NIKA DIWA, THE MOST PATHETIC WOMAN ON TIKTOK

Added: 2026-05-25

[00:00:00]In 2024, I did a video on Nicadia and on that video, I spoke about how Nicadia really exploits her children. She exploits her children, she exploits her entire family, especially the fact that she has mixed children. First of all, her husband is from Nigeria and I'm from Nigeria and as a Nigerian, we do not claim him at this point. God, please make him white at this point because like what the [ __ ] When it comes to Nicadi, she fantasizes or she feticizes.

[00:00:27]That's how it seems. Um, allegedly she fantasizes her husband, not her husband in itself or in himself. She fitizes where he's from, the fact that he's black and the fact that she has mixed children. I think is we see this in so many interracial relationships or marriage where if it's a black man and a white woman most especially I'm not saying it doesn't happen the other way around but most especially we see it on social media where the woman is very obsessed with the child my mixed child my mixed child's hair my mixed child's this oh my child came out looking brown I thought my child was going to come out looking a bit whiter my child's hair this and it's not that they're doing all this for educational purposes it's not for educational purposes it's just the fact that okay see ooh my child looks different my child doesn't have fy hair my child is mixed and in hindsight this is very very disgusting but you know who takes the cake when it comes to this weirdness is Nicada Nicada is known for literally speaking about the fact that she has an African baby or she has an African husband or she has an African mother-in-law literally and when I made that video about Nika Diwa in 2024 I thought that maybe she would mellow which she did for some time, but now she has taken the bull by the horn. I think that's what they say. She's taken the bull by the horn and it's literally so bad. I've had two people asked me to talk about Nikadi in my comment section and I was like, "Oh yeah, I've spoken about her before because all this while I thought that she had simmerred just for me to find out just to find out that this woman is worse." Now she I don't want to say she has mellowed on exposing her children to the to the internet. She still does it, but not in the same gravity that she did before. But now this woman is so obsessed with being an African wife, with my mixed race children, with my Nigerian husband, with this, with that. And at this point, this is what we call negrilia, not necro, negroia. So in case you are not black or African, you don't have the right to say negro or [ __ ] Okay, let's say. So what is the definition of negrilia?

[00:02:36]Okay, according to Google, negroia from the French negril or negrili refers to a strong fascination, infactuation or obsession with black culture, aesthetics or people. While it sometimes describes genuine political or cultural appreciation, it is heavily associated with feticization, exostism and the problematic romantization of black identity. This is alle what Nicada is.

[00:03:03]And this is going to be like a reaction video. I wanted to do my makeup while talking to you guys about this, but I have headache. So, I was like, you know what? Let me do my makeup quickly and just sit with you guys, speak to you guys about this video. I we have like around 33 videos, but I don't think I'm going to include everything even while editing. If there are some that I don't think that I should, I'm just going to take it out. But for now, we have 33 videos to work with. When it comes to Nicadia, she always always gives me something to work with. Okay, that being said, let me introduce myself. Hi guys, my name is Joel and welcome to my channel. On this channel, I speak about whatever I want to speak about. I do deep dives, commentary videos, unscripted commentary, makeup and commentary. Literally, whatever I want to speak about, I do speak about it. So, if that is your cup of tea, if it's something that you would like to see next time, kindly like, share, and subscribe if you care. And I really do hope you care. And that being said, y'all, I have headache, bro. I woke up very early today and I slept like around 2:33 yesterday. I recorded Elsa Majimbo, a video on Elsa Majimbo which I think is already out. I recorded it yesterday and I edited the first draft today. Today I'm recording Nicad's video and there's another video that I am trying my best to put it out at the end of the month and I really hope it's out cuz that video is going to be so long but I am very excited for that video. But anyways guys, thank you so much. I have headache, like serious headache because I don't think I've rested enough. But that being said, let's just get straight into this video. I said this woman is an attention seeking woman. Like she's an attention seeking person so much. Like she loves attention. Every single thing she picks up the camera and everybody must see it. Everybody must see it. So let's start with the first one. POV. A mother determined to break toxic cycles for your child. Okay. What does she have? I speak generational over this broken over this child.

[00:04:57]No more is she going to wonder if she's enough. She is going to be a warrior.

[00:05:00]She's going to be an advocate for women everywhere. She's going to be an advocate for herself. Fear and pain. You have no place in this space. You have no place in this space. You have no more power. You have no more power.

[00:05:14]To the enemy who's just watched me hate myself for so long. You're going to sit right here and watch me worship. You're going to sit right here and watch me worship this baby out because your time is up. Your time is up.

[00:05:26]>> I post this every day on Zion's birthday to remind me of the promises over her life. Never underestimate the power of prayer over your child, which is fair.

[00:05:32]Never underestimate the power of prayer over your child. I'm not really a religious person. I believe in God and the universe, but I'm not really. I've just constructed religion. I am still deconstructing it. I'm a very inquisitive person. And I think that does not help because since I was a child, I've always had questions about religion. Since I was literally a child, I always asked my mom questions. And being from an African home, they're always like, "Oh, if he has that kind of question, you will run mad." And I was just an inquisitive child, so many things has not made sense to me. And I'm glad that as an adult, I'm still deconstructing it. But I still respect religion, obviously, cuz that's where I grew up. I grew up as Christian, like Presbyterian. My dad is a Kong Presbyterian. Like literally like my family is Presbyterian or whatever. So like I grew up I was in the choir. I was in the evangelism team in my school. I was in choir in my church. Like you know things like that. But yeah. So I'm not here to speak about her, you know, against her children. I'm not going to speak about the fact that she's praying for her children. But what I do not understand is carrying a camera to record yourself crying and praying for your child. I don't understand it when it comes to prayer. Like I I want to understand the thought process behind that. Did you like say, "Okay, pick the camera, record me, let me cry, and let me pray for my child." Like I don't understand that at this point. This seems performative. This is performative. This is not something that is what you want to do. This feels so performative. Even the girl behind her is just looking at her like because what what do you mean? Like what are you saying? Anyways, let's go to the next video. My 17 diapers was when I told my daughter that after my first child, it took me over a week to shower because of postpartum depression. After she helps me give birth to my second child, she personally came to my home to give me a bath to make sure I didn't neglect myself this time around. God bless Odoulah. Is it called Dola? Do God bless Odoulah. God bless your midwife. God bless her for, you know, coming to shower because again, having a child is no joke. Like being pregnant and pushing out a baby is no joke. Why do you think I would never get pregnant? I do not care what anybody says. I would never. I have made that promise to myself when I was 14 that I would never get pregnant because pregnancy is no joke and I do not want to put myself in that line.

[00:07:47]There are so many reasons I will not get pregnant apart from the social aspect.

[00:07:51]The fact that you know having a child in this world personally I believe that it's somewhat selfish because this world is crazy somewhat. I'm not saying it's entirely selfish, especially when you have like multitudes of children like 17 children, 11 children, one or two is perfectly fine. 17 children, 11 children, and then you're exploiting them on social media. That is very selfish. I understand people love want to have children. Like personally, I don't understand when people are like, "Oh my god, I was praying to go for the fruit of the womb. I want children."

[00:08:19]When you have the first one, you've gone through the pain of having a child and then you want to go through the pain second and third time. I don't understand it. But again, I would forever respect mothers because putting yourself on the line to bring a child into this world is no joke. It is no joke. Your life is 50/50. You don't know if you're going to come out of there alive. So, I understand postpartum depression. But again, what I do not understand is you're depressed. You could not shower. Your midwife came to shower you. What was the conversation like? Can you put my camera there, please? Can you put my camera there? Let me record you showering me and upload it on social media. One could say it's for educational purposes. One could say it's for educational purposes, which is fair.

[00:08:59]Like it could be for educational purposes, but again, it boils down to the performative thing about this. And because Nicada is all about the whole world must see this, people are like, I don't know if this is real or if this is not real. Literally, what do you guys think about this? Again, I'm not saying that she didn't have like postpartum depression. Postpartum depression is real, but I do not understand the aspect of recording it and putting on social media. I know um everybody is different but when I am depressed I deactivate my Instagram. I love Instagram but once I'm depressed when once my brain is going cuckoo when once you see my Instagram deactivated just know that I'm depressed beyond measure. I just want to be by myself when I'm in that state of mind.

[00:09:42]Picking up my phone to record for social media is literally the last thing on my mind. And I'm not saying that that's how it should be for everybody, but I just think it still boils down to the performativity, if that is even a word of all of this. Next video. Okay, so basically this one, she said, "Talking to my child about boundaries and private part." And this video pissed me off because in my last video that I made in 2024, I literally got mad. Like I was like, "What the fuck?" So basically, she is cleaning her child's bum bum and she's putting it on social media. Can you see how obsessed this woman is with social media? Obsessed she is with pushing the boundaries of her children, with exploiting her children on social media for money, because all this boils down to money. I love money. Who does?

[00:10:30]I'm a [ __ ] Capricorn. I love money so much. But I would not come on the internet to do something very stupid just because I need money.

[00:10:39]I would never do that. But anyways, talking to my child about boundaries and private parts. Yeah, but this is a reaction from someone. So, let's just hear what he had to say.

[00:10:52]Is it just me or is this something that is not something that should be filmed and put on the internet for nearly now 7 million people to see? You know what else is private? These children's lives.

[00:11:05]You know what they can't really give informed consent to is having their lives turned into content to be monetized online. This is a super important conversation for parents to be having with their kids. But to me, setting up a camera to film while you're talking about it, while you're changing your daughter's diaper is just incredibly invasive, performative, and counterproductive to the spirit of the the discussion.

[00:11:38]Maybe I'm wrong, but I I am increasingly less comfortable with children being posted online, period. much less like entire platforms being built off of them.

[00:11:49]>> And this video, she got so much backlash, so she deleted it. But yeah, like what this guy said, it's very performative. It's very counterproductive to what you think that you are doing. And why again do you have to do you even think it's okay as a mother? How do you think that it's okay to put your child you cleaning up your child on social media? For who? For who?

[00:12:09]Gone are the days where people even like put their children like obviously you give birth to your child maybe 1 month old and they put their children birth chest because they feel like oh who would get attracted who get sexually attracted to a child a literal baby but social media has made us realize that there are people who [ __ ] get attracted to children like I do not understand it like the thought of me just thinking about it very scary that people would see a child and get attracted to a child when there are full grown adults with beautiful reproductive organs that you can get attracted to.

[00:12:42]That is not why you should get attracted to someone. But if that is the reason why you should get attracted to someone, there are adults adult adults that are so beautiful in so many ways, but it's a child you want to get your you think you can get attracted to. And knowing this because if you're someone who has this amount of followers and subscribers on Instagram and all around platform, putting your child on here knowing that there are pedophiles online, especially on Tik Tok, putting your child on there, you cleaning your child and at the same time speaking to your child about boundaries and private parts and then looking at that video, recording it, looking at that video and then posting it online. There must be something wrong with you. M m. You must be meant that now honestly like this thing pisses me off so much. Like it pisses me off so much. This is not real. This is not real. Like how is this real? Anyways, um we have a lot of videos to go through and I'm already like riled up. We're 18 minutes already. Yo. Yo, this woman pisses me off and I'm like I don't want to ask if she really speaks to herself if she sits down and introspect before she posts anything online. Not everything is for the internet. There's just so much that you should keep to yourself. Next video. This one.

[00:13:52]Interviewing a babysitter that says her rate is $18 per hour.

[00:13:56]>> My name is Kayla.

[00:13:57]>> That don't matter. That don't matter.

[00:14:00]Come sign this baby girl.

[00:14:01]>> Oh, okay.

[00:14:02]>> $16 per hour. I'm thinking that this is on the lower end. First of all, is someone that is babysitting your child?

[00:14:08]Because the way it's looking, it's looking like $18. Sorry, $18 per hour is like affordable for them. And the fact that you're not, first of all, you're not ready to vet this person because that's what it's g as far. The person said, "Oh, it just Okay, I don't even know. Let me convert $18 per hour to pound. $18 is £13." And £13 is not a high wage. So that's why I'm like $18 per hour is literally not a high wage.

[00:14:33]Okay. Is not a high wage. Is a very low wage. So you're telling me that a babysitter will come and be like, "Oh yeah, I'm going to collect $18 per hour to babysit your child." And because the money is very affordable and is very low, you decide not to vet the babysitter. You decide not to know where is this babysitter coming from? Why your price is this low? Why you ready to lowball yourself? But because it's on the low end, you just think that it's okay. And some people may be like, "Oh my god, this content. Oh my god, this content." But people are watching this content. People are watching this content. People are saying, "Okay, if Nika, People don't know how gullible people are." Yeah. You don't know how gullible people are. Like sometimes I'm like how can people be that gullible?

[00:15:14]Then I remember there are people that support MAGA. I remember there are people that support reform. I remember there are people that would fall for an AI video about immigrants being the problem literally. So I'm like people are like oh my god just content. Nobody will fall for that. Let me tell you something. People will fall for this and people would think that it's okay as far as the wage is small. So as far as that happens it's okay for me to to not vet my babysitter because Nicada does it anyways. Maybe I'm reaching but I don't think I am. Next video. So now we are entering the territory of our sister Nicada her feticizing the fact that her husband is African and Nigerian. And this is the part that pisses me off.

[00:15:55]This is the negroilia negroilic part of her content where she feticizes the fact that her husband is black, her husband is Nigerian and she's Filipino and she has blian children. So POV, a whole African husband watching my pregnant wife eat a whole African meal with a half African baby in her belly. And this half African, a whole African, half African. Your baby is still in your belly. And already you're saying a whole African. What happened to just calling your baby a baby? Must stress the fact that they half African. Must stress the fact that you're African. A whole African husband watching my pregnant wife eat an African meal. The [ __ ] On top of jolaf fries? though on top of jolof fries you guys this is jolof fries on top of jolaf fries eat it's a whole African meal if you're eating al egg cooker what are you going to say what would you do what would you now call you on top of jolaf fries y'all next video because this woman is such a minus me thinking a fight is about to break out but it's just Africans having a normal convo this woman fits into the stereotypes that Africans are you know loud I'm not saying Africans are not loud but is it only Africans Even white people are loud. Like literally, white people are loud. Everybody is loud. It just depends on your circle. Like I'm black. I'm Nigerian. I'm not loud. And literally my friends are not. Okay, I have one friend that is loud. But like she fits into this stereotypical thing about like Africans, about like Nigerians, and she turns it into comedy when it's not really comedy. Because again, to you it may be a game. It may be a joke, but again, you're still stapling how people see Africans, how people see Nigerians. This whole barbaric action, this whole barbaric attitude, how Africans are being seen as a loud people, how black people are being seen as loud. Me thinking a fight is about to break out, but it's just Africans having a normal convo. Like, what the [ __ ] I feel like it would have been okay. It should be like, "Oh, my husband and his friends, how Africans." And she has kind of like generalized this whole thing that, "Oh, yeah, it's Africans that have this normal combo. This is how Africans speak." And what's pissing me off is that this is literally a voice over.

[00:18:03]Like not a voiceover. This is literally a sound. Like if you even watch the video, like they're just speaking normally. They're just speaking as normal people. They're not screaming. They're not shouting.

[00:18:16]They're having like normal conversation.

[00:18:18]But she's like, "Okay, I've seen black men, a group of black men and black people seated. Let me think of what to do." Like, "Girl, miss me with this [ __ ] Miss me with this [ __ ] [ __ ] I am tired of this woman."

[00:18:29]100%. I'm tired of her. I'm tired of her being the cement and the glue to portray Africans and black people in the way that the main media outlet has portrayed Africans to look like. This is crazy.

[00:18:43]Next video. When my African mother-in-law suddenly walks in. Okay.

[00:18:52]>> Oh no. Oh no.

[00:18:58]got to stay serving my baby boy. First of all, I'm not going to say that there are no strict mother-in-laws or wicked mother-in-laws. Yes, they are. But they are not only exclusive to Africans. We see even white mother-in-laws, even white rich people. We watch this in movies. White mother-in-laws, we see it everywhere again down to putting it and placing it all on an African woman when my African mother-in-law suddenly walks in. So that means you're giving these stereotypes that African mother-in-laws or Nigerian mother-in-laws are very intimidating and they believe that you must always serve their husband. This is not only limited to African mother-in-laws. We even see it in the Hispanic culture, in white culture, in Latino culture, in literally every culture, there's always a very stupid mother-in-law. Like there's even a whole movie called Monster-in-law. Like what are you saying? Monster-in-law? We see this everywhere. But you're saying we're my African mother-in-law. So it it now looks like, oh, this is only limited to African mother-in-laws. This woman pisses me off to content, but it is just more than content. It's more than content. It's more than just putting all this out there. It's more than content.

[00:20:06]Next video. You have a half black baby and don't have a blueprint for hair care.

[00:20:12]>> Your hair is really special. We're trying to figure it out as we go along.

[00:20:19]>> Look at that curl back there.

[00:20:21]So curly back there and then here it's like a wavy.

[00:20:24]>> You want a crown?

[00:20:26]>> You have a half black baby. Like is the what personalization the person the the fact that she is so quick to characterize her child.

[00:20:36]Caption. She's half Nigerian, half Filipino. Nicada. We know all this. You don't let us rest. She's trying to figure out her curl pattern. Still trying to figure out her curl pattern.

[00:20:44]And welcome to any suggestions. Take your child to a [ __ ] salon and get recommendations from them. Why you coming to social media to ask people on social media for hair? You're showing your child on social media, exploiting your child, and then characterizing and personalizing your child and saying you have a half black baby, half black. What happens to I have a child that has curly hair? What happened to that? Must you put the half black? That is what I really do not get.

[00:21:11]That's what I really do not understand.

[00:21:13]The fact that at this point it is a [ __ ] fetish. You don't see a white mom saying, "Oh, my white child." Like a purely white mom, white father, white mother. Oh, my white child. What makes it okay for you to go and be like, "Oh, I have black child. My mixed race child." Bro, next video.

[00:21:30]>> Daddy, question. Um, how did you feel when you found out I was going to marry a man from Africa?

[00:21:35]>> Oh, it makes the most natural sense.

[00:21:37]>> Okay. Why? Because a man from Africa, a very powerful group of people.

[00:21:45]That's what you need.

[00:21:47]>> You're a woman that has to be tamed.

[00:21:52]>> So someone from another culture cannot tame your child. Like this is what I'm talking about. The negroation of black men. Like what the [ __ ] So a white man cannot tame your child if your child really needs to be tamed like that. A white man cannot tame your child. I that's what I do not get. So now you you've not even seen this husband as a person. You're seeing him as someone who will tame your child. You're not seeing him as a person at this point. You're not seeing your son-in-law as a person.

[00:22:20]You're seeing him as someone who is there to tame your child. Like again, your man should be like your protector and all of that despite his race or whatever. But at this point, if he said, "Okay." And the first of all the question is even very weird asking my Filipino dad how he felt finding out I was marrying an African man as if we are not all human beings. If he has been like oh because you know the African culture they really care about their wives they really they're family oriented their family affairs this or that. If you said something like that fine but oh yeah because you need to be tamed that means already they seeing him as oh my god I may be riching but they may be seeing him I may be riching.

[00:22:57]Should I even say it? Let me not say it.

[00:22:58]Let me not say it.

[00:23:00]They do not seem as a human being at this point. Let me just leave it as a da if you understand what I'm trying to say. Fine. When these are your big brothers, but you have Chihuahua energy and why is her husband standing there with a group of black men? Don't Don't she have Filipino brothers? Like this is giving the [ __ ] >> translation. I'm just a tiny little thing and these big back gorilla deming black men are my brothers. Yes, I had them line up behind my husband like we at a zoo. And no, it's not racist cuz I have a half African baby. Like girl, you could have used your real brother. You took the brother part way too [ __ ] literally.

[00:23:40]>> Yo, this person just this woman, she's red bait final boss. This person just nailed it on the head. Like just nailed it on the head. Putting a group of black men at the back and then you there just this is giving this person said it. I don't want it to come out from my mouth.

[00:23:56]I don't know what's going from my mouth, but it looks like Oh, oh god. These are people from the zoo that are here to protect this soft little Filipino light-skinned woman, Asian woman. Like, this does not even look good. Like, like this person said, like I'm like, okay, don't you have actual Filipino brothers?

[00:24:15]Don't you have actual Filipino um cousins? Again, this is the feticization of black men at this point. And why these people always agreeing to do these videos with her? like it gets to a point why they just agree and then they're just smiling. They're agreeing to do this video with her. And I'm not going to lie, part of this because she has a large following and because she's famous and not all fame is good fame. Not all fame is good fame because this is just very ridiculous if you ask me. Wife's labor stalled. So we did a Cherry Sherry's boob stimulation and in less than 5 minutes contra contractions picked up.

[00:24:50]Very good. Relax your shoulders. There you go.

[00:24:54]That's crazy.

[00:24:57]>> The nipple stimulation really works.

[00:24:59]>> It works, guys.

[00:25:01]>> So, basically, there is this stereotype that Nicadia does whether intentionally or unintentionally, allegedly, she does like pregnancy because there are people who have pregnancy kink. Like, I'm not here to king shame anybody. Um, so basically she, what am I saying? Yeah, basically. So, there is this stereotype.

[00:25:18]I've heard it before that she does things because there are people not that she h she has pregnancy is that there are people on her social media that loves content like that so she does it and not like I don't know if she does it intentionally but it kind of feed them and that's how she gets her views if that makes sense. Oh, this is just feeding into this whole stereotype, this whole pregnancy thing, this whole child exploitation thingy where like again it may look normal on the surface, her just posting her child on the internet or whatever, but like you cannot act oblivious to the fact that there are people online that are actively seeking out children because that is their weird and disgusting fantasy. And again, like posting so many pregnancy content, again, there are people that go out seeking that. And it's just very weird to me her posting all these things. Like it's just very very weird to me. I think there was a time in 2024 that she she spoke about drinking alcohol when she was pregnant and she was like oh that she drank wine when she was pregnant that people in the olden days used to do that and she got so much backlash. Even there was a nurse that actually a doctor that actually spoke and be like and was like why is your your social media platform to to say all these weird things and to do all these weird things and just think that oh this is normal.

[00:26:33]It just does not make sense. Next video.

[00:26:35]My woman broke apart with our miracle baby. So now it's my job to love her back together. So you're putting a diaper on your wife, which is good. Like which is good. Like that's what you should do. But I want to understand the thought process before this. Oh my god.

[00:26:49]Oh my god. Turn on the camera. Turn on the camera. Record me. Record me.

[00:26:53]Record. Record me.

[00:27:07]So you picked up the camera from the toilet to the bedroom to feeding the child. You picked up the camera and I'm like this is just so performative. For what? For social media. This is just so performative. Like that's just all I can say. Like this woman is just so performative. She has this performative.

[00:27:23]Everything must be for social media.

[00:27:25]Literally everything must be for social media. If this does not go on social media, she's definitely not going to rest. Pick up the camera. I'm in pain.

[00:27:31]Oh, I'm in pain. But pick up the camera.

[00:27:33]Let's show how. Caption. If your mom can't do this, find a better one. Let's show how we would perform. Let's perform you wearing me diapers, going to the bed. I'm in pain, but let's do it because social media has to see it first. That's literally what he's giving. POV. Your toddler found your special drawer.

[00:27:49]>> Hello, >> Dizzy. What are you doing? Zezy. Dzy, what are you doing? What's in your hand?

[00:27:54]What's in your hand?

[00:27:55]>> I can hear something.

[00:27:58]>> What's in your hand?

[00:28:00]What's in your Oh my god. Give that to mommy. Give me mommy. Give Give it to mommy.

[00:28:06]>> No.

[00:28:06]>> Why? Can you please get it?

[00:28:08]>> No.

[00:28:08]>> Well, don't rub it on your neck. Don't rub that on your neck.

[00:28:11]>> Basically, her child found her toys and first thing that she decided to do was pick up the camera to record. Pick up the camera to record. Your child found your toy and in to just my first reaction was literally to collect it and put it back. But you picked up the camera to record to post on on the internet to show your toddler holding your toy. This woman is rage baiting me.

[00:28:31]She's rage baiting me cuz what the [ __ ] Next video. My black husband was racially profiled at the most famous grocery story or I think she meant store in Texas. Let's listen.

[00:28:43]>> I've never I've legit never been so disrespected and to be disrespected by that and the manager just be like cool with it. I'm shaking right now because um my black husband was pretty sure just racially profiled at a grocery store.

[00:28:57]>> I didn't know. I didn't know. My black husband. Okay.

[00:29:00]>> Store. I'm not going to drop the name and the location as tempting as that as that is because there is a larger issue at hand. Oh my gosh. He was doing grocery pickup and the lady bringing out the groceries begins to load the car. My husband then comes out of the car because he got a notification that they were not able to get all the groceries on the list. And so he starts checking the groceries at which point this lady says in a really aggressive tone, "Sir, no. I'm going to need to see ID." He's just like, "Okay, um, ma'am, yeah, I'm going to go get my ID in a little bit.

[00:29:29]I'm just going to" And she goes, "No, >> don't touch it.

[00:29:32]>> Don't touch it.

[00:29:34]>> Don't touch it." He waves over a manager that he sees. The manager comes by. The lady who treated him this way is cursing and really demonstrative. Is walking by my husband. in front of this manager laughing at him, pointing at him and learing at him and even goes to talk to somebody else and points at my husband and starts laughing at him. My husband points this out to the manager and he does nothing about it.

[00:30:00]I'm not black. I'm not going to pretend to be black, but I'm a mom who has kids who are half black. And and this kind of racial profiling at a high corporate level, you guys, in 2023 blows my freaking mind. It's so it's so supremely frustrating.

[00:30:15]>> It's the stigma of the angry black man.

[00:30:17]Not not all black men are angry all the time. But guess what? If an injustice happens, I'm allowed to be frustrated and not even like an apology, not even the slightest apology, not even an acknowledgement.

[00:30:27]>> It's so sad that her husband actually went through this because even me, I have been racially attacked. Um I've spoken about this in 2024. I had a racial a racist that's a housemate and um like 2:00 a.m. he came at me and he was like I should go back to my country like 2:00 a.m. he was chasing me. I reported him to the police. He came back to threaten me and I had to leave that house and I had to keep paying for my rent because I left the house earlier than I should have. Um, so that was literally it's not it's not a funny thing to be racially attacked, more racially profiled, but she made this about herself literally cuz now she's crying and he's the one that went to console her and again obviously in this case I'm 50/50 about the fact that she said my black husband because again her husband is black and of course but again because of how Nika is pushing the wholeization everybody must know that I'm married to a black man. and I'm with a black man is coming off h is this really not like obviously it's genuine because that's her husband but again like this is for the camera and the fact that is her husband that is now going to go and hug her and console her and again she didn't let her husband speak cuz her husband was speaking at the beginning and she cut him off and she was now like speaking about it and I'm like girl it's not about you should be the one to go cuz from what I could hear I think her husband was the one washing the plate go hug your husband your husband came to you to hug you and console you for what he went through >> bro. Next video. Let's watch it.

[00:32:01]>> Say, "Wait, what did you say?"

[00:32:02]>> Gorilla >> snot edges.

[00:32:06]>> Yes. Yes.

[00:32:08]>> Huh?

[00:32:11]>> You put the conditioner away. And then you use the brush. Why are there so many brushes? Why are there so many brushes?

[00:32:20]>> Girl, first of all, you're on social media. Like literally, you go on Tik Tok, you see that there are people that give so many tutorials on hair. Okay, first of all, so you acting surprised is just performative. Why are there so many brushes? Like did you even attempt to try? You've been feeling insecure as you say on your have black, Asian, Nigerian, African daughter's hair. Okay, cool. So, you don't know that black people have so many brushes. If really you've been looking into your child's hair, you would know that black people have so many brushes, especially like Nigerians or people who have like more co hair.

[00:32:49]like literally you would know that they have so many brushes and so you don't know what and again it's good that she's going to look for help. It's good that because there are people that neglect their daughter's hair, neglect their children's hair because they can simply cannot handle it. So first of all I want to commend her for going to seek answers trying to make sure that her child's hair is taken care of more and very well. But all this is performative. You know the camera is on you. You're acting surprised. Glorilla snot. Glorilla this this. Gorilla snot. Oh for the edges.

[00:33:16]You're asking how edges are being laid.

[00:33:18]Like girl, all this is performative.

[00:33:22]This woman performative final boss. At this point, I'm getting much more irritated.

[00:33:28]We love to see it. Curly hair is the most annoying and complex type of hair that there is if you don't know how to do it.

[00:33:35]>> The [ __ ] Okay, now this girl has pissed me off. Um, curly hair is the most complex type of hair. Blah blah blah.

[00:33:42]Yeah, I'm not even watching it. First of all, I'm tired of people putting that stereotypes that oh curly hair is Niger no le tougher than Nigerian hair blah blah blah and that is why there is this tax when it comes to black African like four type hair type four hair people just they refuse to do it because they're like oh my god your hair is too complex your hair is too co like simple water will help there are so many tools it's literally 2020 in we literally in the 2020s there are so many tools out there that will literally help the health of health your child. There are so many out there. So, I don't understand this. Curly hair is the most comp I'm tired of people saying that is the most complex type of hair because it does not help us in the long run. And Nikado's child does not even have a fy hair. She does not even have a type four hair. That is the thing. She does not have a type four hair. And if you want to go by her saying curly hair is the most complex type of that would be very easy. I have freaking Nigerian hair and I literally change my hair every two weeks or every week cuz I make my hair myself. I made this myself. I make all my hair myself or like 99.9% of my hair myself. The 1% is even if you've seen hair stylist, right?

[00:34:48]Instagram hair stylist. Oh, if you have fy hair, make sure you blow your hair cuz I can't touch your hair or I won't touch your hair in this thing. Bro, get you a hot brush and comb your hair.

[00:34:59]Literally, I use hot brush to comb my hair. You use water. Water just like softens your hair. Like, yeah. I'm like, girl, I I don't even want to. And this girl, her hair is not even curly. Like she's not like someone that has like type four hair. I don't want to watch everything, but let me just scroll. Next video.

[00:35:15]>> Mixed baby check.

[00:35:17]>> Mixed baby check. [ __ ] hell. Mixed baby check. Mixed baby check. Okay, y'all can already see my answer from my It seems like Nicado has always wanted to have mixed babies. Mixed baby check.

[00:35:29]Mixed baby check. I'm having headache.

[00:35:31]I'm having headache and this is adding to my headache. Mixed baby check. Yeah, I'm irritated. When people keep saying newborn smells so good, but they don't know I haven't showered my cooch juice off her yet. Girl, not everything is for the internet. Not everything is for the [ __ ] internet. You should know when to stop. You should know when you should not put things on the internet. Like what the [ __ ] What the [ __ ] And again, it's not your cush juice. Your child was literally in your tummy and your child came out from your tummy. Obviously, it passed through your vagina, but it's not only the juice that comes out from your vagina that your child had. Also, you know, your child was literally inside your womb. But not everything has to be on the internet. Like, how old is this woman? How old is she? Cuz this at this point, this is getting out of hand. And guys, that's all the videos that I have on Nadia. Um, at this point, I don't know what to say. I don't know what to do. My baby is crying, talking about my cat. At this point, I really don't know what to say. I really don't know what to do. Like, this woman is just irritating.

[00:36:30]She is. This is my second video doing on her, and I don't think I'm going to do a video on her again. And I just hope that at this point she calms down because like this is just the negro failure is just crazy. Like the fact that she's so obsessed and fetishizes like the black culture and this is not appropriation.

[00:36:47]This is this is not appreciation. This is literally appropriation. Sue me.

[00:36:51]Literally that's what it is. But guys that brings us to the end of this video.

[00:36:55]Do not be a nicker and do not be a da.

[00:36:57]And again it's very easy to be like oh her husband even her husband is her enabler. like he does not go scot-free.

[00:37:04]He's a enabler and he's just I don't know he's an enabler cuz the husband seems like a smart man. Do you think it's something that we should post? Do you think this is something that we should put on the internet? You know, you could word it this way or word it that way. Must you always like speak about the child that the fact that our child is mixed like how come nobody's catching this? Like her whole family, her husband's family, like her friends, like nobody's nobody's saying anything.

[00:37:30]more. You guys, that brings us to the end of this video. I need to like shower and just rest cuz I'm having like the worst headache. If you made it to the end, thank you so much for making it to the end. I really do appreciate you for making it to the end. So, drop a shell emoji cuz of my hair. I have like a curry shell which I did myself. So, drop a shell emoji if you made it to the end.

[00:37:50]Thank you guys so much. I really do appreciate it. Um, thank you so much. I need to rest. Yeah, I really do need to rest, but thank you. And if you made it to the end, I really do appreciate you honestly. Like, you are the best. Thank you so much. Until next time. Bye.