Foreigners, Whats Your Handsomeness Level In Philippines?

Added: 2026-05-12

[00:00:00]Imagine that. You're three or four or five in your country and you suddenly become an eight or a nine or a 10 here.

[00:00:08]If you've suddenly started feeling like a Hollywood celebrity since landing in Manila or Cebu, this video is for you.

[00:00:17]>> [music] [music] >> Hi everyone. Welcome to my channel. For those who are new here, my name is Leia.

[00:00:32]Welcome. Welcome. Today we're doing something a little different. I've had many of you asked what Filipinas really think about foreigners looks. So, I'm going to share something about that and also I'm going to share my personal handsomeness level ranking. Try to see which rank would you be. And we're also going to talk about the handsomeness culture shock that many expats feel when they move here. Dealing with the handsomeness culture shock. Oh, yes. It feels good, right? But if you don't understand it, it can actually get you into trouble. Most foreigners completely misunderstand what's actually happening because I've seen this so many times. A foreigner comes here. Maybe he felt average back home and then suddenly he's getting the attention. He's getting a lot of compliments. People calling him guapo everywhere. By the way, guapo means handsome.

[00:01:42]And so, for the first time in a long time, he feels seen. And that feeling it's powerful. Right?

[00:01:53]But, I don't know if somebody told you that attention can either work for you or completely work against you. And here's the truth. Most foreigners don't realize you're not just judged by Western standards anymore. You are in a completely different environment where you stand out, you're new, and yes, you are interesting by default.

[00:02:22]So, your value feels higher.

[00:02:25]And if you don't understand this shift, you might start believing something that isn't fully real. So, I'm going to show you what is your rank both in the general physical attributes. And also, I will give you my own Leia scale. And please don't hesitate to comment what scale you belong, all right? And I'll also share the red flags of the handsomeness hype or the guapo hype. So, before I'll give you the Leia scale, I would like to discuss the general physical attributes that make a big difference and that's what contributes to the physical attractiveness of foreigners here. And yeah, maybe we can assign points to each of them.

[00:03:17]Number one is your nose. Yes. Your big long nose.

[00:03:25]Filipinos see long nose and big nose as attractive. The longer, the bigger, the more attractive you are.

[00:03:34]>> [laughter] >> Maybe back home you feel like a Pinocchio, but here you are a guapo.

[00:03:42]There's a lot of Filipino celebrities and influencers that have done the nose job just to be more beautiful and more presentable in their social media.

[00:03:54]That's how important the nose is in the beauty standard here in the Philippines.

[00:04:01]So, let's say having a long nose you already have two to three points for that depending on the Filipinas handsomeness scale, right? So, let's just say two points. Second is your height. Your height might be average in your country like let's say you are uh 5 ft 5 in tall or 1.67 m. And in your home country, that's not considered tall, right? But when you come here you are tall. And most Filipina height are like 4 4'9 to 5'3. I'm 5'3, by the way. So, your height suddenly becomes something attractive here. And let's say let's assign two points for that one. But this still depends on the woman, right?

[00:04:57]Because some of them takes height as very important, so they might give you three points for that one. So, let's just say two points for your height.

[00:05:05]And the third one is the eyes and skin color. Of course, different coloring eyes and skin is definitely a plus in attractiveness here. So, let's say generally these are the average handsomeness points.

[00:05:22]The nose two points, the um height two points, the eye color two points, and the skin two points. So, physically you are already an eight or maybe nine for some. Maybe 10 for some. Imagine that. You're three or four or five in your country and you suddenly become an eight or a nine or a 10 here. That can definitely boost an ego, right? But the handsomeness level is not just about your physical looks. Of course, having those qualities, yes, you're attractive physically, but that's not just the basis for some of the women here. I do remember an expat how he got complimented in the early morning just when he wakes up. He's still in his wake up phase and you know how all of us feel not at best in the morning, right? Cuz we just woke up. And then he went to a sari-sari store. Oh, by the way, for those who have not seen the video about the sari-sari store, if it's a good help for your Filipina and her family, there's a link above and also below.

[00:06:37]It's worth a check out and share with people who you think might benefit that. So, oh yeah.

[00:06:43]Back to the story. That expat went to the sari-sari store in the early morning just when he woke up to buy coffee. And guess what?

[00:06:54]He was groggy. He had messy hair. No face wash yet. But he gets complimented.

[00:07:03]"Good morning. You're so guapo."

[00:07:06]So, in that state where you feel like not your best state in the day, he got complimented as very handsome.

[00:07:16]The difference is crazy, right?

[00:07:18]So, now let's break down my own handsomeness level. And remember, this is my own personal handsomeness level preference. This is not true to all Filipinas, all right? But I'm sure a lot of Filipinas would agree with me. So, let's assign 10 points as the highest and one is the lowest. I am excited. And I want you to also comment later which handsomeness level you are on Leia scale, all right? Don't be shy.

[00:07:50]>> [laughter] >> So, let's talk first the handsomeness level one to three. You are level [clears throat] one to three if you look like you haven't slept, you haven't showered, or you haven't figured out where you are. So, even being a foreigner won't save you. Effort matters a lot.

[00:08:11]But what surprised me is that I've seen some Filipinas dating someone who seems like he has not showered for a year.

[00:08:22]Like, oh my god.

[00:08:25]Yes, even those unhygienic one becomes a seven in the scale with someone here in the Philippines.

[00:08:34]Which might be good news for some of [laughter] you here, guys.

[00:08:38]But not for me.

[00:08:40]One to three scale or even zero for me.

[00:08:43]Like, come on. Cleanliness matters a lot to me. I think it has something to do with culture and habits cuz here it's hot and humid all year round. So, most people here shower every day before going to work, before going out, before going to to a date.

[00:09:04]But in your country where there's winter you only shower like maybe once a week or once a month during winter, right?

[00:09:14]Please tell me in the comments box below how many times you shower during winter.

[00:09:20]So, it all boils down to habit and environment. But guys, at least when you go out to meet a Filipina, when you go out in a date, please don't treat Philippines like it's a winter country where you don't shower for a week or month.

[00:09:39]It's hot and humid here. You can easily smell when you sweat out. So, yeah, please >> [laughter] >> take note of your shower habits. Even if you put a lot of perfume it won't work. If you don't shower, you will still be smelly. So yeah, foreigners who don't have good hygiene is a turn off for me. So that's level 1 to 3.

[00:10:06]Now, let's go to handsomeness level 4 to 6. This is where most of you are. When you're clean, when you're polite, when you're smiling. In Filipino culture, being nice is a big deal.

[00:10:21]Handsomeness level 7 to 8. Now, this is where things change. This guy has confidence, has presence, and knows how to treat people and animals.

[00:10:35]At least for me.

[00:10:37]A guy who is calm, respectful, and carries himself well. That's when Filipinas really notice you when you're like that. And especially if you're fit.

[00:10:48]Now, for me, those traits in that level mentioned plus being fit, that would handsome level nine in Lea's scale.

[00:11:00]Because for me, that speaks a lot how you take care of yourself. And if you can take care of yourself, it's easy for you to take good care of others. I love people who take care of themselves, and you can easily see that in their physique, right? Although, yeah, there are some that are arrogant. So, no. If the person looks fit but arrogant, level zero.

[00:11:27]>> [laughter] >> So, those fit people, mostly these are the people that exudes self-love, self-respect.

[00:11:35]And for me, that is a notch higher for handsomeness level. So, is there a level 10 in Lea's scale?

[00:11:43]For me, that's character over time. And that's when I know the person well and shows consistency of good character over time. That's a 10. So, becoming a 10 in my scale would take time, which makes sense, right? No one is perfect, right? But if the person consistently shows up for you, consistently showing kindness to you and to other people and to animals, he will eventually become a 10.

[00:12:14]So, if there's any Filipina watching this, would you agree on my scale?

[00:12:19]Please let me know yours in the comments box below. Now, let's talk about the part nobody explains, the handsomeness culture shock.

[00:12:30]Because for many foreigners, this is very real. You might come from a country where you feel average, maybe even invisible sometimes, or even in some in your country would be considered degenerate. Sorry for the word. But then, you know, that's the fact. And then, suddenly you arrive in the Philippines and everything changes.

[00:12:55]People are smiling at you more, you get compliments from young, beautiful Filipinas. You feel noticed. And naturally, it feels good. Of course, it does. Let me share a quick story. I once knew an expat who was a solid handsome level five back home. And within a month of moving here, he was being called guapo everywhere he go. And he let that handsomeness hype go to his head. He started spending money he didn't have to keep up a celebrity image and ignored some major red flags because he loved the validation. And he ended up losing his savings and getting his heart broken.

[00:13:45]So guys, remember, the hype is fun, but it isn't always your reality. So, here are some red flags to watch out for and for you to be aware. Number one, the too much, too fast attention. If someone is overly attached to you after a few days, that's not love, that's a warning sign.

[00:14:09]Don't let the sudden attention cloud your judgment. Stay grounded. But of course, maybe it's truly love. You just have to like really be grounded and be more aware of how it is and and how consistent it is as time goes by. The second one, the ATM compliments. Guys, if the compliments are always followed by a request for help, be careful. Your handsomeness shouldn't be a currency for loans. If you're so handsome turns into can you help me financially, that's not attraction at all. That's strategy. Number three, the ego boost addiction.

[00:14:56]If you start chasing validation instead of real connection, that's when problems begin. Watch out where you're going and how you are feeling. Whenever someone tells you, "You're so guapo." Then number four, the everyone loves me illusion trap. Just because you're getting attention doesn't mean all of it is genuine. You have to be aware of how you are reacting and how you are responding to this guapo phenomenon, all right? Cuz not everyone is interested for the right reasons. Stay aware, not paranoid, but aware. Here's the good news. If you understand what's happening, this can actually work in your favor. You can actually build real confidence, form genuine relationships, and actually become the higher level version of yourself. Cuz being guapo in the Philippines, it's not about being the best looking guy in the room. It's about being respectful, grounded, kind, and consistent. And that's what people remember here.

[00:16:08]So now, I want to ask you, what is the most surprising reaction or compliment you received since coming here in the Philippines? And be honest. Did it boost your ego a little? Drop it in the comments. I read them all. And for my fellow Filipinas watching, what's your number one trait that makes a foreigner truly guapo? I'm excited to hear your comments. I also experienced that when I went to India, in the northern part, Chandigarh and the Himalayas. And first time in my life where men looked at me, stared at me. At first, it was of course, it felt good. I came from a country where I got bullied for my chocolate skin. And here I was where I'm attractive, but after a few days, it became weird and disturbing, especially when I got chased and being called that.

[00:17:05]It felt more like a danger than compliment. So, I didn't like the attention and I had to blend in by wearing the traditional Indian suit.

[00:17:14]Even the neck has to be covered. It was not a nice experience at all. But also, I understand that the culture in India is different when it comes to women, especially in the northern part. So yeah, that will be a different story. So guys, enjoy the friendliness of the Filipino people and enjoy the celebrity feeling that you get when you come here, but please stay humble and stay wise. If you found this helpful, give this video a thumbs up and subscribe for more honest expat advice. And if you're someone who likes to make a difference to the lives of homeless or less fortunate kids or would like to join me in my random acts of kindness to anyone I meet, be a part of my be kind and do epic mission.

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[00:18:22]I'm excited to see your comments. How are you ranking in my handsomeness level? Which level are you? Please don't hesitate to comment below. I want to know. Thank you so much for watching and commenting. So, hope you're having an amazing day or night, wherever you are on the planet. Catch you later, guys.

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