Do Blk Women Trust Whyte Women? + A WW Has Not Found a Job, So Now She Is Doing This To BW.

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:01]Everybody, I hope you're doing well.

[00:00:04]So, I'm going to do a story time um about a white female who could not find a job. So, when she couldn't find a job, she decided to get very creative and incorporate black women into her job search, okay? So, first, let me go ahead and play this. Talk about it's about a video saying how uh a black woman said she does not trust uh white females. Check it out.

[00:00:28]>> I saw a video of a black woman telling a group of white women that she will never trust them and will always be suspicious without even getting to know them just because they're white.

[00:00:38]>> Do you know what I expect of white women? Not a damn thing. Nothing. I expect nothing of you because you have never given me anything.

[00:00:50]>> Wow.

[00:00:55]Hmm, interesting.

[00:00:58]Some people might say, "Oh, that's kind of harsh." Listen, I've got friends of diff- different nationality, so don't come with me with the oh with the oh racist word. Yeah, not happening.

[00:01:08]So, this video, let me give you a quick story time. Uh there is this couple, they're not married, they've been dating. I I pretty much know the boyfriend. I know the boyfriend more than the girlfriend, okay? So, we have a white couple here. The girlfriend has been laid off and she's I think it said it's been like 8 months since she's um you know, been laid off from her job.

[00:01:28]Got a severance package, but you know, that's pretty much gone. So, she's been laid off and getting kind of concerned just like everybody else. Uh going from one job to another job, good luck with that. It's it's very very unlikely, okay? When you're making a uh very decent money.

[00:01:43]So, given the fact that she could not find a job, not a good paying job, she could not find a job at this point.

[00:01:52]Guess what she decided to do, he says.

[00:01:55]She's now seeking out professional black women.

[00:02:00]And so I'm like, what is she doing? Is she trying to get somebody's name and look them up on Facebook? He's like, yeah, she'll do that. So, think about strategy. And it kind of remind me me of like when you find out how And just so you know, this lady on the screen is not her in case somebody want to Oh, I know her and it's not her.

[00:02:18]Yeah, just so you know. Some people are special. So, it reminds me of how when I say they're being strategic in their dating, you know, I've heard know all about find out about a man where he works, yada yada yada. I've heard Grandma Vicky talk about it. See, I know all about that. So, what she's doing is she'll go out, she'll be dressed nice, she's unemployed, but she does have like some business cards, okay? And she's using those with her name, you know, where she would like to have a company that they're Yeah, it's not it. So, she has some business cards. So, she'll go out purposely, you know, dressed real nice. And when she's going to a nice area, she'll see, let's say for example, she'll see a black woman. She's already sizing her up, walking up, making conversations.

[00:03:05]I thought, okay.

[00:03:08]Walking up, making conversations, trying to introduce herself. She'll come out with just anything.

[00:03:15]She'll go to places. Let's say if it's a nice luncheon and spots like that, she'll look online and try to look up any particular like black women venues, what's going on, and try to incorporate herself into meet some of these black women. So, I said to him, okay, so when she's meeting these black women, you know, I said I'm assuming she's trying to find what? Black women that are entrepreneurs and maybe try to get a job with them. He goes, yeah, that's one avenue. So, I'm like, what's the other avenue? He says, what she's doing as well, she's trying to network specifically with black women that are already gainfully employed.

[00:03:48]Huh?

[00:03:49]So, do you just walk up to somebody and you know, oh, where's your, you know, where do you work? You don't No, no.

[00:03:55]He's like, no, she's going the social route.

[00:03:59]Let's say somebody got a book club going on.

[00:04:01]She would try to find her way and try to, you know, oh, I've read that book, and try to ingratiate herself into it.

[00:04:08]So, she's purposely trying to network within black women groups.

[00:04:16]And like I said, so, when she find out where they work, what she's going to do is simply look for any openings. He's like, she just wants to find out where the place is, and she's going to take it from there.

[00:04:24]So, I'm like, what do you mean take it from there? So, you're trying to tell me she's going to find out where the person try to befriend them, see where this person works, where the place is. And so, he's like, you know, with she's the way she is, she figures if they're working there, oh, you pulling the WS card. So, if they're working there, let me guess, surely you can work there.

[00:04:46]What if you don't have the same qualifications?

[00:04:49]What if you don't have the same education?

[00:04:52]And I thought to myself, this is it's a first for me, it's rather unusual.

[00:05:04]So, it's leading me to think, ladies, be on the lookout.

[00:05:09]When times get hard, people get very creative.

[00:05:12]My thing is, why can't she just, you know, try and network with people within her within the community?

[00:05:20]I don't care if it's other white females, other Hispanic females, Asians, my concern is, especially as a black woman, why did you specifically want to ingratiate yourself into black women spaces?

[00:05:34]Hoping that you can get a leg up.

[00:05:36]I mean, it's like if a black woman works at a company, do you think they haven't heard of, oh my, what kind of female are you? Are you a Caucasian female? Haven't seen one of those. Does that make you special and stand out? I mean, seriously.

[00:05:49]Because the first thing that hit my mind was, maybe she's thinking, oh, if they're working there, surely there's a space for me. And that brings in a whole totally different element, and it's not cute. It's It's really not.

[00:06:05]I thought, wow.

[00:06:07]Why can't she just try to network within women's spaces?

[00:06:14]Network with people in general.

[00:06:16]But when you're hitting specifically black women, I thought, wow.

[00:06:22]So, aside from people being very cunning in their dating, very strategic in their dating, I I guess you're going to strategize when it comes to jobs. So, now she's trying to network and align herself specifically with black women, hoping that's going to land her a job opportunity.

[00:06:42]Now, some may say, oh, well, you know, a lot of black women are smart and creative. Yeah, we know that. But when you're saying, you know, you're just trying to get somebody's information, and then, you know, you're just going to go ahead and then say, oh, try to get to know this person. What do they do for a living? Oh, what company do you work for? And then you'll take it from there.

[00:06:58]You're automatically assuming that you know all the person's qualifications, and you do not, because you don't have their resume. So, all that I can assume is that you're thinking is, oh my, she has a good paying job.

[00:07:10]So, if a black woman works there, surely they'll take me. That's That's what I That's what I think about the conversation, and it's not acceptable, and then it's not cute.

[00:07:20]So, ladies, that's why some people say, no new friends. In this day and age, people don't just start I don't know where she's getting this mindset from. People don't just start giving out information.

[00:07:31]People like to vet you. The women she's trying to target, you won't be the first to maybe try this.

[00:07:38]Specifically, why don't I get It just It blows mind.

[00:07:43]Why can't she just target network in general with women in in general? But she's specifically wanting to network with black women?

[00:07:52]It sounds like the ones that try to specifically just find a a male athlete, preferably a black male athlete, and they've got a, you know, a little a little advice, you know, going on.

[00:08:03]Here's what you do, what not to do.

[00:08:05]Don't be emotional.

[00:08:07]Remember, he can change your life, he can't change his. If he cheats, so uh look at the big picture.

[00:08:13]Get married. If you don't get married, at least have some kids. Get you a check.

[00:08:16]Oh, strategic.

[00:08:19]And I'm not a fan of it.

[00:08:21]Again, I would respect her more if she would just say that she's networking with women. But when you're saying specifically black women, you're trying to put yourselves into their spaces. If you see a black woman trying to chop up a conversation, yadda yadda, give you a call, then touch bases later, you know, looking up on Facebook, uh all for one reason.

[00:08:43]Not because she wants to broaden her circle, cuz I did ask, "Has she ever had any African-American friends like, you know, before that you know of?" He goes, "No, she hasn't."

[00:08:52]Oh, but you want some now.

[00:08:55]See, that's when it takes a totally different turn.

[00:09:00]I don't have a problem with her trying to network, but it's like the the reason that she's networking, why you're choosing black women in particular.

[00:09:09]And we are not ones to show up and just kind of give you all our information.

[00:09:13]So, she's got it twisted on that end.

[00:09:16]But it lets you know, this is how a lot of people do. Let's, you know, in general, people are trying to to make something, and they're trying to find someone who has something going on, and hitch their wagon to that person.

[00:09:30]But this right here, in reference to a job, you're you seeking out black women that are successful?

[00:09:40]And you guys think you can get in their faces and dress nice and try to chop up a conversation and hand out your card, even though she is unemployed.

[00:09:49]That's her goal for getting um trying to land the next job.

[00:09:56]Very interesting.

[00:09:59]Very interesting.

[00:10:01]To me, very shocking.

[00:10:04]But yeah.

[00:10:06]This is how some people operate when times get tough.

[00:10:10]People are sitting down thinking, okay, what can I do? And black women are known to be uh go-getters.

[00:10:17]Led by matriarch, known to be go-getters. They'll have a job and a and a side hustle.

[00:10:23]A job and a business.

[00:10:26]So, yeah.

[00:10:28]I definitely felt some kind of way.

[00:10:30]Uh you know, I'm like, wow, so this is who you chose.

[00:10:34]I definitely felt some kind of way and I thought, wow, just it's just giving to me user. Uh-oh, I got to get creative.

[00:10:41]Uh-oh, it's been 8 months. Uh-oh, getting desperate.

[00:10:44]Let me try to find some black women to latch on to.

[00:10:47]Yeah, it's really not cute. It's not It's not acceptable.

[00:10:52]And I do not wish her well in her endeavors because it's just it's just it's it's giving user. It It really is.

[00:10:59]It It really is. It is totally giving giving user. So, let me know what you all think. Maybe you think I'm being over the top or simply you taking it like really too seriously. It's not that serious.

[00:11:10]Yeah, because it seems that it's a fake friendship. It's networking with an end game. I don't have a problem with people networking, not a problem. Different nationalities, of course not.

[00:11:21]But when you're saying specifically, oh, let me try to get in with them and I just need to get some information and I'll take the rest. Like someone's going to say, oh, hey, my name is Amber and I work for ABC company. You're just it's to go ahead and just Okay, thanks, Amber. Well, since Amber works there at ABC company, I know they'll take me.

[00:11:38]What's the difference between you and Amber?

[00:11:41]Yeah, you see? So, let me know what you all think. Some may say, "Hey, nothing wrong with it. Get creative." Let me know what y'all think.

[00:11:49]You know, is this something that you would do? Is this Is it shocking? Is this like the new thing?

[00:11:56]Yeah, for for me, it's just yeah, just kind of give me a little cringe. Anyway, thanks for watching. Feel free to comment, like, subscribe, and share, and I'm out.

[00:12:06]So, that right there, another reason a lot of black women may not trust them.