Women face significant challenges in the dating market as they age, experiencing societal double standards where they are shamed for aging while men are not, and many women report that men are emotionally immature and unwilling to commit, leading some to choose singlehood; this reflects broader societal issues where women's value is often tied to youth and appearance, while men's worth is built through other means.
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All right, gentlemen. All right, kings.
Welcome back. So, from the good people over at Cosmic Verse, we'll be taking a look over some women who are starting to age out of the dating market and are feeling like leftover women.
And if you're eating, I apologize as what you're about to see on screen.
>> I moved here from Ohio. I've only been in LA for like 7 months.
I've been dating and I just have a question. Why are all the guys here so fake? Like >> [laughter] >> That's Oh my She's got to be rage baiting us, right? She's got to be trolling us, right?
Uh >> Like every guy I go out with, I'm like, I just want a real man. Like I just want an honest, tall, real king.
Cuz >> Oh, like I just want an honest, tall, real king. This is what happens when some chick who was hot property in her late teens, early 20s, kept monkey branching, I want the hotter, taller, bigger, better deal. And she hit probably 35 and she's reaching for that next branch and woof, tumbled down and now she's got I It's impossible to tell what her age is. She might be in her late 40s, early 50s, who knows with all the plastic and filters and airbrushed and dobbly [ __ ] to make her all the Hollywood magic to make her look like a human being.
>> Can somebody please explain to me why society shames women aging but not men?
This actually keeps me up at night and I would really love to hear some of your views because this double standard is it's really, really f- >> Because us guys, unless we are Brad Pitt, George Clooney, born 6' 4" with abs, we have to build our worth. You ladies, you're basically born with your worth. And as you get older and you squander your worth, you squander your power on the guys who don't give a rat's ass about you, that's why you get shamed.
>> What is wrong with boys these days? Like none of them have their license and can drive. Like sue me if I want to be treated like a princess and get picked up in an actual car and vehicle to go on a date. I know about like 10 guys who just don't care about getting their license. Like do they even want to get a girlfriend? Like the hottest Oh my god, like >> Jesus Christ.
>> thing about my boyfriend when I started dating him is that he had his own car.
Genuinely part of me was attracted to him because of his car.
>> Um I got a question. Maybe Tik Tok, maybe you got some advice. Help me out there.
>> Is she going to ask for a dentist, an oral surgeon?
>> Um where are the actual men at? Like there's a lot of boys playing dress-up pretending to be men. You know, they they talk the talk and they're really good at both talking, good at that. Um but when push comes to shove, they run Teletubby between their legs. They're not actually men. And most of the time that's why us women choose to stay single cuz I've been single >> Yeah, yes, yes, yes, that's right. Yes.
That's why you you are choosing to be single, right?
>> single for a while. And I got four kids and I'm I'm not trying to raise somebody else's son because he ready to be a man yet.
>> Well, that's why guys aren't dating you because they're not ready to raise another man's splooge.
>> Like I'm 41 years old. I ain't got time to play games like that. And a lot of the men who wants to be with me, they're not they're not men. They're boys. I'm sorry. The boys that want to be with me who pretend like they're men. Um so where are the actual men at? Because I promise you I am definitely every bit of enough female. Um so if [laughter] you want to be with me, you have to be firm in your masculinity because I will intimidate you. I am very independent and I don't ask for help very often.
>> I'm not telling you don't date in DC.
I was just relaying the information to y'all. Y'all do what you want. Honestly, dating I feel like people don't care to date, men and women. I don't even know if the city matters at this point. Enjoy your time. Live your life.
>> Women are going to expire once they hit 30? Who is expiring? Who?
>> Your eggs. Mother nature has said, "Stop squandering your best years on guys who don't give a crap about you." And you say, "Whatever, Mother Nature. I know better than you." And then you hit 35 going, "Where have all the good men gone?"
>> Who's going to expire? 40? I'm not I'm still not going to expire. Who's expiring? Like who What is men talking about? Not me. I'm going to be sexy forever. I'm literally going to be sexy forever.
>> I'm sorry. I just have something I have to get off my chest.
Women do not expire at 40. Who the [ __ ] made that rule? What obvious man made that rule to decide that we are somehow no longer valuable when we hit 40 or desirable?
Is that true? Cuz, you know, it is to the morons. It is >> You know what? I'll say this.
All right, you know, if she's 40 or whatever, 41, 42, she looks pretty well put together. But in my my theory is ladies, when you're in your 20s, you are good for fun, dating, and marriage. When you hit 30s, you're good for fun and dating. When you hit your When you hit your 40s, you're good for fun.
And then 50s, well, no one wants to eat expired food.
>> It's to the morons. That is true. The douche bags? That's actually the quintessential thing to look for. If a man thinks a woman has an expiration date, he is a douche. He will douche you over in the future. Do not waste your time because he is a fickle prick, okay? A fickle prick. He will look at you one day and be like, "Ew."
Because you're not [ __ ] 20 years old.
Like, don't give your life to a man like that. Don't. The hottest thing a man can do is make a girl feel like he doesn't need her, but he wants her.
And like, he's okay with [ __ ] not working out between them because he just has a lot of options. Like, we're good, baby. Like, it's great meeting you, but like, if it doesn't work out, whatever.
>> [laughter] >> I just feel like that's just such a hotter energy to be giving off. You have such an abundant mindset. You have other options. I'm not your only source of female energy. Like, that's that's attractive.
>> So, whenever I travel, I go and I swipe on the apps just for shits and giggles, you know?
And I get so many matches with when I'm in Europe. Like, it's it's kind of upsetting because I'm in America and I don't get that many matches in America.
But, when I'm in Europe, I'm a hot tamale. Like, come on.
>> Well, the the European women must be fugly.
>> I have never wanted a man more than I do right now. I just came to Trader Joe's to do some last-minute shopping. Super packed. I parked kind of around the corner, so a little far. Um, yeah. If I had a man, I would just pick out the stuff and have them carry the rest. No, okay? I'm walking around with two big old bags of poisonette and I'm tired.
Can Can I just have a man in this instance? Just for this particular reason, and then I'm out.
>> She really had to make a video because she had to carry her own groceries to her car.
And that warranted her making a video.
Are you effing kidding me?
>> Women are no longer on dating websites.
You know where they are? Bumble BFF.
Usually every day I have maybe two or three new ones. The day after the election, I had 15 new. I've been on that app for 4 months now, and I've never seen more women looking for community than I do right now. Women are done with y'all.
>> Someone get their grandma off these dating apps.
>> This is a PSA for all my 20-something girly pops out there dating men 10 years older than them. Yeah, he's dating you not because you're emotionally mature for your age. He's dating you because he's emotionally immature for his age, and no women his age want to date him.
Hope that helps.
>> What kind of ridiculous ass-backwards logic is that?
Because let's let's reverse the gender roles. And a woman's dating a guy 10 years younger than she is. Is she emotionally immature? Or she's just Oh, no, she's just a stunning and brave queen, and these men can't measure up.
Get the hell out of here. He wants to date a girl who's 10 years younger than he is cuz, you know, maybe he has a extra some extra pocket change to rub together. Maybe he wants his little trophy girlfriend, little hot little slam piece.
>> Did you know that single women over the age of 27 in China are often referred to as leftover women? And this is because the country puts a heavy emphasis on starting a family very early. But many modern women in China simply don't see it this way, and some even consider this a national security threat.
>> I got to say I didn't expect a video reply about somebody telling me that I should have just stayed married to turn into as much as it has today.
Wow.
When men stop being a problem, women will stop blaming them.
>> Men will chase you even when they don't want you, even when they don't like you, even when they don't see a future with you or a relationship. Men will chase you just for the purpose of the chase.
Men will chase you for the challenge and as soon as they feel like they got you, that's when they switch up. I had this conversation with my ex one time um about how men will actually go after a woman that they don't like, that they like actually dislike in order to like conquer her. That they get satisfaction in knowing that they got you to like them enough to sleep with them and give them the time of day.
>> That is That is true cuz you'll see hear some stories like, "Oh man, I was texting this guy on our dating app and we had a date planned and then the day of the date, he totally ghosts me." You know, cuz sometimes it's like, "You know what? Let's see if I still got it. Let's see if if I still got the mojo." And then it's like, "I got you." It's like, "Ah, I lost interest. I'm good." Anyways, guys, I figure I'll leave it there. As always, take care and take it easy.
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