How Women Create Memories Of Conversations That Never Existed!

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[00:00:00]By the end of this video, I promise you'll think differently about women that you think are lying a lot of the time when they're actually not. Women can remember stuff in their minds that's not even happened. I know what happens in women's minds. Their memories of things can change based on their emotions. This is just a classic case of women not remembering things correctly.

[00:00:21]She's misremembered what has happened.

[00:00:23]Apparently, it happens with dyslexics as well. Women a lot of the time don't make stuff up and don't lie. They just misremember things that have happened even a few minutes earlier. And this is a perfect example of that. Let's get into it. Okay, so here's the story. And trigger warning people, this is about an old woman, so she's probably lost her mind anyway. No, no, I'm joking. Okay, I'm joking.

[00:00:49]It's about an older woman that's probably lost her mind already. Again, I'm joking. Okay, so here's the story.

[00:00:57]really this is about women and I've seen this so many times before misremembering stuff right so you have a situation where a woman will say something or you'll say something and then literally a few minutes later they'll misremember and the reason why I know this is because it's happened to me quite a few times I've got a lawyer like mind I've got a really good memory for using things against people to screw them over later mainly because I was screwed over a lot in the corporate world.

[00:01:27]But I started recording people's conversations, by the way, my friends with their permission and would play back these conversations and they would swear blind that they never said that when or I never said something when I say I did say it. Here's the example of the woman in the restaurant, right? So, I've just been out to lunch in my local restaurant, Muryside, which I love.

[00:01:50]Really nice bunch of people, and I have a two course meal. I could this is going to be very brief, okay? I'm not going to go into any details, I promise, but I need to tell you this for the the context, right? So, there's a two course special you can have for lunch and you can either have them both at the same time or you can have them separately, one after the other. And I always have them one after the other because I like to take a bit of a break between courses. So, there's no way that I would order this the main course directly after because that's never what I do.

[00:02:24]Plus, I can remember what I did 5 minutes earlier. Right? So, here's what happens. This is not the usual woman that serves me. So, I make a point of saying, I'll have the garlic bread first and then I'll have the second course separately.

[00:02:38]First course comes out, all done. She says, "Are you ready for the steak now or do you want to wait a bit?" I quite like to wait a bit um just to have a bit of a break. She says, "Okay, no problem.

[00:02:48]Just let me know when you're ready." I said, "Fine." So 10 15 minutes literally goes by. Then I go to the toilet.

[00:02:55]There's another member of staff having lunch on a break. And then I come back and she's serving me. And I said, "This is great, just so you know, but any but like um just for information, I didn't ask for the main course yet, but I'm ready for it. It's fine." And she said, "But you you said you were ready. I I just spoke to you." I said, "No, you didn't." And then her colleague pipes up and says, "Oh, sorry. That was me. I said that you were ready for the main course, right?

[00:03:27]I'm thinking I'm going married." Because she she was so sure that she'd spoken to me. So, this is not like a political thing. I'm not going out with her. I'm not dating her. I'm not married to her.

[00:03:36]So, she's got no real reason to make that stuff up. But, I know what happens in women's minds. And this happens in men's minds as well, by the way. She's misremembered what has happened.

[00:03:48]So I I wanted to clarify. So when the when everything was finished and I was just about to pay the bill, I made it sound like I was losing my mind just to make her feel better. And I said, "Look, just to satisfy myself that I'm not going crazy. What actually happened there? Did your colleague say that I was ready for the main course?" And she said, "Yeah, she told me because there was nothing on the table and she knows that you just won one after the other and then you leave quite quickly." But I'm sure that I spoke to you about it and asked you. Here's what actually happened. The original conversation where she asked me if I was ready for the main course where I said I'm going to have a bit of a break. She misremembered that as fusing the two conversations between me originally saying that I'll have a break and her colleague saying I'm ready for the next course and thinking that she'd actually spoken to me about it. There weren't that many people in the restaurant. And she's got no reason to lie. This is just a classic case of women not remembering things correctly.

[00:04:50]And apparently it happens with dyslexics as well, but I'm I'm no expert on that, but it happens a lot with women. So when people say women are lying or they're not being honest, a lot of the time they're not lying. They just don't remember things properly. And I've seen it so many times. She was adamant that I had said to her, "I'm ready for my main course when I hadn't." Because I remember in my mind thinking, "Oh, I'm ready to talk to her now." And then all of a sudden, the stake was there. I know it's a really simple example. It's got nothing to do with relationships. But this is very important for people to remember cuz I'm not hating on women here. I'm just saying that they think differently and they they they misremember stuff. Their memories of things can change based on their emotions. And I'm not saying that this doesn't happen with men, but it happens a lot with women because I've had experience of it. When I've played back conversations, they I got their permission to record these conversations, by the way, before you get stuck into me on that. A lot of the women, they say, "Oh, yeah, I swear I didn't say that." Well, you did say this and and I said that you said the opposite. So, this is not dishonesty. A lot of the time, men have this idea that women are lying all the time. It's just not true. a lot of the time they just miss remember and like I said men don't do do too but I've had a lot of experience of it with women because of their emotional memories of things. So in other words sometimes she'll meet a guy and she'll think that she remembers him as more attractive because she got to know him and and likes his personality.

[00:06:23]So, this is not even about dishonesty, but it's a very good example of how women can remember stuff in their minds that's not even happened. Do let me know what you think. And if you had similar uh things going on in your life like that where you think you're going to go mad or you're going mad when actually they just it's not that they're trying to trick you, they just don't remember properly. It's crazy.

[00:06:47]See you in the next one.