I wasted 33 years searching for love before Alan Watts explained this in 10 minutes…

Love is not a rare commodity but a fundamental energy that exists within everyone, manifesting in various forms like colors in a spectrum; the key to understanding love is to investigate what you truly love, recognizing that everything you love is something you thought was other than yourself, and that love is a spectrum where all forms (whether considered good or bad) are actually manifestations of the same underlying energy.