?
They can kill off Goku. The [ __ ] gonna come back anyway because that is capitalism at its finest. But that's besides the point.
You cannot sit there and tell somebody how to do their [ __ ] project. If you feel as though that is how you're supposed to conduct your life, you're closer to Christopher Columbus than you think.
>> You might be a relative. Hm.
>> It might be incest, too.
>> That's crazy.
>> I mean, like, I cannot tell you, and I'm sorry for rambling on, but like I have a lot of hatred for this kind of [ __ ] is because, like I said, that show got shaka. That [ __ ] is [ __ ] phenomenal.
If you have not watched it, go watch it.
That [ __ ] is [ __ ] phenomenal. Five stars.
>> And if I don't get a season two because y'all bullied this [ __ ] woman into oblivion to the point where she had to delete her page. She just got it back.
But if she just be like, "Hey yo, look, I can't give y'all season two because this person, this person, this person, this person, whatever the case, >> yeah, you destroy everyone else."
>> You know what I mean? Yo, I will I will make it my personal mission to send you a [ __ ] you every day for the rest of your life.
And I promise you that. I will make it my personal mission to find you. How do you feel about filler episodes?
Noncellum filler episodes. [ __ ] happens.
You know what I mean? Sometimes you got to take a break >> and sometimes we go with that one. So filler episodes are when you know what I'm saying. If you already know >> the animator >> ninja ostrich, >> huh?
>> Ninja Ostrich.
>> When the animators catch up to the manga and they have to put some [ __ ] in there to fill out until the manga gets at least three about four or five chapters. You know what I'm saying? Like so yeah, I hate filler episodes and it irritates my soul. I feel like Naruto did that. It was bad as [ __ ] And um it would do like 10 15 episodes before we got to the real back to the real [ __ ] But they were just catching up to the uh the manga, which that also puts me in the in the mindset, look, when it comes to representation, I I feel like yes, it's needed. Do I feel like we should push off on the other people that that you know need to be added in? No.
Captain Planet did that real well.
I don't know why everybody complain about representation. Did you not see Captain Plan? Anybody don't know who Captain Planet is? Go look that [ __ ] up.
They had all cultures in that [ __ ] >> You know what I'm saying? And they came together to build this [ __ ] that was multicultural. And it was the dopest [ __ ] ever. I loved it. Loved it like nobody's business. Uh but >> forcing representation is something that doesn't need to be forced is is stupid because it's always been there. Living um living single best representation wasn't asked for but it was dope. One of the greatest shows.
>> Greatest show.
>> They bit um they bit [ __ ] um >> Friends. I know you say Friends.
>> Friends. No, Friends. Bit off a single.
>> Yeah. A single like Living Single was dope. Um Parent Parenthood, you know what I'm saying? Family Matters. Fresh Prince of Belair. We've had Moisha, we the Parkers, you know what I'm saying?
Oneonone. We had good representation without it being forced. And it wasn't forced. You know what I'm saying? But I don't know where down the line where we like, yo, we need more. We need more. We need more. It's like, okay, that's cool.
>> Hold on.
>> Let me make sure I'm understand what you're saying. So, are you saying like we need more like representation when it comes to like bipok, black, indigenous people of color or like representation when it comes to like white people feeling like they're they're because they're being decentered, they're being marginal?
>> We need we need balance. We need balance. Then we we had freshman of Belair. They had step by step. You know what I'm saying? We we had we had family matters. They had all in the family. You know what I'm saying? Like it it balanced in all across the board because we actually had a good go.
>> So would you say >> in the 90s didn't we have a lot? You know what I'm saying? It was just the now it's like it's being forced and it's not being like taken care of like it need to be taken care of. When when people put in like a living single they they put their blood, sweat, and tears.
The story line was good. It wasn't blacky black black, you know what I mean? It wasn't forced, you know, like every, you know, like we was just throwing up the peace sign every five minutes. No, bro. We had we had Christmas, we had Halloween episodes, we had good time. It was it was a blended and we wasn't feeling like we was attacked every freaking day. When you watch Living Single, you didn't feel nothing about white culture attacking any of them throughout that whole season. You might have had one or two episodes, but it wasn't every episode or every other episode. This is what I mean by just forcing the [ __ ] you know what I mean? And making other people feel bad about their [ __ ] Yes, it happened, but does it have to be in our like our entertainment? You know what I mean? I watch TV to relax, >> you know? You feel me? Not to feel like, damn, I'm black.
>> Okay. So, I'm glad I'm glad you say that because this is this is me putting and I'm saying this on live and >> No, it's okay. I was gonna have to edit anyway. It's all right.
>> No, no, no. Like, my my black card might get revoked after this, but I don't really watch a lot of black sitcoms because I get I get bored with being reminded that I'm black. And what I mean by that is like I've never seen an episode of Power because that storyline of >> That's not a sitcom though. That does I wouldn't count that as a sitcom.
>> Still it still tells the story of black that we already know if if that makes sense.
>> Yeah, I got you.
>> So like sto shows like power shows like I I watched Empire for a little bit. um the shy, all these other kind of stories. Even some of the Tyler Perry stories and stuff I don't really watch because it's like it's storylines that I've already seen before, I've heard before and there's no real nuance to it.
Like how many times can we sit there and tell a story about someone in the black culture selling drugs?
>> How many other different ways is this is this really going to go? Now, I say that to also make the other point in argument that I'm also kind of part of the problem because I should in a way also be supporting these black creators doing these black stories in the same sense where us as a black community really don't divulge much in the people that are making, you know, like the black animes or making the the black mangas are making the black stories. Like there's phenomenal stories going on within our own community, within our own culture that does not get that that same support that Marvel would get, that same support that DC would get.
>> Um, you know what I mean? And it's it's one of those things where it's like, okay, >> we know we're not we're only going to get so much here. And there's literally a person right next to us saying, hey, I literally did the entire thing. It's right here. But because it's not these people and it's not over here, >> we're not focused on it. You know what I mean? And >> question. When you think about um Damn, he um our creator Spider-Man, what was his name again?
>> Kirby, you talking about Jim Kirby?
>> No, the uh the pretty much the our main man, he passed away not too long ago. He was >> Stan Lee.
>> Huh?
>> Stan Lee.
>> Stan Lee.
>> Stan Lee. Boom. Sorry everybody, I knew his name. Leave me alone.
>> We said it like four times. You were you were sleep at the wheel.
>> My bad. Stanley.
>> Anthony Mason. [ __ ] Anthony Mason made Spider-Man. [ __ ] I know what I'm talking about.
>> No. Um, but when you hear his name, do you think of his color?
>> Stanley about all the all the things that he's done.
>> He's the Michael Jackson. He's the Michael Jackson.
>> And he's not a good I'm sorry. He's not a good comparison because >> No, wait. I'm I'm going I'm continuing.
I'm continuing. When you think about Oda and all the our Japanese writers, do you think about their culture or you do you think about their color? You think about the fact that they're Japanese or do you just think about all the [ __ ] that they've done?
>> All their accomplishments. Yeah.
>> Exactly. So, my thing is is that as black people, we need TO STOP PUTTING BLACK IN FRONT OF EVERYTHING. You are artist, [ __ ] Yes. You are a good writer. you know.
>> Yeah, but but you gota understand black.
Stop it. I know you're black and I'm a artist. I'm an artist. I am an artist.
>> Okay. I dig catch me. You will never catch me saying I'm >> I dig that. I I dig I dig where you coming from and what you say is 100% true.
But I think the reason why black is put in front is because as of to date is still a reason to remind us that we're black because they don't see our blackness. We as we we as black folks see our blackness, but the opposition don't. So it's almost like yeah, I'm a black artist.
>> Well, we know you're black. I know, [ __ ] But I'm a black artist >> because where we're at right now, where we're at right now, we're not getting what that example. We're not being looked at. Oh, you know the uh the the fabulous well read artist over there.
Yes. So and so and so. Yeah. Which one?
>> Oh [ __ ] There is a Japanese guy or white guy. The black guy. The black artist. So unfortunately how the how the the landscape was laid out um that's our that's our our our badge is black and I think if it was done differently sure there would be no need for us to say black and it's almost like it's almost along the lines of how we identify ourselves in this country.
>> Yeah.
>> Outside of this country we're Americans but we're not Americans in this country.
I'm black, they're white, they're Chinese. So early on, it was established that we're not even a part of this nation. We don't even say black American. Like now I'm black. We don't even say American. Why? Because it was constructed for us not to never be a part. And all we had was our color.
Because we were killed over our color.
So you got to understand though, I understand where you're coming from.
Like there's no need to say it. And you know, if if if you don't say it or if they don't say it, Roger, we understand that. But the the the the society, the conditioning, it's always going to be a reminder of who we are, >> right?
>> You know, now I'm the black Nick Fury.
Well, because if you weren't, it would be the white Nick Fury. Gotcha. But >> but it's like it's like where we're at right now. It's like >> it should say, we shouldn't say it, but it it at the same time the conditions cause for us to be like, I'm the black, >> you know. So those traditions though, my thing is know I I love my color. Don't get me wrong. That's just that's just a a title, a part of me. It's not the whole me. You know what I'm saying? It it it would never be the whole me. You know what I'm saying? It's just a part of me. Oh snap. He's a dope artist when you see him. Oh, and he's also black.
That's dope. That's an extra plus. Hey, know when it comes to us, you know what I mean? I don't want to just do art for just black people. I want to do art for everybody. I want everybody to You know what I'm saying? And I want everybody to feel like, okay, they can love my [ __ ] you know?
>> And I know there are parts of us like, yeah, we let people too comfortable in our [ __ ] Now we got, you know, rappers that think they can rap and they they they ain't, you know, they ain't black.
You know what I'm saying? And I understand. I understand fully. We There's some pros and there's some cons is like a double-edged sword. But I, for one, we just we are people at the end of the day. And but I feel like and we as we stand out. We don't have to announce that we're black. We already stand out.
>> Can I get in here real quick?
>> If I get in here real quick. So get in.
>> As a as a as a as a as a black artist, because I am a black artist.
>> Um why why I feel like it's necessary.
It's not for It's not for the people I'm trying to sell the art to. It's for myself, right? Like I have to understand that there's certain challenges that I'm going to face as a like y'all know um King V. Y'all know I'm writing a book, right, fam? Do you know I told y'all you know how hard it is to find a publisher as a author, especially as a black author, fam? Yo, I mean, you're you're sitting over here trying to talk to people. They talk they they just as bad as the music industry. They're like, "Well, this is the ROI we want.
>> This is the ROI we want to see. And if we don't see this much, we're going to own the rights to your book. We're going to take it from the equity of your book. It's that bad. Like I sometimes when I have to say like I'm a black, >> for instance, I'm a black um entrepreneur. I'm a black artist. I'm a black um hell, I'm a black Christian.
Shoot. You know how many times I got to say that? Because sometimes there's certain because we live in such a white society, there's a whiteness way of looking at things that people kind of look at. Like it's easy for us to say, "Oh, he's not a black artist. He's an artist that happens to be black." At the same time, like that black artist knows that there's challenges and ways that he's not going to be able to fit in certain spaces just because he is indeed a black artist. So unfortunately when it comes to like people in certain spaces, fam, y'all know what I do. Like I, you know, I I do this for people behind the scenes all the time, but I will never get the looks that like say my white counterparts get just because they're white and I'm black. I have to I have to work twice as hard. That's me reminding myself I'm a black I'm a black producer.
I'm a black um videographer. It's not so much of like me reminding you, it's me not forgetting because sometimes, and we see this with instances where there's some of us that grow up in like the suburbs, we grow up in the we go to school in these PWIS, predominantly white institutions. Um, we go we are in these spaces where we're not the the the major conglomerate in there. And it's very easy to start doing that eraser process. And then we got negroes like Tim Scott as as as Big Matt says, "If he bites you, you die." Um, we got people like those that they don't they think because of their accolades and they think of because they've been in certain rooms that that absolves them from the challenges of being black. Um, I don't know if y'all remember about a couple years ago, he's a shout out to Mike Brown. He's the coach for the New York Knicks. We just made it to the finals for the first time since 1999, right? back when he was in um Golden State. Shout out to Oakland for for Big Matt. Um he was a assistant coach for Steve Cerr, right? They were not trying to let him into the practice facility because they were like, "Well, we don't know who you are." He's like, he's like, "I'm the coach. I'm one of the coaches for the Golden State Warriors." And he didn't feel the need to go back to get ID. He didn't feel the need to like kind of go through the steps. He just thought he can kind of pass through the gate just because his credentials should have protected him from being questioned.
>> Yes.
>> And what ended up happening was was like these >> these people that work for the the the the Golden State Warriors, they called the cops on him >> and it could have really been a very dangerous situation. And that's where it can be very dangerous where if you sleep on Whitey a little too long, you might forget about the certain parameters and loopholes. Y'all all know this. We're all black men. When somebody goes when somebody has been suspected of a crime and they described exactly what that man is wearing, you know what y'all all gonna do when y'all are home? And if you wearing something similar to what that man is wearing, you going to go change because there's certain things that we have had to go through that other people that don't look like us >> have the privilege of being able to hear about these things. So yeah, I think just having the black in front of whatever it is you do is not necessarily for these people. It's more so for yourself to remind yourself like, hey, this is what I'm going to have to deal with. At the same time, I'm not ashamed of my heritage. So, >> no, I I agree with you. No, I'm not saying that that they absolve us from what we going through. I I I get reminded when I look in the mirror every morning. You know what I'm saying? What up, black chocolate? You know, how you doing today? You know, we going to have a day and I understand that. You know, but I just it a part of me sometimes is like, yo, >> we don't have to always say they they see us, bro. They see us. They know.
They know.
>> At the same time, I'm gonna agree with I'm gonna agree with V on it and only on on this particular stance, right?
Because while I do hear what you saying, Cass, I think at the same time the strength behind the word black becomes intimidating to those that gatekeep the doors that we could be getting into.
So what I mean by that is the strength behind the word black. Like for us, we hear, you know, black content creator, we're we just think of a black person creating content. We don't think anything of it. But to those that are, I guess the best word to put it is like capitalist. Um, you know, they hear that and one of two things comes to mind.
either a I can make some money off of this or b this person's gonna be a struggle to work with because they see that we're black black before they even read content creator.
Now, is it wrong to put it there? No, I'm not going to sit there and say that you don't put it there. But I do think that because it's there, there are certain doors that remain shut off to you. And sometimes those might be the doors needed for you to make progress and really change the culture as a whole, going through those doors.
>> I guess like you know, thank you, sir.
Thank you. Thank you.
Hey, cuz to me I like I want us to reach the level of anime. I do. I do. As as as black people, I want us to because we want we out there creating. There's a lot of, you know, creators that are black that create their manga is beautiful. You know what I mean? And I want and I feel like it's only locked in to our hemisphere because we, you know, some people say, "Oh, that's a black creator." That's the first thing they see and they like they're pissed off.
You know what I'm saying? They don't want to read it no I was like, "Oh, I don't want to read that shit." You know what I'm saying? And I'm like, "Nah, you missing out on a good story because of one word." And you don't, you know what I'm saying? You don't see the person for who they really are and they really can create.
>> You know, like One Piece. I don't think of the Japanese culture, even though it is Japanese. That's not the first thing that's in my mind when I think One Piece, Dragon Ball Z, Bleach, you know what I'm saying? I don't think the Japanese culture. I don't really at at the most part if you I thought it was American [ __ ] as you know when I first watched Dragon Ball Z I like oh what we making [ __ ] like this now then when I found it was anime I was like yo this is dope you know what I'm saying and it wanted me to get into more and I'm not speaking for me as a black person if I if I see something black I'm I'm I'm all for it I support it you know what I'm saying but I'm speaking as a consumer as a person outside the box looking in like it's like I want everybody to consume it. I want something I want everybody to love it. You know what I mean? Not because it's black, it's because it's good, because it's entertainment, because the the art is right, because the story is dope. It's in depth. Stuff like that. That's just where I stand on that. You know, someone asked in the chat if we like Jojo. If you mean Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, yo, that is top tier anime right there. Um, I'm mad at at the fact that Netflix did not >> I don't know what the hell that was Netflix, but y'all gotta fix that.
>> Oh, shout out to My Hero Academia winning um anime of the year the last season.
>> Yeah, >> there you go. But keeping the ball rolling, right? So, we we hit with this the anime culture, social medias and everything like that. Um, keeping the ball rolling with it is social media, its toxicity, and the gender wars that are growing more and more each day with people either just doing skits or just saying [ __ ] nonsense on social media.
Like the the red flag, green flag [ __ ] you know what I mean?
the oh um if he takes you any of these places, he he doesn't have money or he doesn't love you or even just the social norms of what it what it means to be to to be in a position to shoot your shot at at you know the opposite sex or the same sex, whatever you choose to [ __ ] Um, for me personally, I ain't going to lie to y'all, it's it's I get bored with it very fast cuz >> hell yeah.
>> How you going to tell me what this person feels and or thinks just because they got me ribs from Applebee's?
>> Oh, I said I wanted ribs from Applebee's.
>> Like they got me what the [ __ ] I wanted.
How am I be mad? I said I wanted ribs.
>> They was like Applebee's. I was like, "Bet."
And here I am. So, how how am I going to sit there and be like, "Oh, you actually got me what I wanted. You must be a Leo.
You must be out here talking to other dudes and [ __ ] You talked to the guy that gave you the ribs. I can't trust you. What the fuck?"
>> It is It's just meant for conversation.
It's like introduction to a conversation. You know what I mean? So, but it's a conversation of stupidity though because then there's people out here who take this [ __ ] and they apply it to their real life and then they turn around and end up single and then they're bitching, whining, and complaining at the fact that they [ __ ] single because you out here acting like an imaginary [ __ ] >> And that and that right there is why social media is so dangerous. It's because these things exist and you have to have the the knowhow and the discipline be like but then a lot of people they indulge in it and oh well some people get on YouTube and watch cat videos. Some people get on [ __ ] social media and fall into, you know, the the the luring of what they believe are standards. Like, you know, if [ __ ] take you somewhere or three three signs that so and so, like, that's just [ __ ] people not knowing what the [ __ ] they're talking about having access to social media that could be otherwise damaging to everyone else.
Like, you know, once again, this is why this is why we need to attack. See, here's so what I think, honestly, and I didn't mean to cut you off. So what what needs to happen is what I do. When you see some stupid [ __ ] call it out.
>> Yes.
>> You're like, "This is the stupidest [ __ ] ever." Like, you have to ridicule people and like make them be like, "Oh my, oh, you're right. Damn, I was tripping."
Yeah, [ __ ] you was tripping. This stupid [ __ ] >> Like, you know what needs to go away?
You know, the the red balloon popping [ __ ] needs to go away. That [ __ ] needs to [ __ ] go away. Like the [ __ ] are y'all like? Both of you are like, >> "First of all, first of all, it is like 2:00 in the afternoon. If your ass is sitting up here with a [ __ ] balloon in your hand, that mean you ain't got a job." Or your [ __ ] ass lied to your supervisor to have a day off just to pop a [ __ ] balloon. In which case, you got a whole lot of [ __ ] that you need to work out. Like you standing there, you don't work, huh?
Y'all too young to look like y'all retired.
One of the things that pissed me off, right, is the conversation that you see on social media every every time you turn around is whether or not you get access to this person phone and if you can't get access and this person don't trust you and this that and for let me explain something here, right? Listen listen very clear. I am soon to be 36 years of [ __ ] age. I have been in and in and out of relationships, all that good [ __ ] [ __ ] yeah. All right.
Unless you paid my [ __ ] bill and you have my [ __ ] fingerprint and you [ __ ] me so damn good I'm cooking you breakfast in the morning.
>> You ain't getting access to my [ __ ] phone. I have told I have told plenty in my in my since I've I've I've had a phone and since this [ __ ] of you need to get into another person's phone to establish trust and [ __ ] all that other good [ __ ] I have had plenty of women since then and I have told them the same thing over and over. The moment you have you ask for permission to get into my phone or the moment I catch you breaking into my phone or the moment that you sit there and bring my phone up in conversation or bring up some dumb [ __ ] about me liking some post or me making a comment on somebody's picture or any of that [ __ ] we immediately done. I don't care if we're on 95. I don't care if we at KFC. I don't care if we at your mama house. I'm dropping you off. We done.
>> It's right then and there. hate that. I don't play that.
>> So, >> it brings up it brings up an important uh topic um of the same of the same nature is, you know, I saw this lady.
She was like, "Oh, you know what I mean?
Bring back men that go to work and what the [ __ ] they doing on social media. Men should be on social media. They should be at work working building some shit."
You know what I mean? And I'm like, who have they forgotten who was the first person to introduce us to social media? My [ __ ] Tom. For those who don't know Tom, my space, [ __ ] Everybody had him in his friends list. Tom was my [ __ ] Who you think introduced us? You know what I mean? It was a guy that got us on social media like that. This has been a man's realm. You know what I'm saying?
>> Lord, >> it's I it started off that way. And if you if you don't know, I feel like why do why does it why does the hate towards us and being on social media so bad?
>> And mind you, so this will be interesting.
>> So this will be interesting and I'm curious to hear what you got to say, OG, because [ __ ] you be on social media all day.
>> I finished Hey, I finished the race.
[ __ ] off.
>> Say he did his job.
>> You didn't have a job, [ __ ] I'm retired. I literally can afford to sit on my ass all day and not do [ __ ] Like seriously, like I'm retired.
>> Correct me if I'm wrong. This this for you is just nothing more than you just chilling on the front porch talking to the talking to the neighborhood.
>> See, and and and that's why I I'm capitalizing on all of it because I'm retired. I have no strings, no no sponsors, no contracts. I'm literally [ __ ] Agent Smith or Neo depending on which side of the bed I get up in in the morning to put out this [ __ ] on um on social media, man. So, I mean, so they can say a man need to be working, put it this way. I hate to say this [ __ ] but if women are like men need to be at work, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah, they're not even in the bracket to where they can talk to a [ __ ] who retired.
>> Okay? Because if you got a problem with a [ __ ] being on social media and not working, how come you're not looking at retired [ __ ] you know why? Because you make [ __ ] up. And nine times out of 10, you don't even know your own worth or your own value. Because you shouldn't be worrying about what another [ __ ] doing if you ain't with that [ __ ] And if you want a [ __ ] who is on social, find a [ __ ] who retired.
But what retired [ __ ] would want to deal with a woman who say he should be doing this and or looking through the phone? I'm lucky. I'd leave my phone unlocked. My I don't And even if she do, like, you know, I I hate talking like this, but like [ __ ] need to really like stop lying, women, too. And just be honest on who you are and what you want out of a marriage.
>> Amen.
>> You if you got to deal with people who lock you gota lock your phone or you because man, [ __ ] that. And what I'm saying is like that means you ain't got you could be around people who are just like I don't give a [ __ ] if you in your like what you know like my wife don't give a [ __ ] like I since my ex-wife I don't well I do have a code on my phone cuz my kid well no I don't because I got locks on other [ __ ] but um I don't have to lock my phone. I can go do whatever and leave my phone. I go I don't take a [ __ ] without my phone but you know what I mean. I can [ __ ] do some [ __ ] and leave my phone right there and not have to worry about who is this [ __ ] because guess what? Nine times out of 10, whatever I'm doing, my wife is right next to me anyway.
>> So is liking another picture that is not your wife's consider cheating.
>> So what >> is liking another lady's picture on Instagram, Facebook?
>> You trying to get this man?
>> No, I'm asking this to all the men on this team. If if if I feel if you're with an insecure person who wants to control you, you know, yeah, it's cheating.
>> If if you're with a woman who gets mad because you liked another woman's picture, >> then okay, I'mma like a man's picture.
You gay? Well, [ __ ] Liking a woman's picture piss you off. Like a guy's picture.
>> Fact.
>> How come you ain't How come you ain't tripping off that [ __ ] So, it's it's the caliber of individual, man. Like, look, man. There's women out there who will be down to pull other [ __ ] when you in the club. It's so many women out there that that that's with the [ __ ] But if [ __ ] is lying, man, you know what I'm saying? Cuz there's women I don't give a [ __ ] about your phone. And and like it's just I don't know.
>> Mind is dry anyway. Except for when I started working with you. My god.
>> It's a thing where you know I mean you gota you got to find women who went to [ __ ] man. Like, look, man. I I love you to death, but every once in a while won't want Oh, [ __ ] I like girls, too.
Really? Yeah. I mean, so we for real.
But here's the thing. How many men can handle that?
>> See, I mean, how many men like So, >> I got asthma, so I can't >> When I When I was with my ex-wife, right? I don't >> when I was with my ex-wife, you know, she it it was just it it was real like 500 times Earth gravity, right? It was just, you know what I'm saying? When I got with Larry Bird, we I think we were either dating, no, I think we were married because she was my ex-wife. So Larry Bird and I in the kitchen shooting [ __ ] talking. My phone go off. It's my ex-wife. And I'm looking at my cell phone. I'm looking at my wife and she was like, "You gonna answer?" I was like, "Fuck no, I'm not gonna answer. That's a setup. You want me to so you can flash on me and shit."
She was like, "Why would I get I'm not like that." She was like, "You've known her for 13 years. What? You gonna leave her for me?"
>> Ex.
>> And I was like I was like, "Wait a minute. Nah, [ __ ] You about to set me up. you what you the but that's how [ __ ] get conditioned.
She was like I'm not like that so I can I can answer the phone. She was like yeah why would I?
>> That's when it dawned on me. I was like okay if anything she trusts me.
That alone makes you look at yourself like damn. Like how responsible and mature are you to accept someone's trust? like I trust you.
Wow. If I was 20, I probably have [ __ ] it up. But at my age, like you trust me?
Am I worthy of trust? I don't know, [ __ ] Are you? Let's find out. Okay.
So, you know, here we are. Me being able like I could be right next to my wife and my ex-wife can call and we can shoot the [ __ ] Home girl, how do my titties look?
Great. Wow. You know, look at that [ __ ] Hey, damn. She's super thick. Don't even trip. Why? Because who I am as a man.
How my wife is. I'm just lucky and honored that I don't have one of these women who are insecure and me tripping over and trying to control and [ __ ] Like, we too old for that [ __ ] Like, we too old. Like, [ __ ] we chilling like the ass of a polar bear, man. Whatever. You know, because at the end of the day, it's night time. But I ain't gonna pick up and and leave my wife and my kids because the joke is this. She's white. I'm black in Texas.
She get every goddamn thing. And if I got dreams, too. So, you know, you take what you got and you have fun with it. But on all seriousness, no. Um when you when you've established trust and you're able to move a certain way because someone trusts you, you see the importance of that and um you don't you don't tarnish that. And to have a person who is is uh confident in themselves and not an insecure person and lets you be you, you're good, man.
>> Exactly.
Oh. Oh, they asking how long you and Larry Bird's been balling, brother.
>> Say what?
>> How many years you and Larry Bird been bing?
>> Hey babe, is it 10 or 11 years?
>> Almost 10 years we've been together.
Yeah.
>> Amen.
>> Praise God, man. Amen. Let go. Let go.
>> 10 years. Yeah.
>> See, I see. I like it. I like I like all the way around cuz men is going to be men. Does Do I stop liking what females look like when I'm married? No. Women are going to be be they going to be I They're beautiful all day, every day.
When I wake up, when I go to sleep in my dreams, asses, ass titties and titties.
I've seen them. Come on. Let's grow up now. You know what I mean? Will I stop?
Hey babe, I got to take a second to look at some ass. No, I won't do that. She pointed out I'm going to look with her.
But guess what?
>> Guess what? If you play the If you play your position right, you and your girlfriend can look at the chick with the fat ass.
>> Exactly.
>> Really? And if you really got your your P's and Q's, cross te's and dotted eyes, she'll go holler at her and be like, "Yo, come with us.
>> You on the next level." [ __ ] I You the final form. That's That's >> about find a form [ __ ] Like what level?
saying is what I'm saying is is these things are achievable. All you have to do is be forthcoming with who you are.
You know what I'm saying? If you're if this is who you are, you have to own that. If this is who you are, I'm this.
Like, I love you to death, baby, but I be man, these man, this how I get down.
There's women who will be like, "Shit, [ __ ] I get down like that, too. I think [ __ ] are gorgeous." And if we out, if we together, we all can have fun as long as we understand that we in this together. Like we but we gonna have these things are real. They exist. But the depth of men and men not just being solid enough to be like, hey, boom boom boom cuz rejection or being told no.
They're hesitant to step out there.
There's so there are so many [ __ ] women who be down just like dudes like for real for like >> it's not wrong >> but it's it's it's what you put out. You know what I'm saying? If you one of them dudes like I'mma flirt. I flirt with everybody. I see women I flirt all the goddamn time. I couldn't be myself around my ex-wife like that. We'll be fighting.
>> When you when you find someone who allows you to be you. when you find someone that it's like >> let let you be you, man. That's who you supposed to be with. So, a lot of men and women need to stop bullshitting themselves and um invest more basically invest more time when you out there.
I I I feel a lot of people just aren't being themselves like they're uncomfortable to talk and to just be open. It's it's not always going to be a a Barry Bonds on Balco bottom of the ninth home run.
you you might strike out. It's okay. You might even get hit by the pitcher. But if you keep locking in and you swing periodically, you might get a double.
You might get a triple. You might hit it out the park. But it all takes time. And you being consistent with who you are to where people that this is who he is.
Like he'll love you to death, but you know, he he [ __ ] with other women. Girl, you okay with that? We both do the damn thing. I didn't know that because I never found a [ __ ] I could be comfortable with to share that with until I met this person. So, now that I'm comfortable, yes, we definitely do this [ __ ] It's no one's business, but it does open some some eyes to like, oh, some people aren't comfortable, but when they find someone that makes them comfortable, oh [ __ ] [ __ ] change.
You feel me?
>> Actual, I'mma come in here real quick.
So hearing him talk honestly and hearing a lot of the similarities as far as like the same thought process is [ __ ] phenomenal cuz now I feel like if that's my is that's if that's my final form to come I am happy as [ __ ] >> Is that what we're naming this episode?
Final form >> form.
>> But I'm gonna say that I'm gonna say this part here is you have to block out all the distractions. You have to block out these stupid ass Tik Toks and these dumbass IGs and everybody else, you know, feeding you nonsense. And you got to be if you really want to be with this person, whether it's dating, whether it's it's marriage, whatever the [ __ ] it is. If you're going to go shoot that shot, you got to establish and know much like what this person is saying right here, but you got to establish and know what you not so much, not even so much what you want out of it.
You got to know how to be yourself consistently. Much like what uh said earlier, like you got to be yourself consistently, but you also too got to be able to present that in a consistent manner and be able to handle the conversations that come with it because of the fact, for example, I'm going use myself. I'm a very blunt individual. I hate fluff. If I ask you, hey, do you want ketchup on your hot dog? All I need is a yes or no. Do not [ __ ] tell me that the one time when you was eight years old and you went to Burger King and they gave you a hot dog and there was ketchup, you saw a murder happen and I don't I don't give a [ __ ] I don't care. I didn't ask that. I didn't ask none of that.
>> Wait a minute.
>> I just said, "Do you?"
Yes or no.
>> That's all the [ __ ] I asked for. But that's just how I am. I'm very blunt.
So, like the way I come off, it can very much very much seem aggressive or um like very not controlling, but like a crash out. And to a degree, I am. But at the same time, when you know me behind closed doors, you're able to see one, why I am the way that I am, why I talk the way that I talk, how I really, you know what I mean, get down and everything. Because I promise you, everything that you see here on on our show right here is exactly me off camera. You could ask the guys. It's still me.
>> He's not lying.
>> Oh, he's not. He's not.
>> So, it's it's me through and through.
But I also too in my in my years of getting older, one thing that if I could even say to anybody listening is when you're talking to someone and trying to get to know them and you're also having that conversation, you have to listen to understand and not listen to respond.
Not all the time do you need to have a comparison to what somebody is saying.
Sometimes you just got to shut the [ __ ] up and listen to them. Sometimes again you need to reassure them about something and sometimes again you got to call them out on their [ __ ] but you have to listen to understand and read the room.
>> Go back to >> you know I mean not not every time >> you you know you talk to this lady or you talk to dude or whoever you got to tell them the toughest story about how you was Billy badass. Not only time do they care about you being Billy badass.
>> Sometimes they just want to know, okay, how are you doing today, Billy?
>> Is is Billy okay?
>> Facts.
>> You know what I mean? And it we get so caught up in what the social norms are and the stupid ass what they're bringing to the table and can they bring this to the table and I don't give a [ __ ] about the table. Is there food on it? Are we going to eat on it? Are we going to [ __ ] I told a young woman that I was like, "Next time a man asks you what you bring to the table, you say, "Bitch, a knife and fork, cuz I'm hungry."
>> Like, are we bring like, "Are we talking about food? Am I am I eating you out on the table? Am I [ __ ] you on the table?" Like, what do what do we why do I care about this [ __ ] table? I don't give a [ __ ] about the table. At the end of the day, in the in the great land of 2026, we have objectives. They don't give a [ __ ] about gender. That that electricity bill don't give a [ __ ] about your gender. That car payment could give a [ __ ] less about your [ __ ] gender.
That job that you need to apply for that you need to get because them previous two bills are backdated and they're waiting to turn your [ __ ] off don't give a [ __ ] about your gender.
>> Well, in the questionnaire they do ask male, female, and other. But yeah, I get it.
>> But they don't like they don't specifically give a [ __ ] in the context.
So why the hell in this in this time of 2026, why do I give a [ __ ] about what you're bringing to this superficial table? I could give a [ __ ] >> Can I answer that?
>> No.
What I care about is are you able to manage and hand and handle yourself?
What I care about is if something if we are going to build this together and we are going to build this foundation together and all this other good [ __ ] should something happen to me, >> can you continue carrying on? I can give a [ __ ] less >> about how you're going to be able to complement my my skill set and everything like that. We can we can manage and figure that [ __ ] out through conversation. That's fine, cool, and dandy. But can you handle yourself and equip yourself in a manner to where whatever we built doesn't get lost in the wind? There's since so many families, especially black families, where the whether it be the the mother, whether it be the father or, you know, husband, whatever, somebody dies and everything that they've built all however many years of of estate and all that [ __ ] that has been built has been washed away because someone was not able to carry on for whatever reason. They were they were I don't want to say weak, >> but they were not strong enough to handle that [ __ ] So, it's like in this time frame, in this climate, in this in this era that we're in right now, I don't give a [ __ ] about your gender roles. I could give a [ __ ] less if you know how to cook and clean. You can figure that out. We can teach you.
We can work this the [ __ ] out. That's fine, cool, and dandy. But what I need to know is, are you strong enough to handle what comes with the life that we are trying to build together? Are you strong enough to deal with me when I'm out here busting my ass for 23 out of 24 hours to make sure that I'm keeping my end of the deal? Are you ready to deal with me when I'm have my mental breakdowns? Are you ready? Am I ready to deal with you when you're having your mental breakdowns? Are you able to communicate with me?
>> Well, you know, here here's the answer to that question. No.
No one is >> no one is ready for anything they've never experienced and never went through. That's why one of the what you're what you're asking um is >> empathy and understanding and that comes from how good the teacher is. You know what I mean? So asking this question like when I became a sergeant I wasn't ready to be a [ __ ] sergeant. You ready? [ __ ] no. Why not? Never been one.
I was never a sergeant, so there's no way I can prep for something I've never experienced. So, um asking, can a person deal with if they never dealt with it?
This is where, you know, um team building and and just working, you know, because one one thing that um >> we we tend to forget and and we we go by the wayside. Like you're asking could you deal could you deal with this? Can you deal with that? Can you deal with that?
>> But instead of instead of asking can you deal with that? Hold on for a minute.
Hey >> look. She adds extra hair because it's like thin, but she adds extra hair.
>> Okay. Son son.
>> She adds extra hair.
>> It's all right. OG. We all daddies up here, man. We get it.
>> His hair.
>> Yeah. when when when your hair gets long enough, you'll be able to take locks and and and twist them up and have one giant lock. All right, my man. Um sometimes you have to ask yourself, can you teach people?
See, instead of asking them, are they what if they're not? Are you able to?
It's it's almost like what do we know about women? What we think we know about women, right? But you would only be as good as a good woman because if you're a good woman, if you're capable of learning, having compassion, compassion, wisdom, or compassion and empathy and understanding, you're only as good as the woman in your life because she's going to teach you. It's like selling dope. It's like selling dope. You ready to sell this dope, [ __ ] No, I never sold dope, bro. All right. Well, let's let me show you. Either you're going to be good at it or you're not. But just to let you know, this what comes with selling dope.
you're going to get robbed. They going to come short on your bundle. People going to come short up on your money.
Your partner going to snitch on you, you know. But if you're cool with that, let's um I'll teach you how to I teach you the game. So, it's a it's a it's a give and take. Both people need to learn from one another. And through learning and and and experience comes the tolerance and the ability to answer your question. Can I deal with you? because together you're going to teach her and she's going to teach you and y'all going to learn on how to work these things out. And over time will you find out if they're able to deal with it. But nine times out of 10 a [ __ ] come in like not knowing something. And if you're that good of a a man, a person, and they're good at learning and and understanding and and having building blocks, then yeah, because it's it's just going to come down to a conscious decision to fill in that void to make sure they get the best out of you that's the best for them to help keep everything afloat. So instead of instead of asking, "Are you ready?"
>> Yeah. I would suggest you look at it as if like what can I teach this person because a union you're supposed to learn from one another. That that's what it comes down to. You guys >> also got to add in is this person teachable.
>> Now you should find that out way early on like I mean you should you this is something that should already be established just based on for conversation like I don't know. I think another factor with that is too is like is what you want to teach you valuable to you, valuable to us or valuable to them?
>> That's all of it.
>> All of it.
>> I say that because like we talked about this a while back. Um we covered the Janai Aiko and the Big Sean thing where you know she wanted to get married, right? And they were like yo like we were like yo how could this happen? This is grimy. And I said something along the lines of like, "How do y'all know that Shawn didn't tell her a long time ago?"
Sis, I'm not trying to get married and she How do you know that she didn't try to like change him over time? Like like you sometimes like whether whether we want to admit it or not, there's a lot of times where we look at dating like like people that flip houses like h this looks like a dump right now, but if I if I change the infrastructure and I deconstruct this and rebuild this back up in my image, I'll be able to put this back on the market, it would look better than what I than it did when I first got it. And sometimes we look at other people the same way. We look at them as projects, right? And sometimes like you over here thinking I want them to stop doing this and this and this and this and how do you know that they're not satisfied with where they are? Right? So I think I think when it comes to that >> it's like I would also frame the question as like is the person willing to be taught cuz some people are teachable but it's just like [ __ ] I am not interested in what you selling and I'm completely content in living my life in the capacity that I'm living it at.
At the same time, you got to stop taking every time that somebody's rejecting your teachings as as an indictment on you as a man or as a woman. You know what I'm saying? And vice versa, right?
Because I feel like sometimes >> when people reject our ideologies, we we have to then take it on as like, oh, they're rejecting me somehow. It's like, yes, they are, but that's because you want something for them that they probably never wanted for themselves.
>> Exactly.
>> And remember this. Remember And remember this. I hate to use this analogy, but the woman gonna choose anyway.
We have no choice in that. Women choose.
Remember that. No matter how dope and fresh you think you are, the woman going to choose. If she don't choose you, she don't choose you. If she ain't with the program, she ain't with the program.
That's the That's another thing. Like, all right, cool. It ain't no no harm, no foul. Like you said, you know, it's not an attack on you, but that's the beauty of dating and that's the beauty of choice. like you know you shoot your shot and maybe this how this how I get down this how my program is. Either she going to be with it like okay we can we can work this [ __ ] out and see what's good or like no I'll get down like that.
All right I bet.
>> But ultimately you know who you are as a man the woman is ultimately going to choose up and be like okay well he makes me feel safe ABCD blah blah blah blah blah. Okay, I'm going choose to roll with you because I don't care who you are, there's two things that are important. Life and time. And when you deal with the right person, you'll know, you know, >> the people's uncle.
>> The people's uncle. Damn.
>> Your uncle.
>> I I refuse to call you uncle. I've known you for so long now. Weird for me.
>> So So what's weird about this this the people's uncle? So, um, I wrote with, uh, some other cats, man. Shout out to, uh, The Greatest Foe podcast, which is Freedom of Expression, where, uh, we mix hiphop and and wrestling, right? And we had this young lady. She's [ __ ] phenomenal. Uh, she's wrestling now, but, um, she was, uh, doing cosplay of, she did a damn good Bianca Belair. Um, they thought it was really her, like, so she's really dope. And we were talking about uh the wrestling business being the heel. I always saw myself as a heel, but they're like, "No, [ __ ] You're a face. You might not be a baby face, but you're a face, which is the good guy."
And I'm like, "You see?" Like, "Yeah, dude." Like, and and hear this person, "I'm the people's uncle." So, I would be a face, you know? Like, that's that's the people's uncle. Like, [ __ ] Like, I'm Vegeta, [ __ ] I ain't [ __ ] the people's elbow or the people's uncle.
Like I'm Vegeta. Like I But I'll be the people's uncle, man.
Fine. [ __ ] it.
>> That's crazy.
>> Let me say one last thing before we wrap this up. Um >> with the whole social media thing, everybody's mind is just feeling like some people are joining a group and becoming a monolith in that group and it's like an echo chamber of nonsense and it's being repeated over and over.
Man a [ __ ] man. A [ __ ] as a man, and I hate that term, like it is deep in my soul. As a man, you should. And I'm like, you can't tell me because you got a, you know, a twig and two berries. I'm sorry. You can't really tell me what a man is. At the end of the day, I'm just becoming a man myself. So, you know, there is no book, and I want to tell everybody, there is no book out there that tells you what it is to be a man. You are who you want to be as a man. You can be who you want to be. There's nothing strapping you to being a certain type. I am a geek. I love anime. I love watching anything geek style. You know what I'm saying? I have a I'm an adult with adult money and I buy anything to decorate this [ __ ] You know what I mean? And I have a good time. If you like it, I love it. If you don't like it, there's the [ __ ] door.
You know what I'm saying? No one can ever look at me and say, "As a man, you should shut the [ __ ] up.
I'm [ __ ] living and I'm enjoying my life, you know, and I it doesn't make you as a man who's doing the quote unquote man roll, you're going to work, you're you're you know what I'm saying?
You doing them hours, you're you're taking care of a whole family. I do the same [ __ ] and still have a good [ __ ] time. Men retire and die. Do you know how crazy that is? Men work all their lives to retire in five years or not even three years. They can't even enjoy their retirement. They're gone.
So, you know, as a man, as men on this cast, figure out yourselves what it means to be a man for you. You know what I'm saying? What that means to you when you look in the mirror.
What What does that mean to you?
Whatever definition you come up with, that's yours. You cherish it. You You enjoy it and might be able to get to a final form like this [ __ ] I'm trying to figure that [ __ ] out. You know what I'm saying? I'm trying to see what my final form looking like. You know what I'm saying? So, keep pushing. Also, also one one of the one of the things about final form is you really can't give a [ __ ] no more.
>> Like it's almost ultra ego. It's like let the body do what it needs to do.
Don't even think about it no more. Just [ __ ] it. You know, once you Well, the final form I I I would say my final form and I forgot to mention this. One of the final forms is when you reach a point, you know, they say you you you have uh what is that word I'm looking for? Midlife crisis, right? Are you having a midlife crisis? Because you know, I got some grills and [ __ ] I'm in Houston. I was I might as well get some grills, get some friends and [ __ ] Like, [ __ ] you 47, you need grills, but it's the culture.
But then it dawned on me. And I was like, when you no longer subscribe to societal norms, when you no longer soci subscribe to it, that's your final form. Because at the age of 48, I was like, I don't have to be 48.
>> Exactly.
>> [ __ ] I want to do. If I want friends, I can get friends. If I want to do this, if I want to do something to where you you 48, I don't give a [ __ ] I want to do it. The moment you're free from that, that's your final form because you can be and do whatever you want and you can give a flying [ __ ] about what anybody anyone got to say about it.
>> And and and and it's just like I don't Okay, I I don't think this is going to work out. Okay, fine. Are you let me get your phone? All right, bye. Final form is allowing things to flow without little or with little to no resistance from you. If it if it sticks, if it if it happens, it happens because nine times out of ten, if everything operates in 360 degrees, it's going to come back to you anyway. And hopefully when it deals with people, if it's a miss, maybe when they do a complete cycle, they learn some [ __ ] that'll allow them to mesh better with you. And then when it happen, >> man, I needed that.
>> They like, boom, okay, I saw what you was talking about. That's why I didn't move. You know what I'm saying? You you orbited me. You spun around me >> and we right back where you at right now. So what do we learn? Bet. Let's mob out then. Everything is a circle.
Everything's 360 degrees. So it's, >> you know, when people, you know, what goes around comes around is that saying, right? So when you in life, you know, you're going to meet people, you know, and when you're no longer subscribing to the laws of physics, you know, figuratively speaking, um or literally whatever figuratively um is like you you don't care no more. Whatever happens happens and you'll find people people will gravitate to you. They'll see a difference in you. That's your final form.
>> Amen.
>> There you have it. Yeah.
>> Round of applause again. Wait, what?
>> Let's clap.
>> All right. Round of applause again for the main man himself, the people's armpucking phenomenal. Thank you for coming on.
>> It's all good, man. You know, hey, hey, I'mma tell you something. It's about 10 o'clock. Y'all young [ __ ] kept me up.
>> I don't want to hear that from you.
>> I'm like, >> you kept me up till 11 last week.
>> Yeah. Well, you know, I didn't think I was going to, you know, I got to reserve that [ __ ] for tomorrow. So, you know, today I was like, man, you know, so >> it's all right. I listen, I I will personally want to thank you cuz um you always told me like, look, whenever you need me, let me know. And I I was telling my brothers, I was like, "Yo, I was tell what was it maybe like what two weeks, y'all?" I was like, "No, I think it was last week." I was like, "Yo, we might be able to get the OG."
When I say we were excited, we were excited. So, >> oh, you know, >> come on, man. I'm a regular ass [ __ ] man. I ain't nobody special.
>> All right, bro.
>> I'm I'm just like serious, man. Like, I told you, man. I'm a Oakland [ __ ] Like, man, I ain't >> I'm just good at what I do, you know?
I'm I'm a regular dude, you know? I'm I'm not special. And you know, I can't stress that enough because you know when you're So I had this conversation with Exhibit's bodyguard before we get off, right? He hit me up and he was like, "Yo, you need a bodyguard." I'm like, "What?" He was like, "You're an influencer now, whether you like it or not. People don't like you. You need to move a certain way. You shouldn't be in Las Vegas by yourself at Wrestle Con. You needed somebody with you." And I was like, "But I'm it don't matter." And I'm just like, you know, I I don't I accept it for what it is, but I just want to be a regular [ __ ] I don't want to be looked at as no one different. I'm just what makes me pop. What What makes me stand out from everyone else is that I don't have a [ __ ] job. Like, that's it. I don't have a job. So, they can't be like, "Oh, we saw your your social media and well, we don't feel comfortable." nor can people who don't like me massreport me to my job. So the only reason why I'm doing what I'm doing and I'm fully capable is because I don't have a job. I don't think that makes me special at all. Doesn't make me nothing more than a man who is utilizing the fact that I have no job to be the voice of people.
You know, I >> Your new name should be Tommy.
>> You ain't got no job, >> right? Yeah. Something, you know. Um, and as a as appreciative as I am, um, I don't want to I never want I mean I don't feel I've done um anything magnificent to be like, oh [ __ ] you know, now maybe if I interview someone and I I take off with the podcast, that would be a little bit more of an incentive to be like, okay, you you interviewed Exhibit and Snoop and all these high-profile celebrities. like, "No, you have access to these people and they're on your platform." Okay, you got to move different. But me just smashing on racist white people and racism and injustice, everyone's doing that. Um, and and they're doing a little bit more than me cuz they're boots on grounds.
I'm more of the intellectual. Um, because if I'm out there, I'm I'm I'm killing [ __ ] That's just what it is.
There is no hands up, no protesting. I'm mobbing on [ __ ] like I'm trying to hurt somebody. Um so it's best that I'm reserved at the house to just be that intellectual voice to to speak and drop seeds to keep people you know thinking in the way and slowly you know nudging them like I can't give you the answers but the answer see you know what I'm saying like so that you know >> so that I don't think that's that's special. I don't think >> Well, I think a lot of you, sir. I I think of you as special. Ever since we, um, we connected >> years ago. Um, yeah, man. So, my last question is, um, >> my last question is for you, uh, Big Matt, uh, OG, you know what I'm saying?
Um, >> what are things that you got working on?
I pretty much know this, but if you could tell us, um, what can we expect from you in the future? First off, you're also welcome here back here anytime. I think I speak for these gentlemen. Uh you are welcome back here anytime.
You you have truly blessed us.
>> Um >> yourself. Yes, I would like another king up here. Two kings. Oh, >> wonderful. Wonderful.
>> For sure. For sure. But yeah, uh let us know things that you got coming up. Uh things you're working on, uh projects, causes.
>> Okay. Well, um But can you take a punch podcast every uh Friday? um 7 PM Central Standard Time, Texas time.
Um lightweight working on music. Um like I said, I'm gonna be on Afro's uh joint in August, but I'm working on uh the podcast and slowly gaining momentum.
Other than that, I ain't really got nothing going on at all really.
>> Plus, uh you and me got a track in the future. Don't don't forget that. You still owe me a feature. You still owe me a feature. We still >> for that. For sure. For sure. Most definitely. Most definitely. I'm actually working on um uh a track uh with my homie Big Chief Smash out the Bronx, man. Um called Fuzzy Felons. It's a it it's already recorded. It was almost like the Rock Roller where we we had a verse a piece and we could have dropped another verse. Um so he dropped his verse and then I got to drop another verse and then we're going to push it out and if we can make it happen, it's going to be like Muppets and [ __ ] You know what I'm saying? like the whole Sesame Street vibe. So, yeah, man. Oh, and and I'm a part of Ray Sean, the uh >> Oh, right, right, right, right, right.
So, um Matt actually texted me. Ray Sean is back up. It's up. Well, it's up. Ran is up. So, if you could do me a favor, uh OG, can you talk to us about what uh Ray Sean is? Raan is uh an AI system built for black people by black people to give black people a voice in this society where it seems like everyone is thinking white talking white and when I say talking white not the formal but the talks of white everything is white this white that there's nothing for black people so I'm proud to present an an all black and blackowned uh AI that's geared towards us utilizing lingo go that makes it easier for us to to learn uh and not have to subject ourselves to how other people talk to us but how we talk to one another. Um rai.com it will be in the app store um next week >> um whenever you like go back to because it's up right now. He just told me it's up. So, um, if you from Be More, you know, hit it up, drop some, you know, just talk, interact, and see if it's authentic to Be More in the lingo and how y'all talk to one another. And, you know, the moment it goes hot, you know, it's it's going to it's going to be, in my opinion, something big. And uh yeah, I look forward to um being a part of something that finally gives us something in the grand scheme of things that could be geared towards us. You know what I mean?
Because no one's no one's talking about it nor is it even available >> or or prior to that if if that makes any sense.
>> Yeah, for sure. For sure. For sure.
definitely reach definitely reach the part of the show where we got to close up unfortunately >> um because if we let Cass continue going on this [ __ ] we'll be on here for about another seven hours.
>> Yeah.
>> So before he does that [ __ ] uh ladies and gentlemen, first and foremost, we want to thank you for watching. If you've made it this far, we love you to death. You truly are a bag of chips.
Doesn't matter what flavor. We love you all the same. Shout outs and round of applause again for coming through to the people's. Give it up again for Big Matt.
Um >> people's [ __ ] phenomenal man. Check out his podcast. Like I said, every Friday, make sure you check it out. Can you take a punch? Um we would do Words of Wisdom, but about two and a half of us are tired as [ __ ] So best thing we're going to say is stay hydrated. Uh cut the [ __ ] Take your vitamins and uh [ __ ] the people that don't like you. [ __ ] them.
>> Absolutely.
>> The long way.
>> This has been another beautiful episode of too much dip on the chip. I am king.
There's V.
>> What it do?
>> Big Matt is over here, I think. And Cass is over there.
We are out. Love y'all. See y'all next.
See y'all next week, y'all.
>> Hey, load up the game. 808. Slide in.
Joystick click crowd echo faintly.
>> Low low spawn in first. Stealth mode stage. Talk slick like dojo when he step on stage. King press star. Ain't no capping my script. Final boss energy boy never miss a glitch. Uh-huh. V got the vibe. Jojo pose in the mix. Aura in the booth. Every word do a crit. Eminem mother with the mayhem drip with the blick and the power up lip. Caspino bilingual dual lingo with the flame.
Talking XP. Spirit points whole different game. We leveling up in the trip.
>> Too much dip on the chip. So kingly Eminem and Caspuccino in the building where made me my favorite.
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