Cultural Differences

Añadido: 2026-05-19

[00:00:00]I don't remember when this happened, bro, but last week >> we was talking about being ashy, bro. I know. I think it was me with my ankles.

[00:00:07]It >> was like that.

[00:00:08]>> Last week or was that two weeks?

[00:00:09]>> It was last cuz I scratched my [ __ ] and it would left like a chalkboard.

[00:00:12]>> Yeah. And y'all said like tire tracks or something like that.

[00:00:15]>> Something like that, bro.

[00:00:16]>> Burnouts or whatever.

[00:00:18]>> And you were surprised.

[00:00:19]>> Hold on, bro. Hold on.

[00:00:21]>> I'm I'm painting the picture. I'm painting the [ __ ] picture, bro.

[00:00:26]>> Okay. Fair, fair, fair, fair, fair. So then you pulled up your [ __ ] bro. And you tried to make a tire scratch.

[00:00:31]>> Yeah.

[00:00:32]>> Nothing happened, bro.

[00:00:33]>> Yeah. No.

[00:00:35]>> So, so I know I know that something way heavier in your mind, bro. You want to You want to talk about it?

[00:00:41]>> It I I just feel like I just feel like with with the body that God has provided me with. Absolutely. and the friends that God have provided me with, >> y'all are able to put me on to some [ __ ] that I just haven't even experienced or known my whole life, >> including being ashy.

[00:01:00]>> If that falls under the category yet, >> so we can have an open open honest discussion right now about just some cultural differences.

[00:01:07]>> I would love that. Put me on.

[00:01:08]>> Okay, so Joe, so you so what happens when you get like exposed like to cold air and your skin gets dry and you scratch? So you don't get like like a line of like like ash.

[00:01:23]>> No. If anything, it's like it like I feel like I like the only thing I can think of is like my lips [ __ ] like wants to crack.

[00:01:33]>> Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay.

[00:01:35]>> Almost like a reptilian. Uh anyway anyway. So >> this is not like this is not like we're not learning here, bro.

[00:01:44]>> Sorry. Sorry. I'm just [ __ ] around.

[00:01:46]Okay. Okay. Okay. So, um, so being ashy, bro, is something that plagues all melanated people. Um, we have to put lotion on. Wait a minute. So, you don't use lotion, bro?

[00:01:59]>> I I use lotion when I hop out the shower.

[00:02:01]>> Okay.

[00:02:02]>> But, but if you don't it like >> Not even every day? Yeah. Not even every day.

[00:02:07]>> Okay. So, it's not a big deal if you don't.

[00:02:09]>> M. Damn.

[00:02:10]>> Okay. So, so I know like like you you dated melanated people, bro. So like like like you've never been I don't even know how to really dive into this, bro. Cuz I'm trying to figure out like like are you requesting more cultural info or are you just wanting to understand ashiness?

[00:02:29]>> More c cultural info >> or dive into anything.

[00:02:33]>> Then you know what we should do is give him a list of words and see if he knows what they mean.

[00:02:38]>> Oh yeah, let's do this.

[00:02:39]>> Okay, let me think of one that you might not know. Do you know what a switch is?

[00:02:42]>> A switch? Yeah.

[00:02:43]>> Yeah. Nintendo system.

[00:02:46]>> Okay.

[00:02:48]Okay.

[00:02:49]>> Oh my gosh.

[00:02:51]>> Oh my gosh.

[00:02:53]>> Okay. Any other definitions? There's two that I'm thinking of that I'd accept.

[00:02:57]>> One that you put on a gun to make it fully auto.

[00:03:00]>> Okay. Okay. Okay. DBD.

[00:03:04]How about the other one?

[00:03:05]>> What's the What about the other one?

[00:03:06]>> Childhood.

[00:03:07]>> Any childhood >> discipline.

[00:03:10]That doesn't ring a bell. A switch.

[00:03:12]Yeah. No. Flip the switch. I don't know.

[00:03:16]>> One one more guess, bro. Come on.

[00:03:19]>> We're talking about childhood discipline, bro.

[00:03:22]>> I even give you an example.

[00:03:25]>> Use it in a sentence.

[00:03:26]>> Go get me a switch.

[00:03:28]>> Mhm.

[00:03:28]>> And you're terrified.

[00:03:30]>> Mhm. Go get me a switch.

[00:03:32]>> Go get me a switch. And you're terrified, bro.

[00:03:34]>> I'm out the front door. I don't even know, bro. I'm running down the street.

[00:03:38]That's making it worse, >> right? You getting a bigger switch because of that, bro.

[00:03:42]>> Is that like the belt?

[00:03:44]>> Okay. Warmer. Warmer.

[00:03:47]>> Go get the switch.

[00:03:50]>> Bro, hell no.

[00:03:53]>> You got to go. You got to Usually you got to go outside and bring a switch back in.

[00:03:58]>> Mhm.

[00:03:59]>> Come on, Joe.

[00:04:00]>> The trash can.

[00:04:02]>> You got big old trash can.

[00:04:03]>> I don't know what's outside that you bring inside. If it was a trash can, what how would you be disciplined with it?

[00:04:11]>> Like you got to jump in and like spend some time.

[00:04:13]>> Yeah, I guess. I don't know.

[00:04:14]>> Like time out >> bait. I don't know.

[00:04:18]>> Okay, I'll answer that. I'll come back to that question. What's the most severe punishment you had as a kid, bro?

[00:04:24]>> Damn.

[00:04:26]I don't know. There was a couple.

[00:04:28]>> Okay. One was um I called my sister a name and my mom was like if you call her that again like I'mma wash your mouth out with soap and I was like that don't even sound that bad.

[00:04:41]>> Okay.

[00:04:41]>> And then like my sister came in my room and I said it again and then my mom was like all right. And then she like grabs me, bro, like back of the neck. Grabs me and puts me in the bathroom >> and had the soap pump and was like, "Pause."

[00:04:59]>> Oh my god.

[00:05:00]>> Yeah. And then just [ __ ] started brushing my [ __ ] teeth, bro. Just bubbles, bro. Bubbles for like ever.

[00:05:07]>> Let's go, Tracy. Let's go. What?

[00:05:10]>> Yeah. Yeah, I guess. But like that and then like >> dang.

[00:05:18]>> Yeah. I think that's like >> that's like that's the worst memory you have.

[00:05:22]>> Yeah. Or getting spanked hard as [ __ ] >> I feel like you just added that in to like try and make it sound like >> No, bro. I just I just like I don't know.

[00:05:33]>> Why would you not say that first, bro?

[00:05:34]>> I didn't say it first because this generation thinks that spanking is wrong.

[00:05:39]>> Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. And >> how do you feel about it?

[00:05:43]>> The receiving ends, you know?

[00:05:45]>> I don't know because like I feel like everyone's like you shouldn't lay hands on your kids. But it's like >> I don't know, bro.

[00:05:53]>> I don't know. It's like a weird thing, bro. Like what do you do if your kids disrespecting you? You ground them and take away the internet, >> right, bro?

[00:06:01]>> Yeah. It's It's crazy. It It is crazy cuz for me, right, I remember waking up randomly because I we used to get our ass beat. But like I look at my childhood. I'm like I'm like hell yeah.

[00:06:14]But listen, I get >> I [ __ ] up in my days like >> But listen, I remember I woke up. It was like 500 a.m., right? My mom's yelling and she's just telling me and my brother, get our ass downstairs. And we're confused, right? You know when you wake up, everything's like echoing cuz you just like, >> right? So I go downstairs.

[00:06:35]>> She lines us up on the wall. She like, "Put down y'all pants." She makes us poo down. She start beating our ass our ass with switches, bro. Well, oh [ __ ] You don't even know.

[00:06:44]>> What is a switch, >> bro? He gave you so many contacts.

[00:06:47]>> A belt, a shoe.

[00:06:49]>> You got to go outside and bring >> a piece of wood.

[00:06:52]>> Okay, keep going.

[00:06:53]>> A stick.

[00:06:54]>> Getting so warm, bro.

[00:06:58]>> You're You're in You're You're like right there, bro.

[00:07:01]>> A [ __ ] a branch, bro.

[00:07:03]>> Yeah, >> a branch, bro.

[00:07:04]>> And you got to pick.

[00:07:05]>> Oh, yeah. That's what I was imagining when I said stick, but like bigger than that.

[00:07:08]>> The thing that's worse is you have to go pick it yourself.

[00:07:10]>> Yeah, you got to go find one, bro.

[00:07:11]>> And what happens if you pick like a a soft one? Because like I remember one time I got spanked and I like I like dodged it and then I got like 10 more from dodging.

[00:07:20]>> Yeah. You know?

[00:07:21]>> Yeah.

[00:07:22]>> How dare you dodge it, bro?

[00:07:24]>> Bro, like >> you got to you got TO JUST BE LIKE >> YEAH. YOU GOT TO like >> be like I'M SORRY, >> RIGHT? You got to like play it up >> over. Wait, so like what happens if you got like a a smaller switch, which would would they be like, "Nah, this isn't good enough." Or they would make you get another one or >> they would just sit until it breaks. If if they if they like >> if they did if if you The thing is you have to react to it cuz if you don't cuz I remember when I when I got older and I remember uh I was in I was you know mid- teens. I remember it was the last time she hit me and in the in the middle of it I'm yelling but I'm in my mind I'm like hold on this [ __ ] don't hurt anymore.

[00:08:05]>> Yeah.

[00:08:06]>> So I'm like I realize but then instantly I'm like if I don't if I don't act she's going to beat my ass. So I you know I started acting.

[00:08:12]>> Yeah.

[00:08:13]>> So you got doing short films >> bro. I never I never got whooped with a switch though.

[00:08:19]>> And I never got whooped with a switch bro. I got whooped with a belt >> and I and I like like you know popped a couple times but it was never a switch.

[00:08:26]A switch is like That's some [ __ ] that need to be can like like leave that [ __ ] where it was, bro. But whoop like whoopings, bro. I don't know. Like I I don't want to have to whoop my kids. I feel like >> that's what I'm saying.

[00:08:38]>> I feel like there's a way to raise a kid to be like >> to understand consequence because I feel like nowadays like we have like healthier like communication styles. Not saying our parents didn't, but like I don't think they really knew how to like instill fear like dude if you [ __ ] up like you're done. You know what I mean?

[00:08:55]And like I feel like we can communicate that better.

[00:08:58]>> Yeah.

[00:08:58]>> Yeah. No, 100%.

[00:09:03]>> Sleep up. I can see the dream over the tea up. I'mma hit the green on release up and in the seat real easy. And the whole team dropping heat to speak easy.