Breaking Gender Roles Isn't Easy

Added: 2026-05-16

[00:00:00]the gender roles switch with you and Josh, the the normal the normal dynamic of what we're used to.

[00:00:06]>> So for you to say I'm going here, I'm running to the stadium. I'm going to do this. I have to work till midnight. He's like, "Yeah, I'm cooking dinner." You know, like is that was that a trans like was it difficult for him? Do y'all talk about that where you know the natural roles change? It's something that we still talk about and and I mean what I always say to him which is so true is like I wouldn't have this career if not for his career because his career allowed me to do what I talked about which is like giving everything up and then starting from square one and building it back up. I mean my first contract with ESPN was a 12 event deal.

[00:00:41]When I first like showed Josh that contract from ESPN he was like are they even paying you? Are we paying to work?

[00:00:48]like legitimately he's like it may cost us more money >> and it's because of him that I could even build what's been built you know and so we we talk about that but it's tough you know I I it makes me cringe when we're somewhere and someone's you know we'll be meeting somebody and they're like what do you do and and he's so great about it he's like I stay home like I help out you know I support and I hate that for him because I'm so proud of him like I want him to feel like people receive him better than that. You know what I mean? Like you you want him to I want to be like, "Hell yeah, he does." You know, that's amazing what he does. And and he's he's handled it all so well. But there's definitely times, I mean, he's had some other career opportunities that he's done and he does a great job. He manages a Ford dealership that we own and he does a lot, you know, that people don't realize. But he actually has given those up because he said he's like, I don't feel like I can support the kids as well as I want to and support you as well as I want to by doing all of this. And we we did make a really conscious effort to say as much as we can, we want to raise our kids. You know, we don't want to outsource that. And we do have a babysitter that helps us a ton. She's a rock star and my my parents have helped and his have helped, but uh we wanted to be the that one of us was there most of the time and and that's been I think part of his sacrifice. It is. It's a sacrifice,