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Added: 2026-05-17

[00:00:00]It's not looking good by Asmongold. So, look at this right here. The Americans married by age 30. So, in 1975, 91% of women were married. 91% were married in 90 1975. Now, it's 25%.

[00:00:18]So, you've had more than a 50% drop in mar- Like, this is I mean, this This is crazy. That's insane. If you look at this much of a drop-off, this much of a fall-off, oh my [ __ ] god. So, anyway, look at married at 81%. So, men are always going to be lower for obvious reasons. But, you look at right here, uh 37% and then at 2025, 16% of men are married now. Only 16% by age 30. That is [ __ ] crazy. So, uh is it religious intermingling? So, why is this happening? I think I think that there's a lot of reasons why it happens. Um like, what caused this? So, let let's see what people are saying. And [snorts] my great-grandfather, seven kids. My grandfather, four kids. My father, two kids. Me, a cat. My cat is now [laughter] neutered.

[00:01:11]Oh, no.

[00:01:14]It's the end, right? Yep. So, uh why did this happen? I mean, I I think like I mean, everybody has a different reason for like not getting married. Uh I think that nowadays, one of the big reasons why it's so low cuz you look at like Look at how fast it went down. You have a go from like 77 to like I guess 50.

[00:01:33]guess actually that's about the same drop. Uh but, um either way, um you you have it drop so much, I think, right now, it's because of technology. I think that's a big reason. I think also like culturally, it's harder to spend money.

[00:01:46]Like, you know, you go out on a date and this is like probably like I saw something that said a millennial date is like 200 and something uh dollars in order to go out, right?

[00:01:56]>> Yeah. so, anyway, 1970 says an awful economy, bro.

[00:01:59]>> Yeah, maybe that's it. I don't know.

[00:02:01]Yeah, well, if you go somewhere nice, it is like that much, yeah. Cuz I'm like thinking I'm like calculating in my head right now. Yeah, it's about yeah, you go like to like a nice nice dinner and a movie, it's about 200, yeah. That's not it's not wrong for two people. That's that's assuming you go to like a nice place, not like the Olive Garden, right?

[00:02:18]Like we're talking about like you know, like a like a like a place that like if you really wanted them to impress a girl, like where you would take her, right?

[00:02:27]I mean, I still think that Aslin Golf has the right idea. You should just take your girl to freaking Taco Bell.

[00:02:34]>> [laughter] >> Because then you can tell a lot by that, right? Or like maybe okay, let's just let's be a little bit fair, okay? Like maybe you take her to like Culver's. You know, Culver's or like Chick-fil-A, right? Or you that's a good one, Cheesecake Factory. You can do Cheesecake Factory. It's a little bit better than than Olive Garden. Yeah, you know, like you don't have to take her somewhere like that's like super expensive like a super expensive restaurants you know, or you know what you think of KBBQ? That's 40 a person.

[00:02:59]It's a 40 and then it's like 80 tax and tip, it's like a 100, movie tickets 120.

[00:03:05]It's a lot cheaper a lot cheaper than dude, how much are movie tickets nowadays? I don't know. I like a membership thing, so I don't really pay for movie tickets anymore. But you >> [snorts] >> Hello but $10 on average, it's yeah, so $17?

[00:03:24]Dude, you're That's so expensive. KBBQ is like 30 bucks, right? 35 or something? 70, tax and tip brings you like 90. Yeah, you're going to end up spending 130, 140 for like gas and then going to the movie. Oh, you'll probably get some popcorn, too, right? No, you just ate, you don't need popcorn. I don't know, actually probably probably still want popcorn. [ __ ] >> I don't know. People are commenting a lot which is like being married. Yeah, but it's it that's not being >> snacks, student me too, man. You know what you do Aussie? You go to like Costco, you get the $1.50 Costco hot dog, you have to sneak it in your bag, take it into the movie theater. Married, right? It's obviously not. I'm engaged in my 30s, women are absolute trash and it took forever to find one. Reagan no-fault divorce. I mean, I do think that allowing people to get easy divorces, I mean like do we want to go back to the days where the way to get a divorce is to kill your spouse, right? I mean cuz that's what they used to do.

[00:04:21]And like that was like kind of you know, like the get out of jail, well I mean ironically get out of jail free card is like how do you how do you get out of a marriage that you don't like? Well, you kill your spouse, right? That's the solution. And I I I I I think the Oh, actually hmm hmm is it was that really common before? I'd have to look I I mean why don't we look at this? Like what are the stats on this? Um let's see. Most people are not psychos. Yeah, I I I I don't know. Because I I think that no-fault divorce it it it definitely is a very very bad um it's a very abusable system because no-fault divorce lets a woman basically take half of the man's [ __ ] and then force him to pay for her.

[00:05:01]Strict as spousal homicide accounts, small statistically insignificant effects on the number of wives. Small and statistically insignificant effects on the number of wives that were killed by husbands. However, unilateral divorce was associated with approximately 21% increase in the number of husbands killed by wives. The increase concentrated in states where marital property division laws favored husbands.

[00:05:25]But the problem is like the the the amount isn't that high in the first place. Like we're talking like 19 people. 19 19 people 19 wives and 17 husbands killed in the state per year.

[00:05:37]So like the number isn't really that high. No-fault divorce reduced spousal murders of women and domestic violence overall. Evidence on murders of men is mixed but not indicative of a broad increase in the longer term.

[00:05:50]Interesting. So, uh sounds good. Yes, definitely. Uh but anyway, uh I I I I I I I I But the the the see there has to be a way to de-incentivize like like a woman from basically just divorcing a a dude like after like a woman just divorcing a dude to take half of his [ __ ] and have him pay for her while she [ __ ] off with some other dude. There needs to be like a I don't know what that is. I don't really know. I I do think that like divorce being super easy to do and marriage and everything. I think that overall like right now there is a lot of people on the internet that and I think that the internet kind of uh like So so one thing though all right so I was thinking about this right? One one effect one effect right is like if if you have a case in which there's a man and a woman that you know that are married and then the man is partaking in all of the um this goes into the sword and shield relationship thing. If the man is the one doing all of the the higher risk higher reward stuff and is increasing his own value via um like the woman is spending all the time like you know taking care of the house and then doing like some other jobs, taking care of the kids and then the husband is working on things that increase his own personal value outside of it like training uh training experience right? When they split up that puts a that puts the man at that puts the woman at a disadvantage typically. Right but I I mean obviously it would be flipped if if if or the other way around if like the man was at home right? Then then it would be flipped. It's not really necessarily like gendered it's just typically. Right it's like the for the same reason that you can't you cannot bankrupt out of a a tuition. It So like it it would be unfair to whichever spouse was the one at home. So it's like there's there's more to it than just like oh like fully split them up split them apart and like not have to pay anything. Like there's there's obviously um other reasons behind it.

[00:07:44]>> It it elevates this more than it actually is is that people on the internet like there's a lot of gender wars and like men versus have it so you need fault for alimony. See like I agree with that, but again, we're looking at the the homicide rates, right? But I mean maybe like it's so small that it doesn't matter, right? That could be like another thing. Like maybe you would look into the data of the amount of people that are affected negatively by no-fault divorce and then like maybe you could say there's a certain amount of people dying that's like worth it. I I don't know. It's kind of I I I'd have to do more research. It's something I would need like to do more research >> Women are bad, men are bad, right? I mean like women are [ __ ] men are rapists, like everything, right? And so you have these these things going on, but the reality is that if you go outside and you like I mean I can only speak for myself.

[00:08:36]>> the problem is like it disincentivizes men from getting married. It it it further perpetuates like the the system of like just [ __ ] around and like never ever tie yourself down because it because there's too much risk. It's too much risk if the woman can just [ __ ] you over basically. If the woman can just say like, you know, actually actually I like the dude down the street or, you know, actually my my childhood crush called me up and like you know was interested in me. So like, you know, I I'm kind of done with this and then give me half of your [ __ ] and also pay me.

[00:09:05]Right? The the it gets kind of ridiculous at that point.

[00:09:09]>> speak for like, you know, what my opinions are and what my friends are.

[00:09:12]Every single guy that I know is married basically. Uh either some of them are divorced, okay, to be fair. Um but they have all been married except for like I'm not even kidding you like one person. Like if I really have to think about this like same? Yeah. And so like cuz I grew up like I mean I grew up in a time >> No, I I I I actually know this. I I know this. Uh blinded journeyman in the room kick. I I I I've known this, but the the thing that you have to throw it against, right, is again the case where the the the partner that is actually going out and working, they're increasing personal value. Like significantly more than the person that is at home. So, like if in the in the inverse situation in which like the man dumps the woman, right, then that would have like a different that would have also a negative effect, right, on on women wanting to get married as well.

[00:10:05]Or, you know, half of my friends were online, half weren't. And just overall statistics should be by age 35 by nowadays. Yeah, I would say so. You?

[00:10:13]Well, no, no, I mean, besides me, right?

[00:10:15]Besides me. Like my friend Eric is My friend Eric isn't married. He's just been engaged to the same girl that he's been dating for 12 years, okay? So, I don't know what that means.

[00:10:26]I I I I don't I don't know what he's doing. I have no idea. Why don't you marry her? I I Look, guys, who the [ __ ] knows. But, yeah, that's the one that I'm counting that isn't married, okay?

[00:10:37]He's smart. If No, no, you're not smart.

[00:10:41]Like if it doesn't matter. It's not it.

[00:10:44]They're both doing very well. Don't let his girl see this. Uh-huh, yeah, right.

[00:10:48]And he's just leasing. Yeah, it's a pretty long lease. And that's like a rent-to-own type of thing, right? And so, he doesn't want to commit. Maybe. I I I really have no idea. He's got tons of money now, too. He's like a works in IT. And so, he's doing very well financially. And so, anyway, um So, he he he's the only person I know that isn't married. Everybody else that I know has either been married or ended up, you know, like or still is married, right? So, I find it to be kind of odd that like the numbers are so low. I really do. That's insane.

[00:11:19]16%, which is weird to me because as I said, everybody that I know is basically married. But, to be fair, I mean, I'm 35, right? So, my friends have been usually about 30 for like 5 years. How many of them were married by 30? I would say like 60%, 70%, something like that.

[00:11:38]So, maybe I just have like a unique sample size, but that's about it. Are they Catholics?

[00:11:42]Uh no, I I think that like you have a pretty big like I would say that it's generally between uh Christian, Catholic, and atheist or agnostic. Like that would be pretty much the majority.

[00:11:54]Yeah, I I'd say so, definitely. Maybe a couple of uh you know, friends that I have that are Muslim, but they're also married, too. So, yeah, you can correlate it to online only socialization. Well, I I was going to say that, but I don't think that you're right because look at these number disparities. 1985, 2005, everybody wasn't online. Like 2005, most people still didn't have the internet in their home. Let me just look this up and make sure that my general statement is true.

[00:12:25]In 2005, what percentage of households had the internet? I'm going to say 30 to 40%. Probably closer to 30%.

[00:13:05]Wow. You know what? Internet access. Oh, this is oh, internet access is very different, right? Households in Is this internet access lived in a household Internet access. Okay, okay. So, no, wow. I guess I underestimated it. I I dramatically did. And so I guess we we lived in a working class neighborhood so people couldn't afford the internet, right? So you know, a little bit off on that one. So that's why I looked and anyway, it was on dial-up though. And so anyway, the reason why I think is like 2005 you didn't have a lot of dating websites, right? Like I mean I remember like there was this this really big like love movie and it was called You've Got Mail. Yeah.

[00:13:52]>> And it was like about two people that were emailing each other back and forth and I fell in love. And this was like a crazy like this story was like her for like 2000 and like three or something like that. Where it's like, okay, well now that's normalized where as like people are like, well Joaquin Phoenix falls in love with a [ __ ] robot?

[00:14:11]There's no way that's going to happen, right? There's no way that people are just going to start dating a robot.

[00:14:17]What's up, S-Fan?

[00:14:18]>> [laughter] >> And so yeah. And I think that's really the difference, right? Three month yeah, three weeks AOL. Do you guys remember in Blockbuster where you would get the AOL CDs? I remember I was in middle school and we would take the CDs and you would go to Blockbuster. It was the pipeline, right?

[00:14:36]And so This is the this is the pipeline, right?

[00:14:40]>> Going going to Blockbuster. Okay. So you have right here, let me see if I can find it. Am I the only one? Blockbuster home.

[00:14:50]>> [laughter] >> What is this here?

[00:14:54]What about an AOL free trial?

[00:14:57]>> Yeah, I mean this is >> [laughter] >> Am I the only ONE, GUYS?

[00:15:02]>> [laughter] >> SURELY I'M NOT THE ONLY GUY, RIGHT? I mean come on. It made cool colors. Yeah, I mean what do you mean? [laughter] So it's cool to prison? You you could also throw them like ninja stars, you know? And then you go to jail. Like exactly. And forgot Frisbees? Yeah, I don't even know if we did that. And uh Netscape CDs as well. Well, anyway, so, you know, I think that a lot of people stopped getting married because number one, I think that there was a lot of like kind of narratives about like marriage, like somebody gets like my dad would tell me about, you know, how annoying it was that you know, my dad had like he had to give over like, you know, this is in like the 1990s, like >> No, you know what was super [ __ ] clutch, dude? Is like if you had um parents that didn't want you to like use the internet, what was clutch is like you would get those Net Zero CDs, and then you would um you would go on Net Zero. So, like they would like lock out your account off the internet, and then you would Net Zero it. So, it's like so you could get back in, you know? a thousand dollars to like my mom whenever he got divorced because like my dad made a lot of money he made a lot of money.

[00:16:11]>> if you were a real rascal like me, you keylog your dad's computer. Yeah, I'm sorry, Dad. I did that.

[00:16:17]>> [laughter] >> I keylogged the computer. I knew all your passwords.

[00:16:22]>> [laughter] >> And so, he's like, "Can you imagine, you know, having all your money cut in half just to give it to to Shell, which is my mom, for her to sit on her [ __ ] ass and smoke cigarettes and play video games and do [ __ ] nothing? Meanwhile, I bust MY ASS GOING TO work every day, right? The man always loses." Exactly.

[00:16:42]And so, anyway, that's what it was. And so, Net Zero, too. And then she wasted all the money, by the way. She wasted all of the money >> Net Zero was good [ __ ] >> uh you know, [ __ ] candy. Like she's she didn't get a job for like fifth Like basically, she went from basically living off like being married to my dad, living off of my dad. Well, the first she lived as an adult with with with her dad, my grandfather, Grampy. She was living with Grampy.

[00:17:11]>> [snorts] >> And and then finally, my dad then picks her up and takes her to his house, and then she's living in his house, and then they get divorced, then she's living on his money.

[00:17:23]Then after that, after that runs out, then she's living on the government's money. And then after the government money runs out, then she's living on my money.

[00:17:33]That was it. That was the whole That's the entire thing.

[00:17:37]>> [laughter] >> That was the whole time. Classic women.

[00:17:40]Exactly, what a life. And yeah, where's the dowry? I want And yeah, honestly like my my grandpa was actually very I my Oh jeez, like I I don't even know if I want to say that. Never mind.

[00:17:55]Cuz I know some of my other extended family might hear this. But anyway, what is this here? [laughter] You see Trump is suspending federal gas taxes. No, I didn't see that. Is it another way to like make gas prices go down? Yeah, I mean that's obviously a good thing, for sure. And say it. Okay, well some of the different older people like [ __ ] my my great aunt liked my dad more than my mom, even though my mom was their family. They >> [laughter] >> They overwhelmingly liked my dad more.

[00:18:24]And so Cuz they they were mad because my mom wouldn't [ __ ] do anything. She wouldn't get a job. She wouldn't do [ __ ] All she wanted to do is sit around and do art and write poetry and smoke weed and play video games. And like at the time, she didn't have video games.

[00:18:39]So it was just smoking weed and doing poetry. Video games came in and it was like, "Holy [ __ ] Oh man, what did she play? Where have you been all my life?

[00:18:48]And so that was it, man. And my mom was a degenerate, she was. And anyway, we have that in my family. My brother is the black sheep of my family. Yeah, definitely.

[00:18:58]She hit maximum wow. Damn.

[00:19:00]>> And anyway, so yeah, so I I do think that definitely there's like a generational trauma with like people that don't want to get married because their parents got divorced and then their parents had like a messy divorce or a problematic divorce and it caused them to think like okay well you know I don't want to get married because I know how it turned out with my parents and like I don't want to have that happen to me. I'll be honest like that that thought has crossed my mind many times especially when I was younger like I was thinking to myself like my parents are married for like 20 years or something like that and then they got divorced. It's like can you imagine having to deal with that? You're you're locked in for 20 years and then things change. Holy [ __ ] man that would be so upsetting that would be awful. So I think that's another big reason why there's less marriages and I think that you obviously have like all the normal reasons like men are all men are fuckboys all women are only fans girls all women do is eat hot chip and lie.

[00:20:01]You know all men do is play video games and lie. Like I do think that like internet gender dynamics have made it worse but like from 1985 to 2005 it was the same drop off than from 2005 to 2025.

[00:20:15]Just look at the numbers here actually it was a bigger drop off from 85 to 2005. It's already declining you can >> I don't really think it's that it's not that big of a thing right and prom also a porn yeah I think having having online porn helps a lot right you don't need to think about real women whenever you can just you know jerk off to fake ones definitely.

[00:20:39]I know we all everybody we all we all you know everybody knows. And so gold diggers I don't think that a lot of women I I feel Like what what was there?

[00:20:48]I mean I guess you could say birth control was a big one like the birth control being like readily available to everybody that was like a big one and maybe like changing women's brains as well cuz if you think about this right this doesn't really matter that much like I'm going to be real The actually no, that's not No, it is kind of true. Men men do get keep the commitment. So but will it goes kind of both ways because if a woman doesn't want to get tied down either, then it doesn't matter. So yeah, like I mean I know I think it's birth control to be honest.

[00:21:23]>> This is something that a lot of guys I think have like an unrealistic like fear of that women want to date men just for the money. I think that a lot of women want to date men that are financially secure. Now, why is that? It's because that they're great times, you know, to the power of infinity ancestor, you know, the the cavewoman decided to mate with the guy that was able to actually catch the deer. And the guy that was able to catch the deer had enough meat to feed the family so their kids didn't die and those kids are your great ancestors. So I think that there's a lot of like See there first birth control pills 1960. But then it would it wouldn't it wouldn't be like so readily available, right? Or like so widespreadly used until later.

[00:22:12]Evolutionary selection process that yes, women are obviously going to and and also like by the way, if you're a woman and you get pregnant, you are like massively debuffed. Like having being pregnant is like a crazy debuff. And it's not just cuz they go crazy every once in a while. They do that anyway.

[00:22:30]Well, I guess they pregnant they do it more, right? That's what I hear at least. And so no, I think the real reason, here's the real reason is that like if you're a woman and you get pregnant like how the [ __ ] you going to take care of yourself? Imagine being a single woman with you know, having to go to a job all the time and you're trying to carry a child. It's horrible. So obviously I think that women are going to want to be taken care of and have a man provide for him. I think that makes sense. It does. So my wife friend right now, yeah, exactly. Then the postpartum, yeah. And so you become handicapped. It is. It's a huge handicap. Being a dad is a debuff, too. Being a dad is a debuff, but it's the same debuff as being a mom.

[00:23:09]Whereas, being pregnant is a debuff that men I know I know this is this isn't very woke of me to say this. It's not woke, [laughter] but men can't GET PREGNANT.

[00:23:19]OH, [snorts] WHAT?

[00:23:20]>> WHAT? NO NO [laughter] WAY.

[00:23:22]YEAH, that's right. Men can't get pregnant.

[00:23:24]>> what the science says.

[00:23:26]I know I know, guys. You can't do it.

[00:23:29]And that's [ __ ] >> Trust the science. And awesome.

[00:23:32]Reported, yes. It's nuts. So, I feel like >> Oh guys, I got I got to react to that that Nairo video, huh? I still got to do that. React to that Nairo video about the um yeah, Nairo put out a a video where Nairo apparently talked to like a uh biologist who said that uh that uh that trans women are biologically women.

[00:23:53]And soon. No, that's whenever you get a uh like a robot womb or like a you know, electronic or something like that. And so, uh anyway, not with that attitude.

[00:24:03]Well, I mean, if you want to keep trying, be my guest. And so, just don't tell me about it. So, yeah, I I think that's also another reason. And so, yeah, of course it makes sense that like women are going to want to have a man that's financially stable. But, I think that if a guy is financially stable and he's able to take care of himself, I do think that like there's a huge drop-off.

[00:24:23]Like, if you're making like, let's say, you know, 100K a year, which is like, by the way, that's not even a crazy amount of money anymore. Like, let's say you're making that amount of money, the odds are that like 90% of women aren't going to break up with you to date a guy that's like richer than you are for that one reason. I just don't think that. And like, that's just again, this is my experience from what I've seen, from what I've experienced, from what I've heard, right? So, not everybody's going to agree with it. I understand that, but that's what I've noticed all this time.

[00:24:52]And how much is stable? What depends on where you live, right? I mean, if you live in an Arkansas, it's probably [ __ ] $60,000 a year. If you living in San Francisco, it's $260,000 a year, right? I mean, it depends. But like, I would say general for whatever the reasonable amount of money to take care of a, you know, a family would be there, right? So, that's it. Titles are are different. Being a mom and dad are different than growing life compared to being sick, maybe. I don't know. And yeah, even when the man's financially stable, the women will still cheat.

[00:25:23]Well, I mean, women I mean, men cheat, too. all the time. I mean, it's not even Like, look, I I know that we want to talk about how women are useless. And I did make a tweet yesterday. This is a big tweet for me, okay? Let's see it. I said, "So, do you remember whenever I was talking about this the other day?

[00:25:38]And nobody else was saying it. I was the only person saying this. And I said that I thought that AI was going to remove overwhelmingly women's jobs." Then, three or four days later, everybody's talking about it. That's it. Little out of touch with that comment. "Too many fake jobs were invented to create artificial parity between men and women in the workforce. AI fixes this problem.

[00:26:02]Hopefully, after this is over, women can go back to doing what they do best, being a mother or being a prostitute."

[00:26:08]>> [laughter] >> And so, I obviously I make posts like this, right?

[00:26:12]And by the way, I do want to say that, you know, 5,000 years ago, I know what the most popular profession for a woman was. And today, I also know what the most popular and most well-paying profession for a woman is if they're young, right? And so, that's crazy. What are the odds of that? And for a man, it's changed. For women, it hasn't. So, that's it. Line of last part. Yeah, yeah, last part. How many people did you piss off? I don't know. I'm not I'm not reading their comments. I I I just make these posts. Maybe I'll see like one reply. Other than that, I don't really pay attention to it or look into it at all. US rejects UN migration forum, accusing it of promoting replacement immigration. Yeah, that's they should.

[00:26:55]Absolutely. 100 [ __ ] percent they should. Good. You aren't even devaluing women by saying this. No, I'm not. I'm saying that you know, again, and I there's nothing there's nothing in my opinion nothing sexist about what I said. It's just an objective fact. If you're a male prostitute versus a female prostitute, which one has more attention? Which one do people want more? Well, I wonder how many girls on OnlyFans are there versus how many guys on OnlyFans are there? Well, every every woman is a every mother is a woman, right? I mean like there you go. So obviously women can do that better.

[00:27:26]They're the only ones that can do it.

[00:27:27]>> Oh, but like gay though. But like gay though, right? Well, I don't know. Are there a lot Are there girls that buy OnlyFans [ __ ] There's like straight girls that sub OnlyFans?

[00:27:36]So it just just makes sense, right? It does. It just makes sense. But you know, again, the way that I say things, it's always I will always choose the red combat dialogue option I'll tell you what though, if you're a dude and you go to like an erotic roleplay site and you're like, "I'm a dude by the way. I'm a dude. I'm not gay and I'm a top."

[00:27:59]You're going to get like 50 DMs. But I discuss these things. And I think it's funny, right? The battle of the sexes will end in the field of infertility.

[00:28:07]Well, I think that's already happened.

[00:28:08]>> That's crazy.