From Women To Girls: Understanding Black Femicide (Full Livestream(

Added: 2026-06-08

[00:00:00]Um, today I wanted to talk about um, black femicide and also I wanted to talk about Jordan Duncan. Um, if y'all remember not too long ago the little girl that was unalived by her whitey um, caretaker who was the fiance of her father, but he was in prison. he was black and she was taking care of her and decided to abuse her instead of taking care of her and I think that we can all agree that it was racially motivated.

[00:00:43]Um, so I wanted to talk about that. And I also wanted to talk about, excuse me, a couple other young black women that were unalived by black males um, recently. And um, I I really just I I don't understand what the heck is going on. There were Okay, so a 17-year-old girl was unalived.

[00:01:10]her. She was nine months pregnant. I guess she had broken up with her baby daddy. He lured her downstairs to meet with him with flowers. And then once she came down there, he pew pewed her in the head. Then there was another young black girl. I think she was 18.

[00:01:30]She was either 18 or 20. She was pushing her three-month-old child in the stroller and was approached by her baby daddy. the father of said 3-month-old and he proceeds to also pew pew her in the head on the street broad daylight in front of everybody.

[00:01:49]And then I heard of these are just stories that I just heard today. Then another story was a sister who has two children of her own was pew pew in the chest by her 14-year-old brother because he was arguing with his 15year-old brother about feeling like he wasn't getting as much presents as his brother had gotten for like a birthday celebration or something. And she tried to intervene between the two of them.

[00:02:17]and he pew pewed her in the chest and told her before he had pew pewed her in the chest that he would pew pew the kids too her kids. So I I I really want to talk about the devaluing of black lives specifically when it comes to black women and black female children. And at some point, something's got to give because literally y'all, I saw a video of a mother, a ashy, no good mother, um, having a I guess a graduation celebration for her daughter graduating high school and proceeds to hijack her daughter's moment and talk about how her ashy brother, who is with a white tea woman, making her a baby mama, that she's pregnant again. in this girl's graduation celebration, she give her a gift bag with a pea stick in it of the white woman.

[00:03:15]So, I mean, even when you're not talking about femicide and you're just simply talking about the the lives and respect of black women and black girls, it's not there.

[00:03:26]And I want to know what do y'all think the reason is for the constant devaluing of black women and black girls lives.

[00:03:36]Because to think about a little girl that was seven being abused so badly by two white women and one biracial woman.

[00:03:48]And they are sitting there texting each other laughing about, "Oh, she's not going to be able to go to school for the next few weeks because we beat her too bad and people are going to know and they're going to tell on us." You know what I'm saying? To the point that you abused this little girl for no reason.

[00:04:06]And you can't tell me that they didn't do a lot of that because she was black.

[00:04:10]Um because and and something has got to be said about whity women loving to sit on black peen but despising black girls and black women. That is some weird weird stuff. You know what I'm saying?

[00:04:30]Because if you don't like black people, why would you want to have smacks with somebody that you really deep down inside look down on? I think that's so strange. I mean, I know that YT slave owners have done that historically and white people, but I really think it's weird that you would have intercourse with the people that you think are less than, that you really despise. Like, that is so weird.

[00:04:58]And when I see all of these things happen, you know, it makes me really feel like we don't have anybody to rely on as black people. We we we don't have the other races. We don't have black men. Who is there for black women?

[00:05:16]Because as much as I would like to say, "Hey, we're black people. We got to stick together. Let's let's unite as a people," that's not something that that I feel like the collective of black men are on board with doing. But um yeah, you guys let me know.

[00:05:34]Uh, I'll start down here with brown sugar. If you had anything to say, sis.

[00:05:38]>> Yeah. Let the other ladies go first.

[00:05:40]I'll come last.

[00:05:42]>> Okay. Okay. I got you. I got you. All right. Then let me go next up here to Kandre. You have something to say? Um, I also wanted to talk about the older woman that was unal alive in a random attack on a murder train in Georgia. Um, I saw a video of her and they just confirmed who she was today. So, may she rest in peace as well. Um, When it comes to black MSI, I think it's really sad that >> Hey, Kandra, I'm sorry. What's her name?

[00:06:08]Do you know?

[00:06:09]>> Um, let me pull it up. Hold on. Give me a second. Okay, this is ridiculous.

[00:06:18]So, y'all just heard Kandra come up here with another story. Like, I I what what we I mean, I really think that >> her name was Margaret Swain. She was un alive. Oakland City train station and a random poking attack.

[00:06:38]>> Okay, I'mma look that up. Okay, go ahead. Uh, Clandra.

[00:06:43]Um, I think more awareness needs to be on black in America. Um, I think more awareness needs to be done [snorts and laughter] because like I keep telling people that when they try to be like, "Oh, all races are under."

[00:06:55]No, but black women and black girls are being alive at higher rates than any other women. Um, I think it's sad that black women are undervalued by black men. Um, but I think the problem is awareness. I feel like we don't talk about it enough. I also feel like because we live in a patriarchal system, men are justified a lot more. Like seeing men go out there and try to paint. What was that man name who underlies?

[00:07:24]Dang, I can't even remember. Justin Fairfax, I think that was his name. The fact that people try to use that as an excuse is a problem. I think it's sad that black women lives are being devalued. I didn't hear about the case of Jordan Duncan. I thought that was that pregnant girl who's un alive. I I saw her story. That's really sad. Um she's the second black woman that was un alive while heavily pregnant. This other girl is Shanti Allen was un alive right around the time Selena Dr. Selena Richards was unive. Um, and they said she was missing in New Orleans and then she ended up being found in a liar. She was like 8 months pregnant. I think the problem is awareness. I feel like um we need to make more awareness to it to like make more awareness of black femicide. Try to um do some things to make it more aware. I think it's really sad about the women that are being unal alive and I just think black women need to be careful. I'm in the process of getting me a pew pew because I've had several situations where like I was at the gas station, this black man tried to get mad. I was dropping my son off at the ABA center. So, I think women need to just start buying pew pews and just start, you know, taking care of business before something happens to you.

[00:08:45]I definitely definitely agree. Uh let me go up here next to Gabrielle.

[00:08:51]>> Yeah. Hey, good uh good evening. Yeah, I think this story is really unfortunate.

[00:08:56]I haven't read about it yet, but I do think with everything going on in the US politically, there seems to be an uptick in these kind of stories. Um, so like but with this lady, like what specifically happened? Just cuz I haven't read about it, so I don't have the full knowledge to like be able to give like a like a good response.

[00:09:15]>> Which lady you talking about, Gabrielle?

[00:09:18]Oh. Uh, Jordan Duncan like um in your like >> Okay. Okay. Um well Jordan Duncan is was 7 years old and um her father her black father went to jail or prison and his white te fiance said that she would take care and got custody of the little girl said she'll take care of her only to abuse beat her starve her um you know torture her to the to the eventual point that she ended up unaliving and she had she had her um mother who was there too doing it and also her daughter. So it was three generations of white women and also a biracial um girl who was the daughter um abusing this little black girl.

[00:10:07]>> Why did she want custody? I [clears throat] what why like what >> I think it was probably to harm her.

[00:10:18]Wow. I And you said she was I thought this was like an adult. I didn't know this was a little girl. You said she was seven.

[00:10:25]>> Mhm.

[00:10:27]>> Oh, wow. I'm really sorry. I Yeah. I don't even know what to say. I mean that I I mean I assume that they're like they've been charged with like uh a word with s that rhymes with urder, right?

[00:10:44]Like that. Uh yeah, they actually said um that she had suffered 90 injuries before her passing. 90 >> 90 >> 90.

[00:10:57]Mhm. That's how that's how terrible that they were abusing her.

[00:11:03]And they said that um let me see cuz I I could have sworn that they had said like um because what happened to her is she passed away of an untreated infection because she had 90 injuries all over her body. So, you can imagine that they're ripping her body up, not cleaning it, keeping her filthy, and doing all of those things to where she, you know, um passed away from that.

[00:11:34]And I um I really feel like I y >> Sorry. No, go ahead.

[00:11:41]>> No, did they get charged with a hate crime, too? Cuz it's very clearly a hate crime. Like, I don't I don't think anyone can really like >> Oh, they didn't. No, I I I feel like they should. Um, but no. And I just Let me see if I can show you a picture of her. See if it'll pop up here on my um Hold on.

[00:12:04]>> Oh my god. Like 90 injuries. I'm see if I can Can you see that?

[00:12:11]>> Uh yeah. Yeah. With the teddy bear.

[00:12:14]Yeah, I could see.

[00:12:15]>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That was her.

[00:12:17]And I, like I said, I don't I don't know how you could do something like that.

[00:12:22]But once again, I feel like there's a problem with people viewing black people as human beings. And um this is why I I don't personally I don't feel like white te people should be allowed to adopt black children in any way, shape, form, or fashion. And I know people say, "Well, they need a home." Uh the alternative is if something happens, they'll be in the grave. So, I would rather see them in a group home than in the home of white person. That's just my opinion. I don't I don't think they should be allowed to adopt black children because the way um I feel like the majority of white people feel about black people. Deep down inside, I don't I don't feel like they should be allowed to do that. In my opinion, that's just my opinion. I don't think they should be allowed.

[00:13:11]>> Go ahead. Go ahead.

[00:13:11]>> Yeah. Oh, no. I was just going to ask is how did no one know about this cuz like for 90 entries I'm assuming this took place over a period of time. Like how is there no one that this girl went to school with or a neighbor who saw that?

[00:13:23]I mean just just >> they have text messages. They have text messages that they were telling each other that she had to stay home. They would keep her home for weeks at a time to hide the injuries.

[00:13:35]But even with that like there was no one who would do like what is it called like a a wellness check or like a truency like if even if the kids don't go to school like I think I I I don't remember the terminology but something about like truency like like they will basically there would be like some kind of investigation so like why is this kid like not in school like for weeks on end like it just I I don't know like like nothing like that happened like it I don't think so. I don't think so because they took her to the hospital and they got charged after, you know what I'm saying? They looked at her body. So, >> nobody was even thinking that. And they only charged them with manslaughter.

[00:14:14]>> Not with uh the other one that starts with uh with an M and has six.

[00:14:20]>> Okay. Well, it looks like Okay. So, let me get this straight because I don't want to mess anything up. the main woman who was supposed to be the caregiver, she was charged with seconddegree murder and unlawful imprisonment and reckless endangerment. Now, her mother, which would be the grandma, she was charged with manslaughter and endangering the welfare of the child. And then the woman's daughter, her biracial daughter, she was charged with unlawful imprisonment and endangering the welfare of a child. And her and her mother discussed the cover-ups of the little girl's injuries. So I have no idea why all of them don't have the same charges.

[00:14:57]I don't get that.

[00:14:58]>> Yeah. And I know other ladies have to speak. So I'll just like wrap up with this one thing. It just sounds like those charges seem really light. Like it just sounds very premeditated. They're keeping her from school. They're texting about all this. Like it sounds like premeditated Mword except over a period of I guess weeks or months. So, I'm I'm really disappointed to hear that they're not getting charged with like uh the sixletter M-word and like hate crimes cuz I I mean these they knew what they were doing. But it's really unfortunate and like I'm I'm really sad to hear that she was seven cuz I I just was reading the live. I assumed it was there was I didn't know she was a little girl.

[00:15:38]Yep. Yep. It's so terrible. It really is. Uh, let me go down here to Brown sugar.

[00:15:46]Well, maybe she maybe she's on the teacup, so she might not be ready yet.

[00:15:50]But, um, yeah. I mean, I stand by what I said. Like, honestly, I don't believe the white tea people should ever be able to adopt black children. I don't I I just don't believe so. It's way too many stories of them trying to make kids slaves. I don't know if y'all remember that um that old white tea couple that were um putting their uh black adopted children in the trunk in crates and some in in cages and somebody saw that and towed on them and then the police went there and saw all the kids um locked up in like dog crates and had them cleaning up and wasn't really feeding them and stuff like that. There was another instance of the white tea people doing the same thing except the father was also raping the kids. So I just I just really I just don't think that they should do it. Me personally, I I mean, and it's crazy because I didn't know where I could like even say this because I have so many stories of uh gay white te men adopting black boys and then they end up unalivvening them, graping them, touching on them. So, I just think no, I just think that that shouldn't happen.

[00:17:03][snorts] Period. And I think and I'm not saying a black person can't do something to you. I'm not saying that black people don't hurt kids and do I I understand that. I I do. I'm not saying that we're innocent or whatever, but I do think an extra layer to it is is allowing them in. And I just don't think that you should. But uh anyway, I also wanted to talk about the several black women that I have seen executed this week, executed while they were pregnant. And it's crazy because when you hear black men talk about the problems that they have with black women, it's always stupid stuff about, "Oh, she's independent. Oh, I don't like her hair. Oh, I don't like her body. Oh, she's not trying to talk to me because I don't have enough money." And all of these minor things, but you literally have black men and black boys out here executing black women for no reason. It's like and then it's like a lot of these men are in their 20s and I'm thinking so you're willing to why is your emotional regulation so piss poor that you're willing to risk your entire freedom for the rest of your life and and possibly more than likely get you know sodomized and things of that nature in prison because you're mad at the time because this girl don't want to be with you no more. I it just doesn't make any sense to me. Like legitimately like you know like the guy that Lord his baby mama who was about to give birth 9 months pregnant downstairs with flowers on the pew pure in the head and she's only 17 and she passed away.

[00:18:46]Like you know her family up there like these guys don't even try to get away with it. What are you doing? Like I just don't understand it. And it's so many young black women. I remember another story that I have in my phone of a 24 year old girl. She was unal alive at her job by her baby daddy. She had a seven-year-old son, which means she had the baby at 17, roughly 16, 17. And he came up to the job and unalive her. And I'm thinking, these girls don't even have a chance to live. 16, 17, 18, not even making it to 25 and getting with the wrong guy. and then ended up being un alive just like that girl. I don't know if y'all remember her. She was 20 and her baby was literally three weeks old. She was un alive by her baby daddy because he was beaten on her and she escaped and he found her and and attacked her outside her house and poked her to death. Poked her to passing away.

[00:19:50]Twix. Don't forget about the other young lady who just had that infant baby and he unalived her and then threw the baby in the river.

[00:19:59][sighs] >> Remember that story?

[00:20:01]>> I remember that story as well. I do. And it's like, but yet still yet and still, nobody takes the unalivvenings of black women and black girls seriously.

[00:20:15]We're still coddling and um mamming for black men and black boys. I uh I just don't respect it. I just me personally, I just can't give them no type of grace.

[00:20:30]When I see them, I don't even I I just I don't even look at them like I look at kids no more because they're so tainted with debauchery and insanity that I just don't know. Like, like I said, I told y'all earlier the story of the mother. I She's in her 20s. She had a 10-month-old and I forgot how old the other baby was that she had. She got pew pewed in the chest by her 14year-old brother because he was arguing with his 15-year-old brother about not getting enough gifts for his birthday. And she tried to intervene and tried to tell him to stop her or whatever. And he said he would unalive her and her kids and ended up pew pewing her in the chest. And then the 15year-old brother ended up pew pewing the 14-year-old in the leg or something. So, you think about they're both two both ignorant uh nignnods that are involved in some type of criminal criminal activity because why are y'all 14 and 15 and both of y'all have weapons?

[00:21:37]So, it's just like uh I don't know. I don't know. I don't be looking at them little negroes. I would not help y'all do nothing. I see them on the street.

[00:21:47]Hey, can I get No, you cannot.

[00:21:50]I watch them anywhere where I'm at because I love to go to the hood and go to the hair stores and stuff like that.

[00:21:55]I feel like the hair stores in the hood got the best stuff and I'm always watching.

[00:22:00]I don't look at them like they won't do something. Not even the young ones cuz it's like they don't have no conscience or anything.

[00:22:08]It's It's just disgusting. I just don't know what to say. I'm so tired of it. I I really really really am. Dag. Midnight snack. I remember that too. The man that took his baby out in a car seat and put it in the middle of the road because he was arguing with his baby mama and THEN RAN THE BABY over >> and unlocked it. Yep.

[00:22:28]>> But you had something to say nice snack.

[00:22:31]>> I do. Um just to give a little perspective. Um I'm 36. I remember growing or I'll be 36, but I remember growing up and hearing people talk about how easy it was to raise boys. And what I'm realizing now at my big age is that they weren't being raised at all. In fact, no life skills, emotionally neglected, and depending on all of the women in their lives. Um, and I think that we're exper we're going to see a lot more of this as more BLK women start to deviate from the community's male centeredness because I think what these dudes are doing is trying to latch on to these women because their survival depends on it. Not the women's, but these guys. And we're noticing that these women are being unalived when they're trying to leave or when they have left. not even just even, you know, still in relationship with them.

[00:23:26]It's all across the board. But these males need these women to survive and they'd rather these women be unalived than live a life prosperous without them because these males their lives depend on these women. Um there is just what what in the past week cuz I'm a nurse practitioner so it matters to me. But this young, beautiful BLK woman finishes nursing school and her ex comes to unal alive her after she finishes nursing school and she hasn't even started her life yet. These guys will not let us go peacefully because they understand that they need us and that's always been the case. And I I really wish BLK women understood, women in general, but BLK women understood that in order to live in proximity to males, you need to be willing to be just as violent. Y'all need to start carrying arms. Y'all need to start really no amount of your love is going to keep him from being violent from you. These men don't see you as people. You are a possession to them.

[00:24:26]You are their survival. You are their meal ticket. You are the reason why they literally get to do anything because they have no prospects, no marketable job skills. They're socioeconomically nonviable.

[00:24:38]You leaving them after they've lived a life dependent upon the women, their mamas, aunties, grandmas, they're going to be triggered by that and they're going to take it out on you.

[00:24:49]Y'all need to start getting serious about matching their level of violence.

[00:24:52]And I'm not even joking. I have my uh concealed carry. I work for the county courts and my second job is at a supermax prison. And I'm telling you guys, these guys are dangerous.

[00:25:04]You have to be willing to match their level of violence if you're going to live among them. They're not they're not they're they're not even human. They don't see you as human. They're not human. These dudes are monsters.

[00:25:16]Uh I mean I don't I I mean I definitely agree with what um and I snag said. Um, and I really, you know, I I think I I don't know if anybody knows this, but I said this in a video, right, that I am compiling data from women all over the world and how women all over the world are treated just because I just think it's a good measure, a guy, it's a good measure to look at because if you see that these things are happening everywhere as a black woman, that will allow you to know that there's no place where you can relax at. Right? I don't know if y'all heard of the white tea boy that was 16 whose stepsister who was 18 was telling the family that he was acting creepy to her and you know looking at corn around her and doing a whole lot of sexually inappropriate stuff and yet they still went on a cruise and made her share a room with him. And while she was in that room with him, he graded her and strangled her to unaliving and then put her unal alive body underneath the bed.

[00:26:25]He's on trial right now and that the judge lay him out on house arrest. Now, keep in mind he he grades and unalive his stepsister and yet he is out there on house arrest. That's what white te men can get a chance to do. And I'm just thinking and I'm not even going to tell y'all like legitimately this this is kind of unrelated but I'm just telling you the things that I see.

[00:26:52]I literally saw a video yesterday evening of an India man right in India.

[00:26:57]He was trying to marry this woman that had an 18-month-old child. She didn't want to marry him. She wasn't interested. Right? So she kept telling him no, no, no, no. And then they said that she kept trying to use her child like, you know, you should go ahead and find somebody without a child, etc., etc., etc. They have this man on camera taking her 18-month-old child, lifting them into the air, and banging their head onto the concrete eight times. Bang, bang, bang, bang. To where he unallowed the child.

[00:27:30]And then I was looking at dowry unalivvenings over there in India where they get all of this money to marry the woman and then they start abusing her and unalivvening her as soon as her family can't give them no more money. I tell you I have like eight articles of that in my phone right now. It's just like and and then I tell you I saw another video of a woman that was passed away on a slab. Okay, she was unal alive on a slab. They show a video of an Indian man dragging this unal alive woman. She got her little, you know how the Indian women wear the I don't want to make say the wrong thing, but I think there's sarongs or whatever. You know the things that go across their chest, those dresses that look really pretty.

[00:28:14]The lady still had that on. So, you know, she just recently passed away. He drag her off this slab. HER BODY IS ALL JIGGLING, MOVING, you know, and flopping around. and he dragging her to the corner so that he can grape her and they talking about they arrested him. And I'm like, what is going on? Like, and just like Midnight Stack said, when you're living amongst men that can behave like this uh of and it's it's all of them, you need to make sure that wherever you are, you're armed to the the best capacity that you can be. Just like uh Kandra said, I just looked up that poor black woman who was un alive at the train station. U Margaret um Swan, if I if I'm not mistaken again, I would forgot her name already. ON A MARTY TRAIN. DO YOU KNOW THAT man slashed her throat? Do you know how crazy it is for you to just be getting ready to to go on um to to get on to take a ride, whether you're going to work or going home, and you're 66, and some random psycho black man uh slashes your throat and pokes you 18 to 20 times, and you sit there and pass away, and nobody even helps you. I just >> You something very important. Um, one of the reasons why they don't like males working in morgs and funeral homes is because even uh, you know, even after we are unal alive for whatever reason, our bodies still don't get to be ours. We're still violated even after we have expired. That's why they don't like them in there in the first place.

[00:29:57]>> And that's I've heard that before and I think that's so disgusting. [cough] Let me go down here to Colandre. Kandre, you said you had something to say. Um, I just want to say to women, like I really think all of us need to be careful. I feel like we're in a time where like they're trying to attack women on the political stage and the unaligned women.

[00:30:18]I don't know if y'all heard this, but they say North Carolina, somebody like one of the politicians in North Carolina is proposing a law that if a man thinks that a woman is on BC that he can just like unal alive her.

[00:30:32]>> Correct. So, like I said, during a time where like the government is actively trying to like go after women, I really think all women should take like some self-defense classes. For me, I didn't like refuse, but I definitely think I'm going to get one because I have had several incidents where I did feel like they would have got out of control. And like I said, I I definitely think all women should try to get armed because I think at this point you got to protect yourself because like the fact that they're saying that they're proposing a law where a man can unalign women just because she's on BC. I like Yeah, you need to protect yourself.

[00:31:08]I definitely agree and I do have a concealed carry myself as well. Uh so I definitely practice what I preach. I have one as well. And I do think that the smartest and the best thing for you to do as a black woman is to be armed. I say this all the time, but if you don't know anything about pew pews at all, you can easily go on Groupon and take a class and they'll instruct you on what pew pew would be best for you, how to use it, how to load it, pew pew safety, and all of that. Take you to the range, show you how to hit the target, show you how to hold it, and all of that. And it won't cost you nothing. Like I don't know like 50 bucks. Uh I remember when I took the class, took these classes, I took them with my husband and I think um we paid like 50 to 70 bucks. I I really don't even know if it was that much. It could have been like 40, but it was so long ago that I don't remember. But um yeah, and they taught us everything that we needed to know. And uh I really do think that if you're a black woman, you've got to understand that no one is coming to save you. Nobody. Nobody come to save you. Nobody come to help you.

[00:32:21]That lady uh Margaret Swan that got unal alive at the train station, she was screaming for help, begging for help, and nobody helped. Nobody helped. So understand that especially if you're a black woman, nobody is coming to save you. They do not believe that your life has any worth or value. It does, but they don't believe that it does. Not other black people and definitely not black men or anyone else. So you need to make sure that you um keep your mind, you know, keep your eyes around. Don't just be on your phone, you know, scrolling so deeply when your place is out in public to where you're not aware.

[00:33:00]You know what I'm saying? when you're not aware of what's happening to you.

[00:33:03]You know, I see people all the time when I'm like going to the grocery store or something, they'll be on their phone crossing the street not paying no attention. Like it's like, I could have ran you over or anything. You're so in your phone, you're not paying attention.

[00:33:17]I see women do that all the time. Girls of all races do that. And I'm thinking like that's not smart for you to be doing that. You need to be aware of your surroundings. Like I see when I be going for walks, a lot of people go for walks in my community, right? And in the housing community, I mean, everybody always walking, going on these trails and all of this stuff. Do you know how many white tea girls I see going down the street and Indian girls going down the street with headphones on loud? I already know y'all can't hear nothing cuz if I can hear what you got on there, I know that you can't hear if somebody is thumping behind you to do something to you. Like I feel like when your places even even at the gym or anywhere, you should only have one one earbud in.

[00:34:02]That way you can hear everything with the other ear clearly. And my that's just my opinion. Like I just really think you you you you cannot just because there's people around. You can't feel like oh yeah it's people around they wouldn't do something right here.

[00:34:17]Yes the heck they would. Yes theck they would. And if they do it to you ain't nobody going to do nothing. But um Brown Sugar, did you have something to say yet? Oh no, she left. She might have been um busy. Okay, go ahead. Midnight snack, you have something to say, too. I did. Um I just want um women to pay attention to on a global scale. Um it seems like the violence has increased and I actually think it has. Um and I think that the the spell is lifting, right? Mother nature is correcting itself. These guys are no longer their mask has been off. Now that they've been revealed, they no longer feel the need to hide who they are. They're not hiding their demonic predelection for uh uh children or schmeckual uh deviency and their propensity for physical violence.

[00:35:09]And that's because as women divest globally, we're starting to realize how much they actually contribute, which is literally everything. These males mut their mutants, their recessive gene, their recessive chromosomes. They understand that their survival hinges upon us being willing to allow them to hitch their wagons onto us. This violence isn't going to decrease. These governments are actually allowing it uh passively because that is a way to keep us in line. If we one of the reasons why the systems remain in place is because of the fear of violence and as long as we fear violence we'll stay in our place but if women are brave enough to deviate and divest from these systems i.e. not getting married, not having children, you know, seeing males for who they are.

[00:36:01]These governments do not like that.

[00:36:03]Especially the capitalist class who relies upon you being a uh indentured servant um um for lack of a better word for these males. Um they want you to continue to feed the um schmave labor class. They need a cannon fighter for uh you know foreign conflicts. They need your labor. Um we have a growing boomer population. They are relying upon women to do the unpaid work of not only having children unsupported but um taking in these males um you know taking in these surplus males uh taking care of elderly among other things that we do to contribute to society which again is everything. These governments are giving the passive okay because they need us to stay in our place. They need us um in in in Schmeave to the system. They need that. And women are waking up. The spell is lifting. And now we see this growing violence from these people we've carried on our backs.

[00:37:08]Just pay attention to what's around you.

[00:37:10]But specifically these males that you're in proximity to because they are out here and they're they need to put you in your place.

[00:37:19]be okay. Women, these males need to put you in your place. Their survival absolutely hinges upon it. Not only that, they're male before their BLK. So, they're also trying to appeal to the white supremacist powers that be. You know, we're a problem for white te supremacist power. And these BLK men are tasked with keeping them b-words in their place. And that's not working very well for them. I do think that that is also a reason for the rise in violence that you see in our community in particular.

[00:37:50]>> All right. All right. I got you. I got you. Uh Brown Sugar, you there? Did you Did you have something to say?

[00:37:58]Hey, Shri. Um um the the young lady, 7 years old. I'm just [sighs] when you said that story, I I'm just can't imagine how Someone would want to put their hands on a child and unal alive them. I I just don't understand it. You know, kids are so cute. They're the purest form of innocence. And I feel like they deserve the utmost care. And not everybody deserves children. I I truly mean that.

[00:38:32]And I'm so sorry that that happened to her. My daughter is 5 years old. I couldn't imagine life without her here or anybody doing anything to harm her cuz she's so little. And just like that little girl, so little, she should be she shouldn't even be worried about getting abused and having to go through trauma like that. I just I can't imagine. And when it comes to black femicide, I'm just I'm tired of seeing BK women lose their lives. I seen on my uh for you page this young black woman just went to prom, just graduated high school and her uh Latina dude, whatever race he was, he had these cold blue eyes unal alived her. You know, it's just like I don't know what's going on, but I really wish I could warn young women cuz I know they're going to date. It's nothing that's going to stop them from dating.

[00:39:33]But to warn them about dealing with these dudes, what things to look for, just so many things because I don't want to see them get hurt, un alive. These dudes feel like they're entitled. They don't care about be okay women in our lives. They're okay with siphoning our energy, taking our lives, the things that we have to offer. I just feel like these dudes lowkey hate on these women because they know that these women will be successful even when they trapped them with children. They know that they will evolve and they can't stand that.

[00:40:06]They want you to be in the pits of hell just like them. Um, I'm I'm I'm tired of seeing it and I hate to see these beautiful BLK women lose their lives sensitively for no reason. Um, what's what does the third one say? It says uh you should be trick or >> it says devaluing of black women. um at the hands of um uh uh black men.

[00:40:36]>> Black man.

[00:40:37]>> Yeah, >> they do it so often. I I see it a lot on here on Tik Tok. It was one live talking about, oh, you know, black women need to wear their natural hair and and I'm like, why are y'all worried about what we're doing, what we're not doing? It's just like they always try to put us down some type of way. And be okay. women be in these lives vouching for them and all this other stuff and they don't stand up and I just wish we had more solidarity as sisters and I feel like if we all move on one accord and like how you said stay on code I think these BLK men would have no choice but to shut up but there are women who will man me and be male centered and they will take up for these dudes side for these dudes bash other black women for these dudes use for male validation. And black women got to work on that. We got to work on being on each other's side. We don't have to like each other. We don't have to like everything that one of our one of us say, but I feel like we have to move together as sisters for the common goal. And I'll end there for now. Thank you.

[00:41:51]No problem. No problem. Uh, I mean, as I'm sitting here thinking about it, I just um I I have a teenage daughter and I I've I've um told her multiple times um that the smartest thing that she could do in her life as she, you know, gets older and things like that is to just just be single. And I I and and I feel bad for saying that. um being married and um you know having a healthy marriage and things like that. But I just think that I I'm not saying that things weren't bad back when I was growing up or even back in my mom's generation or even my grandmother's generation. I understand that it was. But I really do believe that [snorts] things have gotten way way way way way worse. And I think with social media, red pill programming, the constant uh devaluing of of black women and black girls in all forms of media, whether that be social media, TV, music, movies, etc., etc., etc. I think that things have gotten to be even worse. And I just feel like the risk is not worth the possible reward because it's there's going to be such a small chance that you could find someone that is um sane that I that is like a decent human being as a male. I feel like it's not even worth it. So I don't know. I've I've done my own speaking to um I have two girls. um one teen and one a lot younger. Uh and I just I don't know. I'm just terrified. You know what I mean?

[00:43:41]Because I'm just hoping that they just don't even want to engage with males at all when they get older, you know, because I just what the heck. And you can say, "Oh, the the 17 year old boys, they out here unalivvening. 15, 16, 17. The ones in the TW, like they're all doing this same thing. So, it's nowhere to turn." And you know, I know it'll be women that'll be like, "Oh, you know, it's just black men, black men are just destroyed and this that and the third." And I'm not saying that black men don't have serious problems because they do. But in my research, my god, man. Wherever you're going, the men are dripping. the men are doing untold acts of violence against the women and children. So it's just like where where you gonna go? There's nowhere to go. So there's some type of issue with with men that's increasing boys and men that is increasing. And I feel like now they have started to hate women so much that they're starting to romantically be attracted to each other. even men that I would think that I maybe I don't know if this is going to sound weird or not, but I don't think that some of the men start off necessarily being G A Y. I think their hatred and devaluation of everything that is female or feminine or womanly, whatever terms I should be using, that forces them to only see the worth and value in males. And so what follows behind that is sexual attraction.

[00:45:27]Like I was somebody has shared this video of these like young guys. They look like they was about ranging from like 18 to like 25 and they were in a club and they were all clicked up together in the club in each other's faces dancing and stuff and this wasn't a gay club, you know? And I'm thinking like y'all are really really into each other and y'all aren't looking at none of the women or anything. like y'all are actually enjoying each other's company so much and you you think that women are nothing so much that y'all are now falling in love with each other. And hey, I'm not against nobody that wants to do what they want to do with the with the same sex. If that's what you want to do, that's what you want to do. But I don't think it's I don't think it's it's it's normal for them because they're they're getting that way because of the hatred of women. If that makes sense.

[00:46:26]Like you know how you have women that say, "Hey, I'm by or I'm just g a y. I just like women." I can respect that, right? Because I believe those women just really like women. The love of women. I don't think they dislike men like they have a deep-seated hatred for men. It's just they like women. But a lot of men now, I don't think that the same that can be said for them. If y'all if y'all get what I'm saying. But uh anyh who, I'm gonna let you guys speak.

[00:46:54]Um Midnight Snack, you you have something to say first and then I'll go to Kandra.

[00:46:58]>> Yeah. To piggyback off what you're talking about, that's actually um a sociological um there's a term for that where they are homos. So women exist not as people to them but as objects to establish masculinity and maintain it for other men, right? Um that's why guys get this. Oh, you don't get no O's, you know, you don't get no you don't get because we exist so that men can impress other guys, right?

[00:47:30]That's where the trophy wife phenomenon comes from. Uh, you know, that's why guys are very harsh on how women look.

[00:47:37]Even though those guys may like, you know, a larger bodied woman or, you know, a dark-kinned woman or whatever, because their homeboys may not apprec, you know, approve of that, they won't do it. And I think that that is the first step in them actually being, you know, oriented that way towards other dudes. I mean, you don't go from the Roman Empire to the Crusades um, and everything went smoothly. We are dealing with males who hate the performance of masculinity.

[00:48:06]That's why a lot of these guys don't have meaningful relationships with women. They create single mother homes everywhere. They're just, you know, they're hypermexual. Why? because they are putting on a performance so other men can validate them. But low-key they're not maintaining these relationships with women or having or being able to establish them or or you know indoctrinating other males so that they can't establish them because they actually want those dudes for themselves. Um I think that a good example of this was what happened with me Bastion. Oh, she don't deserve him.

[00:48:40]She wasn't good for him anyway. Okay sir, what's the alternative? And I do think that this needs to be addressed. I think the high religiosity of BLK people is not helping anything. I think that's the root of a lot of it. You uh you know desenter Christ, you might actually get somewhere. Denter white supremacist religion, you might actually get somewhere. You know, they boxed themselves into they created a prison for themselves with how rigid, you know, they've defined masculinity and manhood.

[00:49:09]you know that they put themselves off from other forms of expression and all they have left is violence towards us because they don't actually like or want us. But we are necess we are necessary for them to perform for other guys. And you know again if we decolonize that religion and that male centerness we we might actually get somewhere. But the community doesn't seem to be ready for this.

[00:49:35]>> Okay. All right. Um I'll just say this real quick. Um, I don't know about um because I do believe in Christ. I don't know about the dentering Christ thing. I I'll have to disagree with you there.

[00:49:48]Um, but I do believe that some people use religion in a way in in a negative way to oppress women and to get women to do certain things. But right now, these men that are going on, I don't think that it has anything to do with Christ or religion. I don't believe that none of these people are religious. I think most people really aren't religious.

[00:50:07]They're religious in name only. So I think a lot of the denter Christ talk that people say you want people to desenter something that they're not centering in the first place. But um I'mma keep going. I'mma go down here to um I think it was Kandre had something to say. Then Brown Sugar and then Gabrielle. And since everybody want to speak, I'll just give y'all all three minutes so y'all can all speak.

[00:50:30]>> Okay. I think that the problem is I do think that real pill content is based on Christ. But like I said, for me, I don't believe that conservatism is is Christ as somebody who does believe in the Lord. I believe that people twist stories up to make it work for their points. And I do think two things I want to say. I think that we don't talk enough about how real peel content is influencing young men enough is that people like to more maybe. I don't think we talk enough about how real Peel content is influencing young boys. And when you're teaching young boys that the women are not on the same level as them and the devaluing of them and they're learning that as an earlier age, that's dangerous because you're dealing with men who don't have emotional regulation and then when they're dating these women and they don't view them on the same level because they view them as something like property or something and then they go out there and do something to them. I also think that we don't talk enough in the black community about how a lot of us are conservative and those same beliefs happen. And I also think that the problem is also about how we raise our sons. I have a son and one thing I'm very going to be seeing in emotional regulation raising my son instead of loving my son. Because for me, I be on Twitter a lot and they do talk about black emiss. But for me, when I be seeing posts about people when they be like, "You should teach your daughters this, teach your daughters that." No, you need to be teaching your son something because when you think about the case I think out of Florida where the little girl was raped by those three boys and how two of them literally helped one boy by holding this child down like things like that. And the problem is that like you said all the time with Brandon and Ray J, we're loving our sons and we're coddling them and we're not raising our sons and like teaching our daughters that their ultimate goal in life is to be a man.

[00:52:19]And I also think one thing we also need to teach young girls is to leave at the first sign of a man being like, for example, if a man calls you a b word, you need to get up and walk out the door. If a man does anything that is not okay, you need to leave because I is somebody who keeps up with a lot of true crime. One thing I will say is that I don't believe that people just snap. I think it's a over a period of time and I do understand it's hard to leave but I really feel like in a a day and age where conservatism and they're going after women on a political scale, a global scale and an attack is on women.

[00:52:55]I definitely think that people need to be careful like you need to leave. You don't need to be playing games with these people because playing games with them will lead to you being six feet under. And if you have sons, instead of always justifying why men do the stuff they do, you need to make sure that your son doesn't even go out here and be a part of the wrongdoing. I know I got like 10 seconds left, but I just want to add one more point because teaching your sons to not be a part of the wrongdoing of other people. And like for example, with that def that D4 VD case and how he gave like this little boy $1,000 to get that girl a phone, you know what I'm saying? teaching your sons the right thing to do. And I'm really getting tired of some of y'all who have girls and boys and you be out here laughing at he he what's funny not with him when he's 3, four or five. It's not going to be funny when he's 16, 17, 18 and he being sentenced in that system. And I also think last point I know I got 30 minutes said 30 seconds. I also think a problem also is the justification of men. Stop justifying men. Stop giving them leeways. Stop saying, "Oh, he do this because oh, he do this because no, he he he a bad person. He's a bad person." It's not a reason. There are bad people out here. But that's all I have to say. All right. All right. I got you. Uh Colandre Midnight Snack, I saw you in the comments. You said it doesn't matter how you raise these boys, they find degeneracy. Do you think that all boys are degenerate? That's a question I have for you, Midnight Snack. But wait, wait to answer it um until I get to the other two ladies. Okay. But I I I do want to hear your perspective. All right, let me go next down here to Brown Sugar and then I'll go to Miss Gabrielle.

[00:54:38]>> I I wanted to piggy back off what you were saying, Trig, how you you were scared for your daughters as I'm scared for mine. I think even if you're I think it goes even back to elementary school.

[00:54:50]Um I feel like I don't know what these parents doing when it come to um raising their sons. Sometimes it feels like they don't hold them accountable. I remember at my daughter's birthday party, there was a little boy who blew out her candles, trying to blow out her candles, and it's like he wasn't listening to his mother at all. So, and you know, I can I can tell when the little boys are being raised with um good role models in the home. They know how to act. They know how to have some respect, some decency.

[00:55:21]And you can tell when the little, you know, when the little boys aren't in, they are going to end up being tyrants when they're older. And you know, you can control them now as they're young, but when they get older, you're not going to be able to control them when they get 10, 12, 13, 14 years old, they're going to start getting bigger than you and not listening to you. And I think that parents, you know, really going to hold in on their sons. And I don't have any sons, but, you know, as a parent, I know that you're supposed to do your best to make sure that you're raising your children to be good people in this world. And um I don't know that, you know, that irritated me. But I think that um I'm I'm I'm terrified for my daughter. Um but I feel like when it comes to children, to your little girls, you really have to teach them discernment. And every dusty that me and my daughter see, she'll say, "Ew, he looks awful." And [laughter] and I crack up and laugh. But I'm telling her these are the dudes that you have to be very vigilant of and look how they appear.

[00:56:28]And I think that you know it is very important to start instilling to these little girls even at the age of four or 5 years old what to look for because these dudes aren't playing. These young boys aren't playing. They're doing awful things to these um little girls. And I don't want my daughter to think that it's a fairy land out here and that somebody won't try to harm her or these little boys won't try to harm her because that's not the case. And I would rather send my daughter into the world prepared than unprepared. Because like I said, these little boys aren't messing.

[00:57:02]They're not messing around. They're not playing. And I think that they have to stop coddling these young men. They have to. And they have to start raising them and they have to start holding them accountable for everything that they do when they're young. They need to have consequences.

[00:57:19]They need to be punished. They need to get some things taken away. And they need to be followed, you know, through the right direction. And um they need to learn how to respect young women. And I think that could possibly, you know, change things around. I want to add, you know, one last thing. Um, because I know I'm going up, but I don't like when people bash Christ. Um, I am a Christian and I feel like, you know, I I asked God. I was just like, I need help with certain things. I I'm not, you know, I feel like I'm not doing things right.

[00:57:52]And I feel like God really led me to your channel channel. Um, and it's helped me out. And I've I center Christ and I've I've desentered men at the same time. I feel like when it comes to Christianity, you have to use your discernment. Follow God and he will lead you the right way. And even though I I know that everybody doesn't believe in, you know, God, that's on you. But I'm not bashing other people's beliefs and putting them down for it. But I do center Christ and I center myself as well. And I'll end there. All right. All right. I got you. I got you, Brown sugar girl. I mean, I appreciate you. I don't want you to think that you just hanging out there alone. I s Christ as well. You know what I'm saying? I do think that sometimes when it comes to Christ and Christianity, because of the people that practice, I don't believe they're even practicing Christianity, but the people that fake like they are, so many people are like that, the majority of people are like that. And it's supposed to be like that. They they say that the majority of the people are going to be like that. But for some reason people judge it on those people and not realizing that in general people whether they are believers of God or believers of Christ, they have another religious belief or they believe in another type of God or whether they don't believe anything at all. There people have piss poor character. So there's no belief system where you're not going to run across people that are trifling and degenerate and or mammies or or you know whatever you want to think of it. It applies to everybody because that's a human um characteristic that people can have. But you know I mean I don't take too much out of it because I'm just used to people doing it and I think um I don't think people really necessarily mean anything by it. But I do think that I've noticed that expressing I was on and there was basically like [clears throat] men are more and that means you're G. And it's just like I I I so I agree with you on that phenomenon. I just truly wish that males with these ideologies which is date other males like I just really think that's what they need to do at this point. Like the way they talk like they claim they don't like women's bodies.

[01:00:48]They claim they don't like women's, you know, private areas. They claim like like I don't like organized religion at all power have you has women in the name saying that like becoming more gravitating towards faith or wanting to be grounded or like have something to believe in. But I think a lot of them do look look at it as like a vehicle for them to, you know, control women. But again, that's just me. I'm I would say I'm more spiritual than religious, but like I do, you know, respect people have the right to Okay.

[01:02:06]All right. All right. I got you. I got you. Uh was that I I think that was everybody, right? Um okay, y'all said that it's still skipping. Um I did block a man that was in here. Hey. Um, Brown Sugar, the user 77583.

[01:02:24]I think that's a girl.

[01:02:26]>> Yeah, I unblocked her because she comes in here a lot. It was like a couple times I almost blocked her, bro.

[01:02:32][laughter] And she was like she had she had come up and said something or something. And I, but I knew the idea.

[01:03:25]I think That is not not question was if I'm not mistaken.

[01:04:04]Um I think that young man who was 60 plus years of uh slave Florida Department of Correction from a background where for all intents and purposes he should not have been on that trajectory yet here he is. Another example is the John Marant case. Uh Cam Newton's another one where they come from two parents. They were not starving. The lights weren't cut off. they come from what we say is the best possible uh situation for these boys to not go that way and yet they end up degenerate anyway. And I do think that our community um um kind of pressures young men to perform masculinity in a very specific way that involves degeneracy, right? And if you aren't that way, you know, you're looked down upon. I don't know if it's nature versus nurture because on the flip side of, you know, that is, you know, with the E files dropping and us realizing that, uh, there's more men than I who are PDF files. Um, I'm starting to believe that a lot of this stuff is natural to them and they have to be socialized to not engage in that way because it's just way too easy for them to do it. Why do why why are so many of them that way if it's not some natural component? I actually don't have an answer for this. I don't I I notice that like you know all the dudes in the Department of Corrections for instance, they didn't come from horrible situations. They committed horrible atrocities. They didn't come from the worst of the worst. Contrary to popular belief, you know, be okay people, you know, they have families. We have families. And yet these males are out here doing the worst. I can't tell you except for their need to perform their manhood and masculinity in a very specific way forces them to do these horrible things. I can't tell you if it's nature versus nurture. All I know is I don't want any parts of it. I don't I don't I won't be birthing one. That might be controver controversial for some, but it's not a risk I'm willing to take if that kind of harm can come and I provide the best circumstances I could possibly provide. I can't tell you. I can't tell you if it's all I can't tell you if it's nature versus nurture, honestly.

[01:06:24]>> Okay. Okay. Okay. I got you. I got you.

[01:06:26]Uh I mean, I think about it. I don't I don't know if I even I don't know if how I feel either about the nature versus nature versus nurture thing. I just feel like uh that men are predisposed to certain types of behaviors, certain type of actions, certain type of mental states. [snorts] And I I'm not saying that's every man, of course, but I do think that it's something that is inherent in a lot of men, which is why men are doing the most of these things. You don't normally hear of women, you know, when they're able to trying to marry 7, 8, nine year old boys and get impregnated by them.

[01:07:11]I'm not saying that that hasn't happened before, but what I'm saying is generally speaking, you don't see women u or or traveling to different countries and you see just a group of women that are middle-aged looking for five and six year old boys, you know.

[01:07:29]Uh, I think there's or or having sex trafficking rings or a whole bunch of other things that men tend to do or you know going out on dates with men and putting something in their drink so that they can take advantage of them and do all type of perverted things to them without their consent. Like there's just a lot of things that I feel like men seem to be more predisposed to doing or like you know women get cheated on all the time. Dog doubt. okie dod by men.

[01:07:59]Men take advantage of them. Men take them for granted. You very rarely hear, and I'm not saying you don't hear of women doing this, but you very rarely hear of women just being so upset like, "Oh my goodness, you cheated on me. You you're breaking up with me. I'm going to find you on the street and I'm going to execute you right there. I'm going to execute you. I'm going to execute her.

[01:08:18]I'm going to execute the kids." and but we can think of thousands and thousands and thousands of instances of men doing this with a couple spatterings here and there of women that may have behaved in that way. So I I think that men are just predisposed to do certain things more than women do because I think that I this is just my opinion how I take but I think there's something wrong with the majority of men. [snorts] So I I uh like if I I like I said I I'm >> with the knowledge that I have now that would have been something that I took into major consideration as I lived my life as a as a young girl, as a teenager, all of those things. I I grew up in a time where there was, you know, you had black male heart throbs, you know what I'm saying? You had like Well, this is this is probably going to age me, but whatever. you know, you I had like um Genuine and LL Cool J and and Morris Chestnut and and all of these black men. You know what I'm saying? Cuz I I only was really ever really attracted to to the way black men looked. And you know, I remember having all of these men that I could for when I was a teenager fantasize about and think, "Oh my goodness, like when I when I get older, I'm gonna uh be [clears throat] with one of the You know what I'm saying? Like I don't I just feel like [laughter] the the fantasy that some women have been, you know, um sold and women believed like they could have been my age in their 30s or 40s. I don't even think, now that I'm thinking about this, I don't even think that that's like a fantasy now that can even be sold to the girls that are in their 20s or teens because they see so much disgusting behavior real time through social media and other avenues of males. I think it's very hard to romanticize them. Does that make sense to y'all or am I tripping?

[01:10:19]>> No, it makes and I I'm 35. I'll be 36 this year. Those were also the heart throbs when we were growing up. And I actually agree with you. I think that um it's not something you can sell anymore, which is why I think, you know, to couple that, we grew up with Disney who sold us on a lot of that stuff, too. Uh people don't understand that Hollywood, Disney in particular, was a propaganda machine to feed that patriarchal monster to get us to believe in the fairy tale so we can take in um somebody's um raggedy son. But um these girls aren't sold on it now. you know, we don't have that propaganda machine. A lot of us are a lot more honest about our experiences in these relationships than our mothers and grandmothers were. Um, and you're right, and I think that's why we're seeing the increase in violence because that veil has been lifted. These men aren't pretending they're not PDF files anymore or physically violent. They're just those things now. And it's a rise in it because, you know, these young girls who they really want are not accessible to them now because those girls, a lot of these young girls are listening to us. So, I do think that's why there's a rise in the violence because there's there's no longer the fairy tale. Women are no longer willing to lie to themselves and they're not being lied to. That's what I think. I agree with you.

[01:11:39]>> All right, I got you, sis. All right, let me go next down here to Kandre. You have something to say, sis? Um, I said what I said because I have a son and I really pray that my son does not go out here and do nothing to nobody child. But I said what I said because I feel like anytime I have seen like highprofile cases where a male has done like the worst of the worst to people and his mama sitting right there behind them.

[01:12:06]Like for example, I was watching the Watts family erders and after the funeral of those two little girls that he un alive, his mama and sister went to the jail cell and started talking to him about the funeral like he didn't cause it. And I'm sorry, but I I say that because I do have a son and I really hope that my son does not go out here and do nothing to nobody. But I believe that we're dealing with the repercussions repercussions, I'm sorry, of coddling men. The way I be arguing on Twitter with people about cases that involve minors and celebrities really be is and then I be arguing with women.

[01:12:48]Now, when it comes to men, I block them because I think you're a lost cause. But the fact that I be seeing women out here like with the Tatiana Chanel Kels that be knew what she was doing and with the Niah Harris when I was 13 I knew what I was doing that grown women calling children bwords and and like I said I really I'm going to do a live like this one day and I have said it before but I think the male centerness and the patriarchy with women and and if a male center woman I I believe that a male center woman no matter what gender she has. She's a horrible mother. My mom was male center and her favorite child was my brother. I think that we are dealing with the repercussions of coddling men. And because men are coddled and they're not held accountable for any Ray J mama after he pointed a pew pew at Princess and you got in the Facebook comments and said he's still a good person. You was not raising him. You were loving him. I really a hate TO SAY IT. THEY ARE NOT RAISING their sons. They're not. They're loving them. They're teaching them. It's everybody else fault. And it's okay TJ.

[01:14:03]Life is hard and it's not your fault.

[01:14:06]It's the white man fault. We are dealing with male center women. And in Cam Newton case, his mama were probably male center because it was something that was happening in that household. I think that we are living with male center because the average woman is male center. The average woman is male center. She has a son. Every woman I know that has a son and they got boy mom in their bio. I guarantee you find when they sons grow up, they're probably going to add to the worst of the worst.

[01:14:37]The modern man is not a good man because of male center. his dad was probably like for example my baby dad his mama she's very male center he don't do no wrong in that woman head but when I see how her husband she treated her I be like yep see and that's I think we're dealing with the repercussions of cuddling men and I'm sorry I say that but that's what I think the problem is women enabling men wanting sons and like oh my god I have a son the fact that women be like God give you a son to experience love like no other when when they had. First of all, when I found out I was having my son, I cried. I did not want a little boy. [laughter] I never thought for one second that because I had a son, God was giving me love that I never experienced. I never thought that for one second. But the fact that most women keep saying that we are dealing with the repercussions of women like that raising these boys or no, not raising, loving their sons.

[01:15:38]>> Shoot. Sorry, I was trying to unmute myself. I mean, I definitely agree with you. I I do think that that's actually a big problem. I think that's something that maybe we don't talk about enough, but I do because I'm Okay, so I'm going to say this. I have met some good men.

[01:15:55]Not a lot, but I've met a few in my life. Men that I felt like had good character, uh, wouldn't or were good people. And you know what those men had in common? And I said this on lies plenty of times. Their mothers were not enablers or toddlers. They were uh hard on them and raised them first without the the the loving and the mammying. And I really do think that to possibly raise a boy that is going to grow up to do the right thing in life is that is a must. A must. A must. A must. A must.

[01:16:33]like there's you cannot you cannot not do that if that makes sense. I messed up my grammar but you c you have to do it.

[01:16:41]You have to do it. That's not something that you can skimp on. So I think if anybody has a son um that and you you do want your son to to be on the up and up.

[01:16:52]I think that's the number one thing you have to do, you know, and I know uh Kandre definitely does that, but I definitely think that is the number one thing that you have to do. But you know, you guys, I just really I think I'm going to Hey, how you doing, Miss Chrissy baby? Um, I just really wanted to talk about this today because, you know, when when black femicide and this is the reason why I'm not really big on, you know, I know people talk about what is it intersectionality and and I get that, but I the reason why I'm not really big on really censoring anybody or caring about anybody else but black women, uh, is because when things like this happen to us, Where are these other groups that we are uh also talking about and and speaking about? Oh, where where are they at when things happen to black women? Nowhere. Nowhere. They're not talking about these women. They're not talking about the girls. They're not talking about what's happening. They don't care. And so, me personally, I just feel like for me, I just only want to put my focus on black women, biological black women specifically. and uh what we have going on seeing as though we're the most at risk demographic cuz this stuff got to stop.

[01:18:14]Uh go go ahead. Uh Midnight Snack, >> I'm glad that you mentioned that. Um because what I'm seeing on the discourse, especially as it pertains to the tea in the LGBTQ community, is you know the entitlement to our protest, the entire the entitlement to us going out on the front lines like we are some shock absorbent default warrior. And I really wish we would keep that energy for ourselves. We have people out here denying and invalidating our experience, historical and current. There's nobody throwing their weight behind us. There's nobody out here on the front lines for us, advocating for us for the policy changes that disenfranchise us uh to get changes in the medical industrial complex so that our, you know, maternal mortality rate isn't the highest or our babies aren't unaliving in the care of health care professionals. We're not experiencing this because we are supposed to be this permanent underclass of foot soldiers and people actually feel entitled to it. In fact, they'll alter history to, you know, hitch their wagons onto our experiences. So, if they can get us to if they can bully us into believing we have a stake in their existence, we're more likely to go out and fight because, you know, we see ourselves in their struggle. And I I I want to tell BLK women and girls, mind your business like everyone else does.

[01:19:39]Give them the world that they asking for. They get to mind their own business. We should be doing that, too.

[01:19:44]Um because they won't get anywhere without us protesting. They won't get anywhere without us um organizing and, you know, putting up a fight. They've taken for granted that for so long. They don't care what happens to us. They do not care that we are out here being, you know, un alive for sport essentially at this point. You know, this is the GTA game as far as I'm concerned and we are the targets.

[01:20:10]Mind your business. Mind your community.

[01:20:13]Find your community and mind your community. Let them fight fight fight on their own. Don't put yourselves out there because the energy we have should be reserved for us. I I'm glad you said that.

[01:20:25]>> Yeah. I mean, I definitely agree with that. Um, and you know, you know, midnight snack, that's actually considered right now depending on where you are at or what space you're in. A hot take, a hot take that that oh, black women should be focused with themselves.

[01:20:42]It's like people would say, "Oh, no, you should be concerned about this and this and this." No, I shouldn't. No, I shouldn't.

[01:20:47]>> It makes me angry because [laughter] they'll sit here and tell you your feminism or should include everybody.

[01:20:54]No, white tea women's feminism never included everyone else. And we were okay with that. Women of color, their feminism doesn't include us. And no one's screaming about that. Why can't we be selective about who we put our weight behind? Why can't we choose ourselves like they choose themselves? Why do we have to have an endless stream of empathy and and willingness to go outside and put ourselves in harm's way?

[01:21:16]And no one's doing that for us. You won't see me outside protesting on behalf of anybody who's not a biological female or a girl. I'm not out there for no male. I'm not doing none of that.

[01:21:27]>> You know what you have you guys seen? It was a video. I just saw it yesterday of a gay white man and he said that women don't have the market on femininity, feminism, or womanhood. And then he starts to chastise women, more specifically black women, about feeling like they have a hold on femininity and starts explaining why they're wrong as a man. And I'm like I'm just flabbergasted because I'm thinking what part of because you take dick makes you feel like you're a woman? I don't care how much pain you you engage in, sir. you're still a man and you don't have the right to say anything about women and what women should be doing, what women could be doing, what feminism, feminism is, what femininity is, what womanhood is. I was just blown away. But once again, I really do feel like women and and definitely black women have made men feel comfortable in doing things like that really. Like I think that black women have been the forerunners, you know, which is sad to say, in that type of behavior and making uh men or um te women feel comfortable in the crazy stuff that they do because they don't they don't get push back enough from women, which is why I never have been one to bite my tongue about it because it's insane. But uh anyh who, I uh I don't know if y'all saw that. Y'all should look up that up because he had me so irritated. I'm actually going to make a video about him. But I I just downloaded the video. I It take me a few days, y'all. So, don't think it's going to come up, right? Cuz I got to make literally like I got to type up like seven videos tomorrow because it was just so much stuff going on. But anyh who, yeah, I just um I really want us as black women to stop that. Like, stop that. Stop allowing men, regardless of how they present, feel comfortable enough to tell black women what to do and and what we should be doing when if the situation was reversed, they would never let you do that to them, to their groups, to their specified demographics.

[01:23:41]Do you think that you as a black woman could go into a space with g black men and tell them about their masculinity or they're not masculine or they're this, that, and the third? They would call you all type of names and drag you by your hair. If you went to tea women and tried to tell them what they are, what they aren't, or this that, and the third, they would also drag you by your hair. Uh TS Madison has said as much out of out of his mouth publicly. So, I just feel like we as black women have really got to um you know, like like Back was saying, like put each other first and focus on each other. I think that's the most important thing. But y'all, I'm about to wrap this live up because I got I think I gotta really start working on this femicide thing. Um, but I did want to say thanks so much, Midnight Snack. I don't I feel like I seen you before, but I don't know if I've heard you before on here. So, I just wanted to say um hopefully I get a chance to talk to you again. I appreciate you. Uh, appreciate Brown Sugar for coming up here. I also appreciate Miss Kandre for coming up here. And um Gabrielle, did you have anything to say before I wrapped it up?

[01:24:52]>> Oh, no, no, this was a good live. I'm glad we got to talk about things and hear different perspectives and yeah, I can't wait to catch the next one. Okay, no problem. No problem. Yeah, and I, like I said before, I appreciate all of you guys. I respect all of you guys' points and perspectives. I think it's always great to have different points and stuff like that cuz if everybody agrees on everything, you know, then we'll just be an echo chamber and who wants that, right? So, uh, I do really appreciate y'all and I hope y'all have a great day or a great evening, uh, depending on where you are. And hey, Miss Chrissy Baby, I'm so sad that I'm ending it now when you got here because I've missed you so much, Miss Chrissy Baby. So, um, I'll try to do another late later live sometime during this week and then hopefully maybe I can you and I can chat it up, Miss Chrissy Baby.

[01:25:38]All right, y'all. I'll see y'all later.

[01:25:39]Oh, and also appreciate all of you beautiful lovely ladies in the chat as well. Appreciate y'all. so much as well.

[01:25:45]Um, keeping it spicy in the chat and stuff like that. I appreciate y'all, too. All right, you do. Okay, well then maybe we got to talk in the DMs, Miss Chrissy Baby. All right, if you don't want to wait. Okay. All right. Well, I'll see you guys later. Love y'all so much. And if you got some good news, you better spill that tea in my DMs, Miss Chrissy Baby. All right. I love y'all.

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