The Problem With Little Girls Being Too Grown

[00:00:00]Is it just me or does these kids not look like kids? No. Over here.

[00:00:03]>> So, y'all been to tell me she came home, found a little boy under her daughter's bed that the little girl had snuck in.

[00:00:10]13-year-old daughter had not been being so fast and hot in the tail, then 20-year-old Rodarius Morton would not be unal alive and Kendra would not be behind bars facing unal aliveing charges right now.

[00:00:22]>> Hey y'all, welcome back to the video.

[00:00:24]So, in today's video, we are going to get into why kids today are so grown.

[00:00:31]And what sparked me to even make this video is about the young lady who she was 13. She snuck this 20 yearear-old man into her house. We don't know if she lied about her age, but it's like even if the person lied or did not lie. When someone is 13, 13, we're not talking about 16 17. We're talking about 13. You have to you got to know that that person is 13, not 20. Like just say she lied and said she was 18, 19, 20. You know, a 13-year-old is not a 20 year old. You know, a 13-year-old is not a 18 year old. So, what I want to talk about today are kids too grown. We remember like when I was growing up being girl, little girl was just being a little girl. Like I don't even think like we wasn't even wearing weeds or lashes at 13. But now we looking at Kanye and Kim's daughter, Northwest. Like 13 is like 25. Like at 13 we was still playing tag and cops and robbers and twister. We was not thinking about getting cracked, you know? I mean some girls was some girls that was fast with but I know me and my girls at the age of 13 was definitely not. But today since kids don't go outside and play anymore, they're on social media. They looking at the older girls nowadays who's getting cracked and who's getting tricked on by men. So they trying to be fast and be tricked on by a man. And she and the girl that we going to talk about today, she wasn't even being tricked on by a man cuz allegedly she the one who bought the man Uber. But yeah, that man was dead wrong. I know a lot of people are mad at the mom, which I mean, yeah, she didn't have to unlive that man, but that man was a predator. We got to be HONEST HERE. [ __ ] Y'ALL WANT to be grown.

[00:02:09]I see these kids. Oh my god. Want to BE GROWN SO BAD. I can't remember wanting to be grown that bad. I remember my mom and them struggling. I was looking at them like, "Oh no, honey. I I don't want to be grown." I SWEAR TO GOD, THAT WAS NOT MY MAIN THING, [ __ ] When it was TIME FOR ME TO GRADUATE, I CRIED. I KNEW I WAS F TO MY MAMA STRUGGLE THAT I KNEW.

[00:02:34]Do y'all want to be grown so bad, baby, when I tell you these bills GOING TO SH POUND YOUR ASS? When I tell you life, [ __ ] have a problem just with poofing and being on the [ __ ] earth.

[00:02:48]>> You don't know what happened by now.

[00:02:49]Long story short, this lady right here, her daughter is 13. She invited over a 20-year-old, snuck him in the house, and when she got home, she told the boy to leave. He was leaving. He shot she shot him in the back of the head and now he's dead. Right. And everybody is mad at the mom for popping him in the back of the head when he was already leaving. I don't give a he was already leaving. Why are you messing with a child? First off, [snorts] if you got to sneak into somebody's house, nine times out of 10, you probably shouldn't be there. You knew that girl was underage. Then you had to hide under her bed. Come on, bro.

[00:03:19]We talking about Oh, and you'll be surprised. There's more women defending the little boy than they are defending the mom. I don't get he was walking out the house. He was messing with a child.

[00:03:30]It's always protect the children.

[00:03:32]Protect the children. Protect the children. And then when she popped Buddy in the back of the head, oh man, she did too much. She should have never popped him in the back of the head if he was walking away. Y'all keep saying this, but if it was your child that was getting messed with, then you would you wouldn't have no [ __ ] sense then. Oh, Shaquille, that's why she going to jail.

[00:03:48]I don't think she cares. That's why she did it. Okay. And now he's popped in the back of the head. I guess I guess it is what it is. Then you got people, oh, look how fast this little girl was. Look how grown she was cuz the some of the pictures that she posted on her her social media, whatever. How fast a 13-year-old is. I don't give a [ __ ] She was a track star. How? There's nothing that a 13-year-old girl can say to me or do to me that's going to make me sneak into her f Nothing. Nothing at all. I'm so irritated this morning, bro. Especially on Facebook. There's There's women.

[00:04:24]You would think it was the men defending his actions for the most part, but no, it's it's the women.

[00:04:29]>> Yeah, it's definitely the women, but let's be honest, women have always defended the predators. That's why when girls were younger and they got touched, they didn't really feel comfortable talking to people. And it's not always even just older women. It could be women your own age thinking that you're lying.

[00:04:45]That's why a lot of little girls or just girls in general will be scared to speak up. And then people be like, "Oh, why did they come out years later?" They were scared like, "Yeah, they were scared." Or they might have just not wanted to have their voice dismissed and told to be quiet. Is it just me or does these kids not look like kids no more?

[00:05:04]My son is in the seventh grade and these damn kids LOOK OLDER THAN ME. LIKE MIND YOU, THEY be wearing wigs and [ __ ] lashes. The damn little boys, they about 67. I then like the stuff that they be talking about. Like my son comes home and he tell me the stuff that he hear at school and he be like, I didn't even know what THAT MEAN. YOU SHOULD KNOW.

[00:05:24]HELL, YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT THAT MEAN. I Oh my lord. I just feel like these kids are just way growner than what like what we used to be back in the My mom was still trying to put cracker balls in my head. Take these out right now if I get mad. But still like it was still like very kidish. Like I was still very I was still very much a kid. And these kids are very much grown. Very much very much grown.

[00:05:47]>> It's a 13year-old girl in Memphis. She snuck a 20-year-old man in the house. As the 20-year-old man was leaving the house, the mama shot the man in the back of the head one time and they found him in the front yard dead. Bro, watch all kids, bro. I'm a firm believer that it starts at home. Kids are visual learners. Kids do what they see. The the uh parental [music] figures doing as I should say, they see what they mimic what they see. So as parents, you have to watch what you expose your kids to, bro. Because it is already a wicked world as it is, bro. Not saying this to justify the behavior of the mom or anything at all because it's definitely going to be consequences face, but bro, watch your kids, bro. A 13year-old girl.

[00:06:42]But she was posing online sending I seen a picture, bro. Bro, she she acting like she grown, bro. But that starts at home, bro. It starts at home.

[00:06:53]>> I definitely do agree that it starts at home. That's why I don't get when people come into my comment section sometimes talking about, "Well, I don't care about a man. I didn't have my kids for a man.

[00:07:02]Uh, my children don't need to have a father." That's so wrong. like the mental effect that it have on your child. Number one, but number two, you need that mother nurturing um person in your household, but you also need that masculine role and energy in your household as well where stuff like this happens. Like they go out searching, dating older guys, looking for a daddy.

[00:07:25]And truth be told, there is nothing wrong with being young. Of course, you don't understand at the time cuz I ain't going to lie, when I used to get punished, I would be like, "Okay, 1,200 more days till I'm out of here. I'm 18.

[00:07:34]I'm gone." If your mama told you if you ever bring somebody into her household, she'll put a you know what in his ass, then why would you do that? If you know what type of mama you got and you know she not playing, why even put somebody else life in danger? I just don't understand. Have y'all seen the article of the 36 year old mom who got arrested and she is facing firstdegree um unal alive and charges all because her daughter end up bringing somebody into the home. She found the man up under the bed. She decided that she was going to pune him in the back of the head. She called police, let police know she did what she had to do. She always said, "If you bring anybody in my house, I will you know what them police end up interviewing the daughter, asking the daughter what happened." The daughter said, "My mama found him up under the bed and she always let me know if I ever bring a man into this household, she would pew pew him." The mama basically said, "I did what I had to do." But my thing is like police found him in the front yard with a you know what wound to the back of the head. So now she's facing firstdegree unalivvening um charges. But it's like to me personally, I know you know you get so mad you can't say what you are doing in the situation, but it's like you know you can't really unalive him because your daughter obviously inviting him over what she said she did. But it's like kids will really put you in a predicament and just send you up the roof because you already know what your mama told you and you already know she on it. Now she's facing life because you want to be disobedient.

[00:08:55]Why you going to meet him at somebody else? Girl, this is just crazy.

[00:08:58]>> Yeah. Like 13 is young, but I definitely feel like that's old enough and grown enough to know what you're doing. Like you know who your mama is. Like certain uh parents you just do not play with.

[00:09:09]Like kids should be allowed to be young.

[00:09:11]You should not be smashing no man. Like at 13 like 13 is crazy. even when I was around the age of 13 and 14 and like I said I don't even think I had my first kiss at that point but because I was kind of like a late bloo when it came to like boys and stuff but um I just always thought that was crazy when people said they were smashing in the eighth grade like you were smashing in the eighth grade like I thought it was crazy when I was around that age and people were saying that and like I would get teased cuz I I didn't um you know be intimate with guys at the same time everybody else was like oh you a child you a child so look kids being grown also got to do with other kids and with them uh with them people allow whatever. But like I always say like I was raised in a two parent household. My parents are still married. Uh they going on like 40 years.

[00:09:57]So like when it comes to the boys and sneaking the boys thing I did it once but that's not something that you can really do when you got like a a father in the household or look a crazy mother in the household who don't play that like these kids. Y'all got plenty of time. Ain't nothing cool about being grown besides all these bills. And maybe you could buy your own car or whatever, but you could do that as a teenager, too. Like some people, some kids is just popping like that. If Kendra's 13-year-old daughter had not been being so fast and hot in the tail, then 20-year-old Rodarius Morton would not be unal alive, and Kendra would not be behind bars facing unal alive in charges right now. That's exactly what you all are saying. You all are blaming a 13-year-old for a grown man getting in an Uber driving over to the house coming into the home and in the bedroom of a 13-year-old child at 120 a.m. Not today and not on my page. The terms hot and fast are terms that are used to adultify little black girls. Terms like that shift the blame from the predator to the prey. Not today. Understand this. There would be no division in the comments section or in these response videos if that little girl had blue eyes and blonde hair. Everyone would agree that Rodius Morton was a PDF that came in hot and bothered and left out cold.

[00:11:28]>> That is kind of something to discuss though. Why does it like when it comes to like little black girls, it's fast, but like say like you said, if it was a white tea girl, it would be like she was taken advantage of and we got to think about the parenting, which I I am thinking about the parenting because that does play a part. Now, your parents shouldn't have to be responsible for everything, but why did this girl feel bold enough that like where where was the mother coming from? because she said I I think the story was that she came home and she seen him at 1:00 like was she at work? Was she out partying? Where was she? And at 13 I know some people like, "Oh, I can leave my kids at home."

[00:12:07]Yeah, but think about the kid.

[00:12:09]Obviously, this little girl, she was no saint. So, she needed a babysitter. Like, for real, for real. We can't even say this girl was a little girl when she probably was raising herself. Like, she was home alone at that time. Like I said, I wonder if the mama was at work cuz that's that's a little different than if the mama was out partying. But for real, for real, like it's even kids in my family like, and I'm like, they are that age like and they wearing makeup and and lashes and all of that. Like when I would I would like and they can do it.

[00:12:39]That's the thing. Like we might have did it, but we had to sneak like when it came to like the leggings like I ain't going to lie. I ain't going to lie. But yeah, I used to sneak and wear leggings to school and stuff like that, but I could not wear that out my house. And then and then the teachers were cold.

[00:12:54]The teachers were cold. Your parents and say that you got leggings on and you would get in trouble. Anyway, another thing why these kids are so grown is because I'm sorry, parents are having kids that they should not have. I'm sorry. Kids should not be raising kids.

[00:13:09]Like, why does the oldest sibling always got to feel like they the mama? They are not the mama. They are a child. And I'm sorry. plays a big part of people being grown and being fast. Shoot watching all my siblings anyway. Why? Look, maybe I should have a baby, too. That that really plays a part. Like, your your children are should not have to raise your other children. Like, I see people coming online, especially on TikTok, crying and like, "Oh, I'm so uh overwhelmed with my kids." Well, why are you having more? You should have been one and done. Y'all really just be calling the little black girls fast.

[00:13:41]Y'all don't be calling all the other girls little girls fast. Cuz the little white girl with blue and red hair and her nails painted, y'all don't call her fast. But as soon as a a black little girl want to get a little bit of color or a couple tracks in her head, then she fast, then she want to be grown. Why is that? Why Why do y'all label black little girls as fast and grown so quickly, but y'all don't do that to to other girls? And then what what happened to the little girl clothes? It's no it's no little girl clothes. It's literally infant, toddler, and then straight to [ __ ] teenager. What? And she never lied. Let these kids be kids. Anyway, I would love to know your thank pieces in the comment section below. Don't forget to like, comment, subscribe, and turn the post notification bells on. Love you guys.