Women Are In Utter Shock As They Watch Men Protect Their Assets & Stop Funding Them | MGTOW IS CRAZY

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[00:00:00]On today's episode of Deentering Men, I just want to quickly clarify how exactly are men protecting us because I see men as our natural predators because statistically they are.

[00:00:09]>> But the truth is they've never protected women at all.

[00:00:12]>> Never let a single [ __ ] person, no matter who the hell they are, ever make you doubt your worth, ever make you doubt your abilities, anything.

[00:00:20]>> So men say they don't want to invest in women anymore. 50/50. You know, what do you bring to the table? But you do invest.

[00:00:26]>> I've never met a man who's protected and provided. Really?

[00:00:30]>> Yes.

[00:00:31]>> All men lie. They lie from birth. Let me tell y'all something. My son lies for no reason. I genuinely [music] feel like I have the worst luck when it comes to dating.

[00:00:42]>> Ladies, there is two sides to this quarter. I believe men should be sexually disciplined. They should get married. They should be creating legacy.

[00:00:49]>> Welcome to Masculine Dow.

[00:00:51]>> The dating scene as an Asian is [clears throat] cooked. Like I swear every person I talk to have the same issues. The first being obvious. They always have commitment issues. I know a lot of people date today, but in my head that doesn't even make any sense. Like why are you talking to someone if you don't have any interest of like actually being with them in the future? And I feel like that's why so many situationships happen. And I'm sorry, I'm just not understanding. Like we're only getting older, guys. Like the second issue I always come across is that they're always somehow a little bit narcissistic. It's always about me me like only think about themselves and like like no baby. Like like being so self-centered sickens me. The third is that they're avoidant. Okay. And all these issues start piling up and you're left there like what the freak am I doing wrong because you can't read their mind. Lastly, the biggest one of them all, lust over love. Why is it so common these days that these men just be thinking with their dick? Like whatever happened to being a gentleman? Whatever happened to candle lit dinners? Whatever happened to talking until the sunrise comes up and you can see the stars and everything. Like what happened to the cute little dates? Like why is it always boba and back shots? I quit. She wants candle lit dinners, deep conversations, and old school romance, but skips right past the fact that modern dating taught men to protect themselves first. You can't spend years rewarding casual behavior, then suddenly be outraged when men stop showing up like traditional gentlemen. I don't know if any other girls feel like this, but I can't wait until I am in a situation with a guy where I'm not out of sight, out of mind.

[00:02:23]I feel like every guy that I've dated, talked to, situationship has always been like, can't see her, she's not there. out of sight, out of mind. And I don't know if I'm the only person that like deals with this or maybe I'm just picking terrible guys, but where are all of the good guys that don't do that or pretend like I don't exist when I'm not with you? I would like one of them, please. Thank you. I mean, maybe that's all guys. I don't know. It doesn't seem to be that way.

[00:02:55]But like, where are we finding the good guys? What are they doing? And also, if you are in a relationship or a situation where you're not out of sight, out of mind, what's it like? Drop it in the comments. Let me live through you.

[00:03:10]Because right now, times are [ __ ] tough for your girl. [music] And I'm losing hope. The funny part is she keeps asking where the good guys are, but good men usually have options, standards, and a life outside of texting all day. If every guy becomes out of sight, at some point you have to ask whether you're picking men who want attention or men who actually want commitment.

[00:03:37]>> I genuinely feel like I have the worst luck when it comes to dating and just like men in general. And I'm starting to think that there are not any good guys.

[00:03:48]People are like, "Not all men. Not all men. There's some good guys. Where are they? Cuz they're not around me. They're not here." So, where are they? And if they are a good guy, they're probably already married and have kids and whatever. I'm just [sighs] having a little crash out, but I got fully ready. Look super cute. Look great. Got my car to leave. Plans canled. Canceling on me. So, you're never going to get the opportunity to hang out with me again. What an L for you. It's hard for me though because I internalize it. My phone's going to die so it's all laggy. But I internalize it and I say, "What's wrong with me? Why do people treat me like this? Why do men treat me like this?" And I don't think there's anything wrong with me at this point. It's y'all.

[00:04:36]>> Did you catch that? She starts by asking, "What's wrong with her?" Then ends with, "It's all y'all." That's modern dating in a nutshell.

[00:04:45]Self-reflection lasts about 5 seconds before accountability gets outsourced.

[00:04:51]Good men exist. The question is whether they're invisible because they're absent or because they're not the men being chosen.

[00:05:00]>> So men are always hollering that they're the protectors. They're the protectors.

[00:05:05]But the truth is they've never protected women at all. They've subjugated us.

[00:05:09]They've oppressed us. But they've never protected us. Now let me ask you who commits more crimes in the US? Men who commits more crimes globally? Men. How are you the protector and also the perpetrator of all the crimes?

[00:05:26]And then who are these crimes against?

[00:05:28]Men commit majority of crimes against women and other men. They are even a danger to themselves. And I don't understand why men don't stand up and talk about this. Instead, they want to gaslight women into believing that they're the protectors. Do you know that the number one reason for a pregnant black woman to be unalived used to be the health care system in this country. It is now the men who fathered the child.

[00:06:05]Men are a danger to men, women, [music] and children. They're an epidemic.

[00:06:12]>> So because a minority of men commit crimes, all men lose the right to be called protectors. That's like blaming every woman for the actions of the worst women. That's not logic. It's resentment disguised as an argument.

[00:06:26]>> So men say they don't want to invest in women anymore. What do you bring to the table? But you do invest just in the wrong type of woman because you're here telling me that you want a traditional woman and what do you bring to the table and you know you want you to have values and all that stuff and why should I invest in you if you don't have that yet you are paying for only fans yet you're paying for those subscriptions. So you are investing my boy you are investing my guy you are providing for women.

[00:06:53]You're still doing what men do just for the women that you say you don't like because women will do in society what attracts men because that's natural. So stop saying you don't want to provide for women and stop saying you don't want to invest cuz you already do just in the wrong ones.

[00:07:10]>> Hold on. [music] Some men wasting money on Only Fans doesn't mean all men owe investment to every woman they date.

[00:07:18]That's like saying a few bad financial decisions cancel out having standards.

[00:07:23]Men are simply becoming more selective about where their effort goes.

[00:07:27]>> On today's episode of Deentering Men, I just want to quickly clarify how exactly are men protecting us because I see men as our natural predators because statistically they are versus our natural protectors. I think that men protect themselves. They protect their possessions and some of those possessions are the women in their life.

[00:07:46]It could also be land. It could be money, it could be status, it could be their job, whatever. But they're all possessions. It's things that they have.

[00:07:53]And when somebody threatens to take a thing that they have away, they get a little spicy and they want to protect that. And I don't know if that's necessarily a bad thing. I think that's a different conversation. However, when the possession that is the woman is also the threat that could take it away, meaning now we have the autonomy to say, "I want a divorce or I want to break up and I don't need you in my life. if I want to be single uh because I don't want you. I never needed you and now I don't want you and if I don't want you then we don't need to be here. Right? So now that the women are also the threat to the possession, it gets a little bit tricky.

[00:08:30]>> This is why a lot of men check out of modern dating, no matter what a man does is reinterpreted as selfish. Protect her, ownership, provide, commit. [music] At that point, why would men keep signing up for a game where every action gets twisted into a flaw?

[00:08:47]>> And domestic violence numbers have always been high. Uh, but I'm super curious because statistically speaking, women are most likely to get killed by a former intimate partner. Like, that's crazy, right? 90% of female murder victims, they knew the person that murdered them. 60% of that 90% which what is that like maybe 50 total it was by a former boyfriend or a former husband or current and we're still saying that they're going to protect us.

[00:09:17]They're literally the ones that are going to kill us. [laughter] Like I don't know about you but like I feel so much more protective when I know there's a mom in the room because I'm like someone's someone has spatial awareness in here. Like the mama bear, right? It's so interesting to me. I have so many thoughts around it and I could literally rant on it forever and I'm not going to.

[00:09:34]How are men still believing that they're natural protectors? Like, at least be honest with yourself. It's okay that you protect your possessions. I think it's I'd rather you at least be honest about that than trying to convince me and convince yourself that you're going to protect me when we both know damn well that that's never going to happen.

[00:09:50]>> The flaw in her argument is obvious. If men never protected women, civilization wouldn't have survived long enough for her to make this video. A few violent men don't erase the millions of fathers, husbands, brothers, and sons who've spent their lives protecting the people they love.

[00:10:08]>> I've never met a man who's protected and provided.

[00:10:11]>> Really?

[00:10:12]>> Yes.

[00:10:13]>> Like when you walking across the street, he walks on the side of the cars?

[00:10:16]>> No.

[00:10:17]>> That never happened.

[00:10:18]>> No.

[00:10:19]>> And a man's never paid for a date for you?

[00:10:22]>> No. We've always split.

[00:10:23]>> Every time.

[00:10:24]>> Yes.

[00:10:25]>> Damn. I see where you're coming from.

[00:10:28]Yeah, [laughter] I know.

[00:10:29]>> So, you're not okay with splitting the bill?

[00:10:31]>> No, I'm okay with it. But like, if a man wants to be in charge, then he should have to pay for everything.

[00:10:37]>> So, you won't truly respect a man unless he pays for everything?

[00:10:40]>> No, that's not what I'm saying. That's not what I'm saying.

[00:10:43]>> But you're saying a man is someone who provides and protects?

[00:10:48]>> Yeah.

[00:10:48]>> Okay. So, then a woman is just someone who lets the man provide and protect because the woman can do that by themselves. They're just letting them do it.

[00:10:57]>> So women are strong and independent.

[00:10:59]>> Yes, 100%.

[00:11:01]>> Independent of what?

[00:11:02]>> What do you mean?

[00:11:03]>> Like what are they in? What are they independent of?

[00:11:06]>> Women can literally do anything, but we just let a man do it for us.

[00:11:10]>> That's modern dating in one sentence. I don't need a man for anything, but he should still pay for everything. If you're truly independent, then why is his wallet still part of the qualification process?

[00:11:22]>> Ladies, [music] there is two sides to this quarter. I believe men should be sexually disciplined. They should get married. They should be creating legacy.

[00:11:30]They should stop playing games. Stop running from responsibility. But however, on the other side, who and what are we asking men to make lifelong commitments to? Look at our media. Look at how we portray ourselves. Sexualizing and objectifying ourselves. Rapping and living wraps of having sneaky links.

[00:11:50]Dating for money for trips for bag.

[00:11:53]idolizing women who get a lot of attention. Women bearing it all for a like or a follow. Whether they are wives or not, showing no respect to their husbands. Valuing attention over intention. Modeling our real lives after women whose lives only look good on the ground. Comparing ourselves, stealing our own joy, listening and propping up content that only fuels how much we aren't the problem and how much men are the problem. We are not taking accountability. We want these soft lies.

[00:12:24]Oops, I mean lives where we don't work, don't clean, don't contribute, don't support, just sit there and look pretty and get the man of our dreams just by being pretty. And family, I'm personally tired of the money conversation. How much a man need to make six figures.

[00:12:38]This >> she's saying what a lot of people avoid.

[00:12:41]Accountability isn't misogyny. If a man is expected to build himself before marriage, why is it controversial to expect women to bring more than looks, attention, and social media validation?

[00:12:55]50/50. That what we are seeing is women watching people talk about making unrealistic and unreasonable demands.

[00:13:03]REALLY JUST KEEPING Y'ALL SINGLE, UNFULFILLED, unhappy to continue to make money off of us. Pandering for likes and views. Meanwhile, keeping us all in the dark. Ladies, the truth is this. In order for God to bring, you must become.

[00:13:18]There's a process, there is preparation.

[00:13:20]And a lot of women resist process. Let me tell you something. Convenience costs. Always has, always will. And a lot of y'all think because you desire a ring that makes you ready to be a wife.

[00:13:32]And it don't. Desire does not equal readiness. So, there's women that rush this process. Marry the first man that wants to marry you. ignoring the lack of attraction, ignoring the red flags on every play cuz you want the validation of a husband in a ring, and then find yourselves in divorce court 5 years later, mad at God for what you did.

[00:13:52]Family, I got to keep it real with y'all. I've done [music] it world's way.

[00:13:55]I've gotten my results. That's the part social media hates hearing. Wanting a husband doesn't make you ready for marriage. A lot of people chase the wedding, the ring, and the validation, but completely ignore the work required to sustain a relationship. When the devil can't reach you, he sends [music] you an Fboy who's a really, really good liar. So, here are the top three lies I hear men tell women all the time. Number one, I'm not looking for anything serious right now. The right now keeps you on the hook, but the reality is that day will never come. Two, my fave. My ex was crazy. If every woman he's ever dated was crazy, what's the common denominator there? All you have to do is download the app tee, drop in his name or phone number, and find reviews from other women who have dated him. This will tell you the pattern that his mouth never could. It's literally like Yelp for men. I love it. I love it. And three, I'm like super busy right now.

[00:14:55]He's not too busy. You're just not a priority to him. Maybe that's hard to hear, but the truth will set you free.

[00:15:00]You deserve a man who makes you a priority, who knows to chase you. Like, duh, duh. If a man is saying any of these three things to you, run so fast, [music] girl. You deserve a thousand times better.

[00:15:14]>> And recommending women review men like products on Yelp, that's wild. Instead of teaching people to judge character for themselves, we're crowdsourcing relationships now. Maybe that's part of why modern dating is such a mess.

[00:15:28]>> No, because I don't think men want to take women out on dates anymore. Like I feel like they don't want to take women out on dates. Their idea of like a date in some way is like saying, "Hey, like let's meet at the bar. Let's like meet at the bar and like just have some drinks, you know, just meet me there.

[00:15:46]Let's like spend some time together."

[00:15:49]Um, and it's not even a proper date.

[00:15:51]Like that's what they will suggest 100%.

[00:15:53]Or better yet, better yet, if you are on Hinge, I'm so sorry. I'm like all out and about. I just got done working out.

[00:16:00]But anyways, um even when even on Hinge, even on Hinge, you will literally see like men like not want to go on dates with you. Like I have matched with like so many people on Hinge and the matter of like men like the the amount of men, the amount of men who do not [music] want to pursue anything after like the first two messages. She matched with so many people and is shocked most don't pursue anything after a few messages.

[00:16:27]That's dating apps in a nutshell. When everyone has endless options, attention becomes cheap and commitment becomes rare.

[00:16:35]>> It's like really crazy. Like there's no effort from them to like or even any incentive to take you out on a date.

[00:16:41]It's just like they just want to match just to match and they're not really there to be intentional. And mind you, am I being like super dead serious on finding somebody unhinged? Not really.

[00:16:52]I'm just there to like kind of see like, hey, what's out there? You know, maybe to go on a date or two just to get to know somebody. Like that would be nice.

[00:16:58]But the problem is nobody is asking me out. Like nobody's asking anybody out.

[00:17:02]Like there like we're just one or two little sentences and it it stops there.

[00:17:08]It stops. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong. I don't know what's going on, but I do engage with the conversation and it just dies. It's just like nothing. They don't care enough to like take you out. So, honestly, I don't think men want to take out women anymore.

[00:17:24]I don't know what to expect.

[00:17:27]It's definitely not dates. Not romanticizing or no romance anymore.

[00:17:31]It's wild out here. She answered her own question. She says she's not seriously looking for someone, just seeing what's out there. Well, a lot of the men on those apps are doing the exact same thing. Low investment meets low investment and nobody moves.

[00:17:47]>> I'm most likely going to delete this, but it's [music] been eating at me, so I just really wanted to share it. [snorts] But have you noticed that when men work very hard for the things that they want in life, the possessions, they put their manual labor into it, their blood, their sweat, their tears go into those things, they protect that thing at all costs.

[00:18:06]Okay? But when things are handed to them, someone else had to labor for that thing and it was given to them. They don't give a crap about that thing. They don't value that thing. They destroy it.

[00:18:16]They dirty it. They mess it up. They don't care. And I think about things like their cars. When men work very hard for the cars that they possess, the ones that they really want. Oh my god, they protect it at all cost. Don't come near my car. Don't scratch my car. They are washing and cleaning that car every two business days. Like they really put their love into that thing.

[00:18:36]This is why they don't care about you.

[00:18:38]This is why they don't care about me.

[00:18:40]This is why they don't care about children. This is why they don't care about the world. Because their labor, their blood, sweat, and tears did not go into creating life. Ours did. Ours did.

[00:18:51]And that is why it's so easy for them to take life, grape life, destroy life, abuse life, because [music] their hard labor, their blood, sweat, and tears did not go into creating it. [music] That's an incredibly dark leap in logic. A man taking pride in a car he worked for does not somehow explain abuse, violence, or why he loves his family. Millions of fathers sacrifice daily for their wives and children. And they didn't need to physically give birth to care deeply.

[00:19:24]>> Here's the thing. Girls love to complain about guys not making the first move anymore. like anywhere like whether it's on an app like whether it's on Hinge, whether it's on Rya, whether it's on Leila, whether it's in the grocery store, no matter what, it's like guys just aren't approaching girls like they used to allegedly. But like anytime a guy will actually put himself out there, they're getting ridiculed. Like even my sister's friend group, one of them came across this guy on this app, Leila, where like he had put paint in sip as the first date that he wanted to go on, which is like the whole point of the app to suggest something. I think it's cute and interesting and different. They were dragging this man through the mud. Oh my god. Like it's the most ridiculous thing in the world that he was putting himself out there saying that he wanted to do a paint sip with these girls. Of course they don't want to talk to you. They're afraid. If I was a guy, I'd be afraid to approach a girl. I'd be afraid to suggest something cutesy and different because that's what's happening. Then you're mad every guy wants to go to a bar and get one drink like 5 minutes from his apartment. Hello. Honestly, you have to give your phone number to every single guy who asks. So, I'm just saying like, "Wow, we got to tone it down a little bit." I think >> you can't clown a guy for suggesting a paying sip. Reject the guy who approaches. Ignore the guy who messages then complain nobody is pursuing anymore. Actions have consequences and modern dating is starting to feel those consequences. [music] Men are really funny because they'll date you for like 3 4 months and you'll tech you pretty much be like in an exclusive relationship just like without the title which I feel like I'm [ __ ] high school. This is so stupid. And cuz it's like we're adults grow up and then after like 3 4 months they're like I'm just like not ready for something serious. I need time to work on myself. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. And you're like, what the [ __ ] Like, just wasted my [ __ ] time. Like, I was down. I was down with the get down. Like, I really was into you. So, you like break up and then two weeks later they're back on hinge. [laughter] [gasps] I should have known. [sighs] I thought I picked the nice one, but they all do the same [ __ ] I was like, 2 weeks? Oh, my fault. It takes two weeks to work on yourself. You're right. And you know what? You can call me a hypocrite because I saw this because I redownloaded Hinge.

[00:21:24]>> Here's the harsh truth. When a man says he's not ready for something serious after months of dating, what he often means is he's not ready for something serious with you. It stings, but that's very different from him not wanting a relationship at all.

[00:21:41]>> But also, I was the one that was like got hurt. He was the one that was like, "No, I'm not ready. I can't. I'm not ready." So, I was like, "Fuck that. I'm done." [clears throat] Like, [ __ ] that. And I redownloaded Hinge. And I click on his thing cuz we're still matched. And he redid his [ __ ] his prompts.

[00:21:57][ __ ] I was going to I was going to message him, too. I was going to be crazy AND BE LIKE, "OH, [screaming] NO. I didn't do it. I wrote something out. I was I saw it. I was rage. Filled with [ __ ] rage. I was like, "Are you [ __ ] kidding me?" And then I didn't I deleted the message. I was like, "Mhm.

[00:22:16]Looking for a connection." Oh, but I thought you said you needed time. I thought you said you needed No. Why would I think that? [laughter] Ah, just funny. Men are funny. It's funny. [music] She's angry because she believed I need time meant he was temporarily unavailable. A lot of times it means he's choosing not to continue that specific relationship. It's painful, but rejection and deception aren't always the same thing. Never let a single [ __ ] person, no matter who the hell they are, ever make you doubt your worth, ever make you doubt your abilities, anything. Never, ever, ever should you allow someone to make you feel like you are not capable of doing something that you [ __ ] know that you are capable of doing. And this doesn't even have to be like a specific situation. This can just be like overall just in life, women, unfortunately in business are going to be treated different. you're going to be treated differently. And this is such a hard [ __ ] pill for me to swallow cuz I was working in a woman's field like pink color. I was a hair stylist before this, so I never experienced [ __ ] that I'm experiencing now. But like, it's [ __ ] brutal. It's hurtful. But you have to take that hurt and use it as motivation.

[00:23:30]Because as much as it sucks right now, 3 years from now when they're in the same [ __ ] spot that they were and we're [ __ ] thriving and up here and they're down here, WE'LL BE LIKE, "HI, IT'S SO MUCH FUN up here. [ __ ] you. Remember what you did to me." Yeah. Just remember that. Keep your head down. Keep grinding. And you will one day be able to give them a big [ __ ] you. [music] Trust. Trust. Success isn't the best revenge. Success is the goal. If you building your future just to prove people wrong, they're still controlling you. The strongest move is winning and not needing their validation at all. So, if a man has to see you without your makeup, weaving, and we wig, that means that he broke and he can't afford your upkeep. So, I don't know if y'all seen the podcast with the lady who said that, but I just finished watching it. And y'all y'all got to stop. Y'all got to stop. Y'all just be making up stuff, right? A lot of y'all, you do not feel comfortable with no makeup, with no weave, with no wig. And you just got to admit that to yourself. You are not the bad bee that you parade around to be in your natural state. You're not. You know you're not, right? That's why whenever you make videos talking about how bad you are and how pretty you are, it's always when you made up. It ain't never in your natural state. You don't never make them videos with your natural hair.

[00:24:51]You don't never make them videos with no makeup. You know why? Cuz in your heart, you don't feel that way, right? This ain't nothing but you a coping mechanism, right? You trying to put it back on men when the truth is the issue is with you. Cuz if you knew you look good with no makeup and no weave, it would be nothing for you to pop up on the FaceTime or whatever without it. But when you know you don't, you got to start making up reasons on why not to do it, right? It ain't no different than nothing else. When somebody don't want to do something, they can make up all kind of lies and excuses as to why it don't make sense to do it. But the truth of the matter is you don't want to do it cuz you know that you don't really like the way you look when you don't have it on. Like y'all skipping completely over the fact that maybe they just want to see you in your natural state because that's what you're going to look like most of the time. So, they want to make sure they actually attracted to what you naturally look like since you're going to be looking that way more than you are made up. Or could it be maybe they want to know what they kids would look like if they had them with you? All right, y'all. Act like somebody be wanting to wake up to surprises. It ain't no different than dudes who be out here hatfishing. Don't nobody want to wake up and he got that hat off his old big nasty head underneath there. Same way he ain't trying to wake up and no old booger wolf laying next to him when it was a baddie at the club that he pulled.

[00:26:12]Right, y'all. Y'all be doing too much.

[00:26:14]To wrap this up, whatever you choose to do, whether it's lashes, wigs, weave, makeup, enhancements to make yourself look better, those are your expenses.

[00:26:24]And you can't ever forget that there's women who naturally look good. And they don't need nobody to pay an expense to make them look good. That's just something you have to do to compete with naturally pretty girls. But don't ever let that go over your head to make you believe that a man would want to take on an expense just so that you can look halfway decent when he could just go get a girl who already looks good naturally, right? But trying to use his money, him not being able to afford your upkeep as the reason why he want to see you naturally, let it go. Calling a man broke because he wants to see what you actually look like is crazy. Attraction isn't a subscription service. If you're asking for genuine interest, don't be shocked when someone wants to see the genuine you. Anyway, that's enough for today. Subscribe, hit the notification bell, like, share, and stay tuned for the next