MML: For The Black Men Over Here…

Added: 2026-05-12

[00:01:19]Do you live in my heart?

[00:01:36]Heat. Heat.

[00:01:46]Heat. Heat.

[00:02:00]Heat. Heat.

[00:02:11]Heat.

[00:02:14]Heat.

[00:02:35]I got a change.

[00:02:39]I'm running off again.

[00:02:42]I can't feel nothing.

[00:02:46]It's my fault. I should have been better, but I didn't. I swear I swear if I fall, you can call it the end of me.

[00:03:10]If I fall down.

[00:03:17]Oh, you can call it goodbye.

[00:03:24]It's hard to fit in when no one knows the magic. I stay up my hours, but I'm still getting a castle. I just play it cool. I like to keep it casual. Grandma calls me handsome, so I know that that's true. It's hard to stay humble when they put you at the front of it all. You got to learn to hold your tongue. That's why I always mumble when I talk. It's not my fault. I look good when I do what I do.

[00:04:05]Oh, days in the sun and nights in the rain.

[00:04:27]Yeah, this song is over.

[00:04:31]Simple play.

[00:04:38]Yeah, I had me some fun. It helps with the pain.

[00:04:49]Girl, I already told you I don't feel the same.

[00:04:59]I don't feel the same anywhere I go. I can never show. I don't feel the same.

[00:05:16]Anywhere I go, I can show >> I'm not asking for a life, but I won't be all right.

[00:05:34]Oh, I'm not asking for a good look.

[00:05:46]I'm not asking for the riches and the fame. I'm not asking for the whole world to know my name. I tell myself I live in order to keep me before the demons and tell me that my life's in vain.

[00:05:58]I'm not asking tonight.

[00:06:08]Oh, I'm not asking.

[00:06:13]I want peace insidefied.

[00:06:20]>> I'm not asking for the riches and the fame. I'm not asking for the whole world to know my name. I tell myself I live in order to keep me sane before the demons and tell me that my life's vain.

[00:06:34]It's not the pale moon that excites me that thrills and lights me.

[00:06:54]It's just the nearness of you.

[00:07:06]It isn't your sweet conversation that brings this home.

[00:07:25]It's just the newness of you.

[00:07:38]Horizon.

[00:08:15]Can't feel the way I feel about you. I just want you to be mine.

[00:08:30]All alone waiting for your tend to touch. So I hope you give this love a try.

[00:08:39]Can't you see just how I feel?

[00:08:50]Love is real.

[00:08:58]Can't see. I can'teny the way I feel inside. I keep wondering if you're real.

[00:09:07]Yeah.

[00:09:09]I smile. You turn me on. I just wish that you were in my life.

[00:09:17]to see just how I get to see how I've been your love is real.

[00:09:34]It's for you. Can't you see just how could you say it's love for real baby you'll be my next dream up together but my vision takes step whenever you're in need it's myself I offer in my heart and it's getting up well in a storm hunt and nothing will harm you. My eony queen while I'm your night and armor. Wish I could tell you how I feel in the kiss.

[00:10:13]This love for real.

[00:10:14]>> See just how I feel is for you.

[00:10:22]>> This love for real.

[00:10:34]I feel this love is real. It's for you.

[00:10:39]>> It's for you.

[00:10:41]>> This love for real.

[00:10:44]>> Don't you know this feel?

[00:11:12]I love you, baby.

[00:11:14]I want you, baby.

[00:11:19]This looks for real.

[00:11:58]Just want to stimulate your mind.

[00:12:03]inside. I want to know what's inside.

[00:12:08]What up though? Welcome back to another Medium Man live surprise live popup edition. Man, I greatly appreciate y'all tuning in to watch your boy. We got 109 folks in the building. Greatly appreciate it, man. I know uh I have not been able to go live uh as much as I want to. And shout out to GMT uh grown man talking meat to Mary, man. Uh my apologies, bro. It's been a lot going on. Um work, family, uh you know, different dynamics going on around my house, you know, had to change some things around. But um yeah, I haven't had that much time to go live, but I did get a chance to uh clip up that video that I that I put out today, and I'm glad you guys are enjoying it, and you hopefully you got the purpose. We're going to discuss uh the reason why I made that video here in a second, but shout out to GMT, man. uh once I get back on schedule and get everything in order, we will definitely be back on target. You know what I'm saying? So, I appreciate the support. Um man, and again, like I said, everybody has been supporting the channel so much. All the platforms, Instagram is doing well. You guys have still sent me a lot of content that I actually got a chance to review.

[00:13:15]Greatly appreciate all the support, man, as always. And to the new followers, welcome. Behave yourselves. Uh and uh we'll be just fine. But I appreciate all the support. But before we get into it, let me get uh some recognition going out here. We got Poo Man in the building.

[00:13:32]Thank you, brother, for putting all the links in the description. Always appreciate it. My guy GMT, what up though? Good to see you in the building.

[00:13:41]Thank you. And then we got, let's see, the truth unfolded. He's been a member for 10 months, man. Shout out to you, brother. Thank you. Said happy uh media man Tuesday, y'all. Yeah, man. So on that Tuesday, May 5th, May 5th, Cinco de Mayo in Houston. Hey, you know what it is. Just give me a a reason to cheat, you know.

[00:14:01]Let's see here. Uh Dotus Jenkins, that's a cold name. $2 Shack. He said, "Passports up. Hashy SBM." All right, brother. Get to it. You got some countries damn near every country that you got listed there, I've been to. I think I see Japan. I see Germany. I see Dominican Republic. Um, is that what is that? Colombia. Yeah. Brazil. Is that France or uh Yeah. Yeah. Been although I can't see the other one. Yeah. I think that's Puerto Rico's flag maybe. I don't know. But yeah, thank you, brother.

[00:14:38]Appreciate the support. And then we got a new member. We got uh SSS06.

[00:14:47]All right. Appreciate it, brother. Thank you for becoming a medium, man. YouTube member. I'm going to put out some more content uh just for members here. Do some more meetings members only. Greatly appreciate your support, man. Thank you.

[00:14:58]I think I missed one. Hold on.

[00:15:01]Did I miss one? Got new Oh, my bad. You were here early. Uh Matt Stewart, he became a member before the show even started. Thank you, brother. Appreciate the support, man. Love the memberships.

[00:15:11]Oh, we got Ola in the middle. My bad.

[00:15:13]Ola. Ola in the middle with the $10 bomb. Said, "Hit the like button on your way in." I greatly appreciate it. Let's go ahead and give the ladies some love.

[00:15:22]Hold on. What we got? Well, I know I got some great drops here.

[00:15:37]Thank you, Olawa. Appreciate the support. And then we also got CBP film in the building. Became a YouTube member. Thank you, good brother.

[00:15:45]Appreciate the support as always. And uh I forgot. I think I seen uh Olawa or Mona. Was that Mona? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

[00:15:55]Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Hold on.

[00:15:58]Here we go. Mona in the building. What's up, uh LJ the s Southern Vegan? Good to see you here as well. Appreciate the support. Thank you, Mona. Let's see here. All right, we got everybody.

[00:16:10]Hopefully, it's uh the picture good.

[00:16:13]Ola, Pman, Mona, sound good. Everything good. I don't want to get to it. Um before I got I got some stuff to report on. So, see, let me make sure. Let me get the Okay.

[00:16:27]If the sound is good and the picture quality is good. Okay. Thank you, Ola.

[00:16:33]All good. All right. So, I'm pretty sure you guys seen um the video. You seen it a c you probably a couple times on my uh Instagram platform. I put out a little snippet prior to releasing the full video uh today and it's doing very well.

[00:16:48]I definitely appreciate the support. Um you guys heard the talking point and where this stem from. Um we had a content creator of the alphabet community. Um, he said that straight black men in particular were cancers to the black community as a whole. He made no distinctions. He made no differentiation between who he was talking about. He just said all straight black men. And that's a problem for me.

[00:17:17]And what bothered me the most is that I didn't see enough black male leaders, black men who consider them leaders consider themselves leaders in the black community. reacting the way that they should or the way that they're supposed to as leaders of this computer uh this community. And it bothered me, you know, and uh and the reason why I decided to do a video on Dandre Whitfield is for a number of reason. And I'm going to explain to you why, but I seen him uh like and comment under the video of this content creator that where he was saying that black men were cancerous to the straight black men were cancerous to the black community. So none of this is, you know, by chance. Like I just didn't put pick out a name be like, "Oh, that looks like a check mark. I'm gonna go I'mma, you know, uh use this guy as an example." There's always a reason to everything that I do. And if you've been following my platform, you understand how I move over here. I hold black men to a very high standard. And when certain things are missed and black men, I guess, don't mind throwing other black men under the bus, that bothers me.

[00:18:31]Especially if you consider yourself a leader in the black community. You do work within our own community. So, let me explain why I specifically pointed out DARE Whitfield in my last video. Because some people think I just randomly chose him. No, that was actually intentional. First off, I actually respect the brother. I watched his interview on The Truth After Dark with Paul Pierce. You guys remember that? And it was a solid conversation.

[00:19:02]No issues there. Second, I've actually read his book, Male Versus Man. Okay, not skimmed. I read it because around that same time, I was going through uh Hill Harper's The Conversation, and I told you guys, Hill Harper's The Conversation book is one of the best books that I've ever read. And my goal was to present it to you guys and actually review it. And you know, I was in that phase where I was encouraging black men on my platform to read more.

[00:19:36]You guys remember that? And those were actually two books that I had lined up before things got busy, right? So, it was just ironic when I seen his comment and his like, I was like, "Wow." And so when you know and when I started referencing uh Dandre's book in you know in that discussion I already knew exactly what he was talking about because if you guys don't know he uh I remember in the book he talked about the men university and it was a concept that he created for his book his book and there were different men archetypes you know and the one that stood out to me the most was that he did an archetype about a military officer example because that one stood out to me a lot, right?

[00:20:30]But more importantly, I remember chapter eight and I wanted to s I wanted to present this to you guys quick because he actually pushed pushed back on the happy wife, happy life uh saying and you guys know that that's something in this space that we've tried to get away from.

[00:20:50]I've done videos on this. So when I read his book a while back, I was like, man, I was like, I think this is a great chapter that we can actually review on my platform because that idea is flawed.

[00:21:01]It assumes a man's happiness is secondary. And if you understand, you know, leadership and watching people in these spaces, especially guys like Patrice O'Neal, you remember when he did the the bit where he was talking about my happiness is paramount. It made me remember that and I had a whole live stream, you know, I was preparing a live stream and I was going to tie it into that my happiness is par paramount and where my happiness trickles down to the family dynamic. Of course, like um Dandre Woodfield said in this book, yeah, your responsibility, you know, your first responsibility, your first priority is your family, but you have to take care of yourself first to be able to take care of your family. So, I know his book back and forth. So that's why one of the main reasons why I was I was like damn. And but what's crazy is where the issue comes in is that he wrote that book about promoting growth, accountability, and structure from men, which is good. But then you publicly co-sign a narrative that labels straight black men as a cancer to the black community. And then after you watch my video, you specified by speaking on his behalf that he meant to say black males, but he didn't.

[00:22:22]And this and this isn't the first time that, you know, this creator that I'm talking about said the exact same thing because I did a video on it a while back where he was speaking with Tesla and Figareroa. You guys remember it? So what you know what he clarified and what he actually said was a was a contradiction.

[00:22:44]It was like Dandre Whitfield was helping him explain himself when he specifically said straight black men are a cancer to the black community. He said it maybe maybe twice if I remember correctly from that quick video. And I don't ignore contradiction especially when it comes from people who position themselves as leaders in the black community. And again, this is not my first time addressing black men in our community, you know what I'm saying, who consider themselves leaders. Dr. Umar, he considers himself a leader in the black community, whom I was a huge supporter of from his first Breakfast Club interviews. I remember I used to be on training days when I was in the military and I used to listen to his interviews backto back because he had some amazing knowledge about, you know, African-American history, black history, so on and so forth. And yes, I told you guys, I think I did a video on it. I actually donated to the FDMG uh academy a while back, maybe like I want to say almost 10 years ago. Crazy 10 years ago.

[00:23:51]But over the years, I've gotten to know more about what Dr. Umar is doing, how he blatantly lies about black men to appease black women in which, you know, they turn around and it makes them donate more to this school, right? So, to me personally, it was disappointing to hear that, but that also didn't stop me from protecting black men's ethnic image from him and people like him. So, between myself and DeAnd uh DeAndre Woodfield, none of this is personal, but protecting black men from false narratives will always be personal to me. And let me be clear, I understand what he was trying to do with the male versus man dynamic.

[00:24:38]I get it. I get the framework. But in today's social media environment, that language is weaponized. And I'm not sure if he is aware of that because when people say black males online, that's not neutral. That's an insult. You guys know that very well, right? That's an easy way to strip a man of his dignity because they don't like what he's saying. I was placed into the male category because of what I said in response in response to Dandre Whitfield's video. You see what I'm saying? And I've been consistent on this as well. I tell men, don't call women females because they find it disrespectful. And I also tell women, don't call black men males because we find it disrespectful. I know how that that language works in these spaces. So, every time I see somebody comment, females or males always play close attention to it because that goes both ways. But what I'm not going to do is sit back uh you know while a narrative spreads that paints black men as broadly defective and then watch influential voices agree with it. Yes, that's where I draw the line. So yeah, I highlighted him specifically not out of hate but out of disappointment because when you know better and you've written better, I expect better just like black men should expect better from me. And for the record, this isn't about him. There were other black male public figures agreeing with that same message from that content creator. I looked under his page. I looked under Dandre Whitfield's reaction videos and I saw him and I made a note of him because some of those black men, you've seen my content, you've liked my content, you've commented under my platform about my content. So, it seems as though there's some sort of disconnect. You think I may be over there when I'm actually over here with these black men. So, I took a note. I screenshotted every black man public figure that was agreeing with Dandre Whitfield's uh uh response and with that specific content creator. I took a note.

[00:26:50]So, if they ever try and reach out to me, I'mma just let them know. I believe in delineation. Okay? We're going to delineate over here. All all skin folk ain't kin folk. I'm a firm believer in that. I saw y'all. I saw you agreeing.

[00:27:05]Yeah, black men, we need to do better.

[00:27:07]Black men this, black men that. [ __ ] all y'all, man. I saw you. I saw it. I got it. Shit's embarrassing. And y'all and And y'all expect black women to follow black men that won't even speak up against somebody calling straight black men cancerous?

[00:27:28]What's wrong with I start now I'm starting to understand where this matriarch and uh what gyocracy rhetoric comes from in the black community because a lot of the people that have the mics that have the platforms you don't have a backbone. You got all these followers and you pick and choose what what truths you want to tell your audience. If you got damn near 500,000 followers, predominantly black women, what better way or what better time to present the actual facts about black men so they would learn. But y'all understand that you would get the same push back that I get. Trust me, it was so many black women under my comments on Facebook, YouTube, Instagram, I mean, calling me everything but a child of God. One girl, she said something. I think I had a picture of myself. She was like, "Man, uh, when I heard your video, uh, I went to your page to see if you was fat." And she sent me a DM for that. I was like, "What?" She's like, "Yeah, I wanted to see if you was fat because, uh, people who talk like talk bad about black women, they tend to be fat and overweight or something like that." I guess that was a dig. So, I guess I'm not fat, so I'm safe. I don't know. But yeah, it was a bunch of [ __ ] going on.

[00:28:49]You know what I'm saying? So, and I know the next thing that's going to happen is somebody sees my video, they're going to point to the comments like, "See how these black men are talking about that man or talking about this black man? Did you hear what I had to say? Did you hear me being respectful?" That's not hard for me to do. So, when you hear me say being respectful, that's something that I do on a day-to-day ba basis. You know what I'm saying? I'm a working mayor.

[00:29:15]I'm a working man. I work, you know what I'm saying? I've been working, you know, damn near for the past 25, 26 years. I have to be professional. So, that's not hard. All right?

[00:29:26]So, don't make it seem like, you know, oh, man, your content is a reflection, you know, of the comment section. No, man. Because I did screenshot all of those uh harsh and negative comments from black women just in case somebody tries to use that excuse because I'mma throw it right back on y'all asses. And yes, I seen the comments from black women under Dandre Whitfield's post as well. I seen the comments under that content creator's post as well. I seen them all. Okay. Screenshotted some just in case. So that's why I say I believe in delineation.

[00:30:00]I'm going to remove myself from black people who think it's cool to call straight black men cancerous. So that's why I did that video. I was actually disappointed.

[00:30:12]Just sad, man. black men, we just been so indoctrinated by just accepting anything. And it's it's it's embarrassing. I know people, not just people from other races, but I know the black women who mean well, they like, "Damn, man. When at one at some point, y'all got to say something." You know, not the ones that hate black men.

[00:30:36]I'm not worried about them. Y'all know the rule. The 10. I'm not I expect that from those types of women. I expect that from those types of men. I'm talking about the people who mean well and they're like, "Damn, man. If black men would just assert themselves and come together and be like, yo, this is not cool." And I didn't see the only people that have really said something about these comments are in our spaces where we don't have that much, you know, uh I guess we don't have that much reach. you know, we don't have a background of being actors and being rappers and being sports players and things like that.

[00:31:14]It's just like blind agree black men, we need to do better. And that's why I said I don't trust these black leaders to speak on the behalf of black men because they don't know black men. All they know is Ricky Lake, 1990s talking points, dead, broker in jail. That's what they think black men are. Nobody has ever took the time to look at any fatherhood statistics. Dr. Umar still running out there saying that black women earn more than black men. How you how you what you think that makes us look like to our female counterparts? If you're going to blatantly lie saying that black men are the only group of men that earn less than their female counterparts, they going to look at us as less than.

[00:32:01]And it's embarrassing, man. People don't see the ripple effects of what happens.

[00:32:06]And I know somebody was pushing back there. It's like, "Nah, man. You know, it's, you know, it ain't no reason for black women to think of us like that."

[00:32:13]It is, man. I promise you. If you if think about what I'm saying here, if all you've been told is that black men are all gay, they all in prison, they don't earn no money, they don't own anything, they spreading diseases, they having all these babies at a wedlock, you know what I'm saying?

[00:32:33]What what group of women would be like, "Damn, man. You know, we really need to respect these guys." None. So, in that right, I don't blame him for thinking that, but I do blame them for not seeking out the truth and not accepting accepting the truth when I put it out there. That's what's embarrassing.

[00:32:52]So, when I do these statistical readouts, I have to think from a hater's approach. what could they say and what questions would they have if I presented this information? And that's why sometimes the graphics that I put out, it may seem a little bit remedial.

[00:33:12]And you guys know, if you've been here for a while, I used to do like these drawn out statistical reviews where I use mathematical wording and people really wouldn't grasp it. So now I understood how certain people will accept these messages and then I'll present it. And I'll give you a perfect example for the the education one that I recently did. I I put it as did you know that black women and black men have the largest education degree gap? And that was like the title because when I say that the black women who hate black men, they're going to read it and they're going to be like, "See, I told you guys." But then when you read a little bit further, it's going to say, "Did you know that at about 70, what is it? 74 75 plus black men and black women don't have college degrees. Did you know that only 31% of black women over the age of 25 have bachelor's degrees or higher? Do you know that 24% of black men have a bachelor's degree or higher?" So that puts things into perspective because the black community is under the impression that damn near 60 to 80% of black women have college degrees and 10 to 20% of black men have have college degrees.

[00:34:28]Every time we have this conversation and it's embarrassing because all of this information is readily available for everyone but nobody, you know, wants to do it.

[00:34:39]Nobody wants to get on TV and stop and be like, "Hey man, we've been lying to the black community, especially we've been lying to black women because they think black men are just, you know, wallowing in sorrow. We put out these, oh, you know, women own more homes, black women take it and run with it, not even knowing the context behind that.

[00:35:01]And then I come in, do a whole video, and now I'm competing or I'm, you know, I'm trying to steal black women's joy because the black community is lying to y'all. Y'all want to know the truth?

[00:35:13]Obviously not. But yeah, so that's why I decided to do that video, man. It didn't have nothing to do with him. It was just the fact that I'm taking, you know, t I'm taking it upon myself to start targeting Yes. targeting, going on the offense to these so-called black men who are, you know, supposed to be leaders.

[00:35:33]Why aren't y'all speaking up? Speaking up and against certain people, you know, and you know what's funny that ties directly into this. I didn't even I'm not prepared, but I seen the discourse.

[00:35:47]Mona, when the hell did black women stop liking Dr. Bryant?

[00:35:56]Have y'all seen this discourse?

[00:35:59]Some a black woman posted screenshots where she filed a claim against Dr. Bryant to get her out the paint so she could show her receipts to see if she's a true doctor. Black women don't like Dr. Bryant anymore. Did y'all have y'all seen all this? There is literally all of the academics, the doctors, the educated black women doing whole think pieces. Shout out to Dr. Raquel Martin. She did an amazing breakdown of, you know, the difference between being a doctor and having a license and all of the, you know, the the hours that she had to go to to get her degree, you know, and all this type of stuff. Man, she had to literally break it down. And you know what? There is still black women giving this doctor push back in defense of Dr. Bryant.

[00:36:53]Well, Dr. Bryant until she prove otherwise. Right. So, yeah, I'm just confused because when Dr. Bryant got in these spaces, black women took took it upon themselves to crown her as woman of the year. And the reason for that is because she was holding she was holding the unaccountable accountable.

[00:37:16]Cam Newton and Nick Cannon. Black women took that as, "Yeah, she's holding black men accountable." No, no, no, no, no. Those brothers can't be held accountable because they got a string of women that they didn't already got pregnant. Okay. So, until y'all hold them accountable, how the hell you think we gonna hold them accountable? You think this is the last baby that Cam gonna have? No. You think this is the last kid? I just heard Nick Cannon say he looking for another one. I would have more kids with Mariah Carey.

[00:37:52]So who going to stop him? So y'all crown Dr. Bryant the you know the queen of women, queen of black women because she held the unaccountable accountable.

[00:38:01]Thought that black men would be ashamed.

[00:38:03]No, we was looking all at y'all like y'all crazy. Like what you think we what we going to do? And now y'all trying to get her out the paint because she recently said that women are the problem on the dating market now. So she trying to change a little bit, you know. So now y'all offended and now y'all done formed up like Voltron and trying to get her out the paint. And yes, I seen the talking points where people were saying it's just because of pretty privilege.

[00:38:30]I've mentioned that on certain videos of that I did about Dr. Bryant where I was saying yes, she gets those interviews in those in those spaces because most men find her attractive for her age, right?

[00:38:43]And then when you compare her to the other intellectuals, black women, you know, they're trying to use the colorism thing and they're like, "Yeah, that's the only reason why that she gets those interviews." Absolutely. How why the hell y'all think Dr. Brian said on a recent interview, uh, she was going back and forth on on, uh, reaching out to 50 Cent. Did y'all see that? Y'all hear that? She went back and forth. She was like, "Man, I don't want him to think that I'm being a fan.

[00:39:13]I want him to promote my book." So, and she was like, "You know what? I'm gonna just DM 50 Cent and be like, hey, I'm Dr. Bryant. This is my book. I would love to work with you or whatever." 50 Cent responded immediately.

[00:39:28]You think it's because he just believe in Dr. Brian's book? No. He was like, "Man, I think I find this this this little lightbrite attractive. Let me go ahead and reach out." Oh, yeah. Girl, you know you you saying what book? What is it? What is it called?

[00:39:44]What you think, man? Yes. Women use pretty privilege. It's not new. That's why you have other black women defending her while y'all trying to cancel her.

[00:39:55]And it's just funny to me because y'all created this monster.

[00:39:59]Y'all created Dr. Bryant. Y'all know that, right? She wouldn't have got all this fame if it wasn't because of y'all.

[00:40:06]So, pat yourselves on the back, sisters.

[00:40:10]Now y'all trying to get her ass out the paint because now she got too much motion. Shout out to the young dudes. I just learned that word. Motion. Yeah, she got too much motion. She got a book.

[00:40:22]She on all these platforms. She getting all these recogn recognition and now y'all trying to get her out the paint. I mean, you know, and I think she is dead wrong. If she's not a licensed doctor, she says she's not licensed anymore. I don't think she's ever had a license. I mean, I'm just assuming. But we've been saying that in these spaces for a while now, you know. So now this woman has put this case on Dr. Bryan. So now she has to prove that she has these degrees, right? So yeah, this I mean Dr. Bryan has always it's always been a question mark or somebody has always questioned if she had degrees or not. So this is not new. If you would have just listened to men, then you would have found this out. But now that y'all don't like her, now you gonna form up. You know what I'm saying? And try and get her up out the paint. And you know, I've seen the same thing going with uh Sarah Fontino. You remember her? She's around. So she's got married recently. quick marriage, but she just got married. And I remember I did a video on her. I was like, "Man, how the hell you think this young woman get an interview with Shaq, with Shaquille O'Neal?" When I seen that interview, she had like maybe less than 50,000 subscribers, but she had Shaq sitting on the on the couch talking to him. Why do you think Shaq took that interview? He probably looked and was like, "Hey, this young woman is attractive. Let me go ahead and, you know, let me see what's going on here. Not saying nothing happened, but pretty privilege does help. Okay? And I don't know why I'm I'm a grown ass man explaining that to women. Men know that money helps on the dating market. When you got duckets in your pocket, you going to get into certain rooms that you wouldn't have been able to get into if you didn't have that money, them shillings, them coins. But yes, if you are a pretty woman, you will get opportunities and advantages over the women who are less attractive. And both of those women have used it to their advantage. And you cannot blame them.

[00:42:24]Why wouldn't they? It advanced their careers. They're doing very well for themselves. Dr. Bryan a millionaire a couple times over probably. And it's all because of black women.

[00:42:37]So shout out to y'all. Let's see where this goes. Black men ain't got nothing to do with it. But all right, y'all thought we was going to get mad. She was talking crazy to Cam and Nick Cannon.

[00:42:48]Trust me, no dudes over here is like, "Hey, I want that family dynamic from them brothers." So, hold them brothers accountable. First of all, that dynamic that they have is very rare. It's literally only like I want to say seven.5% of black men who have four or more children. And ironically, I think it's about 9.5% of black women who have who have birthed four or more children. Crazy, right? But the narrative in the black community is that all these black men are Cam Newton and Nick Cannon are the dude in Tennessee are the dudes in Tennessee that had 87 kids. Six dudes, 87 kids with 37 women, I believe. 36 37 women.

[00:43:35]Yeah, that's rare. And y'all thought that [ __ ] was gonna hurt black men because she was telling them dudes to be accountable. We was looking at y'all like y'all crazy. None of that [ __ ] matters over here.

[00:43:48]We look at them dude crazy as well. Like what the hell?

[00:43:52]But yeah, it's just funny to see what's going on with the Dr. Bryant thing, man.

[00:43:56]I was like, "Oh, black women don't like uh Dr. Bryan."

[00:44:02]All right, let's see. 504 cuz you thank you for becoming a YouTube member. Greatly appreciate it, brother. And then he said, uh, a dollar bomb. Thank you, good brother. And then, uh, let's see, who is that? Uh, is that WMU engineer? All right. Is that uh, is that Western Michigan University engineer?

[00:44:26]You're doing the Lord's work. Thank you, brother. Appreciate that. And then we got Michael, what is that? New, what up, though? Thank you for becoming a YouTube member. And also, Danny Miz, I like that name. It's cold name. Thank you for becoming a YouTube member, bro. Thank you.

[00:44:44]That [ __ ] was hilarious. What? Yes. All was saying never trusted her, man. Dudes in these spaces was talking for a while now. I remember um Corey Hulcom uh went on a, you know, like a whole rant about Dr. Bryant and I think they went back and forth. I remember that. I remember, you know, I think they were on a show together a long time ago and he was, you know, making it his work to be like, "Hey, I think this this woman is lying."

[00:45:14]But now when black women form up, hey, they trying to get her out the paint.

[00:45:18]Man, that threads app is crazy. All you see is Dr. Bryant. I had to go down and and remove that [ __ ] because that's all it was. Just black women arguing back and forth. Some women was like, "Hey man, leave her alone. y'all just trying to tear another black woman down. And I'm like, you know, as an academic myself, I'm like, God dog, man, you can't have people giving therapy and therapist advice and she not even licensed. And for her to like say it don't even really matter. Like, are you crazy? That's that's it is wild work. My god, man.

[00:45:56]There's no every two years. If you guys know how public health is, we have to get our certification in public health.

[00:46:02]We have to renew it every two years. So when you are licensed and trained, you have to you have CEUs. You have to continuously train. You have to hone your skills damn near every day to stay in tune with what's going on in your, you know, your field of work. Y'all work. Y'all know y'all college. You can't just show up to, you know, a career and not continuously learn. You have to get certifications. You have to stay, you know, focused in what you're doing. You cannot just go out there. So, essentially what Dr. Brian is saying is like, man, I'm making so much money, you know, I could do this and not even have to worry about it. And like I said, I don't even know if she's ever been uh licensed. So, it is what it is, man.

[00:46:47]It's a We'll see. Yeah. Hey, Shrek, man. He said you you can get arrested for that.

[00:46:54]Just malpractice. Yeah. And I watched some of the videos and they found some old clips where she was uh she had, you know, saying that she was a a a you know, a licensed therapist and she actually said it a couple times. So, I'm not sure where this is going to go, but I think it's it's kind of too late because I think she has the minds of a lot of black women, you know, and that, you know, that's another point. It goes to show you how easy it is. And it's it's sad because when men say it, y'all don't listen. Now women are saying it and some of y'all still don't listen.

[00:47:29]It's easy. People target black women on social media to get y'all duckets. They do that for a reason because they know that y'all are heavily influenced. Yep.

[00:47:39]Y'all see what's going on with this uh Megan and Clay [ __ ] I don't even want to talk about this.

[00:47:46]It's so It's sad, man.

[00:47:50]Jesus.

[00:47:52]Real ish. What up though with the $5 bond said these same women who said you a red flag if you don't have kids before 35. I'm in the gym putting in work down 15 pounds this year. Salute medium man.

[00:48:04]Oh man. Absolutely man. Shout out to you man. 15 pounds down. Yeah W&B. What up th with the 499 bomb said Corey Ben put Bryant's feet to the fire about her credentials. She's got a degree from a now defunct school. I've seen I I've read that. I've read so many things. Some people say that she had a honorary doctorate degree. Some people say she got a doctorate but it's from a school that's no longer, you know, in service and then somebody was questioning her master's deg. I don't know, man. It's just it's so much, bro.

[00:48:39]It's just it's so much. And like I said, you be try you try and keep black women aware of these new people that are pandering and grifting towards y'all to get y'all to pay them money, you know.

[00:48:51]And like I said, this it's it's embarrassing. It just drives us further apart. This whole Megan and Clay thing has driven, you know, single folks apart. And man, I don't know why Kev on stage said this dumb [ __ ] He was saying that that should be a lititness test for dating. essentially telling black women if they are trying to date a black man because this [ __ ] only matters to black women, right? So, if you're dating a black man, you ask him, "Uh, how do you feel about the Meg and Clay situation?"

[00:49:20]And if he says, "Hey, man, I don't care.

[00:49:22]You know what I'm saying? I'm with Clay.

[00:49:23]I knew Clay. Uh, you know, before I knew Meg." Then they're like, "Okay, you got to leave that man alone." Like, y'all, are y'all crazy? How about this? How about the black men over here? If you go out on a date with a black woman, ask them questions about how they feel about black men. Do you think that all black men are dead beef fathers? How many black men in prison? And if it's more than a million, even though it's about 700 to 8 800,000 black men that are currently incarcerated, if it's more than a million, get rid of her. How do you feel about uh, you know, income in the black community?

[00:50:00]Do you think black men uh earn more money than black women? Do you think black women own more businesses than black women? And if they answer any of these questions wrong, get rid of it.

[00:50:11]How about that? Some [ __ ] that matters.

[00:50:13]Not this damn Meg Clay foolery. This is the dumbest [ __ ] ever. And he was serious on that damn podcast. Yeah, man.

[00:50:20]It's almost as important as asking who you voted for, man. And trust me, bro.

[00:50:25]Black women don't have any more room to be dismissing people that could be marriageable. Let's just say that much.

[00:50:34]You going to tell black women who have the lowest marriage rates, the highest divorce rates, that they have have to be more strict on the dating market when it's already tough for me to sell the fact of trying to get black women married. I'm pro marriage.

[00:50:53]But when we got all this push back and people telling them, hey, put this parameter on it, put this on it. It's crazy, man. And that's that goes back to not knowing the statistics. If you would have knew the statistics about black women's marriage rates, then you probably wouldn't have said that dumb [ __ ] 2018 and 2021, Bowling Green State University reported that black women are the only group that have a higher divorce rate than marriage rate. And you going to sit there and tell black women to put more parameters on their dating experience?

[00:51:27]Really, these people, man, it's it's just my god, bro. We We just don't learn. And I'm over here sitting there trying to be neutral and help and show the statistics like, "Hey, this is what you need to" And this dude, but again, he got more followers, so they gonna listen. Yeah, Kev. That's what I'm talking about, brother. Man, f you. God, dog.

[00:51:55]All right, let me see here. What we got? Oh, man.

[00:52:00]And this is actually more on a somber note. I got two cases that just recently happened. And some of this stuff may resonate with black men because I've definitely done videos on these before.

[00:52:12]this type of situation. And I am very serious with black men, especially young black men. I've went through experiences like this before in my own family. It didn't end up as grim as this situation, but we going to educate one more time on a a popular narrative that goes on in the black community every effing time. Have y'all seen this?

[00:52:43]Have y'all seen this floating around social media? This case? I'mma wait.

[00:52:46]I'mma let it let it sit up there for a little bit.

[00:53:03]Ola said uh no. HVAC man said yes. Okay, cool. So, y'all read I read the title.

[00:53:09]Their sister called them over to protect her from her abusive boyfriend and he killed both brothers.

[00:53:18]They shared the same birthday and died on the same day.

[00:53:23]Rest in peace to Giani and Jahim Pierre.

[00:53:28]This is just and you know and I'm I'm saddened by it.

[00:53:35]But this is a a normal thing that happens in the black community.

[00:53:41]Seriously, man. Y'all seen stories like this before. Let me read the whole uh report. Hold on.

[00:53:49]So, and this is from 6 South Florida published today or uh yeah, May 5th.

[00:53:57]says the suspect uh accused of fatally shooting his girlfriend's brothers in Liberty City was arrested on Saturday.

[00:54:05]Authorities said Antoine Carter, 31, was charged with first-degree uh deletion.

[00:54:12]During his court appearance on Monday, a judge denied Carter's bond. According to authorities, officers arrived at an apartment where they found two males suffering from gunshot wounds. An arrest report said one of the men, 23-year-old Jaheim Pierre, was pronounced dead, while 28 year old Giani Pierre, was taken to the hospital where he succumbed to his injuries. Back at the apartment, Carter was pacing back and forth and told officers, "I'm the one. I have the firearm." The report said officers then found a 9mm Glock uh firearm in his right pocket and he was detained. After Carter was placed in a cruiser, a woman came up to officers with her feet and clothes covered in blood and said her brothers were the ones who were shot.

[00:55:03]The report said during their investigation, the report said officers looked at surveillance video that showed Carter leaving the apartment, walking to his car, grabbing an unknown object, and putting it in his right pocket. He was then seen going back to the building, and banging on the door, yelling for someone to open it.

[00:55:24]When the door opened, Carter, let me stop right there.

[00:55:29]He was banging on the door for somebody to open it and he just went to his car.

[00:55:38]Remember that.

[00:55:43]Jesus Christ. When the door opened, Carter ran into the apartment, reached into his front right pock pocket, and several gunshots were heard, as well as the woman screaming and running out. The report said Carter was in seed and leaving the apartment. Officers interviewed the woman who told them she was Carter's girlfriend and that she was in the apartment with him when her brothers came over. The report said the woman said her brothers were protective because there had been moments of domestic violence between her and Carter. said at one point the report said Jaheim and Carter got into an argument that quickly turned physical between them and Giani and the woman left the apartment to ask the neighbor to call the police. When she returned to the apartment, Carter was gone and she locked the door. The woman then heard someone banging on the door, told the brothers not to open it. The report said Jaheim then opened the door and Carter started firing shots. Giani, the report said, was sitting on the the couch when he was shot and Jahim ran towards his sister for cover and was shot and collapsed on top of his sister.

[00:56:56]Carter then sat at the edge of the bed and said, "See what you made me?" Then the woman left the apartment, man.

[00:57:21]So, I did that video maybe three years ago about black men being attack dogs or being viewed as attack dogs, right? So, I'm not sure if this happened, but it seems like the sister called her brothers over to come handle this dude because he was beating on her. But the report also said that this is not the first time that this has happened.

[00:57:55]So, that tells you something, right? At some point, we have to be more vocal about the woman's position when she is in domestic violence situations.

[00:58:07]Yes. All the accountability in regards to the man swinging on a woman goes on him. Most men, including myself, don't have any problem discussing that aspect.

[00:58:19]However, in the black community, we have a different dynamic. Our women view black, a lot of our women view black men as expendable, as they're supposed to crash out over us, even though this [ __ ] has been happening over time. So essentially, I'm assuming, and this is all alleged, the brothers came over there, they swinging on, you know, old boy Carter. They probably got the best of him, beat his ass, and then he was like, "Hey, man. I can't take this loss.

[00:58:50]I'mma go ahead and go to the car. I'mma grab what I need to grab and I'mma come back and I'mma take care of it." And the crazy thing is, one of the brothers opened the door. That's pride, ego. I don't care what this brother got. You know what I'm saying? I open this door.

[00:59:06]what you going to do? Next thing you know, they gone. So, I say all that to say this, young black men. This ain't the [ __ ] movies. Okay, y'all see this? Y'all see this case?

[00:59:22]What's going on? This ain't the movies.

[00:59:24]This ain't the movies where the brother, the dad or the husband come over and they see the dude, your husband see the dude cheating with with his wife and he just put the, you know, beat the brakes off of him. This ain't the movies where the dad comes over or she called a dad, she called her brothers, they whoop a dude's ass and everything goes on like nothing happens. This ain't the [ __ ] movies. This ain't no fairy tale ending.

[00:59:52]Okay, these two dudes went over there to beat a man up with a guy who had a gun.

[01:00:00]You lost.

[01:00:02]And why aren't y'all calling the cops beforehand? That's what they there for.

[01:00:07]That's their job. Now, what we got? What we looking at now? Now we got two black men dead.

[01:00:15]We got one black man going to jail for life. I'm pretty sure maybe. I'm not sure what the laws is in Florida, but you went back to your car, got the weapon, and came back and ended those dudes lives. You gone, brother. Your your life is over. So now we got three black men gone. And one sister who probably made the call, the only one literally left to grieve for her two brothers. You see how that [ __ ] works?

[01:00:44]Do you see how the population stays stagnant because of [ __ ] like this?

[01:00:49]There's always a cause and effect to things, okay? And we get to see this [ __ ] play out in real time. I don't want any of this [ __ ] to happen to any of the black men, young black men in particular, in my chat right now. So, listen to listen to what I'm saying here, man. I've I've seen this play out so many times. I've gotten into situations from my sister who is a known hothead with situations like this. I'm lucky to be here. Okay.

[01:01:19]So, I'm telling y'all right now, this shit's got to stop. Black men, you are not expendable. And black women, stop.

[01:01:28]Stop calling your brothers. Stop calling your dad to try and come take care of some [ __ ] that you probably started and been involved with instead of calling the cops. Why the hell you going to call the cops after the fact? You called them first. This ain't the movies, man. Okay, I'm trying to stress this. is not going to always be a happy ending, bro.

[01:01:50]Damn. Like, I I get tired of seeing foolery like this and it just perpetuates this narrative that all these black men are doing this crazy stuff because I know how this situation going to go now. It's going to fuel the fire to the black community. You see what black men are doing? All black men do this when it's just this one guy. But we now we got three black men gone. So, how can we defend this? And you know what's crazy? While this was going on in my own backyard.

[01:02:22]Let me show you something.

[01:02:28]So, this is in River Oaks. Tra uh Traveler's Table is one of the hottest restaurants in Houston. This just happened.

[01:02:40]Let me read to y'all what what's going on here.

[01:02:43]So, the family identified in tragic River Oak's uh death investigation. A tragic and deeply unsettling incident continues to impact the Houston community after a family of four was found dead inside of their home on Kingston Street in the River Oaks area.

[01:02:59]According to the Houston Police Department, officers responded to a welfare check after a babysitter and a relative became concerned when they had not heard from the family since the previous evening.

[01:03:12]When officers made the entry into the home, they discovered all four individuals deceased. The family has now been identified as the Mitchell family, known as the owners of the Traveler's Table in Houston. Authorities say the victims include two adults and two young children. Investigators believe the incident incident occurred sometime between Sunday night and when officers arrived. At this time, the case is being investigated as a possible deletion suicide, though officials emphasize that the investigation remains ongoing. This is a heartbreaking loss has sent sent shock waves through the community because nothing really happens in River Oaks. Many across Houston are mourning alongside uh those who knew the family and were connected uh to them through their business and presence in the city.

[01:04:05]and then law enforcement officials have not provided additional details regarding a possible motive as uh and say more information will be released as it becomes available. So I want to just say you know alleged before you know I move forward but it's not only the black community white folks going through [ __ ] as well man. So that's why I kind of, you know, I'm looking at the black community when you see like a certain incident of black men doing something and now all black men got to have a town meeting. Nah, man. We just as shocked as y'all. Okay, just like this. I live in Houston. I live in this area and I see this happen. Wake up and I gota I got to find out about this going on. Who would have thought?

[01:04:50]It's crazy, man. It's a lot going on in this world. It's not just the black community that's going through things.

[01:04:55]And that doesn't mean we need to just simply overreact. We need to educate so we can do better the next time, especially with the two brothers. That's it's it's sickening, man. It's it's it's sad to see because it could have been prevented easily.

[01:05:12]So, rest in peace to those two brothers, man. And like I said, we got a black man gone for the rest of his life in jail.

[01:05:19]And the sister is still here to mourn.

[01:05:25]Damn.

[01:05:37]It's crazy, bro.

[01:05:49]Who's this? Uh, we got Jay Renard. What up though? Uh, member for 16 months, man. You've been here for a while, man.

[01:05:54]Thank you. Appreciate it, brother. And then we got CBP film. $10 bomb said, "What's crazy is that Dr. Bryant was fine when she was demonizing black men.

[01:06:04]Uh, she said one thing about black women, now all these therapists are now saying what black men was saying, and Kev on Stage is a fool." Yeah, man.

[01:06:11]That's what I'm saying, man. They was cool with her holding the unaccountable accountable.

[01:06:18]Uh CBP film member from 111 said this is why I tell men mind your own. Yeah man, it's it's just crazy. Hey Mr. Walker, what up though? Member for 26 months.

[01:06:28]Salute brother. Keep spreading the truth. I greatly appreciate man. Good to see you over here man. Thank you brother and erroneous. Father Albam say can't speak for all but there is a real stigma with us calling the cops as I'm sure you're aware of. I've never been a criminal, but I still feel uneasy, brother. No, they gonna do their job, man. I'm Hey, you know, I actually work out with some uh some cops here in Houston. Yeah, they gonna do their job. You know what I'm saying? I expect, you know, my car to be safe when I park it anywhere. They g they gonna work. So, we got to get out of that mindset. And I'm And absolutely, erroneously, I do understand what's going on. We've seen too many cases where we called the cops and next thing you know, you know, we we ain't here, you know. So, yeah. So, I definitely understand. They going to work.

[01:07:19]Let's see. Hey, what's going on, THP Network, man? $20 bomb said, "I seen a video from you today that was a flipping master masterpiece in content creation, storytelling, and straight statistical facts. I want to publicly thank you. Uh, keep grinding." Thank you, brother.

[01:07:36]Yeah. Um, Grover reached out to me and he said the same thing. And I I I I appreciate the support on videos like that because I know, you know, in these spaces we try and keep it entertaining and sometimes I do a piss poor job at that. You guys on your channel and I've said this to both of you, you do an amazing job of reporting videos, clipping them up, editing them in the perfect way to where it's entertaining and you also get the message. I I know that I lack in that that area. So, when I see somebody doing it the right way, I always give you guys props. So, you know, sometimes my videos can be somewhat mundane, but that comes from years of teaching. But I'm glad that you guys are liking those types of videos and it's starting to do or get a little bit more traction. So, thank you, brother. I appreciate the support to both of you, man. I wish y'all nothing but the best, man. Thank you. Thank you.

[01:08:28]Appreciate the support.

[01:08:30]Jay Renard Fabomb said heartbreaking, but she should have called her brothers to help her move out, not to be her de facto fist. Yeah. Uh protectors are meant to be a shield. Yeah, man. It's And I And you know what? Sometimes in these conversations, it's very tough for me to get involved because there's only a certain certain things I have to stay away from. I can't say due to my job.

[01:08:56]But I was thinking back to when I was in the military and I was uh you know conducting public health duties.

[01:09:04]Um one of our our our mottos was um let me see if I can remember this prevent disease, disability and premature death. So most of the time my education comes from prevention and in the black community sometimes that's not accepted very well because we are a very reactionary community. So when I if I was to try and give preventative measures like hey like I'm doing now black men hold on call the cops don't go over there you know what I'm saying thinking that this is going to be a movie. These types of discussions are preventative. But in the black community, sometimes when you say, "Hey, you know, black women, you have to be make sure that you protect these black men as well." That doesn't go over as well. You see what I'm saying? And it's it's sometimes it's very tough for me to give advice when our community is so, I guess, against preventing things instead of reacting. Sad, man. And I I notice that, you know, we got to work on that.

[01:10:14]Young Bo, what up though? $20 bomb says, "Solute media, man. Just wanted to show some support. Appreciate what you do.

[01:10:20]Greatly appreciate, man. Be safe out there, man. You know what it is."

[01:10:24]And then Ali Bodrick, what up though?

[01:10:26]Father Alban said, "What up, bro? I hate knowing this happened. We do better when we know better. Appreciate the content."

[01:10:32]Yeah, man. And that's all I'm trying to do. And thank you, brother. You know, just we got to do better, man. That's all I'm saying. It's just sad. I hate to see situations like that. It's It's not just the black community. A lot of people going through a lot of things. Like I've done a lot of research on the white community just because I had to respond to the white f the per capita warriors.

[01:10:55]Per capita. Per capita. Yeah. I'm like, bro, you know what I'm saying? Y'all got a history of doing some crazy [ __ ] And with that research, it's not just a black community that's going through things, man. And even white folks will tell y'all it's it happens damn near every month that some, you know, family has been offed by the the dad or something like that. But people tend to sweep that under the rug because the white population is so large. They're like, "Oh man, you know, but per capita," it's like, "Bro, but that family is still gone." So if you telling me per capita matters and I'm telling you that hey man y'all lead in you know in in in domestic violence and things like that. If I tell you you know dangerous crimes you know violent crimes 59% of the black or the white community leads in that you know it's so many people affected by sheer numbers raw numbers that matters. Okay. So just simply saying per capita and writing it off as if those families, you know, the tens, you know, tens of thousands of families that that have been affected by these violent crimes in the white community. That's crazy.

[01:12:08]It's our our our country, man. It's all bad, bro.

[01:12:16]Yeah. Uh real real is what up though? $5 bomb said, "I may get mad at black women for the misandry, but I acknowledge that some dudes be evil out here. I just try to move like my mom is still here. I pray for all." Yeah, man. And you know what? I'm glad that you brought that up because sometimes it's even hard to acknowledge certain things that this small percentage of black men are doing because we know better. We know how the black community likes to overinflate things. Just like we seen with Dandre Woodfield, he went on a rant saying, "Black men, we got to come together."

[01:12:53]Why now? Why not come together and talk about the positives?

[01:12:58]Do that first instead of waiting until something happens and now all black men are accountable. That's my problem with the black community. Why we only rally when it's something bad? Why haven't people got together and did a town hall meeting and be like, "Hey man, have y'all seen these black fatherhood statistics? Have y'all looked at, you know, black men, well, it's not true that black men are sexually reckless out here. Let's go ahead and promote that.

[01:13:24]Next time we have an award show, let's present that. We have some information to share. Look, look at what black men are doing. There's been a long-standing narrative that black men are deadbe fathers. Look at this. Why not? Why we wait until something bad happened?

[01:13:40]That that so many people on my channel and these are the best comments that I love reading, man. They'll say, "Man, you know, coming to your channel, I did not know all this about black men. I was led to believe that black men were just destitute, doing all bad, dusty." But when I come to your channel and I look at all of the, you know, statistics and the work that you do and I read it, I'm like, damn, man. I'm motivated. You know, you just motivated me so much, man. I feel proud. That's the type of messages that I love seeing because it's like, damn, I'm helping in some way to help motivate some folks feel better about themselves, especially black men, because for some odd reason, the black community has an issue, you know, pointing out all the positives that black men are doing. And that's why I like doing what I'm doing, man. And that's I don't understand why people say, "Man, media man, you know, they not going to listen." And I'm like, "Bro, they listening. Black men, they listening. I could care less about the three who are against." I tried to do that when I first got into these spaces.

[01:14:46]I tried to talk to them and try and, you know, get them to listen to reason, but they won't take it because they like how it feels to be on top.

[01:14:57]But black men, they they still enjoy the content. They enjoy the statistical breakdowns. So why should I stop if it's helping them?

[01:15:08]So yeah, man. That's all I'm saying.

[01:15:11]But yeah, it's sometimes I I really want to, you know, talk about certain things, but the black community just now it's all black men and it's it's embarrassing. Nobody puts things into context. They don't explain certain things. Um it was a video sent to me. Um what was it? God dang. It was just some of the most weirdest things are sent to me and I'm like, who thinks of this stuff? Oh, it was a the the black women pregnant black women deletion rates.

[01:15:48]Yeah, it was a video sent.

[01:15:51]Hold on, man.

[01:15:56]And I'm g show I'm just want to read this so I could help y'all understand how far this stuff goes to try and make black men all black men bad.

[01:16:09]Uh yeah, it was homicide and and black pregnancy.

[01:16:24]So there was a there's a black woman that was saying that um yeah, you know, black black women have the highest uh uh homicide while pregnant rates. something like that, right? And I was like, who thinks of this stuff? You know, it was attempt to demonize all black men. But when she said that, I was like, "Yeah, I'm pretty sure that may be true, but what's the context behind that, right?"

[01:16:54]And when I, you know, I looked it up and I was like, "Oh, okay. I understand."

[01:16:58]And this is not to uh diminish any of those deaths. That's hor that's horrible, right? But from what I learned, all all women lead in pregnancy. Um, well, it's the top when women are pregnant, the highest I want to get this right. It was just a weird conversation that I wasn't prepared to look up, but yeah, it's okay. Yeah, it says multiple large studies have found that homicide is one of the leading and often the leading cause of death during pregnancy in the postpartum period. Um, pregnancy or recent pregnant women are more likely to be deleted than to die from uh OB implications like uh hemorrhage and what is that?

[01:17:52]Oh uh preeclampsia and then um newer research shows uh deletion, suicide and drug overdose together are the top causes of pregnancy associated death.

[01:18:05]But so broadly speaking violence especially homicide is a major often the leading cause for death for pregnant women. And then it said specifically for black women, studies consistently show higher homicide rates or homicide rates are higher among black pregnant women than other groups. Research also finds homicide is more common among black pregnant/post postpartum women while overdose and suicide were more common among white women.

[01:18:37]And yes, homicide is the leing leading cause of death for pregnant black women.

[01:18:42]black women are pregnant. Okay. But when and yes, that is that is very tragic. I want to say that that much.

[01:18:51]But then when you put things into perspective, I was looking into the studies very easy to find based on CDC linked and peer-reviewed studies uh from Harvard and JAMAMA network. Uh 120 to 150 uh pregnant or postpartum women are deleted uh each year. And this is out of 3.6 to 3.8 million births annually. So did y'all hear what I just said? So yes, two things can be true at the same time. Black women lead in pregnant pregnancy deletions, right? So let's get that clear. That is tragic. That is unfortunate.

[01:19:34]But when you put things into context, 120 to 150 pregnant or postpartum women are are deleted by homicide each year.

[01:19:46]And that's at a 3.6 to 3.8 million births, okay? Or pregnant women, right?

[01:19:53]But as I stated, or as this stated, that's for all women. So, black women being disproportionately affected, they represent about 40 to 50% of that. So, roughly about 50 to 70 uh 70 pregnant postpartum black women are deleted each year. And that's a ballpark estimate.

[01:20:15]Okay? So, I'm explaining this for a reason.

[01:20:22]So the the lower the lowest estimate for all women you know out of the burst let's say 120 it will be 0.0033% and then on the high estimate 150 deletions it will be 0.0042%.

[01:20:39]And then if you go to um 3.8 million it would be 0.0039%.

[01:20:46]Okay. And then for black I think the black community I want to be clear here it would be around if you take so black women uh during a given year on the higher end they would have about 550,000 uh bursts total bursts in a year. Okay.

[01:21:15]So if they account let's say on the higher end 75% of those that would be 0.0136% and then using a higher number of births 600,000 that would be 0.0125%.

[01:21:34]Okay. So essentially 99.9% of pregnant black women aren't deleted by homicide. Okay. And by essentially by black men. Let's just say that much.

[01:21:54]Okay. But that 000.13% that's what that woman was targeting.

[01:22:01]She was like, "Yeah, black women need to be aware of all black men because black men are known to delete their pregnant spouses, pregnant girlfriends." You see what I'm saying here? So, that's how these narratives get spun to create fear narratives to black women. Okay? So, again, 99.9 something% of black men don't have anything to do with that. So when you have a town meeting or a call to action and you want all these black men who are responsible, let's say fictitiously to be in this room, it will be a small percentage of black men in that room, like 75 out of the millions and millions of black men out there. So that's why it's important in the black community to put things into context because this is how narratives get created. Now the narrative is like, "Oh yeah, black woman, you better be mindful. You have a baby with a black man, he may delete you." And like I said, two things can be true at the same time. It's unfortunate that this is happening. The 120 to 150, you know, deletions while pregnant.

[01:23:11]That's nothing to sneeze at. One is too many, but when you look at the the broader picture, this should not create a fear narrative or a call to action to black women to be like, "Hey, be mindful." Make sense? So that's why it's it's crazy, man. The the propaganda machine that some of these women, they bring up these talking points and they just leave it at that. And then people hear it and it's like, yeah, you know, black women get deleted while pregnant by black men all the time, like all the time. And that's when I come in. You know what I'm saying? So yeah, I Yeah, it's I don't know.

[01:23:48]It's crazy. I shouldn't have deleted all that stuff. If you guys don't know, after you on Instagram, man, when you have something go somewhat viral, it's all kinds of spam and foolery. And I accidentally deleted, but I I did uh look it up, so I had to go check it out.

[01:24:04]So, yeah.

[01:24:08]Sad, man.

[01:24:13]Let's see here.

[01:24:18]And miss some super chats.

[01:24:21]Uh, Ronald Barnes, what up though? $20 bomb said from a retired Army NCO to a brother Air Force NCO. I saw your earlier video and wholeheartly agree with you. Keep up the good work, man. I greatly appreciate it, brother. Thank you, man. Z, it's been a lot of uh, guys, man. Like, I seen the video. Like I said, I love seeing these type of content type of comments, man. Thank you for the super chat. I appreciate this.

[01:24:45]Was just off the blue, man. I was like, man, let me go ahead and talk. But I definitely appreciate it.

[01:24:50]Uh let's see from Prince to King Cole name super chat said unfortunately as a community we haven't learned uh to be proactive and we aren't a riskbenefit aware yeah and that's the I talk about risk management all the time over here man sometimes in a dating sense but yeah in life yeah we got to do better at that and I'm glad you noticed that as well thank you for the super chat divine photos what up though 499 super chat said there are accomplishments black people have achieved but Social media has always focused on what we can't do instead of what we can do as a whole.

[01:25:25]And actually, divine photos, that's actually a good litness test uh when you're having a conversation with the black person. If they can, you know, give you information on all the negatives about the black community, ask them about the positives as well and see what they say. Because most black people, they don't go that far. They stop at, yeah, this is what the black community is doing. No solutions, no nothing. And I had to pose, man, because there's a lot of people like, "Man, so what are the solutions?" If y'all would watch to the end of my videos, I always end it with solutions. Every time drawn out, statistically based, we talk about schooling, economics, 203, the economic crisis that's projected for the black community. I put out solutions. Man, you know how many dings I got from people saying, "Man, I just got life insurance." when I mentioned that one of the best ways that we can support the black community is get life insurance and and now it's people going out there getting life insurance because of the videos and solutions that I put out there. I'm like, man, it's always solutions in every video, even in the dating reviews. And they said, dudes get pissed off. Why you trying to give them advice, media man? I'm like, man, I just can't sit up here and cook this woman.

[01:26:43]That's not how I'm I'm wired to do.

[01:26:45]Like, I if she watched the video, she But what am I supposed to do? Like, yeah, I gotta tell him something. So, yeah, I'm always giving solutions, man.

[01:26:57]Let's see here. Uh Mike of M. Oh, Leon, what up though? $5 bomb said, "Bro, I've been burning my brain cells and become a smooth brain primarily. The prefrontal cortex, my IQ dropped 40% talking to people on TikTok, man." Bro, yeah, it's You can't engage, bro. It's it's it's it's crazy over there, man. I get it.

[01:27:21]Sometimes you just like, man, I gotta say something. It's just like, "Oh, Lord." Trust me, I know the feeling.

[01:27:27]Will what up though with the 999 bombs and media man back at it with the live man. I appreciate the support as always brother. Good on you. Hope everything is well. Thank you brother.

[01:27:38]And we got uh the back of the classroom.

[01:27:41]Cold name. $20 bomb. Uh thank you for speaking up for black men. Absolutely.

[01:27:46]And that's what I'm here for. Appreciate the support man. I like that name.

[01:27:50]Remind me um I don't know if y'all remember an old movie I may be dating myself. summer school with Mr. Shupe. Uh wasn't it Don Johnson? Was he the the the teacher? Somebody. But yeah, it used to be one of my favorite uh movies.

[01:28:04]Summer school where they did the um it's like Halloween or something like that.

[01:28:09]This [ __ ] was nasty. But yeah, why did I remember that from back of the classroom? It's one of my favorite moves. Uh Rad Talk 499 Bonsa just checking in. Keep up the good fight against the false framing and smear campaigns. Absolutely, man. Appreciate the support, bro. Good to see you.

[01:28:27]All right, man. Let me go and let y'all get out of here because I know we got some games going on. Lakers, boy, we got a tough road. We got the goddamn Thunder. They didn't beat the [ __ ] out of this uh four times this year.

[01:28:40]Hopefully, man, it's a new day. I'mma pray on it. Hopefully, the Lakers do well. Um you know what I'm saying? I expect nothing but the best from my team, but we gonna see how it go. And then we got another game. Who's playing?

[01:28:53]Is it uh Cleveland and who was Oh, uh Detroit. Man, there's been some crazy basketball games. When I had time to check and see what's going on, I did peek in. But yes, you know, I got a lot of uh serious stuff going on over here, man. So, you know, like I said, uh I'll be praying for all y'all while I'm off, man. I'm praying for myself to make sure everything is good. Um but yeah, I'm going definitely keep putting out content as much as I can. and I got some help with uh you know putting out the content, but greatly appreciate it, man.

[01:29:24]So, thank you.

[01:29:26]Let me see here. All right, we got everything cool. Let's get out of here, man. But thank you guys. Hopefully that cleared up some things and thank you for supporting the content. To all of the new subscribers and new people who saw my content, hopefully you enjoy it and I'm trying to get better uh as the days go by. Okay. So, I'm going be on the lookout and be on, you know, be ready for some more content in the recent future. Every every day at 9:00 a.m. I'm keeping that up. I'm trying to keep that up. All right. So, God bless, man. Uh, take care. Be easy. And, uh, I'll leave you with that cover from Leon. All right. So, thank y'all, man. God bless.

[01:30:06]Medium man out. Thank y'all again.

[01:30:08]Peace. Thank you to the super chats, moderators, all y'all members, everybody. Well, let's see. Uh, Ron C5 said the butcher coming thunder up. Yeah, but we got a tough I'm gonna try and u Yeah, I'm gonna try I'll see what I can do with this game. I'm gonna catch one of them. I promise you. So, I appreciate the support, y'all. God bless.

[01:30:47]Oh, days in the sun and night in the valley.

[01:31:08]Yeah, the song is over.

[01:31:13]Simple play.

[01:31:19]Yeah, I had me some fun. It helps with the pain.

[01:31:31]Girl, I already told you I don't feel the same.

[01:31:41]I don't feel the same.

[01:31:46]Anywhere I go, I can help but show I don't feel the same.

[01:31:58]Anywhere I go, I can show