This commentary incisively strips away the facade of "mean girl" behavior to reveal it as a desperate projection of personal insecurity. It serves as a necessary reminder that digital cruelty says far more about the bully’s internal void than the victim’s choices.
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Mean girls are exposing themselves on Tik Tok and we need to talk about it.
Hello you gorgeous donuts. There is a growing epidemic of girls who are not like the other girls who tend to bring down other women for no reason at all just to make themselves feel better about their own inadequacies. So today we're going to have a look at the very worst of these instances that have been posted on Tik Tok. Enjoy. I will never understand how some girls wear hair extensions, fake lashes, and a fully caked face every day because I honestly don't even want to put pants on.
Okay, Mrs. Different. Some days she doesn't even want to put pants on because she's just like not like all the other girls. She really is the different one. She is the special one, as Josie Marinia would say. Bit of football pants. Come on now. Everyone's having a good time. I don't know why you would like bring someone down for wanting to wear hair extensions or fake lashes or a a face fully caked in makeup if that makes them, you know, feel happier about themselves and makes them more confident. Like, what's the issue? Like, it has no impact on you whatsoever. If someone walks down the street past you with hair extensions, does that really put a dampener on your day? If it does, I feel like that's more of a reflection of how you're doing in life than them.
Do you want to have a face fully caked in makeup? You have a face fully caked in makeup as long as that's the thing that makes you happy. Who cares what this girl's got to say?
>> Things we think the other person would be jealous about.
>> Okay. I put for my first one that you'd be jealous that I can eat whatever I want without like gaining any weight.
>> Oh, okay. I think you'd be jealous of the fact that I passed my driving license. Not that longer.
>> No, I'm going to pass soon anyway. I think that you'd be jealous that I've got like a bigger friend group and a lot more friends.
>> Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Um, I think you'd be jealous.
>> Sorry. Are these two like having a laugh or is this like kind of like serious?
Like is it played off as banter but there's like a little bit of truth to it? That first one kind of caught me off guard straight away. I could eat what I want and not put on weight of the fact that I am like better with saving money and like I can like I don't just spend my money straight away.
>> I don't know. I think you'd be jealous that I can like get in a long-term stable relationship but like actually keep it.
>> Okay. These are so deep. Like even if this is a joke, I feel like they will go home and be like, "Uh, like I can't imagine feeling good after this." Like, I guess if you don't laugh, you cry. So, let's just have a laugh. Let's be mean to each other. It's the girl on the right's reaction every time where she goes, "Yeah, >> just be like jealous of my hair."
>> I don't I don't really think I would.
Like, not in a horrible way, but like >> Yeah.
>> My hair's just a lot nicer in my opinion. My opinion. I think you'd be jealous that I can wear like crop tops and bikinis like summer clothes.
>> Why have all of yours been like really horrible?
>> And I just centered around how I look and stuff.
>> Not like physically. I just mean like I'm confident enough to wear one.
>> Oh my god. This is not a joke. Oh my god. I I was with it being like a a bit of a joke at this point. She didn't like that. She's come to realize like why are all yours just calling me fat? Don't know why I put an American accent on there, guys. She's clearly British. Just kind of felt right what I felt in the moment. Okay, no regrets. That's the way I live my life. This has really hurt her though. I don't think she's joking anymore. I don't know. Like all all of them have been kind of centered around wait, you know, like the first one, okay, goes deep. But we've got one out the way. But the more of them that you say, the more I'm thinking, wait, I think you actually do believe this.
>> Really insecure.
>> But yeah, but you know, like I've told you stuff before, like how I feel. And you kind of you're just like also like just like we actually spoke before that we weren't going to do things like this.
>> I wasn't thinking about like how you felt. I was thinking like everyone would be jealous of the fact that I can do that. Not like just you specific like no everything's about you, you know.
>> No, you're you're just being horrible on camera.
>> Yours were just as mean.
>> No, they weren't. The things I were saying.
>> You said like your hair and stuff, but that's still >> I didn't really mean I didn't mean it like that. Like you know how I meant it.
Oh my good god. What? Sorry. Why did you upload this? This just makes you out to be an absolute [ __ ] I imagine it's the girl on the left's uh Tik Tok account because she's the one that's like keep stops and starts recording.
Like you did you watch this back and go, "Yeah, that's completely fine." Like there's clear editing cuts as well. So you've watched this like six or seven times and went, "Yeah, this is perfectly fine to upload." I mean, it has banked, but more out of infamy than people actually liking this. All of the comments, "This better be a joke. This isn't banter, girl. Banter is funny.
Yeah, there was no jokes in there. Like, are you jealous that I can wear a bikini? Like, where is the punch line there? The only one that's getting punched is the person in the face who can't break up, guys. Get new friends. I give zero that I never had a boob job, lip injections, and I don't wear hair extensions, no Botox yet. I guess I don't fit.
Guess I'm just not like all the other girls, you know, all the other girls that get boob jobs. And by the way, why is there some civil war with the girlies about hair extensions? Like, what is it about hair extensions that is creating so much girl on girl hate crime? Guys, can we just ease off? Is it bad to get hair extensions? Now I'm starting to like think, should I be on the other side? Should I be a hair extensions hater? I haven't heard their side of the story. Maybe I should. To me, it just doesn't seem like that much of an issue.
It's not like people are trying to pretend, are they? Like, some people just openly admit that they have hair extensions. Like, it's not like they're trying to like prove they're better than you. They just it it makes them just feel more confident. What's wrong with it? I don't understand. How does this have an impact on your life? It's like if I dyed my hair, are you going to be like, "Oh my god, like what an absolute freak. Like this has actually ruined my year." No, you're not. Otherwise, that would be a bit parasocial, guys. Right.
Ooh, bit of a weirdo watching if you just got a little bit angry there.
Someone's having a self-reflective moment. I do love that whenever these girls post this type of post, they all try and do like like a cute pic as well, like a like they've just said something really nice, like You're so, you know, stupid. I hate you.
I hate your face. But it does make me think like surely you can't be happy as a person if you do post this publicly.
Like actually in your soul, you must be pretty sad if you want to bring other people down for things that just make them happier. Oh my god. Like this is there's so many people like this. When I walk into a room filled with granola girls, but I have piercings, dyed hair since 7 years old, a tattoo appointment boo, a monster addiction, and a personality and humor of a divorced dad.
Sorry, did you just flex that you have a tattoo appointment booked? I don't have any tattoos, but trust me, I've got them booked. 3 years from now, I'm about to have a little rose on my ankle. Just letting you know. Then you'll be sorry.
Then I'm going to walk into a room and everyone's going to be like, "Oh my god, what's her story? She's so mysterious. I need to know everything about her."
Honestly, like I'm going to go out on a whim here. having piercings and dyed hair.
I I don't actually think that that's that different. Personally, I think that's completely normal. I've got piercings. I mean, I don't have dyed hair, but I hardly like, do you know if I'm walking down the street and I see a girl that's got dyed hair and piercings, I'm hardly going to be like, you know what I mean? Realistically, I might just do that just to freak someone out. Actually, no, I won't. You know, I wouldn't like that to me, so why would I do it to someone else? Also, having like a monster addiction. Oh, yeah. You know that really niche drink Monster? Wow.
You drink that? I've never seen anybody drink that ever. You really are crazy.
What? You drink Monster and you have a a tattoo appointment booked? That's crazy.
What? Oh my god. Is this my dream girl?
No way. What? I also want to know what the personality and humor of a divorced dad is. Like that's that's very generalized. Are we are we saying like we hate everything? That's what I imagine. You know, a sad divorced dad, but some divorced dads are extremely happy. Some dads get divorced and like they get a new lease of life to buy a convertible car.
>> Watch my confidence disappear after these random girls make fun of me for taking pics. Okay. Feeling my spice vibes.
Was this necessary?
>> Thank you.
>> Criminally offensive zey starts recording me.
telling her bestie is. I can literally hear the whole combo.
>> Realizing they are talking about me, feeling super self-conscious, >> I wanted to cry.
>> This makes me really sad. Like honestly, this actually makes us like upset because, you know, this girl might just be taking pictures for Instagram. She might be like starting off her social media uh adventure, if you want to call it that. You know, just kind of getting more confident. Clearly, she doesn't look the most confident when she's like taking the pics. She just wants a nice picture. And this could ruin her confidence forever. Like these two girls behind her, like there was no need to stick your finger up and then start recording her and like copying her.
Like, is it really that crazy that she's taking a picture or you know she's taking a video or whatever she's taking?
It's not that wild. Honestly, I just feel like this is a classic example of like people wanting to do what this person is doing, but they probably don't have the confidence for it or like, you know, they might have been bullied out of doing it as well. So then they bully other people out of doing it to make themselves feel better. And it's just cruel. Like this girl's by herself.
There's clearly other girls there as well that we can't see or lads or something that they're trying to impress because they were talking to people whilst pointing at her. So clearly they've got an audience and clearly they thrive off making other people feel embarrassed or making other people feel small. So even though you might feel embarrassed in this situation, look, just know that they should they are the ones that should feel embarrassed. They are the evil ones here. It's more of a reflection of how they feel about themselves than you know you should feel about yourself. Like I had this so much with YouTube. Like when I first started YouTube and I was in college, like I used to get bullied so much with it.
Like I people would play my videos out loud. People would like just point at me and laugh like just because I was uploading YouTube videos like not hurting anyone. And I would say that's a lot more intense than just simply taking a picture outside. So I can't imagine what this is like for her. I don't know.
Like you're you're a fully grown adult.
Like you know these two girls are in their 20ies bullying another girl. Like get over yourself, man. What are you do?
Are you still in the school mindset?
Okay, now we've got a crazy one. Me because I'm too weird for the popular girls, but too popular for the weird girls.
You me too, bestie. Am I right? Why don't we be friends and team up like a good duo? How about we become like a twoman thing? I also love that she's like showing us her craziness as she like moons a tree just Oh, there we go.
Come on. That wood's hardwood now. Am I right? Yeah. All right. Great.
Little bit of, you know, wood puns.
People that work at BQ or a timber factory are going to love those or just people that know what wood is. Uh, again, I feel like this is still like a a little bit of like an immature way to look at things. Like I think it's very school like like calling people the popular girls and calling people weird girls when you're like a fully grown like I don't know this woman seems like she's in her 30s still calling people weird girls and popular girls like are we still in the mindset of like you know a 12 or 13year-old I don't even think 12 or 13 year olds would post this to be fair hopefully but yeah I feel like this girl is definitely hanging on to something uh from school that is not not you know she's she's not kind of unpacked with someone even at my age now like in my 20s I would never like I would never think of people as like weird girls or like the popular girls like now, you know, it's just it just doesn't even cross my mind. Obviously in school you would. Not now.
>> But I do have a hot take on this. I think bullying is something that has to happen when you're young. Something from like an evolutionary or like biological standpoint. And I've always thought this way and I will probably continue to think this way. If you're someone who's being bullied, you kind of like to learn to stick up for yourself or like learn to have more confidence in yourself.
Bullying in America or like the Mean Girls of America, bro. It's really not that bad. Y'all ever seen Kdramas? Y'all know what happens in other countries?
What bullies are like? American teenagers have gotten so soft these days because of social media. Literally, anything offends people and makes people like, I am being bullied. Feel like if you are being bullied, it's going to help you grow up and be a stronger person, a heavier foot in life because of your experience. Unless you dwell on it for 4 years after high school, then that's just kind of sad.
>> Oh, okay. Well, let's break this one down, should we? Okay, first off, like I don't think that bullying is a good thing. I think we can all agree that I think anybody who is watching this who has been bullied would say if they could go back in time and not be bullied, they probably would choose that option every single time. I think what she's trying to say, and I'm giving her more grace than she deserves here, is she's trying to say it gives you like some sort of resilience, but you're really kind of generalizing there. Yes, a couple of people who have been bullied might have grew thicker skin. Okay, I'm not going to deny that. But I think there's other ways to develop thicker skin and you're also generalizing bullying as just the same thing. Like bullying can happen in numerous ways. You know, if if if you're physically getting bullied, like someone is like physically harming you. I don't think you're going to be in that situation thanking them because they're making you develop thick skin. And also saying to people that it's sad if you're still dwelling on it after you leave school. Like for a lot of people, especially if it's like psychological, you know, bullying or if it's like, you know, any any type of bullying really, that can have cognitive effects on you moving forward. Like if you're used to being manipulated by a bully and it's more psychological, you're going to question every relationship as you get older because your mind's so impressionable when you are young. And you know, you you're conditioned to kind of feel how you were feeling in school.
And it's really hard to kind of unlearn all of these things. Or let's say if you walked home from school and people used to jump you when you're an adult or when you're 18, 19 and you're walking down the street, you are going to be more aware of like your surroundings because you're used to people creeping up on you. How can you not see that this would stay with people? The only reason I don't think she can kind of understand it is because she probably wasn't bullied to an extent of what other people were. Or maybe she just coped better with her bullying. But not everybody is the same. and calling people woke because they think that bullying is bad is an awfully, you know, harmful statement. What kind of explains this as well is definitely the caption.
She says, "Uh, get ready with me plus story time. I was a mean girl in high school." So, she's basically admitted to being a a mean girl herself. So, that everything I was trying to give her grace for is out the window. What she's basically doing here is trying to make herself feel better for how she acted in school. I imagine people that she wasn't the nicest to have probably, you know, talked about it after school and she's just sick of it. just like, "Oh, why do you even care?" Like, it was in school.
Like, it didn't bother me. Why should it bother you? That kind of attitude.
That's why she's trying to make it out as if it's a good thing because it makes her feel better about how she acted. The thing is, as well, like, if you did bully people in school or you were a mean girl in school, if you came forward and went like, I I was a mean girl in school. Like, I understand how horrible that would be. Like, I would never act that way now, and I can only apologize to people. Then people would actually be like, okay, fair enough. Like, I don't agree with what you've done, but I like that you've took accountability for it.
But that has just not happened here. It is wild what some people decide to post on the internet by the way. And it just shows that this person has made no growth since leaving school, which is uh you know worrying. I'm someone's future wife. So no, I will not be out partying half naked on Halloween. Boys will always choose the easy woman because the strong ones require them to be men.
Wait, so you're you're not going to a Halloween party and dressing up as something because of what your husband, who you haven't even met, would possibly think? Do you really want that man to be your husband if he's judging you for what you wore when you were younger at a Halloween party before he'd met you?
Because if that is the type of guy you're going to marry, I don't think you're going to have have a happy life, love. Honestly, that is an insecure bot.
And you do not want to be with an insecure b. Okay? You're just doing this to like seek some sort of weird male validation. Like, you're going to have guys in the comments going, "Oh my god, like, yeah, you're amazing, but is it really worth it because you've put down loads of other like women because of this?" And also, you don't need to dress half naked. You do know that. Like if you want to do it, but if you do want to just have a funny costume, you can do that as well. The top comment is funny because it says, "Meanwhile, her future husband Connor is these half naked girls on Halloween." That is kind of funny because you know her future husband could well be at a Halloween party just necking on with a girl while she's at home preparing for that b. Yeah, you're really showing all the other girls here, love. Well done.
>> Hey, honey.
>> Yeah, I I went with your advice. I'm going to get the lighter one.
>> Yeah, I would do. Yeah, >> just remember if you're putting it on it go a little bit lighter and it isn't a filming studio honey. So this is usually where we sit down clients for full makeup.
>> I'm just trying products.
>> It's not really for that. And if you are trying anything just remember on the hand and face only do >> trying to find my good shade. Jesus Christ. People are so miserable here.
>> Okay. I see this from both sides. Okay.
She was being very innocent. She is buying something as well. It's not like she's just putting them all on and just kind of walking off or whatever. Even though you can do that if you want to. I think I don't really buy makeup guys, but I imagine that's fine. So, you're not really doing anything wrong and you're you're not like an influencer. I don't think the caption says you were just sending it to your friend just showing a like I don't know different makeup or whatever. Very harmless stuff here. But on the other hand, you know, like if this is where they sit down like paying clients who, you know, are getting like a full makeover, obviously that's a lot of money. They need to keep that seat free. So, I totally understand it from both point of views. However, I feel like the way that she delivered the message was passive aggressive like calling you honey and it's not a filming studio honey. Like, I hate that. Why genetic? She's just sending a video to her friend. She's buying something.
Like, why did you have to say honey? I don't know. Is it just me who thinks that pass that's passive aggressive?
Like, if someone talked to me like this, I'd be like honey. Sorry, love. Do I look like Winnie the Cut out. Cut that out. Said Winnie the Pooh there. That would have been ridiculous, wouldn't it? Proper [ __ ] Joe. Especially like this girl even kind of, you know, what not complimented, but like, you know, kind of praised the person who worked there being like, I'm going to take your advice. Like, this is the good one. You know, just being nice. And I just feel like it wasn't, you know, reciprocated.
I feel like the person that was working there was just being a little bit like cutthroat as if like they have something against influencers or just people filming in general and they've kind of took it out on you. Maybe they were having a bad day. Okay, let's give them that. Maybe something had just pissed them off and you were just in the firing light. But at the end of the day, there was no need to be passive aggressive here. Maybe I'm just sensitive. Okay, maybe that is the case. Right message, wrong way to handle it. Other girls, akai bowls and smoothies. Me pizza.
Hold on a minute, love. Wait. Are you telling me that you like you like pizza?
Like like like pizza like Domino Pizza.
What? I have never met anybody that likes pizza. That is crazy. How crazy is it in a world of nobody liking pizza? Me and you have just met like this. Isn't that me? What? Did we just become best friends? Are we soul mates? Do you want to get married right now? Because I do.
Oh my god. The way she eats it as well.
She eats it slice by slice. Guys, sorry.
I'm just freaking out right now. I feel like this is like this is a big moment for me. I have never met anyone else that likes margarita pizza. It's a face as well. It's always that face. Like, why is it always them? Whenever someone's trying to be different, they I don't even What should we call this face as a collective in the donut community?
I'm going to do it and I want to hear names for it. Just somebody named that face and I'm going to call it that from now on in videos.
POV. me pretending not to eavesdrop, but absolutely listening to the girl behind me say she's on OME, drinks three coffees a day, hasn't had a vegetable since 2022, walks to the mailbox for cardio, and thinks that's why she's thriving. Meanwhile, I'm over here tracking protein, drinking electrolytes like it's my religion. Going on almost a three-year weight loss journey, wishing she only knew the half of it again.
Like, why were you eavesdropping on someone? if that person obviously it's not you shouldn't you know be taking ompic and stuff because that's not healthy but she's an adult she's making her own decisions like why do you care you don't know you don't even know this girl like it's not like you know her and you know you've you've in your own mind you've been competing with her like you know toxically for years you don't even know this person why are you making a Tik Tok about it like did it really affect you this much the only reason you've done this is so that you can brag that you're on some sort of weight loss journey and have an abnormally amount of protein in your diet Yeah, that is one thing I will say. Like I know loads of people like have protein because they go to the gym and whatever. Like everyone needs it, okay? But for some reason the people that like have excessive amounts of protein need to let everybody know that they have protein. Not everybody.
I'm generalizing there. But a small niche of people, do you know what I mean? It's like people with a foot fetish. They just like need to let you know for some reason. It's like why?
Just keep it to yourself. I don't care if you have protein. If you enjoy having protein, that's great. But why do you need to let me know? I don't need to know this. Oh, I got really angry there, didn't I? Guys, doesn't affect us though, obviously. That must have been sitting in my mind for a few months.
Well, better out than in.
Is that how it goes?
>> Is that how it goes?
>> I'm not into the happy happy laughy laughy stuff.
Ain't funny.
>> God, bet you're funny at parties.
Everyone's dancing and singing. You're like, "Oh, no. I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't embarrass myself like that."
Like, just live a little, love. It sounded like they were singing Christmas songs there, so I imagine it is Christmas. and one of them said the words wrong and they were all laughing.
They're just having a good time. Like, why do you need to hate on them for that? They weren't talking about anyone slagging anybody off. They were just trying to have a little bit of a light moment, which I think is in a hospital, which I imagine can be very bleak at times. Just let them have it. Chances are if they're all in a group laughing and you're the one that's kind of like, you know, judging to the side, chances are you're the problem. You're the issue, not them. They were having such harmless fun there and wouldn't have known that you were judging them. Like I I don't understand people that would like throw their co-workers under the bus or take the pit out of them just so that they they can get a few likes on on TikTok. Like is that the satisfaction that you want? Like is that really what fulfills you? How it feels to have a a body count I imagine that means of zero in this generation and she's uh eating something off a spoon. I guess that's how it feels, you know. Damn, that must feel good. What? This is another thing that's very weird when people especially girls on girls kind of like shaming each other for your body count. I don't know like do you not already I I don't know if I'm I don't know if I'm like overstepping here as a guy speaking like this but you know you already get enough crap from like guys for how many people you've slept with. Do you really need other girls saying that? Like it's a it's a madeup con construct anyway virginity, you know? It's just some a label on something. So I don't know why you would want to be in competition for it. Like it's just very strange whether you've slept with zero people or you've slept with 10 people. Like realistically, does it really matter as long as you and your partner are like I don't know, you're just like comfortable with it. Like if you're like Bonnie Blue and you've slept with 5,000 people, fair enough, right? I feel like that should be, you know, said before you get into a relationship. Everybody should be on the same page. But realistically, I don't think it's that big of a deal. I know it's different for everybody. And if like a guy does say to a girl like, "Oh, I I don't want her to have a high body count." I guess that is fine as long as the guy also doesn't have a high body count. Like you're allowed to have a preference, I guess. But I'm trying to kind of like the way I'm kind of thinking about it is if someone's being hypocritical about it. I don't know. I just I just feel like it's weird just kind of bragging about you haven't slept with anybody like, "Okay, well done."
Right. Do you want a medal there? You know what? There you go. There's your medal of virginity. Do you want a purity ring, love? Hopefully not. Most girls at a photo shoot. I'll wait to eat after the photos. Me. Can I get a bowl of pasta before we start, please?
God, lock her up. Come on. Hey, don't let her out. Nobody take their eye off her, right? We don't know what she's going to do next. Eating a bowl of pasta before you're taking photos. Are you mental? Pops, before a photo shoot, you might as well shoot us in the head.
Yeah, honestly, not that crazy.
Realistically, not that crazy. Shouldn't be crazy. This should be a norm. You should be allowed to eat before a photo shoot, right? Hot tea. You shouldn't have to starve yourself before it. One thing that does intrigue me about like this kind of person as well is clearly in their mind they they believe they're very different. And I don't know if this person is a full-time model. They've got a verified tick. So clearly they're doing something like influencer wise. So their perspective will be of them being around girls who probably don't eat that much before a photo shoot. So she will think she's different. Like in her perspective of her world, she will honestly believe that she stands out from everyone. But when you actually get in the real world and you're like, you know, look at this properly. People look at this and go, "Yeah, honestly, that's not that crazy." But it's just interesting how people live in their own kind of perspectives and they can't kind of see out of that. I know it seems so boring what I've just said, but I'm just fascinated by it because whenever I record these videos, a lot of the issues is because people's perspectives is all just off with things. Anyway, don't if you do want to watch another video from me, last year I actually made a video titled I'm Not Like All the Other Girls.
So, if you want to see what I look like a year ago and you want to watch that video, click that one over there. I'll see you over there. Bye-bye. Thanks again for taking the time to watch. I appreciate you >> Kirkham
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