how to build a personal brand so magnetic money chases you

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[00:00:00]Okay, so listen. If you've been posting for months, maybe years, and the money still isn't showing up, the problem isn't your strategy. It's not your hooks. It's not your hashtags, and it's definitely not the algorithm. You're not shadowbanned. The reason money isn't chasing you yet is because the people watching you don't trust you, see you as an authority or resonate enough with you to hand it over. A magnetic personal brand, the kind where money actually starts finding you, isn't built on tactics. It isn't just built on credibility. It's built on authority, resonance, and believe it or not, likability. And once you have that, selling stops feeling like selling because people just buy. I built my brand from posting on social media into a multi-million dollar digital product business. Made my first six figures with a $99 investment. All because I blow up on social media. And I built two multi-figure products because of one thing. I threw out the brocoded rule book and ran my brand on whimsy and aligned strategy. So today, I'm going to walk you through the five levers of a magnetic brand that doesn't just make selling or expressing feel good, whether you're here to sell a program or not, but will also make the sales effortless and have people buying from you, even if they just came across your page. All right, lever one to build a brand that's magnetic, build one that feels like you.

[00:01:13]And most people miss this or they find this unimportant. I have minimal educational content on my page, yet I still make multi6figure months. Why?

[00:01:21]because my audience resonates with me.

[00:01:24]When you're building a brand, you're not just building authority. That's important. And we will get to that, but you are building a movement. You are building something around who you are, a culture, a community. A lot of people say all the time, "Oh my gosh, I don't know what my niche is." But [ __ ] a niche. You are your niche. A brand is who you are. It's what you stand for.

[00:01:44]It's what you stand against. It's your aesthetic, your personality, your tone, your story, what differentiates you.

[00:01:50]Yes, it's what you do, but also it's the hot takes and controversial opinions you have and hold out for the world to see.

[00:01:57]Your niche, if we want to use that word, can be who you are, what you do, or what you teach. But the way you're going to differentiate yourself is by your beliefs, your values, how you speak, and your story. Take me. I say the word [ __ ] a lot. Some people do not like me. And a lot of people love me because of that.

[00:02:14]They feel like I'm so unfiltered and authentic. It gives them permission to be the same. And often times people just buy things from people they like. If you want to make a magnetic brand, there's nothing more magnetic than being so yourself that you draw an audience to you that is 100% resonant with you. It is so much more ideal to have a small amount of people who are 100% bought in rather than a large amount of people who are lukewarm cuz you're trying to make everyone like you. That's what makes a brand magnetic no matter how big it is.

[00:02:42]Knowing who you are, knowing what your advantages are, knowing what your white space is. And we talk about this deeper in my master class. Knowing all of that, your competitive edge, that is you.

[00:02:51]Because nothing makes you more magnetic than being you. It will draw your people. It will make creating content fun for you because it is you. And actually something I would recommend to every brand owner is to have a common enemy, not just a common mission or a common why. Because nothing will pull people more towards a movement and a brand is a movement than being part of something. And a lot of being part of something is being a group of people with not just a shared destination, but a shared enemy. Think of religion. Think of the Taylor Swifties. Now, a lot of you might also be multi-passionate and be saying things like, "Oh my gosh, I have so many parts of me. How do I choose which one? How do I encapsulate all of me in one brand?" This is also something we go deeper in in our master class. But the other truth is, not every single part of you needs to be in your brand. Does the person you're with when you're with your lover or you're sick with your mommy have to be in your professional sphere? No. There's so many parts of you and understanding what parts you think would be most joyfully expressed in your brand that could attract your tribe of people who would buy anything from you. That should be enough. And then there's deeper work that goes into finding how to express the others. But this being authentically expressed is how I get dream clients who love me for me, who love my teaching style. They tell me, "You made me feel like I don't have to be anyone but myself." Because no matter how I act, whether I say a curse word or not, you guys know I know what I'm talking about because I've also done it. But stop worrying about everyone liking you. Stop worrying about being acceptable to everyone. And also, if you're someone who's not even posting cuz you're like, "Oh my gosh, like what will people think about me? What will people say? What people? The broke people, the poor people, the weird people who are afraid of doing anything." No one has judged you that has been at the top. So, if you're not starting a brand because you're worried about what people think about you, there's so much on the other side of just saying, "Fuck that." One of the girls inside my private circle was able to sell a $7,000 offer just off vibes. I'm not kidding. She had no website ready and her new offer taken from the old one that was no longer aligned wasn't even fully ready yet. But she posted something that was authentic to her. Someone saw one of her videos, booked a call immediately and said, "I'm in because I like your energy." She didn't have to sell traditionally or sell in a way that didn't feel like her, feel cringey. Why? Because of her authenticity and alignment. The thing most coaches tell you to ignore. But just authenticity alone cannot create 200, 300, 400k months. So, let's move on to level two. become the obvious answer.

[00:05:08]Lever two is authority. This is the traditional one. And authority just means this. When someone in your audience has a question about your topic, your name is the first one that pops into their head. That's it. That's the whole thing you're building. Now, here's the part most women get wrong.

[00:05:22]And I used to get it wrong, too. The instinct is to hold your best stuff back. Save the good stuff for the paid product. Give them just enough of free content to want more. That instinct is wrong. Like, throw it out. Because people build their picture of your paid product from the value of your free content. If your free content is shallow, they assume your paid product is too. If your free content is so good, they can't believe it's free. They assume the paid product is going to be life-changing. So, give it all away. Be the woman who's giving away what other people are charging $1,000 for. That's how you become the obvious answer. And yes, by also making sure you are the most visible in your industry. And I know that some of you are thinking because I get this DM from girls all the time. Blair, I don't know enough yet to be an authority. You do not have to be the most experienced woman in your space. You have to be a few steps ahead of the woman watching. The girl who just had her first 10K month is more useful to a beginner than someone 10 years deep who's forgotten what that journey even felt like. You're not competing with the top of the mountain. You're competing with the woman two steps behind you who needs someone two steps ahead of her.

[00:06:21]That's you. And remember, people buy based on likability as well. So, whatever coach there is in the world, you are a perfect match for your ideal client. Now, the way I built authority around social monetization wasn't by waiting until I was a billionaire to talk. I started talking when I had the answers I had and I gave them away. I literally made my first six figures off of a $97 course because I blew up my social media first visibility. And the women buying it already knew I had the answer before they ever opened the checkout page. That's why my community treats our Luma AI like a daily essential. The energy and everything I put out there has been here's what I actually know, take it. And authority is what turns into 200,000 to 400,000 passive months on repeat. So authority handled the does she know what she's talking about question. That's lever two. But knowing your stuff is not enough on its own. There are women out there right now who are smart, deeply qualified, two PhDs, the whole thing, and still cannot sell a single thing online. So lever three, let them see themselves in your story and specifically the part of your story you keep trying to skip over. Here's what most women do not realize. A perfectly polished personal brand is not aspirational. It is suspicious. When a woman watching you cannot see any version of herself in any part of your story, she immediately writes off your results as great for her, not possible for me. And that is the moment she stops being a buyer. Like she may still be a fan, she may still be a follower, but she is not a buyer because she does not see herself in the path. People do not buy from women they admire from a distance. They buy from women they recognize. And some part of your story has to be a mirror. So, I will tell you mine because I know a lot of girls only see the millionaire from her phone version of me. I drove Uber 4 years ago.

[00:08:00]That was my actual job. I was making around $30,000 a year driving Uber just trying to get by and just genuinely not knowing if any of the social media stuff I was starting was going to land. And in the beginning, it wasn't. The thing that actually flipped it was I started selling feet pics for 3 years trying to get by. And then I made a course on how to sell feet pics on Twitter of all things. That course made me $2 million in 17 months. And I want you to really sit with that. The first thing that ever made me real money online, wasn't some polished business plan. It was a $99 product about something most people would judge me for selling. Eventually, it became $300, but that's besides the point. Because here's the truth. Money is not real, but marketing is. People will literally buy anything if you've built enough trust to ask and if you've gotten enough visibility. Because sales is also a numbers game. There were months before that hit where I was questioning things like, "Am I delusional? Is this stupid? Is the brand thing actually going to work?" The sevenfigure version of me that's on your phone right now did not exist for years.

[00:08:58]And I will keep talking about that period for the rest of my career because that is the period the woman watching is in right now. Even the weird part about me selling feet pics cuz I bet some of you girls might be in the spicy industry wanting a way out. So, I want to reframe one fear that almost every female creator has around this. Do you think sharing the messy middle is going to undermine your authority? It does the opposite. Polish without origin reads as inherited or lucky or must be nice.

[00:09:22]Polish with a believable journey reads as proof of method. The struggle does not weaken your authority. It earns it.

[00:09:28]But on its own, story isn't enough either. If your audience only ever sees the struggle and they never get to see the outcome, they are not following a transformation. They are just watching someone else also be stuck. So lever four, embody the life they're trying to build. Here's the polarity I want you to understand. Relatability without aspiration is just depressing.

[00:09:47]Aspiration without relatability is unbelievable. A magnetic brand needs both. The friend who gets it and the woman who's already done it both in the same person on the same feed. So lever four is embodiment. And embodiment means you have to be the living example of the transformation you're selling. Not perform form it, be it. The lifestyle, the freedom, the softness, the kind of business that runs without grinding you down into a dusty, crusty version of yourself. If you're teaching women how to build a lean, profitable, soft life kind of business, your life has to actually look like one. The polish has to be real because women can feel when it's not. And I know there are women watching right now who feel weird about showing the wins. The mentally, the apartment, the Miami life, the launches, whatever your version is. So, I'm just going to say this. Sharing what you've built isn't bragging. It's giving the woman watching permission to want this for herself. The only reason I started making the money I'm making now is cuz another woman shared her wins with me through the internet. You owe it to the version of you who needed to see this was possible. Like genuinely, you owe it to her. Because if you'd seen one woman who looked like you, talked like you, came from where you came from, doing what you wanted to do, you would have started years sooner. Be that woman for someone else. For me, that looks like the Miami life, the apartment two blocks from the beach, the ranch life I'm building towards, cuz to be honest, I don't really like Miami. I just like the sunshine and the lack of state taxes.

[00:11:03]the community and women calling your program life-changing, your coaching life-changing, saying that your work literally changed their life. Those are real. They are earned. And every time I put one of them on camera, I am quietly telling another woman, "This is real, and this is on the table for you, too."

[00:11:18]So, at this point, we have authenticity, authority, story, and embodiment. Four out of the five. There is still one question left, and it's the one that makes the difference between a brand women respect and a brand women actually pay. It's a question about energy and most creators get it backwards. Lever five, give like you don't need anything back. Most creators are subtly needy on camera. The post is for the engagement.

[00:11:40]The email is for the open rate. The video is for the views. And listen, I get it. We all want the metrics. But your audience can feel that energy whether they can name it or not. And it is the exact thing making them subconsciously hold on to their wallets.

[00:11:52]They feel the ass before you even made it. There's an analogy from the reference video I wanted to retell because it's perfect. Think about the friend at the pub who buys you a drink and then 2 days later texts you for $10.

[00:12:02]That friend wasn't generous. They were transactional the whole time, just on a delay. And conditional giving actually feels worse than not giving at all because now there's a quiet bill attached to everything. That is exactly how a needy personal brand feels to your audience. They can sense the bill is on the way. So the reframe is this. You build everything, your content, your community, your products on a foundation of giving with no expectation of return.

[00:12:24]Not I made this so you'd buy, but I made this because it would actually help you.

[00:12:28]If it helps enough women, the buyers come. The energy of here, this is for you. Take it is what magnetism actually feels like on the other side of the screen. The reason my community treats our Luma AI or our calls like a daily essential. The reason I made 220,000 in a single month completely passively is not because the marketing is clever alone. The marketing is pretty good.

[00:12:47]It's fine. It's because the energy and everything I put out there is genuinely authentic from the heart and very here.

[00:12:54]this is for you. Take it. I don't need anything back. Generosity is the multiplier on top of the other four lovers. And for a lot of people, it is a hard thing to pull back when a lot of people have told you opposite. And without it, authority feels like flexing. Story feels like a sob. And embodiment feels like a brag. With all of these things, you become magnetic.

[00:13:12]And that's actually the whole loop. When authority and story and embodiment and generosity are all in place at the same time, money does start finding you. Not because of a manifestation hack, not because the universe just decided, because the women watching now trust you enough to hand it over before you've even asked. That is what magnetism is.

[00:13:30]That is the only thing magnetism has ever been. So, if magnetism is what makes the money find you, then the way most women are still being taught to build a business is the exact thing keeping that magnetism off. The hustle, grind, the masculine brocoded playbook, all of it actively repels the kind of brand we just walked through. So, click this video here because I'm breaking down why the girl boss era is officially over, what's replacing it, and the version of business women are actually built for. Lean, soft, profitable, and on your own terms. If today's video shifted something, this one is the next move. I'll see you there. Tear off.