TWO BRAIN CELLS, ONE PODCAST! | S19 EP1

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[00:00:00]But cuz you're the funny one to make you the boring one.

[00:00:02]>> Out of us two, I'm the boring one.

[00:00:04]>> I want to hear it.

[00:00:05]>> I get out of us two. Cuz I get compared to you.

[00:00:10]>> This podcast has been quite dark. Yeah, >> I'm quite >> Don't even make a joke like that. It's not [ __ ] funny.

[00:00:17]You started it with your premenopaus and you were like like is my life even my life is not even my life. No way of living. I never said that. You were going to say it.

[00:00:25]>> No.

[00:00:30]Hi. Hi guys. Welcome to Sisters in a City with me, Anna Vikile. And me, Maddie Vili. Okay, guys. Well, we need to first address my jumper.

[00:00:41]Goona. I'm a goona. All right. I'm so not though, Anna. Like, I'm a wannabe goona. Yeah. Basically, Arsenal won yesterday the Premier League. And Finn was like, "Mandy, I'm hopefully you vlogged Gingerbee's reaction. like, "Did you vlog it?" Cuz he's such a big Arsenal fan.

[00:00:59]>> Honestly, I was like, "I didn't even know that it was a Premier League."

[00:01:01]>> I didn't even know like I thought it was Champions League, but you're telling me it's Premier League. Yeah. So, Champions League is separate to Premier League.

[00:01:08]I've learned all these things now. Like, they're two different things. Obviously, Cow's League is a Tottenham Spurs supporter, which I feel really sorry for him because they're like the shittiest team. Gingerbread keeps saying they're going to get relegated. They're like really, really bad. Like, and it's almost like I was like, "Babe, can you not change your team?" team and he's like, "Oh, no. I can't change my team."

[00:01:27]But it's like so bad when they're re relegated. I mean, like that they're going to become like the players are going to get on like like they're going to become lower wage.

[00:01:35]>> Oh, I don't know. That's what I see it like, but that's not what it is. They basically won't be in the Premier League next year, >> which is apparently never happened before with Tottenham. That's what Gingerbe says. So, this is the worst thing that ever happened to a team.

[00:01:46]>> Yeah. But it's one of those things that you're born into it. Like he's born into supporting Tottenham.

[00:01:51]>> His dad supported it.

[00:01:53]That's the thing about football like I can't it's like it's almost like religion like I can't believe I can't force myself to believe it.

[00:02:01]>> I can support it >> but they you know they have this belief then like religious and I was like does your dad still watch Tottenham even though they're so [ __ ] And he looks at me like >> he's like yes. I was like he actually watches the matches. He's like yes.

[00:02:16]>> Oh my god tragic.

[00:02:17]>> I'd be so upset if my team was so [ __ ] >> I do feel like way cooler than you that my boyfriend supports a team that's cooler than you. Yeah, cuz technically I have to support Tottenham cuz I have to be there for him.

[00:02:26]>> Remember every time you and Kowzig broke up, you support Arsenal literally. But last night when Arsenal won um basically I could hear on the streets cuz we like obviously we live in North London. I could hear on the streets like all the people like celebrating, horning like and then his face Yeah. cuz it's that at that time as well Tottenham were losing and Arsenal had just won the Premier League and like literally his face was like so sad. I they take it way too seriously, but anyway, we thought, you know what? Let's rub salt on the wound.

[00:02:57]>> I'm not going to [ __ ] sing my story, Anna, about what happened yesterday.

[00:02:59]>> Okay, go on. Sorry.

[00:03:00]>> So, anyway, yesterday, Ginger Beer is like, "Listen, I know you got work to do with Anna and stuff, but like I want to have the boys run cuz I want to watch football." I didn't really know that what football match it was. Like, he talks to me so much, Anna, about Arsenal football that it sort of goes through my ears >> and I do this thing where I like switch off and I'm like, "Yeah, oh, oh, wow.

[00:03:20]Really? Oh, but really I'm thinking about >> professional at that that because of you and cows. I'm a professional at that because you and Kowsick talk so much.

[00:03:29]>> Cuz you and Cowsick talk so much both of them. I have had to learn how to do this. So I do that with both.

[00:03:35]>> I always feel like you listen to me though. It's you must be very good at it. Then >> sometimes when I know that it's not not that important.

[00:03:41]>> Yeah. When I'm talking about my looks.

[00:03:42]Well, when no, when you're talking about your looks or when you're talking about like a gorilla or animals and I'm like like well yesterday when you the other day when you're talking about recycling and you were going on and on about recycling.

[00:03:52]>> Yeah, I could tell you weren't listening to recycling is very important.

[00:03:54]>> I was at the beginning and then I switched off but anyway. Yeah. Well, obviously Ginger's obviously mastered this as well cuz I can tell he does it to me. He's not as good as hiding as you, but I can tell he's doing that to me. Like he switched off and I'm just talking.

[00:04:05]>> Yeah.

[00:04:05]>> But that means he's now clocked when I'm doing it. So when he's talking about Arsenal, he's like, "Are you listening?

[00:04:10]Are you listening?" And it's like, "I feel really bad, but like I really don't care much." Like I do to an extent. Like it's your fun. It's good that you have a hobby, you know? Keeps them away from the streets around there.

[00:04:20]>> Rather you be at a football stadium than at Staying, bro. You know what I mean?

[00:04:24]Watch those men run around. I'll watch them with you. But I don't want you out there on the streets.

[00:04:29]>> Yeah. You know what I mean? You shouting an anthem.

[00:04:32]>> I'm glad I'm at the Explore Pages here.

[00:04:34]>> Yeah.

[00:04:35]>> That's what I like. Shouting out. You know what I mean?

[00:04:37]>> Shouting anthems rather than >> Yeah.

[00:04:41]>> Shouting the >> shouting to [ __ ] ever.

[00:04:45]>> Shouting cat shouting.

[00:04:48]>> Cat shouting.

[00:04:50]>> It's a cat calling.

[00:04:53]>> Cat shouting. Honestly, I forgot how [ __ ] blonde you are.

[00:04:56]>> You know, I've I've possessiveness so hard that my man, he doesn't even realize Yeah. that his only enjoyment is other men.

[00:05:08]So, we're really winning here. But anyway, [ __ ] man. I wish Spurs was a bit better so that you know Kzik could be more is more focused on the fact that they're losing is preoccupy his mind even more. You know what I mean?

[00:05:18]>> No, cuz they're so [ __ ] >> Oh, I'm worried now Premier League's done. I was one now. What's I mean?

[00:05:22]Yeah, that's what I was saying to K. So, what happens now? Cuz he was like, well, there's a new Premier League in August.

[00:05:26]And I was like, so then what what is the point? I was like, so what are they just going to want to win again? He was like, yeah, why not? I was like, but you've just won. I I don't understand football cuz there's always a very important film match every day >> and then there's the World Cup. It's so important.

[00:05:41]>> Arsenal's playing. Wasn't Arsenal playing like every day since I met you.

[00:05:45]Like Arsenal's playing again. Every time Arsenal plays, it's an extremely important match. And then what happens?

[00:05:51]Like you said, they done it. They got a [ __ ] cup and then a new competition.

[00:05:55]>> Like it loses it meaning. It's like when Love Island started bringing you out summer and winter.

[00:05:59]>> Yeah.

[00:05:59]>> You know what I mean? You're killing it, bro. Just keep it to the one time a year >> now. Nobody's [ __ ] famous. They're famous for like 30 days.

[00:06:05]>> What do you mean? But there's still so many people that are so dedicated to this football thing, >> you know? There's so many people dedicated. Look, the stadium apparently standed out. So anyway, yesterday I'm downstairs doing my OCD stuff, which I'll get into later. And I hear like upstairs these boys and I find it really uncomfortable. Eddie's hiding with me in the bedroom like monsters are upstairs.

[00:06:27]At least it's not sex sounds. Yeah, it sounds like his sex sounds. It's like whatever. Like really crazy mad chick going upstairs. Anyway, he runs downstairs. He looks at me in there. I need to get out of the house. I need to get out of the flat. I need to get out the flat. There's 2 minutes. 22 years champion league or premier whatever. I'm like Premier League, whatever. I'm like unboxing Amazon boxes. I'm like, "Okay, babe." He, you know, we got two entrances to our flat.

[00:06:56]>> Yeah. He walks out of the the bedroom one and goes through the living room one. He done that three times. I know.

[00:07:02]>> What?

[00:07:03]>> Yeah. You know that we have two entrances.

[00:07:05]>> So guys, my flat works like this. We have an entrance here that goes upstairs into the living room >> and then when you're upstairs, you come downstairs, we have another exit, another entrance exit. So he's been going doing round the flat like round the flat like around the building.

[00:07:19]>> He's going in going up the stairs going back down the stairs going back like a maniac.

[00:07:22]>> Wow. And then suddenly I hear screaming from upstairs and I was like okay Arsenal's obviously won. But I thought it was a win like all the other wins. I didn't realize it was that much of an important win.

[00:07:32]>> Was it not more of a reaction than normal reaction? But there's been so many like screams and oh yeah it's true. How do you differentiate? Like we've been had a roast his mom just screaming like that sometimes around ours on a Sunday. So I don't really understand that was one of >> then suddenly he runs out again goes to his sister comes back. He's like going Finsbury Park. Going to the stadium. Are you coming? Are you coming? Are you coming?

[00:07:57]Are you coming? No. No, I'm not coming.

[00:08:00]But what do you go?

[00:08:02]>> Yes, >> but I don't want to go.

[00:08:04]>> Yeah, >> I don't want to leave the house.

[00:08:05]>> Yeah, I don't want to go there. I walk here.

[00:08:10]I'm there for you, babe. He's like, why are you not so excited? Why are you not scream? Why are you not so happy? Cuz like I feel like I'd react like that if I won the Euromillions. Yeah. Do you know what I mean? Like tomorrow, aren't we going to wake up and have the same balance and the same?

[00:08:25]>> That is literally what was saying to Cowzik on the sofa when everyone was screaming outside and they were horning and stuff. I was like, everyone's so excited like about >> this >> about footballers making 200 grand a week.

[00:08:36]>> They're really excited >> about footballers making 200 grand a week.

[00:08:38]>> Yeah. Like literally they make like how much money and you are like idolizing them. I don't get it. I really don't I don't >> 100% Arsenal footballers obviously proud like they the reason why is they got so much pressure on them. We got hundreds of million [ __ ] people put pressure on them. So like [ __ ] it.

[00:08:55]We won. I'm a gas. I'm gas. We won.

[00:08:56]We're sick.

[00:08:57]>> Yeah.

[00:08:57]>> But then they're like let me collect that paycheck, bro, and go to the Bahamas. Do you know what I mean?

[00:09:01]>> Yeah.

[00:09:02]>> Like it's not like their identity.

[00:09:04]>> Yeah. Is it? I don't know. Maybe. I don't know. I'm not a footballer.

[00:09:07]>> I do think it's strange how men give so much energy and so much so much. uh just they give it so much energy and so much idolization and like so just too much towards a team that literally like they are making so much money where like I don't even know it's a team it's not even the players cuz we saw like was this EZ was an Arsenal player apparently he's like one of the best ones yeah like me and Ginger were having dinner in a restaurant and EZ is there with someone as well and he was like that Es that's from Arsenal I was like should we go over do you want to say you want a picture he's like No, no, no. Yeah, they get re >> like a man. I don't want to do that.

[00:09:48]Right.

[00:09:50]And then I was like, are you sure? He's like, maybe if he passes, you could say something big or something like maybe >> he didn't want Maybe it's fun of me though. Maybe it's fun of me. But anyway, >> it's more like this dedication to the team. Even if the team leaves and joins another team, it's like even if the players leave and join another team or the players change, it's like there's something about the the arsenal. I kind of >> I get that, but I get that. For example, if it's the World Cup and like back in the day when Iran was playing, like I feel really like emotional towards it, but that's like once every four years and it's like my country. It's more like a pat like I'm patriotic. It has identity culture attached to it.

[00:10:26]>> Yeah. And I feel like if there was a World Cup every year, would I feel the same? Actually, maybe I probably would.

[00:10:31]>> Yeah. Different from another country. I don't even get off on the stop of Arsenal or the Pikid line. I've never got off, you know, on the picadill line is Arsenal.

[00:10:40]>> Yeah.

[00:10:41]>> I didn't even know an area called Arsenal ever existed until I started looking at the Picadill line and seeing >> Yeah.

[00:10:47]>> There's a stop called Arsenal. Is it on the pic line?

[00:10:49]>> Yeah. Literally, we pass it all the time.

[00:10:50]>> I don't I don't even know what Arsenal looks like. Is there an area?

[00:10:53]>> Yeah, >> that's basically like where >> Yeah. the Goonas are from.

[00:10:57]>> But this is what I don't understand.

[00:10:58]Like for example, with Klick, he's not even from Tottenham. He's not He's not even from Tottenham, but that's his team. I don't support Tottenham because I always get a parking ticket on Totten.

[00:11:09]>> That's in central London though.

[00:11:12]>> Is that Tottenham?

[00:11:15]>> No.

[00:11:18]>> I just don't get it though. Like honestly nothing changes. Like Ginger is going this Saturday to Budapest. I like I don't even know where that is. But anyway, he's going there to watch another match for is it another medal, another trophy?

[00:11:29]>> It's the champion.

[00:11:30]>> Champion League, >> right?

[00:11:32]>> And he's at Cup. No, I would not catch a flight. I catch a flight for Arsenal that you're calling them as like a >> You can't anyway cuz we're going Turkey, guys. We're going to Turkey and Talia next week. And >> you guys trolled us so much about our teeth. Like, we're now fixing our [ __ ] teeth.

[00:11:49]>> We got trolled so hard for our teeth that we're literally going to go fix our teeth. But I'm excited. I I genuinely think that I do need new teeth.

[00:11:56]>> I've been saying it to you for a long time.

[00:11:57]>> Yeah. My teeth are too bulky and they're too fake white. Me, too. Like I'm just so tired with gingerbread. Like he's so cute. Like a little bunny rabbit.

[00:12:05]>> Yeah.

[00:12:05]>> I don't want to be a bunny rabbit. Maybe I want to be a wolf.

[00:12:07]>> Your teeth aren't as bad as mine. Like your teeth are quite nice to be off of.

[00:12:12]My teeth need doing.

[00:12:13]>> Yeah.

[00:12:14]>> Big time. Guys, I'm sweating. I'm these hot flushes and still getting hot flushes.

[00:12:18]>> Madness. Like when I say they are so bad and they affect my life so much. I spoke about it last week on the Patreon episode how that I've been getting recently like hot flushes to the point where it's happening every 20 minutes.

[00:12:34]Every 20 minutes I get a rush through my body and then I start sweating to the point where like sweat drops.

[00:12:40]>> I know. I've seen it on your face >> and like clammy and it's just the most horrible thing and then within 5 minutes I start getting cold.

[00:12:47]>> Anna, what other symptoms do you have as well as hot flashes though?

[00:12:50]>> I have brain foggess. I have but I don't know whether that's anything related to this cuz I've been having that for a while.

[00:12:57]>> Um and at the moment I haven't started my period as well for like 3 days like I'm a 3 days late but I'm not pregnant. I've done a test but yeah anyway so it's like affecting my life to the point where it's getting me really really down like cuz it's happening so much like imagine your body temperature not being >> can't explain it to you. don't realize how much that affects your day-to-day life. Like how your mood >> It's a constant reminder that something's wrong.

[00:13:27]>> It's a constant reminder that something's not right. I feel like something's not right in my body. It's scary because of this whole like it's I feel like it's must be hormonal. Usually hot flushes are related to hormonal problems and and brain fog and all.

[00:13:40]>> Yeah. And I was worried that in the Patreon episode last week, I was actually crying that maybe it's something to do with pmenopause. But I'm 35 years old. But like >> I don't know. I've been doing some research and it can happen to between like like 5% of PE women can go through it.

[00:13:59]>> Um but premenopause symptoms can't go on for a long time before you actually go into menopause. Also, >> I think there's also like a lot of stress related like problems >> um with hormones like you can have chronic issues. But I was so stressed last year like with the whole breakup situation like during them breakups. I was probably like my highest stress levels and all >> but this could be an accumulation of everything you've experienced and everything you've gone through.

[00:14:25]>> I don't know. It's all very confusing.

[00:14:27]So yesterday I called the doctors and I booked an emergency appointment at the doctors. go to the doctors and I wanted to speak to them about these hot flushes and also about that lump that I found in my boob because even though I went to a private hospital in Thailand and they said that it doesn't seem like it's cancerous, they still said that when I get back to the UK I should get it checked. I go to the doctors and I'm like basically I'm giving her so much information though at once. Like I'm like been to Thailand, I've been to Marrakesh. I think the hot flush has started in Marrakesh from what I remember but I've had a miscarriage in February but you know I don't know if this is menopausal but at the same time my mom she had you know a miscarriage in her early 40s she had an early miscarriage but I'm 35 and I've also last week had a fever and extreme vomiting and bad stomach and like it's so much information at once like what is it and she was like well I don't know you need to have a blood test. I was like, "Okay, fine."

[00:15:23]>> So, I >> don't think you'll know until you get some blood test done anyway. Yeah. So, like that's the prior that should be priority right now.

[00:15:29]>> Yeah. But there's not an actual blood test for permenopause. But I need to get a blood test anyway because >> Well, you're going to know if you don't start your period and your period is becoming extremely irregular, then you notice symptoms of permenopause. What a weird name. Perry.

[00:15:43]>> Perry means the transition between like normal.

[00:15:48]>> So, it's not premenopause.

[00:15:50]Basically, it's called permenopause.

[00:15:52]>> So weird. It's called Perry. Reminds you of Nando Preese.

[00:15:54]>> The lady, even the doctor said it's unlikely to be permenopause cuz you're so young.

[00:15:59]>> Unlikely, but possible.

[00:16:01]>> Yeah, possible. I feel like it must be.

[00:16:04]What else could it be? Unless I've got some kind of virus or infection in my body, >> that could be it. Like there's something in my body that could >> What do you feel like it is, though?

[00:16:16]>> I have no idea. I didn't think it was like a hormonal thing because my periods seemed really regular >> up until my pregnancy and even after my pregnancy my periods have been regular all 28 days.

[00:16:29]>> I think it is signs of per menopause. Um you're 36 in July. I think you might have permenopause symptoms and you might go into menopause maybe like 42.

[00:16:40]>> Yeah.

[00:16:40]>> Just very early menopause because people normally go into like what 50s. But it still does I mean you weren't going to have kids at 42 anyway cuz you already knew you didn't have much time and you already wanted to start now. So who cares?

[00:16:54]>> I think your periods are going to start becoming a bit irregular. But also like it's I think with this maybe I'm going through some extreme hormonal changes right now with like this whole hot flushes. I'm 3 days late on my period.

[00:17:08]Brain foggess. I've got I feel like my on my bladder as well. Like I'm I go for a piss throughout the night way more than normal.

[00:17:16]>> Me too.

[00:17:17]>> Like I wake up it's actually a joke guys like five times throughout the night.

[00:17:21]>> Same.

[00:17:22]>> Oh you do?

[00:17:23]>> For a pierce. But I do drink a lot throughout the night. like I'll drink this whole thing for now.

[00:17:27]>> Yeah, same.

[00:17:28]>> The whole thing. Um, so that that there's that and then now I'm late on my period. So I'm going through extreme hormonal whatever. I think it's hormonal because why I think it's hormonal is because as well my mood like when I say yesterday I was so low and down to the point where it's like really scary like really scary.

[00:17:54]You're conscious of it. Why?

[00:17:56]Cuz like when I'm like snap out of it a little bit, even though I'm still wouldn't say like I'm like even though I'm here happy, I'm like I I said to myself last night, tomorrow morning cuz you know when I'm really low, I don't even do my skincare. I don't do nothing.

[00:18:08]Nothing. Yeah. I just feel like it's I get to that point of like really low where it's like life's just not. It's so sad, but like is life? It's ridiculous.

[00:18:17]But then like the next I'm like tomorrow I'm going to wake up. Bless you. I'm going to wake up tomorrow positive. I'm going to wake up early and I'm going to do my skin care. I'm going to do this that that that I plan my day. I'm going to be I'm going to wake up in a positive mood and snap out of this [ __ ] that I'm in. Like I need to snap the [ __ ] out of it. Like what is going on? Like the issues I've got in my life aren't like the way I'm reacting to them.

[00:18:43]>> Like let's say I'm even going through per menopause.

[00:18:46]>> Yeah. people have got actual real problems, you know, and feel sometimes stupid that my mood gets so low over these things. Like, what's wrong with me?

[00:18:56]>> Can't help it. I agree. And I feel like we live in a world now where everyone's like, "No, like you should allow yourself to be low and like depression is overused word. I'm sorry. It is like everyone gets depressed. Everyone has anxiety, but to be diagnosed with things like it's just become like an epidemic of everyone's diagnosing themselves.

[00:19:16]It's important to recognize that you're having a low time and you're going through a period of being depressed or feeling depressed. But just recognizing that that is your hormones, that is your mood, and you're going to come out of it. But what I need to understand is like with permenopause, if I am going through it, we'll find out when I go for my blood test hopefully in the next few days. But does that mean that I'm going to have these like hormonal issues for like 10 years? Cuz per menopause can take until you get your menopause. I need to do a more more research. Yeah, this is a [ __ ] that we should be learning in [ __ ] school, mate. On top of taxes and on top of student loans, on top of [ __ ] >> egg counts and [ __ ] Anyway, I think that there's loads of like supplements and things out there to manage it. And I think that most health issues are related to the the mind as well. No, I'm not one of those people that like, oh, you can kill yourself. No, but I think stress is such a big thing. And you're so stressed about this. This is Yeah, I'm I have these other stresses in my life which I can't really go into. I've said it before, but it's like cuz it's not as well. It's like not really as well my business. Yeah.

[00:20:24]>> But it does affect me. But the thing is it's like this now these symptoms and like just not feeling 100% is giving me even more >> stress. Mom makes I've ignored her calls today.

[00:20:36]>> Bro, she I've ignored her call.

[00:20:38]>> I was like you're making her ill.

[00:20:39]>> Yeah.

[00:20:40]>> I was like you're actually making her ill. Yeah.

[00:20:42]>> Like that's the end of it. End of everything. If she if it's menopause the end of everything. Your bones, your hair, your skin. You age so much.

[00:20:52]>> Come on. Pen Cruz looks better than me.

[00:20:54]Like I don't understand. Like Sophia Vgera like they they look great and I'm sure they've gone through menopause and everyone's going through it and every woman goes through it because women go through it in their 50s. Mandy.

[00:21:03]>> Yeah. There's women there's women who are in their 50s. Is Jennifer Lopez not in her 50s. She looks better than [ __ ] both of us put together. Like bones and muscle decaying. Yeah. Mom, you you can't even do one single squat and she was very overweight even at our age. What does she really know about the effects of menopause? Like mommy is like it decays your bones, your muscle and things like that. Like mommy's never really looked after it as a >> though Mandy.

[00:21:31]>> But we don't know what menopause would do to a woman who's strength training.

[00:21:34]We don't know what >> I don't strength train though.

[00:21:35]>> Well, you should be. You started pilateses. Why are you not keeping it up?

[00:21:39]>> You don't know like that woman how how she responds to healthy eating. Mommy's got blood pressure from stress. Yeah.

[00:21:47]She's got diabetes from eating like you know she's not a healthy eater as well.

[00:21:51]She does eat a lot of like fatty foods.

[00:21:54]We don't know how menopause can react with a woman who's a clean eating strength training, but I'm not that woman.

[00:22:00]>> Wellness, then be that woman because I don't think it would be the same.

[00:22:04]>> Yeah.

[00:22:04]>> And I think the mommy calling you and telling you that's the end of your life.

[00:22:08]Like there's loads of people that choose not to have kids. Like I mean worst case scenario, there's loads of >> That's what I'm trying to say. Like choose not to. This is what I'm saying.

[00:22:15]Like firstly it scares me and pushes me into like starting like for a baby next month when >> But you were going to do that anyway.

[00:22:24]You were going to do that anyway. After >> if someone told me I had 10 years, I would not start my baby next year. Next month.

[00:22:30]>> But after your miscarriage before these premenable whatever symptoms you had planned to start cuz that's what you wanted.

[00:22:37]>> Yeah. But even then if I if someone had told me I've got 10 years I wouldn't have.

[00:22:41]>> Yeah. I get people that judge can judge, but as women, we don't have all the time in the world. And if it's something that you want in your life, >> then you have to do it at a certain time because otherwise you're taking a risk.

[00:22:54]The longer you wait, the longer the more of a risk you take. It could not happen naturally and you're going to have to go for IVF and etc. >> It's such a difficult one because like I really like last night I was thinking I really don't know if I want kids. I'm just so selfish with my time and so impatient >> and I'm just like so OCD that I was like ginger beard. I was like maybe we should wait a bit longer and consider not having one.

[00:23:16]>> Well, you've got more time.

[00:23:18]>> Yeah, but my more time I could end up in the same position as you.

[00:23:22]>> Yeah.

[00:23:22]>> So, it's not that much cuz you're in a stable relationship, a long-term relationship. You you know where you're going. You can just literally try and even in a year.

[00:23:31]>> Yeah. But in a year, I'm basically the same as you. And then Yeah. But I can do it now. I mean, I'm sure I'm not hit menopause now. You can get pregnant during permenopause.

[00:23:41]>> True. I could wait longer. I could wait longer. Yeah. I mean, I was pregnant.

[00:23:45]But it's like, I want to get my titties done. All this [ __ ] Like, it's long, bro. Get the baby out the way so I can get my ass and ass >> anyway. Forget all these babies. I don't want to talk about babies anymore.

[00:23:55]>> Yeah.

[00:23:55]>> I don't even want to think about them, right? I don't want my algorithm coming up. all these old people that are like saying, "We're so glad we never had kids and we're so glad we never had kids."

[00:24:05]>> Your algorithm just gives you what you have been spending time on.

[00:24:09]>> Yeah, it's mad. It's dangerous.

[00:24:10]>> Anyway, also like my OCD right now is bad. And like I've become like a super weird cleansiness. That's great.

[00:24:21]>> OCD organized freak. And then I think imagine if I had kids the black would be a mess. They'll be scribbled on the walls and the floors and the >> can't be deal with that scribble in the walls and floors and [ __ ] or like a mess. And I've gone around the flat each box in our cupboard is like specific things like good shoe care equipment and I've got a label on the box. Electric equipment label on the box. Hats and scarves label on the box. That's >> everything has a label now. Everything.

[00:24:53]And not only that, in our wardrobe, I've got hangers with labels. So, Gingerbee's polo shirts are separated and it says polo shirts. And then shirts, shirts, then it's like jackets, long sleeves, so everything.

[00:25:06]>> Wow. No, that's that is extreme.

[00:25:09]>> And I feel like if I don't do these things, I can't I can't continue with real life.

[00:25:15]>> I have everything has to be done for me to be able to continue with my my life, work, and things like that. Yeah, that is extreme. You should have vlogged that. Do you know what the thing is?

[00:25:24]Like with vlogging, I'm really enjoying the vlogging. Like we are very consistent, guys. Like 206 we've been >> very consistent on our vlogging channel and our vlogging channel does really well. Like almost >> I love it.

[00:25:36]>> I think better than the podcast channel at the moment.

[00:25:38]>> It's like memories as well when I look back at them. Like memories like me, but there's so many things we don't catch with the with it. And I always think like with for example when I like yesterday, I mean yesterday I was feeling really really low, but should I be picking up the camera and talking about it? I don't want to be them people that cry on camera like do you know I find it cringe but >> I want to be one of those cringe people but then at the same time cry no we come on the podcast not crying and then we accidentally cry but it's very different to like once you're crying you pick up the camera vlog >> I was on the vlog with Ginger Beard and I start crying >> you started crying you don't pick up the camera whilst you're crying you know what I mean it's two different things >> you're crying and you pick up the camera >> the thing is I don't think that's like I I know what you mean by it's cringy cringey stuff like but I do think sometimes when people do it it must help a lot of other people you know cuz I can imagine if I was someone that was watching someone's vlogs or watching someone's podcast or whatever it is and I'm like going through what I'm going through now and I see someone else going through it must help just to know that you're not alone and like other people are going through it and it kind of educates you on the future that >> you never know you know like I feel like I didn't know anything about per menopause I didn't know it was a I just thought they need to change the name.

[00:26:52]Perise. Sorry. I can't the Perry. It's the Perry stuff. It's associated with Nando.

[00:26:58]>> Yeah. And I can't have Nando about a pair.

[00:27:01]>> Yeah. Literally. Anyway, um I think you're right and I think it is educational to share your experiences and I think it's a good thing and I don't think there's anything wrong with picking up the camera. I used to think it was cringe >> when I used to watch like other influencers do it, but as I'm getting older, I feel like being a content creator, it's changed my perception on it.

[00:27:17]>> Exactly. Literally, word for word. I used to think it was, but now as I'm getting older, it's something that I'm thinking like calling myself a content creator. Can you >> content creator?

[00:27:28]>> As a content creator, >> the best is when people say like you're a creator.

[00:27:32]>> Not even content creator. You're a creator.

[00:27:35]>> Creator. You're creative.

[00:27:36]>> No, these people are trying really hard.

[00:27:38]We get called that all the time.

[00:27:40]>> You're creative. You're >> not creating much just to put content.

[00:27:43]>> No, apparently we are creatives. We are in that bracket. Yeah, but you know that when you fill in like those those forms and stuff and ask for your occupation and stuff like it's really hard.

[00:27:52]>> Yeah.

[00:27:53]>> What did you put? I put model.

[00:27:55]>> D I mean Wednesday when I went for my doctor's appointment, the woman the doctor was asking me like when I was giving her all my symptoms and stuff, she was like, "What what's what's your job? Do you not think that's so random?"

[00:28:07]I'm like, "YouTube YouTube." I was like, "Um, podcasting."

[00:28:14]I'm like podcasting, YouTube. I do a bit of everything. Contrary to television, television when I do my car insurance, I'm like Netflix.

[00:28:23]>> What do I choose? My recent choice choice was entertainment. Oh, but then people might think that you're like a porn star.

[00:28:30]>> I don't think about that. Yeah. I'm in the entertainment industry.

[00:28:34]>> A porn star? Isn't that just >> Let them think I am, you know, bring excitement back into my life. Anyway guys, we thought we would do some relationship dilemas.

[00:28:44]>> It's been so long.

[00:28:46]>> It has been a while and like there's so many great ones that people have said in my Instagram.

[00:28:50]>> Oh my god.

[00:28:51]>> Sometimes I get shocked when I see that they've been sent in. Like people are actually going through these >> in the morning when I was going through these dilemas and putting them cuz basically I get them off my Instagram and then I put them on a document ready for our podcast and I don't know them. I don't see them.

[00:29:06]>> Yeah. And then when I'm reading them, I'm like, "Fucking hell, people have got some right shit."

[00:29:12]>> Yeah. Crazy ass [ __ ] Let me get my Stanley cut ready.

[00:29:18]Okay. I just found out that my boyfriend and my mom exchanged nudes 2 years ago before I had met him.

[00:29:30]Before a mom. What mom? What? A her mom?

[00:29:35]That can very easily happen. I only know one hot mom.

[00:29:38]>> Yeah.

[00:29:39]>> It's the only hot mom I know. No other mom I know is hot.

[00:29:41]>> Yeah. And she's got a older daughter.

[00:29:44]>> Yeah.

[00:29:44]>> Imagine she dates a guy 2 years ago, sends a nude and then 2 years later her daughter is dating that same guy.

[00:29:54]>> Oh my god.

[00:29:55]>> Could happen because he's seen the whole genetic line of te cuz she's of age but he doesn't know and she don't know. M >> and you don't know until >> to meet the parents.

[00:30:06]>> Yeah, [ __ ] that. Yeah, >> the thing is it's not something that you could avoid, right?

[00:30:11]>> But the mom must be a little bit of a nons because if this guy is seeing a daughter, that means he is No, hold on a minute. Let's say right now, yeah, I had a kid when I was 16 years old. My kid right now is 20. Okay, >> I'm dating a guy right now >> that's 27 26 which I have done like last year remember the guy I was dating he was like 27 or something did you >> when I was single last year you know was egging me on does it matter younger guys are more mature >> they say they do say that they do say that yeah so he was like 27 or something >> right imagine that same guy imagine no do you know Rewind. I've got a kid. Yeah.

[00:31:02]20-year-old kid, right?

[00:31:03]>> Okay.

[00:31:04]>> She brings back home a guy and it's like, "Mom, I've met this guy. I like him. I meet him and I remember [ __ ] 2 years ago I dated this guy. Two years ago when I was 34 I was dating him and he was like what? 25 24.

[00:31:19]>> Oh god."

[00:31:20]>> Which is very very [ __ ] possible.

[00:31:22]Doesn't make me a [ __ ] nons.

[00:31:24]>> No, it doesn't. That was me being hella judgmental towards women. Yeah, >> completely wrong.

[00:31:29]>> [ __ ] men be dating women 20 years younger than them. I actually like women who date younger men.

[00:31:33]>> Yeah, our best friend's married to a [ __ ] guy that's almost 10 years younger than her. She's 36 or 30. She's 37 and he's like 28. It's a good thing that we don't need to worry about these things with our mom. You know, she's an older old school traditional woman. You know, she just wants to make her shoes and her Persian rice. But I did have a dream. Remember this dream? What a dream. Sometimes I'd rather you don't tell me your weird disturbing dreams and just keep them. It's okay to keep them to yourself. With the really bad ones, I would, but this one's not on that level.

[00:32:03]I wouldn't share it.

[00:32:04]>> It's something to do with mom getting frisky like you wouldn't say [ __ ] >> No. No. Absolutely not.

[00:32:09]>> Do you remember this dream? I shared it with all of you.

[00:32:12]>> What is it?

[00:32:13]>> Poor mom uncomfortable as well.

[00:32:15]>> Yeah, it was so funny. She couldn't stop laughing.

[00:32:17]>> Oh my god. I remember.

[00:32:18]>> You remember on the train?

[00:32:19]>> Yeah, I remember. She got really upset.

[00:32:22]She started thinking she's fit for a moment. She was like, "Oh, >> she is fit."

[00:32:26]>> As she say, "Mommy fit as in she thought in that moment." She was like, "Oh, like you know what I mean? I still got it in someone dreams.

[00:32:34]>> She's so cute. She's so cute." Who was it? It was like Gingerbeard and mom.

[00:32:39]Like I had a You were like, "Mom, I had a dream that you and Ginger Beard like got together." I was like, >> "Oh yeah, the dream was so good." Mom got so uncomfortable. She She got so uncomfortable, Mandy.

[00:32:50]She did. She got so uncomfortable. Like Manny would have just put like if I had that dream, I would never me I I'd never mention it. This is the difference between me and Mandy.

[00:32:59]>> It was like oh I would never do such a thing. I was like paranoid like Manny's going to think that like >> in my dream I know.

[00:33:06]>> It was a really really good dream. It could have been a soap opera.

[00:33:10]>> Yeah.

[00:33:11]>> I was like you be upset. Right. And mommy know I said I'm my old school mom.

[00:33:15]Like my original OG mom like she ain't looking after me. Huh? You know, like if I if I needed her and I was feeling unwell, she wasn't available. She was always busy.

[00:33:23]>> Oh, >> so was Gingerbe soon started adding two and two together.

[00:33:28]>> Started adding to your ski. I start doing some investigations, right?

[00:33:31]>> Next thing I know, I was on my mom's phone. I see some messages for my ginger beard.

[00:33:38]>> You know how funny guys this is? If you guys know what my mom is like, like if you guys know the people that watch the vlogs, like if you don't know what my mom's like, go on to our YouTube channel, Anamani Bakily, and just scroll down to Rome vlog and see what my mom is like. And then you'll know how funny this is.

[00:33:52]>> This is why this is why it was even funnier, right? And this is why it was just so funny saying it to mom. Anyway, I found out they had a whole affair. I didn't see anything. There's no visual graphic images in my dream. Yeah.

[00:34:03]>> There was just like I caught them out. I caught them out and then I Anyway, I pulled them up on it in my in my dream. I was like, I found out what you guys have been doing. And then, do you know what it says to me? Straight up to my face. We love each other. We fell in love. We're in love.

[00:34:23]>> We want to be together.

[00:34:25]>> We want to be together. And mommy and her in her accent, you know, she was like, "We fell in love in love. Like, we love each other. Miy."

[00:34:33]And that was it.

[00:34:34]>> Wow.

[00:34:35]>> And then I was like, "How are you not backing me on this?" Anna Anna wasn't lie to you.

[00:34:39]>> You were kind of backing me, but like she's our mom. She want that dick. She got that dick. She won that.

[00:34:43]>> Oh god, guys. I can't do >> my poor mom when Mandy told her this.

[00:34:49]Like honestly, >> it was the funniest thing ever, man.

[00:34:51]>> The funniest thing. It was so even Cowz was laughing his ass off.

[00:34:54]>> Yeah, >> you have to laugh at these things, man.

[00:34:56]>> It's true. So, what do you think in this situation? Cuz this is actually happened.

[00:35:00]>> Yeah. I mean, so like put yourself in this position, right? Let's say you have a kid and then they come back and then they you've exchanged news with her man >> two years ago.

[00:35:08]>> I'm glad I didn't have kids young because obviously I'm really hot and like I don't want to be putting my child in these positions.

[00:35:13]>> Yeah. At least this is at least this is something that we don't have to deal with because by the time our kids dating and stuff if we have kids like let's say in the next year we'll be like what?

[00:35:23]>> Yeah.

[00:35:23]>> We won't be we'll still be like 56 57 >> unless our daughter got some 56y old 57 year old man and it's a sugar daddy.

[00:35:30]>> Oh yeah. Oh >> yeah.

[00:35:33]>> Well, I'm assuming that we're not with Ky and Ginger anymore. Obviously, obviously assuming that we leave them.

[00:35:38]>> Anyway, look, it starts up situation because like imagine I've set my titty pics and then my daughter said he's got a whole family album now.

[00:35:44]>> Yeah. And now >> it's family album.

[00:35:49]>> He's comparing.

[00:35:50]>> Yeah. What you going to do? Be like, babe, you can't get with him. You can't You can't do that though. It's what?

[00:35:55]It's an awkward one. Yeah. She's in a hot in love. You have to put yourself in the door position. What if you're with Gingerbread? You've fallen in love and you love him so much. You then introduce them to the parents and then you find out the situation has happened before.

[00:36:07]I'm stopping my child, Anna, >> from being with that person.

[00:36:11]>> Yes, there's there's Christians and Muslims stopping their child being with a person they love because they believe in a different God.

[00:36:17]>> And you think, I'm not going to stop my child from being with a guy who I [ __ ] >> [ __ ] They didn't [ __ ] It was just a nude. Oh, just a nude thing. Yeah, >> you could have been horrible. It's tolerable.

[00:36:31]>> Yeah, cuz you got to change it.

[00:36:32]>> Yeah.

[00:36:32]>> In a few years, they're not really my boobs anymore.

[00:36:35]>> Boo job. Get boo job. Change boobs.

[00:36:37]>> Yeah, change boo. That's that. That's what I was. I'm always wanting to change my boobs anyway.

[00:36:41]>> Okay. Well, you know, we've done one dilemma.

[00:36:43]>> Yeah, >> we've done one dilemma and we have about 50 to get through.

[00:36:47]>> It's so much ketchup in the beginning of this [ __ ] ketchup. But they like ketchups, right? I don't like the ring my fiance got me. The diamonds are too small and I feel like I'm stuck with it forever.

[00:36:59]>> This is This is my nightmare situ. This is what I feel like is going to happen to me.

[00:37:04]>> No, no, no. This definitely Can I just first of all say >> this is going to happen to me. This is 100% what's we both know this is 100% what's happening to me.

[00:37:11]>> No, >> actually, you're right. This is going to happen to you cuz diamond earrings you got for your birthday.

[00:37:17]>> Yeah, they weren't it.

[00:37:18]>> They were like I feel like Kzik's not good at gift get getting gifts.

[00:37:21]>> Well, you need to ask me. Yeah, cuz he did well Christmas when you told him to get me them heels >> and they were banging heels.

[00:37:27]>> Yeah. And I knew there was something off because I know he's not good at gifts.

[00:37:31]And I feel like when you're not good at gifts, is that cuz you're not paying attention to me? Like I feel like I'm the easiest person to buy gifts for. You know what I like?

[00:37:39]>> You know what I like? How can you not >> really? How does you know what you like?

[00:37:43]>> Get me another pair of Renees. It's that simple.

[00:37:46]>> Yeah.

[00:37:46]>> You know like >> just £1,200.

[00:37:49]>> That's the cheap, >> right? Exactly. Oh, if you want to go all out, you know, Chanel, you can't go from Chanel.

[00:37:57]>> Yeah. Knowing cows, he'll go to Chanel and give me the ugliest bag.

[00:38:01]>> Literally. Yeah. I agree. I've never had a surprise. I always have to tell J what I want. But what annoys me is when Christmas and [ __ ] comes, he's like, "I don't know what you want. I don't know what you want." Check our shared media.

[00:38:11]I send you pictures of things I want all year round.

[00:38:14]>> That's what I do. That's what I think.

[00:38:17]What do you do though if some like >> you know what I do?

[00:38:20]>> Like if Ginger beard proposes to you never with the ring that you don't like.

[00:38:27]>> Are you saying something?

[00:38:28]>> It's ruins the moments, doesn't it?

[00:38:30]>> And it's one of those awkward ones cuz you know when you get proposed to like obviously you take in that moment you take videos, you take pictures. It's that moment, right? You switch up the ring later. People go, "No, I don't get [ __ ] over. It's a [ __ ] ring. I'm switching up." But I would just have to hope that that doesn't happen. But if it does, like I'm going to have that moment with him. I BE LIKE, >> "YEAH, you're not going to ruin the moment."

[00:38:51]>> No, I'm not going to ruin the moment.

[00:38:53]And then later on, I'm like, "Bitch, it's the ugly ass ring. All right. You need to change the ring right now."

[00:38:58]Same. That's what I would do. But the thing is, you're going to take if you're going to hate the ring so much, you're not going to want to take a picture with it. I know. [ __ ] the Do you remember everyone's rings? Cuz I don't. Do you have a [ __ ] memory of every influencers's [ __ ] rings?

[00:39:11]>> Not that. If it's such an ugly ring, like you really hate it, you're not going to want to put a picture of it up because you're not AI. AI >> AI changes ring.

[00:39:20]>> People will be doing stuff like that on AI. No joke. Yeah. People be doing their birthday presents, AI, >> everything. Yeah, that is crazy. AI's taking over. It's going to be a problem.

[00:39:28]It might have to be AI.

[00:39:30]>> I'm telling you right now, if you're planning on becoming an influencer, give it up because influencers are going to be extinct. There's there's going to be no need for influencers. There's influencer AI. They literally influence AI having like no boo. There's this huge influencer, Anna, that she like travels.

[00:39:44]She's travel influencer.

[00:39:45]>> Yeah. And I feel it was like BBC or something tracked her down and it was like a guy. It was like a nerdy guy with glasses in his room like four computer screens and he was like, "Yeah, I'm the creator." Yeah. She's like this hot like blonde travel influencer. So we It's not necessary. You can now have a baby an ugly man because your child doesn't even need to be pretty. Doesn't even need to be a model. Doesn't even need to be an influencer. Like, you can have ugly children. What do you mean? What's that got to do with anything?

[00:40:15]>> I don't know how it went there.

[00:40:16]Sometimes they think I need to have a baby with like someone good-looking so I have a good-looking child and it's going to be a content creator, like influencer, like model, something like that. Like a model.

[00:40:25]>> Yeah. But do you know that's not in any way anymore? People like more authentic content creators. Like people that are just going on about how they're leaving their legs hairy and they're not shaving it.

[00:40:33]>> Yeah, it's true. That is the way it is, right? That is true. you know, like they show their roles and they're like, "This is what's real."

[00:40:40]>> You know, >> I feel like it's in, but some of the biggest influences still like they they they >> they have like an unrealistic life and image.

[00:40:52]>> Really?

[00:40:52]>> Yeah. Like the people the people I see getting the most interactions are the ones that are just keeping it real. But speaking of like AI taking over influencers jobs, influ AI apparently is going to take over every job. 100% pharmacists are going to go everything. Yeah. Because why would you depend on a human to check medications interactions when an AI can do it even better, right? And I've been doing a lot of like, you know, deep diving into this whole world right now.

[00:41:24]Yeah. And another thing is like there was two things that were really valuable in humans. One was knowledge and one was like skill. So now robots can basically skillfully do things that humans might make mistakes at like you said checking.

[00:41:40]>> No, that's knowledge.

[00:41:42]Knowledge and skill and labor and physical are like I feel like that's the part they >> aren't good at skill. pilots or anything anything that requires labor. Robots can do better. Cleaners.

[00:41:58]>> Yeah. I don't know about pilots, mate. I don't think I'd ever trust a robot flying a plane for me. Actresses, singers, everything. So, Elon Musk said something like there's going to have to basically become a universal basic income because no one's going to have jobs. Like, most people are going to be unemployed. So there's going to have to be like a government going to have to supply like a universal income which is quite sad.

[00:42:23]So it's going to be like the gap between rich and poor is going to be really big because the rich are going to be people that own companies that own AI and robots and then the poor are going to be people that can't get a job right because of AI. But he said there's a bigger problem than that. The biggest problem is a psychological problem is with human beings that for centuries, thousands of years, human beings have derived meaning in their life from the labor that they do. They derive meaning and purpose from their careers and their labor. And once that's taken away, what is our meaning? Yeah. But imagine a like where no one has to work and they can just get basic pay and enjoy living.

[00:43:07]Sometimes I do think like everyone's working from 9 to 5 every day like and we we're you know we're made to believe that's normal to work most of our life just like just to get by and then go on a holiday once a year. So what would we do if you whereas like you know people are like taking their their like income they've saved over like a year or two or pensions or whatever and going abroad and living life properly.

[00:43:33]>> So what would we do if we would just read books spend time with family? So yeah, like I see some lot of content creators that for example, they've got one flat, they put it in on rent, they would never be able to survive in the UK with that money, but with that money in like Thailand or another country, they live they don't have to work and they can live on it. So they spend all their times with their family, quality time, doing activities and living life rather than spending most hours of the day working. True. Do do you see what I mean? I did see one influencer. He was like >> reacting to this thing. He was like AI is going to take everybody's jobs. He was like when when is coming.

[00:44:14]>> So there's that side to it like maybe it might be amazing because everyone's going to get paid cuz you can't leave people not with no money >> and then they can just really live life.

[00:44:24]>> Yeah. It's just scary though. Bringing a child into this world right now is scary. It is really scary. I don't know what the future holds. All I know is that like you know how like sometimes we will judge our parents because they don't know how to do things like when my dad moved into his new flat recently and I was trying to get him to start the TV like connect it to the Wi-Fi and I been there so many days in a row. So I was like dad let me just tell you how to do it over FaceTime. So I'm on FaceTime to dad and I'm like dad can you show me the TV? So he's trying to do this but it's not working. I was like can you flip the the camera around? He couldn't flip the camera around to show me the TV from the phone. Yeah, but that's daddy, right?

[00:45:03]But I'm like, and I'm kind of expecting me and he's like, "No, he's pretending."

[00:45:06]I was like, "I'm not. He's not pretending. I know he doesn't know. He can't flip the camera around." Yeah, but that's daddy. He didn't have a phone most of his life. He didn't have a phone most of his life.

[00:45:13]>> How did you remember when he did? Please tell everyone our whole life he never had a phone.

[00:45:18]>> No. Yeah.

[00:45:19]>> When did he get a phone? Not long ago.

[00:45:21]>> 5 years ago.

[00:45:22]>> Yeah.

[00:45:22]>> He got a phone for the first time with teachers pick up phone. How did he survive? Still to this day, like he doesn't really know how to use his phone. Like it's I get really stressed.

[00:45:32]I'm like how could he not know? Like well obviously I don't I'm patient with him. You know why? Cuz I always think like how hard is is it for us to do certain things on Tik Tok. I do content on Tik Tok and then I accidentally delete it.

[00:45:45]>> I It's so hard for me to feel my [ __ ] Tik Tok. Finn non-stop like you need to do Tik Toks. You need to do Tik Tok.

[00:45:52]>> Sometimes I do something and I delete it or like I end up posting it. They're like, "Fuck, I've posted or it's just so for me overwhelming." Yeah. Like Tik Toks. Now there's this whole new Instagram instant snaps, right? And it's in the corner of my DMs and I don't understand it as well.

[00:46:09]>> I don't know how to do it. I don't understand how to use it. Like I'm confused like with this little thing that's there like what do you do? It's >> freaking me out watching me.

[00:46:17]>> I don't understand it. And I think it's so hard for me to understand this. I'm sure 12 year olds, 12 year olds, 11 year olds are already snapping on on Instagram.

[00:46:25]>> Instance, >> instance, whatever it's called. So, it's like the same thing's happening, but to us, >> yeah, we need to jump on it, Anna.

[00:46:34]>> I can't.

[00:46:34]>> We need to learn.

[00:46:37]>> So, you see what I mean?

[00:46:38]>> Yeah. Phones are doing their own.

[00:46:40]>> Imagine 20 years there's going to be so much [ __ ] that me and you aren't going to be able to use or know. It's confusing. Like, >> confusing. confusing. Like I just think it's the same [ __ ] I feel almost sorry for our parents cuz they grew up in a time where there was none of this [ __ ] and now they're having to learn how to do all this stuff and they believe every post that they see on Instagram. Even I do. So do you blame them? I watch a whole video then I find out it's AI.

[00:47:05]>> Yeah.

[00:47:06]>> You know, so it's like I'm trying to book appointment the blood test with the doctors. It's become so [ __ ] confusing. I'm like trying to book a they're like you have to scan this QR code to book a blood test with the hospital scanning the QR code. I have to sign in with my NHS login. I don't know my NHS number. I don't know my NHS login. So then I'm trying to log in and it's like sending me a code to my old telephone number.

[00:47:30]I don't have that.

[00:47:31]>> And there's a [ __ ] clown >> and I'm like what are old people doing?

[00:47:35]They want to book a blood test cuz if I can't [ __ ] get through and book a blood test, what are older people doing?

[00:47:41]M >> it's a madness. I literally I'm scared.

[00:47:43]My biggest fear is being 85 dying and there's no one to come and clean my house or or change my nappy >> and I don't think you good technology.

[00:47:52]>> It's one of my fears.

[00:47:54]>> I think you know this cloud thing really makes me feel uncomfortable. My life is on a cloud.

[00:47:57]>> Yeah. Everything's on the cloud.

[00:47:58]>> Every time I look at every time I look at the sky, I feel like it's my nudes are there.

[00:48:04]>> And then apparently like it's not even on your phone. It's on the cloud. And then like you know I I thought Yeah. For example, you know the guy who created the cloud and [ __ ] >> Yeah.

[00:48:13]>> Or the guy who created Facebook and [ __ ] What's the name? Mark Zuckeraka.

[00:48:16]>> And then there's all these people like Steve Jobs's people. He's dead now, isn't he? But his I don't know predecessors. Whatever. Is Steve Jobs dead?

[00:48:22]>> I think so. Anyway, so >> they're like tech geniuses.

[00:48:26]>> Yeah.

[00:48:27]>> They can like look into anyone's iCloud.

[00:48:29]Like we're calling we're talking about coding geniuses.

[00:48:33]>> Yeah.

[00:48:33]>> That who can hack anything anywhere like enter any system who it's their database. Imagine being Kim Kardashian.

[00:48:41]I I wouldn't feel comfortable having a cloud.

[00:48:44]She probably doesn't have one. That's what I thought. She must have these encrypted drug dealer phones and like there's no way she's got screenshots of her group chat and her titties out on the cloud because if Mark Zuckerberg wants to wank over Kim Kardash's titties, Mark Zuckerberg could just go and wank over Kim Kardashian's titties.

[00:49:00]>> He's got a wife, Mandy.

[00:49:02]Have you seen his wife? She ain't Kashian.

[00:49:05]>> That's so mean.

[00:49:06]>> Just saying. What? I I wouldn't feel comfortable with my [ __ ] being on the cloud. I preferred it when it was back in the day Motorola on my device.

[00:49:13]>> Motorola's BB BBM. But do you know what it is? I think if he did that and he's he hacked into Kim Kardashian's cloud, he can't leak it >> cuz his whole livelihood and his can look at it. He might just before his death just leaked everyone's [ __ ] >> Oh yeah, that could be a thing. Do you know what I mean?

[00:49:30]>> Yeah. But then his kids won't get his, you know, success >> cuz no one will trust it anymore and then he'll his kids will go broke. I don't think they'd ever go broke. They were billions and billions and billions and billions and billions. They won't be billionaires anymore.

[00:49:44]This is a really brain dead conversation.

[00:49:46]>> I know. Really? Two. Our last two brain cells are carrying this podcast.

[00:49:49]>> That is one trolling comment. I will never forget this podcast. I was like, they're two like my last two brain cells.

[00:49:55]>> Yeah, I funny.

[00:49:56]>> That was a great trolling.

[00:49:57]>> Great trolling. We do another trolling episode.

[00:49:59]>> Yeah.

[00:49:59]>> So, we've done two dilemas. We're going to go on.

[00:50:01]>> I don't think we can even call this episode like a dilemma. Like we can't call this a dilemma episode because we've done two dilemma.

[00:50:07]>> Yeah. Now we're going to go up cuz I wanted to really go through these.

[00:50:11]>> But at least I gave you some really interesting things to talk about. I think about the AI.

[00:50:15]>> What you told me about the everyone getting the same pay and stuff. That's interesting. I'm going to think about that.

[00:50:19]>> Elon Musk comes across like a proper drippy like he has loads of kids and he's like and he's just constantly keeps having loads of kids. You don't think a genius would do that, right? You know what I mean? A tech genius. Why not?

[00:50:33]I don't know. You just wouldn't think.

[00:50:34]You just wouldn't, right? Like you would associate not putting a condom condom on with someone who's quite dumb. You know what I mean?

[00:50:43]>> I wouldn't but okay.

[00:50:45]>> I would like I I would think like he's thinking, "Nah, you know, I'm a billionaire. I'm Elon Musk. Let me wrap it up." You know what I mean? Reading.

[00:50:51]>> Oh, is it like different baby moms?

[00:50:53]Think so.

[00:50:54]>> Okay.

[00:50:55]>> Oh my god. You know what? I just want to make sure now. One second. I don't even know that Elon Musk had loads of kids.

[00:51:01]don't know anything about him to be honest. How many kids does Elon Musk have and does he have a relationship with them and how many different baby mothers and how much is he worth? I just want to quickly know this before I carry on talking about him. Come on chat GBT.

[00:51:13]I love you. Elon Musk currently has 14 children that are publicly known about.

[00:51:19]Um he's had children with four different baby mas. So 14 divided by four. Some reports say there's five different baby mas.

[00:51:30]So rich, just shut up, [ __ ] Don't talk about this. Take the money. You know what I mean? Like these girls hit the jackpot. Lottery.

[00:51:36]>> He's like had three with each.

[00:51:38]>> Yeah. Three or four with each baby mom.

[00:51:42]I don't know how much of a relationship you could have with 14 children, especially when you're like a huge businessman that's so busy.

[00:51:50]>> Yeah. Do you know what I mean?

[00:51:51]>> That's the thing. When you have that many kids, like can you have that much of a good relationship with all of them?

[00:51:55]You can if you're just chilling at home like the village the >> I was watching t I've been you know I've watched all that Tyson Fury's Netflix documentary they've got seven kids he's got a good relationship with all of them but >> like for example I think like >> he lives with them as well lives with them yeah but with mom and dad like they they have like 10 siblings each of them right no yeah mom's got like one two three four like five sisters Right.

[00:52:26]Mom's got five sisters and she had three brothers and she's the ninth. Nine kids.

[00:52:30]>> Bloody hell, man.

[00:52:32]>> Yeah. And I think that that is the thing like do you think they had enough of that much of a close relationship? Each one of mommy and her siblings had their own person that breastfeeded them.

[00:52:43]Exactly.

[00:52:44]>> I do think that's a thing. I don't There's no way our relationship with our mom is the same as her relationship with her mom. Yeah. She even says that. She admits it.

[00:52:53]>> Yeah.

[00:52:54]>> But anyway, he comes across like a bit drippy. Like, have you not seen his clips where he's like makes faces at like presidential meetings and he's like meeting with huge powerful people and they're like trying to take a picture of him? He's like, >> well, maybe is he autistic though?

[00:53:09]>> I don't know. But he's a genius as well.

[00:53:11]Yeah. But a lot of autistic people are geniuses.

[00:53:13]>> Yeah.

[00:53:14]>> And when he speaks though in interviews about AI and about technology, he sounds so intelligent.

[00:53:21]>> Yeah.

[00:53:23]Well, he is he is one of the most intelligent people in the world.

[00:53:26]>> But um >> I don't know how a engagement ring took us to AI and Elon Musk.

[00:53:33]>> This needs to be studied the way we will diverse. This is why I feel like AI might be able to replace a lot of things, but ain't replacing me.

[00:53:43]>> Ain't no damn [ __ ] way.

[00:53:46]>> The diversity of our personalities and our digression from one to another.

[00:53:51]people digress.

[00:53:52]>> Mhm.

[00:53:52]>> I said diverse when it's digress. So they just create a robot like an Anna robot and a manly robot and be like, "Look, you're going to talk loads of [ __ ] and you're just going to jump from subject to subject. One of you is going to be really crazy and funny. One of you is going to be more >> boring. Anna's been calling herself boring for the last whole [ __ ] day.

[00:54:13]It's been winding me up." Well, I'm the boring one. Well, I'm the boring. I'm boring one.

[00:54:19]>> But cuz you're the funny one.

[00:54:21]>> Does that make you the boring one?

[00:54:22]>> Out of us two, I'm the boring one.

[00:54:24]>> I want to hear it.

[00:54:24]>> I get out of us two. Cuz I get compared to you. Should >> I kill myself?

[00:54:28]>> No. This podcast has been quite dark.

[00:54:31]Yeah.

[00:54:32]>> I'm quite >> Don't even make a joke like that. It's not [ __ ] funny.

[00:54:36]>> You started it with your premenopaus and you were like like is my life even my life is not even my life. No way of living.

[00:54:43]>> I never said that.

[00:54:44]>> You were going to say it.

[00:54:45]>> No. No. Anyway, on that note, guys, um yes, we love you.

[00:54:51]>> We love you so much. Thank you for watching. This is a failed dilemma episodes and maybe failed failed terribly. Um we have got loads to get through. So, we'll definitely continue them on We won't continue them. We'll actually do them on Thursday's episode on Patreon. So, make sure you subscribe if you want to listen to some dilemas and make sure you subscribe to this channel and like and comment. We love you guys. Thank you for listening. Bye.