सच्चा Pyar 🌹 कोई Nhi । See This Manipulation❓ (Dark Psychology of Love Bombing) #psychology

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[00:00:00]Did a person ever come into your life who was so perfect that you started thinking that this is just a dream, good morning messages every morning, listening to everything you say, gifts, surprise visits and talks like you are my world and then suddenly [Music] everything changed, the same person started shouting at you, started controlling your decisions and started saying that I do so much for you and still you do not thank me [Music] Today I am going to tell you a dark truth which no psychologist tells openly, the one who pretends to love you the most, is the one who traps you the most deeply [Music]. Its name is love bombing. This video is for anyone who has ever been so lost in a relationship [music] that they forgot themselves or maybe you are still in a situation like that or you have a friend. Be it a girl or a boy in whose life this is happening.

[00:00:56]Because this doesn't happen only with girls.

[00:00:58]This happens just as often with boys. No one just talks. Today we will talk about the three faces of love bombing. With real [music] psychological science and I'll also give you five warning sciences that you miss because they sound so sweet. Watch the entire video because in the end I will say something that may change your life. Phase One The Perfect Beginning. Listen to a story of Arjun and Priya. When they both met, in the very first week Arjun said, "You seem different from the whole world to me."

[00:01:32]Three surprise gifts in the first month, two unannounced visits and conversations till 2:00 am every night.

[00:01:37]Priya thought, this is my soulmate.

[00:01:40]But it wasn't a soulmate. This was a calculated strategy. Psychologists call this the idealization phase. In this face, the love bomber becomes a perfect mirror of yours. He says only what you want to hear.

[00:01:52]Whatever you like, that is what you become.

[00:01:55]And you think what is the connection, friend, but actually he is planting emotional dependency in you and this does not happen only with Priya, it happens with Rahul also. Same thing happens with Vikram. It happens to every person who genuinely believes in love. [Music] Psychologists say that this over-compulsive behavior comes from a person's deepest insecurity. He is afraid of rejection and to hide that fear he uses your emotions as fuel. Now comes the phase two evolution phase. The same person who used to listen to everything you said earlier now starts ignoring you. The same person who used to say that you are everything. Now he says, you are just doing drama or you are doing drama and you get confused. Does it come to your mind that I made a mistake? Maybe I am wrong. This is the trap because your brain now tries to recapture that perfect beginning. The same feeling, the same warmth.

[00:02:56]Psychologists call this intermittent reinforcement, sometimes love, sometimes pain. This is the same psychological trick used in slot machines. You don't stop because you're winning. You don't stop because you hope to win next time. This is exactly what love bombing does to your relationship. And the scariest part is the effect it creates trauma bonding [music]. That means your pain connects you more to that person.

[00:03:25]Whether you are a girl or a boy, this trap works equally on both. Because it's not a gender weakness [music]. This is the weakness of man's greatest strength.

[00:03:35]Ability to love. Phase three. So how do you recognize love bombing? These five sciences look very sweet. That's why people miss it. Number one, too fast, too intense. I love you in two weeks. We have to stay together forever in a month. Real love is slow.

[00:03:52]Manipulation is fast. Number two, constant availability. It is unnatural to be available 24*7 every day.

[00:04:00]Real humans have their own lives. We have our own friends. It has its own time. Number three, calling jealousy a romance. Why did you talk to someone else? To say care. This is control, not love. Number four, you feel incomplete without me. If someone makes you feel that your value lies only with them, then they are taking away your autonomy. Number five, accounting for gifts and attention. When after giving the gift he says, I do this much for you or I do this much for you, then that was an investment.

[00:04:33]Not generosity. Now let's talk about its [music] solution. This was the end of Priya's story.

[00:04:37]One day he decided that the person who confuses him every time is not worth his energy. Because when you understand that confusion is not love, you get yourself back.

[00:04:50]Love is what [music] makes you feel comfortable. Not confused.

[00:04:55]Love is what lets you grow.

[00:04:57]Not a shrink. If there is such a person in your life or in any friend's life, be it a girl or a boy, then definitely share this video with them.

[00:05:05]Sometimes a video changes someone's entire world and tell me in the comment section if this has ever happened to you or someone close to you?

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[00:05:23]In the next video we will talk about silent treatment. He is even more dangerous. And if you find this video valuable then like it.

[00:05:30]See you in the next video. Till then keep your eyes open.