Do our men take the time out to understand how menopause affects our women

Added: 2026-05-16

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[00:08:59]Welcome to mature conversation where we have great conversation. Yes, we can go from zero to 100.

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[00:13:34]was on a little important phone call, you know, a little business phone call.

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[00:13:42]Mhm. So, my peeps going, what's up? What's up? What's up? How y'all doing? Happy say Friday. Happy Thursday to you guys. is Janet Johnson.

[00:13:58]Happy Thursday to you. Happy Thursday.

[00:14:03]Happy Thursday. I want to see the see the thing the title, right? But know first we have to laugh first. Yeah, we laugh.

[00:14:14]We have to laugh.

[00:14:17]Open salon my love salon 95 to braid 3,5 to relax but she said when come relax your hair make sure not shampoo it first 7,000 to install wig but you must bring a gel I don't know what you went do with the gel so Karen say she she need something to do. She can't just sit around the house like that. And Karen don't believe in going on Tic Tac. And even though the even though she collect 48,000 um 30 odd thousand every week, she still Karen like to be confined and Karen is used to her polamy relationship.

[00:15:09]I call the word right call relationship.

[00:15:14]She used to it. Yeah.

[00:15:18]Miss Ellis try lock lock lock her down but me encourage miss Ellis to get a ch belt yeah and keep the key because really really want give salar can't be confined used to that relationship they live with her baby father plus her husband and any one of them do any night and she okay with it.

[00:15:43]Yeah, she she love selling her vajj and collect money. She feel good. She do car also do woman.

[00:15:55]Lord have mercy. K is a is a case by itself.

[00:16:04]Karen is a case by herself.

[00:16:10]Mhm.

[00:16:12]So like up the live guys.

[00:16:16]Like up the live.

[00:16:23]Fix a chair so can up my foot. Yeah.

[00:16:31]Like up the line after collect my result today. The doctor come them not finish my result and them tell me Thursday and make me drive all the way a Spanish town ignorant for them. I remember people tell you know Jamaica B up when say we burn up say that's not normal you see all them cool country Canada England say you think Lenny this early 8:33 now Lenny 8:33. I came on like about um probably something 13, 14, 20 minutes past 8.

[00:17:30]This is not early, Lenny.

[00:17:33]This is late.

[00:17:36]Lenny, this is late.

[00:17:39]Lenny, remember I have to go to my bed.

[00:17:42]Lenny boy. Danny boy. Lord have mercy.

[00:17:45]Father and son.

[00:17:50]Father and son.

[00:17:53]This is not early. This is late.

[00:17:56]Remember I have to sleep. You know, you know I did not sleep last night.

[00:18:01]You know I think long and hard to come on tonight. Long and hard. Mhm.

[00:18:08]Long and hard. Yeah, because me eat and me feel comfortable and just feel like a little sleep come off of the road and I get a nice little sleep right there.

[00:18:29]I pitch out and put two AC blood of Jesus against them eat me. That's why I try my best because on Tik Tok, you know. Yeah. Facebook.

[00:18:52]So on Tik Tok today was 97.

[00:19:00]Why Danny boy the time at noon skirt?

[00:19:04]and me tell you the time at hey in the car you know nice and good nice and good car know but you know what I realized when I was in Kingston today put the AC pan to stroke it feel good good good good good in a port more I go Spanish down or so you have to move from two stroke because put up on two stroke you eat a fight.

[00:19:44]Yeah. You want to eat a fight and tell you >> you play it with me with them people.

[00:19:59]Hey I tell you man one thing with Tik Tok filter them you know you don't even have to filter for purpose look girl pretty close I just post up this girl really pretty tell from now but say tic tac go on with itself Make you extremely pretty, make you flawless, do all kind of something to you. Mighty God stay. So this not right wickedness make people do Lulu.

[00:20:54]Yeah, make people do Lulu cuz you just press filter, you know, and it just smooth you out. So, let me go down a little more.

[00:21:10]Just smooth out so extremely.

[00:21:15]No sir, you can't bother.

[00:21:21]This is my right.

[00:21:25]Hey, so going with people, how was your day, guys? How was your day? I tell you come out of the car. So come out of the car and you hit the surface, a piece of heat just come normal. When something knows my love, Lord have mercy. All the people go through it.

[00:22:02]Glad me young glad glad glad my manage.

[00:22:08]I manage.

[00:22:12]Oh man.

[00:22:15]Let me see that something some features in a in a in a in a in a in a tick tock. No sir know how to manage.

[00:22:31]Jamaica is hot people.

[00:22:37]When I say hot me mean it hot.

[00:22:45]Merciful father background like the little back like the little backrop I just love playing with them.

[00:23:08]Mhm.

[00:23:13]I just love to play with them.

[00:25:19]Yes. Say you did good. Janet, your day was good.

[00:25:32]Mhm.

[00:25:34]try thingy.

[00:25:40]Yes. So tonight we talk about Oh, remember we going to Karen first.

[00:25:46]Remember we have to laugh first, you know. We have to laugh. Lenny go. But I want say listen this morning people and man want make appointment man with sitting sitting sitting think she easy I don't know do something but I try I try I on Tik Tok like that. So you know Tik Tok like that.

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[00:26:40]Mhm. So car over you know say grease my scalp. No grease your scalp.

[00:26:53]It bite you like lice, you know. Jesus.

[00:26:58]It bite you like lice. You can imagine somebody come live and I ask who this are you serious?

[00:27:10]You serious?

[00:27:12]Are you serious?

[00:27:22]Mhm.

[00:27:30]Yes.

[00:27:37]We talk about menopause, you know. You know, we go from zero to 100. We talk about this that this that that that scrolling seek this who it look like. You just see one. So you mean who this understand woman? Yeah. One big woman.

[00:28:07]Mhm.

[00:28:11]Yes.

[00:28:14]Good night, Tick.

[00:28:28]Um, tick tock top of the live has to come for me.

[00:28:34]This is not no and sh. We're not talking about Rosal and we're going to talk about, you know, well, the program is mature conversation. Yes.

[00:28:56]And our mot is we listen and we don't judge.

[00:29:01]Same same. Bam bam Jamaica. Same same.

[00:29:04]Yeah. Same name on all platform you know confusion. Mhm. So just use one name.

[00:29:17]One name. So tonight we want to talk about menopause and we want to really understand. We want to really try to figure it out because the men them them kind of not really understand um how menopause affect women.

[00:29:37]Even some of the women them themselves don't even understand um when they are going through penny men. Um um yeah me penny name again premenopause.

[00:29:56]Yeah.

[00:30:02]So you didn't see my name?

[00:30:05]Bam Bam Jamaica. You didn't see my channel name. Channel name always show.

[00:30:11]Cuz if you're curious, you just tap on my picture and then you see my channel name. Tap on it and you'll see my channel name.

[00:30:18]Yeah.

[00:30:20]But you know, you just say who this? You understand? Yeah.

[00:30:26]Normally, you know, when we stroll our channel, we say who this. We say like like good night. you know what's your channel name was just trolling and pounce up on this you know however you want put it but something like that something like that oh fibroids oh my god you know last night maybe she doesn't have fibroids maybe she have mine endometriosis. Lord God endometriosis. I say name endometriosis call the word wrong you know endometriosis. Yeah probably on a f. We were talking about that last night. Last night we were talking about that. We were talking about how women go through that all the time and diagnose wrongly and they tell them them have let Yes. And it's very Yeah. Just when you have them little them little sickness there, it's best to go to like the hospital, you know, at the gy clinic, you know, because doctor work, you know, doctor work like that.

[00:31:55]You understand?

[00:32:00]So, you know, you have you have to pay best interest at hand yourself. Yeah, we were actually talking about that last night.

[00:32:15]Oh, it's the rebel in you. Why you came across like that? Okay.

[00:32:20]So, you see, so so you see what a good conversation Yes. The maturity in me and the maturity in you. And we just flow and it just work. Is what? All righty.

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[00:32:51]We're not talk about Rosalie and Akim.

[00:32:54]We're not talking about Jaden and Sh tonight. We will talk about those.

[00:33:04]Yes. So, we are having some mature conversation tonight. We're talking about menopause and how women go through menopause and how the men them don't understand when women going through permenopause aka premenopause because they can go through menopause age 35.

[00:33:28]Yeah.

[00:33:31]And a lot of women go through it. A lot of woman women go through it. And trust me the man not understand what the woman go through at all not care find out accuse you of so many things accuse them tell you say you're miserable them tell you say yeah relationship mash up relationship man tell me go can't go watch Netflix pay Netflix bill every month I hardly watch it so tell me watch me Netflix I have no time love my TV screen no black so ro you understand my TV work m no giant TV just one little 65 in but it good my house no big so have to buy the TV for match the space you understand Yeah.

[00:34:44]So tell me with if if if want have a conversation. Tell me if want have a conversation.

[00:34:55]Yeah. Me know if want have a conversation over Tik Tok. If we want chuck up on my box ch request, I will just have a conversation. So we want to talk about menopause people. Menopause.

[00:35:08]But the part that we want to talk about is about the men if they understand. A lot of women complain. A lot of men don't have a clue because sometime the woman themselves don't even clue themselves. Do you know I go through menopause at 48? Not a nice thing. Lord have mercy. And guess what?

[00:35:34]You go through menopause at 48. When a premenopause start enough people know when premenopause start, you know, clothes on skirt then blame it on the weather. Mhm. then blame it on the weather and say the time at hey know but them say man go through the name andropause raster bless up yourself now bless up yourself bless up yourself bless up yourself ra bless up yourself say man don't want something andropas but what are the side effects I don't even Oh, but you say what? What? What? Um, Daffhne guys over Tik Tok. Top of the screen for me. Top of the screen so the algorithm can work. Top of the screen over um YouTube for me. Give me a thumbs up so the algorithm the algorithm don't work guys if you don't tap up the screen or over Tik Tok them say top up the screen scream. Yeah over YouTube top up the screen for me please but like mature conversation say top up the screen. Mhm.

[00:37:00]Yeah, I had a surgery and it put me in early menopause. Okay.

[00:37:14]Yeah. They say men go through andropause. Something like andropause name. Somebody correct me if I'm wrong.

[00:37:21]Mhm. That's what they say men go through. Andropause.

[00:37:26]You know some men know something after eat we premenopause is any time between late 30s to early exactly exactly that's why me ask Janet um because a lot of women don't understand let me tell you as right between 35 to into into your 40s because when you actually go through menopause When you actually go through menopause, um, you stop seeing your period for a complete year.

[00:38:05]You understand? Because a lot of us women, you know, we don't really read up on it, you know. We don't really understand the thing, you know. Yeah. We don't really understand the thing and we don't really know where going to try fix my phone. Shove it up a little and it drop on me. If I hear nothing go say yeah a lot of women don't really know themsel you understand they don't really know when they are going through premenopause a lot of women do have a clue because I did not know myself I did not know myself you know because guess to reach me. My hand start hurt me. My right hand know my hand hurt me. My hand pray everything and it was menopause. If you ever type up the um what you call it? If you ever type up um the the the the the um Lord have mercy. Why the word can't come out of my mouth?

[00:39:24]It had adverse effects on the entire body. Yes. Mhm.

[00:39:31]If you ever type up the symptoms for premenopause, type up the symptoms for premenopause.

[00:39:39]The amount of something you see come up.

[00:39:42]But of course, most of us um don't like to read. You understand? Because remember social media keeper prefer to listen. You understand? We prefer to listen. But we have to take a little time out sometime and read and do a little research. You understand? Because me tell you say me see a woman I used to go to church big woman. I remember me tell you say this woman was like 60 or 60 down and you just water just wet her up.

[00:40:14]She just mean like somebody duck her and say oh go kill a man and she have a clue.

[00:40:25]She know keep. She never know keep. She just she sweat. She sweat enough. And a lot of women afraid to say they are going through premen and none of special because have it love. I grow I be a baby. I grow big. I get old and get back like a baby and then we dead and then more people born life. I go it's inevitable. I saw it go.

[00:40:52]You understand? So we do about it. No shame supposed to enter your game.

[00:41:00]Know lady again she say she know what because she turn up the AC she still feel a little heat in her body and this woman was in her 50s and she did not have a clue.

[00:41:14]So if we have no clue, the man have a clue for know how treat us.

[00:41:24]We have a clue.

[00:41:27]The lady tell me say she don't know what happen she say she want go doctor because she know she feel a little ease in her body and then go home say yes it last for 10 seconds and you under the AC actually sweat but you feel a little heat body it will come right so wet up so wet up down the side your foot wet up over your for in your chest in your back you go get it [ __ ] po what is wrong with you. I've been waiting for you so long. Good night, my love. How you doing?

[00:42:05]I am on Tik Tok also. Yeah, me tic tac it too. It no matter how much we vibes.

[00:42:23]Yeah man. It have effect on your whole body for true whole body. Yeah. On your whole body I tell you.

[00:42:33]Yeah. symptoms look for that word look for grab it out of my mouth for me look for me I'll text you today answer so me say probably busy vitamins B C and D are good for Perry or premenopause to prepare the body for it may not didn't know that when time me love never know I do me go do my research I do me do me research and talk to girlfriends talk to friends and so but I realized that the word menopause a lot of women don't embrace it want to embrace that word I don't know if they are in denial or what if they are in denial I don't know they don't want to embrace it they don't want to think about it not know them them them them them them them them them them them them them them them them them them them them them them afraid to get old or something cuz all you have to do get old you know just put it on you know just nice up yourself you know that's all you know hot and cold fluctuations too are signs even changing your cycle yeah mhm E say I I read up you think ra um I was going to do a Cxc subject the way me read up on it. Yeah.

[00:44:15]Like up the life for me. Love family.

[00:44:18]Bless up yourself. Bless up yourself mama. Bless up yourself.

[00:44:25]It's like losing something moms. It's not easy to just accept a true hey not ask you Jesus Antonio but what we want really talk about no man send a next text in the evening send next evening take something in preparation for it.

[00:45:02]It's like losing something bags. It not easy to just accept. Know that man a true man. It not easy for accept at all.

[00:45:08]It not easy for accept but we have to accept it. But some people want accept it. In the sense them think yes them get old them like in denial. That's a different thing you understand in denial because you know your body go through changes and want easy something that you understand and I want easy something.

[00:45:30]The amount of woman, the amount of woman when me talk to never have a clue, me I tell you. Did not have a clue.

[00:45:40]But me, you see me me when you see me do ear dressing, right? Me used to do a little little still. But earressing, you understand? And you know you have clients and so you know say at the salon all kind of conversation come up in the salon. So all kind of conversation come up in the salon and you know we you know you have clientele where you know big older people sometime you know we younger older people come and whatever. I remember doing a lady.

[00:46:14]I was working in a tree and I do a lady I tell you say the lady said to me say tush tush up woman you know and lady said to me say can I take off my top oh my god at the shop you know at work you know woman said girlfriend you see when your time come trust me tell me about it remember me tell you say the woman say she go through it she go through it she not just going through it through heat alone she go through it through you know how she feel in her whole body as way say roster it affects your whole body you feel pain you will feel one pain in your hand one pain in your foot you will feel suicidal miserably you have mood mood change you know you have mood change man accuse you if you cheat on them something you have no your sex Driver cut little all kind of something going on with you. You're miserable.

[00:47:20]All kind of something going on.

[00:47:23]One bag of something going on with you.

[00:47:26]But when we really really want attack is the men.

[00:47:36]The men. The men. The men don't most men don't understand um take the time out I should say to figure out what we women go through where men premenopause and menopause is concerned because you know premenopause can affect you from as early as 35 up.

[00:48:07]You have to miss your period for one year straight to be in menopause.

[00:48:13]Complete menopause. You have to miss your period for it. And one day you just see one buller bleeding and sitting sitt go to the doctor and whatever whatever and and he ask me some question say [ __ ] you know say I eat this and the doctor tell me then say watch body language everything come paper do um this xray and this that one bag something know friend somewhere and and when do the test know me do the paper say shoot please come on tell come like tax man now yeah just dollars and cents that's all them see yeah so you know you you see your period you know the last bleeding damn You know people you you will get scared. You will get scared if you don't understand what is happening with your body. You understand? You will get scared if you don't understand what is happening to your body. You understand? You will end up spend a lot of to the do um um doctor about something that is you have to your body have to go through. You know read up on it. As we say, take the necessary precaution. You know, you have vitamins and things as as she said, vitamin A, B and C, you know, to prepare your body to prepare your body for it. Know them have no pill for make no sweat none at all. Make that heat come out of your body like it.

[00:50:07]I fear the heat most. I hate to eat and me tell you Jes miserable from birth. So I guess that will get worse.

[00:50:20]Say that will get worse. I watch a man on Facebook do a skit on menopause from from his wife's perspective. It was very interesting. So some men do know but not a lot.

[00:50:34]Let me tell you the men them the men them don't have no most of them some of them most of them I think them not have no not have a little compassion where menopause is concerned they not they have a clue they don't have a clue yeah have a clue them know for just you know pay with no mind and just walk out and just low.

[00:51:07]You understand? They have a clue.

[00:51:14]Yeah.

[00:51:21]They don't have a clue. But I think and not tell a lie still know people we can be a handful you know when pass you know we can be a handful you know.

[00:51:36]Mhm. We can be a handful.

[00:51:43]Want some water?

[00:51:45]Look one water in our freezer. You don't see it. I put it some water with me water.

[00:52:25]Yes people.

[00:52:28]So meeting things say a lot of you men who live with wife who have wife who have common law wife and all of that want to know for understand want have some little more comp compassion. M waitan want to know have some little more compassion Jesus understand.

[00:53:00]Yeah.

[00:53:02]Have some more compassion. Yes. Some more compassion.

[00:53:07]Where that is a lot is on the market. bombs. Black girl vitamins. I first made one day always talk about primrose.

[00:53:23]Me always talk about prim rose. This primrose something buy one time buy all kind of pill. Me take all kind of something. All kind of something. People take all kind of something. Where me take for the heat part about what must I take for the heat?

[00:53:43]How do I stop that?

[00:53:50]How do I stop that? Me always grudge some big man know how them do it, you know. And and talk in a Jamaica, you know, with makeup and them not drive.

[00:54:02]How them do it when heat them. God love them and put them through it more than me.

[00:54:14]God love them.

[00:54:23]That wonder if God love them more than me.

[00:54:27]Strip naked. Lord have mercy.

[00:54:30]It still go come out. It not that stop it.

[00:54:36]It not stop it. It not stop it. It still come out.

[00:54:43]Do you have what that pal palpitations?

[00:54:53]What is palpitation?

[00:54:56]When you say me have palpitation, what what what happen? Define palpitation.

[00:55:08]I drink my drink and lift.

[00:55:18]The heat does wake me up. Yeah, the heat definitely will wake you up. It wake you up. It wake you up. Hey, you're ever underneath the sunshine cream up yourself. Oh, racing heartbeat. Racing heartbeat tell you say a racing heartbeat that it be that like we call shorter breath, right?

[00:55:48]Short breath. Same thing, right? Yeah.

[00:55:51]Mhm. Yeah. It it it it happened to me sometime. Yeah, that used to happen. Me I tell you the things them happen to me.

[00:55:59]I ask you the things them reach me. The things them happen to me. The things them happen to me like the live tic tac for tic tac people can't come in come up in the box a request know put out the box them. I swear to God I don't know to do it. So like request the box can't come up know how put up box I don't have a clue.

[00:56:51]Yeah, man. That that that happened to me like give me shorter breath and so yeah, just wake me up. That's that's the annoying part.

[00:57:02]Who? Who got it? The name got the name.

[00:57:06]Anyway, come up with a name there.

[00:57:10]Hey, you good ever come up underneath the sheet. And when you come up underneath the sheet, it you feel a heat there come. Oh my god. Come like adrenaline rush.

[00:57:24]You just feel a heat there come to blows and skirt. Go so warm and take off the sheet. dash away and by the time you take off the sheet and the 10 seconds up a lot of people don't know it's 10 seconds it last you know you when that 10 second up oh my god you start get cold again you know so your night can be annoying and miserable you know what that can do to you and you have to and you have a a a big lighting up the live over there you know what that can Mighty God me a buff not play no game.

[00:58:14]You know what I can do? You fling off the sheet at your at your at your at your cannot get a night sleep.

[00:58:25]What? What's key with these vitamin is from the Perry stage you start take it.

[00:58:32]Okay. Okay. The key with that is to take the vitamins from from from the permenopause stage. From having the premenopause you start taking your vitamins a true. Yeah. To prepare your body. Yeah.

[00:58:48]To prepare your body for it.

[00:58:53]Have a little eater on my right and my fan on the left.

[00:59:00]Have a right.

[00:59:04]When my head hurt.

[00:59:07]When my head hurt.

[00:59:11]I'm mad. So till because it just mash up my whole day. Exactly. Oh hey as you talk about the headache m story about me when I go through premenopause me say people I used to go through a blow and skirt headache.

[00:59:32]You know much time me make pastor pray for me. You know much so me seed me sow them time never have no church sense. You know much seed me s for me headache one time think trouble me one time say me have migraine I take migraine tablet till a weak me say army tell you the headache didn't have I cannot run you say if I run or I step hard you say if I run and I step hard guess what it do me feel it pouncing on me head E nobody not look nobody over here looking as a married woman that you know you can't block them um they press on them and block M.

[01:00:44]Oh, you block him. Yeah, you can't block them, man.

[01:00:49]Black out them backside. You will always get that. But everybody make them upset me. Mhm.

[01:00:57]Cuz when you make something upset always, you know.

[01:01:04]Yeah, man. The headache. Oh my god. Me send me go through one year. What a headache. I swear to God exaggerate. I did not know what what what what to do start read up on it. Lord have mercy. My life going full up. Could have deal set one more.

[01:01:24]Thank you guys.

[01:01:27]the I have um popsicles in my fridge. Cold water, coconut water. I tell you, lack of sleep is one terrible one too. Yeah, it it it hey it mess up my sleep tell you much time while last night was a no sleep night.

[01:01:49]You know YouTube last night till after 12 girl sleep. Last night was a no sleep night. I did not sleep. So that's why today went up on the road and come back to chuck up in the set.

[01:02:05]Last night is a was a no sleep night. I did not sleep last night. I did not sleep.

[01:02:13]Yeah, me not sleep last night.

[01:02:19]Insom. Insomnia.

[01:02:24]What is insomnia? Cuz me know where you said before that mood swing. Hey, the mood swing make the man them all cuss out them woman but we want touch to do the men ladies how how you guys cope with it with your men with your husband your fiance how you guys cope with it how how is the relationship with them do they understand do they really understand you know what what what you're going through do they want to understand? Do they try to understand what you're going through?

[01:03:18]It's so nice to see us bonding as women sharing one common thing that affects all of us, don't it? No shame in the game. Don't it raster? No shame in the game. Whether you are Chinese, um, Asian, you Asians, your white, this that black, yellow, green, it don't matter.

[01:03:37]You're going to go through it.

[01:03:39]You're going to go through it. It affects all of us. Yeah. It affects all of us.

[01:03:47]But a lot of women don't want to talk about it. They just erase it.

[01:03:55]Yeah, man. He eat me up one of time.

[01:04:03]Then just picture me me living in Jamaica here going through that.

[01:04:09]Yeah. Talk about man think a normal something.

[01:04:13]Sometimes sometimes me lay down and open up but then cover up because me don't want your Lord have mercy.

[01:04:35]I want terrible something man.

[01:04:39]One terrible terrible something.

[01:04:41]Terrible terrible something. So let me ask ladies it cut a sex drive. Come back talk. Remember how matter is you understand? We listen.

[01:04:57]Adjust the heat when you can't sleep.

[01:05:00]Oh. Oh, that's what they call it. Okay.

[01:05:03]Okay. Cladet.

[01:05:13]Okay.

[01:05:15]My AB is okay. He understands. Sometime I think it's unfair to him to listen to so much. Boy understand like a me cause it.

[01:05:35]Yeah like a me cause it.

[01:05:41]Yes, my love.

[01:05:46]Really?

[01:05:51]Why me I tell you?

[01:05:54]Tell me talk to me night. Um Britann tell me talk to me. Tell me tell me how the man how how is the treatment at home with with with your hobby going through men?

[01:06:11]Does he understand?

[01:06:28]Does he understand what you're going through or you know him just get a hard time? Oh, it go me I use the phone. Me I use the phone with the message I go on. I use the phone.

[01:07:02]I use it top live soon or something to do with the live or something look message. aside.

[01:07:41]How how how is it with your other half, guys, ladies? How is it with your other half?

[01:07:51]How does he um deal with you going through menopause?

[01:07:57]Going through menopause. Do he like is he understandable?

[01:08:02]Does he understand what is happening?

[01:08:05]You know, because trust me, it can it it can we can be a mouthful, a handful, you know.

[01:08:15]All right. DP come ask DP.

[01:08:19]I think understand bombs. Alway done. And if you understand and you know for do you just quint it quint it and make them scream and go about them business. Mhm. If you're experienced enough and know what to do and if and if you have the the vice grip.

[01:08:55]Yeah. You have to have the grip producer.

[01:09:11]You say you have to cool down your Andropas. But why you come tell about andropause? Give me a little, you know, a little a little um synopsis and and and andropause, you know, not no long a little tip. Make understand Remember my husband he understand my husband don't bother me do everything to make me comfortable when it come on to the to the heat and all of these things even though AC get turn on for me everything but let me tell you I go into early menopause reason be I did ancillary me reason why I do it. I did not fama know from pregnant with my second child. The doctor tell me fib but it's on the outside and it look like a mole.

[01:10:44]But over the years I go have two my fibroid was on the outside. But here what happened after a while you know um I did surgery when I come to America come to when I migrate and come here come live >> I do surgery come have insurance and all of that. So I do surgery but I did a total hyctomy cuz I could do partial but the doctor say it make no sense to do partial because sometime you do partial hyctomy and the ovaries you can get ovaries cancer after. So it best me take out everything. So I took out everything and because of that my sex drive um because menopause. Tell me, tell me go through early menopause by doing the hysterings and all of that. At times feelings, but not feelings. And then again we work so much that sometime you know what we used to take me when Body burn sister and she said girl is menopause I going through that yeah menopause woman emergency end You know that with me with my to me people with my wonder why hurt me so wonder why my hurt me so I never know the doctor said not a thing do extra Not a thing they not a thing they Mhm.

[01:13:29]But we could talk about the thing the the um the sex drive part. No the before we go there. So the the hyerectomy the hyerectomy. Yeah. Your hyerectomy where you remove your home. You know you remove your home. So you go straight into early menopause. Because if you take out your home when time 30 odd 30 whatever you go straight in a menopause.

[01:13:56]I wonder how that feel.

[01:13:59]One time nearly take out my womb you know because of endometriosis you know M I call it right endometriosis.

[01:14:10]MD endometriosis.

[01:14:13]Mhm. One time I nearly home you know tell the doctor you say your menopause nothing like like when you go through per menopause premenopause nothing not a thing then I make you lucky so Vicki when I say nothing what you mean you have to get at flash everybody get flash everybody go through something but probably you don't know and go doctor spend money and the doctor don't tell Oh yeah.

[01:14:52]And maybe the doctor don't tell you No ad flash. I don't have no symptom.

[01:15:33]Vicki, no symptom.

[01:15:39]Understand that possible that possible research to do a quick research for me.

[01:15:50]Nothing at all Vicki.

[01:15:54]That possible people.

[01:16:01]Not at all.

[01:16:08]Your older sister said the same.

[01:16:13]Where you say brain fog.

[01:16:23]You think nothing there but something there. You just have a clue. You just not know.

[01:16:32]Me ask. Let me ask Google. Can a woman go through menopause without any symptom? Maybe.

[01:16:40]You never know.

[01:16:45]Let me ask um um AI Yes, a woman can go through menopause without experience typical symptoms while approximately 85% of people experience symptoms. About 15% have a symptom free are very mild transition sometimes only noticing that their periods have stopped. Menopause is a natural biological process not a disease.

[01:18:05]So you can have mild symptoms. Some women have very few or no symptoms at all during premenopause.

[01:18:12]The transition on menopause according to the national institution of aging and aging even without atlash or mood swings the primary indicator is that menstrual period would change becoming irregular lighter or heavier before stopping permanently.

[01:18:32]So a woman can't actually not have no symptom for true live full again.

[01:18:55]Thank you guys.

[01:19:01]Where you said nothing at all get Vicki.

[01:19:03]Oh my god. Me grudge you.

[01:19:06]I grudger to backside me eyeglass squeeze me ears.

[01:19:13]I grudger remember me tell you me go go through it.

[01:19:21]I go through it but I will do anything to don't get ad flash. I swear to God I will take anything. I will try any method.

[01:19:31]Sagging skin and wrinkles are caused from things related to menopause.

[01:19:38]Okay. So you say some people might get saggy skin and something and probably think get nothing and get something age.

[01:19:48]They might age a little more a little quicker than some people.

[01:20:00]Good night sunflower.

[01:20:06]It's possible a small percentage of women experience no symptoms. Yeah, that just see a while ago. Besides their period stopping, there are no other noticeable changes.

[01:20:33]Mhm.

[01:20:35]Why me? another percentage them not lie.

[01:20:41]I don't know if if it makes me feel I don't know me feel like I don't give a crap about sex but sometimes the drive is on 100%.

[01:20:53]You say sometime the drive is on but sex keep again. Sex not keep again. You know sex not keep again blows.

[01:21:02]Nobody have sex again like that.

[01:21:06]Sexy puzzle on Tik Tok and engage in the conversation please.

[01:21:29]It's pretty annoying thing.

[01:21:35]premenopause and if the men really understand what their women are going through. Do men really understand what women are going through when it come on to menopause. Do they have any sympathy with us?

[01:21:50]Do they show any sympathy towards us?

[01:22:07]Tell the man them that that that bombs it ever if ever a keep for them don't it always a keep for them though stop my stuff early. I in I injured. I got heavy. Oh yeah, I have heavy bleed and I stop.

[01:22:45]I just don't like being hot at. That's the worst for me. Second you.

[01:22:50]I can't deal with it. They need to top up the screen.

[01:23:04]Yeah, man. Tik Tok also bombs me.

[01:23:12]You just wake up, go in your kitchen, go look some food.

[01:23:20]Top up the screen for people. Top up the screen.

[01:23:26]Probably the people Tik Tok understand screen. Top up the screen.

[01:23:32]Top up the screen.

[01:23:35]That look good for me head like it.

[01:23:40]Top of the screen over Tik Tok. I send little rose man. Send little rose over Tik Tok now. Good lord. Send little rose man. Oh you go. Tops and roses. Tops and roses. Tops and roses. I beg. I beg.

[01:23:55]I beg like a farm of um menopause but never anything like a woman go through DP watch TV and come tell me um about um andropause want know about andropause know how it go know she say but not know tic tac like that again.

[01:24:41]Come people top of the screen. Top of the screen want more likes over there.

[01:24:49]want yet part and come back just reach home tell me um andropause want know what are the symptoms go through what is it because mid midlife crisis because I think that's something them go through I just for want one young girl yeah I just want one young girl is is like it mess up their mind. Yeah.

[01:25:24]Mhm.

[01:25:30]Why there isn't woman woman paws?

[01:25:34]When you say warm paws from all of this, don't it? Why not like when you under the blow and skirt sheet and the heat come off the sheet and by time you fling off the sheet cold back your night mess up and then probably during during all of that you want pe and get up your night mess up. You see the next morning you're tired like a dog.

[01:25:56]You're tired like a dog. Worse if you have some something to do important the day or whatever and you have to wake up early. Mighty God I went through that last night. I could not sleep. That's that's what I don't like. What I I think I get every single symptom that menopause give.

[01:26:14]I get the headache that I did mash up and I get the headache.

[01:26:23]The sweat. Oh my god. Jesus. The heat, the sweat.

[01:26:29]And then sometime good for me get flashing. And last night it lit me on my face left, right, and center. I don't know where to put the fan.

[01:26:43]Pop up the screen for me. Top up the screen over Tik Tok. Tap up the screen. I don't know do they have another time just good feel nothing do me.

[01:27:00]Yeah, my love. every nothing go through nothing have nothing do me just all right I'm just going with myself cool and nice and another time it turn up two blows and skirt and sometime is like get a little fatigue as well I say you know the the the the short breath thing sometime feel Like you know like me just like know like just just drop out just bread know me get everything come with it look like or get the one terrible. Yeah, we go through it and then another time just good and nice and nothing do me all go through it blows and skirt have all three for me and put on makeup and walk with all red car stop and put face in the freezer tell about that put in the freezer the freezer and go and put my face in the freezer and for a little 10 second and cool me face and then put my fan and go the car cuz if I ever don't put the fan on me by time lock the grill wet kill me by time lock the grill say no to this dopy nice is not a nice thing for some can take place up until we are into our 70s. The longer it goes on, the more intense it becomes.

[01:28:55]She's on crime. I wonder when m stop say Eve fall. Why we must take all the punishment? But remember Lilith say Lilith the daddy before Eve. Eve was the second wife that say Lilith. your name or Lily or Lily Major.

[01:29:21]Yes. Evil who entice Adam to eat of the forbidden fruit loss. Lord have mercy forever.

[01:29:35]Can't bother me. Can't bo for me.

[01:29:45]Can't bo something on Tik Tok. This what this show you.

[01:30:05]Oh, you can only post whose content is so Okay, that one.

[01:30:29]Okay.

[01:30:35]Well, you say I look forward to it.

[01:30:37]Mommy hardly had any symptoms and I hope it's hereditary.

[01:30:44]Well, probably hereditary because perop start from from all in your 30s. So probably probably not per start from early as 35.

[01:31:02]Have nothing going to get nothing.

[01:31:06]You don't get nothing at all. Vicki, ear loss is minor. Some women can lose their side. This is not a simple thing.

[01:31:24]It can be major for some women. Me I tell you because trust me as simple as we sitting know people we cannot look for menopause like just menopause serious serious something you know. Yeah man.

[01:31:40]Mhm.

[01:31:42]Serious serious something.

[01:31:47]I nothing to play with.

[01:31:50]Serious serious something. Serious serious something.

[01:31:57]Whether you believe it or not.

[01:32:00]Mhm.

[01:32:02]Remember say dry out dry out something you know.

[01:32:07]Yeah. dry out then ton ton and make them not in there and make them not um have no mice in there and have to use lubricant something and then and if it dry out some woman ton and the woman sex drive you know you have some look well it affect everybody still you have some big go with young boy and so my lucky one know we do so pregnancy child birth and menopause where we do so she I'm crying men treat we good you know men treat with good you know want to say deep and My ear tell not long you know not long.

[01:33:11]Yeah want chat. So tell something and how you treat if if you understand about menopause and and and and you know if you are mindful of what is happening to a woman during menopause. If if if you if you understand you know when you you know you did married and live with your wife and so if you know what did that happen you know if you know what was happening how did you deal with it how how did you treat her I What that alcohol alcohol and and in my car to help cool me down.

[01:34:13]Oh, especially for the headache.

[01:34:18]Every woman who is under is undergoing this should go seek medical help seriously.

[01:34:26]Then all medical help get a flash right now. Talk too quick.

[01:34:35]Yeah. Talk too quick. Look how long they cool and nice. And now watch. Yeah.

[01:34:44]Chat too quick.

[01:34:50]Me feel just read up on it. I It's out there. It's at our fingertip and that do you take your vitamin them as we did say you have things for you to vitamins for you to prepare your body prepare yourself for menopause take your vitamin understand what is happening to you understand and whatever doctor do all take money do nothing.

[01:35:24]Menopause and menopause. It's like you have flu. You have to go doctor. You just go lie down and drink of liquid of fluid and and and and and make it just um do it course that me think agree with me.

[01:35:45]Love, love car. Love car. Nice. Love nice car.

[01:35:53]Nice clothes. Nice shoes.

[01:36:01]We have to go through. So why woman have to go through all of this? It's just that woman have to go through so much with their bodies. So much I still not get no respect.

[01:36:14]M sometime so much we have to go through with body not play Lord have mercy want you take offense to that do not take offense to that if me say not long do not take offense to that every woman who is undergoing this should go. Oh, you read that already. I wonder if my eye problem is caused.

[01:36:55]So me tell you trust me what it it happen because me couldn't see me not see me want change my eye glass and realize that me sugar was good good good good good good good nothing keep me good good good good realize come understand me get every single one of the symptoms nothing pass me nothing never pass me suck up everything.

[01:37:26]And then when me did young, you know, when me did young, you know, me end up um have period very early, you know, at a young age, you know, 13 year old, you know, remember when we leave primary school and the summer me start have menal. Yeah. Same thing with same thing with my daughter. My daughter start my daughter start about 11. My daughter start in a prep school in a five grade.

[01:37:49]Little girl start see Yeah. them start splatting or something early start. So you them say when you start early, you go a menopause early.

[01:38:02]Yeah.

[01:38:07]Me know DP tell about the andropause and what are and what are and what are the symptoms. I don't know nothing about it.

[01:38:20]Where you say start when you are 10.

[01:38:22]Yeah. Some people start very early and always when you start early.

[01:38:28]So they say sir the teapot take long for wash though bombs know the teapot don't wash man you see me the teapot wash I probably dry it off know you wipe you off where you But hey, I I want tell you um m I want tell you I don't sweat in my head you know I don't sweat on my head like that.

[01:39:11]Yeah nobody sleeping clothes with my foot problem can't make the the fan touch it cramp it up. Yeah. So have to cover them like literally wrap them up in a sheet.

[01:39:26]Cover them. cover them. I need to get me some long socks, but cover them.

[01:39:36]But not cover up nowhere else, my love.

[01:39:39]You know, you know one time um in the early morning we part of the morning like 4:00 in Jamaica, you get cold not keep right now, my love.

[01:39:50]My twin sister start at 11.

[01:39:54]Where say you start late? Some people start all 16.

[01:40:02]Remember me just come back from night meat market. Not eating any food as yet.

[01:40:11]Is that when a woman's body parts for from men is when a woman body parts from men.

[01:40:24]know why them call it menopause call it menopause a really positive pass from men for true a must so I will be taking all my herbal remedies at my disposal anything for my comfort and if I tell you no you have to pay but but here then God we we we get our medical assistant for free due to our NHS contributions when we are working. Okay.

[01:41:05]Why not know?

[01:41:09]See it come a while ago. Right side the chair wet toast.

[01:41:13]Right side the chair wet.

[01:41:16]I me the back something. Right side the chair wet. My back wet.

[01:41:22]Yeah. But it gone now you know. Yeah.

[01:41:24]Gone. Yeah. So dry my back.

[01:41:28]It gone.

[01:41:31]This is what we go through.

[01:41:34]I tell you this is what we go through and and and when you have a little weight it's it it's it's it terrible. You can just can just imagine All right. I give a chance pass by know still not tell lie. We go through it. Women go through it.

[01:42:32]My twin sister upset when she when she when she see her stuff a month time. I not see nothing. She beat the life.

[01:42:44]So twin sister still say something.

[01:42:50]Why the body just um they man the body just know?

[01:43:00]Because come on, you know, you just see some something some something just happen. The body just unique. Yeah, man.

[01:43:14]Yeah, man. Water man water me drink let it out.

[01:43:27]Me drink one of this every day. sometime one and one one and a half one and a half of this.

[01:43:34]Yeah.

[01:43:37]Stop by the little bottle of water and buy a case of them buy water and buy some f Thank you. Thank you.

[01:44:08]Please people up your screen affects our body and why we women have to go through so much of this my love. Mhm. And how and how some of the men them don't understand what we are going through and say we're miserable. Yeah. them know got back on my on my sugar intake. That can be a a big culprit to have not to have hot flashes.

[01:44:38]You have to balance the hormones. I eat a lot of avocados too.

[01:44:44]Why me need to know? We need a remedy.

[01:44:47]We need a remedy for for cut down some of my trudy. cut down some of the thing and we not we not we not have avocado like that right through the year you understand have some little little something so you know we have our big certain time of the year love it eat a lot love it oh my god just slice up one pear and just eat it eat it eat it Nice squeeze lemon juice in the water.

[01:45:26]Give me 10 lemon yesterday.

[01:45:29]Lemon text memon make sure pick some nice mango mango from some nice mango and have some sweet over there have one A grape grape like in grape tree did one school close when school clo and I start walking often to help with the weight and see and see if that would help.

[01:46:21]But um maybe maybe the only time I can tolerate um sweating is when I'm working out that me can't manage it. I swear to God.

[01:46:39]You can't manage it. That's the only time I can tolerate it is when um um um thing I'm working out. Once me not work out can't manage that shitm cannot you say so beg him all the time. Yes love text him um be sarcastic man give me enough give me 10.

[01:47:16]Mhm.

[01:47:19]And some nice size lemon too.

[01:47:22]Lemon tree fruit tree at flashes is a different type of eat and me tell you truly cheese and crime can't manage it.

[01:47:39]Hey, you can't imagine you know much you know much relationship menopause mash up a thing we go through as women you know so woman pum get dry and the man have a problem just cooperate and use lubricant rotted vaseline and call it a day and enjoy himself and baby rot itself woman sex drive sometime gone and and and don't even know say yes understand your woman know she go through and say babes me understand yeah sex drive say fling it fling back yeah use your blows and skirt tongue and lip and something fling it and then you insert something get her in the mood you can't you can do things. Yeah, man. It can't fix. But instead complain, but instead some men complain and go find another woman. You understand?

[01:48:53]Where say your house cool like ice is not eligible for recommendation or restricted? I wonder why why that what kind of foolishness they tell me say tic tac tell me not a topic so look look I walk on a topic tic tac what me one bad kind of tic tac sometime. You know what is wrong with talking about menopause.

[01:49:54]Exactly. They are sensitive about the wrong things.

[01:49:58]Tik Tok irritate me.

[01:50:11]Yeah, as me say a little something said a little something manip mess up um relationship mess up because men do not understand what we are going through. Yeah. And relationship mess up. Sometime we in a big at water big cussing. Yeah.

[01:50:38]Sometime you just miserable, you know.

[01:50:42]Ask one question, one rhetorical question and and go through flash. Yes.

[01:50:50]Know that already.

[01:50:53]And then so we going so far now. So we going so far.

[01:51:00]Yeah. Take menopause and c me and then just get mad and start scream and get mad and big war start.

[01:51:11]Yeah. them not understand. Them not want them understand that mean see I'mma wait now it's hot flash wake me up and I got to get up 4 a.m. at flash is a mess is a hot mess. Oh my god. Tell me about it.

[01:51:44]Emwit, tell me about it. Bam. When you're in the house, just wear a t-shirt and your and your knickers.

[01:51:55]Keep cool. Keep a loose um fitting dress nearby. If anybody come calling me want no t-shirt want naked want naked put on nothing wear brazier not even brazier put on only put on brazier if certain clothes might make a titty look good but once put on something my breast look sexy and good night not put it on no brazier my love put on brazier with a shirt cuz A shirt might make your chest kind of look flat. But apart from that, not put on no ratted brazier.

[01:52:38]No Brazil not put on say like ice.

[01:52:48]You can't take the heat. J.

[01:52:53]Yes. It messes up marriage big time.

[01:52:55]Yeah. mess up marriage big time because men them don't understand them all think you cheat on them. Yeah, them think you cheat on them.

[01:53:07]You should use lubricants or try to understand her mood swing. Yeah, them don't understand mood swing. Them not understand it none at all. I tell you say the way I the way menopause do it make bipolar mood swing. We literally bipolar. And me tell you.

[01:53:29]Yeah, we bipolar.

[01:53:34]I've educated my ex-boyfriend, godfather, and a few more male friends on and premenopause, menopause, post menopause, and andropause were ready to leave.

[01:53:50]told them that they need to that they need to they need to research or you tell them need to research. Yeah.

[01:54:04]The men them need to do research for true want what are some of the symptoms Trudy with andropause? What what what what men go through? What are some of the symptoms more understand andropause yeah want to take tick I know that's why I add the add that you need to understand her mood.

[01:54:52]Bab's t-shirt helps to suck up the sweat.

[01:54:58]They say t-shirt suck up the sweat. Hey, trying to put on some silk shirt and sit me, you know.

[01:55:04]Lord have mercy.

[01:55:06]You know they say white. They say white um um dry heat more white. When you have white clothes, it make it draw heat more than black. Is it true? That's what they say.

[01:55:21]Scientist say use corn starch powder and then look like when you flour chicken.

[01:55:31]You get corn starch powder corn starch powder. Yeah. When you bow, it feel cool.

[01:55:41]You want that skirt. You want see powder like one big tough baby full of powder. Yeah.

[01:55:54]Powder. My love.

[01:56:03]They got through um um low sex drive too. Oh, they go through low sex drive too.

[01:56:13]Some of them man and and and and the man with the young girl.

[01:56:31]Hey y crotches and make some breeze under balls.

[01:56:45]The man bed, corn starch powder I use to thick gravy and soap.

[01:57:02]Well, I eat ID.

[01:57:06]Well, I um Sunshine Queen say she use keep me and the andropause. Come. You want go tic tac DP and jump in on my box?

[01:57:24]You prefer go um Tik Tok and jump in on my box and talk. So go and use a phone because remember you have to show yourself when the box like nobody see you. You understand? You just um take off your camera and and um um thing there and um camera talk. Let me know where you papa. What's up?

[01:58:29]Come on. Some info on that.

[01:58:40]The the main thing is midlife crisis.

[01:58:44]Yeah. Midlife crisis. Yeah. They lose muscle mass, erectile dysfunction, fatigue, belly fat, and lose weight.

[01:58:58]Okay.

[01:59:00]That's why. But that's I see so much big man in a gym. Hey m go my love.

[01:59:10]So they so so so they going to gym kind of help them out.

[01:59:16]Help them out you know tone up body and tell look good naked at all.

[01:59:27]Yeah, you look good naked. Come like you want fat and come like one titty, you know, and come like a piece of belly down like that.

[01:59:41]Look good naked. You want look good naked. It's very important to look good naked, my love for me.

[01:59:55]them have them have um them bipolar too.

[02:00:01]No sir.

[02:00:10]So so so so let me make me say something then. Let me say something. So can you imagine? Thank you for sharing the live meow.

[02:00:20]Let make me say something then.

[02:00:24]Let me ask something.

[02:00:30]Let me ask you something. So can you imagine?

[02:00:34]So a while ago when I talk to you, you answer me. You answer me ask if you want come over Tik Tok and jump on the box and give you a little whatever whatever tell me the thing say you can't do or something.

[02:00:52]But but but you type now h you typing now you want to so so let me say something now truly. So men go through um you said the men them go through um mood swing too right have mood swing them have erectile dysfunction fatigue belly fat and they lose sleep. Oh, lose sleep. Why me think I lose weight?

[02:01:25]They lose sleep and so I think Mike lose no sleep and skirt and Mike say sleep the man lose no sleep can't drink anything make him addicted to caffeine drink Pepsi love coffee and something and the man sleep stop You not lose no sleep. The bad day not lose no sleep.

[02:02:03]Not lose no sleep.

[02:02:06]But me to myself say small percent of man have erectile dysfunction.

[02:02:17]One of them.

[02:02:22]Well, probably a small percent them full of young girl.

[02:02:29]So, probably one of them for true. I want a little bit of them for true.

[02:02:46]All right, Lenny. All right, lady.

[02:02:50]All right, Lenny.

[02:02:53]switch.

[02:02:56]Guess me just going through midlife crisis and he has um and he's um having mood swing.

[02:03:13]His lady going through menopause and she's having the symptom of mood swing also. Can you imagine that household people? Can you imagine that household?

[02:03:30]Your ear is thinning. Is that a sign of woman woman thin out? Well, men have that thin out ear. You know, men have that something early. For some reason, men have that thin out something very very early.

[02:03:50]I don't know why.

[02:03:59]I don't know why they have it so early, but Mhm.

[02:04:06]Oh, G is in the house. Top up the live, G.

[02:04:12]Or you're not in the house. You just see pop up like just pop up but you must just show me life invite you know Okay.

[02:04:45]Um, you know, We never look do something look for something for the Send it back. I was looking on something. Thank you, Lenny boy, for the super chat.

[02:05:48]I was looking on something.

[02:05:50]Send the request, man.

[02:05:53]I look on something.

[02:05:58]Some men get that ear loss especially from the front from too much headboard activity.

[02:06:11]Lord have mercy. I did send the request now. God You're not so Oh, you so easy for give up.

[02:07:20]Call my phone then.

[02:07:26]Like up the live of a Tik Tok there.

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[02:08:24]Hey 11:26.

[02:08:32]>> Yeah. 11:00 scream all the comment about respect to all the people who like go to research. But for me personally, I as far as I know it's it's it's a it's marginalized when it comes to men that have well they call it male menopause andropause that are early ages like so between 40 and 50. It's like it's margin 1%. Men um have a tendency to go through even when people think they're going through andropause.

[02:09:13]high because I have a high testosterone level.

[02:09:16]>> Yes. So tell us about your your ID to tell us about your experience you encounter.

[02:09:23]>> I I I well personally for me being in my um mid60s um I know when I was going through um certain changes um cuz I noticed that during winter I would want the place the windows open in my in my late 50s. So when I hit around 55 55 during that period of time winter time I want the window open. I also find that it could be like um zero outside and I'm comfortable with zero. Not that I don't have a jacket on but I'm comfortable with a zero. Like zero don't bother me. Even minus two I didn't find it too uncomfortable. It have to be really like a minus like if the double digits 10 11 12 etc. All right. And I and as I said I before I found I had no swings. I I do have a bit of irritability. I get irritated like with the conversation. You understand?

[02:10:25]And one thing that I know I used to have headaches and sleepless nights. I I still am experiencing even at 63 times when at nights where I I I have a tendency to stay up late. I do even now I'll be up till like 3 4:00 in the morning and then 4:30 4:00 I I sleep. So it's a it's a for me I for me personally and I can speak for myself it's an ongoing process for me and you know and in truth I I know that's that's andropause for me because I know my body I know the way I feel and and just like how you express yourself. I know I have a high sex drive. At my age, I still feel my testosterone is is high. And I've done the test. I can acknowledge that with with the friends on the chat because I've done the test. My my doctor, I did the test. I see my urologist. I see specialists and I know how my body is. I'm still in the breeding process.

[02:11:29]If it should happen, I can.

[02:11:33]And I have a high sex drive. So, it's not like a rabbit hump h but I know my body and you know your body true not that every morning you're going to wake up with an erection but for me personally I'd say 80% of the time I wake >> No we're having a conscious reasoning I take care of my No but we having we're talking about something that bodies experience the human genome because let's face it that created men and women Right. And your it's not a curse. It's just that the way your body is made up, you go through from an early age, menstrual cycle. I mean, some in the comments said she went through it at 8.

[02:12:17]Other people, my daughters were were 11 and 12. One was 11, was 12 when they hit that process. You understand? So it's it's it's a man that has no understanding of the female body who would think that seeing his spouse slash his partner slash his wife going through that process and not understand. So you as a man you as a man have to educate yourself in a I'm 9 years I'm 9 years older than my ex and I divorced 2017. So at the time of her divorce I mean she did not She she did not hit that 50 threshold yet. You understand? So I don't know what her her body is going through now. But for me personally, if I am dating and say I meet someone in your late 40s or 50s and they said to me, EP, I'm having hot flashes. I want the window open. As a man and one who has been in relationships, I'm supposed to understand that her body is going through changes because for most women once that your menstrual cycle stops and as you talk about the dryness and the respect to to um um my good in the chat when I was talking about you have to understand the female if you are a horny person and when you say horny as you you're sexually active you have that drive about you and you touch her and she said No or you find the dryness. You have to be a smart man. You improvise.

[02:13:44]You ask. The problem with relationships is that a lot of us as men, we don't ask questions. And this is why we find the breakdown in relationship. And even in the comments, someone talk about the breakdown of marriages, right? Some the irritability as it even pertain to some men, they won't acknowledge that they're going through that process. But believe it or not, believe it or not, >> a lot of men will admit to true.

[02:14:12]>> Not not a lot of men go through erectile dysfunction. Uh I mean, well, I I can speak for myself and and I mean that sometimes we have a Friday night chat. I've even said to you know men that were in the chat, if you know you're going in a on a date or you feel that something might happen, it's your body, jerk off. jerk off to give you that energy later on that you don't become a failure to her. That's a natural normal process because females they have they have their toys, they have their this, they have their that.

[02:14:48]But you as a man has to internalize yourself, educate yourself, be in a situation where your internalization helps you, motivates you and build you in everything that you do. If you don't, we have to understand our You would not get me class a female as calling her names that me some man call some woman. I won't call them a be I won't call them a this. I won't call them a that. If we can't get along then we just separate ourselves because especially if you are at a stage where you're premenopausal or you have already been through the process cuz we have to understand our females. We have to understand the action. It's not every time you you ask her or say something to her and you to say no you're gonna jump and some people you know even in relationship sometime some man complains and them woman miserable and she might be going through that menopausal stage and you using not understanding not doing research not trying to understand you cuss her out and you know it leads from one thing to another sometimes you give her that space to let off her steam that's just my take on As I say before, your body is different. So why do you mean different? Your body is different from ours. You understand? And it's only it's a marginalized percentage, a small percentage of men or go through.

[02:16:22]But what happens sometimes is you can be turned off as a man psychologically a person female or in a relationship because of behaviors from individuals.

[02:16:35]Cuz if you're in a relationship that you're always bickering, arguing, everything is a problem and stuff like that. It do turn you off for both parties. Cuz men we are intolerable to a lot of things, you know, and we we like for a woman we call a drunk or dirty man or nasty man, you will get offended by the word and the way she states the word. You understand? So before you deescalate, you escalate. You understand? Cuz it doesn't mean that she says something, it means she mean it. I see one time a girl was cussing out a guy and said trying to embarrass him in front of people and I said you know I just I kissed you last night and I just so and so take it as you know who cares you know so everyone is different cuz there's nothing that you can custo what I'm saying because you're embarrassing your own self you know so people you know have mood swings people talk you know people say things people do things but you have to understand and know your body and and they do test. You know, there are places all the time that you see they advertise where they do test on males. They ask so if you have low testosterone, you know, testosterone, if your testosterone is normal, if it's high, stuff like that.

[02:17:56]I've done the test and my testosterone is high. I'm I'm not saying I'm one out of 100, but there are other guys out there like that. I guarantee 100%. So if I was me to meet someone who could have kids, I would have kids right now. I I know that for sure.

[02:18:11]>> Yeah.

[02:18:12]>> Get kids all them 70s.

[02:18:14]>> Charlie Chap got his got his last Charlie Chap. Charlie Chap the comedian, not the singer, the DJ. Charlie Chap the comedian. I'm sure you about 76, 77 maybe or older.

[02:18:28]>> 70 year old man get picked Jamaica a lot.

[02:18:31]>> Absolutely. Absolutely. Absolutely. So you know it's how it's so it's so strange that you know as men and we jump after because you know been shot but as I had asked for me and this is why I answered and I answered truthfully you understand I did you know my problem is weather I I like to feel cool you know I like to open the window during winter time and I get hot easily. So if the strangest thing is even when I hit 50, I remember my ex saying to me she could not shower with me cuz I don't bathe in hot water. My water has to be chill like just warm, you know, warm enough to to bathe in. You know, some people shower, I have shower and you see the place full of steam and one like this is so true.

[02:19:33]Some are just interested in performing sexual act, you know, and is not prepared to get glued up glued up on a woman's body um um parts and stuff. They don't have a clue as some men don't care. They don't they're not interested.

[02:19:50]They're not interested in it.

[02:19:52]>> Yeah.

[02:19:52]>> They don't internalize. Don't internalize. And this is what I'm saying is that I I consider myself I know I'm the type of person that if I meet someone and is in a serious relationship, I don't think she would have a problem with me in the sense as understanding where we are going and understand the the the level of our relationship. But I also also have the fun type. If you can work on that, you know, babe, let's go for a walk, babe. Let's go take the train, go downtown, spend the whole day. I'm not a movie as in cinema type person because now you have your movie feel enlightened do little things go to the park sit down at the park and go even even get a fishing license let's go you know go look for fish you know stuff little things like that because no matter how how bold person is or impolite or whatever there's always that little ump call it the ump that spice up the thing and give her a a buzz. She might she might not like one thing. She might not like one thing, but she might like something else.

[02:21:10]>> You understand? But a lot of times we men, we are at fault in the way we relate to our females. Unfortunately, and this is no joke. It's not like we cuz I'm a man and I understand. That's why I say to you in life, you never ever meet someone and say, "Oh, I'm prince charming. I'm loving. I'm kind. I'm nice. I'm broken.

[02:21:35]Make sure you declare your faults. You as in both parties should declare your shortcoming, your faults, things that you like, things you do not like, and then you work on them. Especially if you're premenopausal or you're going through menopause. That's just my take on it. That's that's just I I about her cuz she a woman is my comfort zone whether as friend or whatever. That's just my comfort zone. And I don't have a male friend. I don't have a best male friend in my life. And I've always been like that cuz to me it's not about sex.

[02:22:06]You learn a lot from females. No matter what, you learn a lot from them. You get positive advice from them also. They're not going to tell you, you know, you you know, left your woman, jump to the conclusion, say left your woman or do so and so at at the spot. They they clinically analyze situation. They'll ask you questions. If you have a female friend you're not cool with, if you have a shirt and it smells, she tell you change a shirt. So when you have these type of people as in your relationship as your friend, you hit that comfort zone cuz that's what you look for. And if a lot of men had just spend that little time to just reflect and step back sometimes we have to step back as men, you know, you have to step back. If you come home and you're mad and you're upset, what happened be what's going on instead of do or you just come with your face makeup so you're miserable you know so that's called a trigger effect so your behavior trigger her behavior and we have to understand we have to understand menopause and these things and as I said for me as I said it's the weather right now outside is seven and I was outside I would you know it's outside was seven seven you know and I mean it was for me okay >> so that's Um that's where it go midlife crisis. Yeah.

[02:23:31]Mhm. For men my that's my that's my um thing I did to be self you know respect every time. So I'm going to jump off and you go back to your um your normal.

[02:23:48]>> Okay.

[02:23:49]>> Yeah. Yeah. Sleep a bite me.

[02:23:55]sleep people not sleep last night, you know.

[02:24:00]Yeah, that was a nice conversation.

[02:24:02]Thank you um DP for your input.

[02:24:07]Yeah, I'm going to close off. Tic tac tic tac. Bye. Goodbye. Farewell to you, my friend.

[02:24:17]until we meet again.

[02:24:28]Mhm.

[02:24:34]>> Yep.

[02:24:37]>> Yes. M friend, thank you for your little input. Um DP, thank you. Thank you. Appreciate.

[02:24:46]Yeah, appreciate, appreciate, appreciate.

[02:24:50]It was a very nice conversation, people.

[02:24:53]Mhm. And we could go on and on and on and on and on, but unfortunately, I can't. I want to sleep. I literally want to sleep. My Look at my eyes.

[02:25:06]You see them? Look. Look them shut.

[02:25:12]So stay look them look bright and troopy just yeah man producer as well say definitely. Mhm. Producer always glued up man.

[02:25:33]Always glued up. Always.

[02:25:36]And guys let me implore you. You can always, you know, when I come on also, you can always, you know, drop in a topic, you know, if we don't talk about it um the same night, we can talk about it the the next night. You understand?

[02:25:54]Yeah. We like to have informative um conversation and topic over here. You understand? In the in the day we might go, you know, might be go on some, you know, little thing we going on and social media and thing and but you know the night we just vibes you a name mature conversation.

[02:26:20]All righty. Africans come out Nigerian come out.

[02:26:28]Yeah, man. His input was very informative. Yeah, very. So, DP, I give you a smile prior. I send up meat now.

[02:26:48]Give a little smile. prayer rece.

[02:26:59]Um um um Denary, you think you have enough time to find a scripture for DP to read?

[02:27:10]I said no sleep no keep last night people. Jesus on a turn me say no sir me never bust Jesus slippers and [ __ ] in a church know why >> no sir thank you friends for the feedback but you know me go through it man all right then just pray yeah just pray yeah just Pray.

[02:27:43]>> Let's pray. Okay.

[02:27:47]>> Just saw a couple of verses from Psalms 27.

[02:27:51]The Lord is my light and my salvation.

[02:27:53]Who shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life. Whom shall I be afraid? And the ending. When the wicked and when the when the wicked and my foes came upon me to eat of my flesh, they stumbled and fell. The one who said in camp against me, my heart shall not fear. Eternal God and our father, we come before your presence, giving you thanks tonight for your blessing, your grace, and your favor. As we're about to depart one from another, we ask you to be with us, to guide us, and to protect us, and to sustain us with your grace and mercy keep us from all harm. And let your presence abide with us. We ask you, Lord God, to remember each and everyone under the live tonight, both male and female. We thank you for the thing that was discussed educating ourself into the various issues and things that that affect us in life from time to time. I pray Lord God that for those ladies of the church I've seen the comment of those who have done various surgeries have gone through various um bodily functions and changes in their bless them abundantly that even though they've been through these changes and gone through all these process you still give them health strength and the vigor to go on bless those in the back tonight who are the silent listeners who are watching and even though they don't comment they are in tune to the process to stay in tune to the conversation.

[02:29:16]Lord, we ask you to bless each and everyone. Remember our children, remember our grandchildren, remember our partners, my God. And I pray, my God, that you the host of the program that you will strengthen her continually build a fence around her, my God, and surround her with your grace and your peace. Let your abounding love as David said. Let the the light from the lighthouse shine upon him upon her. I pray tonight Lord God that you would bless our partner of days and her children and her grandchild. I pray your continued blessing over their life and that my God the canopy my God from the the their old will spread over them my God because we know the word is power because the word is power tonight my God we know you can do all things my God tonight I ask my God for their eternal blessing forounding love for your peace for humility remember those my God who even prosecute us without cause who say negative things about us things we don't even know about. Remember those the soothsayers and those who make up lies and make up stories and you know oh my god have various things to say we know we have to live with them from day to day. So give us the energy give us a zeal give us the courage to fight through and struggle through because we know my God that you are the author and finisher of our faith. Bless us tonight, Lord. Bless us and let your peace, your abounding peace, my God, that peace that cometh from an eye, let it abide and abound in our life that we will go through, my God, and not watch the obstacles that may face us. Let us Lord God build our house, our house, our our spiritual house, our life house and a solid foundation and not build it on sand.

[02:31:02]We're negativity and lasciviousness and evil speaking and all the things my God that would break down our life God has be a part my God to bring stumbling blocks in our way. Lord bless us, keep us, guide us, guard us and protect us while we have begun these mercies in Jesus precious name. And we all say amen.

[02:31:23]>> Amen. And >> thank you all for God bless you all and have a wonderful.

[02:31:32]God bless you always.

[02:31:34]>> God bless. God bless. God bless. Amen.

[02:31:36]And amen. Amen. Amen. Bless it >> in Jesus mighty name. Amen.

[02:31:43]Anyway people shut your penny. Mighty God want sleep.

[02:31:54]Somebody catch me eye with majestic Lenny, you know. Can't give you one topic. I know nothing.

[02:32:02]Can't give you one topic. Anyway, people bless up on yourself. You know, it's always a pleasure. Yes. To have you.

[02:32:09]It's always a pleasure. Bless up on yourself. Yeah. Enjoy the rest of the night. Idea want season up your meat.

[02:32:18]Mhm.

[02:32:20]And s out your thing. All righty. Mhm.

[02:32:24]Thank you for the gift also, guys. Thank you. Um um Vicki and Dary, you know, help me out over Tik Tok, you know, top of the screen and over there. Sunshine Queen, too. Mhm.

[02:32:42]And thank you for the filling up my live over here. Thank you for being here. People in the back, bless up on yourself. Same to peace out, Miss L.

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