Black Women SHAME Black Men Into Dating Them… It Doesn’t Work

[00:00:00]Hey. Hey. Call me shape. And today I'm reacting to a video titled black women saying black men into dating them. But it doesn't work. Let's get right into it.

[00:00:12]>> I'm walking. I look into a restaurant.

[00:00:15]Black man on a date with a white woman.

[00:00:16]I look ahead of me. Black man walking hand in hand with a white woman. And I was like, "What the hell is going on?" I mean, this goes on all the time, but I was like, "What the hell is going on?"

[00:00:25]And then I remembered we're in Williamsburg.

[00:00:29]Williamsburg together. Ready? One, two. Williamsburg.

[00:00:41]>> I think that black mirror should be with black women. I don't see why you wouldn't want to be.

[00:00:44]>> Hey, what's your opinion?

[00:00:46]>> Black men belong with black women.

[00:00:48]>> What's your power opinion?

[00:00:49]>> All of the men who are snow bunnies, they have mommy issues.

[00:00:52]>> Why say that?

[00:00:53]>> Because like, why are half the men here snow bunnies? Like, go back to your roots. Your mom's black. Your sister's black. Like, >> your mother is a black woman. So, for you not to like black women, there's something wrong right there. You were surrounded by black women. Your aunties, your mommies. SHUT >> THE [ __ ] UP IN 2020.

[00:01:09]>> YOU'RE SHOWING me how unserious you are.

[00:01:16]>> You have to think about why is it that black men don't want to date black women? Why is it that black women are masculine? Is because they never had a masculine figure in their life. And why do they not have masculine figures in their life? Is because most black families are raised by single mothers.

[00:01:34]>> It's a evil world we live in.

[00:01:36]>> Yo, why the [ __ ] somebody just try to had a nerve to tell me I'm brainwashed for [ __ ] with a a white girl?

[00:01:45]So then I proceed to ask like how am I how am I brainwashed? Like she goes, "Oh, the way you acted with her."

[00:01:54]What?

[00:01:56]The way I acted. I would have acted like that if the [ __ ] was red, orange, blue, or green.

[00:02:01]Why the [ __ ] What the [ __ ] What type of Yo, some people are like, "Y'all got to do better, bro. Y'all can't say one race of people is racist and prejudice as [ __ ] and then turn around and and do funny shit."

[00:02:14]that. And that's the irony of it all is a lot of people in the black community, and you know, I hate to say it this way.

[00:02:22]We pull the race card, right? Oh, it's racism. It's racism. But when you see a black man making sure that he's not racist by dating a snow bunny, you're mad. You're mad. He sees pl he sees past color. He sees past it. He sees the color. He knows she's white. He likes her and he understands that you know what, no matter what happened in the past, we don't got to participate in that. And black women, y'all try to shame us out of that. Now, I get it.

[00:02:52]Some black men are shaming black women.

[00:02:54]I want to say some for dating white men.

[00:02:57]But it's the minority. It's the black losers. I'm talking about I want to see some black men who are winners shaming black women for dating white men. We're not doing that. You feel me? Nick and Alandrea, I'm cool with it. You know why? cuz Nick is not racist. I'm cool with it. I don't like racist men dating black women of any race. But if you love our people, you welcome to the cookout.

[00:03:22]You feel me? And I think black women need to trade shame with persuasion.

[00:03:28]Don't shame black men into dating black women. Persuade black men into dating black women. It's a lot more effective.

[00:03:38]Listen, dating is business and a businessman can't shame his potential customers into buying his product. He needs to persuade the potential customers into buying the product. You feel me? It's really simple. It's quite simple. And so, I think we need to teach black women sales. Yeah. Because they're horrible at it. Hey, hey, listen up, Shape Squad. Are you tired of being ignored by women? Well, download my free ebook, Be Attractive, and Shut Up. It's going to teach you how to master attraction, build unshakable confidence, and win with women without words. Cuz chances are you're not ugly. You just talk too damn much. So download my free ebook, Be Attractive, and shut up and take control of your dating life right now. Now, let's get right back to the content.

[00:04:24]>> That [ __ ] is weird, bro. Y got y got you feel me? They got they got to do better, bro.

[00:04:31]>> Exactly. Baby, don't nobody hate on a black woman more than a black man is ridiculous.

[00:04:37]Why y'all can't give us the same respect y'all get a white woman?

[00:04:40]>> Oh, let me guess. Cuz she's class. She have class. She have this.

[00:04:45]I ain't even going to say what I want to say.

[00:04:48]>> WHAT THE HELL IS EVEN THAT?

[00:04:50]>> Take it down. Take it down. Take it down. We need it going.

[00:04:55]>> So, this is becoming the norm now. It's just bashing black men online. And if they're dating outside their race, it's even worse because a black man can know everything in the world. The moment he starts dealing with a woman from a different race, he doesn't know nothing.

[00:05:11]He hates his mama. He's DL. There's a lot of shame, insults going [music] around now. Black women are trying to say, "Black men belong WITH BLACK WOMEN. WHY do they belong together? And why can you not date who you want to date?"

[00:05:27]And we see black women getting praised when they decide to date outside of their race. But the other way around, black men are becoming the villain and they're getting shamed. And it's crazy.

[00:05:40]>> Exactly. Bro, I remember >> I want to say this, too. For all you black women making the argument that black men should date black women cuz their mama's black, let me tell you something. My mom's biracial, okay? So, she's just as much black as she's not black. Okay. So, I'm Venezuelan and Triny on my mom's side, black Triny.

[00:06:03]So, she's half black, half Spanish.

[00:06:06]And she told me not to date women with nappy hair. And I ain't listen to her, yo. I I like I prefer black women. But my mom told me specifically, "Date a woman with nice hair." That's cold language for what? Don't date black women. I'm just keeping it stack with you. Okay.

[00:06:23]Even though my mom like black men, I'm it is what it is.

[00:06:27]>> Before when men used to just be like, "Girl, I'm not about to argue with this little dumb bitch." Uhhuh. Whatever the case may be. Cool. You're not trying to argue with me, right? No. These [ __ ] nowadays, bro, no. They want they they want to be louder than you. These [ __ ] going to be like, "Oh, but you but you keep saying this, that, and the if you take more dick than me, just say that." Oh, killing me with this.

[00:06:54]>> You got to take >> Ain't nobody take more dick than a chick with a septum ring. Yo, best believe that. The septum ring is a scarlet letter for saying that you be taking dick.

[00:07:05]>> Meds, people, you got to [music] [music] [music] >> [music] [music] [music] [music] >> Oh yeah, I got to say that too. Jesus.

[00:07:54]Yeah, this is double standard. [snorts] When a black woman dates a white man, it is celebrated. In fact, often times you hear the narrative, oh, you know what?

[00:08:03]Just stop dating black men. So, black women, the same ones that are mad that we're not dating them, go on these campaigns where they're telling black women, don't date black men. That's why you can't follow what a lot of these women say. It's illogical. It makes no sense. They hate God. They're trying to rebel against him.

[00:08:23]So, me personally, I'm not going to follow suit with what a woman saying because by nature, you are blasphemous.

[00:08:31]Okay? By nature. And so, you know, I can't take what you say seriously when it's convenient. You pull the race card out when it's convenient. Okay. And you don't mind dating Brad?

[00:08:45]Would you mad at me when I date Becky?

[00:08:47]Nah. Nah. Like I don't date white women often, but I would if I met a white woman who was who we rocking and we here we here with it. We go. I'm doing it.

[00:08:57]You know what I'm saying? And I've been with white girls before. I'm going keep it aside. I just prefer black women because I like how chocolate looks in my bed. But I'm cool for vanilla, too.

[00:09:06]Vanilla works. Caramel. Vanilla. You know what I'm saying? [ __ ] It all melts.

[00:09:14]>> [music] [music] >> WHAT THE [ __ ] Y'ALL? GOD [screaming] DAMN. GOD DAMN.

[00:09:30]GOD DAMN.

[00:09:32]>> WHY?

[00:09:34]I don't know what woman needs to hear this, but to think that men are intimidated by you or intimidated by your success is completely delusional.

[00:09:43]And I really want to put this in a perspective that I think will resonate with the ladies a little bit better. The first thing is I don't think that intimidation is the right word to use. I think that it's another word that's been hijacked just like the word narcissist has been hijacked by women. And I want you to imagine something, right? Imagine you were on a date with a guy and all he did was talk about the money that he makes or the car that he drives or the success that he has, right? And all he does is like talk about himself and that's what he like bases his personality around, right? Like that [ __ ] is annoying, right? One of the things that I've experienced when talking to like boss babe type of women is this is the energy that they give off a lot of the time. And it's not that it's intimidating, it's just that like it's annoying and not fun to be around.

[00:10:27]And it's like, I'm not trying to be in competition with you. If anything, we're supposed to be on the same team. Y'all make it into a competition. And then that's where the [ __ ] gets annoying. And it's like, we don't want to deal with all that.

[00:10:38]>> Exact.

[00:10:39]>> It's not. See, and he he he he pointed out one thing. He said that, you know, they can be annoying. All they do is talk about their wealth and success. The other thing is the frame.

[00:10:51]Successful women want you to live in their frame. They want you to fit into their life. Baby girl, I'm not trying to fit into nobody's life. If you're successful, you make $90,000 a year, $100,000 a year, and you expect me to conform to your life, you're bugging.

[00:11:06]Cuz first off, most of the time, if I'm on a date with a girl, she's only talking to me because she feels like I'm doing better than her anyway. So, if I'm doing better than you, and you're making good money, too, that don't mean that you get to run the show now. You get to wear the pants now. Hell no. In fact, I be meeting girls who make 70K and feel like they can run the show. Look, I don't even care if you make more than me. I've dated doctors. I don't care if you make more than me. I'm not fitting into your frame. Cuz money don't make you a man. Money don't make you built like me. I'm sorry. You can't You can't You can't give a woman $100,000 and now she's a fireman. You're still No, you're still a firewoman. No. You feel me?

[00:11:46]Money don't make you build the buildings, run the infrastructure. No, you don't just automatically become a man when you got bread. But a lot of women feel like they are because they objectify men for money so much they think when they got money they're equal to men. You're not. You're not. At best, you are a well- paid weak man. You feel me? You're a well- paid man that's 3 foot2, you feel me? And scrawny. That's the equivalent you could be if you were a man that's like 9 years old. That's what you' be equivalent to. You not No, you not us because you got that bread.

[00:12:21]>> Actually, >> this [ __ ] don't miss.

[00:12:24]>> No, he's [ __ ] good.

[00:12:25]>> That [ __ ] don't miss, man.

[00:12:27]>> He's good.

[00:12:28]>> My memo as a black woman is that whether I speak or I don't speak, I'm going to be viewed as an angry black woman. And so, you know what? I'm going to speak.

[00:12:36]Yeah. If I'm going to be viewed as angry regardless, I might as be angry and truthful. So, yeah.

[00:12:43]>> Cut the show. I'm done.

[00:12:45]>> This picture is going viral. that says a black woman's biggest nightmare. Now, I can tell you for a fact that that's not this is not a black woman's worst nightmare. A black woman's worst nightmare, based on my experience, this is just my experience. A black woman's worst nightmare is dating a dude with a job. [laughter] Dating a guy that doesn't spend his life going in and out of prison, that that's what black women fear. A man that buys them flowers, that's what they're terrified of. a guy that doesn't disrespect them on a daily basis and call them the B- word, the C word, and every other word in the dictionary. This this right here, this this white girl right here, this is nowhere near a black woman's worst nightmare. What's closer to a black woman's nightmare is like having an attitude and nobody's paying attention to her. Like, because I think they just be like pretending to have an attitude just for attention. So, like one of their nightmares got to be like having the biggest throwing the biggest fit, having an attitude and nobody's paying attention to him.

[00:13:47][screaming] Guys, you got to you got that that chubby boy who's kicking game. Like, one of the most powerful things you could do to a woman is just ignore her, bro. And men, we don't exercise enough. One of the weakest things you could do is content with her. It's weak.

[00:14:06]Why argue with her? my therapist friend because I don't have a therapist. He's my friend and we talk about these type of things. Shout out to my boy Jeff St. James who's apparently about to hit 100K in a matter of days. He's at like 93,000. So, shout out to my brother Jeff St. James. But he was telling me when a woman says something that you know is demonstrably false, why argue? Let's let her be wrong.

[00:14:31]It ain't worth the energy trying to convince her she's wrong. Right? We we we're so fair to women and we're unfair to ourselves. When we when we grant their argument credence when we give their argument, you know what I'm saying, credibility, it makes us look dumb and it gives them more time to argue with us and we never get anywhere. When you say something to a woman and she disagrees with you, let her disagree. And if she's going to keep saying nonsense, ignore her. That's how you punish women. You punish bad behavior by not ignoring it by I'm saying cond condoning it, but ignoring it meaning like you just don't engage with her. You say something stupid. All right. Okay.

[00:15:17]All right. It's like someone trying to convince me that I'm not black. All right. I'm not black.

[00:15:22]You feel me? Oh, I don't have a YouTube channel. Okay. All right. I'm not an influencer. All right.

[00:15:29]knowing that everything I have around me is paid by courtesy of YouTube. Thank you. You feel me? And my hard work, you feel me? The partnership that we have.

[00:15:37]So again, when someone says something that you know is not true, you don't got to take it on because the challenge is for them to see the truth. You already see it >> because dating.

[00:15:50]>> Men have been taught their entire life to treat a woman, but not what to expect from a woman. But women were taught their entire life what to expect from a man and not how to treat a man.

[00:16:04][applause] >> We must stay focused, [music] brothers.

[00:16:08]We must stay focused.

[00:16:10]>> All right. So, dear black men, right?

[00:16:12]This is not for all of you guys, of course. This is for some of you guys. I really need you guys to start protecting and sticking up for black women when we are disrespected in places where you guys are at, right? And I'm sure that y'all didn't heard videos on this about how black women get, you know, disrespected in a club scene or, you know, in Hollywood or whatever the case is. And sometimes some of y'all participate in that. Some of you black men participate in the disrespect towards black women. When you ask us to get down so that the white woman can sit up, when you ask us to get, you know, uh, get up so the Asian woman can sit up. It's it's it's disrespectful. And and sometimes I feel like you guys forget that you have black daughters or that you are going to have a black daughter. Whether or not she's mixed or not, it doesn't matter. She's still going to be a black woman. So it it it really >> the shame is not going to work, baby.

[00:17:02]You you keep trying to do this [ __ ] Don't you realize, oh, you got black daughter. You're going to What the hell have to do with anything? That has that does not make your argument. I'm sorry.

[00:17:12]It's not going to work on us. You can't rage raid us. You can't guilt us into wanting black women. It's not going to work. Why would you want Why would you want someone to date you out of guilt anyway?

[00:17:26]Do you want me to pity you and feel Oh, you can't get no [ __ ] You feel me?

[00:17:32]What that Asian lady say in that that movie?

[00:17:35]Uh, brother on my arm. No brother on your arm. [laughter] You feel me? That's what it's going to end up being. Cuz these other women out here, they know how to persuade a man to be with them. You don't have to shame men into dating you. You can just persuade them. It's rather simple.

[00:17:53]Anyway, like the video, subscribe to the channel, channel blowing up. I appreciate you guys. Check out some of my other videos, and hype this video, my brother. Get hyped. I'm back and I'm wide awake. I'm not falling asleep this time. And I'll see y'all over there.