Men Just Waste People's Time

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[00:00:00]Okay, so I might hurt some people's feelings, specifically black men.

[00:00:02]Actually, I'm at this point I'm trying to hurt your feelings because um I am convinced that black men get on dating apps to waste people's time. I was getting on there today and you know, over my time, my years of swiping, but today I was getting on there to delete my account. And I decided to swipe a little bit more just to see what was on there. You know what I mean? And the amount of black men that I have come across on these dating apps that where it asks them what they're looking for and they specifically state open to see where it goes like this. Let me show you an example. Marcus 45 years old. Open to see where it's going. I can tell you where the it's going. It's going to hell. I just don't understand why black men do not have direction.

[00:00:41]>> Not just black men. Men in general don't want relationships because we don't see no benefit in it.

[00:00:49]That's it. It's simple as that. It used to be once upon a time, guys, to where if you didn't have a girl, man, you felt lonely and lost because a woman So guys, when I was coming up, a having a girlfriend saved you money. I know that sound crazy as hell because now we got this saying, uh, women save money in relationships, men save money being single. But it used to be the other way around. Men used to save money. Or at least I did. So when I would be single, guys, well, now I'm going out every night. I'm I'm going here. I'm going there because now I'm trying to get laid and stuff like this. So I'm going to this club, that club, that lounge, right? Spending money. I would get in a relationship.

[00:01:39]This was at a time when women were reasonable, right? Weren't crazy.

[00:01:44]weren't expecting all this crazy stuff they expected now, right? Uh me and my girl at the time, the most we would go to guys was like this little barbecue joint that was next door to our apartment complex. And the bill would be like I know this a long time ago, but I still remember the bill would be like $38, right? And it would just be some ribs. I would get some like some ribs and some macaroni and cheese and she would get like some fish and and some French fries, some something like that, right? you know, one of those type of spots. And the bill would be like $38 plus tip. Now, I understand that this long time ago, but the point being was one known, well, let's go to um the thing at that time was Bone Fishing Grill, right? That was the thing like you was showing a girl a real nice time if you took her to Bone Fishing Grill.

[00:02:33]We ain't go there. We went to Bone Fishing Grill like on anniversaries or Valentine Day or something like that, but other than that, we would just go to this little rib joint right next to us or go to the movies or something like that. Never spent over $40.