Find Someone Who Wants The Same Future As You

Added: 2026-05-17

[00:00:00]Okay, guys. Let's watch this interesting video. The only reason I popped my balloon is cuz you said you wanted [music] to have more kids and I'm just done in the baby making department. Um my oldest [music] is almost 17, so and then my baby is almost 13. So, I just want a >> [music] >> I want a man that I can travel with and build a life with, but I'm not necessarily looking to have [music] more children.

[00:00:24]I think this very understandable. I just happen to have so much to give and I I raised my children [music] and I want to give a lot to children because I believe we have a responsibility to raise good children [music] to have an impact on the world.

[00:00:36]Uh-huh and I completely respect that. I think that's beautiful as a black man for you to say that and I appreciate you saying that. Thank you very much. Thank you. Best of luck in your search.

[00:00:44]>> Thank you. You too. So, you see two mature people.

[00:00:49]The lady is not trying to change the guy to encourage her to get not to have kids.

[00:00:55]And the guy is not trying to change the lady to want her to have kids. Two mature people know what they want.

[00:01:02]And it's just very simple and straightforward.

[00:01:05]When you know what you want, if you meet a partner that is not what you want, it's not what you want. It's okay.

[00:01:11]When you know what you want as a man and you meet a lady that is not what you want, it's okay.

[00:01:16]Don't be a guy who wants kids and meet a lady who doesn't want kids and try to force her to want kids.

[00:01:22]Don't be a guy who like pets and meet a lady who doesn't want pets.

[00:01:26]And I might just once you know before I had pets and this lady doesn't like pets. And I very simple and straightforward. I knew she doesn't like pets. I like my dog.

[00:01:35]I love I like Nana so much. She said she doesn't like pets and I know it cannot work.

[00:01:39]I didn't try to force her to like Nana.

[00:01:41]I just know Nana is my pet dog's name by the way.

[00:01:44]If both of you are not aligned, then it cannot work. And it's very simple and straightforward. Stop trying to be with someone that you guys don't align and forcing them to align.

[00:01:54]If it doesn't align, it doesn't align.

[00:01:56]End of discussion.

[00:01:58]So, ask yourself, the person I'm with today, are we aligned? If you're not aligned, maturedly, walk away.

[00:02:05]And that's the wisdom for you.

[00:02:07]I am proud of you.