This video explores the importance of holding community members accountable for their behavior, using a white woman's critique of Black women's behavior in schools as a case study. The discussion emphasizes that community members should accept criticism from outsiders, as self-perception may not align with how others experience their behavior. The hosts argue that defensive reactions to criticism prevent meaningful improvement and that accountability is essential for community growth. The conversation also touches on broader themes of family structure, parental sacrifice, and the need for honest self-reflection within communities.
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Gay Blogger Says Straight Black Men Are Enemies Of The Black Community @funkydinevaAdded:
This is Steve Hall and you're now watching the Don't Piss Me Off morning show.
Yeah, you are now tuned in to the Don't Piss Me Out Morning Show with real conversations, me unfiltered vibes. I'm your host 2K. And alongside with me, we got my dog miss uh we got Kai and the prince of pissing people off. Black_TV on YouTube if you looking for. And today we are here to kick off your morning with some news that you can use, some laughs, and just a little bit of drama.
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200 Suave. Eure. What's the word?
What's up with it, Eureka? Uh-oh.
Ah. Happy happy belated Mother's Day to Eureka and others. Okay.
>> Oh shit.
>> We got I ain't forget about you, Eureka.
See, see, see. I ain't forget about you.
Uh, EB, what's the word? What's the word, G? So, y'all, today, um, Kai had forgot that she had a doctor appointment today. I think she got to get a pap smear or something. Uh, so she won't be here. Y'all know Black at work. He on a second week of his thing. So, today, y'all are stuck with me.
Okay, y'all stuck with me. I was going to cancel the show, but I was like, you know what, man? Let's just go on knock it out. Let's go on knock it out. And it is what it is. Uh, Silly Rabbit for kids. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. Okay, so listen, man. Um, yeah, grab your britches. Uh, put your belt on tight. You're fucked. You're fucked. You don't get no Kai perspective. You don't get no no no black perspective, no nothing. You're fucked.
You're fucked. Yeah, he is home alone.
Mhm. You got this. Come on, man. You know I You know I do this. All right.
So, this weekend it was Well, first of all, let me stop being rude. 2K, how was your weekend, man? This weekend it was cool cuz um yesterday was Mother's Day and um it was it was pretty chill. You know, I don't think I I think that the economy is showing right now cuz like you know how niggas go all out on Mother's Day.
Uh-uh. Like this one didn't feel like that one. This one didn't feel like that one at all. It seemed like motherfuckers was reserved.
Like, oh mama, mama, listen. We love you, but you going to have to hold on this year. This is really what it felt like. I ain't see a bunch of people going crazy. I ain't see a bunch of nothing. It was just like, "Happy Moses day. Thank you for everything that you do. Get out of my face." That's what it felt like this year. Cri, shout out to you, C. And so, shit, you know, I was already up the mind because I was like, "Shit, man. Let me get just go ahead. Look, Sarah, you ain't my mama. Um, mama, you ain't my mama no more." I just went to cutting motherfucking I I cut water. You know what I'm saying? Was just trying to get it together. And that that's what I did, bro. Uh just to try to save money this year. Just to try to save money this year. Uh the economy got everybody moving different. No, cuz listen, bro.
I'm getting $30 on the tank. I'm think you know 30 You put a 30 ball in that motherfucker. You You f to be here a while. I ain't 30. I think I got seven gallons.
What the fuck?
Slimy in the back. Uh oh.
Hold on. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Slim me in the back. I don't see nobody.
I ain't turn it on cuz I ain't have no gas. Uh, okay. Hold on. That was very Yeah. So, um, if he when he come back up, I can get them in. Uh, black. But yeah, it was it was crazy, bro. Uh, so yeah, everybody feeling it cuz I think of the economy. It's on a different level. I hope they don't try this shit with the light bill. My nigga Slimming in the building. How long? Let me make room for my guy.
Make room for my boy. Uh oh. Let's do a two up.
Let's put Slimming right here. Y'all give it up for my dog Sliming, man. Uh oh. Nope. Wrong one.
They gave you a solo string. Y Let's cut that out. Okay, here we go.
Here we go.
What's What's the word with it, bro?
I can't I can't hear you, bro.
>> Yeah. Yeah. There you go.
>> I gota gota unmute myself.
>> Yeah. There you go. How you doing, bro?
>> I'm good, bro. What's up with you?
>> Oh, man. I can't I can't complain. I thought I was going to have to do it today by myself, man.
>> No, I've been waiting since for a little bit. You know what I'm saying? So, it's all good.
>> Black ain't even tell me today. Uh cuz Kai didn't come, so I didn't even open up the thing. So, uh, yeah. I ain't >> Oh, yeah, that makes sense.
>> Yo. Yo, bro, how was your weekend, bro?
>> Oh, it was cool, man. You know, I ain't, uh, I didn't have much time at all. And, um, I kind of feel bad. I ain't get to spend no time with my mom. I had so much going on, >> bro. Nah, that's what we were just saying. Like, this Mother's Day here wasn't super by no stretch of the imagination. Like, >> we were saying how like everybody feeling it financially. So like niggas really didn't have, you know, it was too much going on like the usual Mother's Day.
>> Yeah, man. Well, my mom just I didn't know what was going on cuz, you know, my mom's married. Uh, so I assume, you know, she was going to do something with her husband. Um, and then my brother tried to put something together last second. This is like, you can't wait till the day of to try and get me to do something, dog. Like, it's already I'm done. Like my whole day planned out.
>> Yeah. She was just like >> I asked my mom earlier in the week and you know she was just >> Yeah.
>> So I I got my mama a subscription. She got like a $89 month subscription. So every month I just give her $89 and that's her Mother's Day gift. So she's good for a whole year.
>> Oh my god.
>> At 1,200 shit.
Yeah. So hopefully I keep that out my motherfucking hair too. Shit. the little hair I got. But it is what it is, man.
Let's go ahead and get on to um the DPM Memorial Morning Show quote of the day.
Go a little like this. Here we go.
All right. Uh the DPMO uh morning show 2K's quote of the day is stop giving niggas the benefit of the doubt and starting doubting and start doubting the benefit of the nigga.
>> Stop giving niggas the benefit of the doubt and start doubting the benefit of the nigga.
>> Oh shit. Oh shit.
>> That's fair.
>> That's fair.
>> That's fair.
>> All right.
>> Listen. You can't you you you can't trust people on their word that they just going to do something, >> you know?
>> Yeah.
>> So >> now Yeah. Cuz it's it's it's >> it's to the point now where like real is rare. Like >> Yeah.
>> Because I'm being like genuine with people. People are secondg guessing me.
Like what's your agenda, bro?
>> Like what's your agenda? It >> ain't nothing. Ain't nothing.
>> No, I'm just This is just how I am, you know? So, yeah, it's tough, man. Like, >> it is >> being being authentic when it's a world full of fakes, >> it's tough.
>> No, that that >> that's a super fact, bro. Cuz uh I've been dealing with that a lot lately, like in my personal life, bro. Like, it seemed like everybody who I've been authentic with and and tried to help, bro, like >> like they trying to cross you. Yeah. And even if you being super nice, like that's a weakness. Like they looking at you like I'm I'm for take to take Yeah.
Like you fool. Like dead ass.
>> Yep.
>> Like you fool.
>> Yeah. But that's the life we live, bro.
Uh it's hard being authentic, man. When other when everybody else got authentic, well, arterial modals and shit like that. So >> yeah, that's a fact.
>> Yeah, >> that's a fact.
>> So it is what it is, man. We we probably going to blow through the show today, but I do got some some interesting topics that I do want to hear your opinion on.
>> Enemies of the gay. Yeah. So, >> all right. So, that go before we get into that, let's get into our favorite segment of the day, the confession corner.
>> But Kai ain't here. So, the um the 2K confession corner, I guess. Uh so, this was set last minute, but here it go. I seen now I seen this play out yesterday, but I ain't think the girl was gonna hit me up. So she it was crazy. All right, so here it go. Dear Ka DPM on Morning Show, I know people probably going to think I'm ungrateful after seeing this, but I really need somebody to tell me if I'm wrong because I'm still pissed off about Mother's Day. I am a mother that sacrificed a lot for my kids. I'm talking about putting myself last for years, missing out on things I wanted, staying in bed, uh me staying in bad situations longer than I should have, working jobs I hated, going without so they could have. Everything I did was giving by was to give my children the best possible chance at life. So tell me why for Mother's Day my kids took me to a motherfucking buffet.
I repeat, a buffet. Now, before somebody jump in and say, "At least they did something." Hear me out. It wasn't even really about the food. It was about the effort. I thought behind uh the thought behind it. The fact that I felt cheap, rushed, and and and personal. The fact that it felt cheap, rushing, and personal. Like, after everything I poured into my whole life, this was the level of appreciation I got back. And to make it worse, they invited their significant others, people I really don't uh get along with. So now instead of me feeling celebrated, I'm sitting there irritated, faking smiles around people I don't even care for, eating off a steam tam table while everybody acting like uh this a magical family moment. Uh and on top of that, my mama did. So the whole day was already emotional from the start. I was already missing my own mother, already feeling empty. And then this weak ass mother day setup just pushed me over the edge. I finally snapped and told them, "I'm not settling for no damn buffet for Mother's Day."
And I stormed out. Now, everybody acting like I ruined the day. But honestly, I don't even think I did enough. I'm just at a point in life where I t what I'm tired of swallowing disappointment to make everybody else comfortable. That u the part that hurt me the most was realizing my kids really thought that this was enough for me. Uh like after all these years of sacrifice, struggles, and love I gave them. That's that's how they see me. That's how they see my worth. And if Hold on. It even got ugly because as I was walking out, my daughter started playing fuck you on the speaker. What the fuck? Um, so now, so now I'm sitting here looking crazy to the whole family like I'm some bitter impossible to please mother. But truthfully, I just know my worth. So Kai, tell me straight. Am I wrong for expecting my kid uh respecting expecting more from my kids on Mother's Day? Do parents, especially mothers, eventually reach uh reach a point where they're tired of accepting bare minimum effort disguised as appreciation? Because right now, I feel like everybody calling me ungrateful while completely ignoring everything I gave up for them.
>> Bitch, you think she ungrateful?
Hell yeah, man. Like, so I would have if it would have just been the kids and her, I might have agreed. I might have agreed, but they they brought everybody.
>> Yeah.
>> So, there ain't no telling everybody's financial situation, so they went to a buffet.
I don't blame them because everybody got to eat. They might not want to they everybody might not be able to afford fine dining.
>> Yeah. So, but also I heard her say like, "I was already grieving because I lost my mom and it was Mother's Day, >> right?
>> How does Mother's Day make you grieve even more? It's just a madeup holiday."
>> I I You know what? I be thinking that shit like it's not even the day your mama died, but I don't even think that day significant.
Yeah, but you making it but you you Mother's Day makes you more emotional than the actual day your mom passed or your mom's birthday.
>> Well, hold on. So, I I can kind of get it now that I'm thinking about it. Maybe because everybody is celebrating their mother that it makes you think about your mother not being around versus the the actual death just hitting hard on this random day.
>> Okay. Well, yeah. I guess >> I I guess like that's the only conclusion I can get to. You know what I'm saying? Because it's just a celebration of mothers and I don't got mines to celebrate. It's kind of like being a basketball player at the game and everybody family member cheering, but yours ain't there.
Yeah, I get I mean, see, that's my problem with holidays though, man. Most of them are made up and fake. They have no no real root and value in actual time. And people use that as an emotional roller coaster.
And I think you should more so I I don't I don't understand how this day could be more significant than your mom could make you as emotional as your mom's birthday or the day she actually passed, >> right? I I just just because every because this shows me that every everything that everybody else is doing is your focus because I don't give a fuck what day it is. Like it, okay, that is Mother's Day. Everybody else is celebrating, but what does that have to do with you? How does that I don't understand how that affects you?
>> Well, I I I can see it because it's kind of like um it's kind of like Father's Day for me.
You know what I'm saying? like or or any father >> like when you look around and you check the the landscape and like this is kind of a valuation and a award ceremony from your father, right? And when you ain't getting shit or you not getting what you didn't, you know, for the amount of sacrifice and all the women is just talking about the dead beat daddies instead of the daddies that actually do it kind of make you feel away. So I I'm well I'm I'm I'm trying to put myself in her shoes to why this day hurt just a little bit more.
But that still don't give her the right to Well, you know what? I'm kind of on her side.
>> Oh shit.
>> You know what? Yeah, I'm kind of on her side. I'm not going to lie. I I kind of am. Like if I've been giving you my all, you can't give me your ass to kiss.
If I if if I cuz a lot like a lot of parents, right? Especially single mother parents, right? We know what they' had to do to keep the lights on. They had to go go see Mr. Charles.
They had to do this. They had to do that. They picked up an extra job. Like they they was doing everything they could like to make your motherfucking life straight. And in return, like you see me at a buffet and then you bring people here that I'm really not cool with. I kind of feel a way too, bro.
What if that's all they can afford?
>> I mean like you knew this was coming up.
Like where's the effort?
I mean it's it this this is and this is what I say like it's just Mother's Day.
It's not this person's birthday.
I I mean I don't I don't look at it like that. I don't look at things like that, man. You know, like on your birthday, Yeah. I want to make sure that I do something to accommodate you.
>> Yeah.
>> That's an actual special day, not a day that some random person deems as a holiday that you know, just because.
>> But see, like, all right. Like we we see how people ate for Christmas, right?
Like that's in celebration of Jesus.
Cool. Am I'm not important to you? Like you literally start shopping for him after with a Black Friday sale. Like so you a whole month out, two sometime two, three months. You already got all your Christmas shopping out the way. You knew my day was coming.
>> Mhm.
>> And all I got was a buffet. Like probably on some last minute shit. Like a a real a real mama that have sacrificed everything. I can see how she felt a way like damn bro like all of this I have done for y'all sacrifice after sacrifice and this is what I get your ass to kiss and a buffet like like I I don't I don't know like >> cuz on Father's Day I asked for the bare minimum to keep the disappointment at a on at a low. No, seriously, bro.
>> No, I feel you. Because let's say I did ask for something that's for real, like a $1,000 gift.
I'll be disappointed that you couldn't make that happen for me after everything I make happen for y'all. So that's why that's why a lot of dads, we accept the socks, the t-shirts, and the ties. And that's that's really to keep our disappointment down. But if if I really asked you what I was worth and you didn't come back with it, like that that probably will break a nigga. And I So I think the mama might feel the same way.
>> Well, I think it's it could also be a reflection of how she treated them kids growing up.
>> Uhoh. Uhoh.
Uhoh.
What if what if what if she was just a shitty parent and this is a reflection of that.
Like what you do to others, you don't actually see what they see and how it goes down.
>> Yeah.
>> In their eyes, you could be shitty and this is what all they got for you.
>> Yeah.
>> Cuz they don't they don't look at you as this great mom like you think you are because that that wasn't you. So it's always going to be different. You know what I'm saying? Until we get more context. God damn it.
>> See, I I think >> we ain't going to know. And I I I think we need like And see that's the problem, right? Cuz like when women be like, "Shit, all you do is work and you know, pay bills, but see, they don't understand like when you say work, what goes on at the job."
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. You You know what I'm saying? Like you not like you just hear work 8 to 12 hours and he come home. It's like you never he never did nothing because you never seen the process. You don't know >> the back bracing excruciating work.
>> So like when pitch day come up and that's an extra expense and your mama got to once again go see Mr. Charles and lay on her back so she can get on her feet. You want there while he you know she getting this dry ass shit pounded so you can have some fresh clothes.
>> So she thinking she's super mom. You thinking mama just gave me a gift. Thank you. But this ain't shit.
>> Oh yeah. Like sometimes you got to be able to challenge the play like, "Hey, throw a flag. Let's let me show you what really happened right here." And that's what kids don't really get to see. So we grow up, I think, unappreciative of goddamn me of what's really going on.
But I knew my mama >> probably should be doing that shit.
>> No, I knew my bro I swear to God I never forget cuz my mama I told her, "Mom, we got pitch day." She like, "Fuck." And bro, she was like, "Okay, I'mma get you something." Bro, she was gone that whole day after I told her that, bro. She come back that morning with a brand new outfit, BREATH SMELLING LIKE DICK.
>> OH SHIT. OH SHIT. OH SHIT.
>> But I was fresh as a motherfucker. But I understood, you know, even back then, like I understood I never kiss her again. But she was making sacrifices, bro.
She was making sacrifices. And that's why I don't I don't take my mama for granted, bro, cuz she was making shit happen.
>> No, man.
>> Yeah, it happened.
>> You can't You can't You can't do that though.
>> How come I can't?
>> No, I'm saying she can't do that.
>> She did it.
>> Oh, >> she did it.
>> Oh, >> she did it, dog. Oh, dog. Oh, no, dog.
No, dog.
>> So, hold on. So, >> okay. That ain't that ain't the sacrifice you need to make.
>> Okay. So, slim. So, slim. So, slim it.
So, would you All right. Let's say you needed some uh you needed senior dues, right?
Would you respect your mama more for going to go get it, how she got it, or would you or would you respect her more for not doing it and you going without?
>> NOT DOING IT.
>> NOT WHAT?
Don't do that.
>> DON'T DO THAT.
>> Don't do that.
>> Don't do that.
>> Fuck Fuck Fuck them senior dudes. Fuck all that shit. Don't do that, though.
Hell no.
>> See, I think I get that shit from my mama, man. I'm I'm going to make it happen, bro. Like, if I got to go take down some sugar mama's, you know, for the house, for the good of the house.
>> Oh, no.
>> Hey, it got to happen, bro.
I listen better hope this social media shit never go left cuz I got to go see Ruthie Ruth. Ruthie got checks man. Ruth write checks.
>> Oh man.
>> I got to go see Ruthie bro.
>> Oh my goodness. Ruthie sound like a dust ball.
>> Come on man. Dusty as hell. But she her pocketbook good bro.
>> You know Ruthie like 84.
>> Come on man.
Somebody >> with the granny with the granny panties, >> man. Hell no.
>> Somebody got to do it though, bro. But I don't know. But but honestly, man, I I really feel for this mama that I that she think that she put in the work and the kids don't know the value of it. Or they were just broke.
They were just broke.
>> It's one or the other. It's one or the other.
>> And I got to go see Robert. Make sure Robert got somewhere for you to stay forever. Forever. Forever. Forever.
Robert.
>> I'm talking to Sarah.
>> Oh, >> it's talking about she got to go see Robert.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You just So you just you just make sure Robert got some house for you now. All right. Shit.
All right. But so so whatever, man.
Shout out to the Mother's Day. Uh shout out to the mothers and mother's day. And the thing is, as shitty as Mother's Day was this year, I think that still tops the best Father's Day.
Like honestly, if you if we were to break down I give me Slim. Okay. Bam.
Here you go. Give me your your top five holidays, Slim.
>> Like that I enjoy.
>> Yeah.
or or or the the the top five holidays over like for everybody like okay we got Christmas number one right >> uh got Thanksgiving uh >> Easter damn Jesus got two holiday um >> Halloween >> Halloween and then we'll say Mother's Day or Mother's Day or what we go Valentine Mm-m.
>> Definitely not Valentine's Day. No. Hell no.
>> So, what's number >> uh Quanza?
>> Quanza is more celebrated than Mother's Day.
>> No. So, so Mother's Day number five, >> then we could go with Valentine's Day.
St. Patrick's Day go crazy now.
>> Junth. Cinco deio.
>> Junth. Cinco de Mayo.
Anything else?
Wait, you said Thanksgiving, right?
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Memorial's Day.
>> I think Memorial Day that's 10, right?
>> Oh, you saying Father's Day ain't on the >> Father's Day not even cracking the top 10.
>> Well, me personally, Mother's Day wouldn't be up there at all.
>> Mother's Day.
>> Mother's Day definitely used to make the mall go crazy like for at least the last >> as far as people going out and doing stuff.
>> Yes. Like, oh yeah, isn't >> Father's Day isn't up there yet.
>> And I ain't We forgot about Fourth of July.
>> Yeah. Fourth of July is going to be Fourth of July probably like cuz you know people they go out and they spend thousands of dollar thousands of dollars on fireworks.
>> Yeah.
>> And they get outfits and they get liquor.
>> I don't even think Father's Day is top 15.
So >> it's it's top 11. How I just Bro, I we just named 11.
>> No. Quanza Well, Junth ain't gonna be higher than Father's Day.
>> Junth. No, but you can replace that with with Fourth of July. And And it's still you >> you still looking at Father's Day number 12. We ain't say Labor Day, New Year's.
>> This now it's at number 13.
>> Um shit. Okay. So, yeah. Father's Day probably number 13, bro.
>> Yeah, it should definitely be top five.
Well, you know, people don't like to recognize fathers for what they do.
>> It's all about the recognition of the women.
>> Yeah. And that's cool. I ain't mad at that. But I just want them to know like y'all worse Mother's Day uh be a dad's best Father's Day.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Cuz our day we get shitted on.
Like Father's Day might as well be uh dead be dead at highlight day.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> We get we don't get nobody's shit on Father's Day.
>> Yeah, that's a fact. But whatever.
Whatever, man. Uh what it do, Magnetar Court? What's happening, my girl? A single baby mom even tried to fake I hate that shit, but whatever. All right.
>> Oh, yeah. Now that's that's disrespectful when they do that.
>> I hate that shit so bad. Now, this topic right here is this is crazy, right?
Because I I'm naturally like, well, I ain't going to say naturally. I I I speak in defense of the gays a lot, right? You know, we got Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. And and you know, I I don't got a problem if a nigga want to suck dick on his own time. That's that's >> But what I don't like is this new talking point coming at the straight fellas from the gay community. Now, Slim Slim don't play that gay shit at all.
Like on a scale from 1 to 10, he like a negative five. He don't play that.
>> Absolutely.
>> So when I heard this, I was like, "Oh, ho, whoa." Now, we might have to readjust. Let me readjust the scale cuz let's listen to what these people here had to say cuz this shit here was crazy.
I wish K was here for this.
>> Everywhere I look, it is gay black men.
Straight black men are the cancer of the black community. Argue with your man. I have been saying for years on this show that black men need to have a conversation. Black men alone. We have got to figure out what is going on with us. This is not something that black women can help us with. This conversation does not include >> who is us. Okay. Okay.
>> Who? Black women. Black women stand down and stand to the side. Black men need to have a kumbaya amongst theyelfel and I'mma niche this out a little more and it's heterosexual black men.
>> And what makes this conversation even more uncomfortable but necessary is this.
>> There is a conversation that needs to be had inhouse amongst the straight black male collective. Black women are excelling in so many different areas. They've mobilized. They got their sister thing.
They getting their degrees, getting theirelves together. And there is this this this, you know, super toxic masculine push to be alpha males and to be leaders and want to be a charge of everything. And and I say this with my whole chest. Want to be in charge of so much shit and want to be the head of the household and want you to to to respect them and not all brothers but many. The only thing they got on their damn resume is audacity.
>> That's it. ain't got shit else to offer the world but and audacity. We start talking about issues that maim the black community and and and and dead weight.
The numbers show it ain't the sisters.
>> They ain't going to like you saying that.
>> I don't give a damn. It ain't the sisters. It ain't the gay boys.
>> Yeah. Cuz that that's what that's >> It ain't us. It's it's not us.
>> Yeah.
>> The gay boys.
>> We ain't the ones selling dope. Mhm.
>> We ain't the ones in games.
>> We ain't the ones creating illegitimate children running around, you know, creating broken homes. We ain't the ones battering and beating the women. It's not us.
>> Some gay are men who have sex with men.
Black men frequently bash heteros.
>> Okay, listen.
Are straight men the cancer to the black uh community?
>> No. No. Because straight men I mean it goes back to what the conversation we just had. The women have the most powerful voice.
So this is a false narrative. Obviously as homosexuals really just trying to bash straight men, man. Like you can't speak on straight men. You not a part of this community. Don't talk about what straight men need to do. You voided yourself from the conversation. You actually a pariah. You wanted to be that. Stay the fuck over there. Keep your motherfucking mouth closed and worry about gay shit.
>> Don't be worried about what straight straight men got to do. You have no voice. You don't have nothing to do with this. And see, >> like actually you more of a cancer to the black community than anything because in all reality, if everybody just started BEING GAY, THERE WOULD be no black community. It wouldn't exist.
>> It wouldn't be no more kids.
>> It's just like humanity. If everybody became gay in a hundred years, there would not be a human race.
>> What are we talking about? Like, nigga, sit the fuck down. Worry about the gay flag. Worry about pride. Speak your shit in June. Speak it in. Don't but don't speak it near me. Stay the fuck away from me. Keep that straight. Get the fuck out of here. You don't have no business talking about what straight men got going on. Fuck you. Okay. So, listen. I'm I'm I'm I'm first of all, this this proves my point, right? And I've been saying this shit for a long time, and I now this this right here proves it. The black community is ran off of a matriarchy. Okay? That means women are in charge, >> not the men.
>> So if I am a gay man and I wanted to spewute his rhetoric, what would I go >> to my counterparts in the women who is top of the chain, top of the fucking food food line? And the reason why black women uh uh uh run the black community, first of all, because I've been saying this, black women are the new white men.
Y'all have the ear of the white man.
Okay. Who who got the other ear of the white man? The LGBTV community. Okay.
And do you know why? Because they are, hey, push this agenda. Let's get the black man. Let's beat them down. I need your help. Black women. I need your help. Black me or gay people.
And so now you have a a a a a attack on black men who are masculine. And then I see the stats, right?
>> Who who who who the one selling that dope to the community? Of course. Of course it's straight men, right? Then you say, who who the one who attacking people and creating gangs? Of course it's straight man. Yeah. Yeah. Of course. Who leading the aid community?
Who the ones with the AIDS? That's the black people. So you mean to tell me black people giving other black people AIDS is is worse than some fights?
is worse than an argument. I I Huh.
Like, it's easy to highlight y'all our issues without highlighting y'alls.
Oh, well, black women got their degrees.
Well, how does it translate?
>> Oh shit. Oh shit.
>> Did your kids get any smarter? Or were you at school when you should have been home teaching them what not to do so the kids can't be in gangs?
Uhoh.
>> Was you at home? Was you getting your degree or was you at home with the kids pushing your husband's ideology on the kids so they could become better people?
So yes, black women, it is a matriarchy.
But just like I said last week, y'all traded us out for no fucking reason.
Nobody benefit benefited when women went to work. Nobody.
Nobody but y'all.
And that was selfish. The government.
Yes. Because now y'all pay taxes to them.
>> The government.
>> Cuz now y'all pay taxes to them. But but the kids, I keep telling y'all, the women >> y'all was in y'all was literally responsible for the first uh uh for your child's health. Right. The kitchen is the first fucking hospital.
>> What what what they eat now?
What they eat now?
Everything they eating is bullshit now and you don't even be knowing. So now your kid sick, you can't help them cuz why? You wanted to get a piece of paper so you could be one degree hotter.
Post your little Facebook status.
See, gay gay men, bro, you can't you you can't really take them serious, bro, because they align yourself with women.
But >> y >> just like any man because they are still men that the sooner y'all get rid of us when y'all turn around they coming for y'all shit. Women don't they coming for y'all shit. They just want to get the protection of y'all and for y'all out of the way. And that's us straight men.
>> Yeah. That's what transgenders did.
>> Come on, man. They know it. soon as they got soon as they got the support, they started invading it on women telling telling women how they should feel.
>> Come on, bro. And and then like, bro, you know, it was a it was a little movement going on where we was, hey, cuz you you gay nigga, you ain't f to touch her, >> but at the same But with the same mouth, y'all was the one that empowered the gay men. Yes. Yes.
>> But now when they trying to beat our ass cuz they feel like we out the way, who do you call? a another gay man or a straight man.
>> Yep. I've been seen gay men attack women on camera.
>> Like so what he said but but also I want to address somebody.
>> Uh Es River said we didn't acknowledge uh we avoided what what he was saying. So let's go have a conversation.
>> Okay. When you start talking about gangs and you start talking about dope dealers, I think they all look pretty much the same in prison and they all involved in some way being gay.
>> Yeah.
>> So I think that's who they were. They might have been cosplaying as a straight man, but ultimately I think when dudes go to jail that show their true colors.
So these were gay men to begin with. We don't know that, but that's who they are. They're homosexual men. I don't believe in just because you go to jail or go to prison that that changes who you are. No, you're not going to be with no man. No matter what, under no circumstances, you're not going to let your sexuality rule over you so much where you lose your morality. This is just who you are.
>> And so, so this what I do like about white women, right? anytime when it come to white women and and we talked about all the fucked up shit white white men did. You know what white women do? They shut the fuck up. You know why? Because they benefited from the bullshit that the white man was doing. Every time you seen a nigga in the fucking gang and do you know why he was in the fucking gang?
Do you know? Let's go back to the original gang. D >> for protection.
>> Protecting the hood. Who do you who do you think they was protecting the most?
>> Women and children.
>> Come on.
>> From the police.
>> Okay.
>> From the police.
>> From the >> From the So when niggas was selling dope, where do you think the the majority of this money was going?
Now that >> No, I can I can say that >> it could it could it could go it could some of it could go back to the hood and then some of it >> was going to the malls and you know >> No, no, no, no. Some of it was >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It was It was definitely going to the uh to the malls.
But see, let's break Let's break it down.
>> To the women. It's going to the women.
>> It's going to the women. Okay. Listen.
Let me go to the mall. Let me get a fresh fix so I can impress who?
>> Not another man. you. Hey, when when the PPP came and the scammers epidemic popped off, who was the straight man giving the fucking money to who didn't seem to have a fucking problem with it at all?
>> Women.
>> To the women.
>> Mhm.
>> SO, SO, SO THIS IS WHAT I SAY I LIKE about the white woman, right? Because they knew white men was on bullshit. And now that white men have been called out for the bullshit, you know what the white women got to say? Nothing. You know why? cuz they was benefiting from it. So >> they dodging they offer to cut.
>> So So now, hey, let let's call out all the bullshit that the black man was doing. But let let's tell why we was doing it.
Cuz y'all heard men say time and time and time and time again. If women would make nerds cool, guess what niggas will start doing? Reading fucking books, being a fucking nerd.
>> Watching Star Wars.
>> Come on, man. So listen, bro. Y'all >> Harry Potter, >> y'all can't put put all this on us now.
Like black women, everything that we did for y'all, I mean, everything that we did, trust me, y'all benefit off of it.
How many women open up boutiques with dope money? Uh with beauty shops with dope money.
>> OH SHIT.
>> STAY STAY WITH ME NOW. You you a soul entrepreneur. You started YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS OFF OF WHO? MONEY?
YEP. And a lot of them businesses don't last because they once old boy go to jail, the business done.
>> Yeah. Now, now he say >> take it.
>> So I I know on the way Shay she going to come with some bullshit. Right. Uh so so let let me go back and read some of her uh comments. We didn't empower a gay man. They wanted to be women. 2K you're full of it. Shout in the power what?
>> Oh yeah, she lying.
She lying.
>> Who y'all besties be?
>> Yeah.
When when the when the men started wearing wigs on Instagram uh and and doing all the uh all the fake comedy and all that shit, like women the women was the ones supporting it. It was men. I was like, "Yo, this ain't that funny.
Them nigga just got on a wig.
>> I never asked for it. But you you never said you never you never turned it down.
>> You never denied it.
Never deny.
>> That's just as bad.
You knew better. Still took it. Uh, okay. But yeah, man. So, that that that's what it is. I I'm I'm I'm actually looking for a gay dude who I can have this conversation with. And I knew some before I brought him on show and y'all threw the nigga away. Uh, Anton, you you weren't here, Slim. I don't think you was there for the episode.
>> I was there. Seen it though. But I definitely want to have a conversation with like uh a gay man. So if y'all know one, y'all know me. I'm cool with him.
Um real respectable. I I just want to understand this thinking, right? Like cuz you still a man, bro. You just suck dick. It don't make you like you don't do like you said suck dick cuz like you I think you you might be worse to the community than us.
>> I do I do agree with that. Um, but I also think that some of some of those seem like they was AI videos.
>> So, this could just be somebody trying to form a narrative.
>> Now, this ain't this ain't AI.
>> This this this topic been been running around cuz it >> Good lord.
>> Yeah. That's sick.
>> Yeah. Ask and accepting when offer are two different things. I'm still waiting uh for the KKK interview. 2K. Me too, bro. I I still want to do that. I still want to interview a KKK member. I think that'll be a dope conversation. Super dope. Why do uh >> Oh, yeah. That's going to be >> Why do gay men cosplay as black women?
This what I This what I hate about studs. This is what I hate about gay men. All right. the most because when they choose to cosplay as women, they always choose to cosplay as the worst version of women. When stuns cosplay as men, they always choose to cosplay as the worst version of men.
I've never seen a woman transition into a man that's a handy man that's that's that that's that's presentable in a community that wear suits. Yeah.
>> You know, every time they transition, what the fuck they turn into?
>> A thug.
>> Sagging they pants. Yeah.
>> A thug.
>> Sagging.
>> They tell me two things, bro.
>> That let me know that her as a woman, she seen that's what the woman want.
She's a woman and she know what women want.
>> So when she turned into a man, in order to get the women that she want, she turn into the women the man that the woman want, which is the THUG NIGGA. OH SHIT.
OH SHIT. Oh shit.
>> And so that's that's the reason why when when when when men transition into women like he got to go find somebody else cuz like we we Bro, it's enough ratchet chicks out here. Like I'm not looking for that.
So like, hey man, >> just shows the truth. Yeah, that that's a good point. I didn't even think about that.
And then they be the Great Value version like the uh like >> Yeah.
>> All the zippers on their jeans and the button down shirts, >> man. Get your ugly dressing ass on up out of here, man. Like >> be terrible though, man.
>> Okay, man. But let's get on to this other white topic. We the held black men to the fire. It's time to hold black women to the fire right now. All right.
And a white woman going to do it.
But before we can do that, let me get into the super chat. Shout out to my dog Magnetar uh for the $5 super chat. Um for clarification, there are no uh referring to regular government workers who apply on USA jobs. Feds we up snitching. Holla.
Shout out to my nigga uh Mac for find out. Super chat. This is crazy. Lucky just showed a video detailing how download um I guess less I guess de how download lesbians also try to attack straight black men. Oh download lesbians also try to attack straight men uh straight men. Straight black men look like another agenda against straight black men. Well I mean yeah we used to it bro. We've been on our own for a while now.
>> Yeah they turned to a third lumberjack.
All right, so let's get into it, man.
It's time to hold the mirror up. Time to hold the mirror up. So, >> uhoh, >> I really didn't like this because of the messenger, but I think that's what made the video what the video is because the only way Okay, Slim, what do you think about yourself? Like, if I can ask you four things, do you think Slim is charismatic?
>> Yes. Do you think Slim is a gay per me?
Excuse me. A good person.
>> Yeah, I'm a good person.
>> Yeah. Yeah, a good person.
>> Yeah, I used the wrong gay word. All right. Do you >> Okay. Do you think Slim have great morals?
>> Oh, yeah. Absolutely.
>> Okay. So, you see how Slim think about himself, right? But if you were to ask anybody else, they be like, "Is Slim a good person?" Fuck no. Do Slim have morals? Fuck no, dude. Do fuck no.
Because really in general, what you think about yourself really don't matter because everybody else observation of you does.
>> Oh shit. Oh shit.
>> So I need y'all to keep that in mind, black women, when you hear this because of course you think you are outstanding, strong, independent entrepreneur. You got it together. Woot woo woo woo. But you also have to understand that that don't matter because it's how the world see you.
So let's get a a observation from somebody other than yourself and let's see how the world view you being a teacher in a an inner city school and I'd have one or two mothers two or three times a week sometimes every day coming in 30 minutes late with their bonnets and their pajamas and their footies bringing their kid in stopping my class 30 minutes late every day and then getting coping attitude with me when I would say you need to bring your child on time. We have a situation where in the black community, unfortunately, there is a lack of father and parental father strong figures in the home. And so, you're seeing a lot of uh behavior because of that outcrop of that. And instead of like blaming Whitey or blaming slavery or whatever the things that are going to be blamed on this panel, I'm 100% sure. Instead of blaming Whitey, why not take a look at the behavior that's going on in with some members of the black community and have a come to Jesus with them about it.
I think instead of being defensive about you literally just insulted Yolanda and said this is how she walk around in the world.
>> She's the I'm not worried about her.
She's the exception. Instead of being offended, instead of being offended, instead of being offended by saying that this might be a problem with certain black people, why not have a have a conversation in the black community?
>> Okay, so black women, what I seen on that panel was a bunch of black women getting mad when you hold up the mirror to them.
You know what I'm saying? Y'all y'all have heard this critique from black men.
Y'all just now heard it from a white woman. So, is it more offensive hearing it or is it more offensive because you think that it isn't true?
I would love to hear y'all takes on this because I hate to say it like she ain't lying.
>> Nope. She ain't lying.
>> Nope.
>> So, what what what do you think about this, Li?
>> Uh, she told the truth, but you know, it's going to always be uh she's the wrong messenger. But I think at some point, man, you got to hear from somebody outside.
>> Yeah.
>> From the outside looking in when you got so many problems. See, but we we didn't we didn't I I I think like and I ain't got to tell you how much I love fucking black women. Fuck it. If you don't know by now, you just don't want to know.
I think that black women have went unexamined.
Like, >> fuck the white woman telling you that shit. We been saying it as black men.
But you know what? We've been getting caught off for saying it. We sassy.
>> Mhm. So you hear from them, you hear from us.
When does it resonate? Like, hey, maybe we we we we we kind of dropping the ball or or or or are we the problem?
No. I say it all the time. You can't hold women accountable.
>> You can't hold women accountable at all.
Now, in this situation, you absolutely can't hold black women accountable.
Black women had the loudest voice on the planet.
Period.
>> Yeah.
>> Like, because and they use the black woman for the reason that we just had the last conversation to downplay the black man, to disregard the black man, to tear down the black man. That's why they've been given the loudest voice on the planet.
>> Yeah. Because if a black woman feels a certain type of way, she can express it and everybody will feel sympathy. Unless she's pretty much saying she don't want to she don't want to be accountable. Shit. She don't want to have her kids.
>> She don't want to take care of her kids.
She tired of being a mom. That's the only time you really hear real push back for a black woman. Anything else, it doesn't matter what she says.
everybody gonna have sympathy for. So this is the opposite when somebody's telling you, "Hey, things don't seem right on your end and they don't want to accept it."
>> Okay. Okay. That call back, CJ. Uh, right out of get through. Okay. So, this is the problem. Okay. So, basically, y'all some dumbies on a stick. No. No.
See, that ain't what we saying. See, hold on. So, so listen. And so, this is what happens, right? When you get criticism, y'all start to attack us because we are voicing the criticism of y'all. I'mma tell you what that do.
Because we don't want y'all to look at it like, "Hey, we we we we jumping on y'all. We dog paling y'all. We telling y'all so we can get this corrected." But when we tell y'all, and this the reason why a lot of people just let y'all do what the fuck y'all do now, is because it's met with with, "Oh, y you hate black women." Moo. Okay. So, go destroy yourself. Okay. Keep doing it. So, now black men have let this shit get out of fucking hands so bad that now white women feel like they have to speak up and say something.
>> No.
>> Right. So, let's let's let's idolize how well let's let's analyze how black women are looking at it. She speak uh she not speaking about me, but she is. Right.
Because if you are let because just like if if my homeboy dead beat, I should check him, right?
>> Y >> if you see women out here doing what she's saying, why why not check them? So now you being selfish and now you doing your sisters audition service me a disservice. So Remington, others should not be speaking on black issues. Well, she's in a school with black kids. Are you advocating for segregation because you don't want to teach your kids how to act?
But if white people were to be like, you know what, I don't want my kids around them black people because they don't know how to act. The mamas don't listen and they above reproach. Now they're racist.
>> You would say you're racist. Yeah. You say that.
>> Okay. That's wrong. Let's keep I'm just pointing out the the the bullshit flaw in what y'all saying, Miss River. Shit don't apply to me. Once again, me me.
A injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.
Okay? If you letting it go on, it's just a matter of time before it's everybody.
Shit don't apply to me. I'm aware of how I show up. I wouldn't dare show up where like that. I agree. Okay. You right. But as your sisters, because obviously black men can't police y'all because we shouldn't be speaking about black women, but you can.
Can you help us, Miss River?
Regina, it's not all of us. So, that goes to show you how small a number how a small number of black women uh tarnish our character. I agree.
Uh so, basically, y'all calling us a dummy on a stick. No, we not. But when we critique, that's what we met with.
And we not here to offend. Hello.
>> What's good 2K? What's the deal, man?
>> What's good, bro?
>> What's good, Slim?
So, >> man, this some bullshit. So, what the what the women do? Black women do. It's a manipulation tactic, man. You can't talk about women if you're not a woman.
You can't talk. They got us so in the trick bag. You can't talk about shit in public. You can't talk about shit in private. They don't want to hear that shit in private either. They going to still be offended in private. They're going to snap out. They don't want correction at all. They don't give a fuck about being corrected. They don't care who's saying it. They'll find a way out of that shit. If it's the man saying it, you sassy. If it's another woman saying it, they pick me. If it's a white woman saying it, they're racist. It's a white man saying it, they racist. They have no You can't They can't lose.
>> They can't lose.
>> Okay. All right.
>> That's what it is, man. And have me on the show next time, man. Drop me the link, bro. You know I'm going to be up there quick.
>> I ain't know if you had to work today, bro. I show would have dropped it to you, CJ.
>> I don't never GOT TO WORK, BROTHER. I GOT Q2K. Your shit on fire, nigga. Turn on the AC. All right. All right.
>> All right. Turn on the AC, man. I got you, my boy.
>> All right.
>> Okay. So, listen. All right.
>> That's the troll king.
>> That's my nigga CJ. That nigga crazy.
>> Yeah, that nigga a troll.
>> But listen, bro. So, so, so women, I promise you it is important.
I I I understand the confidence that you guys have to, you know, I understand that the challenges of being a black woman, but you also have to understand and evaluate how the rest of the world see you as well. Just like when I ask Slim them questions, what Slim think about almost don't fucking matter because guess what? He has to show up in the world. It matters.
It matters. So, I understand how you feel about yourself and you and you should, but the world sees y'all in a different light and I think that that should be also integrated in how you see yourself.
>> I see the same shit in the white community. Abs fuckingutely. My daughter went to various diverse communities, but uh the kids uh in the military, but most of the kids were in the military. Those other mothers was no better. I fucking agree with you as well.
>> I agree. Absolutely.
>> Um, everyone has flaws despite race. Okay.
Not giving black women a pass. However, just don't tailor it to black women. No.
So, this right here was this was a teacher telling her experience of the black people and the black students at her school. All right. I'm not tailoring.
>> And they weren't accepting it. Yeah. I'm not a tailoring to her, but that's her experience.
>> And just just strangely put, that's kind of our experience, too.
>> So, at some point, you got to ask, is this the experience?
>> The The problem The problem with it is is is not so much that we only looking at black women. The problem is the black women's reaction in real time. Like it was the one lady, she trying not to laugh. The other lady, she just she fidgety. She ain't like nothing that that white lady was saying. You could tell the one on the on the far left, she wasn't fucking with it. It's just like at some point everybody can't be wrong.
Everybody can't be wrong.
And you got to you you got to accept some some type of criticism. I mean, I don't I don't understand how you always how everybody is just telling you misinformation or they just trying to label you. At some point, you got to look at yourself.
And it ain't every woman. You got to look in the mirror and say, "Damn, I'm in a fucked up position. I couldn't keep my legs closed. There ain't no man around. Every man around just want to fuck me. My kids, I got to do what I got to do. and my kids are just out in the street. At some point, you got to look at yourself and say, "This is not the way I'm supposed to be living."
>> Yeah. And and bro, and because like we so protective of like of the black women that like when we say shit like that, we we be super apologetic like cuz it sound wrong even having to say it. It's kind of like the the daughters mean the the sons who have to whoop their daughters. You know what I'm saying? You you trying to re like tell them hey I love you but did I got to do this cuz you was wrong and like it's the ridicule bro like it's it's so hard like it kind of like you walking on eggshell spaces what's the word bro >> yo what's good what's good my guy what's good >> what's the word like >> what up >> all right so real quick um basically what TJ was saying I was gonna send the super chat but I'm I'm super busy at work when it comes to women and black women in particular The issue is no person is the right person to tell them about themselves.
>> No person is the right person to tell them about themselves when it comes to holding them accountable for what it is that they say, what it is that they do.
If you're not saying what it is that people in general, but specifically women want to hear, then you are not the right person to be talking to them.
Period.
And then like when you you were saying somebody said something in the in the chat about like don't tailor it to only black women. That's the that's part of the problem right there because we can't talk about black people. We can't talk about you know men. We can't talk about women. We can't talk about anything when it comes to specifically pointing out the behavior patterns of black people. We are black people.
Why can't we talk about our people? Why can't we have these conversations? We should have these conversations because it's all in attempt and this is what 2K was saying. It's all in attempt to correct the behavior.
>> Yeah.
>> Because this small minority of women who are out in these schools not having a bra on and a nipple val uh bonnets, robes, uh shorts with the cheeks hanging out, going up to these schools, which that's a whole different conversation.
They the real perverts, but they are the loud much loud minority.
>> They are a loud minority. the the representation is of the worst. Every every you know group is represented by the worst of them.
>> Yeah.
>> That's behavior that you're just trying to correct and get it over with because we've been having these conversations for hundreds of years.
>> Yeah. I mean, and you you can just listen to the conversation too. Like they not saying that we dumb. They not saying that we ignorant. They not saying that we lazy. They saying that we are misbehaved. And if we can't look at behavior on a universal scale and tell that we are misbehaved, then I don't know what what type I don't know what type do we tell be telling ourselves a lie at that point.
>> I mean, like check out the kids that's doing a teen takeovers. The kids that's um ram running into these u I was about to say garbage cans. Uh these uh convenience stores and gas stations, ransacking it out here on on the uh the Magnificent Mile. It's black kids that's doing it.
Yeah. Well, all right. Spaces, you know, they can only handle you with doses, bro.
>> All right.
>> Okay. So, um, shout out to my nigga Spaces. Uh, Princess Sophia. What do Sophia? She said, "How y'all, um, how y'all protective of black women when y'all abandoned them around creating broken homes?"
>> Oh shit.
>> You know, hey, at some point we have to build on the issues. We We passed that.
We We done figured that out.
We done figure a lot of that right there. What you spewing is the lie.
Is the lie.
So it's not as many broken homes as you think it is. That's the lie.
Also, you can't just say men are are creating broken homes when it takes two to break the house up.
>> Yeah.
like the man might get pushed away by the woman, you know? So, it it it can't just be one way.
>> It's multiple ways.
>> That's not what I said, too. That's what I read. I read what you said. How y'all protective of the black woman when y'all abandoned them going around creating broken homes?
And I said, "That's the lie."
Li, bro, I guarantee you right now.
You read it wrong. No, I read it right.
>> Yeah, you read that right, >> bro. Hey, this what you do next, Sophia.
Next time you go to a PTA meeting, look at the black daddies who's there in comparison to everybody else. Next time you go to a park, look at the black daddies compared to who's there versus everybody else. I promise you, I used to see this shit in my hometown. my hometown fucked up. I used to see daddies showing up and then I was reading oh black men that they be leaving they like the fuck we don't like this shit a lie. And so I I come to Texas new perspective every time I go somewhere a PTA meeting donuts for dad father dad. It's nothing but black dad bro. I go to the park nothing but black dads. I said fuck that stat. I don't care what that stat say. That's a fucking lie.
>> Yeah, it's a myth.
>> It's a lie. I'm >> It's created It's created It's created to diminish what the black father is.
So, if you automatically in your mind, if you automatically think that, yo, black men are dead beats and you you're going to place that stigma on them and you're only going to see them one way.
So, it's easy to just put everything on the man when most of the time when the man is in the house, ain't shit wrong with the house. Unless he just fucked up. He a drug addict. He a drunk.
That's when you know the man being in the house is somewhat problematic.
>> Get his ass out of there.
>> Most times. Yeah. But most times n when that man is in the house, the house is a functioning welloing welloiled machine.
>> But I I will say the house standing on something. Um now I seen fucked up two parent households. Like let's not act like that shit exist. But like the >> the house stand for something, right?
It's a structure. It just matter what it's structured about. Majority of the time it be right shit. It be the good shit, right? But the majority of the time, but with the minority, you will see fucked up situations either or woot woo woo woo. We got to do better. Black black people, >> women, black men, we got to do better, bro. This white woman ain't sitting here fucking lying. We are very we unbecoming when when it comes to behavior.
>> Yep.
>> Very, bro. Black men, black women, very unbecoming when it comes to behavior.
And if you don't, if you need a motherfucking a visual reference of what I'm saying, go to a baddies try out that'll let you know everything you need. There's a line over 300 women who here to fight to come on a show to fight.
I'm not saying that it's not good entertainment, but I'm saying like, come on, G. We we we need to we need to work on our behavior, bro. Let's just call it what it is. We need to work on our behavior.
>> That's a fact.
>> But why is that, 2K? Because we we have to represent oursel in the world better.
That's why we need >> if we going to fight, we need to fight in backyards. But hey, put the phone down. Stop putting this shit online. But we need to Hey, we need to represent ourselves better. We be fighting all at the airport buns on not giving a fuck.
Come on cuz we got to do better. That just what it is. Most time fathers are the uh most time fathers are but the parents are in different homes. Try to stay together for the child. I never disagree with that. Not ever.
But anyhow, cuz let's let's go back to the man. All right. It's time to hold lot of feedback to the fire for the last topic. Normalizing. No uh no normalizing. Okay. Um I don't know how I feel about this. I feel like this a part of the game. I feel like we got to play the game. But this guy right here say what we've been doing, what we've been taught to do is wrong. He said it's down there sexual assault. And just because we normalize it don't mean that we should do it. So let's hear him out.
said, "Men are socialized to sexually assault and objectify women. Y'all niggas play dumb. Still playing dumb."
So, I got part two, more examples, right? Let's talk about young niggas early on in life. It's this term, let me put the head in. We talked about this on the podcast, right? Let me put the tip in. Right? This is a situation where a young man typically a young woman, the young woman has already denied the young man of she don't want to have sex.
Boundary set. He's trying to pressure her into a compromise. Damn, just let me put the head in. I'm just saying like, man, let me get just get it wet a little bit woo woo after she already said no.
There's a legal term for this.
Pressuring somebody into having sex after already being denied. Right now, another example, fingering, young people, again, she doesn't want to have sex. If she did, y'all will be having sex, but she don't want to do it. So a boy might pressure her into a compromise of let me just figure in his mind this is getting him closer to the result that he wants. Now you might be listening to like damn this nigga tripping like that shit not a big deal. This normal shit people people do shit all the time.
Nobody ever tripped over this. And to you I say you are 1,000% correct. This shit is completely normal. It's common and it's not a big deal. But just because something is normal does not make it okay. So I ask you if you have a daughter and she's 14, 15 years old, freshman, sophomore in high school, and you find out if she spent some time with a young man, she told the young man, "Clear boundaries. She don't want to have sex." And he pressured her into doing it anyway. How would you feel about it? Right? So that's where the conflict really lies is that you might be okay with doing it, but to the women that you see as a whole person, as a whole human, you're not okay with it happening to them. All right. Now, a lot of y'all niggas are fighting me on this really hard. And I know the reason that you're fight you're not really fighting me. You're fighting for your identity because you know if if you accept that these behaviors I'm naming are indeed objectification and sexual assault. Now you have to look at it look at yourself different. This is the thing. I'm not faulting you because you can't blame anybody for their socialization. That's like somebody blaming you for believing in a religion that your parents taught you to believe in. These are things that was taught and pressed upon you at an early age. The problem is once you see a flaw in that socialization, you should stop the behavior. Last thing, this concept of wearing women down until they say yes is not just normalized. It's romanticized and glorified in media in our culture. This idea of a man just yearning so bad, he wanted it so bad, she done told him no all these times and she finally tell him yes and he happy about it.
>> Well, you know, I've asked you out a thousand times and you have said no a thousand times. I am beginning to notice an alarming trend.
>> Get a clue, Steve. Give it up.
>> I shall never give up, bubbling brown sugar.
>> I'm wearing you down, baby.
>> I'm wearing you down.
>> Okay. So, do you think that we should normalize this, bro? Uh uh. This nigga tripping.
>> He pandering for pussy.
>> Okay.
>> This is all they do. All they do is pander. Pander. Pander. Pounder.
Pounder. Every situation he brought up was an extremity. And on top of that, I'mma be honest that, let me put the head in isn't because she said no. It's because he was trying to get shit cracking earlier. Like who I Nobody I don't know. Maybe >> let Let me put the head in.
>> I don't I I don't >> It's the game, bro.
>> Man, so if a woman say no, I it's no.
Let Let me get that straight right now.
If a woman tells me no, it's no. Like I'm not I'm not >> But what but but what if she what if she say what what if she say no?
>> You know that don't NEED >> THAT. COME ON THOUGH. THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING DOG.
>> YOU KNOW that don't >> that's the game, right?
>> Because there's a moan in there.
>> Yeah.
>> Because she she's already around, >> right?
>> Like if she said no if it was a hard no.
Like no I don't feel like totally different scenario. cut it.
>> But when when when she's actually in the moment, you know, when a woman is really it's almost like a game of cat and mouse.
>> It is.
>> I'm I'm ready. I'm ready, but I'm still stalling out because I I just I'm getting more aroused by the >> the chase >> by the uh the by the by the foreplay.
I'm enjoying the foreplay.
We about to get it popping, but let me just play around a little bit more to see how much you really want it.
>> Yeah. And see that >> that's just how I feel.
>> That's why his conversation is disingenuous, right? cuz it's the game.
>> It's she her trying to preserve her act and you know not come off like a hoe, >> but she want to fuck just as bad as you do. She don't want you to stop just as much as you don't want to stop, >> right? She could have gave me the hard no and I would have chilled.
>> But she she kept on. You know what I'm saying? Cuz this what she really wanted.
But she's just trying to preserve her image. Now, how many of us would get cheeks if we stopped at the first no?
A lot of cheeks want to get clapped.
That's just what it is. And I understand the game. Like, hey, she you want me to POUNCE ON IT. I'M NOT This ain't taking it by far.
>> She just want to see, hey, nigga, how bad you want it, nigga? Like, I'm trying to She gonna dangle it in front of you.
That what that what women do. And men, us being men, we we try to get the meat.
then we going to bite at it.
>> I >> this shit in I don't like when niggas try to change their beliefs because they have a daughter.
>> Yeah.
>> Like no no no no no. If you thought what you was doing was right the whole time, don't change because you have a daughter now.
>> No.
>> Yeah.
>> No. That mean you knew you've been doing wrong. I'mma keep doing what I was doing because I I don't think nothing wrong with it. And that's just what it is. If you thought hitting women was right before you had a daughter, keep doing it. That ain't going to stop her from getting her ass hit.
Although I'm not I wouldn't advocate for that, but I'm just saying >> I I don't I don't condone it.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Hard resets though. D.
>> But yeah. And then he ended with a a a goddamn Steve clip.
He fucked.
>> Oh shit.
Her man Stefan, we don't talk about the type of ho Laura was. Fuck, fuck fuck fucking two different friends, nigga.
She fuck.
>> Hey, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Steve Urggo NEVER HIT >> STEVE GOT THE PUSSY.
>> WHAT?
>> She married Steve, >> not Stefan.
>> We don't talk about the We don't talk about the type of ho Laura Winslow really was. She fucked the same nigga twice.
>> Wow. Ernov and Lucy married Steve.
>> Yeah, if if I'm not mistaken, she married Steve. Yes, they went to Disney World and everything, bro.
>> Wow.
>> Stefan fuck >> Laura Steve. Yeah, come on. Stefan down smacked on.
>> Oh shit. Oh shit. Oh shit. Oh shit.
Stefan D. Smack fresh out the machine, my nigga.
>> Laura had a one night stand with with Stefan.
>> No, no, she ain't have she she ready.
>> If it weren't for Carl Hay, he probably could have smacked one third day cuz no kids.
>> Yeah. So, um I I don't like what he was talking about on that one, man. That's not sexual assault. No. No means no, but no with more than three O's don't mean no.
If you holding no please better clean it up.
90% of women tell men no then ask me why did I stop. No big facts. CJ.
>> OH SHIT. Oh shit.
>> Big facts.
Big facts.
Uh after she got ran through by all the popular high school boys, she finally settled for her Russell. No. Damn.
That's crazy.
That's crazy. Damn.
>> Okay, so women they be dragging Russell Russell Wilson Russell, man. Got it out the field for Russell.
>> Hey, but I told you how I feel about Russell cuz like uh no more Future slander ever. And I mean that, bro. If if we if we praising Russell for being a stepdaddy, we got to give Future that same accolade.
>> Tell that he got 30 girls. Future is the the father to 30 women.
Is that not a stepdaddy?
>> Oh wow.
>> Nig niggas want to be surface level, bro. Future he he took these women to Chanel. G got all of them a bag. Nigga want to brag cuz Future took me cuz Russell took little Future to a free uh college tour of Texas.
Oh wow. He ain't buy 30 bag from Chanel.
I'm not with that old. Huh?
Little Future that old?
>> Yeah. Well, I don't Yeah, he he ain't that old. I don't even think he a like teenager yet.
>> Like, so >> yeah, I was about to say what it say going to a college campus for.
>> That's what I'm saying. Like, he was just goofy. Like, what else that moving goofy, bro?
Like, >> why are they at a college campus and that that >> Wait, that kid still in grade school.
>> Send that little nigga to the trap, bro.
Get him a Oz.
Send him to the >> No, no.
He ready.
>> Hey, send that little nigga to the trap, man. Hey, get him in the studio.
>> Hey, >> no. Don't Don't Hey, keep him as far away from all that shit as possible.
Don't do none of that shit.
>> Hey, >> hell no.
>> You You're right, though. Cuz cuz Future uh Future did say he turned 27. He he went he turned back to 27. So we we we we in good hands for another two decades.
>> Oh Lord.
>> Yeah.
>> He's 12. It's never too early to think about college.
Sure.
>> He gonna Yeah. Sure. Okay.
>> Yeah. He's going to remember his experience. Yeah. He, this dude, this dude is exposed to so much and that most kids can't can't even get in touch with. He's not going to remember that college experience more than most of the things that he everything else he's going to experience.
>> Now, did he play football?
>> The little nigga play football? Uh, Little Future play football. Oh, he Yeah, >> play football.
>> Wait, so how does that work? Does Future go to the games with Russell there?
>> I told you he got 30 steps, bro. He can't be at the games.
This is wild, man. Hey. Yeah. Yeah. I can't do that.
>> Can't be at the game, bro. He got 30 step cheers, bro. When he out, he got to take him out shopping.
>> He can't be there.
>> What?
>> Yes, bro.
What's the difference, bro? If Future got 30 women that had no fathers and he or their father in their life, what's the difference between him and Russell?
Well, you don't sleep with your daughters. Hope hopefully you get over.
>> Hey, but that just Hey, that's what they got going on. Maybe they Targaryenss. I don't fucking know.
>> I don't know. But see, there still he's still doing what 30 daddies didn't do.
He raising kids. He raising children.
So, yeah.
>> Yeah. Don't be the Targaryenss ever.
Hey, first off, you gonna end up dead.
Hey, >> you gonna end up dead.
>> How long did Targaryenss run the world, though?
Oh, a long time.
>> Come on now.
>> They was at it for a while.
>> Did you say Targaryenss? Targaryenss. I said it.
>> Yeah. Absolutely. Targaryen are Oh, man.
>> I can definitely see Future being a Targaryen though. Like, let's be honest.
>> Absolutely.
>> Absolutely.
>> He definitely would have had a dragon, bro.
>> Absolutely.
>> That's a fact.
>> Sensational.
>> Sensational.
Future definitely was a Targaryen dog.
Russell, he would have been a uh probably would have been a Stark.
>> Nah, no, don't put that on the Starks.
The Starks was dog.
>> The Starks was dogs.
>> What What family he would have been in, bro?
>> He would have had to been uh >> on the niggas at C.
>> Uh the dude Yeah. Yeah. The dude the dude that uh got his joint topped off.
the weakest one that didn't do nothing until the very end. He ain't he ain't even protect his sister.
>> Oh yeah. Yeah. I know what you talking about. Oh, damn. Okay. What? What?
>> I forgot their name.
>> What up? Oh, how you >> how you feeling about the last season of The Boys, bro.
>> Oh, I was watching it before I fell asleep this morning, man. Um >> is cool.
>> It's it's it's getting there. It's getting there, but it's it's it's still mid to >> you. The boys. Did you watch it from the first episode?
>> Yeah, this season. I'm talking about this season. No, not the whole series.
No, no, no. This season.
>> Okay. Well, you know, they put the last episode in theaters, I think.
>> Oh, they gonna do with um Oh, I'll go see that. Yeah, that's what I did with um with uh um Stranger Things. Yeah, I watched the finale and >> I ain't watch I got this. I told you I think I told you this. I have a problem with watching the last episode of shows.
Like I just now >> disappointment.
>> Not the disappointment. It's like I don't want it to go away.
>> Like I I had a problem with saying goodbye to something that was around for so long. Like um it took me so long to watch the last uh episode of Insecure. Do you ever watch Insecure?
But um that's what uh is >> Yeah. Well, is Ray?
>> No, I didn't watch um I watched the first show.
>> You have to watch that. That's a great show.
>> Like I like how raw she was. That bro, that's a great show. But that's probably >> she was she she was a hoe.
>> Well, she was a woman, right? I think she gave >> No, no, she was a hoe.
>> I don't think she was a whore. I think she gave us the real >> what?
>> No, I think I think Isa gave us the real. I think that's the life that the majority of women live.
>> Wait, so you think the majority of women cheat on their cheat on their boyfriend?
>> Absolutely.
>> Absolutely. I think she gave us the full undulated experience literally from freestyling in the bathroom talking to herself. I think she gave us the real deal of the majority of the women that we know, >> man.
>> And I apprec I appreciated the the the >> the perspective so much, bro.
>> And >> I like I like insecure. I just don't know why I never finish.
>> I don't think she was a hoe, though. I don't think the majority of a woman is a hoe. I think women I think they fuck around until they get to where they have to get now. the ways of of a hoe really show up in a relationship. But I told all the pussy we get now is is is prefucked. That's how it come now. We don't give religious no more.
>> Absolutely.
>> So, uh absolutely. I I appreciated her her show. Like I wish I wish it never stopped.
>> Well, I think I think she was a hoe because she cheated on her boyfriend.
>> Well, that was shit >> with somebody that she that she already was she already dealt with.
>> But that's that's normal. Like if your girl >> But that's a bad that's a bad trait.
>> So listen. So if your girl was to cheat on you, do you think that she would cheat on you with somebody she been knowing or a random motherfucker?
There you have it.
Women Women Women Women >> I hope she don't cheat at all.
>> Women Women fuck off women fuck off familiarity, right? That's why when you at the gym and it's a bunch of new people in the gym, the chick gravitate to you at the gym because she's seen you more times than the other dudes. So that's how the majority of women get down like they have to like know you and seen you to feel comfortable with you enough to like that's how the majority of women work based on my my knowledge to women.
>> No. Well, I still think women are impulsive. So if they think you fine, they going to fuck you.
>> Now them the hoes, but Lisa didn't fuck a stranger. I mean, it's Lisa is right fuck a stranger. She fucked a nigga that she had rapport with, which was some ho shit cuz she had a boyfriend. But it was just >> No, that's what I'm saying. She was still a hoe because she still moved on impulse.
>> She still moved on impulse when he was a good dude.
>> Yeah, he was.
>> He was. He was a good dude. You know what I'm saying? She still moved on impulse with a good dude over some over some nigga in the studio. No, she was a hoe, dog.
>> The studio. The nigga SHE BEEN KNOWING ALL HER LIFE. Hold on. So, non virgins complaining that there are no more virgins. That's strange. Magnetar. Uh, believe it or not, women like they man already battle tested.
>> All right.
>> They like to know that you already had some some vagina. That's that's just what it is.
>> And that you're good at sex.
>> If you ain't had ever had no vagina, a woman rarely wants to give you vagina.
>> Yeah. Mandatory. You got to realize like the stipulations to be a man are are on a thousand now because of social media. You got to be a porn star. You got to be a sex symbol.
You got to be a a fucking workout junkie. You got to be a millionaire. You got to be 6'5. You gotta be the most handsome motherfucker on the planet. You gotta be the best dress. You got all these stipulations that you got to have just to be a man.
>> So, stop speaking for us. Okay. So, cute. You mean to tell me that you would have rather Okay, all women, would you rather per would you have rather been with a virgin or would you rather had a man with some experience? I hope they don't lie in these comments because if they wanted a version, they could have kept fucking with the boy at the high school they were fucking with. But you left him for the older nigga with the cutters. But okay.
>> Right.
>> All right.
>> We got too many examples of women dealing with older men in high school, >> right? We know y'all know.
>> So I think Mag Magnar is the example, right? He he did it right. I think he doing it right. He I think Magnar was a virgin. If not, still is. He uh he worship Yeah, he a Christian, bro. He like a super Christian.
>> Magnetar, you a virgin?
>> I I don't know if he a virgin. I know he probably was until he met his G. But Magnar super Christristen, bro.
>> We >> No, I know that, but I didn't know like >> uh we should have been able to experience each other, but y'all are too busy around here fucking We can't You can experience each other. You just didn't I experienced with somebody else first. That don't take away from your experience.
>> I don't know what that mean.
>> Yeah. So, yeah, it is what it is.
>> Yeah. The one lady, she's saying, um, man with experience. I'm 44. I'm married, but I waited until I was married. Oh, dang. Okay. That's what's up.
>> Okay. Yeah. No, he ain't doing it wrong at all.
>> He didn't do it wrong, bro.
>> He did it the right way.
>> That's perfect. Salute to you.
>> I I salute him.
>> Yeah. I ain't going to take away from my experience, though.
>> Pretty fantastical.
>> Oh shit.
>> All right. But anyhow, >> that's dope, >> man. We zeros on the shot clock, man.
Slim, I really appreciate it, bro. I was going to have to do it by myself today cuz >> No, we got you. You already know. I could be up here every Monday if you want. Shit.
>> I I'll let I'll let you know then, bro.
Uh but man, once again, man, appreciate you for coming on. Uh we'll be back tomorrow. Kyle will be back in attendance. Um y'all know the motto.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I know Slim was here for the chocolate, but >> bring your bring your fine ass.
>> My chocolate baby.
Y'all y'all know the motto, man. Be cool, be smooth, y'all. Just like that, y'all. We out.
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