This commentary astutely highlights that domestic stability stems from personal accountability and consistent care rather than the hollow pursuit of social status. It serves as a necessary reminder that a functional home is built on internal discipline, not external comparison.
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NIKA MOVING AGAIN?! PART 2 | Wants A House Like Belinda 👀🔥Added:
[music] >> What's up? What's up? What's up? It's your girl Monica down back with Monica down reactions. So listen you guys now I decided to you know switch up my little intro just a little bit you know cuz you do have to switch it up sometimes. You know what I'm saying? Um and this is part two of Nika is moving out of the trap house. I mean I can't believe it but then again I can't believe it because like you did all this damage to these people's apartment, okay? Leaving the kids there day and night while you went out and played bingo. Then you get up here on this camera and play victim like we are supposed to care. I mean yeah we are listening you know cuz this is like a Nika's life soap opera with all these children that people can't believe you had. You had cabinet doors missing. All types of stuff was going on. The screen door was off the hinges. Like everywhere you go you mess something up. Just living like a straight hood rat. I mean come on. Get your [ __ ] together honey.
All you have to do is get your seven air and clean up these people's property and pack your stuff and try to find you somewhere else but see in my opinion now this is what I said to this is my opinion on this, okay?
I feel like they are going to go out there and find this woman a big house for her and those kids. But at this point ma'am it's to the point where Nika we really just don't care no more. You have showed us and showed us that you do not care about anything. You don't care about those kids. Only time you care and you get to calling on Jesus and acting all you know biblical and spiritual and things like that is when you going through a bind when you in a bind Nika.
And another reason why I think that she's talking about getting a new house is because now I don't know if y'all know this I'mma drop it down in my comments and stuff like that but I'mma going to a little clip in this little video here, but uh Belinda has started back posting on her channel. It looks like they have moved into a nice house or they have a nice house somewhere.
Um she's been doing activities with her kids. She's been showing how she homeschools her kids, how she has a um a entrepreneur work-from-home bookkeeping business working from home. I mean them kids, you know, they look okay, but they kind of to me remind me the same as Nika. To me it gives that these women are more so worried about and trying to keep up with Heyward and what he got going on and trying to be in competition with each other instead like y'all need to be in competition with your kids.
Like, okay, well, your kids do this.
Okay, well, let me try to make my kids do this. Like, Nika, you didn't have enough money to go and do activities with those kids. And you see Belinda is doing little things with her kids and she's It don't look like she's spending that much money. Like I seen one video where she was making gingerbread houses with the kids. Nika, when have you ever made gingerbread houses with your kids?
We just don't care anymore. Drop comments down below. Nika is moving once again. New apartment. She's probably about to move into a house. I'm pretty sure DSS is going to go somewhere and find this one right here a house. Like, come on. And then my thing is with the government, the government is so weird and tricky and things like that and it's just backwards to me. Like, >> [snorts] >> yes, I know that when people are going through hard times they they should get some help or you know, but you know, it's like a sense of entitlement with Nika. She thinks that these people have to do this. They're obligated to do this.
Um DSS furnished my whole household and all this, that, and the third and then you be lying like you got going and buying stuff and knowing you ain't bought ish. Like, stop playing with us.
Check out these few clips that I found over on Belinda's page. Like, what is going on? They are definitely in competition with each other. I know a lot of them lines can't understand.
>> [snorts] >> I don't really get a lot of stuff to him. One thing I make sure is a shower and brush my teeth every night.
Love you. Good night.
Now, [ __ ] do you see why this man chose her over you? I mean, you know, she looks like she takes better care of herself, better care of a household, better care of kids. Like, why you just sitting over there acting and running around like a mad BLK woman? I mean, but one thing I got to say that y'all have in common is that y'all worry about y'all hair versus the kids hair. I can say that y'all do got that in common.
That's why I'm saying y'all be worried about y'all looks and and is that how y'all get down in something? I mean, be for real. Why you run around there just looking angry, mad, upset, nose nostrils flared like a bull? I mean, come on.
That man hurt you real bad, honey. I'm telling you really need some counseling for that. I mean, and my thing is we know that he's a We know he's a well-known cheater. So, if you just would have kept your household and your stuff in order and not been running around there being so nasty, honey, maybe you could have kept him coming over there and you would have y'all could have been something like sister wives cuz hell, if you ask me, y'all look alike. You just dark skinned and she light skinned. I mean, nothing colorist about it. I mean, that's just the way it I see it, but like I said, I don't care what nobody say, married or not, you just That's a large responsibility to leave on one person. A person with eight kids, honey.
Like, come on. You started a a life with this woman first. Yes, I understand that, you know, when you get married and things change, but if I got married to somebody and I knew they had that many kids over there, I just couldn't sleep with myself and then that's why she over there looking the way she looking too because y'all don't do right by these children. I mean, yeah, that is your household, Belinda, and I do believe in women tending to their household stuff like that, but I do also believe that just like how a woman would say, "Oh, when they got with a man they had kid a woman would have kids and women be screaming, oh, my my kids is a package.
My kids is kid package, okay?" It It's the same thing to me with a man, too. If you are with a man or get married to a man and he has kids, those kids become your kids, too. I don't care what nobody says. Okay?
And if you don't like it, if you don't want to help, okay, that's cool, too, but you don't have to necessarily, but encourage your husband to go over there and do right by his kids.
And y'all think the child just come keep continuing to sit up and living in getting all these blessings and things like that. Yeah, you're doing right by being married, but he was a known cheater. Like, stop playing with us. He He could have He was He was cheating on you and still sliding over there with Nika. He could have slid over there and helped with them kids. He didn't necessarily have to necessarily have to slide Excuse me. Have to slide over there and do anything with her, but see, that's what women be thinking like, oh, and then and I'm pretty sure Belinda looking like, oh, you know, she easy. You know, she'll go for it. But, I mean I mean, for real though, ladies, like, encourage these men to start doing better by their children because I don't care what nobody says.
A woman has an impact on a man's life, especially if they're around him every day and knowing how they operate. Like, come on. It's just It's just It's just very unfortunate. It's very sad for all the kids all the way around. You know what I'm saying? And Belinda, if you know that you got your household in order and situated, go over there and help your sister wife. Go over there and help you your sister wife because What did Nika say? Nika said that she was the wife, the girlfriend, the baby mama, and everything first. I mean, and if you really technically look at it, she really was, so you know, stole this woman.
>> [laughter] >> You know, stole this woman man or Hayward ran out because what did Belinda just say? She made sure that she showers and brushes her teeth everyday.
Something Nika we know that she was not doing sister girl because if you was some teeth would still be in that mouth.
You wouldn't be running around here with dentures. You know what I'm saying? You wouldn't be looking crusty, dusty, musty. Now you're saying you want a nice big house because they are forcing you to move up out that little trap house apartment. Girl, bye. Now you want to be like Belinda and get you a house cuz you think that since um Belinda has a house, okay, Belinda didn't get that house from Hayward working at his waffle house job.
Like let's be serious. She is the breadwinner over there. You can obviously tell and you can obviously tell that she's eating her and those kids are eating very well over there. So what is your excuse? You get checks just like Belinda get checks.
You do. You could have had a house just You could have been had a house like Belinda had a house. You was just out running around here worried about gambling. Don't know what Belinda be spending her money It It looks like Belinda spends her money on uh keeping herself up, her household, and food for her her kids. Why you can't do it since you want to be so much like Belinda?
Like come on, honey.
You need to go over there and take some notes on Belinda's channel. That's what you need to do while you over there sitting up eating these kids um Kool-Aid that you done made in a bowl in the sink. Oh, bye.
She'll be a shame. I bet you Belinda's kids can go in the refrigerator and eat whatever they want whenever they want.
That's what they look like over there.
They look like they are happy. They look like they take vacations. They look like they eat good over there. Meanwhile you over here treating the kids Like I don't know like a lot of people on the internet now are in relationships or married or say that you know their boyfriend cheated on their boyfriend got into a relationship or he got married and had a baby on me. I don't been through all those things that I see most of these women been through on social media. I got it Y'all got it in the comment section. I'mma bring it up.
Me and Haywood been been together since 2009.
We've been together since 2009. We had our first baby in 2010, a year later.
Um we moved in in in 2009. We went to church together and everything. Did a lot of things together.
It was love at first sight. We went from there. Arguments coming in, the baby start flowing in, all the arguments coming in, all the females. I knew what Haywood was about when I first met him.
But he changed for a while. But then he start blaming me for everything. He said, "Oh, you doing this, you doing this, and you doing that. It's your fault."
At the end of the day, I was too blind to see.
Let him do what he want to do. Let him run around in the streets and boom, bang, boom. Within what? A year or so, he met up with his significant other, who he been his first love at first when he went to school.
They link up on Facebook, find out about each other. She tried to get a friend request from me. I asked him about it cuz the female that was trying to get in contact with me was real hard. I was like, "Who is this person?" "Oh, I don't know who that is." Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. They wasn't even married yet.
I was pregnant. I was walking to the school with one in the stomach, one in the crate, walking to get my other one from him from the school.
Then we got in a argument.
Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow.
We don't care if that's what happened, ma'am. Only thing we care about is you doing right. But I don't excuse you. You done let this man sit up here and hurt your heart so much that you keep having to bounce spots to stay and places to stay, and you know, you keep letting the kids tear up the apartment because you don't want to be in there with them. I mean, if you would think about it, if you just tell this that if you was walking and he was cheating and you was having to walk with babies, there is no way I'd be sitting up here praying about no man having to walk to no bus stop.
Come on. Like, where were your antennas, honey? Like, he had you at the bus stop while he run around still cheating trying to find somebody else, something better. And he went out there and rekindled with his old high school sweetheart and got with your girl got with your girl cuz she was a better girl than you. Sorry, better woman. Somebody who actually cared about appearance and kids and things and her hygiene and stuff like that.
Cuz unlike you, you don't care about brushing your teeth, brushing the kids hair, doing your hair, doing the kids hair. You don't care about anything in that household. You don't care about buying nice things for the house. You don't care about anything. And like I said, all of this is stemming The reason why I brought Belinda into this is because you've been over there on that woman's page, stalking that woman's page now, honey. And now you're jealous and you're jelly because she got your man.
She stole your man, your man, my baby daddy, my husband. Girl, please. He done He did all of this to you, ran over there to her cuz she was cleaner. Like I said, learn how to clean up. If you learn how to clean up and keep your kids in order and your household in order, maybe you could keep a little piece of man. And maybe if you you brush your teeth every day and and wash your body, then you could keep a man, honey. But don't no man want to deal with no woman that's going through [ __ ] that you're doing. It's just not cool, honey. Nobody is Nobody is with stuff like that, [ __ ] You need to get your stuff together. You need to get your [ __ ] in order. You keep having these kids bouncing back and forth throughout these different environments, different people's houses, foster care, this apartment, this trap house. Like, baby, what is you doing?
Like, what is you really doing for real?
You're not setting a good example.
Hayward don't give a crap. Like, who cares? It seems like the only people that care about those kids in this situation is us over here in these social media, YouTube, Tik Tok, Instagram, and Facebook streets. I mean, let's just be serious and let's just be clear here. Stop trying to worry about what this woman got going on over there in her household, trying to play copycat, and you need to do and clean up and do what you need to do in your household.
Go ahead Go ahead and start getting you some boxes, packing up stuff, getting things in order, clothes with clothes, pots with pots.
You know what I'm saying? Getting you some donations up. You need to go ahead and open that PO box back up. Cuz you know, somebody going to feel sorry about you boo-hooing and whining and crying and being a crybaby out here and begging and dry begging and doing all of this that and the third. Somebody's going to care and send you a couple of items.
Hell, I even thought about sending you a couple of items, but no, I had too many supporters over here on my channel to let me know that that's not a great idea, and I just listened, unlike you.
You We know you don't listen. You never listen to anything or anybody. And I'm pretty sure that what Harold was what you He told you to clean up by wash your body, um, take care of better care of the kids, and you didn't want to do that cuz you were just lazy. You're just pure lazy. You're the very defiant Defiant means that you don't like to listen to order or authority.
You don't like to listen to what people tell you to do. You don't like take You don't like to, you know, take corrective actions on things. You don't take corrective criticism. All the thing you do is get up here and whine and complain about Harold Harold Harold Harold Harold. Harold is over there at the beach with his little rings and his lingerie on and them little glasses, and not worried about you.
Belinda over there looking like she eating good. The kids like they eating good. They over there looking like they in a clean house with clean laundry and a washing machine and dryer and a nice tub and stuff.
Unlike you over there living the complete opposite cuz you don't let these people break your spirit down. All behind this man. Girl, if you would have I said, if you would have kept your hair up, kept the kids up, you you probably could have had something when you got with DJ, but you let Niyah run him off.
Um you let the internet run him off, and then on top of that, too, he really wasn't a better He was a jailbird, but I'm going to say, you know, you got to look at some women and you got to kind of like see like, "Okay, well, maybe that's the best that they could get." That's why a lot of women put up with BS for a period long periods of time because they feel like they can't get nobody else. And Nika, you can tell she has very low self-esteem. She's very insecure. And you already know she had this stigma with light-skinned women and things like that. So, for a woman like Belinda to run off with her man and, you know, base basically steal what she thought she was supposed to have, I'm pretty sure that do hurt. I mean that would hurt any woman, don't y'all think? Like a man have a whole bunch of kids by you, then he going to run off and be with another woman, get her a nice house. I mean, that [ __ ] hurt.
What?
But like I said, Heather word ain't no better than Nika. I don't care what nobody say. Belinda, you can sit over there and act like you got the a perfect husband and my husband this and my husband that. I can't stand women like that. Like, "My husband this, my husband that." Girl, and the husband don't be about [ __ ] The husband don't want to take care of the kids barely, don't barely want to go to work. He don't barely He got a thousand baby mamas on child support, but you steady screaming your husband he's out the door cheating with multiple women in your face. And then when I went on Heather word's Facebook page, he still has pictures of Jessica on his Facebook page. So, if you supposed to be a happily married man and this that and the third, why do you have another woman on your still on your Facebook page? Like, don't y'all think that that's disrespectful? I mean, y'all drop down in the notes coming to let me know. It's your girl Monica Don with Monica Don Reactions. Getting the Don, getting the Don, getting the Don so I can let you know you guys know what's going on. And especially with this one here, this one here getting up on here telling us all these lies, lies after lies after lies. I mean, Nika the truth is not in her, good is not in her, nothing is is is is in her good.
Cuz even when you was with Hayward and had the man the the the family life as you say and all this and the third, you were still being trifling.
So, like I said, stop dwelling on the past and what could have been shoulda coulda woulda. And you need to get you some new boxes.
And you need to get you some you know, newspaper to some new hangers to hang them clothes up so you can have easy transport when it's time to move.
Find you a older man with a truck. I'm pretty sure you know somebody in the community that can help you with moving and assisting you with this because rubber girl, you done really messed up with the church's money once again. You have fumbled the bat once again. You have fumbled the ball once again. I mean, Nika, please. You are 40 years old, 41 to be exact. It's time for you to get your ish together. And if you do have to go over there and mock and copy Belinda for some inspiration, please do so. Please do because at this point you have no idea what you're doing when it comes to this family life and kids and and having to keep things in order. Go over there and get some tips from your sister wife, please, ma'am. Cuz you need it. You need it ASAP.
Hell, I don't know. And Hayward, like I said, and I'm just going to keep saying it. He's not no better than Nika. None of them kids is over there in them conditions going through what they going through. And you just decided to run off and make you a whole new little family and sit F them kids. It's so wrong. It's so wrong how they have set up here and just decided to do these kids that did not deserve this, that did not want to come into this world, but they came into this world because y'all were sitting over there doing the nasty. And And you know, and they just came. And y'all didn't have a care in the world. Instead of trying to be in competition with who's messing around with who when who the hell is the father of Shalina and Lena and Saija? Like, what?
Worried about the wrong things. You y'all be trying to keep up with these men, honey. And these men don't be worth the damn. Don't be worth the F either because if he was worth the F, he would at least help you take care of the kids, but he wasn't even that. Like, come on, ladies.
And [ __ ] you especially cuz most people don't operate and live their life like this. Like, who would keep giving up um stuff stuff to a man that didn't want to buy diapers to help take care of the kids or do anything. Didn't even want to get their hair done. Didn't want to help to give them baths. Didn't want to do anything. Who would keep laying down with somebody that's not benefiting them or their children? Like, that's that goes to show you where your mental state and how, you know, your levels of desperation and stuff like that.
Absolutely. You guys tune in with me.
We're going to keep these videos coming in and rolling in because [ __ ] you have really really really really did it this time. And the only thing we can do is just sit up here and watch you continue to self-destruct. Well, until the next video, you guys. It's your girl, Monica down.
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