The Modern Women That Don't Want Kids!

Hinzugefügt: 2026-05-19

[00:00:00]We call women these like nurturing special creatures that just are so mystical and magical and like where?

[00:00:07]Evil. We just are not good people.

[00:00:09]What's going on guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we are reacting to the women that say they do not want children.

[00:00:17]I don't want kids. They always say one of three things to me. One, who's going to take care of you when you get older?

[00:00:21]I would never bring another human being into this world just with the intention of them caring for me. That feels very selfish. Number I actually agree with that. I don't think people should have children so they have somebody to give them company or take care of them when they're older. I I actually 100% agree with that. Because um how many women make terrible life choices and just expect their kids to bail them out of them and it's like well the kid you're not entitled to the kids future. I don't know. Dugan PA said that's really common in the black community where um mothers just make these terrible life choices and the daughters can't get married cuz they have to take care of their mom. You're going to wake up one day and regret it. Maybe, but I would rather regret not having something than have a child that I don't think that I want and then regret that.

[00:01:03]>> I agree.

[00:01:05]I actually 100% agree with that. I'm not on this train that everyone thinks that all women should have kids and um I I this probably contradicts things I've said in the past but I now that I've realized how many like terrible moms there are I don't think like terrible mothers should have kids for the sake of having kids.

[00:01:24]Um if they do they got to give the kids to the dad. We got to get male authority back in this country.

[00:01:31]And if we don't have that um I mean the kids are just going to be double kids.

[00:01:35]Fat, broke, losers. And number three, aren't you scared you're going to miss out on being a parent? I am going to miss out on being a parent. I know so many good, happy, loving parents that being a parent fulfills them in a way that nothing else could. I do not think that that is my She meets a guy hot enough she'll change her mind. Uh women she's too young to say if she means it.

[00:01:53]journey and I will never know. You cannot miss something that you do not have. We all miss out on something. Yes, I am going to miss out on being a parent. You're going to miss out on years of peace and quiet and being able to do whatever you want. Minimum responsibilities and a lot of freedom.

[00:02:05]We are both able to have a wonderful, different lives, and that is okay.

[00:02:09]She'll be fine. I bet she'll have kids.

[00:02:11]A lot of women say that and then they have kids anyway. Your grandkids.

[00:02:14]>> want kids, but if I did, I'd want them to know I was hot, I had fun, and I had really good friends.

[00:02:19]>> Why don't you want kids?

[00:02:20]>> I hate kids.

[00:02:21]>> Name five things you hate about kids the most.

[00:02:22]>> They're small, they poop, they talk, they cry, and you have to be pregnant and that's disgusting.

[00:02:27]>> You don't want to be pregnant? Yeah, this is again, we call women these like nurturing, special creatures that just are so mystical and magical. I'm like, "Where?"

[00:02:37]Evil. We just are not good people.

[00:02:39]>> Pregnant ever?

[00:02:40]>> No, I don't.

[00:02:41]>> What if one of your brothers had a kid and then for some reason they had to like go to war or something and you had to take care of their kid?

[00:02:45]>> What war? I don't know.

[00:02:47]>> about? I don't know. I probably wouldn't.

[00:02:49]>> Okay, so what? They're just going to adoption? Yeah, bye. Dang. All right, let's see this lady. She looks a little older.

[00:02:55]>> years old and I don't want kids. And I was married, didn't have kids, got divorced, got into a new relationship.

[00:03:03]I've been with him now for a few years and we are like so beyond happy. He's the best, and I still don't want kids.

[00:03:09]In my regular life, I don't ever think about >> Guys are just not attractive enough for her to want kids with them. the fact that I don't want kids. I don't think about kids, period, except for when people ask me in interviews or if I'm doing like a solo Q&A style podcast episode, people always ask like, "Now Who Who cares about this woman's I think it's kind of weird what people that don't know people are asking about kids.

[00:03:34]You know what I mean?

[00:03:35]It's like I don't I don't know you. Like I don't I don't really care if this crazy lady has children.

[00:03:41]>> that you're in such a good relationship, do you want kids?" And I'm like, "No." I don't know how to describe it other than when you don't want something, you don't ever think about it. I don't know how else to describe it. Anyway, if I ever do talk about it, I get a lot of backlash from people who say that it's all that I talk about and it's always mom. It is a bit of a cope, but I'm 40.

[00:04:02]She has good skin care.

[00:04:04]I want to If she actually has skin like that, I don't know these filters. I was scrolling on Tik Tok this morning and I saw this video from a girl who was at Coachella and it was like, no kids, hallelujah, like a list of things about not having kids. She's obviously just having fun.

[00:04:19]>> Yeah, I look, women would rather do anything else than have your kids.

[00:04:23]Women would rather Women would rather go to Coachella, women would rather have a useless hobby, women would rather play sports, women would rather um do a useless job that makes them no money, women would rather be teachers, women would rather be health care workers, women would rather work retail.

[00:04:45]Women would rather do anything else than have kids and I keep saying this and we keep saying women are nurturing. I'm like, no.

[00:04:51]Men are nurturing. Women are not. Like, who cares? Then I was reading the comments and they were so crazy to me because people were like, die alone in a nursing home, hallelujah. Kids are the best thing I ever did. People get like so defensive about it as though people who don't want kids are attacking people who do want kids, which is not the case.

[00:05:09]Like this girl was just having fun and she was literally replying to comments like, being a mom is amazing, too. Like as if she owes it to them to Yeah, do you know what? I think a lot of the women that say being a mom is so special, amazing, and awesome are coping, too, because uh if anything, having a kid is a responsibility and at some point, I'm sure it pays off, but uh there's a reason women go through postpartum depression because they most of the time marry weak men that won't stand up to them. validate their experience, too. It's just so weird to me. The attitude that women have towards other women and some men, honestly, for the life of me, can't figure out what it is that makes people lash out. And I've said before when people tell me that I'm going to die alone or that I'm missing out on the meaning of life. I'm like, I know that you don't care about me. You don't know me. You don't actually care. So, why are you trying to force it on me? Women share about their kids all day, every day. And then somebody says that they don't want them and it's like, you are shoving it down our throats and attacking moms.

[00:06:09]It's just crazy. I don't get why we can't just like let people live the way that they want to live. I don't know.

[00:06:14]Here's the thing, but you you're you're throwing it in everyone's face. It's one thing if you're um not telling everybody and just, you know, doing your job, whatever. But, you're throwing your personal Women throw their personal life on the internet and then wonder why people ask questions. It's like you threw it in our face. I was saying that I don't want kids and a lot of people were mad, specifically men. I'm just going to read some of the comments that I got. Said, she's setting herself up for a tough future. Choosing comfort and avoiding responsibility now can come back to bite later. At the end of the day, everyone has to live with their choices, but I don't understand turning away from what God intended, which is building a family and bringing life into this world. I then responded and said, how is not having children setting me up for a tough future? Is who's going to take care of you when you're in your older years? You're having a child to take care of you when you're older? This man then went out of his way to DM me a reel of a girl talking about how much she loves motherhood. That's like me saying, I don't I don't want to be a doctor and then people are upset that you don't want to be a doctor and they start sending you reel I don't think we should be upset at all. There's a ton of women that should not be mothers. They are terrible people. So, self like, you have to understand, I interviewed women that would just leave their kids at home while they come on my show at like 10:00 at night.

[00:07:31]And I'm just thinking, who is watching your children?

[00:07:35]Who's watching them? You know what I mean? Who is watching your kids?

[00:07:40]reels of doctors saying that they love being a doctor. Yeah, some people are meant to be doctors. Why a lot of people turn away from religion because people weaponize the Bible to only prove their point specifically. So, here's some scripture verses that he didn't mention.

[00:07:57]I wonder Better is for childless with for immoral is the memory of virtue.

[00:08:03]For behold, the days are coming when they will say blessed are the barren and the wombs that never bore and the breasts that never nursed.

[00:08:09]Huh.

[00:08:11]Joy and hope for the childless. Sing o barren one who did not bear.

[00:08:18]Break forth into singing and cry aloud.

[00:08:21]Uh you who has never been in labor for the children of the desolate one will be more than the children of her who is married. Huh.

[00:08:31]Okay, well, yeah, I'm going to need to know Put in the comments if these are real verses. These Christian women, you just never know. It's like and they'll take I I don't know.

[00:08:40]They they just take the Bible and make it say whatever they want.

[00:08:42]>> Why?

[00:08:43]If not having children was such a sin, wouldn't Jesus himself have I think it's more important to find purpose in a man rather than kids. That's my opinion.

[00:08:54]children? Do you think he just >> Because then the kids are going to watch the woman torture the man if you're not in in his frame. forgot? God gave you a uterus for a reason. That's your only Okay, well, God put you know what in your you know what.

[00:09:09]What's the reason for that? Like, oh, God gave us a hand that can ball up a fist. That means I should go and punch my neighbor. God gave me a liver that can help me filter out toxins, so that means I should be an alcoholic. God also gave you a brain and free will. Please, use it.

[00:09:29]Um also, there has been a few people that have tagged me in like kid videos or mom videos. They're like, oh, how do do not think this is cute? I do think it's cute. I think they're adorable. I also think baby tigers are adorable. If somebody right now was like, here's a baby tiger, keep it. You're going to be like, oh, whoa, no. I can me, I just find it really funny how men will go out of their way to shame a woman regardless. Like if I ended up having children and wasn't the perfect mother, would have been shamed. If I ended up being a single mother, would have been shamed for that, too. Now that I'm saying I don't want kids at all, I'm getting shamed for that, too. You just got to stop caring what people think. People can feel how they want. I don't know if they Hey, that's what I'm saying. Like I know I know why I don't want kids. Well, I don't want kids for like a million reasons, okay? One, I'm a very busy person and I don't want to make the time to have kids. I don't want to make the time. Two, I'm very selfish.

[00:10:19]I also don't want to have kids just because I know I'm going to get old one day. Cuz that's not a reason to have kids, to have them to Who Who's going to take care of me when I'm old? Who's going to do this? Who's going to like That's not a reason to have kids. That's being selfish. I'm not I don't want to have kids because society's having kids [music] and they're telling me to have kids. I actually agree with her. Then she shouldn't have kids. If you're too selfish of a person to put another person's needs before you, uh stay out of the dating market. Stay away from all of it. I mean, I hate it when people try to convince women that would be terrible mothers to be mothers.

[00:10:46]It's like, no. She just saved You just Let her have that opinion. Oh, no. Oh, no, no, no.

[00:10:53]>> a woman and I don't want them because it's not my calling. You know how a lot of people they're like, I can't wait to be a mom. I can't wait to be a dad. Like and you know, they have like five, six kids. That was your calling. That is a beautiful It's not uh women's calling because when women got the choice, they stopped doing that, pretty much.

[00:11:09]beautiful thing. That is so beautiful.

[00:11:11]But my calling is not that. I don't feel that [ __ ] in my bones. I know [music] my calling is just a like you, help people, motivate people, make people laugh, take care of my family, be the best auntie I could be. But to have kids, I am too selfish with my time and I know that I don't want them. So why would I have them just because I feel pressured by society to have them? That's not a reason to have kids. I don't want kids.

[00:11:28]All right, let's see what's next. You don't want kids. Here we go.

[00:11:31]You don't kids.

[00:11:33]Like I genuinely want to know without any judgment because I I just want to know. I am so curious as to why the younger generation, I think, like I haven't done research on this. It's just, you know, people that I've been around and seen videos and just like this trend of the younger generation not wanting kids. And I for me for me, I have a daughter, so I'm speaking from experience. I I could not imagine a life without her.

[00:12:03]And I understand that maybe these are assumptions. There are people out there that don't want kids because of how they were raised, the types of parents that they had.

[00:12:15]There's [clears throat] some trauma there.

[00:12:17]Um and maybe that is rooted in fear. And then I feel like there's, you know, a whole other group of people that they just want to be free. They don't want to be tied down by um having to be respons- It's simple. Women will not reproduce with average men.

[00:12:34]We feel entitled to the highest status men in the entire planet because of social media. Uh before we were never meant to meet those men, but now we're like peasant women, mids um meeting you know, the highest status men in the world. So. responsible for another human life, and they just want to be able to live out their dreams and live their lives and travel and do whatever they want to do. And I just I I want to know because for me my legacy is is my daughter. I'm passing all of the things that I am, I'm passing down to her, and my legacy lives on through her.

[00:13:08]The Lord has brought redemption and healing and so many other things through my daughter. And I get to be the mother to her that I didn't really have growing up. And to see myself in her and all of the good attributes and her telling me that she wants to, you know, lead worship with me one day.

[00:13:31]Um, getting to raise this human, it is the ultimate prize. There's There's nothing else out there that is as satisfying is raising a child. And I My dreams might look a little bit different now than what they would look like if I didn't have any children, but um, you know, I'm a single mom and I I run a company and I'm still out here accomplishing all of the things that I would accomplish >> Yeah, so she probably um, hired someone to raise the kid for her.

[00:14:02]Cuz it's like um, I don't know. Well, or maybe the dad's hot.

[00:14:09]Or maybe she really gets joy out of the kid.

[00:14:12]Why is that so hard for me to believe?

[00:14:14]Uh, you know, when I hate it when people act like they're like, "Oh, Pearl, why do you hate women?" It's like, "Well, why do women do so many things to make me hate them?"

[00:14:21]Or just why do I have to observe this behavior? Why do mothers have to be so awful, you know?

[00:14:28]even if I were single, but there's so much more fulfillment in it all because I have someone to to leave this to and to pass this down to. And yeah, there are days that I kind of have to put things on hold because my daughter comes first, but I'm still in ministry. I still go on mission trips. I get to lead worship and have her there with >> gosh, we have a a single mom leading worship. That's incredible.

[00:14:54]You're meant to be in the back of the church. me and one day she's going to be able to do all of these things with me if she wants to.

[00:15:02]So, I just I want to know like why why Cuz women don't want to reproduce with average men. Um, if I had to look at this girl's baby daddy, I'm sure he's not on there. I bet he was an above average man. So, anyways.

[00:15:15]All right, guys. Um, let me know what you think in the comments. If you can, like the video and subscribe to the channel. I love you. Thanks for watching and I'll see you next time.