Do Filipinas prefer Old, Bald, Fat guys over handsome young men?

Added: 2026-05-20

[00:00:00]In this episode, we will discuss whether Filipinas prefer less attractive foreigners. Sugar Daddy Sensei asks, "Do Filipinas prefer less attractive foreigners? I've seen talk about how foreigners go for the less attractive Filipinas, but don't hear much talk about whether Filipinas have questionable taste when it comes to foreigners. From my observation, balding foreigners who weigh more than 200 lb seem to have a lot of success with Filipinas.

[00:00:31]When it comes to how they look overall, let's just say "gwapo handsome" is a stretch. Meanwhile, I'm like super fit with a full head of hair, no major flaws on my face, and glowing abs, and that seems to scare the ladies away. Is it that Filipinas find obese foreigners more attractive, or could it be they feel more secure around them or something?

[00:00:56]I honestly don't care a whole lot. Women are not a priority for me right now. I am just confused by what I'm seeing.

[00:01:03]This has to be the stupidest question I've ever read in my life. What are you talking about? Yes, of course you are handsome and fit and have abs and nothing wrong with your face, but yet you have trouble finding a date in the Pinoy land? No, I don't believe it.

[00:01:20]And to answer your question, it's very simple because they know those fat, bald, old men are desperate, have no other choice, and are very easy to milk dry of their money. That's it. And they know they can they can get away with it because that old man does not have many options. It's not that they prefer that type of person, it's that they know they can get more better benefit from someone with less options. So, let's say everything you said is true and you are handsome, tall with abs, they want nothing to do with you because if they had a choice to be with just a young, handsome man that doesn't give money to them for no reason, they would simply pick their own Filipino. Guess the finger says they die earlier.

[00:02:08]Exactly. They want these people out of their lives so they can take the money.

[00:02:13]Chomama says, "Yikes." That username says a lot about you. Maybe it's your arrogant personality that scares them away. Filipinos prefer people who are kind. It's that simple. And the username is Sugar Daddy Sensei. Yes, that says it all. Ironic or kind of hypocritical username when he says that he's fit, handsome, and has abs, but yet he has to pay for women.

[00:02:40]"Are you on the spectrum?" asked another person.

[00:02:43]Jeff Gallo says, "Filipino here. It's a tricky question, but pinays who end up with bald, obese men as you described probably worked out because the guy is persistent, spends a loot of time with them, gives them attention, and for some unfortunate reason, money.

[00:03:02]Courtship or panliligaw plays a big role where in our culture convince us that efforts matter. Men who truly has good intentions could see seem to be sincere will always be favorable.

[00:03:16]This becomes a problematic when the girl abuses this to ask for financial support, gifts, and favors.

[00:03:23]Also, there will be people who will tell you that there will always be love somewhere in a relationship if not.

[00:03:30]Well, this is just a run-around the male of way of saying that Filipinos want money and gifts, precisely. And those bald, obese, fat, old men will definitely give the money to the woman because they don't have abs like you, sir.

[00:03:47]Money Laundry Services says, "LOL, probably a troll post. It's not the Filipina that are attracted to balding, 240-lb guy specifically.

[00:03:59]But, the economic security is doing most of the heavy lifting in a lot of these cases.

[00:04:05]A chunky 55-year-old foreigner still represents stability, have visa potential, and different life, even if he doesn't have a lot of money.

[00:04:15]But, a stable paycheck every month in dollars, euros, or pounds is enough for them. That's not attraction in the traditional sense. That calculator move and Filipinas from certain backgrounds are very good at that math.

[00:04:29]You're probably going after the wrong tier of women and draw conclusion from that. Go after the dime or the middle class and up crowd, and suddenly 60-year-old Dave from Wyoming doesn't stand a chance unless he's got genuinely deep pockets.

[00:04:43]Those girls have their own careers, their own money, their own options.

[00:04:47]They're not impressed by your passport or your currency conversion rates.

[00:04:52]Don't tell me you can't log into Tinder, Badoo, or whatever, and get a date set up for tomorrow. LOL. If you can't, then there's something wrong. And maybe there are flaws that you're not aware of.

[00:05:04]Precisely.

[00:05:06]Willie Dog said, "A dude having a little extra weight isn't such a bad thing in the Philippines like it is in the West. Still, some leftover fat equals rich and skinny equals poor.

[00:05:16]I don't think it's so much they ask or that they seek a ball fat guy, it's just they prioritize everything else more than weight. Yes, prioritize money.

[00:05:27]Filipinos worship money.

[00:05:29]So does everyone else in a way, of course, but Filipinos have less of it.

[00:05:33]Therefore, they have a deeper desire to obtain it from you and your pockets.

[00:05:38]Lieutenant Buttermilk says, "The Filipinos you're talking about go for security. It's less about the optics and more about the person can offer.

[00:05:47]If you are nice and kind and also can provide a stable and secure life, you have good chances to find a wife.

[00:05:54]You kind of sound like a nice guy. And if you have nothing to offer but abs and no disfigured face, why would a woman want to be with you?

[00:06:06]Er, no. They are indeed humans with diverse tastes than another person.

[00:06:11]Hot load said, "Honestly speaking, here in the Philippines, simply having a foreign blood automatically equates to better genes, features, no matter the age, weight, or looks."

[00:06:22]But you have to stop and ask yourself, why do Filipinos actually want Western genetics? For two reasons. Number one, they're very shallow culture. Thinking that you have a mixed baby means your baby is more attractive, therefore more opportunity, and they can feel good about themselves that people pay attention to them or look at them or admire them. Very simple. Number two, it's because they know if you have a mixed baby, the chances of them gaining any type of position in politics or media or apparently these days becoming a social media influencer are much higher because the general public is still brainwashed thinking that Westerners equal money. I guess in some ways it does, but if they spent more time actually improving themselves than admiring Western culture, maybe the country would not be such a Huge artwork says, "It's you.

[00:07:14]Women all over the world, assuming all things equal, choose an attractive man.

[00:07:18]You're likely over playing your books and under playing the things. You still have to talk to them and provide something that compelling beyond looks.

[00:07:26]If you're too young to have a pension, often they want to know what your situation is. Most expats prefer pen- Okay, let's stop there. I think it's obvious. We all know the reason is money, simple and plain. If they had a choice between a young handsome man and an old balding man, of course they'll choose a handsome man.

[00:07:45]However, if there's money involved in of course they'll go towards whichever has more money. One more thing I want to say, they understand that people that are attractive or not too old have more options and no reason to be paying money up front. So, they go for the old fat bald man because they understand that those men have less options and are much more inclined to give them money on any level. It's basic math. nothing to do with apps.

[00:08:11]Thanks for listening. God bless.