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[00:02:14][music] Hello, hello. Good afternoon.

[00:02:24]Happy Wednesday, right? Wednesday, May 20th. Good afternoon, girls.

[00:02:31]Good afternoon to you all. I'm happy to be here, to bring a new topic, a tremendous topic, girls. I hope you'll participate in the chat, and anyone who wants to upload is welcome. She is welcome. It's a good topic, the link will be available for anyone who wants to come up for a while and have a nice chat. Uh, I 'm having a little coffee here with you guys because I haven't had dinner.

[00:03:02]After this live stream I'm going to have dinner, so it's going to be short, but very educational and with a lot of philosophical teaching, especially stoic. So let's go. What do you think? Good afternoon, Sandrita Patricia, my lovely little kitchen, welcome, my little kitchen. If you'd like to come up with the teacher and have a chat, you're welcome here, my Sandrita. Hey, Ana Karen, good afternoon. Ycki, good afternoon. Evita Cárdenas, it's a pleasure to have you here. It's great that it's here, it's finally here, isn't it?

[00:03:38]Unwrapping them again in the chats and I'm very happy, I'm very happy, Vita. And I hope you like this song, Vita.

[00:03:48]I hope you like it and enjoy it, girls. I'll explain it very clearly, eh, I'll approach it from a more stoic perspective because that's my niche. Uh, I have to do it, I have to make content about that, but also a little bit psychological, from the psychological side, uh, this topic. My Eli, good afternoon. Who else am I missing here? Regina, good afternoon. My star moderator, my lady, welcome. The queen of moderation, my dear, you have everything here for you to moderate to your liking. I hope you feel comfortable in the teacher's channel, so have a very good afternoon. I don't want to miss any, and those who arrive are all cordially welcome to this topic. So, what do you think? What do you think of the topic?

[00:04:40]It promises, of course it promises. Today we're going to talk about a topic, girls, a delicate one, but very human, like all the teacher's likes, right? Okay, let's talk about lies, let's talk about slander, let's see what that is, what it's all about, right? And that pain that sometimes appears, girls, when someone makes something up about you, hasn't that happened to you? Doesn't it cause you a little pain? Uh, when you find out, uh, yes, a warm welcome. Thank you, girls, really, for supporting me and leave your like, share the channel dreams if you want, because this topic is really beautiful, huh? [laughs] Let's see, little kitchen, what do we eat with, right? What's the deal with this topic? Okay, today's topics are about lies, slander, and that emotional pain it causes us, right?

[00:05:39]When someone leaves or we find out, right? And I think it's happened to all of us. We've all felt that way, and we're not going to act like nuns here, are we? It's as if the Virgin Mary is speaking to him. No, no, no. Here we're going to take off our masks for a little while and let's bring it up in a very didactic way, because at some point they didn't do it to us, but at some point we also did it ourselves. He says, "I'm listening, I have a really bad toothache."

[00:06:13]Oh, my Sandrita, put on some cloves, Sandrita. If you have a clove at home, crush it really well and put it on with a cotton ball or a cotton swab, and break off that cotton swab that we put in our ears, and bathe it with alcohol and you'll see, it goes away, put it right there on the tooth and it will go numb. That's like a natural anesthetic. So if you have the ingredients, if not buy them, crush the clove really well and add a little bit, about two tablespoons, of alcohol and soak it in a cotton ball and put it there. I hope to God it goes away because a toothache, girls, is like a kid giving birth. It really is there, there it is, and it's causing trouble.

[00:07:12]So Malitelito, good afternoon, Pachamama, welcome.

[00:07:17]So let's get down to business, shall we?

[00:07:21]Let's get to the topic because I've brought it up at length and I want to include as much as possible the most important things I noted down, the most important things for me. She says, sometimes I say, I don't mess with anyone, but then I think and say, no, yes, sometimes I'm quite the snake. Yes, mileriche. And I think everything, right?

[00:07:44]Oh, thanks. So, my daughter, add a little alcohol or a little hydrogen peroxide to kill the microbe too.

[00:07:54]And I know it will make you drowsy, but that's normal. You put it on properly, even if it hurts, you make it hard and there you go.

[00:08:03]Squash it, squash it until it goes numb and you'll see. First God, in the name of God. So let's go. What do you think about the topic?

[00:08:12]Well, and I want to start, girls, by saying something with a lot of respect, okay? I'm going to say this with all due respect. This is not a like to encourage hatred, revenge, or resentment, no hidden agendas, no. This is a space or this moment that we are going to talk about, to understand more and to heal and look at this issue more clearly.

[00:08:41]We will treat it as politely or respectfully as possible.

[00:08:47]Alma Lilia, good afternoon, blessings. Thank you, my little soul, for being here. So, because sometimes what hurts the most, girls, isn't just what they said, right? As I put it in the thumbnail.

[00:09:00]The most painful thing is discovering who believed it. The lie. Has it ever happened to you that you sometimes say, "Hey, is what they're saying true?" I mean, that doubt, that doubt is what sometimes hurts. You say, "Hey, really, really, do you believe that?"

[00:09:20]That I did that or said that, that's what hurts, not so much the lie, but who believes it, who believed it.

[00:09:30]Okay, it's happened to you, and sometimes the person, of course, we're going to see where the lies come from, where they originate. Ana Karen, it is disappointing to see who believes the lies. That's what hurts the most, Ana Karen. And I think it's happened to all of us, right? To all.

[00:09:49]So, emotionally, something happens to us too, right?

[00:09:57]When some people slander us, what happens emotionally when we are victims of a lie, right? When is it appropriate to speak, when is it appropriate to remain silent, girls, because many people don't even know, right? And how do we protect our peace of mind without losing that dignity, right? There's a lot at stake when someone tells a lie about us, a slander, isn't there? Or we do it to other people without knowing the harm we can cause. So, I invite you to participate, I invite you to the chat with respect, girls, really, do it with respect. Or perhaps many people here have experienced something similar. Because? Because that's what everyday life is all about. It's impossible at work. It happens a lot at work, girls, in the in-laws.

[00:10:54]And I know this topic is relevant, I know it's relevant. So I invite you to stay and support me in the live stream to make it more educational, and I'm going to start by explaining the concept of what a lie is. Okay, I know many of you know, but what do you understand to be a lie, girls? to what you know, uh, what the concept is, what a lie is. Does anyone know? Okay, my darling, Evita Alma Lilia, I invite you girls, I invite you to participate. Whether there are few of us here or many, I'm more than happy, I'm extremely content. Something that is not true. That's right, my Ana Karen. Something that is not true.

[00:11:46]hides the truth. That's right, my Eli Celeste Pérez, hello Celeste. Thank you for logging into your other account, Celeste.

[00:11:54]Thank you so much. Uh, what is a lie? It says that a lie is when a person says something they know. Pay close attention, a lie is when a person says something that they know, believe, or suspect is not true.

[00:12:16]which is not true, with what intention does he say it, with what intention? I think he suspects that it's not true. With what intention? With the sole intention of harming, manipulating, or protecting oneself from a consequence. That's why he lies. I'm going to repeat it again because I find it very [clears throat] interesting, something to justify you.

[00:12:43]Exactly, since he can't tell the truth, he justifies himself and with the intention of deceiving, of course, because that's also a lie, isn't it? Deceive, manipulate, eh, bother, scrub, defame.

[00:12:59]Exact. Come on, my regal little kitchen. Hey, tamales, good afternoon, my tamales, welcome. Hey, I hope you like this topic and like I said, I have all due respect, girls. So, I'm going to repeat it again. A lie is when a person says something that they know, believe, or suspect is not true. With the intention of what? To damage, manipulate, or protect oneself from a consequence. But a lie, girls, isn't always a big deal.

[00:13:36]You can say that, you can say it, I never said that. Who have we heard of who, when asked, later says, "Hey, but why, why did you tell that lie?" She says, "No, I never said that. We try to justify it, like Jacki says. No, I never said that. That's not how it happened. We try to justify it, right? One way or another.

[00:13:58]I was just worried about you, that's why I said that, right? I was worried about you. Uh, I wanted to protect you, that's why I said that, and I don't want to hurt you, but I said it, well, right? Uh, a lot of times we justify ourselves with those words when we tell a lie about someone. I also know, girls, from my own experience, that there are lies made of half-truths or incomplete truths. Okay, we have to call it what it is. Sometimes there are lies made of half-truths, and those are the most dangerous. I'll tell you why. Have n't you ever told a lie like that, like you're telling the truth, but you also add a little white lie? Like we add something, right? Like we add something.

[00:14:52]That's the typical one. Like we add something or put a lot of cream on the tacos, right? Like we say later..." Mexicans, "Hey, you're putting a lot of cream on your tacos, on the lie, aren't you?" To that truth." And we add to it, we add a little more. So, why are they the most dangerous, girls?

[00:15:13]Because they take a part of reality and distort it until it becomes something else.

[00:15:20]Until it becomes something else. They distort it, and that's the most dangerous thing about telling a lie, well, any old lie, right? If someone tells me, "Oh, the teacher is a lesbian." Well, if they tell that lie and I know it's not true, then it 's a lie, right? But in a certain case, when they tell a half-truth, they distort the situation because it gives them the right. They say, well, it's true that the teacher is a lesbian, but she sleeps with minors, and look at this and look at that, I mean, we add to it or distort the lie, right? Half-truths. Are you telling me?

[00:16:03]Yes, girls? Because I want to make it as clear as possible that there are half-truths, and that's the most dangerous thing, you could say, because it gives us the right Or we think we have the right to add more, right? To the fire, to the grill, as they say, well, yes, the teacher is this and no, and they add and add, adding. Then a big lie is formed, and they distort it until it becomes something else, something it isn't, and other things they add of their own making. Exactly, my Eli. So a lie can have many functions. Hiding can be one of the functions of lying, hiding something, right? When we tell a little white lie, it's because we want to hide things, right? Blame someone else, also avoid responsibilities, right? Avoid responsibilities. So we tell the lie to avoid responsibility for ourselves, like getting out of it clean, right?

[00:17:12]Like we say, and people even breathe, right? Oh boy, I told this lie to my dad, that I didn't spend the money, that I lent it, and oh boy, what it cost me, not what it cost me. But well, in the end, he didn't find out, but we disguised the Lies. So, what for? To avoid responsibility, to wash our hands of it. Exactly. To gain sympathy. How many people lie to gain someone's sympathy, to gain someone's trust, or to validate themselves, no, with someone else, or to fit in with someone else?

[00:17:54]If anyone wants to go up there, uh, ask me for the link. I'd be happy to, very happy to. I'm ready to start.

[00:18:02]Sometimes there are topics I don't want to cover, but due to time constraints, but right now I'm ready if anyone wants to go up there and have a chat about this topic. So, lies have many functions, we said, right? To hide, to blame in order to avoid responsibility, to gain people's sympathy, to manipulate a story, to manipulate stories. There are those who lie so much that they forget what they say. Exactly, my Ana Karen. Sometimes we even forget. Regina says, "There are people who see it as so normal that they no longer feel like they're lying." And that's serious, teacher. Yes, that's a Um, ultimately, one day when Rafa is here, I'm going to ask him what the most common symptoms are, or what the harmful effects are, of a person who lies, right? And who no longer has that restraint or that empathy with others or with themselves, right?

[00:19:04]To lie. To lie. So, the functions are clear, the concept of lying or half- truths, half-lies, is clear. Yes, yes, yes, I'm getting it because I'm going to move on to another concept. I'm going to move on to the concept of slander. Okay, this is different, girls. Slander, I want you to know, is more serious than a simple lie or half-truths, half-lies, or the functions of lies, uh, totally different.

[00:19:40]Okay. And I want to make the difference very clear, and you'll see the difference and you'll realize if we've sometimes slandered or sometimes lied. Right? They lie so much it becomes narcissistic. Totally, my Jacki. Sometimes we don't measure it or even realize it, and we just do it automatically, girls. And that's what's dangerous. That's what's dangerous. It becomes like a way of being. Not with [laughs] Okay, my little jealous one, what is slander?

[00:20:16]Look, slander occurs when someone attributes something false to another person that can damage their name, their honor, their image, their relationships, their reputation. I 'm going to repeat it again.

[00:20:36]Slander is serious, girls.

[00:20:39]Slander occurs when someone attributes something false to another person that can damage their [sigh] name, their honor, their image, their relationships, or their reputation— in human language, however we want to put it. Slander is, I'm going to say something about you so that others see you in a worse light, right?

[00:21:09]In a worse light. That's slander.

[00:21:12]It's done with full intention. I'm going to say something false. I'm going to say it, not I'm going to say something about You, so that others see you in a better light, right?

[00:21:29]Yes, my Eli. And it's the truth, like, let's get real, girls.

[00:21:34]There really are people, says Tamalito, who live off the results of their lies, inventing problems to profit from them, manipulating people. Thank you, my Tamalito, for your comment. So, that's why it hurts so much, girls. This is where that little pain comes from. My stomach hurts, girls. It makes me tense, it makes me... Ah, okay. And in my daily life, the people who know me, I have that side. I've said it in many, or I said it in many Cielito live streams, I'm a sensitive person.

[00:22:14]There's hypersensitivity. Remember when we talked about a topic, they're very sensitive people, but they're very spiritual people, sometimes just by seeing someone they say, "Oh, you have a problem." Why? Because emotionally they're sensitive, hypersensitive people. And it's bad.

[00:22:35]Right? But you have to control it because otherwise it affects you, right? It's like it takes on everyone's problems, and that's not good, that's not healthy. So, slander hurts, it's what gives you that little pain, right? That little pain.

[00:22:54]Why? Because slander, girls, doesn't just attack what you did, it attacks who you are, in the eyes of other people. Slander has eyes, it carries your name, it carries your reputation, it carries your integrity as a person. I remember back at the ranch there was a man who really liked to lie, like someone said here, right? They lie with all sorts of malice. And he spread a lie about a girl just because of the way she walked. He opened his mouth and said that because of the way she walked, she wasn't, you know, a young lady anymore, like she used to be, "No, look, look, so-and-so's daughter, she 's not a young lady anymore, look how she walks."

[00:23:41]And things like that, girls, it's slander because it's defaming, it's... Slandering someone, trying to damage their reputation, their honor, their image, their relationships as a daughter of their parents. That was very common in the ranches, girls, very common. I don't know about your ranches, but in my ranch, that's something that's often used to defame someone. It makes me sick to see the malice, especially when you don't even know them. That's right, my Mapi, welcome. My Mapi Herrera, welcome. "Why are they walking around like that? They're not like that anymore," Elito says. I don't know about your ranches, but in my ranch, it was common. The old folks used to do that a lot, and that's why I remember my mom telling my dad, "So-and-so," I wasn't going to say his name, " So-and-so, don't go around saying anything, don't go around bearing false witness because the devil will get you. Don't go around, look how they're treating so-and-so's daughter. Would you like it if your daughter...?" "No, well, no." So you Shut your mouth. Don't go around saying anything because it's very easy to open your mouth to slander, girls. And to lie, right? To lie. So, it's clear what the difference is between a lie and slandering someone.

[00:25:12]Lying is something false, right? With the intention to deceive, uh, a rumor that goes around, right? Something false. Something false.

[00:25:21]Without confirmation, well, it's a rumor, information that circulates without confirming anything, gossip, as they sometimes call it, right? Gossip, a conversation about another person. And many times when that person isn't present, it happens, it doesn't happen. So, we agree that that's a lie, gossip, a rumor, a conversation there, right?

[00:25:51]Whispering, but slander is a lie aimed at damaging someone's reputation. Do you see the difference?

[00:26:05]And not every rumor is slander, not every rumor. We also have to put it into perspective, right? Or how do you see it?

[00:26:12]Not every rumor is Slander. But all slander, pay close attention, all slander uses rumor as its vehicle. Do we agree?

[00:26:24]Lies are from Satan. Truth is for people who have a spirit. And it's very difficult, my dear, very difficult to maintain or have that spirit, isn't it? Let's ask for the truth, let's ask, or however you want, from whatever denomination, to help us in this area because it's complicated, and we're all human, we've all done it. We've all told a little white lie at some point, or talked about someone, a bit of gossip. It's not a big deal, it's not something to worry about, even the news reports this kind of sensationalism, right? But slander is something else entirely, isn't it?

[00:27:11]Slander is done with the full intention of damaging someone's reputation and integrity. It's very different, and not every rumor, as I said, not every rumor is slander, not every piece of gossip is meant to slander, right? But all Slander has to carry that little rumor, what for, like that vehicle, right? There it goes, uh, they want to slander someone and the vehicle, what's the rumor?

[00:27:41]Oh, I heard. Oh, they told me, right?

[00:27:44]Hey, I heard this gossip. It's the vehicle. For what? To slander. Okay. The truth is, we [laughs] Yes, yes, totally, totally.

[00:27:55]Why does a lie, a slander, hurt so much? Girls, I ask you, why does it hurt so much? Why do you think it hurts?

[00:28:10]Why do you believe a lie like slander so much?

[00:28:14]Right? Why does it hurt? Because it does hurt.

[00:28:18]Why would we lie? No, it does hurt. And even more so when it comes from people we care about, right?

[00:28:31]Because you don't expect it, right? Because you do n't expect it. You say, "Hey, and you believed it?", right?

[00:28:43]That's right, with someone you trust. That's why it hurts. I think so too, because they judge. That's right, my little tamale, because we judge without knowing, right? And I tell myself, I tell myself, I'm the first one to tell myself, girls, right?

[00:29:01]And the first thing we say is, how can they say that about me?

[00:29:07]Because I've asked myself that.

[00:29:10]Hey, but why do you say that or why do they say that about me? No, one always wonders why, what are other people thinking, right? Especially if it's at my job. I'm very careful about that, girls. At my job, I'm very careful with my words because in a little while, gossip spreads and burns your image.

[00:29:35]It burns your image, your reputation, your name, your family.

[00:29:41]Many times it does contaminate. Exactly, my daddy. How beautifully you said it. How beautifully.

[00:29:51]Thank you, thank you for participating, girls, because it's defamation. That's right, sometimes we ask ourselves questions, right? Hey, why not? How can they say that about me? What are other people thinking?

[00:30:07]What will they think?

[00:30:09]No It touches on that part of trust because that person believed without asking me, believed everything they were told. How?

[00:30:24]She only knows me a little, that's why, like they say, right? Girls, you really come from people you trust.

[00:30:29]You say, how is it possible that they believed that? No, with the little you know of me, how can you believe it? How could you believe it? That's why lies hurt, they hurt, but the betrayal of someone who believes them without even listening to you can hurt twice as much. Has that ever happened to you?

[00:30:53]Because it has to me. It has to me.

[00:30:58]How could you have believed it? Right?

[00:31:01]Who betrayed you, someone who believes without listening to you? Well, but it hurts much more when, without listening to you, without even asking you, without saying, "Hey, come here, come here, come here, come here." Hey, is what they're saying true?

[00:31:21]Sometimes, many times they don't even ask you, they just take it for granted and that's what hurts, I think, right? That.

[00:31:32]And I bring a little bit from psychology. Why do people slander? Why do you think people slander? Girls, I'd like to. So, what do you think? Why do you think we sometimes slander people?

[00:31:50]Because? Let's put on our jackets. Come on.

[00:31:54]Why do you think we slandered you? It hurts more when it comes from people who know me. That's right, my Sandrita.

[00:32:06]You say, how is that possible, right? that you believe him and that yes, I do believe him and that they still tell you, yes, I do believe him, I do believe him that you're with that guy, right? Or with that one. Yes. And they take it as a given.

[00:32:22]She says, "Hey, but where did you get that from? That's why living together sometimes hurts, teacher. Unfortunately, my queen." And it happens a lot in the workplace. That's why I'm telling you to be very careful at work, to be very measured in order to avoid all these problems.

[00:32:41]If people we don't know, who aren't part of our inner circle, say something, well, it does n't matter, right? But it does hurt. Yes, siel. There are people who lack spiritual values. None, none, none.

[00:32:57]Neither morals nor anything else.

[00:33:00]Hey, from a psychological perspective, girls, why do we slander some people? Psychology says that gossip, pay attention, gossip and rumors don't always appear out of malice.

[00:33:15]Psychology says that sometimes they fulfill social functions, and here they are: sharing information, creating alliances. To create alliances, as Regina said, to coexist, to get along with other people, we slander [clears throat] other people.

[00:33:39]Sometimes they fulfill that social function: slander.

[00:33:46]Yes. So, what for? to share information, to make alliances, to create partnerships, to warn about other groups, right? It also applies to people, but it touches on psychology, but it can also become harmful when used to exclude, humiliate or destroy someone, girls, for wanting to belong. That's right, my Regina, that's right. And it happens a lot in groups, doesn't it? And it happens a lot in groups. That's why I've never belonged to any group, girls. To no group. I've never been in a group. No never.

[00:34:30]Uh, I remember that with the cube we had on, sorry, on WhatsApp, but there were, oh no, there were thousands of girls. No, no, one never stopped interacting with people, no more. Hello, hello, hello.

[00:34:44]Every time I logged in, it was always, "hello," "they're going live," and so on, but there were hundreds and thousands of people in a chat, 3,000 or 4,000 subscribers. Do you think we were going to be able to? No, no, it couldn't be done. It couldn't be done.

[00:34:58]It was a world of chat rooms, wasn't it? And then they moved to Telegram, another little group, and I said, "No, I'm not going to Telegram anymore, I don't have time, I don't have time for that, right?" But there are groups that are created for that purpose, to coordinate, to form alliances, to warn about others—not about other members of the group, but also, many times, they become harmful, harmful when they are used to exclude, humiliate, or destroy someone. Girls, from a psychological perspective, right? Psychology says so. There are social functions, like learning from other people's experiences without having lived them. Girls, I know a slanderer, but wanting to make a decent person look bad, they slandered them. That's right, my dear, isn't it? And it happens a lot, girls, it happens a lot. There are several psychological reasons why someone might slander. Look, first, psychology says it's insecurity; a person slanders because they are insecure, to try to bring others down so they don't feel inferior. They do it intentionally.

[00:36:17]That person is so insecure that to avoid feeling so small, they want to put others down. The other person is put down so as not to feel inferior. Let's be careful, really, let's be careful because there's a reason for it. Sometimes we slander people because of insecurity, and since we don't want to feel so small, so far below others, and not want to feel inferior, we put the other person down. We don't need to slander the other person.

[00:36:54]There are people who don't know how to grow, girls. We have to see it as it is. Not spiritually, as Mapi said, not intellectually, not in any way, no growth at all. There are people who don't know how to grow, so they try to put you down. To put you down so they can stand out, right? Stand out. And that only has one name, and that's insecurity, which is why we sometimes slander. Another thing from psychology is that it's out of envy, as someone here mentioned, and they're right. Yes, you know, it's out of envy. Why envy? Because many times, girls, the person doesn't recognize themselves, they don't say, "I envy you." They say, " What does the person say?" Something about you bothers me." They're not going to tell you things as they are. They're not going to say, "Hey, excuse me, I envy you." You have something that I like.

[00:37:53]It's very rare for someone to say it, and to say it positively.

[00:37:58]No, he's not going to say, "Hey, I envy you.

[00:38:00]Hey, I want this from you or I like this about you." Why not? So what does it say?

[00:38:06]It says something about you that bothers me because of that, because it overshadows you. Exactly, my Eli. So, it does make sense, right? Because? One of the things, why does a person slander? It's because of insecurity and envy. He's not going to tell you frankly, it's like if I were here with Lericha and I said to him, "Oh, my Lericha, I envy you, you seem like an excellent human being. It's very strange.

[00:38:34]So, what am I going to do?" So attack her, right? Attack her. Something about you bothers me. I'm going to find something that bothers me about her and I'm going to tell her.

[00:38:51][laughs] Imagine, Jacki, yes, it's not the amount of things we have, but your essence.

[00:39:02]It is the essence of people. He can criticize your personality, your progress, your peace, but not your discipline, your relationships, your work, or your growth. You may be envious. There are people, sadly, who pretend not to notice or simply don't realize when they are lying. Well, Mapi, yes, we human beings do realize it, it's just that sometimes we need to admit it, you know. We lack, we lack balls. We lack balls.

[00:39:34]Yes, we lack the guts to admit to saying, "You know what? Yes, I do envy you, and I envy this, your job, your relationship, I envy you."

[00:39:45]Because? Because they don't want to look bad, right? They don't want to look bad. No, they envy your peace, they envy your work, sometimes even your bearing, the way you walk, right? That essence, that is that light that we human beings have.

[00:40:06]There are people who have a really beautiful light, a really beautiful light.

[00:40:17]That's right, my Ana Karen. How sad, isn't it?

[00:40:19]How sad. Yes. E mi uja, good afternoon. Welcome. Uja. Oh, my little sopilot, it's so nice to see you here. Nice to see you here, my little sopilot. Thank you.

[00:40:30]Thank you, girls. Leave a like, leave a comment, support my content that I make with a lot of love and I always try to make it as truthful as possible. So another thing, why would a person slander? It's about projection, and that says a lot, doesn't it? In psychology, projection happens, girls. I want to make this perfectly clear. Thank you, my little pilot. I want to make this perfectly clear in case it happens to us, girls. This is totally for us. Look, why the projection? Psychology says that, why does a person slander? Because it's projected, right?

[00:41:12]But it happens when a person attributes to others emotions, mind you, impulses or characteristics that they do not want to recognize in themselves. That's why projection is so important, isn't it? Hey, it's just that you project yourself. But in psychological terms, he says, in simple terms, what he cannot see within himself he begins to see outside of others, in other people. What bothers her or him, or what bothers the teacher, I project onto other people. Outside. The external things that bother me can be attributed to emotions, impulses, or characteristics that I don't want to acknowledge in myself. They are projected. So, we understand why we often slander so easily. Why do we project?

[00:42:18]Why do we envy?

[00:42:22]Why the insecurity? because of those characteristics.

[00:42:28]And finally, I bring another one, the need to belong. Look, I also want to make that very clear in psychology. Look, the need to belong speaks poorly of someone; it can quickly unite two people. Speaking ill of someone unites groups, and individuals. Because?

[00:42:53]Why do you think that, girls? It unites more people, but their union is not healthy.

[00:43:03]That's where we have to accept, girls, the need to belong, right?

[00:43:09]Most of the time I can quickly bring two people together. Why do you think that gossip or arguments bring many people together very quickly? Because?

[00:43:22]Why do you think that is?

[00:43:25]Why do you think that is?

[00:43:30]It's easy to join, it's easy, isn't it? Being there, there, eh, it's like that adrenaline rush, is n't it? of the human being. And psychology addresses it and says that it is the need to belong. But that union is often not healthy. They are not healthy.

[00:43:48]It's like a complicity based on destroying a third party.

[00:43:57]The need to belong is like, I go and slander someone, right? And the person who is listening to me, this person, we join together two, three. So that? to destroy, not to destroy a third party. It's not going to be the group's. It won't be the one from the group.

[00:44:20]It's really tough, Ana Karen. It's really difficult. It's really difficult.

[00:44:26]It's really difficult. Ah, humans are usually very generous. They get together for evil, but they get bored when it comes to worthwhile things. Exactly, my, that is, that has the need to belong. It is so big that it cannot quickly unite people, of course it can, but that union of people is most often not healthy.

[00:44:52]Because? Because that complicity, because that complicity is based on destroying a third party.

[00:45:01]That is one of the characteristics of slander.

[00:45:04]We've reached our limit. Okay, girls.

[00:45:11]And psychology says that when two or three people get together talking badly about each other, they are not building friendship, they are building complicity. Do we understand? I'm going to repeat it again.

[00:45:29]He says that when two people get together by talking badly about another person, they are not building friendship, they are building complicity. We're doing well so far.

[00:45:55]It's a strong statement from psychology, but it's the truth that keeps us grounded. Let's get our bearings, girls.

[00:46:04]Well, sometimes, many times, and I'm not the one saying this, psychology experts say it, girls, sometimes someone slanders because they're afraid you'll tell the truth.

[00:46:24]First [laughs] they kind of beat you to the punch, right?

[00:46:30]And we've seen it many times. I've seen it at work, girls. They wave the flag first, don't they? They're like they're going straight there, like they're lining up, they're lining up first. Of course, why not, so they don't tell the truth, they're first in line, aren't they? And I used to do it when I was little, girls. I remember my mom used to do something naughty; I would eat the bananas or guavas from the trees and then go around asking, "Hey, are there no more guavas to make candy or empanadas?" No, girls, guava. And there I was, the first one to go, "No, Mom? You know what, I took a few of them. I took a few of them."

[00:47:12]No, but I didn't say all girls. It didn't say that I had given them all away, or that I had given them away, or that someone had asked me for them, did it? Someone came by and said to me, "Hey, can you give my neighbor some water?"

[00:47:24]The typical neighbor, right? Hey, just don't tell your mom because she won't want to. And I would give her, girls, the little bucket and she would come, "Hey, I have n't seen any more. Let's see, go cut me into guavas and the teacher would run like crazy.

[00:47:38]Mom, mom, mom, it's just that I ate some first, Mommy." But why, girls?

[00:47:43]So that she wouldn't be discovered, right?

[00:47:45]Completely. Well, the truth is I was, no, well, kind of putting on the coat, and the same thing happens with slander.

[00:47:56]Why does she do it? Because they're afraid you'll tell the truth first.

[00:48:02]That's right, my little sopilot, to minimize the blame, we don't get ahead of ourselves as we go first, right? Let's go first. So, psychology isn't wrong, girls. They know us on a human level; that's what psychology is for, right?

[00:48:21]So, uh, what for? so that you don't tell the truth first.

[00:48:28]So he attacks before being discovered, right? Either you attack when you're discovered, or you're attacked.

[00:48:35]That's how it is. That's how it is. And very clear, right? And this happens a lot in families, girls. In families, at work, in friendships, in relationships, in groups. We've seen it. Of course. Who hasn't been through it? And who hasn't done it, right? We got ahead of ourselves. We're leaving first, right? So that? So that we do n't get caught.

[00:49:04]And I, of course, based on what little or much I know about Stoicism, the Stoics have a way of seeing this, right? And it says not to let what someone else does wrong make you worse. And it makes sense, doesn't it? He says, "Don't let what someone else does wrong make you worse." In other words, let's not do the same thing.

[00:49:40]That's right, my little sopilot. And our parents knew it. They knew how they knew as adults, how their children knew now, right? When someone tells us a lie.

[00:49:51]But there we see the difference between a lie and slander.

[00:49:56]It's a chasm, girls. It's an abyss.

[00:50:00]It's an abyss. So, one of my Stoics, Epictetus, taught that some things depend on us and others do not. No, like the dichotomy of control. He was driving it. Within what depends on us are our opinions, our desires, our decisions, our actions, right? Things beyond our control include, among other things, reputation and what others do or say. We ca n't control everything. You can't control whether someone is lying. Neither I nor anyone else can control that. My husband can't control me when I lie.

[00:50:47]That's how it is. Trying, my map is that it's a teaching and that's why, and maintaining this above all that virtue, right?, of telling the truth without mincing words, as it is, uh, it's a teaching like a Christian teaching. Catholics tell you, "No, the truth will set you free. Tell the truth even if it hurts." And there are people who die with that truth and don't speak it.

[00:51:14]How many people have died and never been found because of that? They took that evil to their dead relatives who had harmed them and never took it to the grave.

[00:51:28]How many people?

[00:51:30]Documentaries and documentaries about bad people who did things to children, to women, to adults, and they took it to their graves. They never wanted to tell the truth.

[00:51:41]So, you don't control whether someone lies, you don't control who decides to believe you, no, you don't control every conversation where your name comes up. We can't control that. But I can control, or we can control, your response.

[00:52:01]Yes I can, yes I can control my behavior, how I am going to conduct myself.

[00:52:06]Yes, I can control whether he acts from anger or from dignity, not as a person.

[00:52:17]And stoicism, of course, doesn't ask you to be silent, just like any teaching or practice. It doesn't ask you to be silent, it asks you to control yourself, to have self-control, to control yourself, to control yourself, even if it hurts, even if it hurts.

[00:52:41]Imagine, Master Jesus, for every thing they said to you, they even called you satanic, saying that the miracles you performed were due to the demons you brought with you. What an insult, isn't it, to the Holy Spirit that the teacher brought? And yet, he didn't dissuade him from that idea. He continued.

[00:53:01]There is a lot of very beautiful teaching. He always stood his ground, didn't he?

[00:53:06]The teacher had that mastery. Well, they say, "Ah, well, it was God."

[00:53:11]Well, it was God, so how could he not drive? No, he was human. He would get angry too. He Himself says in His word, "Be angry, but do not sin." It's one thing to get angry, which we've seen, anger is part of emotions, and it's not a good thing to get angry, just don't insult, don't do the same thing that the other person is doing to you. That's what happens when you fall, and the truth comes out sooner or later. Sooner or later. That's how it is. That's how it is.

[00:53:46]And don't beg if they don't believe you. Don't you think so? There's no need to beg. Oh, you have to believe me. You have to believe me.

[00:53:52]If the person says, "No, you did it.

[00:53:54]No. Or I believe the person who said what they said about you. Okay, I'm not going to beg them, am I? They have to believe me. No, don't insult. Let's not do that, girls. Don't make a scene, don't make a drama.

[00:54:13]Don't give your peace away to just anyone. Let's not give our peace away.

[00:54:18]Speak the truth firmly and then let your behavior do the rest.

[00:54:24]Our behavior speaks volumes, girls. It might not seem like it. At the time, we might think our behavior doesn't speak, but it speaks volumes. Our attitude speaks. And if we don't realize it, other people will.

[00:54:40]Of course it will. Let's speak the truth firmly, no matter what, and then your behavior will speak for itself.

[00:54:56]That's right, my Mapi. Thank you, Mapi. Thank you.

[00:55:02]Look, there's a philosophical figure I really like, you know I mention him quite a bit in my videos, it's Socrates. Look, Socrates was accused in Athens of corrupting the Youth. Um, it was during that time that Socrates was developing his philosophy, uh, the Socratic method. He put it into practice, which was simply asking questions, right? Something he knew, uh, some concept, right? And through questions, Socrates—this was his philosophy. Then, uh, Athens, which was the most important democratic city of knowledge at that time, accused him. The system didn't like what Socrates was doing. So they accused him of corrupting the youth, of leading them astray with his ideas, right? And of not believing in the gods. Remember that Greece is the land of the gods, right? So, at that time, in Greek mythology, like Plato's Apology as well, right? So, his defense is presented during the trial they held against Plato. Imagine, in 397-99 BC, they were already trying Plato for corrupting the youth, for his knowledge. because of his teaching. Then they accused him, and he responded to their accusations, explaining that his bad reputation stemmed from years of prejudice.

[00:56:45]Athenian society had many prejudices, girls, taunts, and accusations accumulated against him over a long period.

[00:56:54]Socrates knew this. There was an entire corrupt system designed to mock him, to accuse him, to prejudice him.

[00:57:05]So, Socrates, girls, history tells us that he didn't respond like someone desperate to be liked. He had the means to do so. He had the connections. Socrates did n't cry to manipulate the jury. He did n't bring his children to elicit pity.

[00:57:30]No, he didn't change his truth to save face, as we often do, don't we? Hey, excuse me, look, I'm not doing this so you can undo this damage they're doing to me, you know? What do you want me to do? Give you money? I'm begging you. No, he did n't do that. He didn't betray his beliefs to be accepted, to avoid being Tried. He always defended his position firmly, Socrates. And although he was condemned, of course, his character remained stronger than the accusation.

[00:58:07]Girls, I love this part of Plato's story. And Plato's story of Socrates, sorry, shows us something deeper, just like us, that sometimes a society can believe a lie about a person or a group, but time ends up revealing the true strength of people's character.

[00:58:36]And this is just one example of Socrates. How many of us haven't seen on the teacher's channel with stories, with videos where people have been tried?

[00:58:47]Copernicus was one of them, Musonius Rufus, many figures, Aspasia of Aemilithus, for speaking the truth, for teaching, and they paid the price, but always with their firm stance, without insulting, without crying, without lowering themselves.

[00:59:08]Socrates did the same.

[00:59:11]Of course, Socrates lost the trial and they gave him a good thrashing. No, but he won the trial in history. History. Look, we're talking about something that happened back then.

[00:59:26]What they did to Socrates hurt him.

[00:59:29]How the system changed everything to harm him, to stop him from teaching.

[00:59:35]They tried him, they crushed him.

[00:59:44]Hmm. And I have a question for you this afternoon, girls, because I'm about to finish, I 'll have an hour. Look, has it ever hurt you more that someone believed the lie than the lie itself?

[00:59:58]Because it has for me, girls, it has. It hurt me that someone believed it.

[01:00:07]I ask you, has it ever hurt you more that someone believed the lie than the lie itself?

[01:00:17]Good afternoon, my Sandrita, welcome.

[01:00:20]Yes, my little sopilot. Ana Kare. Yes, yes, girls, it does hurt. Sometimes you say, "Hey, the lie doesn't hurt me because it's not true, but hey, you accepted it, you swallowed it whole, you swallowed it, you swallowed it, you believed it."

[01:00:38]As? That's what hurts badly. Who believed her? I have another question for you, girls. When someone speaks ill of you, Sandrita, Mieli, Regina, Ana Karen, Mapi, cielito, when someone speaks ill of you, what do you do first? The question is for you. Will you shut up?

[01:01:07]You either respond or you walk away. What do you do when someone speaks badly of you?

[01:01:14]What do you do first? Will you shut up? You either respond or you walk away.

[01:01:24]What are they doing? Because we all come here to learn. Teacher, that's why we're here, because we believe in you. Oh, my Yaqui, thank you, miqui, how lovely, miqui. Yes, I distance myself from my family. If it's my family, I'll stay away. Very good. I stay silent and walk away.

[01:01:39]Very good. Thank you, girls. Thank you, thank you for replying. Uh, I'm walking away. I'm walking away too, Sandrita. Yes, I'm walking away, and that's fine, right? Keep a very low profile, girls. Good, good, good.

[01:01:52]This, I answer and walk away. Come on, my little sopilot, you're so brave. I'm walking away. Yes, my Gabi. Yes, my Gabi. Alright. Yes, sometimes you choose to walk away, girls. And not everyone. There are other people who don't. I have a sister who doesn't, she goes and drags it out by the hair. Let's see, you daughter of a [ __ ], such and such. No, tell me here, tell me here. That's what you were saying, right? We'll fix it here, and however it turns out, I want it. I ignore everything, it all rolls off my back. Okay, okay, honey. It depends on the circumstances. That's right, it depends. And also from the person's temperament.

[01:02:27]No, no, I have a really tough sister, girls. No, man, she defended the school for me. I'm the youngest and she's next in line. She is 3 years older than me and she always defended me. The teacher was always like that, not one of those girls who are really chubby and very affectionate, very cheerful. That's what Tiche looked like when she was little. Everyone liked me and they defended me and of course they bullied me at school, they messed with me at school, girls. There were some who were more or less clever than me, and my sister always defended me.

[01:03:10]Yes, yes, that's just the person's character, girls. She would say, quite fiercely, " This boy/girl is bothering me," and she would quickly defend me tooth and nail, and even now, when we talked like this, right? He says, "You'd better tell me where that woman lives, right?" Tell me where she lives so I can go there.

[01:03:32]No, no, no, no. Calm down. Yes, teacher already has it. I used to be quite a rascal, but I got over it with age. Yes, yes, that's fine.

[01:03:42]Yes. No, my sister hasn't gotten rid of it. It has n't gone away, girls. It hasn't gone away. And I, oh, until recently, girls, really, until recently I've become like, no, even my husband says, "Hey, you don't let yourself get away with anything anymore." No, I tell her, "No, not anymore. I've learned a lot from my children, from my daughter. She's taught me a lot, now that my daughter has grown up and her character has developed, because children grow up, they develop their character. You need to be very firm with my anger. That's good, better, better, honey, better, that's good. And my daughter has taught me quite a lot, girls, really. And now with her daughters, uh, I say, look how good, I was lacking in this area, right? In some things I was a real handful, but in others I wasn't. No, no, no, no, no, no. I was very demanding when it came to their upbringing, so everyone is different. So there are some people we distance ourselves from, there are others we don't, no. Until we get to the bottom of it, until we get to the bottom of the lie or the slander, right? Then they say, "Until it's over, right?" "Wherever it ends, wherever it ends." Okay, I have another question for you.

[01:05:02]What do you think hurts the most? The lie, the betrayal, or the helplessness of not being able to explain everything? I'm going to repeat the question. What do you think hurts you the most?

[01:05:16]Well, what hurts you the most, girls? The lie, the betrayal, or the helplessness of not being able to explain everything, because sometimes they don't give you time to explain everything or you don't have the opportunity, right? The helplessness. Yes. The betrayal.

[01:05:36]Regina, very good.

[01:05:39][laughs] Sio, let her, let her [laughs] I'm going to ask you a question.

[01:05:53]All three hurt me equally. Oh, my dear. Have you ever felt that someone made something up about you, something about you, to protect themselves?

[01:06:09]I did it, girls, when I was a kid, I'm telling you. [laughs] I did it to protect myself, right? But have you ever felt that someone made something up about you to protect themselves? To herself, that's why she made something up about you.

[01:06:32][snort] Yes, yes, that's right, honey. I totally agree with you.

[01:06:44][laughs] Have you ever seen time unmask someone who lied? Have you seen that? Your eyes have seen it, you've heard it throughout your life, through time. Someone made something up, and time itself unmasked someone who lied about you.

[01:07:12][laughs] Yes, yes, yes, girls.

[01:07:16]Yes. Oh, girls, I love that you participate, I really do. If there's one thing that makes a content creator happy, it's participation. Yes, I've seen it. Yes, me too, Mati. I 've seen it too. And history, history has sometimes unmasked people who have lied about someone, and vice versa, right? They portray them as the good guy, and time has unmasked them, and we don't have to go far to Julio, to this one, to Chávez, right?

[01:07:51]To César Chávez, no We're going way back, aren't we?

[01:07:55]Time has passed, and that man has been dead for many years, and look, they exposed him, and the truth came out, right?

[01:08:04]Yes. [laughs] What's harder for you? Forgiving, letting go, or giving up trying to explain everything?

[01:08:14]When there's a lie, when there's slander, what's harder for you? Forgiving.

[01:08:20]Pay close attention to what I'm asking you.

[01:08:25]That's right. Yes, a thousand. There are so many cases. There are so many. We can go through this here, right? Where the story has two sides, right? They've slandered him. Someone has been slandered. A really terrible lie, and it turns out it's not true. I haven't seen him after many years. That's right, my Sandrita. And that's great, girls. Forgive him, the hardest thing. Ana Karen, I'm going to ask you the question again. What's harder for you? Forgiving, letting go, or giving up trying to explain everything?

[01:09:09]Forgiving, forgiving. It must be really difficult, girls. Yes, let go.

[01:09:18]Ah, my little tamales are fine. My tamales. Thank you, thank you, girls.

[01:09:30]Okay, I'm going to talk about five types of lies, and the first one is the defensive lie. What is that? Do you know it? What is a defensive lie? Has anyone here heard of it?

[01:09:45]What is a defensive lie?

[01:09:48]And I'm going to explain it as clearly as possible. I'd better not [suppressed scream] trust that person again. Yes, trust, above all, is very difficult. It's very difficult. That's why you have to let go. You have to let go. Pieli, what is a defensive lie used to justify oneself? Mm. That's about right. Yes.

[01:10:15]It says that a defensive lie, girls, is when a person lies to protect themselves from a consequence. They're defending themselves. That's not the defensive lie. The person lies to protect themselves, and that happens a lot with juries, girls. That happens a lot in trials. They put people in, they bring in special people, and they ask them questions, girls, they give them a questionnaire like two or three huge pages of questions for them to learn, so Lying, just to lie, to defend the other person, to make it seem like what they're saying is true, as if they're being manipulated—that's a defensive lie. The person lies to protect themselves from the consequences. " No, I didn't do that." We haven't heard that before. "I didn't do that." It's a way of defending oneself. It's a defensive lie. That's why, when we listen to people, we should pay attention.

[01:11:26]The second type is the manipulative lie.

[01:11:29]What is that? The manipulative lie.

[01:11:32]The manipulative lie seeks to control how others see the situation. How do others see the situation? They try to manipulate. It seeks to control.

[01:11:50]Yes, that's the manipulative lie.

[01:11:53]It seeks to control how others see the situation, or the lie itself. It's the typical one who says, "I was the victim." "I was, I was the one affected."

[01:12:11]Yes, yes.

[01:12:14]We try to lie, but to manipulate, right? To control others. No, I'm the victim.

[01:12:23]I'm not. The third is lying by omission. And what is that, teacher? Lying by omission. What do we understand by omission? They don't tell everything.

[01:12:38]They hide a part, right? Part of the story. They hide. Why? Because it doesn't suit them. They omit certain things.

[01:12:49]That's called lying by omission. They're omitting, they're leaving out, they're hiding a key or fundamental part. In other words, they're one of those people who don't tell the whole truth or the whole lie.

[01:13:04]They're omitting, they do n't tell everything, they hide.

[01:13:10]Why? Well, it could be that they have a manipulative lie, right? The manipulator also, or they're always on the defensive.

[01:13:21]Hmm.

[01:13:23]That's called lying by omission. They don't tell everything, they hide a little part for convenience or because, like, a key part, well, I'm still keeping this to myself, right? Many people say, "No, The fourth is the social lie, and it's repeated because the group accepts it, and we've seen it." Absolutely.

[01:13:48]The social lie is quite dangerous, girls. It's repeated and repeated because the group has already accepted it, and it's very clear, right? It says, "Everyone says that person is like this, that's how they are." They're lying, are n't they? What the other person said was true.

[01:14:14]Hmm.

[01:14:18]And there's another one, the fifth, and I'll go with this one, which is, what is a destructive lie?

[01:14:25]It seeks to damage your reputation. It's that simple, a destructive lie.

[01:14:32]When we see that someone is slandering or not speaking with any basis, without truth, they're telling a destructive lie, it's because they want to damage the reputation of a person or several people, and they do it intentionally.

[01:14:53]An example would be inventing something serious so that others distance themselves from you, leave you. That's the intention behind a destructive lie. Absolutely, to damage the other person's reputation.

[01:15:18]What did you think of the topic, girls? Very educational, right? I tried my best. Possible, girls.

[01:15:35]Yes, yes, Ana Karen. Oh, one day she posted something on her little ball that really caught my attention, but I'm going to keep it to myself, but it really caught my attention.

[01:15:52]Yes, we've learned a lot, and it goes for us too, girls. These topics are for us, to make us question things. It's a shame you did n't come up to give your opinions, girls.

[01:16:12]Thank you, Opilotita. Thank you. And there's a lot more to say, but I don't want to make it too long because I don't want to bore you.

[01:16:26]And if the teacher can give you one piece of advice on this topic, it's this: if someone spoke badly of you, don't let that lie turn you into a more bitter version of yourself. No, let's not allow it, let's not allow it, girls. We have to learn. Everything in this life is about learning.

[01:16:48]Observe. Let's set boundaries too. That's very important.

[01:16:55]Let's distance ourselves if necessary. When it's family, it's very difficult, but sometimes even family, sometimes even parents, girls, many children... They distance themselves from their parents for the same reason. Or many parents distance themselves from their children because of those destructive lies, right? Because of those destructive lies.

[01:17:23]Yes.

[01:17:36]That's right, teacher, let no one take our peace. We have to learn to listen before we open our mouths and know that every action has a consequence. Yes, let's really be careful.

[01:17:48]Sometimes many lies touch your name, they touch your name. There are lies that don't, but there are lies that touch your name, but they don't have to touch our character. That's what I've learned all these years, girls. A lie shouldn't touch your character. It can touch your name, but not our character.

[01:18:17]That lie or a slander shouldn't define us.

[01:18:26]Or, what do you think?

[01:18:49]Yes, I think it does, girls.

[01:18:52]Slander hurts, girls. Slander hurts because it tries to steal something from you, right?

[01:18:58]What does it try to steal? What do you think a slander tries to steal from you?

[01:19:06]Put there, Regina, I'm slandering you, slandering you. Strong. What am I trying to do?

[01:19:12]What am I trying to do with that?

[01:19:15]What am I trying to steal from you? Or with what intention? Peace. Yes. Your reputation.

[01:19:22]Your reputation.

[01:19:25]Yes. To cause you pain. To cause pain. To damage your image. That's what your reputation is. That's what I want to steal from Regina. By slandering her with a strong lie, gossip, I want to steal something from her. It could be her peace, it could be her reputation.

[01:19:56]To damage her, as we said here, it could be her name, her integrity as a person, but the one thing that shouldn't be stolen from us is our character, girls. How do we respond?

[01:20:23]And we know, right? That slander reveals more about the one who speaks, about the one who is accused.

[01:20:31]Many times it reveals more about other people.

[01:20:46]That's right. So, I hope you liked this topic and that we understood it. And there's a lesson here, there's a lesson for me, so that I want to see it, right?

[01:21:08]And I do it with all due respect, so that I do n't do it, so that I don't do it, and to keep myself in that position, to have restraint, yes, to have restraint in Many things.

[01:21:31]And there's a lesson here. Yes, before bringing up this topic, it all fell to me to try to control that aspect, to not have that control, to not slander and not lie, because lies serve functions, as we saw, right?

[01:21:55]I hope something stuck with you and helps us grow more as people, to be more aware. Does anyone remember when I said that a lie is a lie? Does anyone remember that a lie is a lie? Does anyone remember, girls?

[01:22:35]A lie can destroy a life if you're not well-grounded, and it brings a lot of pain, a lot of pain. It brings a lie.

[01:22:50]Something that never happened. That's right.

[01:22:54]And there are lies with a touch of truth, and a touch of truth is when someone says something, well, it's when someone says something and I think or suspect, right?, that it's not true.

[01:23:19]But I'm not sure. That's why it's a lie.

[01:23:24][laughs] That's right.

[01:23:30]And what do they do it with? To deceive, to manipulate many times, and to protect themselves, right? To protect themselves from the consequences.

[01:23:50]Oh, Marifer, good afternoon.

[01:23:52]Welcome. Marifer. Welcome to the channel of greatness. Yes, I've seen you there, my dear. You're the youngest here, from what I hear.

[01:24:03]Welcome.

[01:24:05]And you're late, Marifer. We're leaving now.

[01:24:10]I hope you all enjoyed it, and we 'll see you around. I don't know if Evita is ready to go live yet. It would be great to hear her and chat with her for a bit. I hope she comes, even if it's just for a little while to say hello. You're welcome, Marifer. You're welcome. You're welcome, my dear. Have a wonderful afternoon, everyone.

[01:24:42]Thank you so much for being here and sharing this moment with me.

[01:24:46]Thank you so much. Good night. And this is the greatness of teaching with the teacher. Thank you so much. Thank you so much.

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