Jewish Millionaires and the Amish Do the SAME 3 Things With Money (Nobody Else Does)

[00:00:00]Shalom, my dear friend, and welcome.

[00:00:02]I want to begin today with something that will sound impossible when I first say it, and then become obvious before we are finished. Two peoples who could not be more different from one another, two worlds that have almost nothing in common, do the exact same three things with their money.

[00:00:20]And almost no one else on this earth does all three. I am speaking of the Jewish families I have watched grow wealthy over many generations. And I am speaking of the plain Amish, the people in the black hats who farm without electricity and ride in horse-drawn buggies. On the surface, you would say these two have nothing to teach each other. One studies the Talmud in the city, the other plows the soil far from any town. And yet, when I sat down many years ago and traced where their money actually comes from and where it stays, I found the same three habits in both.

[00:00:58]The same three.

[00:01:00]Not similar. The same. My name is Rabbi Moshe, and I have spent more than 30 years studying not only the sacred texts, but the quiet behavior of families who keep their wealth while everyone around them loses it. I did not learn this in a university. I learned it at my grandfather's table and in the homes of people who would never call themselves rich, yet who never once feared the end of the month. Today, I am going to give you those three things, one by one, slowly and completely. I will show you the Jewish form of each, the Amish form of each, and the single principle underneath both, the principle that you can carry into your own life starting tomorrow morning. The third one is the deepest. The third one is the secret that outlasts the person who first practices it. So, stay with me to the end, because the third thing is where ordinary wealth becomes a name that survives for a hundred years. Let me tell you how I first noticed this, because I did not set out to find it.

[00:02:00]For most of my life, I assumed that what my own people did with money was simply ours, a thing born from our texts and our history, and nothing else. My grandfather, may his memory be a blessing, ran a small dry goods business, and he was not a wealthy man by the measure of the world, yet no debt ever touched him, and no bank ever held a chain around his neck. Every Friday before Shabbat, he would sit with a worn ledger and a pencil, and he would go through the week. What came in, what went out, what was owed, though he hated to be owed anything at all. He used to tell me, in the old language, that a man who borrows at interest is a man who works for someone he will never meet.

[00:02:46]I did not understand it then. I was a boy. I wanted the bicycle the other boys had. He told me we would save for it, and we did, and somehow it felt like mine in a way the borrowed ones never felt like theirs.

[00:03:01]Years later, long after he was gone, I found myself driving through farm country in Pennsylvania, and I stopped near a stretch of land worked by an Amish family. I watched them for the better part of an afternoon, not as a tourist, but as a man who could not stop thinking. There was an old grandfather, a father, and two young sons, all working the same field, all unhurried, all certain, and so >> I need to stop here for a moment.

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[00:04:00]>> Something in the way they moved reminded me of my grandfather at his ledger. I learned later that this family had no mortgage, no car payment, no credit card.

[00:04:09]When a young couple among them needed a barn or a house, the community simply built it, and the money for the land came from a fund the church itself kept, lent without a single cent of interest.

[00:04:20]I sat in my car and I felt the hair rise on my arms because I had heard that arrangement before. We have a name for it. We call it a gemach, a free loan fund, and it is older than this country by thousands of years. Two peoples who had never met, who shared no language and no scripture, had arrived at the very same machine for keeping money inside the family of their own.

[00:04:44]That afternoon is the reason for everything I am telling you today.

[00:04:49]Before I give you the three things in full, I want you to do one thing for me.

[00:04:55]I have spent years putting everything I have learned into a single body of work I call the ancient wealth code, and it lives in the description below this video.

[00:05:05]It is the full account of how families like the ones I describe actually build and hold what they have, the texts behind it and the practical steps under it. I am not asking you for anything today except this.

[00:05:19]If you have ever felt that money runs through your hands like water no matter how hard you work, go look at it after we are done. It costs you only a moment, and it may change the shape of your next 10 years.

[00:05:33]Now, let me show you what you have been doing instead because we cannot fix what we will not first name honestly.

[00:05:40]Here is the hard truth, and I say it with love because I have watched good and hard-working people live this way their whole lives without ever seeing it. You, my friend, almost certainly do the exact opposite of all three of these things, and you do it not because you are foolish, but because the world around you was built to make you do it.

[00:06:03]Consider the first habit, the refusal of interest. You were taught that debt is normal, that everyone has it, that a car payment and a credit card and a mortgage and a student loan are simply the furniture of an adult life. You pay interest every single month to people you will never meet, exactly as my grandfather warned, and that interest is not small.

[00:06:27]Over a lifetime, the average person hands a fortune to lenders, a sum large enough to have made them comfortable forever, in pieces so small that they never feel the wound.

[00:06:37]The bank does not need to rob you in one night. It only needs you to agree, a little at a time, for 40 years.

[00:06:46]Now consider the second habit, living far below your means.

[00:06:51]The world has trained you to do the reverse with a precision that would be impressive if it were not so cruel.

[00:06:58]Every raise you earn is met, within months, by a larger apartment, a newer car, a more expensive version of the life you already had.

[00:07:07]They call this lifestyle, and they sell it to you as success, and the result is that, no matter how much your income climbs, the distance between what you earn and what you spend never widens.

[00:07:20]A man who makes a modest wage and a man who makes 10 times that can both end the year with nothing saved because both expanded their spending to swallow whatever came in.

[00:07:30]You have been taught that to look wealthy is to be wealthy. The families I watched taught me the opposite.

[00:07:37]The ones who looked plain held the deepest reserves, and the ones who flashed their success were very often one bad month from ruin.

[00:07:46]And the third habit, thinking in generations, is the one the modern world has nearly destroyed in us. You were raised to think about this year.

[00:07:55]Maybe this decade, if you are careful.

[00:07:58]You think about your own retirement, your own comfort, your own finish line.

[00:08:03]But you were not taught to think about your grandchildren as real people whose lives you are building right now, today.

[00:08:10]The whole machine of modern spending depends on you living for yourself in the present.

[00:08:16]Save a little for your own old age, yes, but pass down a system, a trade, a piece of land, a disci- >> I have to pause here because thousands of you have already downloaded the Jewish Money Code Collection, and the messages I'm receiving are incredible.

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[00:08:52]Every day you wait is another day stuck in the same patterns.

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[00:09:01]That idea has been quietly removed from your mind, and you did not even notice it leaving.

[00:09:07]This is the truth beneath all three. The world profits when you borrow, when you spend, and when you think only of yourself. The two peoples I described simply refused all three, and that refusal is the whole of their wealth.

[00:09:22]I want to pause here and tell you plainly, the ancient wealth code I mentioned exists precisely because so few people are ever told these things in one place.

[00:09:32]Everything I am explaining to you, the texts, the customs, the actual mechanics of how a free loan fund works, and how a family keeps its standard of living flat while its assets grow. All of it is laid out in order in the description. I built it for the person who feels the truth of what I am saying, but does not yet know the first step.

[00:09:53]Let me tell you a short thing that happened in my own life.

[00:09:57]A man came to me once, a successful man by every visible measure, with a beautiful house and two new cars, and a watch that cost more than my grandfather earned in a year.

[00:10:09]He came to me quietly, ashamed, and he told me that if his income stopped for 2 months, he would lose everything.

[00:10:17]2 months.

[00:10:18]He had built a palace on sand.

[00:10:21]And down the road from where I had once watched that Amish family work, there lived people in plain houses who could have stopped working for 2 years and felt no fear.

[00:10:30]So, let me answer the question you may be asking. Why would two traditions so utterly unrelated arrive at the very same three laws? They never met. They never read the same books, with one quiet exception I will come to. The Amish do not study the Talmud, and my people do not live by the Ordnung, the rules of the plain communities. And yet here they are, holding the same three keys. The answer, my friend, is the deepest part of today's teaching, and I want you to hold it in your mind while we walk through the three. When something is true, truly true, about how money and human life actually work, more than one people will find it, because reality is the same teacher to all who pay attention. These two peoples both lived for centuries as outsiders, sometimes hunted, often distrusted, never able to fully rely on the institutions of the wider world. When the bank may turn against you, when the neighbors may turn against you, you learn very quickly to build a wealth that needs none of them.

[00:11:33]Pressure does not create wisdom out of nothing, but it does strip away everything false and leave only what works.

[00:11:41]Both peoples were placed under that same fire in different centuries and on different continents, and both emerged holding the same three tools.

[00:11:50]That is not coincidence. That is what truth looks like when two different hands find it.

[00:11:56]There is one shared root I will name because honesty requires it. The plain people read the scriptures of Israel as their own. When they refuse interest, they will often point to the same verse my own ancestors pointed to, the command in the book of Exodus that says, "If you lend money to my people, to the poor among you, you shall not be to them as a creditor, and you shall not charge them interest." So, in that one narrow place, the streams do touch at their source, but the daily practice, the funds, the discipline, the way of passing it all down, these they each built on their own without consulting one another. And that, to me, is the proof.

[00:12:36]Now, let us walk the three.

[00:12:39]The first thing both peoples do is refuse interest and lend to their own without it. Let me be precise because this has two halves and most people only ever hear of one. The first half is the refusal. Neither a serious Jewish family of the old discipline nor a faithful Amish family wants to live as a borrower paying interest to outsiders. In Hebrew, we call interest ribbit. And the prohibition against taking it from your own people runs through the heart of our law. The Amish achieve the same end through what is essentially a cash economy. They are famous for paying for land, buildings, and equipment in full without the bank in the room at all. The interest you and I pay to lenders, that river of money flowing out of our households every month, simply does not flow out of theirs. It stays. But here is the second half, the one that makes it powerful rather than merely frugal.

[00:13:35]They do not only refuse to borrow at interest from outsiders, they lend to their own, and they do it for free.

[00:13:42]Among my people, the gemach, the free loan fund, is one of the oldest institutions we have. A family needs money for a wedding, for a business, for a hard season, and they borrow from the fund and pay back exactly what they took, not a cent more. The Amish do the very same thing through their church and community funds. When a young man needs to buy the neighboring farm, the money comes from the community at no interest, and he pays it back as he can. Do you see the machine here? In the ordinary world, when you need money, you go to a bank. The bank takes its cut, and the wealth of your community drains away to shareholders who care nothing for you.

[00:14:21]In both of these worlds, the money circulates inside the family of their own people. The interest that would have bled out instead stays home, lending strength to the next family and the next in a circle that never breaks. How do you apply this when you are one person, not a community of thousands?

[00:14:42]You begin by becoming, in your own life, the bank you refuse to enrich. You attack interest-bearing debt as if it were a fire in your house, because it is. And where you can, you keep money moving among the people you trust, family helping family on honest terms, instead of sending every dollar of need out to the lenders. The second thing both peoples do is live far below their means, no matter how rich they become.

[00:15:11]This is the one that confuses the outside world the most, because the world assumes that the purpose of money is to be displayed.

[00:15:19]A wealthy Jewish family of the old way and a prosperous Amish family will both very often keep a plain life that gives away almost nothing about what they actually hold.

[00:15:31]I have sat in homes where the furniture was old, the meal was simple, the clothes were modest, and I knew because I knew the family that they could have bought half the street.

[00:15:42]The Amish have a beautiful word for the spirit behind this.

[00:15:47]They call it Gelassenheit, which means a humble submission, a letting go of the self, a refusal to set yourself above your neighbor through display. My own tradition reaches the same place through different words. In Pirkei Avot, the ethics of our fathers, we are asked, "Who is rich?" And the answer is not the one with the most. The answer is, "He who is happy with his portion."

[00:16:13]When you are truly content with your portion, the endless upgrading simply stops.

[00:16:20]The new car does not call to you. The bigger house does not whisper your name.

[00:16:26]And here is the part that turns this from a moral teaching into a financial law. The gap between what you bring in and what you spend, that gap is not a side effect of wealth. That gap is the wealth itself.

[00:16:40]A family earning a modest amount that spends far less will build real reserves over time.

[00:16:46]A family earning a fortune that spends nearly all of it will build nothing and will live in fear despite the fortune.

[00:16:55]The plain life is not poverty. It is the engine.

[00:16:59]To apply this, you do the hardest and simplest thing in all of personal finance.

[00:17:05]When more money comes in, you do not let your life grow to meet it. You hold your way of living steady, plain, content, and you let the difference pile up into something that can never be taken from you by a single bad season. Before I give you the third and deepest thing, I want to make sure you have what I built for you. The ancient wealth code in the description below is where I take everything we are discussing and turn it into an ordered path, the verses, the customs, and the concrete steps so that you are not left simply admiring these families from the outside.

[00:17:39]If anything I have said today has reached you, that is the natural next place to go.

[00:17:45]Now, the third thing, and I have saved it for last on purpose because it is the one that turns a comfortable life into a name that outlives you.

[00:17:54]The third thing both peoples do is think and build in generations.

[00:17:58]This is the master habit, the one that contains the other two because a person who refuses interest and lives below his means but thinks only of himself will leave behind a pile of money and nothing more.

[00:18:13]A pile of money is fragile. It is spent, divided, lost within a generation or two, and the family forgets how it was ever made.

[00:18:22]The two peoples I am describing do something far greater. They pass down not only the money, but the system that makes money.

[00:18:30]Among my people, there is the idea of nachala, the inheritance, and it was never meant to be only coins.

[00:18:38]It meant the trade, the knowledge, the relationships, the discipline, the way of seeing the world.

[00:18:45]The wisest line on this comes from the Book of Proverbs, where it is written that a good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children. Mark those words.

[00:18:56]Not to his children, to his children's children.

[00:19:00]He is told to think two generations ahead, to people he may never live to meet.

[00:19:06]The Amish do exactly this, and you can see it with your own eyes.

[00:19:11]They pass the farm down intact. They do not sell it off and split the cash. They keep the land whole and they pass it.

[00:19:20]And with the land they pass the skill to work it and with the skill the values that keep the family together. And with the values the discipline that keeps the wealth from leaking away.

[00:19:32]A young Amish man does not inherit a check. He inherits a working farm, the knowledge to run it, a community that will catch him if he stumbles and a way of life that will in turn be handed to his own children.

[00:19:45]That is wealth that compounds across centuries instead of dissolving in years.

[00:19:50]To apply this in your own life, you must make the great shift in your thinking from the finish line of your own retirement to the long relay of your family. You teach your children how money actually works, the very things I am teaching you now. You do not simply leave them money which they will not know how to keep. You leave them the ability to make and hold it which they can never lose. You build something, a skill, a small business, a piece of property, a set of principles written down that is designed to be handed forward, not consumed. When you think this way, your decisions change completely because you are no longer building for the length of one life. You are building for the length of a name.

[00:20:34]Now let me give you two or three warnings because I have seen these teachings misused. First, do not mistake plainness for stinginess. Both of these peoples are extraordinarily generous within their communities and beyond them.

[00:20:47]Living below your means is not about hoarding and refusing to help. It is about freeing yourself so that you have something real to give.

[00:20:56]A miser has simply found a new way to be a slave to money. Second, do not romanticize and do nothing.

[00:21:04]It is easy to admire these families, to feel warm for a moment, and then return to your borrowing and your spending unchanged. Admiration is not application.

[00:21:15]Pick one of the three things and begin it this week in some small concrete way, or this teaching will have been only entertainment. Third, do not wait until you are wealthy to begin. These habits are what create the wealth in the first place. The Amish family was not plain because it was rich. It became secure because it was plain. You begin with the habits now at whatever level you are at, and the result follows. The order matters. Do not reverse it. I want to draw back now and speak to the deeper thing beneath all of this because the three habits are the body, but there is a soul underneath them. The deepest teaching of today is the one I asked you to hold earlier. Truth converges.

[00:22:03]When two peoples as different as mine and the plain folk of Pennsylvania, separated by language, by faith, by continent, by every visible thing, arrive at the very same three laws of money, it is because they have both touched something real, something that does not bend to fashion or to century.

[00:22:24]The world will tell you a thousand clever new theories of wealth every year, and they change with the seasons, and most of them are designed to move money out of your pocket and into someone else's.

[00:22:36]But the things that two unrelated ancient peoples both discovered under pressure, and both kept for centuries, and both quietly grew rich by, those are not theories. Those are closer to laws of nature. I find a great peace in this.

[00:22:52]The path is not a secret known only to a clever few. It is open ground, found by anyone who lives long enough under the right pressures and pays honest attention. And let me tell you why this matters now, in this particular year, more than it has in a long time.

[00:23:08]We are living through a season of great economic pressure. The cost of everything has climbed.

[00:23:14]Debt has become the air people breathe, so ordinary that to question it makes you sound strange. Families work harder than their parents did and feel poorer doing it.

[00:23:24]In a time like this, the loudest voices will tell you to borrow more, to chase more, to keep up, to display. And in exactly such a time, the quiet wisdom of these two peoples becomes not a charming curiosity, but a lifeline. When the wider world is unstable, the wealth that lives inside the family, that owes nothing, that spends little, that is built to be handed down, is the only kind that holds. I have lived long enough to see hard seasons come and go, and the same families come through them every time. And they are always the ones holding these three things. So, let me gather it all together for you now, simply, the way my grandfather would have. There are three things that Jewish families of the old discipline and the plain Amish both do with money, and that almost no one else does all three of.

[00:24:13]The first, they refuse interest and lend to their own without it, so that the wealth that would bleed away to banks instead stays inside the family. The second, they live far below their means, no matter how rich they become. Because the gap between what comes in and what goes out is not the side effect of wealth, it is the wealth itself. And the third, the deepest, they think and build in generations, passing down not merely money, but the whole system that makes it, the trade, the land, the values, the discipline, so that what they build outlives them by a hundred years and more. Three things: refuse interest and keep capital home, live far below your means, build for your children's children. Hold those three and you hold the same code that two of the most enduring peoples on this earth have used to keep their wealth while the world around them lost its own. You are not too small for this and you are not too late. You do not need a community of thousands or a farm in Pennsylvania or a library of sacred texts.

[00:25:18]You need only to begin this week with one of the three honestly and concretely.

[00:25:24]Then add the next and then the last.

[00:25:28]The power here was never in being born into the right people.

[00:25:32]The power is in the three habits themselves and the habits are available to you tonight. But understand also the weight of it because to know this is to carry a responsibility. You are not only building for yourself now. The moment you take up these three things, you become the first link in a chain, the grandfather or grandmother that your own children's children will one day speak of with quiet gratitude. The one who finally stopped the bleeding and turned the family toward wealth that lasts.

[00:26:02]That is sacred work and it begins with you.

[00:26:06]If this has reached you, if you felt the truth of it in your chest as I spoke, then stay with me on this path and let me keep walking it beside you in the videos to come and tell me in your own words below which of the three is the hardest for you, the interest, the spending or the thinking in generations because I read what you write and your honesty helps me teach the next person more truly.

[00:26:32]May the work of your hands be blessed and may that blessing reach far past your own lifetime.

[00:26:38]May you find the contentment with your portion that is the beginning of all real wealth.

[00:26:44]May you owe nothing to anyone but love and may your reserves be deep and quiet and unafraid.

[00:26:52]May your children and your children's children know your name and honor your memory, and inherit not only what you leave them, but the wisdom of how you came to leave it. May your parnassa, your livelihood, increase, and may your wisdom increase alongside it, always a step ahead.

[00:27:12]Shalom.