"I Really Do Hate All Men, Nothing Good About Them..." Black Woman Says She Was Raised a Feminist 🤔

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[00:00:00]From the topic of women not really understanding how much men dislike them, I just want to tell you guys some of the things that I've heard men say to me as somebody who used to have a ton of male friends, mostly male friends, and at one point probably all male friends, because I used to tell myself that they were less drama than girls and that I get along with the boys better. And in hindsight, it was so pick me and so cringey. But at the time, I didn't even realize that that's what was going on.

[00:00:22]And mind you, I was raised to be feminist, I was raised to be liberal, I was raised by a strong ass Gen X single mother. So, that's how insidious misogyny and patriarchy is. It seeped into even my brain, and I don't even know how the that happened, because I've never liked But I want to tell you guys some of the things that they say about us behind closed doors. If you already know what they say, you can keep scrolling.

[00:00:43]Um, but this is mainly for those naive ass girls who were probably raised religious, because again, like I said, being raised religious as a woman makes you a dumb ass, and that's by design.

[00:00:52]It's not your fault, but you were raised to be a stupid because probably you were raised with religion. And if you're raised to worship men, what type you going to put up with from them, you know? So, like it goes so deep, but like Some things that men say about women, where to start, where to start. They tell your friend They tell their friends how tight you are.

[00:01:11]Like, you know how like girls will talk about how big a man is, like, oh my god, he had a coke bottle Like That's like me and my friends talk about.

[00:01:20]A man who doesn't like you, but slept with you anyway, is going to go back to his friends and tell them that you had no walls, that you were busted out, that you were loose as because they don't understand female anatomy, and they don't understand that just like how penises can come in different sizes, women's vaginas also come in different sizes, and they probably just didn't fit yours, and so they're going to go back and tell everybody that you were blown the [ __ ] Like to abandon women in public, because that's another way of asserting power.

[00:01:48]And so, my best friend is a gay man, and he talks about how anytime he's hung out with straight men, they get off on like abandoning women and living leaving them standing there alone because the more nonchalant you can act and the more you can not give a about the consequences or what happens to other people, the more manly you are. Like that's >> When you see people that speak like this, these are people that are broken.

[00:02:12]In every way, shape, or form, aggressive, broken, don't have a loving bone in their body, and they're 100% wrong. We all know, right? Us watching this video right now. Usually we all understand that nobody is a monolith and there's but good people and there's bad people. There's black people, there's white people, there's women and there's men, right? There are people that are evil and there are people that are good on all sides. And so for them to generalize, and when I see people generalize, I'm assuming that they're talking about the the majority. They're wrong.

[00:02:47]They're 100% wrong. I don't know one guy, and I got three brothers, I got nine uncles, and I got a bunch of friends that have done none of this stuff that they're talking about right now. We don't go back and we talk about what women sizes are they of what they box is. We don't sit there and try to abandon women in no shape shape or form.

[00:03:09]And no, you're not going to guess like me and say, "Well, Antoine, that's just the guys that you know." No, it's not.

[00:03:14]Most men are not doing that. Most men do not disrespect women. Most Most men are not angry and hate women and don't under- estimate the amount of hate that a man has for women. These women are bitter. I don't know who took their lunch when they was younger. I don't know who pissed them off. And as you can see, right? Cuz she said it, not me. She said that she was basically raised by a raging feminist liberal mother. And this is this is generational curses that's being passed down on the people. And now they got a platform and they'll spew this hateful nonsense and none of it is true, bro.

[00:03:54]>> Makes you a man.

[00:03:54]>> Her gay friend.

[00:03:56]Get the hell out of here, bro.

[00:03:58]>> And under patriarchy, so my best friend would constantly stay behind with the girls that were left behind, whether it was like a girl blacked out at a party or just like a girl that was standing there talking to a bunch of guys, and the guys just walked off and left her there, because he was like he he first of all, he was gay, so he wasn't trying to hit the same patriarchal markers as a lot of the other men, but also he was like I don't see a point in being mean to this person just >> Hit the same patriarchal markers.

[00:04:25]Got it.

[00:04:26]>> They're a girl, like that's insane. So, like >> It's painful sometimes that y'all send me these videos, and I have to endure through them with so much hate in their heart. Because it's one thing to react to something where people are just genuinely wrong, but you know, they they just got a misunderstanding or you just got a general difference of opinion or whatever like that, you know, it's no right or wrong sometimes or whatever, but when people move in hate, and they move straight up based off of the fact that I hate this or I hate men, and this is what my whole identity and my platform is going to be, sometimes it's painful. But, we going we going to endure through it, because it's worth the conversation to show y'all what not to do.

[00:05:08]>> Most of the time, like they will abandon you just to show you that they don't care, and that's a way of them telling you that they're more powerful than you.

[00:05:15]Many times have you seen a man or heard about a man or experienced a man leaving a woman behind and like walking so far ahead of her that he doesn't even notice that she's gotten in an Uber and went home?

[00:05:25]>> Never. Never experienced that in my entire life.

[00:05:28]>> They're trying to show you how much they don't give a [ __ ] about you. They're trying to demonstrate how much they don't care and how much power they have over you just by the sake of not caring.

[00:05:37]And so, when you don't pick up on it, and you're like, "Oh, I don't know why he's doing this." like da da da da da, and you act stupid about it, you act naive, and you act like you don't know why he's doing that, he hates you even more, because he's like this stupid [ __ ] doesn't even realize what I'm doing, what a dumb ass, like I keep watching this video over and over again to get ready to post it and then I think of like even more examples. It makes them feel so much more powerful if they can manipulate and talk you into sleeping with them. They don't want women who actually want to sleep with them. They want to feel like they've manipulated you into it so that they can feel like they have power over you.

[00:06:09]>> Are you not grown women?

[00:06:12]Didn't you just say you got the choice to choose for yourself, your body, your choice, all of this other stuff? What do you mean manipulate you into into sleeping with you? Either you want to sleep with the person or you don't want to sleep with the person. Either you want to have a one night stand or you don't. What are you all talking about?

[00:06:28]>> Because if you just consent to sleeping with them and it's just like an equal exchange, they don't want to be equal, they want to be over you. In those moments when you're being really sincere and you're like talking or or or you're like talking to your man and you're just hanging out with him and you've got your head on his chest and your pillow talking it the [ __ ] up, he goes back and he tells his friends, "Yeah, I got that [ __ ] right where I want her." And I'm telling you, I'm telling you, I've been in those conversations where the man where the man is like, "Yeah, I got that [ __ ] right where I want her, like she has no idea."

[00:06:58]>> She needs to check her friend group and that means that she's a toxic person because you are what you hang around.

[00:07:05]This is crazy what I'm hearing right now. This is literally crazy in every sense of the word, bro.

[00:07:11]>> will not take accountability when you guys break up because when you guys break up, he's just going to go and get another woman.

[00:07:18]Like they really struggle with being single because since their femininity has been ripped from them, they're really empty on the inside and they need a woman to add value and color and meaning to their lives. [clears throat] So, when you guys break up, you're sitting there heartbroken and trying to think about where it all went wrong and you're going to therapy and you're going on a heal on a healing journey and meanwhile, this man is just trying to find another woman to get his dick wet.

[00:07:39]>> Can you imagine actually running into this woman in the wild? Whether you're in a restaurant right in the waiting on your order or you outside waiting on the Uber. Can you imagine striking up a conversation with this woman? This is insane. I don't think that I've seen a person this hateful in a while, bro.

[00:07:59]>> I've watched it happen multiple multiple multiple multiple >> Can you imagine this person coming on a job interview and you mistakenly hiring them because they are a chameleon and they're able to fool you into bringing them into the fold and how toxic the culture is going to be as a result of it.

[00:08:14]>> times. If you are a woman who has had multiple sexual partners and it doesn't matter if you've had two sexual partners or if you've had 20 sexual partners or if you've had 200 sexual partners, they're going to [ __ ] shame you to their friends and to their next girlfriend.

[00:08:28]Because when I was 19 or 20, a guy was telling me that he didn't want to date his ex anymore because and I quote, "Do you know how many [ __ ] would be able to come up to me and ask me how to >> She don't even curse right.

[00:08:42]You could tell that this is forced.

[00:08:44]>> taste?

[00:08:47]He felt like she had she had had sex with too many people and whereas he was also [ __ ] her, he didn't feel like she was good enough to make his girlfriend because she was too promiscuous. Mind you, he was just as promiscuous as her if not more. But in his mind, it wasn't the fact that she was promiscuous that's the problem. It's the fact that other men would be able to make fun of him about her promiscuity that was the issue. Do you know how many [ __ ] could come up to me and ask me how my dick taste?

[00:09:14]Right. When they go out of their way to lie to you and manipulate you and like change your entire sense of reality, they think you're stupid for falling for it, which makes them hate you even more.

[00:09:25]Mind you. So like if a man is like being manipu- >> This is really at this point just a test to see how much more I can endure.

[00:09:32]>> If being abusive, whatever and you try to love him through that, he's going to be like, this stupid [ __ ] Why would she even put up with this? But I'm not going to break up with her. I'm just going to get worse. That's legitimately I've had so many men tell me that I respected her less because she stayed with me. But instead of breaking up with her, I just treated her worse because >> I can't do it no more. I can't do it no more.

[00:09:56]How much longer do I have on this video?

[00:10:00]I'm only halfway there? No, hell no.

[00:10:03]Hell no.

[00:10:04]What I like to do was I like to give credit to the content creator regardless of whether I agree or not. So, I'll put that link down in the description.

[00:10:12]This woman is evil.

[00:10:14]And I don't say that lightly.

[00:10:16]I don't say that lightly. This woman is hurt.

[00:10:20]Hurt, hurt. She really do need help.

[00:10:24]Why not just go date women?

[00:10:28]I I mm Honestly, I'm contemplating whether or not I even want to post this video.