Western dating standards vs reality in the Philippines

Added: 2026-04-29

[00:00:00][music] [music] [music] >> Everybody, let's run a quick thought experiment here. Let's pretend that that we're women, or you're a woman, or I'm a woman, or whatever. But for those that are confused, a woman means that you don't have a wanker. And unfortunately, many people in the United States, they don't quite understand it. They're not able to define it. Even some of our federal judges and and physicians, they just can't define what a woman is and what a man is. But that's just part of the problem. Let's say that now that we've identified that we are indeed actually a woman.

[00:00:49]Let's say we want a man that's at least 6 ft tall, earns over $100,000 a year, is single, and is between the ages of 25 and 40. Now, this sounds a lot like the 6-ft tall, six figures, and six-pack that we hear all these women [music] on TikTok and YouTube, you know, Instagram, all talking about that they, you know, >> [music] >> I only date a man of value, and these are my standards, and blah blah blah blah blah blah. Well, in essence, they really bring nothing to the table. But let's look beyond the obvious, and let's look at some of the census data. Now, according to actual US census data, by demanding those qualifiers, the six-pack, six six-figure income, and 6-ft tall, they've just eliminated 98, well, more than 98% of American men. So, stay with me because this video may not be what you think it is. In 2021, an anonymous developer who spent years dating in North America, he launched a website. It's called I Got Standards, bro. And he built it using data from the US Census Bureau and the National Center for Health Statistics. He called >> [laughter] >> He called the main feature the female delusion calculator, and it went viral.

[00:02:00]The site invites heterosexual women, that means they don't have a wanker, to enter their preferences for a potential male partner. They select age range, minimum height, the race, minimum income, marital status, that's an option between never married or any, weight, and the option with weight is just to exclude obese men. But once you enter those parameters, the calculator pulls from the 2020 US Census Bureau data, and it outputs a percentage. Now, that percentage represents the amount of men, or the percentage of men in the United States that actually fit the woman's stated criteria. So, here's the fun part. It also gives you a delusion score, and it's rated in, of all things, cat litter bags. And the labels the the common labels run from easy to please, um, >> [music] >> grounded, something like that, to to aspiring cat lady. Although the score is humorous in my mind, the data is clear.

[00:03:00]So, inevitably, as time passes and standards don't change, many of these women find themselves angry, and before long, they're 40 years old on TikTok or Instagram spewing this vile about a date they just went on with a guy who had the nerve to ask her out twice. And all the while, she's complaining like she's some high school kid or or young college girl, and she's dressed like, [music] you know, well, like a college girl that's going out to get laid for the night. So, if that's the way that these women view themselves at age 40, they don't have any any respect for themselves, don't expect them to have respect for anybody else, and that includes me and you. All this information will be on the website. If you like this video, please like, share, subscribe. Uh, jump over to the website.

[00:03:45]You'll see the census data, the health data. You'll see a link to to the I Got Standards, bro website. All that stuff is there. If you want to support the channel, you can go to the merch page, buy a coffee mug. You can even make a donation on the uh donate page if you're so inclined. But let's get back and look at some more of the data. The height requirement, or I should say, the height problem. One of the most common preferences cited by women on dating apps is height, specifically, a preference for men who are 6 ft tall or taller.

[00:04:16]And again, [music] this has become something of a cultural joke. They want the six-foot, six-pack, six-figure, right? Now, according to the CDC and the census height data, only 14 to 15% of American men are 6 ft tall or taller.

[00:04:31]That means that, you know, just that alone excludes about 85% of the people.

[00:04:37]The truth is, the average height of an American man is 5 ft 9. The income expectations are also unrealistic.

[00:04:44]Height seems to get the big headlines. I want a man that's 6 ft tall, right?

[00:04:49]Tall, dark, and handsome, and all that.

[00:04:51]But but the income expectation really is the deeper issue. The female delusion calculator uses a minimum income slider, and you can slide back to to select what range of income or what minimum that you want. And [music] if you select a $100,000 a year minimum, which is commonly cited as the baseline, she has eliminated the vast majority of American men. Why do I say that? Well, I don't say that. This the census data says that. It says that fewer than 10% of American men earn $100,000 or more annually. But many who do are already outside the stated age range they want, or they're already married. So, when you combine the requirement for a man over 6 ft tall with income over $100,000, you're mathematically looking at, well under, get this, 2%. [music] That's right. All of these self-entitled women with stamps on their back, and dressed like [music] hoes, at age 40, going out to clubs and dancing, they expect that the top 2% of the male population would be interested in them.

[00:05:55]I think not. So, this just shows how delusional they are, and the name [music] is apt, in my opinion. So, what do we take from all of this? I think the population of cat ladies is going to continue to rise as the militant self-entitled females continue to dominate social media and the dating scenes. And this is not my opinion. It's the census math. Female delusion calculator is a conversation starter, but it is built on real data. Trying to decide whether it's a useful reality check or not, really, it just depends on who looks at the data. Bigger point that I want to make about this. If you give the same calculator to the Filipinas, their answers are quite different. Their expected income is way lower. They just want a practical man that will support them and be honest and won't cheat on them. So, so all women want somebody that's going to support them and take care of them, but the Filipinas seem to be to be willing to offer a quality family life with a feminine partner that you just aren't going to find in the United States. And that's why, my friends, so many of us pack up and move to the Philippines. And please remember, until next time, better thinking does equal a better life.

[00:07:11]Joe out.

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