Asian Women FINALLY Admit: Black Americans Are The Only People That Accept Other RACE

Added: 2026-05-16

[00:00:00]Something powerful is happening in conversation online right now and it's forcing people to rethink ideas about belonging, acceptance, and community.

[00:00:08]Cuz when someone shares a personal story about where they felt welcome and where they didn't, it doesn't just stay a story anymore. It turns into global conversation and this one in particular has people talking. My boy started smiling so big when I saw this woke Asian female spit nothing but heat. I just want to say thank you. She hit the nail right on the head.

[00:00:30]For all the racist [ __ ] that keep saying they have black fatigue, I think it's time we set the record straight.

[00:00:37]You don't have black fatigue, you have history fatigue. You're tired of being reminded that black people didn't just participate in the world, they were a huge part in shaping it. Every race and every culture has benefited from the sacrifices that black people have made.

[00:00:53]The civil rights movement didn't just open doors for black Americans, it expanded freedoms for everyone. And the shameful part is black people hardly, if ever, get the credit for it. Black people aren't just in music and sports.

[00:01:07]You guys need to get out more, okay?

[00:01:08]Black people are doctors, lawyers, pilots, judges, engineers, educators, innovators, [music] and the list goes on. They hold up systems that people rely on daily while pretending that contribution doesn't exist. And no, this isn't pandering, this is lived experience. I grew up in an all-white neighborhood with very few black people and no other Asians. And at that time, the only culture that accepted me without question was the black culture.

[00:01:36]So, when people talk about a world without black people, they expose how very little they understand about the world they already live in. Without black people, you don't get a world with less noise, you get a world with less creativity, less freedom, less culture, and less progress. If that truth exhausts you, it's not fatigue, it's a with knowing how much you benefit from this world without acknowledging the source. My content is about anti-racism and anti-oppression in the United States in particular. And because our liberation is tied together, the way that a person like me can contribute to dismantling systems of oppression is by listening to, learning from, following the lead, and amplifying the voices of the people who understand those systems the best. And unfortunately, the people who understand those systems the best are the people who have experienced the most harm, which in the United States is Native and Black Americans. The other thing is, as an Asian American in the United States, Asian American positionality is weaponized to cause harm to Black people specifically. For example, via the model minority myth.

[00:02:39]So, a lot of my content is about acknowledging and addressing anti-Blackness among Asian Americans and talking about how to fight against our weaponized positionality by not aligning with whiteness and not subscribing to white narratives in particular about Black people.

[00:02:56]If I fail to do that and I were to focus only on anti-Asian discrimination or sinophobia, that can actually contribute to divide and conquer. That's how you wind up with Asian Americans who signed on to dismantle affirmative action.

[00:03:09]That's how you wind up with Asian Americans who fall for misinformation scapegoating Black people for the increase in anti-Asian violence. That's how you wind up with measures like the anti-Asian hate crime bill as opposed to advocating for a hate crime bill that would benefit all marginalized people the way the Emmett Till Anti-Lynching Act benefits all people.

[00:03:28]But the only way that I can do that is to speak out candidly against anti-Blackness. Now, as a side note, she/her pronouns are fine with me, but I am non-binary. Generally speaking, if you are somebody that is not okay with, please block me or do whatever you need to do to not interact with me. Or if you need my help, I can block you, too. The Asian community is literally so anti-Black and it literally [ __ ] pisses me off.

[00:03:52]Like we are literally so uneducated, uninformed, just misinformed, everything about the black community and it pisses me off and like it just pissed it just boggles my mind how a lot of Asians see black people as beneath them.

[00:04:11]I [ __ ] you not, I literally saw someone on my story and I literally was so gagged like I was like, are you serious right now?

[00:04:19]And I sent him a message ask him if he's being serious about this.

[00:04:22]This guy is Bhutanese. I'm sorry if I'm mispronouncing it. But like he I guess he got like some kind of spray tan or whatever cuz he's doing some kind of stupid movie shoot or whatever.

[00:04:33]Bro posts on his story and says because his skin is like 10 shades darker or something, he said, "Can I say the N-word now?" with an ninja emoji next to it.

[00:04:45]I slid up so [ __ ] quick and I asked this man, "Are you [ __ ] serious right now?" And guess what? That man left me on read.

[00:04:52]Need I say again that he is not black, he is Bhutanese from Bhutan or whatever the [ __ ] you pronounce it. I'm sorry if I'm mispronouncing it.

[00:05:01]Quite honestly, like the Asian community is literally so underhandedly racist to the black community and it just like not to mention the black community is one of the most supportive of marginalized groups that has ever like uplifted and uplifted the Asian community and actually put effort into supporting us. I'm probably going to piss a lot of Asians off for saying that, but it's literally the truth and I [ __ ] see it for what it is.

[00:05:29]>> The Asian community needs some serious self-reflection when it comes to racism.

[00:05:34]As you guys probably know, I moved to London 2 months ago.

[00:05:38]I live in a pretty affluent area and let me tell you this, so far I have not seen a single Asian girl or gay guy holding hands with a black or brown person on the street or at school.

[00:05:51]In fact, almost all of them were with white dudes.

[00:05:55]A few days ago, I matched with someone from Bangladesh on a dating app. He's incredibly smart and humorous. He graduated from Imperial College, which is like one of the best universities in the world and has got a good paying job in technology.

[00:06:11]However, to my surprise, after we matched, his opening line was "Thank you for liking me back. I'm aware that I may not be your preferred ethnicity, but I decided to shoot my shot anyways."

[00:06:23]At that very moment, I felt like all the dots were connecting.

[00:06:28]Why are so many Asian people actively discriminating against others with a darker color of skin, especially in the context of dating?

[00:06:35]By the way, I'm very fed up with excuses like race is highly correlated with socioeconomic status.

[00:06:42]Well, in London, which is very racially diverse, by the way, there are so many super accomplished black and brown people in banking and technology. And my observation is that many Asian girls and gay guys would rather choose a white guy with mediocre salary.

[00:06:58]My message to the Asian community is very simple.

[00:07:02]Whitewashing yourself is pathetic. Don't do it. Y'all really having a moment?

[00:07:06]Asian folks and black folks are having a moment right now. Let's go. Not only are we giving each other the tea, we are giving each other the tea about anti-blackness in our community. I know y'all been seeing over talk about what's been going on in the Asian how they've been checking each other for their anti-blackness, how a lot of them are becoming pro-black now because they recognize that being pro-black is connected to being pro-Asian. And they're realizing that supporting black folks supports everybody. Like, wake it up. They are waking it up. And in doing so, they are calling out the folks in their community who are setting all of them back. Setting them back when it comes to community, when it comes to unity, when it comes to pride and culture, and not jumping to fall at the feet of every white person you see. And in being nosy, we are seeing that we have so much in common, y'all. And that we benefit from unity because we know that proximity to whiteness will not save us. Being one of the tokens or the good ones will not save us. Rejecting who we are in our communities for the safety net of [music] whiteness will not save us. We know that eventually that net comes crashing down and you don't want to be up under that thing when it does. So, I just love that we were having this I see you moment, okay? I see you. I see y'all. I love this. And I love that this is strictly connection and sharing of information and educating each other. It's not no drama, no gossip, no ragging on your own community, but instead calling out the thing in order to empower your community. [music] They're letting us know what to look out for and we're letting them know what to look out for.

[00:08:07]And they're letting us in on the specifics of this conversation because they know that we get it. And we're not coming up in there on some you need to do this, you need to do that type stuff.

[00:08:14]We're letting them do what they need to do and being supportive on the sideline.

[00:08:16]And when I say I'm so glad to see it, oh my god. Because this is what we wanted, right? We wanted other communities to recognize the anti-blackness that happens in the midst of them and for them to call each other on it, hold each other accountable, and be better. And so to see that happening in real time and seeing them say, "Hey, there is a problem. We are sick of it. Let's address it right now." [music] That warms my heart. It means we can do this little thing called change. We can have community with and amongst each other despite of and because of our differences, yes, but with our similarities as [music] a grounding point. So, y'all love this. Let's keep it going. Let's keep showing each other the tea. Keep letting me know who to boost and follow and who to block and not pay attention to cuz they on [music] some messed up stuff. And keep letting those types of folks in your community have it cuz we let ours have it, okay?

[00:08:49]We going to let ours have it. Keep this going and keep doing you. And I'm looking forward to what's to come with this new connection. I am. I am.

[00:08:54]>> An Asian woman shared her experience living in different communities describing how she felt in certain spaces where she unexpectedly felt more accepted. And one line from her message stood out to many people. But the real question is, what does that actually mean when we slow down and think beyond emotion? There is something important here, but it has to be understood carefully. When she spoke about feeling accepted in black community than the other, she was describing a personal experience of belonging, not making a specific rule about entire groups of people. And that distinction matters because it's very easy for emotional stories to turn into broad generalization, but real life is more complex than that. What her experience highlight is something universal. People move through different environments and those environments shaped how included or excluded they feel. That's not unique to one group, one race or one culture.

[00:09:48]It's human experience. But when people reflect on history, it's also true that black Americans have played a visible and deeply documented role in shaping culture, civil rights and global conversation about justice and equality.

[00:10:02]Through the American Civil Rights Movement, leaders like Martin Luther King helped to push conversations about dignity and human rights far beyond the United States. And those ideas also connected globally, linked with independence movement and political change across Africa, including leaders like Kwame Nkrumah, where share ideas of freedom and self-determination. We have been discussed on different continents at the same time. So yes, there's a global historical influence and cultural exchange. That's real. That's documented. But none of that should reduce into saying that one group is the only source of love, acceptance or truth. Because the moment we start turning lived experience into absolute label about entire population, we lose the reasons that actually helps us to understand each other. Every community has kindness. Every community has flaws.

[00:10:50]Every individual experience is shaped by context, not stereotype. And maybe the real takeaway from all of this is not comparison, but reflection. How do we create space where people don't feel like outsiders in the first place? How do we move from separation to understanding? Because at the end of the day, belonging is not something one group own. It's something all humans are searching for. If this made you think differently, like this video, share, subscribe and don't forget to turn on your notification bell because these are the kind of conversation we need to have more often, not less. See you in my next episode.