"Get Out the Way Before I Hit You..." Black Woman Confronts White Man On the Plane, Black Fatigue 😳

Added: 2026-06-04

[00:00:00]You want me to do?

[00:00:00]>> Why? Why are you just >> I'm just asking you to excuse me.

[00:00:03]>> Not why >> why is you sitting here already?

[00:00:07]>> Why are you so special?

[00:00:08]>> Cuz I'm trying to get to the front.

[00:00:10]>> Yeah, we are all trying to get to the front. We all paid the same goddamn money.

[00:00:13]>> Okay, but I'm saying sir, I'm just telling you. Excuse me. If you move >> Cool. And the door ain't open.

[00:00:17]>> I'm just saying though, it don't matter.

[00:00:18]>> It don't matter either way.

[00:00:19]>> Trying to get up to the front.

[00:00:20]>> Yeah, we all are.

[00:00:21]>> Everybody is.

[00:00:21]>> Excuse me.

[00:00:23]>> No, thank you.

[00:00:23]>> She always like that. Oh, sorry. You don't know her?

[00:00:25]>> No, thankfully. Just move you the [ __ ] out of my way and I'm assaulting.

[00:00:29]>> Yeah.

[00:00:31]>> So you won't move.

[00:00:32]>> Why are you asking excuse?

[00:00:34]>> And I'm saying no.

[00:00:35]>> Okay.

[00:00:36]>> I can say no.

[00:00:37]>> I don't have to say yes. Do I?

[00:00:39]>> Do I need to say yes, >> sir? I'm saying excuse >> and I'm saying no.

[00:00:42]>> And you just going to block my way?

[00:00:44]>> Yeah.

[00:00:45]>> So if I hit you, you're insulting >> and you got 30 witnesses on you, man, with the red hair. You'll get arrested and then you will get a lifetime flight ban. You want that?

[00:00:54]>> Okay. But what I'm saying is I'm just saying excuse me.

[00:00:56]>> What you're saying is you think that you are more special than everybody else on this goddamn [ __ ] plane.

[00:01:02]>> Excuse me.

[00:01:02]>> Excuse me.

[00:01:03]>> Excuse me.

[00:01:04]>> Oh my god. I'm more special than you now. I'm louder than you.

[00:01:07]>> Excuse me.

[00:01:10]>> There's >> like who raised you, woman?

[00:01:15]>> I'm just trying to get through.

[00:01:16]>> Who raised you?

[00:01:16]>> I don't understand. Why is it an issue?

[00:01:18]>> Who raised you?

[00:01:20]>> Cuz I know your mom didn't raise you cuz she would have slapped you upside the head by now. I'm just saying I'm just trying to get all this >> ladies and gentlemen, please.

[00:01:30]>> Yeah, we just need this lady to calm the [ __ ] down.

[00:01:32]>> Okay, >> I'm not even angry.

[00:01:34]>> She's threatening to assault people to get to the front.

[00:01:37]>> Man, if I if I if you not moving out of my way.

[00:01:40]>> I wonder why >> you're not moving.

[00:01:42]>> Do you see all the other people?

[00:01:44]>> Do you see all the other people?

[00:01:45]>> Sir, now you now you're being disrespectful.

[00:01:47]>> Well, no, ma'am. I was disrespectful when I was telling you your mother didn't raise you right.

[00:01:51]>> My mother did raise me right. She did not because you clearly don't know what the [ __ ] is going on in your life.

[00:01:54]>> He didn't raise me right, sir.

[00:01:55]>> Y'all done >> I'm done.

[00:01:58]>> I've been done. He He got a moment. He need a moment. He want a viral moment.

[00:02:02]Go ahead, sir.

[00:02:04]>> The viral moment was created by you, >> right?

[00:02:08]>> Yeah. Um, the fatigue is real. All right, so let's get the obvious part out of the way is that the fatigue is real. And I want to get into how I think that this whole situation should have been handled in the first place. Right? The woman is clearly disrespectful, right? She's saying, "What if I hit you?" And when y'all sent me this video, I initially was like, "Yo, she wrong." But then I think that other people need to mind their business and stay out of it, which I still think that also. But I think that people are getting so fed up and they getting so sick of it and tired of it that it's hard to defend um and even tell people that they need to mind their business because people are looking now. They are starting to look for moments to insert themselves because they so disgusted.

[00:02:58]People are so disgusted and so aggravated at the fact that they have to continue to be quiet when they see some of the most egregious behavior on airplanes, in bus stops, on trains, in airports, at restaurants, in public spaces, in private spaces. And there's a sense of entitlement that comes from the culture that they they think that just because they say, "Hey, excuse me. Can you move?" That all of a sudden you supposed to move out of the way so that they can get to the front of the plane. Now, let me preface this by saying that if it was me, a couple different things would happen differently. Number one, um, for me, I'm always trying to get to my destination and so I avoid conflict. Um, and I avoid situations as much as possible, which is one of the reasons why a lot of people feel as though black culture people in the fatigue, they feel as though they can get away with certain things because a lot of people are non-confrontational, right? They they do look to just get to their destination. They know that they're never going to see you again.

[00:04:10]They don't want to end up on camera and they don't want to go viral. They're not looking for a moment. And so a lot of times people that are passive or people that are looking to avoid confrontation and even when you get your CPO, your concealed pistols license, I know that is is named something different in a lot of different places. Even when you get that, one of the things that they teach you inside of the class is, you know, the best form of defense is to run away because you you rarely ever like the last resort is always to find yourself in a in a space to where you got to defend yourself or you got to stand your ground or you want to pull your pistol, right? And so in society in general, in culture in general, they're teaching you that you want to avoid confrontation.

[00:04:53]You don't want to put yourself in a situation to where you got to be confrontational. And so it's best to just avoid it, right? It's best to ignore it or to maybe to move out the way. And so what people then do is they take that kindness for weakness because they're used to getting away with it.

[00:05:08]They're used to getting they they you know certain things across. And so in most situations, people just move out of the way. You able to get to the front and whatever. And so the the the least important thing for most people is getting to the front, right? I don't understand the whole airport culture or the whole airplane culture. And I've flown my entire life. I've talked to people and as soon as the plane lands, people are hurry up and getting in the middle of the aisle. I don't understand it. Unless you actually got to get to um your next flight and you got a layover that you late for. I don't understand everybody trying to run to the middle of the aisle. They still can't open the doors until they open up the doors. And you're still going to be stuck standing there in the middle of the in the middle of the aisle. The people that's in front of you still got to get off and the aisles are not wide enough for you to be able to get around them. So to see her in this situation to where she's being confrontational, threaten to hit the person, threaten to get into a situation with the person, it just makes for a a more confrontational situation, and I think that it all can be avoided. With that being said, the guy that is be that the guy that is behind her, I don't blame him. It just couldn't be me. I'm not looking to go viral for the wrong reasons. I'm not looking to get into a situation. I'm not looking to get removed. I don't want to talk to the police. I just want to get to my destination.

[00:06:36]But it is absolutely positively a headache to have to deal with people that feel so entitled and they are willing to threaten you to where they feel like they need to they they are the ones that can get to the front of the plane. Your seat is in the back. Wait your turn and let everybody get off that's in front of you. When the aisles are only so wide, people be tired. They getting off their flight. They just now getting to their destination. They know that they, you know what I'm saying? Like, everybody is tired. Everybody just got on the same plane. Everybody just got into the same situation. I was looking at a video where a guy was saying that um and maybe I'll do a completely different separate reaction to it where a guy was saying that he had, you know, he he's 6'4. He had paid for a owl seat and a lady a lady felt so entitled and he didn't say what color she was. She could have been white. She could have been black and he was saying that a lady was asking him can she get the aisle seat and he sit in the middle and he was like no respectfully I don't want to. And then later on in the flight, she was saying, "Can she can they lift up the thing to make her more comfortable?" And he was saying that she was a bigger woman. And you know, she felt so entitled to be at like she was getting upset at the fact that he was telling her no. And there's so many entitled people in the world that that feels as though you have to adjust to their circumstances. You have to move when they say move and you can't say no.

[00:08:08]And people are getting fed up.

[00:08:11]white people specifically. I mean, let's just call a spade a spade. White people are tired of the fatigue. And it don't mean that white people don't do stuff also because I remember it was a whole movement about Karens, but people are getting fed up with the fact that there's a demographic of black people, not all black people because everybody is not a monolith, but within a culture that feel entitled to be able to say and even threaten you to do whatever it is that they want to do to you. I believe that because she seen the camera or she seen the phone that was recording that that's when she decided to back up a little bit and you know not go any further with her threats or any of that type of stuff and because let's say hypothetically something did happen and something did pop off. You would have every single inst NAACP member all of the people would have been feeling some type of way. They would have been trying to file a lawsuit against the plane, against the people on the plane, and they would have been saying justice for whoever this woman is if it had escalated to the point to where it was even more than what it was on this whole situation.

[00:09:20]It's tiring. It's old. It's tiring. I think that people are fatigued all the way out and that they're not whereas you would have seen people be a lot more docile and quiet about the situation.

[00:09:34]You're starting to see people speak up and say more and say, "Yo, I'm not willing to to continue to deal with this." And they start to get a little bit even more louder and belligerent like the guy that was in the video. And they they feel that way because they know that other people are tired too.

[00:09:52]And so they feel compelled to say the quiet part out loud because they sick of everything that's going on within the culture. Let me know what you guys think inside of the comments. Make sure y'all tap into the Patreon link is in the description. Tanley 40% off your first order, 20% off for life. I love you. I appreciate you. I'mma holl at you guys later. Peace.