The way you speak to the people who love you most is the truest measure of who you actually are...

Added: 2026-06-02

[00:00:00]No matter what happens, don't become a man who yells at his wife and kids and talks nicely to strangers. See, according to Vedic philosophy, it is your duty as a man to lead your household. Leading a house as a tyrant, yelling at everyone, isn't leadership.

[00:00:13]It's cowardice and it's emotional abuse.

[00:00:15]Your family is part of your sacred duty.

[00:00:18]The Vedas are so clear on this. It is your aligned duty as a man, your dharma, to lead and serve your family in the highest way possible. Using them as an emotional punch bag is against that very sacred duty and it leads to serious negative karmic consequences. Not only are you going against the universe's cosmic order of your sacred duty as a man, but you're also harming the development of your children and disrespecting your wife, the very feminine energy that brings abundance into your life, according to the Vedas.

[00:00:47]Learn to emotionally regulate yourself as a man. Gym, mentors, journaling, therapy, even. Whatever you need to do to be able to lead your family better.