Our 2 Cents Vol. 33: Love, Lies & Hard Boundaries

Added: 2026-05-27

[00:00:00]You wanted to say listen here you [ __ ] >> Listen here you [ __ ] Don't mess with my relationship.

[00:00:05]>> I wanted to say listen here you [ __ ] >> I said she is my [ __ ] and I'm [ __ ] [ __ ] We be whoring together.

[00:00:11]>> Oh okay. Anyhoos Hey everyone and welcome back to your weekly dose of the Life After I Do podcast.

[00:00:40]>> So happy to be sitting and vibing with you all >> with me >> this Wednesday or Thursday or Friday or Saturday >> whenever you're listening to this.

[00:00:52]>> Dry.

[00:00:53]>> What?

[00:00:54]>> Little dry.

[00:00:55]>> They don't want to hear you drink.

[00:00:56]They're not going to hear me drink pimp.

[00:00:58]>> They might.

[00:00:58]>> Noise counseling A1 day one cup.

[00:01:00]>> Okay. Welcome back to another episode of the life after I do podcast guys.

[00:01:06]>> Welcome back. Welcome back people.

[00:01:08]>> Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back.

[00:01:11]>> It has been a trying last couple of days.

[00:01:13]>> It has been a trying 48 hours.

[00:01:16]>> We didn't know if we was going to make it or not.

[00:01:18]>> We didn't know. I mean, y'all almost didn't get an episode this weekend. We was really trying to figure some things out. U by the grace of God. I was like, "Robert, I'M FIGHTING MY [ __ ] LIFE."

[00:01:28]>> BYE.

[00:01:30]>> But by the grace of God, >> I can do it.

[00:01:33]>> His mercy and his grace.

[00:01:35]>> He like always has covered us and pulled us through another. Uh for those of you who didn't see on Instagram or who didn't know, the podcast had got hacked.

[00:01:47]>> Uh somebody had took it under our nose in the midst of the nights.

[00:01:52]>> Thief of the night. in the in the thief of the night. THEY TOOK THE podcast at a thief of the night and put it under their name and we woke up and we was we was nobody.

[00:02:03]>> I mean, I was still somebody. I don't know what she talking about.

[00:02:07]>> It's just nobody dramatic flare.

[00:02:10]>> She was nobody.

[00:02:11]>> No, but you were stressing.

[00:02:13]>> I was >> I didn't know at first I thought you were just like overreacting. I was downstairs and I was reading my book and I kept hearing you and you were like, "No, no, no, no, no, no, no." And I was like, "What the hell is going on?" But I was like, "I'm going to just read my book because he likes to overexaggerate sometimes." And then you kept going and kept going and I was like, "Lord, let me go check on my husband." And I was like, "What's going on?" And he's like, "Somebody logged us out of everything and they've taken over." And I was like, "What do you mean?" And he's like, "Someone's hacked us." And I was like, "Oh Lord, >> we got >> But like I said, by the grace of God, >> play [ __ ] up, too."

[00:02:48]>> Like by the grace of God, we were at 3:00 this morning. had I I wouldn't talk to him. I said I said, "Look here, Jesus."

[00:02:54]>> Bye, >> Jesus. Just hear look just hear me out.

[00:02:57]>> I know you got me.

[00:02:58]>> Hear me out.

[00:02:59]>> I I know you got me cuz cuz you ain't never not had >> right that part.

[00:03:04]>> But I need you to show me the light.

[00:03:07]>> But I need you to show me the life.

[00:03:09]>> Hey, boo.

[00:03:10]>> Hi.

[00:03:10]>> You look good.

[00:03:11]>> Thank you. You look great yourself. I'm happy to see that you're in better moods.

[00:03:15]>> Looking really good.

[00:03:17]>> I'm happy to see that you're in better spirits.

[00:03:18]>> I am. You know it this weekend was rough for me and it it and like >> but what did I tell you?

[00:03:23]>> You you said you said a lot of [ __ ] >> But what did I tell you? I was like it's going to be okay. Like even if we have to start over Yes. I was like even if we have to start all over, it's going to be okay.

[00:03:34]>> Both of us can't panic.

[00:03:35]>> Let me tell y'all something. Had we had a faceless account, we wouldn't have got it back.

[00:03:42]>> But since since THEY SAY THEY LOOK I THINK LOOK AT ALL THE VIDEOS. MY FACE IS IN ALL OF THEM. THAT'S ME, >> SIR. IT'S ME, SIR.

[00:03:51]>> But you know what's crazy? What's crazy is trying to prove who you are >> to somebody else.

[00:03:56]>> To somebody else when or like if someone's using your identity. I remember back when we were in high school when Mrs. E and uh Mr. E got their identity stolen and somebody had bought like a whole RV. They racked up credit cards and she was like it was it was tough trying to prove that I am who I am, but then they're also trying to prove that they are me when they're not.

[00:04:15]>> Yeah.

[00:04:16]I was like, "That is so darn confusing trying to prove who you are." IT'S LIKE, "IT'S ME. IT'S NOT THEM. I'M NOT THE CROOK."

[00:04:24]>> It was It was rough. So, you guys noticed uh sometime around Saturday afternoon, y'all, we stopped replying to comments and [ __ ] We was in full on crisis.

[00:04:32]>> Yeah.

[00:04:33]>> mode.

[00:04:33]>> But, you know, I mean, it worked itself out um as far as we understand.

[00:04:38]>> And then I kept saying, "Oh, Lord, it's a holiday weekend. Oh, they got more time.

[00:04:42]>> They got more time.

[00:04:43]>> They got more time to get away. Lord Jesus.

[00:04:48]>> They got back like they're in a car and they're just driving away.

[00:04:51]>> They got MORE TIME.

[00:04:52]>> THEY GOT MORE TIME TO GET AWAY.

[00:04:54]>> YEAH. You know, >> someone's checking emails this weekend.

[00:04:57]>> So, you know, that that was heavy. That had me down. And, you know, therapy was rough. You know, this this therapy [ __ ] is just >> It's helpful.

[00:05:06]>> It may have you think about >> I hope it's helpful.

[00:05:08]>> It have you think about [ __ ] you don't want to think about.

[00:05:10]>> Well, I'm not. I mean, you know, but that's why you have to think about it cuz you don't know how it's showing up >> right >> in your in your life when you're like, I don't understand why when people like for me, I don't understand why when you cut my onion a certain way.

[00:05:25]>> Yeah. You send me off sends me off.

[00:05:28]>> You need to >> what? Don't cut the onion that way. It just Yeah, that's another story.

[00:05:33]>> I mean, my Okay. On the on the positive side, my lips my lips were great.

[00:05:39]My lips my lips were great.

[00:05:42]>> Now Sunday they weren't great, but before Sunday they was clocking.

[00:05:46]>> They were stupendous.

[00:05:48]>> Yeah, >> I agree.

[00:05:50]>> So, how was your week?

[00:05:51]>> My week was good. I've had >> Let's get down to what matter. Let's get down to what matter.

[00:05:54]>> Really?

[00:05:55]>> Let's get down to what I don't know if y'all saw the picture, but my wife had that outfit on last week.

[00:06:01]>> No, I didn't take a full body.

[00:06:02]>> You didn't take a full body picture? No.

[00:06:03]>> When you had on that, was it like pink that bright? Whatever you going to call it. It was It was like a mix between orange and pink.

[00:06:11]>> Whatever it was.

[00:06:13]>> [ __ ] >> Thanks.

[00:06:16]>> Thanks. I appre I appreciate the love.

[00:06:19]>> I said, "You want a baby?" Cuz I thought you got a baby.

[00:06:21]>> When I sent it to my uh friend group, they were like, "Miss Nisha, that collar, >> I said she about that."

[00:06:31]>> Okay. Crazy work. I don't know who gonna help her raise it, but she think >> goodbye. I DON'T KNOW WHO'S GONNA help her raise it, but you know, >> she about to get a baby.

[00:06:42]>> You know what's funny is like I have literally entertained the thought of being pregnant at 40. And I'm like, I'm not >> No, we're not doing it.

[00:06:50]>> It's says the person who's never been pregnant. That's crazy WORK.

[00:06:54]>> AND HOW HE GOING TO SAY IT'S it's rough.

[00:06:57]>> And if I know if I know it's rough, then you got to know it's rough. That's what I'm trying to tell you. Look here.

[00:07:05]>> Growing up, I thought I have a I thought I had I have a multitude. God has blessed me with enough.

[00:07:11]>> You know, a child a child always bring like always another level of like blessing and level up when a child is involved. Put your praise hands down. U but yeah, I have entertained the thought of like being 40 and pregnant. And my gym friends, my gym friends were like, "Oh my gosh, you can be 40 and pregnant and like lifting in the gym." And I was like, "You know what's funny is some of my favorite videos are watching really big lifts by women who are pregnant." I just think it's like it's like it's the hardest thing I've ever seen. It's just >> what they yokeked up on. Hey, hey, hey.

[00:07:43]>> Some of them are.

[00:07:44]>> Watch me hit this 315.

[00:07:45]>> Some of them are really >> really And some of them do 405.

[00:07:51]>> I'm shout >> seven months pregnant. Eight months pregnant.

[00:07:54]>> Shout out to them. Really? Shots. Shots out to them. You know what I'm saying?

[00:07:59]>> I love that for you. So, yeah. I was like, I could I could probably still like that.

[00:08:04]>> Your week thing about getting pregnant?

[00:08:05]>> No, I'm just saying I've thought about like being 40 and pregnant before. Tell us your week. That's all. Um, my week has been uh really good. I had a really great weekend. The kid had a three-day weekend. That was fun. I feel like >> 3day bender. I feel like we've been going non-stop since Friday at 2 PM.

[00:08:23]>> She had a three-day bender.

[00:08:25]>> She did, but she enjoyed herself and that's really all that matters.

[00:08:28]>> She been on >> on the sugar.

[00:08:30]>> She been on the Wait, how did we find her in the back seat on Saturday after the birthday party? She was legit laid out, belly out like she had swam for like eight hours. She had all the treats that she could possibly eat. She ate like two cupcakes at 900 p.m. She was in the back seat just laid out and we were looking at her and she was looking at us >> and she was like, "I'm tired."

[00:08:53]>> She was like, "Mom, I'm full." I said, "Girl, you just scuffed down two cupcakes." She was like, "I'm tired."

[00:08:58]>> She said, she said, "Dad, I have four Oreos."

[00:09:02]>> Those Oreos were like triple dipped, by the way, too. So, they were like quadruple the size.

[00:09:07]>> I said, "You doing too much."

[00:09:10]I said, "Daddy had zero." I had one because that was and one one felt like four because they were so thin, but they were beautiful. Shouts out to Angel at Rod Rivals cuz her her desserts were very nice. She would sit her ass down.

[00:09:24]>> Might be a side business for her. I'm I'm going see how much she'll charge me to make some treats for my baby birthday.

[00:09:29]>> Angel sit her ass down.

[00:09:30]>> She was hosting. She was the hostess.

[00:09:33]Sit your ass down somewhere. Your husband doing [ __ ] >> Yes, he was. He did great. It was a great birthday party. Um, but yeah, it was it kicked off the 3-day weekend, so we had a lot of fun. Then we went to our friend's house. That brisket, >> the brisket was good.

[00:09:48]>> Shouts out to Kevin. Called him up the next day, asked him if he had a little bit more. He said he only had what he left for himself. And I was like, >> so you want to Yeah. I was like, do you want to sell the plate OR HOW DO YOU WANT TO GO ABOUT DOING THIS? Cuz I can make the quick 20-minut drive. It's really not a big deal. Um, >> you know, it's funny you I told my I told my therapist that going to campus I was like going to a family unit. That's how many people was. I said it was nice though.

[00:10:13]>> I said it was Coachella in the BBS.

[00:10:16]>> Coachella in the BS is wild.

[00:10:18]>> You couldn't find nowhere to park and nowhere to sit either.

[00:10:20]>> Yeah. Coachella in the BS is crazy. It was not Coachella in the BS.

[00:10:26]>> But it was it was really really fun. And then um >> on Monday the holiday was fun because none of my friends had work.

[00:10:34]>> Oh yeah. Yeah. So, we got to do uh a bench session. All the girls got together and did a bench session.

[00:10:41]>> Go ahead. Go ahead. Come on. Tell us about it.

[00:10:43]>> What? What? We all did a bench session.

[00:10:45]>> Tell us about your lips. Cuz we >> Am I >> I know that some people's lips were already trash.

[00:10:50]>> Okay. Whatever. I'm not I don't know why you think you can insult insult my friends and their lifts.

[00:10:57]>> I don't know.

[00:10:57]>> Okay. U one of my friends hit a PR.

[00:11:00]>> I'm pretty sure that I'm pretty sure that only you and Jen lift some weight.

[00:11:04]Okay, whatever. Uh, me and my girls hit the gym and apparently uh so did everyone else. The gym was packed >> and their family and I said, "So, nobody had to work today." That's great. And then you can also tell that all of the people who normally go in the evening since they didn't have to work went in the morning. And I have never seen that gym so packed. I looked out like I just looked out on the horizon and I I did I >> cast a spell. I DID. I LOOKED OUT ON THE HORIZON AND I SAID, "THERE ARE >> OVER the horizon.

[00:11:39]>> It feels like there's a million people in here." And so it was what it was four of us. And so I was like, "Now we're being those people that I complain about, you know, when they go in groups and they hog a machine." I said, "But I don't give a damn today. Today I really don't care." I said, "We held that [ __ ] We was probably on that same [ __ ] for about probably like an hour.

[00:11:57]>> I'm I get No, when it's me and you, it it takes 40 minutes. I don't know why you do so many warm-ups, but Okay. First of all, I don't I do three warm-up sets.

[00:12:04]Relax. I do three warm-up sets or two warm-up sets and a static hold. By the way, my static hold is at 235 right now.

[00:12:13]>> That's it.

[00:12:13]>> That's it. Yeah. I mean, I could probably go heavier, but 235.

[00:12:17]>> See, you need me there cuz you could if I was >> I Well, I don't need I don't need it to be heavier than that.

[00:12:22]>> You hold about 285 me.

[00:12:24]>> Why do I need to static hold 285? But now that you said that, instantly my brain just said, "Oh, I wonder what that feels like."

[00:12:30]>> We could do it. I really did. Um, >> I can take what it feel like.

[00:12:34]>> Bye. Uh, so yeah. And but it made my lips, you know, go a little easier. I hit 195 for three, so that was good. So I'm confident 195 for three. So I'm confident that I could probably hit 210.

[00:12:46]>> Like I've hit 205. I feel like between 210 right now, like mathematically it says that I could hit 215. So >> I might as well put >> I might as well just I was just saying that. I SAID, "YOU KNOW WHAT? I MIGHT AS WELL JUST PUT 225 on there." See how it go.

[00:13:04]>> Did you see how What's the worst that could happen?

[00:13:06]>> You died.

[00:13:07]>> Oh, I'm not gonna die. Don't worry. The life is trust me. Trust me. When there's women on bench, there's way too many men in the gym who are too eager to come help save our lives because >> Oh, I'm not one of them. Like, damn, she went for it.

[00:13:22]>> Bye, babe. Really? Damn, she went for it. Um, but no, that you said that I was saying that I think I'm going to start practicing um, assisted reps >> just so that I can get my central nervous system accustomed to just feeling what it feels like to, you know, press up and down the 225 because I'm I'm, you know, I really do feel like I be holding me back.

[00:13:45]>> I feel like I'm my own worst enemy sometimes. Why are you looking like that? Why you looking like that?

[00:13:51]>> I have nothing to say.

[00:13:52]>> Okay. I be feeling like I'm my own worst enemy sometimes and I know that I am capable of better.

[00:13:58]>> All right.

[00:13:58]>> Okay. Yeah. Um so really really you're such you're you're such a non-suporter.

[00:14:05]>> I support you.

[00:14:07]>> I I always tell you you can go heavier.

[00:14:09]You'll be like uh >> well because I don't want to like overdo it.

[00:14:13]>> Okay.

[00:14:15]>> But I did say that I'm going to start practicing assisted um assisted reps.

[00:14:20]So, you know, and I've got a few homies that'll help me, you know, assist it.

[00:14:24]Yeah, >> the gym bros.

[00:14:26]>> Gym bros.

[00:14:27]>> Yeah, >> you [ __ ] >> Bye. Shouts out to Big John.

[00:14:31]>> I got to stop calling cuz someone told me um I shouldn't be calling my wife and then I I wanted >> You wanted to say listen here you [ __ ] >> Listen here, you [ __ ] Don't mess with my relationship.

[00:14:40]>> I wanted to say listen here you [ __ ] >> I said she is my [ __ ] and I'm [ __ ] [ __ ] We be whoring together.

[00:14:47]>> Oh, okay. Anyhoos, how was your week?

[00:14:50]>> I did my week. That's how long you've been talking.

[00:14:53]>> Well, bye. You didn't go into detail how your week was. It wasn't that detailed.

[00:14:56]>> My list was good.

[00:14:57]>> Okay. What about what lifts? Which lift was the best?

[00:15:00]>> I was in there. Rambo Jenkins.

[00:15:02]>> I don't want to say that.

[00:15:04]>> You might as well. You call me.

[00:15:05]>> I mean, I saw the pull-up video.

[00:15:07]>> Okay. What we got today?

[00:15:08]>> No, I mean the pull-up video was good. I didn't see the other video that you posted.

[00:15:11]>> I didn't post all the videos.

[00:15:12]>> Okay.

[00:15:13]>> I only last week I had recorded every set because he the trainer asked me to.

[00:15:17]>> Oh, okay. This week I just I just record something to go on the story real quick and that's how I record. I ain't got time for all that [ __ ] >> Oh yeah. I just I just recorded my big lift today and sent that to him. But I'm still waiting for a reply. And when he doesn't reply in a timely manner, what makes what I'm doing in my head is the scenario that I'm playing is that he looked at it and he was like trash. Not responding.

[00:15:36]>> My scenario is he looked at it. He ain't looked at it.

[00:15:39]>> Well, he I don't think he has his red messages on either, so I can't >> I just give a couple days. I'll call him.

[00:15:44]>> Give it a couple of days. A couple of days is crazy. What we got today?

[00:15:47]>> By then. Um, >> what?

[00:15:53]>> It's our two cents. We're coming to the end of the road.

[00:15:59]>> I think I think I think by the time they hear this, it' be the It'd be the end of the month. It'd be Oh, no, no, no. It's not.

[00:16:05]>> It won't be. It'll be the 28th week.

[00:16:07]Next week.

[00:16:08]>> Next week is the end of the month.

[00:16:09]That's right.

[00:16:10]>> The coach collection comes out tomorrow.

[00:16:11]>> Crazy, >> crazy work.

[00:16:14]>> So, yeah. So, we have um you know your end of the month >> dedicated. We might start doing these twice a month.

[00:16:22]>> Why? Because they like them so much.

[00:16:23]>> Cuz y'all like them.

[00:16:25]>> Y'all like them. No, it's because it you go a little off the rails.

[00:16:29]>> Hey, somebody say like when I crash out.

[00:16:32]>> Don't crash out.

[00:16:33]>> I'm not >> Don't crash out.

[00:16:34]>> I want to crash into something.

[00:16:35]>> Just give your honest >> I want to crash into something.

[00:16:37]>> Just give your honest two cents.

[00:16:39]>> I'm going be today. I'm going to take everything serious, guys, cuz somebody said I need to start taking this serious. I'm take everything serious.

[00:16:45]>> No, he's not.

[00:16:48]>> No, he No, he isn't.

[00:16:51]>> You see me when we get the camera?

[00:16:55]>> Let Let's Let's hop into this so I can get to my book.

[00:16:58]>> Wow.

[00:16:59]>> Um, and for those of you who want to know because what?

[00:17:02]>> Wait a minute. Speaking of books, it is going down.

[00:17:05]>> Oh gosh. Okay, let's talk about it.

[00:17:07]>> It is going >> Let's talk about it for a second. What are you reading? Just to remind the people, >> I'm on book seven of the Dungeon Crawl series. Okay.

[00:17:13]>> Okay.

[00:17:14]>> It's going down. Okay.

[00:17:16]>> I lowkey want to stop reading because once I get through seven and eight, I'm going to be mad.

[00:17:20]>> You're going to have to wait for nine, which probably won't come out till next year.

[00:17:23]>> I'm going be mad.

[00:17:24]>> If that >> he need he and he he he around here doing a press tour right now, sir. Get back to writing, >> honey. He's probably writing in between.

[00:17:32]He's still got to promote the book.

[00:17:33]>> Stop talking so much on these podcasts and interview and get back to writing.

[00:17:38]>> So far, okay, just really quick, rapid fire. Book one, how many stars out of five?

[00:17:44]>> Five.

[00:17:45]>> Two.

[00:17:46]>> Four.

[00:17:46]>> Three.

[00:17:47]>> Three and a half.

[00:17:48]>> Oh, it's going down.

[00:17:50]>> Four.

[00:17:50]>> Five.

[00:17:51]>> Five.

[00:17:52]>> Four.

[00:17:53]>> Six.

[00:17:54]>> Seven.

[00:17:54]>> Book. Six. Is a seven?

[00:17:55]>> Seven.

[00:17:56]>> Oh, that's your favorite.

[00:17:57]>> The way book six end.

[00:17:58]>> That's your favorite so far.

[00:18:00]>> It's one of my favorite book.

[00:18:01]>> You did. You just GAVE IT A SEVEN OUT OF FIVE.

[00:18:03]>> THE WAY YOU END IT made it made it work.

[00:18:05]>> Okay. But that So then that means it's it's the best one yet.

[00:18:08]>> It's a four. It's a four.

[00:18:09]>> It's a four. But book book seven.

[00:18:10]>> So book one and four are five stars.

[00:18:13]>> No. Book book book seven might be book seven. Book seven might be five stars.

[00:18:17]>> Is it?

[00:18:17]>> I think I done joined a cult.

[00:18:21]>> I think I done joined a cult. And you see and that's how it happened. You don't even know. You don't even know.

[00:18:26]You're being brainwashed and pulled into something until you already kne deep in it. And then there's no going back. And >> now here I am. And now look at you.

[00:18:33]>> Here I am now out in the world hunting cocker spananiels.

[00:18:36]>> Hunting conquered spananiels is crazy.

[00:18:38]Donut don't like they must go.

[00:18:41]>> Donut is crazy.

[00:18:42]>> All of them.

[00:18:43]>> I love Princess Donut.

[00:18:44]>> Grand Champion.

[00:18:46]>> Yes. Don't forget the grand champion.

[00:18:47]She's worked very hard for the title.

[00:18:49]Relax. Um yeah. So just really quick uh the book that I'm currently reading that I just started is um [ __ ] >> is uh The Secret World of Maggie Gay by Granger.

[00:19:01]>> Oh, I read that.

[00:19:02]>> No, you haven't. You're such a liar.

[00:19:08]You're such a lie. And then you tried to say it with such conviction. Oh, I've read that. YOU >> BELIEVE ME?

[00:19:15]>> NO, I DIDN'T.

[00:19:17]>> I know you didn't.

[00:19:18]>> You didn't believe me?

[00:19:20]>> No, I did not.

[00:19:21]>> Okay, go ahead. I'm sorry.

[00:19:23]>> Such a fiber teller. And I literally just said today, I was like, "Babe, we should buddy readad this." And you were like, "No, >> because you thought it was by you thought it was something by Rebecca Yaros and it's not.

[00:19:34]>> It's by Granger. Tell the people what I what I call her. Yeah, she can know. I don't care. I I refer to her as that [ __ ] Rebecca.

[00:19:42]>> He'll never forgive her FOR >> SHE I NEVER >> HE'LL NEVER FORGIVE HER.

[00:19:46]>> And I don't call women by the word by the be. But she deserve it.

[00:19:49]>> But she deserve it cuz she killed MY BOY COLE.

[00:19:52]>> OH MY GOSH. YOU HAVE GOT TO warn people.

[00:19:55]Spoiler alerts. If the people want to hear OR LISTEN TO THE BOOK, >> DON'T READ NOTHING ELSE until she go back and rewrite that book.

[00:20:02]>> Okay. She's not going to read She's not going to rewrite the book.

[00:20:05]>> I ain't read no more of her books.

[00:20:06]>> She's not going to rewrite the book.

[00:20:08]That ain't going to happen.

[00:20:08]>> I don't give a damn about no damn Fourth Wing.

[00:20:10]>> Yeah, you do. Cuz he's going to buddy readad it with me.

[00:20:13]>> Watch.

[00:20:14]>> No, I'm not.

[00:20:14]>> Yes, he is. All right, let's hop on into our two cents.

[00:20:18]>> Our two cents. Um, okay. So, this one says that she needs advice and opinions.

[00:20:26]>> I got that.

[00:20:26]>> We know. Um, her husband, who's 38, she's 35. Her husband spent 78,000 on a phone game.

[00:20:35]>> Oh, hell no. No. Leave him.

[00:20:37]>> She said, "I've been married to my husband for two years and together for 6 years. A few months ago, he came to me saying that he had stress due to credit card debt from when he was unemployed.

[00:20:50]About 30k is what he told her. He isn't a shopper and doesn't really have bills outside of our mortgage. I consoled him and told him that I loved him and that we were a team and that we would figure it out together. That's a nice supportive spouse.

[00:21:04]>> Yeah. Okay.

[00:21:05]>> A few weeks later, he told me he had listed me as a co-signer on a loan, but didn't get approved because his score was so low. How you going to tell somebody I put you as a co-signer?

[00:21:14]That's crazy work. Um, then last week, I noticed he took $1,250 from our joint savings. I asked him what it was for, and he said it was to pay off our Home Depot card. and because we had agreed um that he would stop paying into our joint savings because he wasn't making uh as much money as he did in the past. So, you want to pay off the card. Friday, I logged into his bank accounts with him to make a plan of how to attack his debt. When I logged on, I found that he had 38,000 in debt, almost from um almost most of it coming from game charges from a game called White Out Survival. Then I found out that he already borrowed 40,000 from his mom and his grandmother to pay off debt before, mostly for the same gain.

[00:22:02]>> Oh my god.

[00:22:04]>> Uh it's just crazy because my husband outside of this has been amazing. He's my best friend and I never thought that I would be married because I didn't think that I would ever feel like someone was my partner until I found him. Now like my brain and my body don't understand how to rectify the man in front of me is the one who did this.

[00:22:22]He's seeking help and attending game uh gaming addicts anonymous. I'm going to take the house out of his name and he agreed. I just don't know how to move forward. Any advice?

[00:22:33]>> Leave his ass.

[00:22:35]>> I got nothing for you, pimp. That's crazy. Say he's 78,000 in debt.

[00:22:42]>> But it's from a video game.

[00:22:43]>> I ain't never heard of that game.

[00:22:44]>> I've never heard of that game either. We should have Googled it. Google it.

[00:22:47]>> I'm not.

[00:22:50]Cuz what what's so good about it that it's going to drive you into that much debt? And borrowing $40,000 from a family member to cover I wonder if it's like a gambling game.

[00:22:59]>> Look here.

[00:22:59]>> Survival. It says survival.

[00:23:01]>> I won't buy 2K cuz I'm not buying VC.

[00:23:04]>> I don't know what that is. VC.

[00:23:05]>> Exactly. Don't worry about it. It's It's in >> Don't worry about it.

[00:23:09]>> It's where you use real money to buy fake money to buy fake things.

[00:23:12]>> Oh. Is it like um when those kids ask for um V-Bucks?

[00:23:16]>> V-Bucks? Yes.

[00:23:18]Um, >> I don't do [ __ ] like that.

[00:23:20]>> Yeah, that's a that's a scam.

[00:23:22]>> Yeah. Yeah, >> that's a scam. You use real money to buy fake money to buy fake things >> that you don't own that >> that you don't own that they can take away >> that they have the intellectual property and once they lose the rights to it, you no longer have it.

[00:23:36]Okay, we tried to warn y'all about getting rid of digital games. Y I mean getting rid of physical games, y'all don't believe us. Uh, I I I don't have anything here.

[00:23:46]I'm sorry. I don't Leave them. This is ridiculous.

[00:23:48]>> That's her husband. THEY'RE ALREADY MARRIED.

[00:23:50]>> I WOULD OKAY.

[00:23:51]>> OKAY. LET ME ASK you this. I got something. I got something.

[00:23:53]>> Oh my gosh.

[00:23:54]>> Fully separate everything. Separate your money from his entire.

[00:23:59]>> I think they are already separated.

[00:24:01]That's why she said she logged on to his accounts. They only have one joint account.

[00:24:05]>> Split the stuff however y'all want to split it. But make sure he pays you directly and you pay the bill.

[00:24:10]>> Oh yeah. That's >> because you be out here talking about he paying the bill and he not.

[00:24:14]>> Yeah. Yeah.

[00:24:16]>> And >> oh man, could you imagine? Could you imagine if you gave me the bill money and I was like, "Yeah, I paid the bills." And then you come home one day and you turn the lights on, they won't come on. And then I'm like, "Oh my gosh, what happened? They must be messing with us."

[00:24:29]>> I would know.

[00:24:32]Bless you. Bless you. Uh, okay. Let's see. Spousals and their um uh money.

[00:24:40]Here we go.

[00:24:42]>> Another Yeah. Am I the [ __ ] for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kids' college when we agreed finances would stay separate?

[00:24:50]>> Okay. No. No. They had agreement.

[00:24:53]>> Okay. I'm a 42-year-old man. Okay.

[00:24:56]Married to his wife who's 40 for two years. Uh this is both of their second marriages. He has a daughter who's 17 from his first marriage and she doesn't have kids. His wife doesn't have kids.

[00:25:07]We got married. We explicitly agreed to keep our finances separate. We have a joint account for household expenses that we both contribute to, but everything else stays in our own accounts. This was my idea originally because I wanted to make sure that my daughter's college fund stayed protected for her. So, he came up with this idea.

[00:25:27]>> Okay. My daughter is applying to colleges now and apparently the fund that I set up for her isn't going to cover everything. She got into a school that cost around 65,000 a year. The college fund that I have saved for her is only 80, which will cover maybe a year and maybe a half a year. Last week, I asked my wife if she would be willing to help me cover some of the costs since we're married and my daughter is technically her stepdaughter. She said no.

[00:25:54]>> Amen.

[00:25:55]>> She makes good money as a consultant, about 140k, but says that uh she has her own financial goals and that we agreed when we got married that our money would stay separate. I got really upset and said that I didn't think that she would actually hold me to that when it comes to my daughter's education.

[00:26:14]I said that this is a different regular expense and that family should help family.

[00:26:19]>> Oh, here we go.

[00:26:20]>> She reminded me that keeping finances separate was my idea specifically to protect my daughter's money. I said that was about protecting her from potential issues, not her refusing to help when my daughter needed it. My ex-wife found out about it somehow and called my current wife, saying that she was being selfish.

[00:26:39]>> The [ __ ] >> My daughter hasn't said anything directly, but she's been really cold to my wife lately.

[00:26:44]>> Okay.

[00:26:44]>> My sister says my wife is technically right, but being kind of heartless about the situation. My best friend says that we had an agreement, and I can't just change the rules just because they don't work in my favor anymore. Am I an [ __ ] for expecting my wife to help with college expenses, though we agreed to keep finances separate?

[00:27:07]>> And the nine of >> the gold story ever.

[00:27:14]>> Yes.

[00:27:15]>> [ __ ] to a woman so heartless.

[00:27:18]>> She's an [ __ ] >> No, he's the [ __ ] >> Oh, no. He's as But he's asking is is um >> she is not an [ __ ] >> Okay, >> sir. YOU SET THE PARAMETERS >> RIGHT >> NOW. The parameter don't don't suit your needs.

[00:27:33]>> Yep.

[00:27:33]>> Congratulations to your daughter for getting to a pretty good university.

[00:27:37]>> Shouts out to her. You did you did something right.

[00:27:40]>> But unfortunately, sir, >> she can only go for a year >> and a half >> and a half.

[00:27:46]>> Here's my question.

[00:27:49]Why did you not go to her mother first instead of your wife?

[00:27:53]>> That's true, too. Why wasn't mom WHY WASN'T HER MOM also keeping the same account? Or maybe it was an account they both were paying into.

[00:28:00]>> I digress. It don't matter.

[00:28:01]>> Yeah, it really doesn't matter.

[00:28:02]>> You set the parameters.

[00:28:05]>> And he set the parameters based on protecting the money that he was setting aside FOR HIS DAUGHTER.

[00:28:09]>> YOU KNOW, WHATEVER MONEY YOUR new wife is setting aside, it may be for your retirement.

[00:28:15]>> Could be. No, she set her own financial goals.

[00:28:17]>> I'm pretty sure retirement is one of her goals.

[00:28:19]>> Yeah, they're in their 40s. Absolutely.

[00:28:21]>> Um, >> sir, I don't think she's wrong at all. I think you played your cards wrong. So you thought you thought you was being slick keeping your money to yourself >> and then when you needed a little extra, you thought you could just go to your wife cuz she your wife and family help family. She said, "Nah, Pam, you don't stick to your words."

[00:28:36]>> I'm thinking of this family have family [ __ ] Look here. YOU ARE RIGHT. FAMILY DOES HELP family >> when they can.

[00:28:43]>> But everything has boundaries, limitations.

[00:28:45]>> Yeah. And just cuz we got the same blood or our grandmothers or are or or know each other or sisters or brothers or whatever, tell me I know you.

[00:28:54]>> Bye, Maurice. I don't know you like that.

[00:28:57]>> I don't know you, Pam.

[00:28:57]>> I don't know you like that.

[00:28:59]>> Sir, she's not an [ __ ] >> She's not an [ __ ] >> Ma'am, keep your money.

[00:29:02]>> Yeah, you're going to have to figure that out. But I I'm confident that you can come up with something.

[00:29:07]>> And hold on. Wait, I got something else.

[00:29:09]Look here.

[00:29:09]>> Oh gosh.

[00:29:10]>> To your daughter is being cold to her stepmom because she won't spend her money on her. No, she being cold because of how her dad has framed it.

[00:29:17]>> Oh, okay.

[00:29:18]>> That's why because he's basically framed it like your stepmom is being a [ __ ] because she doesn't want to help put you through school.

[00:29:24]>> Okay. Well, if that's the case, sir, you're an [ __ ] and your daughter's being an [ __ ] as well.

[00:29:28]>> So, um, how much privacy are neighbors owed in a backyard fight? I need your opinion.

[00:29:36]>> Were they naked?

[00:29:37]>> My spouse and I spent a lot of time outside because we have a young kid. We sit in our screened in porch a lot, grill, garden, let our kids splash around in the pool, etc. We're honestly pretty low-key. No parties, no huge groups or people. Um, no blasting music until midnight. We're usually inside by 7 and in bed by 10.

[00:29:56]>> Those are good, respectful neighbors. I like those neighbors.

[00:29:59]>> Our houses are maybe 40 ft apart and the fences to our yards are basically back to back. So, hearing people outside is just a part of living here. If people are on their porch or in their yard, you can hear their conversation sometimes, especially in the summer when everyone has their windows open.

[00:30:16]>> Today, our neighbors came outside fighting. And after we had already been outside for a while, I just ignored it and continued playing with my kid. When I suddenly hear the neighbor yell, "These nosy [ __ ] neighbors won't go in the [ __ ] house so we can [ __ ] talk."

[00:30:34]>> Damn. The thing is, we were literally already outside minding our own business before they even came out there. We weren't sitting there trying to ease.

[00:30:42]Trust me, given the option, I wouldn't be out there playing uh the floor is lava in 100°ree weather either, but here we are.

[00:30:49]>> I mean, yeah, I'd be lying if I said that we didn't overhear their fights before because they fight outside a few times a week. If somebody is yelling, locking each other out of the house, slamming doors, peeling off in the driveway next door, people are going to hear it. We just ignore it and we continue about our business. But I'm genuinely confused by the expectations here. Are we supposed to pack up our kids and go inside every single time they decide to have an argument on their back porch? Now I feel weirdly conscious about simply being um outside at all, which honestly pisses me off because our porch is basically our unwind space and we literally just bought a small pool for the summer. Am I being crazy or is it unreasonable as hell to expect neighbors to leave their own yard so you can argue privately outside?

[00:31:37]>> You're not being crazy at all.

[00:31:38]>> You're not being crazy at all.

[00:31:40]>> Here's my problem.

[00:31:41]>> Arguing privately outside.

[00:31:42]>> Here's my problem.

[00:31:43]>> Crazy work.

[00:31:44]>> I would say at least I would see I would petty me.

[00:31:48]>> Oh gosh.

[00:31:48]>> I would say look >> I would have yelled back.

[00:31:52]>> I would have yelled back.

[00:31:53]>> I WOULD HAVE YELLED BACK.

[00:31:54]>> THE PETTY ME WOULD HAVE YELLED BACK. BUT I WOULD HAVE YELLED BACK. CAN you make the argument more exciting?

[00:31:58]>> No.

[00:31:59]>> Because because we keep t tuning into into the series every week.

[00:32:03]>> WE TRYING TO WE TRYING TO GET WE TRYING >> WE KEEP GETTING RERUNS.

[00:32:06]>> RIGHT. WE'RE TRYING TO GET the plot detail.

[00:32:08]>> If you guys can just change it up a little bit.

[00:32:10]>> Right. Right. Can we Can we >> YOU ARGUED ABOUT THIS LAST WEEK. Is it not resolved yet?

[00:32:19]>> No. They they uh they they they effing crazy. But listen, but listen to what he said. You're arguing privately outside, >> right?

[00:32:31]>> Okay. So, if you KNOW THAT OUR BACKYARD, LIKE OUR BACKYARD, OUR BACKYARD is the exact same way. It backs up to two neighbors. If we Yeah. four. If we decided to go outside and have an argument, >> literally both of their living rooms are right there.

[00:32:46]>> Oh, yeah.

[00:32:47]>> They're go WHERE DO PEOPLE SPEND TIME in the house?

[00:32:49]>> Their living room. The only thing between our argument and our neighbor is their sliding door >> in a fence.

[00:32:55]>> An a fence.

[00:32:57]SO, IT'S NOT A PRIVATE CONVERSATION. If we decide to TAKE OUR ARGUMENT OUTSIDE IN PUBLIC, >> that's for and then for you to yell, the [ __ ] neighbors won't go inside so we can [ __ ] talk. NO, BECAUSE I'M ON MY [ __ ] PROPERTY. Go inside of yours.

[00:33:18]>> THERE'S A CLOSET. WE'VE ARGUED IN THE CLOSET BEFORE.

[00:33:21]>> Go to the [ __ ] CLOSET LIKE EVERYBODY else does.

[00:33:24]>> Argu in the closet.

[00:33:25]>> We don't don't >> Oh, she was sleeping with me.

[00:33:27]>> Yes.

[00:33:28]>> I didn't want her to hear >> the >> So, we closed the bedroom door. Then we went into the closet and we closed that door.

[00:33:34]>> The things we do to protect her. She don't deserve us.

[00:33:37]>> Well, bye.

[00:33:39]>> I mean, we have disagreements in front of her now. But I think that's also important because we also have reconciliation in front of her, too. Um, but yeah, I think >> such a good marriage.

[00:33:49]>> She get on my damn nerves, but I love her.

[00:33:52]>> Um, >> no. Uh, yeah.

[00:33:54]>> Yeah, it's No, you're not.

[00:33:56]>> You wasted your time writing that [ __ ] >> Yeah, that's No, you're not wrong. And you know you're not wrong, but we appreciate it. Um, am I overreacting if I break up with my boyfriend in the morning?

[00:34:06]>> Probably not. Let's get into it.

[00:34:08]>> Um, a few weeks ago, my boyfriend got mad at me. I don't even remember the reason. It was something stupid. Uh, and he proceeded to drink a whole bottle of whiskey and get blackout drunk. I was honestly scared for my life. He wouldn't respond to me. He was vomiting and was um overall just not well. I told myself that night that I'm not dealing with that again. I won't live with a drunk and I will not subject myself to that type of behavior. That's good for you.

[00:34:32]>> Tonight, he got mad at me again over a video game. There goes those damn video games again.

[00:34:37]>> Don't look at me. Um, he must have drank another bottle because at 3:00 a.m. I woke up and heard groaning and grunting coming from the living room. So, I ran inside. He wouldn't respond to me again.

[00:34:46]He was laying on the couch in vomit and his underwear had piss on them. It's all over the couch. I called my family member and while my brother was on his way, I heard a thud and he fell off the couch and was dry heaving, still not responding. I managed to get him on his side. In the midst of all this, he somehow got back on the couch and took all of his clothes off, so he was naked.

[00:35:10]I nearly called 911. My brother has been here for the last hour counting his breaths and taking his temperature. I'm so embarrassed and scared. I don't want this life. He clearly has a problem. Am I supposed to get him help first? Is this my responsibility? Am I supposed to fight for this with him for giving up or can I just break the lease and go back home? I don't want this life sitting here staying awake to make sure he's okay. It's terrifying and I deserve so much more and so does he. Am I wrong?

[00:35:39]>> No. No, >> girl. No. You're You're seeing the red flag. AND YOU YOU'RE COLOR. SHE KNOWS HER COLORS.

[00:35:47]>> CONGRATULATIONS. You know your colors.

[00:35:51]Welcome. You know your colors. Good for you. Follow your first thought. The thought that you're having right now.

[00:35:57]>> This is what I say. Do >> leave.

[00:36:00]Wait, wait till Pissy wake up.

[00:36:02]>> Bye. Wait till he's conscious and responding and then just gently let him know.

[00:36:07]>> But wait till he wake up so he can see the mess around him. Don't for [ __ ] >> Yeah.

[00:36:11]>> Let him see the mess around him and say, "And this is why I'm leaving."

[00:36:14]>> Mhm. I can't do this. I don't want to.

[00:36:16]Because if you're doing this now, don't It's only going to get worse if I stay around. Yeah. Like he and and he wants to get drunk. Like there's a difference between drinking to like relax or socially and then when you drink to black out.

[00:36:28]>> How would you know? Are you drink?

[00:36:29]>> I used I used to drink socially when I was younger. I used to drink socially. I was never a big drinker, but I used to drink socially. Who knows? Maybe I'll decide again at 50 to drink. I don't know.

[00:36:40]>> 50 is crazy.

[00:36:41]>> It's not. Um, let's see.

[00:36:43]>> Last one.

[00:36:44]>> Am I the Yes. Am I the [ __ ] for not wanting to babysit?

[00:36:47]>> No.

[00:36:48]>> Probably not.

[00:36:48]>> No, we ain't got to read this.

[00:36:49]>> Probably not.

[00:36:51]>> No.

[00:36:52]>> My brother brings my niece and nephew almost every day, three and one, because they have plans almost every day.

[00:36:58]parties, shopping. His wife gets upset when I can't watch them. It gets really exhausting to watch both of them. Um, I do like taking care of them, though. His wife is constantly going out with her friends or just going shopping, and my brother at the same time doesn't want to watch them. There has been times where I have talked with them about it, but it feels as if nothing really changes. I've gotten in a couple of fights with his wife, too, for not letting her know that I'm not home because at the same time, they also never call to tell me that they're bringing the kids over.

[00:37:29]>> Please.

[00:37:30]>> The lack of clarification leaves me confused and I'm unsure at the point uh what to do because I don't want to babysit almost every day. I do understand that life does happen and that they have to go shopping, but it needs to come to an end at some point because now I'm unsure of how to confront them without it leading to a massive argument. They will think that I don't like babysitting. I have both school and work as well. Am I the [ __ ] for not wanting to babysit them?

[00:37:56]>> [ __ ] no.

[00:37:58]>> First of all, how inconvenient are you >> to just drive to someone's house and drop your kids off even if it is family?

[00:38:05]No.

[00:38:05]>> You just show up.

[00:38:07]>> But you Here's the thing. Do you know why they do that?

[00:38:09]>> Because she allows it.

[00:38:09]>> Cuz she allows it. She has to set a boundary.

[00:38:12]>> Here's my Here's my thing.

[00:38:13]>> Put up a fence. Set a boundary. Say something.

[00:38:15]>> I let them know this. You got to call me before you bring the kids over here if I'm You got to ask >> and call in that >> and if I'm free, I will watch them. And the next time they bring them kids over there, don't >> I'm looking at you from the lines. Yeah.

[00:38:26]>> And if they leave them outside, call the police and call CPS.

[00:38:29]>> Yep. Yep. Cuz that's just And then she not doing nothing. She just hanging out with her friends. She like, "Let me go drop these kids off so I can live my best life."

[00:38:38]>> People appropriating that don't want to HAVE KIDS. LIKE HOW DO YOU HOW DO YOU HAVE KIDS AND NOW YOU WANT TO LIVE YOUR LIFE? YOU SUPPOSED TO LIVE YOUR LIFE BEFORE you have the kids >> because the kids make them realize that the life that they had before wasn't so bad.

[00:38:52]>> Okay, >> that's what it was.

[00:38:54]>> And they was like, you know what? Being on my own, it wasn't so terrible cuz now I got to be with you 24/7 and you always want something and you always hungry.

[00:39:06]Let me find you a sitter I can drop you off with. It's just really sad that there's so many people out there that are here that can't have kids and then oh that trust >> and then you got to deal with people that don't really want kids.

[00:39:16]>> That's that's one of the things that really grinds my gear that that just like grinds my gear is you do have so many people out there who wish they could like have a family, start a family, and then you have people who do it and it appears like they take it for granted sometimes, you know. Um you I mean that's just >> stop. Wait, WAIT A MINUTE. DON'T BE shooting them. They take that [ __ ] for granted.

[00:39:39]>> Not all of them.

[00:39:40]>> I'M SO TIRED. SO, HOW YOU GIVING PEOPLE SLACK?

[00:39:41]>> NO, I DON'T BELIEVE ALL OF THEM TAKE IT FOR GRANTED. I do think that sometimes people can get sidetracked mentally.

[00:39:47]>> Stop putting suspenders on situations.

[00:39:49]>> Okay. Okay. Whatever you say, sir.

[00:39:54]Whatever you say. I think that people sometimes can lose sight, >> okay, >> of things that are important to them.

[00:40:05]>> That's possible.

[00:40:06]It's not that they don't care about their kids.

[00:40:09]>> They just care more about themselves.

[00:40:10]>> No, I said I said what I said. I said >> their time.

[00:40:13]>> Okay.

[00:40:14]>> Their time.

[00:40:14]>> And all kids ask of you is time.

[00:40:16]>> Exactly. You're right about that.

[00:40:18]>> I said what I said.

[00:40:19]>> Um Okay.

[00:40:20]>> Comment of the week.

[00:40:21]>> Uh where's the comment of the week? Oh, over here. Sorry. Looking at the wrong screen. My bad.

[00:40:26]>> You got to say it.

[00:40:27]>> Oh, the comment of the week.

[00:40:29]>> Comment of the week, people. She messed it up.

[00:40:31]>> The comment of the week.

[00:40:32]>> I'm not going to cut none of that out either cuz she messed it up.

[00:40:34]>> Sorry. The comment of the week people have two comments this week and they both >> come from the post about grandma not want to watch them toddlers.

[00:40:46]>> That was funny. Her son was being selfish though.

[00:40:48]>> That middle boy. I think it was the middle boy. I don't know. Was young. I don't know which one it was.

[00:40:52]>> She watched his kids and then she he started getting upset that she was watching the younger brother's kids and not his.

[00:40:58]>> He had he had a toddler. The young one had three toddlers. He had two toddlers.

[00:41:01]>> Yeah. Two toddlers. And his brother has a newborn. had a newborn and it was >> and the mother still works.

[00:41:06]>> Don't forget that. From home.

[00:41:08]>> So, the first comment comes from life with Lenora. Now, this I think this is her second or third time. She be there.

[00:41:14]She cracking me up. And also, I'm a little biased because Monte Neighbors was Lenor and I miss her. So, it is what it is. Lenora, you lucky. Uh, she said, "Best comment. Oh, I want to cuss him out." Now, look here. I did. I wanted to cuss him out, but I was trying to be respectful because of the booy that wrote in and my wife told me.

[00:41:36]>> I'm sure I'm sure grandma wants to cuss him out, too.

[00:41:39]>> But she >> cuz he was being hella ungrateful.

[00:41:41]>> Grandma not going to cuss him out and that's a problem.

[00:41:43]>> She should.

[00:41:44]>> She need to she need to tell him go out in the backyard and get three them sticks and he's a grown man. He is not going to go take >> watch my grandfather beat my auntie at 40. That don't mean [ __ ] >> That's crazy that she sat there and took it.

[00:41:56]>> Who? But she wasn't going to do nothing back to him cuz we would have hit her ass.

[00:41:58]>> No, she just would have left. She's 40.

[00:42:01]>> Okay. She got that She got that whooping.

[00:42:03]>> Bye, Maurice.

[00:42:04]>> She got that whooping.

[00:42:05]>> She got that whooping. She stayed there.

[00:42:08]>> And the next comment comes from Miss Beautiful.

[00:42:12]And she says, "Todddlers and tiny humans playing Final Destination with life and we have to protect them from themselves.

[00:42:20]A newborn eat, [ __ ] sleep, maybe even be held for a little bit." Now look here. Yes, >> it was the plain and final destination for me >> because that's how toddlers are >> because >> that's how toddlers are.

[00:42:33]>> That is the most accurate.

[00:42:35]>> That's how toddlers are >> because toddlers don't give a damn about nothing.

[00:42:39]>> They don't have the sense of like caution and fear like that. Not all of them. Some of them do. Not all of them, but some of them will look at the couch and be like, "You know what? Let's jump off the BACK OF IT."

[00:42:49]>> TYLER'S jumping from the roof. I don't We don't even know how they got up there.

[00:42:53]>> How did you get Why DID YOU LEAVE THE HOUSE?

[00:42:56]Everyone's so creative.

[00:42:58]>> I thought you GOT TO OPEN THE DOOR.

[00:42:59]>> Everyone's so creative.

[00:43:01]>> So yeah, I I thought playing playing follow that that part that took me out.

[00:43:07]That took me out for real.

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[00:43:56]>> Tell a friend to tell a friend >> to tell grandma >> cuz if granny know, >> then everyone else will. Peace.