Man Gets Cooked For Making Stupidly Bold Claim That Women With IG Travel Highlights Are S3x Workers

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[00:00:00]Happy wife, happy life.

[00:00:03]>> I've been doing what I want.

[00:00:05]>> Yeah, I've been doing what I want.

[00:00:07]>> You know, I saw this post and a lot of women were in a comment saying that men don't like those highlights because they're broke. Okay, let me tell you something. It's not about the money at all. It's not about the money even a little bit. One, every you know has a highlight reel like that. Like her highlights look like that. I'm not saying that every woman who travels is I'm saying that every has a highlight reel like that. Okay.

[00:00:31]>> Every man who comments on women women having highlight reels are extremely misogynistic and dangerous men to be around. For women, >> I don't really think it's the highlights. I think it's a woman's agency that threatens a man's ego.

[00:00:45]>> The way men be so intimidated by women is ridiculous. Like, and it shows up in so many ways. I I kind of just I touched on this a minute ago um about how I I be shocked. Let me Well, what I touched on a minute ago was how men like feel some they get triggered by seeing that women have traveled a lot and they'll be like, "Don't get a woman that travels a lot, you know, whatever, right?" Um, but I I get shocked a lot of times by the things that trigger men like the ways in which men, you know, show their insecurity, you know. Um, it's not to say that I'm not insecure. I've never been insecure, you know, whatever the case may be. That that's not what I'm saying. I'm just saying though, like a lot of times the ways in which men show their insecurity throws me off.

[00:01:43]It just throws me off. Like I'm like, why would that I wouldn't I don't I don't know what I I truly can't think of anything that women do like even like the you want to say like the worst things women do that make me insecure. There are things that women do in the relationship that make me insecure. You know, when I say make me insecure, like they they're not making me insecure. I am insecure and I will it will invoke or can invoke a reaction. You know what I mean? when my wife says certain things to me um about certain things like there's for an example like I personally because of like growing up around pretty much all men um and boys men are extremely abusive in in the way that we communicate um and when I was growing up similarly to the way that I debate you know what I'm saying how strong like a a The reason why I'm so strong willed and so unabashed in my in my talking points is because when I was growing up, I would challenge a lot of my peers thoughts. I would be like, "Why do you think like that?" or like that stupid or you know, whatever the case may be. And it would often devolve the same way that it does online to them just being just doing like ad homs like you stupid, you a dummy. You know what I'm saying? like just like over and over and over again though like and the only it there are remnants of that in me.

[00:03:21]But my brother, thank goodness, he restored my confidence every single time I would go to him. I would get to these breaking points. Then I would talk to my brother and then my brother would be like, "Oh no, you're smarter than them.

[00:03:34]They're stupid. They're wrong." You know what I'm saying? He would give me the vote of confidence I needed to like get me back on track. But you know, those remnants are still there. So, I get kind of triggered sometimes when when I feel like people think that I'm stupid, right? If that makes sense. And I know that that's where it comes from. Like, I know without a doubt that's where it comes from. Um, a part of it. A part of it for sure. Um, another there's probably another part in there I don't want to get into, but I think that's a huge part of it, right? Um, yes, women or people, but women in this case, they can do things that trigger, you know, my insecurities or or a male or a man a man's insecurity. And I get that. But in general, there is really nothing that women do that make me feel insecure.

[00:04:16]Like, I don't care about how women dress. I don't care about how women present themselves physically. I don't care about women's occupations. I don't care about their level of education.

[00:04:26]None of that none of that intimidates me. None of that triggers me. None of that makes me like turned off or whatever. I I you know, within reason, you know what I'm saying?

[00:04:37]if you're like if a woman is a police officer, I'm g I'm probably turned off by that. I don't really like the police in any capacity, male or female. Um, but like if a woman was like a stripper or like a former stripper or something like that, I'm not going to be like, "Oh, you're a stripper. I hate you. You're less. You're beneath me." Like, I'm not going to be like that. I'm like, "Oh, she was a stripper." Right? If I like her, I like her. You know, whatever.

[00:04:59]Whatever. So, yes, I have more respect for strippers than I do police officers.

[00:05:03]That's me. I'm sorry. Um, but uh, yeah, I don't really get intimidated by that stuff. So, for me personally, it's weird to watch men get triggered by like the most innocuous things to me. Like, I'm like, why do you give a [ __ ] if a woman travels? Why do you care if a woman puts on makeup? Why do you care? You know what I mean? Like, why why would that send you into a tizzy, you know? Um, but it's because of men are insecure. Men are like highly threatened already by women. So then you give men any like you give you you show men as far as women showing men that they are that they that they are capable of things that the man isn't capable of or they have done things and had experiences that men haven't had experiences um haven't had those experiences.

[00:05:55]A man's already insecure. He's triggered. He's triggered. And that's what you get. And that like that is what's happening here.

[00:06:02]Happy wife, happy life.

[00:06:05]>> I've been doing what I want. Yeah, I've been doing what I want.

[00:06:09]>> You know, I saw this post and a lot of women were in a comment saying that men don't like those highlights because they're broke. Okay, let me tell you something. It's not about the money at all.

[00:06:19]>> Men are broke and men are afraid that a woman knows more. like a welltraveled person I don't a welltraveled person a lot of times they are they are more cultured and things of that nature men automatically assume it's hard to impress them it you know you can't just take her to Applebees you can't just take her to uh Kurabas you can't just take her um you know to Isa Marada Fish Company you know whatever right um that's what men think not knowing that you know people have men and women we have different facets to ourselves. So yeah women I think it ain't like those women every single day are doing like the most interesting [ __ ] They just do interesting [ __ ] from time to time. You know what I'm saying? Their life is um rich and fulfilling. You know what I'm saying? And you can and you can show that you can add value to them and you can add a richness to their life and a texture to their life by not and you don't have to take them to like necessarily like interesting places per se. You are you can be the interesting thing that's going on, right? You could be the person or the thing that interests them. Uh but men are not creative and men aren't interesting and men know that. Again, and this is this is what I'm saying. I've never felt like I wasn't interesting. Whether I whether you agree with that or not is whatever.

[00:07:43]But like I've never felt like I wasn't interesting. I've always felt like I was interesting and I like being around interesting people. So that's what I pursue. I don't like bland people. I don't like I like interesting people.

[00:07:55]You know, it's not about the money even a little bit. One, every [ __ ] you know, has a highlight reel like that.

[00:08:02]Like her highlights look like that. I'm not saying that every woman who travels is a [ __ ] I'm saying that every [ __ ] has a highlight reel like that. Okay.

[00:08:10]Also, every escort, every escort has highlights like that.

[00:08:16]I'm not saying that every woman who has those highlights is an escort. I'm saying that every every escort has those highlights. Okay? I'll I'll see your every [ __ ] has a highlight reel and raise you. Every man who comments on women having high on women women having highlight reels are extremely misogynistic and dangerous men to be around for women.

[00:08:44]You got it. Fine. You're right. Every [ __ ] you know I don't know how you know so many [ __ ] We get we'll get to that later or we might or we might not. But every [ __ ] you know, right, has videos of them traveling. Cool.

[00:09:02]Cool. I ain't going to hold you. You got it. Right. Even though Even though I know some actual sex workers and they don't do that. I know some actual sex workers who who literally get online and talk about being active sex workers and they don't have highlight reels and [ __ ] like that. like they don't even travel.

[00:09:22]They're like, you know, they're local.

[00:09:24]They're local 304s as well as, you know, international ones and national ones.

[00:09:29]You know what I'm saying? Like there's different levels. But anyway, so um but you got Okay. So, every 304, every [ __ ] every sex worker has highlight reels of them traveling. You got it. But every man that I've ever heard care about that is an insecure prick.

[00:09:49]Now, can we are you are is that a fair fair trade? We can accept both of those truths since we're just speaking from our own anecdotal personal experiences.

[00:09:58]I've never met a secure man to care about a woman having a travel highlight reel. Hell, I've never heard a secure man care if a woman was a sex worker.

[00:10:07]Never in my life.

[00:10:11]So, yeah, there's that. I'mma say it again because I lost you. I'm not saying that every woman who has those highlights is an escort. I'm saying that every escort has those highlights. So, it's like, how do we differentiate between you being a [ __ ] and you just being a woman who travels, right? And again, it's not about the money cuz really and truthfully, it's easy to travel if you know how to like in terms of price. Like, if your standards for like where you're going to be staying are low or you know what I mean? Like if you staying in hostels, which I know a lot of these people are staying in hostels, but I ain't doing that. You know what I mean? It's not it's nothing to do with the money. Again, it's just that every [ __ ] I know has highlights that look like that. And it's says Hernoff. I'm sure there's some thing that a man can have on his social media that makes him look like he he just be giving the meat out to everybody. In terms of what women look like on their social media and it looks like they're just giving meat out to everybody. Not me, I said meat, giving out cter to everybody. Is them highlights. You just look like you're getting hired and flown out to them cities to get cracked. That's just what it looks like. Nothing.

[00:11:15]>> No, that is just y'all's assumption cuz y'all cuz y'all think that women can't travel on their own. That's just your assumption. That's you're just projecting.

[00:11:25]What it really is is that y'all are broke and you guys are going, "How in the [ __ ] can these women travel? But I can't do that." And I'll tell you how.

[00:11:33]I'm not like a boomer. I'm not going to say, "Oh, if you stop buying Starbucks every day, d which if we're talking about traveling, traveling would kind of fall into that category." Like, if you stop doing x, y, and z every day, you could travel more or you could travel.

[00:11:49]Um, they be like boomers will say that about buying a house. I'm like, you ain't enough Starbucks in the world to help me buy a, you know, if I stop drinking Starbucks, I ain't going to be able to afford a home, right? That's not what it is. But when it comes to traveling, yeah, you're talking about a a couple two $3,000 a trip. You can take two or three trips a year. You know what I'm saying? Um, so yeah, you cutting back on, you know, daily expenses would definitely help you do that. And I'm going to tell you why men can't travel because men don't prioritize the things that enrich their lives. They prioritize fleeting experiences such as doing drugs, drinking, playing video games, and giving their money to sex workers, whether it be via Only Fans or straight up sex workers in real life. That's what men would rather do. Men would rather uh men would rather go to the club and get drunk and not leave with a woman because 99.9% of y'all don't leave with no women. y'all would rather um uh sit around all day and and and and play video games when you're not at work and drink alcohol and smoke weed. Um you would you would rather do that, right? You would rather have an expensive car even so that you can um catch a woman, right? In y'all's minds, that is what y'all be spending y'all money on. The women prioritize enriching their lives. They prioritize things that add value to their lives, right? And I'm sure some of because we're in America, I'm sure some people are going into debt. I'm sure some people are putting it on a credit card. Like I'm sure I'm sure. But in general though, men men are men have more um consumer debt than women. So what the [ __ ] are men spending their money on if not the things to enrich their lives? At least if women are in debt over traveling, it's [ __ ] it's [ __ ] to travel, man. It ain't to own a Hellcat. You know what I'm saying?

[00:13:44]It ain't to own a a Beamer or Beans or some goofy [ __ ] like that. It's like they're like, "Cool. I'm cool in my [ __ ] you know what I'm saying? My my my pre-owned Jeep Wrangler or in my, you know, Camry or whatever." And they're like, "The rest of the money I'm going to spend on myself, beautifying myself, relaxation, going on trips, decompressing, things of that. I'm going to go to Orange Theory." Like, women are like adding value to their lives with their money and men are not. And that is not the fault of women. That's the fault of you thumb headshaped men. Now a woman responded um to this man and I just found this to be so interesting.

[00:14:23]>> Giving out cter to everybody is them highlights. You just look >> I don't really think it's the highlights. I think it's a woman's agency that threatens a man's ego. Yeah.

[00:14:34]Because a woman having a passport makes a man relevant economically, socially, as well as sexually. I think a lot of men enjoy being a woman's first in her own experiences.

[00:14:45]By removing the social authorship in her ecosystem, he doesn't feel like he has the relevance or the influence in her life and it takes away the hierarchal standing in terms of his importance.

[00:14:57]Now, if you are a halfway intelligent person, you listen to the nonsense he was talking about [ __ ] and you know the his just his rhetoric, right? And his reasoning made zero sense. Then you listen to her that I mean that was as concise like she wrapped that up in 30 seconds. That was beautifully put. Made perfect sense to me. Men are threatened by a woman. Like when when women travel, that threatens a man's sensibilities because he goes, "Am I I'm not going to be able to finance her lifestyle. I can't keep up with her.

[00:15:36]She is more traveled than I am. She is more sophisticated than I am. How can I be over her when she is more all these things over me?" You know what I'm saying? That is why men are intimidated by education, by women who make more money and so on and so forth because men want to be the kings of the castle, right? They want to establish a hierarchy. Shout out to the home girl s for talking about that. Men want to establish a hierarchy in the home and out the home, but in the home, right?

[00:16:02]That is what in these relationships that is what this is. And he could try to get his like finagle his way out of that, but she clocked it 100%. That's exactly what it is.

[00:16:14]giving out cooter to everybody is them highlights. You just look >> I don't really think it's the highlights. I think it's a woman's agency that threatens a man's ego.

[00:16:25]>> Bro, no. I I literally like I told you why it makes me feel the way. You know, it's >> just because you said it doesn't mean we have to believe you. And because what you said had so many holes in it, one can come to the logical conclusion that that's not really what it is. what she said doesn't have it really doesn't have any holes in it. It's pretty [ __ ] airtight. That that's the easiest way to tell if somebody means what they're saying in most cases. If a person really means what they're saying, usually usually it is sound.

[00:17:00]It makes a lot. You're like, okay, even if I disagree per you know what I'm saying? Like let's say even if I disagree, it is sound in thought. I just disagree with it. it is very valid right I can't easily flip it around and blow the whole point up like I did when I said okay so by that metric if we are saying that women you know that that every 304 you know every [ __ ] you know has travel highlights in it which makes it hard to differentiate between the [ __ ] and the regular regular women then I can flip that around and say every man that I've heard talk about this is a [ __ ] doucher bag and a prick and a dangerous man for women to be around.

[00:17:45]Right. That's what I've seen. You go, "Oh, no, no, no." Right. So, yeah, that's it. That that her [ __ ] you couldn't just flip around like that. Her [ __ ] was fundamentally sound.

[00:17:59]And and he is not going to be able to do that. He's not even going to try to flip it around. Watch.

[00:18:04]>> It's so interesting. Like, you can tell a woman, "This makes me feel this way because of this." and she'll look you dead in the face and say, "No, that's not why you feel that way." I think, >> "Yeah, I'm a man. I'm telling you, no, that's not why you feel that way." Ju, this is called gaslighting. Just so you know, you I don't know why y'all don't understand this. Just because you say something doesn't mean we have to believe you people in general. Are you serious? Let use that same logic. Every time we talk about racism, white people tell us, "Nah, it's not racism." They'll look you dead in the face and say, "Nah, it's not racism. It's It's X, Y, and Z.

[00:18:40]We We We told you what it was. We told you it wasn't racism. It was A, B, and C. I don't give a [ __ ] what you said. I don't give a [ __ ] what you said. What are you talking about? That [ __ ] was racist.

[00:18:52]I don't give a [ __ ] what you said. That was sexist. That was misogynistic. I don't care if you tried to just you tried to put a bow around it.

[00:19:01]Your feelings feel differently for a different reason. I feel it. I feel that I understand your feelings more than you understand your feelings. So, no, I don't think you're right about your own feelings. You're going to tell me how I feel about a situation. I told you it has nothing to do with the money. I don't care. Short >> just just FYI, psychologists do this for a living. Just FYI, you will tell a psychologist something and you will be like, "This is why I think that." And then they'll usually they'll gradually help you get to the place to where you can identify what the core where that's actually coming from. That's all she did. That's all she did. She just got to the root of it.

[00:19:40]You could be breaded up or poor. I don't care. Has nothing to do with the money.

[00:19:44]It's simply because of the fact the optics. The optics look bad. It's a turnoff. It's the same thing where like if you go to a woman's Instagram and her Instagram is full I've said this before, her Instagram is full of her of nothing but her at like bars and like fancy restaurants. It's not the fact that it's bars and fancy restaurants and it cost money. The reason why it's a turnoff is because you look shallow. You look boring. You're not posing your >> So the the person that thinks that that automatically concludes that that woman is shallow or the person that automatically concludes that that woman is a 304 isn't being shallow.

[00:20:24]Interesting favorite books. You're not posting the fact that you like to maybe go hiking. Maybe you like to knit. Maybe you like to play bad. Maybe you like to play tennis. Maybe you like to play games. Maybe you like to crochet. Maybe you have a hat color. him as a content creator. You do know that people have niches, right? If that woman's niche is her going out to bars and clubs, why are you saying like, "Why don't you show more about yourself?" Cuz that's her her niche online is bars and clubs and workout videos. That's her niche. Like you your niche is being a [ __ ] male pander, pandering to men. That's your niche. Your niche is being red pill.

[00:21:04]That's your niche. You never go against that, right?

[00:21:11]>> I don't care. Your Instagram just looks shallow. It looks boring. It's a turnoff. Highlight. Since when is traveling boring?

[00:21:21]Since when is traveling boring? When when did when did flying to foreign countries and do and having new experiences equal boring?

[00:21:34]Like be for real >> of you in all these different countries.

[00:21:38]It's because like I said in the video, every escort has the highlight reel showing them where they go, right?

[00:21:46]>> All over the place. First, you just said it was from them. It's boring. Now you're saying it's because you don't know if they're a horror or not, which who cares?

[00:21:55]>> I know what a menu looks like. A lot of y'all don't know. It's the same thing where like y'all will listen to the this this this horror music and and think it's for real. like you're supposed to go out there and do it. A lot of y'all be be copying and cosplaying [ __ ] because you think that's how you're supposed to act, right? A lot of these girls that y'all be listening to rap about all this horror stuff, they're real harlots. They really selling Listen to where we got to now. We're talking about the sexy reds of the world. How did we get here? Remember her video was 30 [ __ ] seconds. Made perfect sense.

[00:22:32]This [ __ ] is on two minutes. Not saying now we talking about sexy red box. But y'all don't know that. Y'all think, "Oh, I'm supposed to um act this way, look this way, present myself this way because this rapper lady does it or this uh reality TV shows lady does it."

[00:22:53]No, I know what a menu looks like. You probably don't even You acting like a escort. You don't know what a menu looks like, but you're portraying a menu online, not even knowing that's what you're doing.

[00:23:06]>> Why do you know this about sex workers?

[00:23:08]Why do you know this?

[00:23:10]Telling on yourself.

[00:23:14]>> This makes me feel this way because of this. And she'll look you dead in the face and say, "No, that's not why you feel that way."

[00:23:19]>> When you use preference as a disguise for moral claim, that's a completely different conversation. If your original issue was consumerism and that luxury aesthetic content is shallow, you would have said that. But what you said was that you're associated with and that the way it looks is related to transactional relationships or potentially prostitution. That's a completely different conversation. So what I'm noticing is a reoccurring ego pattern.

[00:23:47]It's one thing to say that travel content and aesthetic content is shallow and egocentric, but when you associate and you attach it to a woman's sexuality and her agency, that's a completely different conversation. And that's what I'm highlighting on. And in my opinion, the issue wasn't travel. The issue was the perceived of loss male leverage in the conversation.

[00:24:10]>> Hey man, I'm out. I gotta follow her. I didn't I'm at cuz I now I I'mma follow her. She She make a lot of sense her page. I want y'all We going We going to tag it in there. Find her on TikTok.

[00:24:24]Follow her. I want her page to blow up cuz she I like I like her. She She She got that She got her mind is good. She got a strong mind. That was as good as you can put that. That was as good as you can put that. That was it. She clocked that [ __ ] a mile away and he over here talking about sexy red boy.