Children learn behavior through observation of their parents and elders; when parents model disrespectful, performative, or aggressive behavior in public settings, children internalize these patterns and may repeat them in their own interactions, including with authority figures like teachers and law enforcement. This learned behavior creates a cycle where disrespectful conduct becomes normalized, potentially leading to negative consequences such as conflict with authorities and social isolation.
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TOXIC MOTHERS Day: THIS IS WHY NOBODY WANTS TO WORK AT GAS STATIONSAdded:
You're under arrest. Leave me alone.
[Β __Β ] to you. WHY YOU ARRESTING ME? WHY IS HE ARRESTING ME?
>> Trespass after warning.
>> I only got your INFORMATION. I DIDN'T TRESPASS.
>> You were told to stay off the property.
You came back onto the property.
>> I'm not being pregnant. You see this man? Look at this picture, man. This picture right here is the quintessential black people displaying a superpower and you have the white cop displaying black fatigue. Man, take a look at the cops, man. They got fatigue like, oh Lord, this again.
You ever just look at some parents and be like, man, what are you doing? You are showing your kids how to be disruptive, how to not behave in public, how to be performative and indoctrinated. And and and you're you're showing them that, okay, well, if you act like me, you'll be able to walk through this earth with impunity, talk and say and do whatever you want to people, to law enforcement. That is such a bad message to send to young people.
It is bad. And whatever happened to the parents that conducted themselves with with some dignity, with integrity, I said, "Look, this is the way you need to conduct yourself, you can't be out here acting a fool." There used to be a lot of parents like that. Now, I'm seeing a lot of these parents that are the protagonist, man. They got to put on a show. Even if that show is just negative and puts you in this horrible light, right? They gota they gotta sit up here and and perform and be disrespectful and think that this is the way. This is the way I'm not gonna let anybody do this whatever whatever.
You're a fool. You're an idiot. And then you get treated as such. And then when you get treated like that, you want to sit up here and claim racism. You want to sit up here and become the victim.
Claim victimization. It's ridiculous.
So, let's go ahead and take a look at y'all aunties. Man, this is somebody's aunties. Somebody's cousins. This might be some of y'all mama's. Maybe some of y'all mamas used to act like this. My mom never acted like this.
>> Maybe who owned the plaza.
>> Where's he at?
>> Remy?
>> Yeah. Where is he?
>> Probably.
>> 1501 North Buddy.
>> That 1501.
There's a gas station.
>> The gas station.
>> Yeah.
147.
>> Okay.
Oh, >> thank you. CAMEAS BACK, PLEASE.
>> WE CAME INTO the store with the candy that she got in her hand. The kids had the candy in their hand. All the candy, but let's go outside to talk. Okay.
>> I APOLOGIZE.
WE CAME INTO the store and we got when we came in any of you guys.
>> We came into the store with this with our kids. Okay. Our kids had this when we came into the store. He said our kids stood right here, opened the candy, AND ATE IT.
>> THEY'RE BEFORE, BUT THEY CAME IN WITH THAT.
>> OKAY. OKAY. It's not that big of a deal.
>> To him, it is cuz he DON'T EVEN CALL THE POLICE WHEN HE DON'T EVEN HAVE THE CANDY in here. I believe you.
>> But he needs to apologize TO OUR KIDS TRYING to say that they stole and that they opening at their 80s.
>> I ONLY SPENT CASH >> AND THEN HE GOING TO SIT THERE AND TELL US THAT BECAUSE WE DIDN'T HAVE EV, WE SUPPOSED TO LEAVE.
>> WE GOT CASH.
>> We'll get it figured out. We'll get it figured out. Okay. It's not that big of a deal. Let's just blow record.
>> YOU WILL not listen. Here's what's going to happen, right?
>> We're all going to go outside together and we're going to have a conversation about everything that we'll get it squared away. sitting here back and forth.
>> He's going to check this guy out. This guy's waiting to leave. We're not going to hold him. I told them to go next door. We cared too.
>> They told you to leave.
>> You want them to leave the store?
>> We'll talk to you guys. If they don't leave the store, >> don't leave the store. I'm going to arrest you for trespassing.
>> That's why we like talking to women.
DUDES SUCK.
I DON'T GIVE A OKAY, SHUT UP.
>> And we can handle everything outside like like adults.
>> And then we can figure everything out instead of yelling and screaming.
>> Shut up.
>> I know what's And then we're going to get through everything. I just need him to be able to check that. That guy needs to be able to leave. You know what I mean? Hey, relax now.
>> You relax because evidently you don't get what COMING FROM. YOU RELAX. YOU RELAX.
>> That has nothing to do with anything.
You got irritable.
MY CHILDREN I DON'T DOUBT IT. LISTEN, I don't doubt that. We got money.
>> Take you to jail for disorderly conduct in about 30 seconds. You are you're yelling and cussing. So you're going to go to jail. You walking up.
>> How is a woman with the bonnet on her head? The voice of reason, man. Kind of.
Sort of. So you being disrespectful. You telling the cop to shut up. He's sitting up here trying to have a conversation with you and your response is to tell him to shut up. Shut up. Shut up. Your behavior is reprehensible. This This right here is not the way you should conduct yourself in front of your kids.
And I bet you I bet you I'm going to surmise this is the way they were brought up. They had elders, parents, whoever, cousins in them, a older cousins and them, aunties, uncles that behave in this manner and they're going to pass it down. You're going to have these little kids that are watching everything. They watch everything and before you know it, they'll be out here disrespecting people and they'll do it at a younger age. They'll do it at school. They'll do it to their teachers.
You see it. It is a learned behavior. It is a pattern. And you see this a lot in the in the black community. I have seen it a lot. I have seen where disrespectful behavior was championed and if you was a criminal, you was the man. It's it's a fact. You're gonna go to jail. Now, here's the deal.
>> I want to know everything that happened.
>> I feel relax. I want to know everything that happened here.
>> You got to you got to show respect.
>> I want to know everything that happened, but I'm not going to yell and scream in THE STORE.
>> BUT DON'T walk up.
>> So, start at the beginning and y'all would feel threatened.
>> Start at the beginning and tell me what happened.
>> You walked into the store. The children already had the candy in their hand.
Okay. From out here.
>> From Yes. Store over there. THE CHILDREN ALREADY HAD THE CANDY in their hand.
>> We proceeded to pay FOR OUR STUFF. HE WANTED TO WAIT UNTIL WE LEAVE OUT THE STORE and say, "Oh, THE CHILDREN THE CHILDREN THE CHILDREN WITH THE CANDY."
SO WE LIKE, "WHAT CANDY? THEY ALREADY PAID for that. That candy." Yes. Okay.
>> THEY ALREADY HAD THE CANDY. HE SAID THE KIDS OPENED THE candy and ate it IN THE AISLE.
>> HOW?
>> BUT IT came from that store.
>> But it came from the store OVER THERE.
HE'S LIKE, "WALK. I'M GOING TO WALK OVER THERE. I can run it back on the camera.
>> I'm going to walk over there and just check and make sure that they bought it there and then I'll be right back.
>> You get what I'm saying?
>> That's why I'm trying to tell everybody to bring it out.
>> Huh?
>> I'm going to go over here saying that I'm yelling.
>> I'm going to go over here. I I definitely can hear you.
>> Okay.
>> I'm going to go over here and I'm going to see if yelling. You loud as hell. You was loud as hell. You see how she was sitting up here trying to be combative.
Oh, don't walk up on me. I feel threatened. girl, you don't feel threatened at all. You think you're the big bad wolf. You're sitting up here just being ridiculous and disrespectful.
This man is trying to de deescalate the situation, but you you you don't want that. That Let's just be honest. They don't want it. They don't want deescalation. They want to be performative, loud. They want to be combative. They want to fight somebody.
Look, I don't know what your kids did, but I would love to hear the store owners or the store workers side of the story cuz I don't believe none of y'all.
I think that you always looking for a reason to be mad, to fight, always want to be argumentative all the time. I've seen this my whole damn life. I got family members like this. It's ridiculous. It's damn ridiculous. You over here talking about I feel threatened. Don't walk up on me, man.
They about to walk up on you. Put hands on you. They about to put them hands on you. You We all see it. And look, look, man. Some of y'all out there are too nice. You know, just like I know that you got fatigue. This give me fatigue right now. I'm charged up, man. I'm charged up. Y'all is too, man. Watching this. You talking about, man, why can't you just [Β __Β ] your mouth, you know? Y'all know. Don't be honest, man. Y'all got black fatigue, man.
>> You guys bought that.
>> I didn't buy it from there. Her I think my friend here had it.
>> That's fine. There's a bunch of kids here. So, I'm going to walk over there and then I'll come back.
>> Okay.
>> That's what I just told her I'm going to go do.
>> Good lord.
>> Good lord. I with you.
>> There's a couple ladies here. Had a bunch of little kids.
>> Yes, sir.
>> Did they just buy some candy here from you?
>> A little boy.
>> Yeah. One little boy in a white t-shirt.
>> Yeah. He bought this. He bought a bubble gum. The little boy bought a bubble gum and he bought this candy.
>> Perfect.
>> Thank you. How many of those were bought? Do you know?
>> One.
>> One of those was bought and then a bubble gum.
>> And then there was some little some other little kids with them, too.
>> No.
>> Okay. So, it was just that one.
>> Perfect. Thank you, sir.
>> All right. So, he said that they bought one of the bubble things and bubble gum.
So, I just asked.
>> So, I'm just going to double check and make sure his camera doesn't show something different and then we're going to move forward with here and we'll get everybody out of here.
>> You're going to apologize.
>> Well, I can't make him apologize to you.
>> Another day. Trust me.
>> The the nerve of some people, man. It just gets on my nerves. You know what I'm saying? Like somebody like they want to be dealing with your mess and Oh, we want an apology. You want an apology so bad that you're willing to be so damn disruptive.
It ain't that. It ain't. Look, leave.
That's what I would do.
>> The neighbor over here.
>> I leave. Sold him candy.
>> Come out of here.
>> Yeah.
>> No, that's fine. That that by that doesn't matter to me.
>> Okay.
>> I had the candy that to so many. They're playing with that and try to walk with some candy of that too and I stop it.
Okay. Please mine all put it back.
>> Okay.
>> Other whatever is your ticket. You buy two candy, take the two candy. Why I'm telling that that's the happened.
>> Okay.
>> After that the reason for not the candy because one lady she was my neighbor that next time on that that plaza >> she tried to hide with my wife on kids.
One night I called for them and I leave this place because I can leave this environment the last year. She doesn't come by a store like openly like >> she came in today >> with this making a crowded that's the >> that's nothing wrong with the candy because it's very simple. If he doesn't take it that's fine. And I just tell them, okay, this is your go ahead. It's fine.
>> That's why I say that took mine as a bed.
>> Got you.
>> That is the point.
>> Okay. So, you just want them to leave.
That's it.
>> No, I want to trespass too. I need a paper to all of that.
>> All of the from the counter and >> they threw it all there. Okay.
>> You want them trespassed. The adults trespassed the two women or the three women and that's it.
>> He just wants >> He wants He's like, "Man, I want them ninjas. I want all them ninjas, the grown ones and the little ones. telling them all trespass. It sounds like him and his wife in the past had an altercation with one of these ladies before. Let me tell you something. They they can sit up here and they can say whatever they want. They're not innocent in this. They are not innocent in this.
I guarantee it 1,000%.
>> Trespasses.
>> We just apology. We apologize.
>> I don't come over here. So, we going to trespass cuz he accused us of stealing >> and we didn't even steal. It's the disturbance and the candy and all that.
>> WE WAS LISTEN.
>> Are you going to give me your names for a trespass warning? Okay. Then you need to leave the property now.
>> Candy. We went over there.
>> He wants you trespassed. Are you going to give me your name for the trespass warning or No. Then if you don't vacate the property, you're going to go to jail.
>> It's supposed to serve and protect.
Right.
>> If you don't leave the property, I appreciate your opinion. You're about to go to jail. Badal.
>> You need to walk. That's fine. I'll be a bad corporal.
>> All right. I'll suck today.
>> I suck.
>> All right. See you later.
>> Just leave. Don't nobody want to hear all that. Don't nobody want to hear you get the last word and insult people.
They don't care. You the one that's sitting up here mad because some candy or whatever and your kids stealing or not stealing, but you want an apology.
You not going to get it. And you have to act like this. For the police to be called for some ridiculous stuff like this, I would have been left. I'd have been gone. Like, look, man. We out of here. The guy just wanted you to leave.
And you want to sit up here talking about I I need an apology. Ain't nobody going to apologize to y'all cuz y'all don't ever apologize to no one. I'm telling you. I'm telling you, man. I'm telling you. Y'all know people like this.
She never got apologize.
>> That's it.
>> Now she's under arrest.
>> Now she's under arrest.
>> What' she do?
>> Huh?
>> Yeah. She was trespassed off the property.
>> What did she do?
>> She was leaving.
>> Stop. Come here.
>> Oh, they clear water. You're underrest.
Leave me alone. I'M [Β __Β ] YOU. WHY YOU ARRESTING ME? WHY IS HE ARRESTING ME?
>> Trespass after warning.
>> I only got your INFORMATION. I DIDN'T TRESPASS.
>> You were told to stay off the property.
You came back onto the property.
>> I'm not 25. I'm not being pregnant. Why she chill chill chill chill her baby about to get taken to jail too bonnet me I don't know her she's PREGNANT >> you were told to TRESPASS AFTER WARNING ON THE PROPERTY RIGHT you're going to get more charges is >> stop.
>> Stop.
>> Stop. Come on.
>> That's fine.
>> You're going to catch all these new charges.
>> Have a seat.
>> You suck.
>> Have a seat.
>> That's fine.
>> That's woman. Sit down.
>> You suck.
>> You can do it here.
>> You can take my purse off my arm.
132.
>> Got to be loud.
>> She didn't She didn't EVEN GET ON THE PROPERTY. SHE WENT SHE WENT BACK ON the property.
>> She did not. SHE STOOD ON THE ROAD AND TOOK A PICTURE OF YOUR TAG.
>> IT'S ON BODY CAMERA.
>> Talking about North Korea.
>> North Korean.
>> That's right.
>> Yep. All right.
>> All right. Here's the deal.
>> Did we get his info?
>> I got it. All right, we're out of here.
>> Now the kid is crying.
>> The woman was charged with trespassing and resisting arrest.
>> You see this, man? Look at this picture, man. This picture right here is the quintessential black people displaying a superpower and you have the white cop displaying black fatigue. Man, take a look at the cops, man. They got fatigue like, oh lord, this again. Damn. Two, three nights in a row we got to deal with this BS. These ladies over here, they mad. Typical.
just typical mad and and want to want to be unruly, want to be performative, want to be angry, looking for any excuse to sit up here and act this way. Any excuse to act like you have no home training, no common sense, man. And you were forced to capitulate. You should have just left. Now you got to go to jail.
Look at the kids over here watching.
They watching everything. This dude over here, he going to be next. He going to be next. He going to act ridiculous like this and he's going to do it at a much younger age in school. And then y'all going to sit up here and think that the teachers are racist. Oh, the school is race racist and the teacher is racist and if it's a black teacher, the black teacher is an Uncle Tom trying to cater to the white person. No, nobody wants disrespectful behavior. Nobody wants this this this stupid ghetto mentality, this nword behavior. People are done with it. They done with it, man. And you know what?
There's plenty of black people that's done with it too, man. They done. They don't want to do it, man. This right here, man. We getting tired of defending it. I stop I stopped defending it long ago, man. [Β __Β ] I probably was 19, 20 years old when I stopped defending it, man. I just started like, damn, man.
Y'all just some dumbass and words, man.
Some dumb ninjas, man. And you live in it. You just love it. You love doing it.
And you love telling the tale. You'll sit up here and embellish. Oh, man. I told the officers this and I did that and then they arrested me for nothing.
No man, you just running your mouth. You should have left a long time ago looking for a looking for a an uh an apology that you yourself would never give.
Hypocrites, man. Oh, can't y'all tell I got black fatigue, man? I got it, man. I got it, man. Let me know in the comments what y'all think, man. Let me know. Did these um did these wonderful ladies have the right to be indignant? And did the officers have a dose of black fatigue?
Or were they just overwhelmed with black fatigue, man? They were just immersed in it, man. They could they was drowning in black fatigue, man. I think they was drowning in black fatigue, man.
I bet they see it all the time. like, damn, I don't want to go to this call. I don't want to go to this call, man.
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