Ask me anything about Narcissists, Empaths or Toxic Relationships

Ajouté : 2026-05-13

[00:00:02]Hey Laura, how you doing?

[00:00:19]>> All right, here we go.

[00:00:58]that over here for a second.

[00:01:08]Laura, how you doing? You good?

[00:01:19]It's good to see you.

[00:01:42]One second. Let me just We're getting the coffee going.

[00:02:03]Can two narcissists be together?

[00:02:19]Yes, for the love bombing phase. But that's not bound to stick around for too long. The moment they both look one has to supply if both only take by the time one starts to take that's when the relationship comes to an end. So can two of us get together? Sure. But once the supply phase is over or once the supply I'm sorry once the unmasking begins. Ziggy turn down the volume.

[00:02:54]Can I just do a good thing? Hey, Shannon. Like for someone else.

[00:02:59]Everything's conditional.

[00:03:04]Everything. Ryan, how you doing?

[00:03:07]Hey, Pearl. How you doing?

[00:03:18]We're get two cups of coffee tonight.

[00:03:22]need to put that much.

[00:03:29]It's good to It's always good to see you, Ryan. It's always a pleasure, brother.

[00:03:35]What's up, Pearl? I'm doing great.

[00:03:37]Thanks for asking.

[00:03:40]Mr. Bruce, how you doing?

[00:03:56]Do they ever feel remorse?

[00:04:02]Well, the thing with Ziggy, turn down the volume.

[00:04:26]Y got time for that.

[00:04:37]All right, welcome everybody to the dead. Let's close invites for a second.

[00:04:42]Let's get to questions on the road.

[00:04:43]While we're talking, I'm actually making coffee. So, if you see me a little bit disoriented, I'm just getting my popping going.

[00:04:55]You can't start a live like this without coffee. You know what I mean?

[00:04:58]Oh How to identify toxic relationships.

[00:05:04]Got to see it for what it is. This guy came to me.

[00:05:14]You're still you're still struggling with the aftermath of that, Ryan.

[00:05:22]Bruce, I'm doing all right. Thanks for asking, brother.

[00:05:30]Got to get that coffee going.

[00:05:34]We're also exploring other horizons while we're doing this, just so you know.

[00:05:42]For everyone who's new here, we answer questions in regards to toxic relationships. If you have any questions in regards to narcissist, empath, or toxic relationships, I'd love to answer it. Just drop your question in the chat and Oh, so that's the kind of struggle you're dealing with. My VF loves to make me mad on purpose. Um, I wouldn't say make you mad as much as trying to provoke a reaction. Hey, what's up Eli?

[00:06:10]Oh no.

[00:06:14]Uh, right viewer on this channel.

[00:06:16]Goodbye.

[00:06:24]Is that toxic? Yeah, a provoking response is definitely never a healthy thing.

[00:06:31]How come I'm never enough for my dad? I just want to be enough for them. The question is Mega Megaplex, are you enough for yourself?

[00:06:40]Look, unfortunately, it's sad that your parents cannot recognize your self worth and value, but there comes a point where we start to need to understand and see it for what it is rather than keep constantly pursuing what we think what we want it to be.

[00:06:59]Because it's no longer a matter of not keeping Hey, what's up, Laura?

[00:07:19]What's up, Summers? Love, you right.

[00:07:33]Hey, Ma. What's going on?

[00:07:42]>> Hey, Mr. Posit. How you doing?

[00:07:59]I will admit I don't feel as much for my mom as I do anything after my grand conf.

[00:08:12]I'm doing all right positivity.

[00:08:15]Will I find my way out? There's always a path once you start self-reflecting.

[00:08:56]Sorry about that.

[00:09:09]Hold on. Wait. Apparently, this channel has a lot of people that need to be hidden.

[00:09:17]He's here.

[00:09:22]Hey, I I appreciate that, Laura. Thank you for being here. What's up, Jonathan?

[00:09:26]Welcome back. I'm the saddest I've ever been realizing most relationships I have are toxic and exhausting. But you see, that's the thing. But hold on, Shannon.

[00:09:37]Hold on. Wait. That's not something to be said about as much as it is as a point of recognition. It's not the mindset that you've adapted or built over time is not necessarily your fault as much as coming out of that mindset itself. I mean, when you grow up in a circumstance or an environment that that promotes and encourages this kind of behavior or at least this framework, you know, you're desensitized and normalized to it. So why should we look at the point of recognition as something to be hurt or or or destructed by rather than to see it as a point of awakening?

[00:10:14]Because you would not have keep in mind you would not have this understanding if you did not do the work to get to the point in which you can understand it.

[00:10:24]You would not have this understanding unless you got to the point in which you could understand it. So I think it's something to celebrate more than it is something to worry about, you know.

[00:10:49]Lonely is good. Lonely is not a bad thing. Lon always lonely is always a good thing because you find yourself in your solitude.

[00:10:57]The truth is, the truth is we need this loneliness because the people or the circumstances or the environment that we were in was what pushed us to constant con constantly live in it. You know, if we did not have this experience, if we weren't surrounded by these same people, if we weren't living in that environment, we wouldn't be in the mindset we are in right now. So when you when you experience that loneliness, you're not you're detaching from a reality and an environment that kept you there. Hey, what's up Squiddy? Welcome.

[00:11:34]That I was aggressive, but then I realized I'm planning to work that they don't do 100% Ryan.

[00:11:40]Ryan, you came a long way, brother. You came a really long way.

[00:11:45]Okay, I'm going to take you guys boats.

[00:11:48]Where I put this So, what do we do? You can ask any questions you want, Ethan. You can ask any questions you want in regards to So, hold on. Let me just put the coffee in.

[00:12:07]One second, guys.

[00:12:10]We'll come back in a second.

[00:12:13]So, you can ask any questions in regards to toxic relationships, narcissists, empaths. Whatever questions you may have, I'd be willing to share my expertise or at least do the best I can to answer your question.

[00:12:27]We're making coffee at the moment, so we'll see how this plays out. Give it a second.

[00:12:37]It's good to see you, too, Pearl.

[00:12:44]We don't talk about our exes. We move on. True.

[00:12:50]But there's nothing wrong with finding clarity and peace and understanding.

[00:12:54]Clarity gives you the opportunity to move forward. So, it's not talking about your ex as much as about finding clarity. If you have any questions regards to that, I'd be willing to answer expertise in flying kites. Monkey, well, stay away. You You choose. You are the one who determines the end of it.

[00:13:22]It's me. Positivity. A narcissist. Look, we can't listen. We can't let the end of a narcissist be determined by the narcissist. Okay, we can't let the end of our relationship or the re-engagement or hoovering phase be determined by the narcissist. We have to be the one who determines what the end looks like because it's all about regaining control and autonomy if they are still the ones in control of that. Oh didn't even start.

[00:13:52]What's the point of our healing if they are the still the ones who determine it?

[00:13:58]I'm a pathological liar. Will I ever be normal? Yes. Once you start to understand the significance of truth and how much it gives over Look, a lie always requires, listen, a lie always requires a lot of maintenance.

[00:14:16]You put one lie and then it needs to follow another to keep the first one alive. And the most exhausting part about being a pathological liar is that you yourself will never find the truth.

[00:14:27]that at some point the deception becomes a part of your identity and of course an identity built on nothing for the most part.

[00:14:37]In reality, when you start to understand that it's more easier to live a life of honesty than it is to live one of lies, you'll start to to let go of that deceptive nature. But it all begins with recognition or at least the will to to understand it.

[00:14:55]Okay, the coffee is ready. Beautiful.

[00:14:59]Now I can put you guys back to work.

[00:15:01]Sorry guys, I had to kind of get my coffee going. All right. Now I got you guys both here. Okay, we're good.

[00:15:11]Would you explain this to that' be great? My husband lied about a baby then when I had her child.

[00:15:19]So sorry to hear that, Tash.