"ONLY WOMEN HAVE TO APOLOGIZE FOR THEIR PAST?" Woman Gets BRUTALLY HONEST About Male Privilege!

[00:00:00]I don't know what I'm doing. So, can you give us scripture that says that he doesn't forgive us?

[00:00:06]>> I'm not going to give you scripture, but I'm going to give you a natural fact.

[00:00:11][cheering] >> But if it's a natural fact, then it's from an empirical method, which means it's been proven by somehow. So, you you got to give us some sort of reference [clears throat] from you can't just tell me it's a natural fact and I can't also go find it in nature. Where is it? you.

[00:00:28]No, you can you can you can you can you can you can ascertain it because you know what people suffer for it.

[00:00:33]>> She has to qualify herselves for you.

[00:00:36]That is a part of male privilege. You all do not have to do that. You all are big old hoes, dirty dicks, and you all ain't got to apologize for a [ __ ] thing. Y'all don't have to come humbly to a woman and be like, "I know.

[00:00:56]I know [music] I was community dick, but and I know it was wrong, but please accept me after I have done all of these things. So, for the dudes that get in this space and they love to talk about how uh uh uh Mr. You know, your granddad had a family over here and a grand family over there. Well, who do you think those women were?

[00:01:20]>> You asked a question. You asked me, "Do I think God forgives us of our sins?"

[00:01:24]I'm sorry. Is that what you said?

[00:01:25]clarify if I if I got it wrong. Can you say Can you ask me the question again?

[00:01:29]>> That's what you asked.

[00:01:32]>> Oh, >> well, you better clean that toilet.

[00:01:35]>> Yeah, I was going to say get on that toilet.

[00:01:37]>> Clean that toilet.

[00:01:39]>> All this [ __ ] y'all put in somebody toilet. All right. [laughter] >> Question, bro. What's up?

[00:01:45]>> Is she a hoe? I just asked you a 100 times. You ain't want to ask it.

[00:01:48]>> Oh, I couldn't hear you, bro. I was talking. My bad. Uh, is she a hoe?

[00:01:54]She had definitely she she in in in her past definitely she was definitely a >> Okay. He got another tally mark on his econ. You ask dod forgive us for our sins. Yes.

[00:02:05]>> Why do you think why do you think so?

[00:02:08]>> He forgives you once you acknowledge your sins and you repent. He's not going to do it just because I'm a SK a serial killer, right? And I killed 132 people and I ain't said [ __ ] to him and I'm going to go kill another 133rd. is not going to do that just because >> I'm a human being and I'm deemed his child. Obviously I'm not. I'm a bad seed. You testify, but >> you ask. Yeah. He forgives you when you redeem. Absolutely. Absolutely.

[00:02:31]>> Let me put it this way, right? He doesn't.

[00:02:34]>> He doesn't. And we all have to come to the realization that God doesn't because that's why there is something called restitution.

[00:02:44]Restitution is something we pay even if we like it or not. We either acknowledge it, pay the restitution and still suffer the consequences of our decision or we don't acknowledge it and we don't pay restitution and we still suffer the consequences of our action. Because the reason why I say he doesn't yes the church say he does but if he does people are not going to suffer for the consequences of their decision. You see what I'm saying? But because he doesn't, we have to suffer for the we have to bear the consequences of our decision even if it's small or big. And the reason why he doesn't is because if he does, people will keep committing sin and crime and come back and ask which they already do because they think he does forgive them. But people have to come to realization that he does not forgive sins. It can you can you give a scriptural reference?

[00:03:46]>> Get that from >> Yeah. Can you give a scriptural >> because that's one of the reason why I left Christianity.

[00:03:51]>> No, no, no.

[00:03:54]>> No, no, no, brother. Listen, I understand that. I understand that.

[00:03:58]>> But can you give based on what you're saying? Cuz you're speaking >> like you're making a declarative statement that God does not forgive.

[00:04:07]>> I'm telling it facts >> cuz now I'm about to throw Well, okay.

[00:04:10]Even if it's a fact. So now I'm about to throw all of what I believe about Christianity, about this uh Bible concordance I got in this what is this John Maxwell leadership Bible and this uh new King James version. I'm about to throw all these Bibles out cuz if you say he don't forgive us when we repent of our sins, I don't know what I'm doing. So can you give us scripture that says that he doesn't forgive us? I'm not going to give you scripture, but I'm going to give you a natural fact.

[00:04:44]>> But if it's a natural fact, then it's from an empirical method, which means it's been proven by somehow. So you you got to give us some sort of reference to some you can't just tell me it's a natural fact and I can't also go find it in nature. Where is it?

[00:04:57]>> No, you can you can you can you can you can you can ascertain it because you know what? People suffer for it. Let me give you an example.

[00:05:04]>> Okay? There are people today that went and did whatever they want to do, have sex however they want to have it and did abortion however they want to do it. Guess what? They can't have a baby, right? They can be an animal for that.

[00:05:24]>> No, it's not scripture. It's fact. It can't because they've blown up. They've blown up their eggs, right? Noises.

[00:05:33]But the woman is the woman that was in that is the woman in that video a hoe or not? [laughter] >> She was. No, she was. She's not, but she was.

[00:05:46]>> Okay. Mhm. Six and a nine. So, okay.

[00:05:49][clears throat] Right. Didn't he just [laughter] >> Yeah, she was. She was. But look at it this way.

[00:05:59]Look at it this way. She was but she but the reason why she told Kiki Pamela not to do that is because she suffers and she bears the consequences of what she did then.

[00:06:11]>> You see that's why I talk about don't pray for forgiveness because guess what >> you have to leave it. So what she did then she's bearing the consequences today. That's why she told her no don't do what I did because I'm sorry for that. I had to check it into rehab. I had to go through the trauma. I had to bear the consequences. So in order not to do what I did, >> do not do not, >> you know, do what I did. That's what he's trying to tell her.

[00:06:45]>> Hopefully she listened.

[00:06:47]>> Get in there, boy.

[00:06:49]>> I just I want to highlight something that was said earlier. Um, unfortunately Jay has left already. But there's something very harmful that people do.

[00:07:01]It is men and it is women who center men's opinions that do this. Only women have to apologize for what they've done.

[00:07:11]Only women have to humble themselves after their, you know, a after learning from their past.

[00:07:19]You all are, you all think that she's glorifying it because she just spoke the truth. You want her to humbly come and be like, I know I did this and it was wrong.

[00:07:34]Like she has to qualify herselves for you. That is a part of male privilege.

[00:07:40]You all do not have to do that.

[00:07:43]You all are big old hoes. Dirty dicks.

[00:07:49]And you all ain't got to apologize for a [ __ ] thing. Y'all don't have to come humbly to a woman and be like, "I know I know I was community dick, but and I know it was wrong, but please accept me after I have done all of these things.

[00:08:07]I didn't been on antibiotics for some, you know, about six times. I'm so sorry.

[00:08:13]My bad. Y'all ain't got to do that.

[00:08:17]All y'all got to do is come flop the dick on somebody forehead while we have to gravel at the feet of men for sleeping with three of them. My bad. I was a hoe. It was three of them.

[00:08:31]Jennifer Lewis is all y'all mamas and grandmas.

[00:08:36]Because that free love era didn't just happen to a couple of women. That's all y'all mamas and grandmas. All y'all mamas and grandmomas had a dick down their mouth in the free love era.

[00:08:49]And I want y'all to know that Jennifer Lewis is not an anomaly.

[00:08:54]How you think you got here and some of y'all don't even know that your daddy probably not your daddy because of the free love era. And so I'm just like, let's not let's not act like women are the only ones who because I don't want no man that's been around a thousand women. I don't want no community dick.

[00:09:17]It it's not it's not fascinating to me that other women want you. I don't want a man that's wanted by so many other women. That's not attractive to me.

[00:09:29]>> But it's harmful.

[00:09:32]Go ahead.

[00:09:34]Uh, Jr. I gotta drop B. I don't normally drop women. I gotta drop. That's a great [laughter] >> Don't drop me.

[00:09:44]>> Maybe my Maybe my auntie, but not MY MAMA.

[00:09:47]>> JR. CAN I use my EVP card? Let me >> Let me use my EVP card, man. I'll give you a hundred in stamps. [laughter] >> Don't drive me.

[00:09:59]>> I'm just saying like, let me tell you something. My mama told my mama told me stories about what happened back then.

[00:10:05]Y'all mas and grandmas was some big old [clears throat] hoes. And but the thing is it's not it wasn't a shameful thing back then. That's what people did. There was no AIDS. There were no condoms when this free love era was coming in. Like AIDS had not gotten start. HIV and AIDS had not gotten its start yet. So they were just they were just going listen having fun. And I don't I don't know necessarily that I want to be a part of that era, but I bet it was real fun. It's just like these are just facts. And you think that this is me like glorifying that era. I'm not.

[00:10:48]It just happened. Men have a problem.

[00:10:51]Some men have a problem.

[00:10:56]Wait, Dr. Phil, Bo, to your point.

[00:10:59]>> Wait, wait, just really quick.

[00:11:00]>> That's an example of glorifying.

[00:11:01]>> No, no, just really quick, Bo. To your point, where do we think the Tuskegee experiment came from?

[00:11:08]>> You understand what I'm saying? When you talk about like just to edify your point, >> right, that's rooted in somewhere >> in terms of the men because the men were >> uh if I remember correctly, extrapolated. It wasn't the women that was extrapolated. It was the men, >> right, that was extrapolated. and giving placeos and so on and so forth. So when you talk about like you know like Yeah.

[00:11:32]I'm just saying to edify your point.

[00:11:33]That's all sis. Go ahead.

[00:11:35]>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So like what you men are doing are ex it's it is extremely dehumanizing.

[00:11:43]Like women are not allowed to be fully human when you do that. Like when men get to be [ __ ] mongers and women just get to be [ __ ] Like stupid stupid asking everybody on the panel was Jennifer Lewis a hoe. No, your mother was. But Jennifer Lewis is now not a hoe.

[00:12:07]She She used to be very promiscuous.

[00:12:11]But no, she is not. She is 69 years old.

[00:12:14]That that's a grown woman. That is someone who has learned from her mistakes. What I took from what Jennifer Lewis said was that this is a fact about my life. I do not regret a thing.

[00:12:30]I do know that it is wrong. She does not have to regret that. None of what I ever did I regret it. I ain't never regretted nothing I did. And if you go through life regretting your decisions, that's on you and your conscience. I ain't got nothing to do with that. I I am completely free. Even if I was Jennifer Lewis and I did sleep with 63 men, I ain't regretting not a nam one of them.

[00:12:55]Here's the thing. It just happened.

[00:12:58]It happened. But how you know that she knew that that was wrong is that she changed and she learned and she got help. Yes, she was addicted to sex. She was addicted to drugs. What does regret look like?

[00:13:18]>> Hey. Hey. No, Bo. I regret half them heers. I I I'm on record saying I was a [ __ ] monkey when I went to Atlanta.

[00:13:25]>> I regret half them heers, man. They ain't deserve the blessing that I gave them. [laughter] >> No, I regret that. But I'm saying like, but what does regret look like? We we don't have to say it in order to demonstrate the fact that we regret something because we >> Yeah, but I think but but when you look at Jennifer talking to a Kiki like and I agree I don't know who brought that up.

[00:13:49]I have more issue with the fact that Kiki was like, "Oh, serve me the tea on the 63."

[00:13:55]>> Like that's more problematic cuz what did Jennifer say after that?

[00:13:59]>> No, baby, you don't want them issues.

[00:14:01]That's not the route to go.

[00:14:02]>> Respect.

[00:14:03]>> We don't give her We don't give her credit for that. Of course credit for that.

[00:14:09]>> So So okay, so she So and here's the thing, fam. And and Bo is right. I I said that in the comments. Uh a lot of y'all grandmas and great grandmas. Uh we go down there to the bayou. If we go down there to Mississippi, if we go down there to Memphis, you understand what I'm saying?

[00:14:30]>> Leave my city out of this.

[00:14:32]>> Oh, you in Memphis. Oh, shoot. My bad.

[00:14:35]Shout out to Memphis Jew. Now, you know, you you down 57. You right down. That's my country cousin. So, don't even get that twisted. But I'm saying >> a lot of us, especially as the grandbabies and great grandbabies, you don't know what was said about your your grandma and great grandma in them neighborhoods. So, for the dudes that get in this space and they love to talk about how uh uh uh Mr. You know, your granddad had a family over here and a grand family over there and whoopde- woop. Well, who do you think those women were?

[00:15:07]You ain't It's amazing how it's never not us. We could We could point out Pearl. You hear what I'm saying, Pam?

[00:15:15]Like, we could point out everything else about everybody else family. It's never It's not mine. My grandma saints. My My grandma went to Ame, Beth, Episcopalia, Pentecostal, First Church of God in Christ. Sang in the half deacons in her bed.

[00:15:32]>> Hey, look. Hey. Hey. She was on the nursing board, the mother's board, and the deacon board.

[00:15:37]>> Getting nailed to the cross. Next.

[00:15:40]What >> we talking about?

[00:15:43]What?