Simps Are Simply People Pleasers

[00:00:00]What up? What up? Simps are simply people pleasers, men who hide their true colors to gain validation from women.

[00:00:08]These men lack self-respect. They cater to someone else at the expense of themselves. A man who is strong is respectful and kind. However, they are not people pleasers. They have boundaries and can say [music] no. They filter out women who just want control and filter for women who want genuine love and connection. A lot of simps will accept any sort of treatment to be around a woman. They pedestalize them.

[00:00:37]You see this a lot on social media. They will give money to and worship women who don't give a flying [ __ ] about them.

[00:00:44]Any relationship they do end up getting this way becomes transactional and slowly disconnected over time. They lose themselves and the women. Then suddenly their true colors come out. Their resentment unfolds. They become extremely bitter. Some end up becoming incels because they thought they were loving correctly when really they were serving. When a woman truly loves a man, she will not disrespect him. She will actually value him, not simply what he does for her. People who confuse love as control attract each other.

[00:01:21]>> [music] >> And without respect, there is no love to begin with. There is no genuine connection.

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