IF YOU'RE OVER 60: 5 MISTAKES Most Retirees Deeply Regret — Most Are Still Making Them Right NOW

Added: 2026-05-23

[00:00:00]37% That is the percentage of Americans who regret claiming Social Security too early. Not a small group, not an edge case.

[00:00:09]More than one in three people who made that decision wish they had made a different one. 70% That is the percentage of Americans turning 65 today who will need some form of long-term care before they die. And 58% of them currently believe Medicare will pay for it. It will not. 1% That is the size of an investment management fee that applied to a $1 million portfolio over 25 years at 7% gross returns can destroy more than half of the original value.

[00:00:35]Not the market, not a bad investment, a fee, a line item in a document most people signed without reading. And there is a form, a single form, that most Americans over 60 have not updated in years. A form that, if it has the wrong name on it, will send your retirement money to the wrong person after you're gone. Regardless of what your will says, regardless of what you intended, mistake number four has done exactly that thousands of times. In documented legal cases decided by the United States Supreme Court, none of these mistakes destroy a retirement overnight. That is precisely why they are dangerous. They work slowly. They are invisible at first. They compound quietly for years before the damage becomes visible.

[00:01:13]And by the time most people discover them, the window to correct them is either closed or become significantly more expensive to open. This video covers five of them. Not in a theoretical sense, with data, with sources, with the specific numbers that tell you exactly how much each mistake costs the people who make it. Stay with me until the end because mistake number five is the one that nobody talks about. And based on current IRS data, it is the one that is quietly destroying more retirement wealth right now than any bear market could. Before we get into the data, I need to describe who this video is actually for. Because it is not for everyone. The person who needs to watch this is someone who did things right.

[00:01:50]You worked for decades. You contributed to the retirement account even during the years when it was not easy. You paid the bills. You raised the family. you made the responsible decision over and over again when the irresponsible option would have been easier. You believe that if you stayed disciplined, if you worked hard, stayed consistent, and kept your financial house in order, retirement would eventually become simpler. And then you got there, or you got close, and something is off. Not dramatically wrong, not the kind of wrong that shows up in a single catastrophic moment, just quietly off. The account balance that does not move the way it should, the monthly cash flow that feels tighter than the plan suggested, the decisions you know you need to make but keep setting aside because the information is complicated and the stakes feel too high to get wrong. You have watched videos, you have read articles, you understand, at least in general terms, what you are supposed to be doing, but nobody has sat down with you and said, "Here are the five specific mistakes that are most likely to permanently damage your retirement. Here is the documented evidence that they happen constantly, and here is what you need to do about each one." That is what the next 30 minutes are.

[00:02:52]Before we get into the data, I want to take a moment to connect with the people watching this. Drop a comment right now.

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[00:03:26]And if you find this kind of content useful, please hit the like button and subscribe. It is the simplest way to tell YouTube that this kind of detailed, data-driven content deserves to reach more people who need it. Uh now let me show you what the research actually says. Here's the thing about retirement mistakes that most content will not tell you directly. The ones that do the most damage rarely feel like mistakes when they happen. They feel like reasonable decisions, they feel like the safe option, they feel like what most people do, which is part of why most people end up regretting them. A 2025 study published in the Journal of Risk and Insurance, based on research by Abigail Hurwitz of the Hebrew University of Jerusalem and Olivia Mitchell of the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania, interviewed 1,612 Americans with an average age of 71.

[00:04:10]The study was designed to measure financial regret at older ages. The findings are not comfortable reading.

[00:04:15]More than half, 52%, said they regretted not saving more. 1/3 said they regretted not buying long-term care insurance.

[00:04:23]Nearly 1 in 5 said they regretted claiming Social Security too early.

[00:04:27]These are not people who made reckless decisions. These are people who worked their entire lives, saved what they could, and made choices that seemed reasonable at the time and are now living with the financial consequences of those choices. The pattern in the data is consistent across studies and across decades.

[00:04:42]Retirement problems rarely begin with one a catastrophic decision. They begin with small assumptions, small delays, small choices that each seem manageable in isolation, and they compound quietly for years before they become visible. A decision made at 62 about Social Security affects every month of income for the rest of your life. A decision not made at 55 about long-term care insurance may be unmakeable at 68 because of health.

[00:05:06]A form that was not updated after a divorce in 2009 may still be directing retirement assets to the wrong person today. The mistakes in this video share a specific characteristic. They are the kind that feel fine in the moment and permanent in hindsight. Before we continue, I want to mention something we recently built. It is called My Money, My Rules, the 7-Day Retirement Savings Plan.

[00:05:27]This is not a book to read. It is a written retirement decision system built around your own numbers.

[00:05:32]The purpose is simple, find mistakes before they become permanent. It works through Social Security blind spots, health care planning gaps, hidden investment fees, beneficiary mistakes, and withdrawal planning issues using your actual situation, not generic examples.

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[00:06:02]Mistake one, claiming Social Security too early.

[00:06:07]37% of Americans regret claiming Social Security early. That number comes from Hartford Funds research drawing on the Herlitz Mitchell study.

[00:06:15]And when you look at what that regret actually costs in dollars, the reason for it becomes very clear.

[00:06:20]Here's how the Social Security timing math works. Your full retirement age, what the Social Security Administration calls your FRA, is 67 if you were born in 1960 or later.

[00:06:31]You can claim as early as 62. You can delay as late as 70.

[00:06:34]If you claim at 62 instead of 67, your monthly benefit is reduced by up to 30% permanently for every month, for the rest of your life. That is not a one-time penalty. That is a permanent reduction applied to every check you receive until you die. If you live to 85, you're paying that 30% penalty for 23 years of monthly income. And if you delay past your full retirement age, your benefit grows by 8% per year until age 70.

[00:07:00]So, the full spread between claiming at 62 versus waiting until 70 is approximately 77% in monthly income. The AARP conducted a survey in 2024 that found 62% of retirees wish they had better understood the claiming calculations before making their decision. 62% more than half.

[00:07:18]And critically, that decision, once made, is almost impossible to undo.

[00:07:23]The Social Security Administration allows a one-time withdrawal of your application within the first 12 months of receiving benefits.

[00:07:29]After that, it is permanent. From January through July of 2025, more than 2.3 million people filed for Social Security retirement benefits, a 16% increase from the same period in 2024, according to the Urban Institute.

[00:07:43]The of Americans claiming later, which had been building for decades, reversed.

[00:07:46]People are claiming earlier. And in two, five, 10 years, a significant portion of them will wish they had not. The question to ask yourself is not whether you need the income right now.

[00:07:56]The question is whether the 30% reduction in every check you will receive for the rest of your life is worth whatever short-term income need is driving the decision to claim early. For most people, the answer is no. Mistake two, not buying long-term care insurance. 1/3 of Americans over 62, in the same Hurwitz Mitchell study, said that if they could do it over, they would have bought long-term care insurance. 1/3.

[00:08:20]That is the most common insurance regret in retirement research. Here is why. The Department of Health and Human Services estimates that 70% of Americans who turn 65 will need some form of long-term care before they die. Not all of them will need nursing home care. Some will need home health aids. Some will need assisted living. But 70% will need some form of sustained care beyond what Medicare covers. And 58% of Americans currently believe Medicare will pay for that care, according to the Nationwide Retirement Institute 2025 Long-Term Care Survey.

[00:08:51]It will not. Medicare covers skilled nursing facility care for up to 100 days, and only after a qualifying three-day inpatient hospital stay, and only for skilled care, not custodial care.

[00:09:03]The daily assistance with bathing, dressing, and eating that constitutes the vast majority of long-term care needs is not covered by Medicare at all.

[00:09:11]Now, look at the current cost.

[00:09:12]CareScout's 2025 Cost of Care Survey, the most comprehensive annual data set on long-term care costs in the United States, documents the national median daily rate for a private nursing home room at $355 per day. That is $129,575 per year. At an average stay of two to two and a half years, that is between $209,000 and $324,000 in total cost.

[00:09:37]The research from JRC Insurance Group documents that approximately 48% of single individuals exhaust their entire savings within the first year of entering a nursing home. Within the first year. And here is the trap that most people do not see coming until it is too late. Long-term care insurance premiums are based on your health at the time of application. If you apply at 60, the premiums are significantly lower than at 68. And you are far more likely to qualify.

[00:10:02]JRC Insurance's 2025 data shows that approximately 50% of applicants between the ages of 70 and 79 are denied coverage entirely due to health issues.

[00:10:12]The window to buy this insurance is not unlimited. It is tied to your health.

[00:10:16]And health, unlike income or savings, is something you cannot plan your way back to once it is gone. Mistake three, paying high investment fees without knowing it.

[00:10:27]This is the mistake that does not feel like a mistake because it never appears as a single line item that you consciously pay.

[00:10:33]It is invisible. It happens automatically every month, year after year.

[00:10:38]And most people who are paying it do not know the dollar amount. Here is what the data says. The Securities and Exchange Commission has published a straightforward comparison.

[00:10:45]A $100,000 investment earning 4% annually with a 0.25% annual fee, it grows to approximately $208,000 over 20 years. With a 1% annual fee, it grows to approximately $179,000.

[00:11:00]The difference is $29,000. Not from a market loss, from a fee. Now, scale that to a retirement account of meaningful size.

[00:11:08]The Department of Labor's own published analysis states that a 1% difference in annual fees reduces a retirement account balance by approximately 28% over 20 years. 28% of $400,000 is $112,000.

[00:11:23]Gone. Not to a market crash, not to a bad investment decision, to a management fee. But the number that should truly stop you is this one from Golden Reserve's fee analysis using industry standard assumptions. A $1 million portfolio, 7% gross annual returns, 1% annual management fee. Over 25 years, the fee structure consumes approximately 55% of the original portfolio value, more than half. And the Mercer Retirement Readiness Barometer found that investors paying the median level of investment fees, in their analysis, 1.9%, would not be retirement ready until age 70, 4 years later than the traditional retirement age of 65. 4 years of additional work because of fees. About half of Americans are concerned about investment fees, according to McKinsey's 2025 analysis. The concern is justified, but concern without action does not reduce fees. The action required is simple. Contact every financial institution where you hold retirement assets. Ask this question in writing.

[00:12:19]What is the total annual cost of holding these assets with you, in dollars, not percentages. If any institution cannot answer that question clearly, you have learned something important about how transparent their fee structure is designed to be. Mistake four, not updating beneficiary designations.

[00:12:35]This is the mistake I mentioned in the opening of this video, the one that has sent retirement money to the wrong person thousands of times.

[00:12:42]And it is worth spending a moment on a specific legal case that documents exactly how this happens. In 2009, the United States Supreme Court decided Kennedy versus Plan Administrator for DuPont Savings and Investment Plan.

[00:12:53]William Kennedy had named his wife, Liv, as the sole beneficiary of his DuPont retirement plan.

[00:12:59]They divorced. The divorce decree stated that Liv had waived her rights to William's retirement benefits. William never updated the beneficiary designation on his retirement account.

[00:13:07]When William died, DuPont followed this beneficiary designation on file and paid the full retirement account to his ex-wife, despite the divorce, despite the decree, despite whatever William's will said about his wishes.

[00:13:18]The Supreme Court ruled in favor of DuPont. The beneficiary designation controlled.

[00:13:23]The divorce decree did not. The will did not. This is not a legal edge case. This is the law.

[00:13:28]Beneficiary designations on retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and bank accounts override your will in 100% of cases. There is no exception. And there is a specific error that estate planning experts document constantly.

[00:13:42]Retirees assume that updating their trust or their will automatically updates the beneficiary designations on their IRA or 401k. It does not. These are separate legal documents. Updating one has no effect on the other. The situations that most commonly result in this mistake are divorce and remarriage, where a former spouse remains listed, death of a named beneficiary, where no contingent beneficiary has been named and the account falls into probate, and the passage of time, where an account opened 30 years ago still reflects decisions made when circumstances were entirely different.

[00:14:13]The correction for this mistake takes between 15 and 30 minutes for most accounts.

[00:14:17]Most retirement account custodians allow beneficiary updates online. It does not require a lawyer. It does not require a fee.

[00:14:24]It requires looking at the current designation on each account you hold and confirming it reflects your current intentions. If you have not done this in the past 2 years, you do not know what it says. Mistake five, not doing Roth conversions during the gap years. This is the mistake that is most invisible while it is happening and the most permanent once the window closes. Here is the structure. When you retire, whether it's 60, 62, or 65, your taxable income typically drops significantly.

[00:14:50]You are no longer earning a salary. If you are not yet claiming social security, your income may be at the lowest point it will be for the rest of your life. This period between retirement and age 73, when required minimum distributions from traditional retirement accounts begin, is what tax planners call the gap years.

[00:15:06]Under Secure 2.0, the RMD start age is now 73 for anyone who turns 73 in 2023 or later. When RMDs begin, you are required to take taxable distributions from your traditional IRA and 401k every year, whether you need the income or not. Those distributions are added to your taxable income. They can push you into a higher bracket. They can trigger taxes on up to 85% of your Social Security income. They can cause Medicare IRMAA surcharges based on a two-year look back on your income. The gap years between retirement and age 73 are the window where you can convert traditional IRA funds to a Roth IRA at a lower tax rate than you will face once RMDs begin.

[00:15:45]You pay the tax now at a lower rate. The Roth grows tax-free. It has no RMDs during lifetime, and it passes to your heirs tax-free. The Income Laboratory's 2026 Roth Conversion Analysis describes this plainly. For a retiree at 62 with a substantial traditional IRA and no earned income, the gap years represent what they call the single most valuable tax planning opportunity they will ever have. One case study from the financial planning literature illustrates the scale. A married couple age 69 planned $260,000 in Roth conversions over four years, filling their 22% bracket while staying below Medicare IRMAA thresholds.

[00:16:21]The projected result was tax savings of over $185,000 and a substantially lower RMD burden through their 80s. The window for this strategy is not theoretical. It is tied to a specific birthday, age 73.

[00:16:35]Once RMDs begin, they fill your lower tax brackets automatically. The opportunity to convert at a favorable rate closes, not gradually, definitively. The question is not whether Roth conversions are a good idea in the abstract. The question is whether you have modeled your specific situation, your current balance, your projected RMDs, your current bracket, and made a written decision about what to do in the years you still have available. Most people have not, and the years pass faster than the strategy feels urgent.

[00:17:00]Here's the problem.

[00:17:02]Everything you just heard is information, and information alone does not prevent mistakes. The retiree who claimed Social Security too early did not lack information about the 30% reduction. The retiree who never updated a beneficiary designation was not unaware that beneficiary forms exist.

[00:17:17]The gap between knowing and doing is not an information problem. It is a system problem. When you do not have a written process for reviewing your retirement decisions, when there is no structured day by which you have looked at your fees, your designations, your health care planning, your withdrawal strategy, the decisions that need to be made get replaced by the decisions that are easier to postpone.

[00:17:37]That is what My Money My Rules was built to solve, not as a book about retirement theory, as a written 7-day decision system you work through using your own numbers. Day one is the financial x-ray. You map exactly where your money is, what it is doing, and what it is costing.

[00:17:52]Day two is the fee audit. You calculate the actual dollar amount of every fee you're paying, not percentages, dollars.

[00:17:59]Day three is the spending audit. You identify the costs that are draining retirement savings in ways that have never been calculated. Day four is the family transfer audit.

[00:18:08]You look at what is flowing out to adult children and family members, and what that number means over 10 and 20 years.

[00:18:13]Day five is health care planning. You map your actual exposure to long-term care costs against your current plan for covering them.

[00:18:20]Day six is withdrawal strategy. You model your IRA and social security decisions in sequence, including the Roth conversion window and the RMD impact. Day seven is the written action plan.

[00:18:30]You produce a single document that summarizes every finding and every decision, with the professional meeting checklist and the specific questions to bring to your advisor, your CPA, and your estate attorney. Seven days, 30 minutes each day.

[00:18:43]By the end, you will have done what most retirees never do. A complete, honest, written audit of where the mistakes are and what to do about each one before they become permanent. Here is what the data shows about people who watch videos like this one. Most already know, as they are watching, that at least one of the five mistakes applies to them. They recognize themselves in the social security section.

[00:19:03]Or they thought about the beneficiary form they filled out 14 years ago and have not looked at since.

[00:19:09]Or they realized they do not actually know the dollar amount of the fees they are paying, only the percentages.

[00:19:15]The problem is not awareness. Awareness is not the bottleneck. The bottleneck is the gap between recognizing a problem and sitting down with the specific numbers to do something about it. The gap has a cost. Every year that passes without the Social Security calculation modeled is another year the decision might be made by default rather than by design. Every year without the beneficiary designations reviewed is another year the wrong name may be on the form. Every year the Roth conversion window is available and unused is a year of lower bracket space that cannot be recovered. The Nationwide Retirement Institute study, released in early 2026, found that 55% of Americans who retired in the last 5 years have regrets about how they saved for retirement. 55% more than half within 5 years of retiring.

[00:19:58]Those regrets did not begin at retirement. They began years earlier with decisions that felt fine at the time and with decisions that were postponed until the window to make them well had quietly closed. You are watching this before that window closes.

[00:20:10]That matters. Let me ask you a direct question. If claiming Social Security too early permanently reduces your monthly income by 30% for the rest of your life, what is the cost of not running that calculation before you file? If long-term care costs more than $129,000 per year and Medicare does not cover it, what is the cost of not having a plan for how that gets paid?

[00:20:31]If one forgotten beneficiary form overrides your will and sends your retirement assets to someone you did not intend, what is the cost of not looking at that form this week? If the Roth conversion window closes permanently when your RMDs begin at age 73, what is the cost of not modeling that decision in the years you still have available? These are not hypothetical risks. They are documented. They happen to people who did everything else right.

[00:20:54]They happen to people who saved, who planned, who were responsible for decades. The difference between the retirees in those studies who made these mistakes and the ones who did not was not intelligence. It was not discipline.

[00:21:05]It was whether they had a written system that walked them through the specific decisions before the windows closed. My money, my rules.

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[00:21:56]Before you close this video, I want to ask you one question. Which of the five mistakes surprised you the most? Number one, Social Security timing.

[00:22:05]Number two, long-term care insurance.

[00:22:07]Number three, hidden investment fees.

[00:22:09]Number four, beneficiary designations.

[00:22:12]Number five, Roth conversion window.

[00:22:14]Drop the number in the comments below.

[00:22:16]Not primarily because engagement helps the channel, though it does, but because writing down which one applies to your situation is the first step toward doing something about it.

[00:22:25]The comment section of this video is the beginning of the audit. And if this video gave you something concrete, share it with one person over 60 who has not seen it because the data shows that most people in that group are making at least one of these five mistakes right now.

[00:22:39]And the cost of finding out later is always higher than the cost of finding out today.