Men Deserve To Be Lonely! | Shoe0nHead Responds To Backlash Over ‘The Male Loneliness Epidemic’

[00:00:00]One, two, three. Hi basement dwellers.

[00:00:03]Welcome back to the channel. Today we are watching some more Shoe on Head, Head on Foot, whatever you prefer. Today we are responding to the backlash over the male loneliness epidemic. But yeah, if you haven't already, if you'd like to like, comment, subscribe, let me know what you want to see next, and let's crash out together. I have my squishy, and I hope the squishy makes it through this cuz if not, I'm out of squishies.

[00:00:25]Don't break my squishy. If you guys are unaware, my last video was the one I've been working on for a while called the male loneliness episode. We just watched this one, please go watch it first before you watch this one. So, this all makes a lot more sense and then come back to this one. Link in [music] the description.

[00:00:42]Now, although there was a lot of support for this video, there was also a lot of hate. A lot of hate. In fact, the most hate that I've probably ever received on a video ever. And if you're familiar with the content I make on this channel, that should be shocking. From angry fem cells calling me ugly to >> wait, did she actually receive a lot of hate on the video? There's no way. No.

[00:01:05]How? I'm starting to think females might genuinely hate me.

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[00:02:33]>> I think most like most men only buy like what, a wallet every 10 years, maybe 15.

[00:02:39]Like if you get a genuinely good wallet, you don't need another one. So like how are they in business making wallets? I understand females cuz like you know we have to constantly buy like purses and stuff cuz I have a mini backpack. It's my so-called purse. But >> you didn't skip the ad, right? I can always really count on you for not skipping THE AD VIDEO.

[00:03:02]>> That [ __ ] purpose. And a man will crawl through a broken glass for a purpose.

[00:03:09]There's a lot of truth to what she's saying there and and in the whole video which is worth watching. That video has uh 1.5 million views in just the last week.

[00:03:17]>> Thanks Matt Walsh. You're my greatest ally. My M [laughter] video was the fastest growing video on my channel to date and there is a reason for that. It resonated with a lot of people. I got hundreds and hundreds of comments every single day by men venting in my comment section. feeling >> this this a lot of you guys did vent and I literally tried to comment as much as I could on that video cuz I know I posted it yesterday. I tried to comment as much as possible cuz I'm like oh my god this is insane. The things you go through are insane and the fact like I think even someone commented on where can I get to the bootstrap store and I'm like brother all they're all going to offer you is some duct tape and tell you to get over it. And it's just like what is what is wrong with this? It's like so many people are actually venting and like trying to get understood and we just shunned them to a corner.

[00:04:09]>> Like for once they were being heard and that they were in a place where they could talk. It was simultaneously the most heartwarming and heartbreaking thing I've ever seen. And this discussion blew up so much that it eventually reached >> Tik Tok. Apparently there's a male loneliness epidemic.

[00:04:29]>> Oh, not Tik Tok.

[00:04:32]Well, I'm just going to say it now. If you get anything from Tik Tok, I swear to God, you need to go touch grass. Tik Tok just the one of the worst platforms ever. Ever. Like, please go outside and touch some grass cuz I'm probably going to crash out on you if you are going to make me crash out on the female gender.

[00:04:51]My one and only warning.

[00:04:52]>> This is the consequences of your own actions.

[00:04:55]>> It's not the consequences of their own actions. It's the consequences of females being absolutely fluke balls cuz you know they have these really unrealistic high standards and that you know it's the men's fault. It's always the man's fault but it's never the female's fault. There's no double standard here. Don't get me wrong.

[00:05:12]There's no double standard. It's always the men's fault. Never. Never the females.

[00:05:16]>> Men get recognized for the useless things that they are in society. And what do >> I'd like to see you try to do something without a man. Can you repair your car?

[00:05:25]You do realize like men are stronger than most females. Females are biologically weaker in the upper body than men. Just a fact, you know, like I'd [clears throat] like to see you try to make it through life without a man needing to fix something in your house.

[00:05:40]Fix your car. Yeah, you can't go to mechanic. No mechanic for you. Sorry. No mechanics. Uh they can't fix your house.

[00:05:46]Oh, if a man built your house, you can't have that either.

[00:05:48]>> Men do.

[00:05:49]>> Oh my god, I'm lonely.

[00:05:52]>> Is there a male loneliness epidemic right now? Or are more and more women just progressively realizing that there's a lot better things to do in life than be stuck with a toxic insecure man?

[00:06:01]>> I don't think >> it's not that men are toxic insecure.

[00:06:05]It's that females are constantly battering them and tell them to pull their bootstraps up. Like where's our common decency? Where's our empathy for men who are suffering through depression? Oh, dear God.

[00:06:15]>> We're in the middle of a male loneliness epidemic. We're in the middle of a mass female awakening. YOU'RE JUST [laughter] >> I'VE never heard that before. Mass female awakening. Where's your nose piercing? Where is it? Did you have one?

[00:06:31]I don't think you did.

[00:06:33]>> Previous epidemic.

[00:06:34]>> No, you didn't. I don't even need to say anything. The delusion is there. We fought for equality. I get that. But why do you need to make men unhappy to make yourself happy? I feel like you're compensating.

[00:06:44]>> We're in the middle of a mass female awakening. You're just reaping the CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR >> WHAT CONSEQUENCES? What did they do? Why are we stereotyping men? Yeah, there's a couple awful men out there. I'm sorry.

[00:06:58]It's going to happen. But there's awful females out there, too. We just don't post about it because of the double standard. What about the chick we reacted to like a couple weeks ago showing up to the man's house who lived an hour away because he wasn't stalking her? Just because men exist, they're a problem and that they're they need to suffer the consequences cuz other men are dumb. Oh, I'm fine.

[00:07:17]>> of your terrible upbringing, your own actions.

[00:07:19]>> Some men are lonely because y'all are [ __ ] creeps.

[00:07:22]>> Y'all deserve to be. [laughter] >> If if we went by the women's logic of men being creeps, everyone would be a creep. But you know what? When I look at a female and say they're hot, it's not creepy cuz we're female. I don't get the double standard, man. Like, I can look at a female and stare at her ass, but a man can't. She's hot, but it's creepy.

[00:07:40]My bad. You know what? actually having a conversation with a female as a man, like you go up to them in the gym to help them with something, you get called a creep. I've seen it many times on TikTok. I've seen men get blasted for wanting to help a woman improve in the gym, thinking, "Oh, they're flirting with me. Oh, they're being creepy."

[00:07:55]Sorry, men in my chat. You can't look in the female's direction anymore. You're a creep.

[00:08:01]No more looking at them. Sorry. You got to wear blindfold. You got to walk around with a blindfold. You can't make eye contact. You got to stare at your own two feet.

[00:08:08]>> Be lonely. Every single one of them.

[00:08:09]This is their fault. [ __ ] them. Men's >> ma'am, I'm pretty sure I heard children in your background. Can't have children without a man. Just saying.

[00:08:17]>> Loneliness epidemic that's going on. Um, that sounds like it really sucked. Just wondering if they've considered uh smiling more.

[00:08:26]>> I'm [clears throat] This video is going to get too long if I crash out on [laughter] every single >> joke. I've never heard that before.

[00:08:32]>> Have the men just tried smiling a little bit more?

[00:08:34]>> You know, I'd recommend >> smiling. Smiling a little bit more. What do you mean smiling a little bit more?

[00:08:41]Have they tried smiling more?

[00:08:42]>> Have you thought about smiling more?

[00:08:45]>> Brother, you do realize most females have a resting bee face? Most females look more unapproachable than man. I am more comfortable walking up to a man and asking for help than a female because most females will tell me to go f myself.

[00:09:00]Like a smiling didn't help these ladies.

[00:09:03]How in the hell would it WORK FOR MEN?

[00:09:04]EXACTLY. WHY ARE YOU GIVING ADVICE? Who gave them a like? Why do they think they can go on the TikTok and just post that this is fine? Just smile more, men.

[00:09:14]That's your only issue. That was your downfall. Not smiling enough. What do I know? You should have smiled more. I don't know what to tell you.

[00:09:21]>> Maybe they should smile more.

[00:09:23]>> Maybe they >> I swear to God if they all say smile more.

[00:09:26]>> Try to smile more.

[00:09:27]>> Have they tried smiling more?

[00:09:28]>> That's awful.

[00:09:32]She [laughter] chewed on her FORK WHEN SHE ATE.

[00:09:35]>> HAVE THEY tried smiling? Can you like not eat and talk at the same time? Like, can you close your trap? Damn it, I swore.

[00:09:44]>> Is this why people think women aren't funny?

[00:09:47]>> Now, Tik Tok isn't a place where this insanity happened. The thumbnail of my video went viral on Twitter, which led to some of the most funniest and unhinged reactions. I'm going to go through some of these and I want to see these.

[00:10:01]>> I saw some of the angry comments I got from the manosphere.

[00:10:05]>> The manosphere. Oh dear. God, I need a white male circle.

[00:10:08]>> This is not real and not valid. Men are lonely because they are terrible people.

[00:10:12]>> Frank, I see you have a child in your profile picture. Uh, you must have a wife. I must dare say you probably don't care about other men cuz you're stereotyping because you aren't lonely.

[00:10:22]>> Why the should anyone have empathy for >> Cuz we're all human beings. We all have feelings. We can be depressed. And have you checked the the rates recently for men? Just I >> men were born bad. MEN ARE SUBHUMAN.

[00:10:36]>> BORN [screaming] BAD. BORN BAD.

[00:10:39][laughter] >> And their loneliness can't be cured because they can't relate TO ACTUAL HUMAN BEINGS. [laughter] BORN USELESS. They're meant to die alone.

[00:10:52]Oh no. [laughter] Oh no. No. [gasps] [laughter] I'm going to lose it. [laughter] I'm going to lose it. I hate Twitter. I hate Twitter so [laughter] much. Oh.

[00:11:13]Oh god. I hate Twitter. I hate it. I hate it. Dear God, I literally paused on this. I literally I'm going to I'm going to pull out my cop. You're right.

[00:11:21]>> Ah, male suicide rate needs to be higher. Actually, these men are 100%.

[00:11:26][snorts] IT'S HIGH [screaming] ENOUGH. IT'S LITERALLY HIGH ENOUGH. THE suic It's literally too high. Any rate is too high. Anything above 0% is too high. Why have we lost empathy for human beings?

[00:11:41]They're literally humans. Humans with feelings.

[00:11:46]>> The most misogynistic demons on the planet and deserve every bit of loneliness they feel. Lol.

[00:11:51]>> You don't understand the pleasure it gives me to see these men crying and depressed. Imagine losing in the world that is literally built for you.

[00:12:00][sighs and yawns] I'm going to sip my coffee.

[00:12:05]>> Question to ask considering how society continues to fail women and girls at every turn.

[00:12:10]>> Huh? Fail women. Fail. Fail. You do realize we have the most rights right now that we've ever had. Literally, we have the most rights. We have the most equality we've ever had. Yet, we're failing women. But we can't fail men.

[00:12:26]You do realize their rates are higher than ours, right? They are more depressed and lonely than we are currently. What do you mean we're failing women? We're failing as a society because we decided to pit each other against each other. If the other gender is more happier than us, then it's a problem.

[00:12:42]>> Crazy how men's well-being is considered a communal responsibility, but women's well-being isn't even considered.

[00:12:49]>> It is considered. You do realize we all have our own months. You do realize females are uh more considered than men, right? Just just >> Oh, how delightful. A tweet from Earth 2. I'm so tired of the idea that we must have infinite empathy for men's loneliness while women are. It's not just loneliness. They're actually depressed. You do realize men are also sexualized from birth. You do realize females sexualize men a lot as well, right? You do realize females are doing the exact same thing you're posting in here. We just don't hear about it as much cuz the double standard.

[00:13:22]>> Sexualized from [ __ ] birth. We are assaulted, harassed, ripped, and killed for something we didn't choose to be.

[00:13:28]But boohoo, the poor men and their inability to make friends.

[00:13:31]>> I'd rather be friends with a man than a female. I'll be honest with you, I'm saying it right now. I'd rather be friends with a man than a female. I've had more issues with female friends than I've ever had with a male ever. A male actually respects my boundaries and actually understands. Whereas a female can be two-faced constantly. And if you step literally on their toe just a little bit, >> you know, we can talk about multiple things at the same time, right? It's strange to say that society doesn't care about women's sexual. We have domestic violence shelters that we can go to. Men don't. Men beinged by women. Men being raped is all played off as a joke. WHEN A LITTLE GUY ised by an older woman, it's seen as cool and hot. Society is >> this all around. It's not a competition.

[00:14:19]It is not. This literally I JUST I KNOW I PAUSED the video before she even said all this, but it's literally spot on with what I was saying. Why is it a competition? Why are we fighting each other? Like Jesus some game. My video can exist alongside your advocacy for women's rights. As long as you're not saying dumbing, I will stay out of your way. I don't give a [ __ ] about male loneliness. Like, bro, if you can't meet a girl, just dial up the queer homie and hook up like a normal person. God, >> some men just don't want to hook up. Did you think about that? Some men want genuine relationships and like to have a family and kids and to be happy, too.

[00:14:59]But, you know, like we shove that in their faces. They're not allowed to feel. They're not allowed to cry.

[00:15:02]They're not allowed to have a family.

[00:15:05]Just a thought. You know, >> if men are lonely on an epidemic scale, why don't they just cuddle and make out with each other?

[00:15:13]>> [gasps] [clears throat] >> Why don't they just befriend and date each other? Problem solved.

[00:15:21]>> You know what? Why don't females uh, you know, befriend and date each other? You want to know what happens? Let's look at the divorce rate for a female with a female. You want to know how high it is?

[00:15:29]Higher than the homosexual. Have you thought about that? You should look at the statistics. It's there. It's it's it's simple. You know, you can pull up a graph on Google and do your own research.

[00:15:39]>> I love this advice. Just be gay.

[00:15:42]>> Yeah. Just be gay.

[00:15:44]>> Are you a lonely man? Are you a [ __ ] loser?

[00:15:47]>> You sucking dick.

[00:15:48]>> Tell me [laughter] why I, as a queer.

[00:15:51]>> Yeah. You know what, guys? You know what? You should consider that. You know what? It's time to be gay. Time to learn how to suck. [laughter] You got to get that $20, guys. Just saying. Woman should take time out of my day to care about men and their issues quickly. I'm not disabled. Why should I care about disabled people? Why talk about unions or the concept? It's we care about everybody.

[00:16:15]>> If we only cared about causes that only affected me, I wouldn't even have a YouTube channel. I mean, >> this this if we only cared about ourselves. The world doesn't revolve around us. There's always other Oh my god, I need to breathe. There's always other issues. There's always something else going on. And if we did not care about anything that didn't afflict us, do you know how bad it'd be generally?

[00:16:38]>> Yes. You don't have to care. You don't have to care about >> You don't have to.

[00:16:41]But it doesn't affect me, so why should I care? Is just a terrible reason not to care. There's no such thing as misandry.

[00:16:48]Just women who have had experiences with men and have woken up.

[00:16:52]>> Listen, I've had more bad experiences with females than I've had with men.

[00:16:56]It's that bad. Like, it's not the concept that, oh, they've just had Yeah, they do. And females usually do give men another chance. That's okay. But I've had literally more bad experiences with females. And I've literally only basically have guy friends now because of it.

[00:17:11]>> There's no such thing as racism. Just white people who have had bad experiences with black people. That's you.

[00:17:18]>> That's what you sound like. Can't stand this sort of pathetic pity party. We live in a time of abject plenty compared to any other time in history.

[00:17:27]>> You do realize our society as a whole has lost empathy. Like we are the least empathetic we've ever been. Ever been.

[00:17:36]>> Yeah. Stop being depressed. You have a bunch of cheap plastic [ __ ] from China.

[00:17:40]Line goes up. World more goodter. Male loneliness epidemic. And it's just them not being able to get laid. Like it's not them not being able to get laid.

[00:17:49]It's that they want a family. They want a relationship. And they want genuine friendships where that won't stab them in the back. But in today's society, everything is front-faced. You know, everyone has a facade, especially females coming from one. What do I know?

[00:18:02]We really don't give a [ __ ] I love how this is always the go-to when it comes to this conversation. Oh no, the men aren't getting laid.

[00:18:10]Like the men aren't getting It's always that too. It's like females can't come up with another excuse for you guys wanting to be in a relationship, right?

[00:18:19]Like literally females cannot come up for another excuse on why you guys want to be in a relationship. So it's always, oh, it's cuz you're not getting laid, brother. If they wanted to get laid, they could just pay someone. There's people who do that as a job. They just want a connection with someone.

[00:18:35]>> Actually talk to some of these guys.

[00:18:37]Like even if you talk to some of these incelss, the ones who like don't hate women, they're going to tell you that it's not really about sex. It's about companionship. It's about friendship.

[00:18:46]It's about having a girlfriend, a wife, a family. And a lot of these people were like, well, you know, that's why we should just legalize sex work. And >> honestly, I don't think that's a solution. No, maybe it's like a temporary one, but it's kind of like putting >> It's not even a good temporary one cuz then they get addicted to waste. They get addicted to porn and then they have to watch Batman. They need Batman to tell them that it's okay to get unaddicted from AI Batman. Have we not gone over this before? A band-aid on a broken leg. I don't think paying for meaningless sex with a stranger is going to solve the problem. In fact, it might make it worse over time. Instead of male loneliness epidemic, call it a cis MALE UNFUCKABILITY CRISIS. [screaming] IT'S JUST LIKE WHAT I SAID IN the video, they have to add cis now because they don't want to insult trans men.

[00:19:33]>> Men suck. I hate them.

[00:19:36]>> Not you. Not you.

[00:19:37]>> Not a man. [laughter] >> I just realized what she said.

[00:19:43][laughter] You're not a man, man. Oh god. Oh, [laughter] I shouldn't be laughing. I shouldn't be laughing at ducks, bro. When they stop killing women, I'll stop generalizing them.

[00:19:56]>> Oh jeez. You do realize like it's a society issue. Like >> maybe I'll start worrying about their loneliness when they stop unal.

[00:20:05]>> You do realize females do this too, right?

[00:20:08]>> And children and women. Yeah. Lonely guys, stoping children. Then maybe you won't be so lonely. What's all this hubbhub about male loneliness? Y'all are acting like you're oppressed when I've opened myself up to friendships and relationships with you just to get told I have sucking eyes.

[00:20:24]>> It sounds like you're talking to a teenager. Like, no offense. There's some men out there who haven't become mature.

[00:20:31]And that's, you know, that's that's maybe like 1%, not even. You probably have a type at this point. You have a type and you're going for that type constantly because if you've been told multiple times by that, you're doing something.

[00:20:43]>> That is hyper specific. Yeah, >> not everyone is your ex-boyfriend. All of these problems are created by themselves. How is it women's responsibility to fix them? Seriously, why is it always women's job to fix everything?

[00:20:56]>> All right. All right. You know what? I'd like to see you fix your own car without a man. I'm genuinely going to keep saying this cuz like try to fix your own car without a man cuz most females I know can't even change their own car oil. I've literally had female friends ask me to change their car oil so they don't have to get it done by a man. And I'm just like, YouTube's free. YouTube is free.

[00:21:16]>> The chance to blame other women she seems to always take. Elmo, you are the problem. It's you carrying water for the patriarchy and blaming women for men feeling lonely and radicalized. I find it repulsive anytime I see a woman like her do [ __ ] like this. It makes me actively violently against things that even I would originally think are nuanced topics. AND ALSO, YES, >> WHAT DO YOU MEAN THE LAST [screaming] PART? YOU YOU'RE OUT OF INSULT, so you just throw that in, right? We're just throwing that word around now to insult people.

[00:21:50]>> No, it's not up to women to fix that.

[00:21:53]>> OFF NAZI [ __ ] >> WHAT? [laughter] >> Things I blamed in the video.

[00:21:59]technology, social media, dating apps, and the commodification of law. The media, low wages, the housing crisis, social alienation, lack of community, the left not speaking to men, the feeling of having no >> You know what's funny? She never truly blamed females. Whereas I here am like like low-key blaming some of the females cuz it is kind of their fault. But in her video, she literally did not once really blame females. She blamed all these things. But the females who are like, "I take offense." Realizing, "Oh, I'm the problem. I got to defend myself." That means you're probably in the social alienation one, um, you're not speaking to men, so you're probably on the left. No offense. If you took offense, there's a problem cuz you feel attacked. So, you have to defend yourself in in shoe.

[00:22:49]>> Purpose things I didn't blame. WOMEN [laughter] TO YOU, but not everything has to do with women. Sometimes we can talk about other things. Sometimes those other things are not women. My video was about society as a whole. And yes, that includes women. I never said it was women's responsibility. I think I >> No, it's society as a whole to fix this issue cuz like we both have issues. Both sides do. But you know what? females take it on themselves and are taking the video a little too serious when it was she never pointed her finger at them.

[00:23:24]She pointed at society mentioned women like once and it was to say that women are also lonely but that the media and society treats women's loneliness much differently than it treats men's loneliness.

[00:23:37]>> And yet thousands of tweets and comments about how I was apparently blaming women and how it's not women's fault. It's to the point where I'm like, is this projection? Do you think it is your fault? But again, my video was not about you. My video was about men. And if you want to listen to a video about women and women's problems, like I said in the original video, tune in to literally anything else. Go to any college campus, turn on any TV show, watch a CIA ad.

[00:24:07]She's so embarrassing. Made an entire career out of being a Pikmi. You didn't watch the video.

[00:24:12]>> Yeah. Literally, you're calling Shu a pick me. And at that point, if you're calling Shu a pick me, you genuinely didn't watch the video. If you're commenting that even I am a pick me, you didn't watch the video. You're not getting it. You're not understanding the point. Like, if you comment before you genuinely wait and hear people's opinions, you are the problem.

[00:24:29]>> AND I'M NOT GOING TO.

[00:24:31]>> I DIDN'T WATCH THE VIDEO because I'd rather shoot myself than sit through a shoe video. Can someone take one from the team and watch this vid to get an answer? Yeah, there's a lot of people who have watched the video and gave an answer and you just choose not to listen and choosing to actually ignore the facts that are in the video and choose to listen to the people who are batshit crazy.

[00:24:48]>> Sorry, but it was a 20 minute long video. I have >> 20 minutes >> and I know some of y'all do too, but I know you mother watching 5hour YouTube documentary >> or there's you know what you know what they're also scrolling on TikTok for eight hours a day. 5 to eight hours a day. If you've watched Kayla Hammer, you would know this that he pulls out their phones and looks at their data, like their time on their phone, and they're spending like sometimes four to five hours scrolling on TikTok, but yet you don't have time for a 20 minute video.

[00:25:16]Well, if you don't have time, there's this really cool button down here that says settings. Uh you can go down and you can go to uh playback speed and you can speed it up. It'll make it quicker.

[00:25:26]Just a thought. Just just >> about [ __ ] like I Carly. I know you could take time out of your busy schedule from being the most miserable people on earth and watch a 20 minute long video. [laughter] Here, DOES THIS HELP?

[00:25:38]>> YES.

[00:25:38]>> YOU PAYING ATTENTION NOW?

[00:25:39]>> YES, I AM.

[00:25:41]>> Women's fault for us to know exactly what she means.

[00:25:44]>> This is like boring schizophrenia. Uh, yeah. She didn't say it, but we all know she did. No.

[00:25:50]>> I advocate for mental health care to be free. We need to get these some therapy.

[00:25:54]Male loneliness this, male loneliness that. Do you know how isolating it feels to almost never be able to develop genuine friendships with men because they see you as nothing more than an object for sex?

[00:26:05]>> Listen, you're talking to the wrong men then cuz I don't have an issue at all.

[00:26:09]Genuinely, you are talking to the wrong man. I have so many people in MY COMMUNITY, MEN. MEN, BY THE WAY, THEY'RE MEN who are literally the most genuine friendships I had. The issue comes with a female cuz I'll show them what I look like and then I'm a pick me. I show them my outfit. Oh, what? Then they get mad cuz like I'm in better shape. Oh, I'm this. Oh, I'm that. Like, what? What?

[00:26:33]>> Actual conquest. I'm going to tell you something not many people probably have told you in your life. It's not about you. I get that the friend zone is a very frustrating thing to deal with.

[00:26:44]Trust me, I know. Nothing worse than enjoying being friends with a guy, but not having a romantic attraction and having to cut him off because you don't want to lead him on or hurt him. It sucks being girlfriend zoned. But coming into this conversation basically like woe is me, so many people want to [ __ ] me is a little insane. Like maybe if this discourse was about the friend zone, this would make sense. But this is like barging into a conversation full of starving people and being like, I ate too much chicken tendies, you guys. My tummy hurts. Like get out of here. Women got sick of them creating a society where women were secondass citizens. So now men are facing a low that's not what happened.

[00:27:25]>> Yeah. This is payback to you for not letting women vote decades ago. You >> you know what? Yeah. Yeah. You guys, this is this is apparently your fault once again. It falls on your hands. I mean your shoulders and your bootstraps.

[00:27:39]Pull them up.

[00:27:40]>> Personally, men failed themselves. They built a whole system for their benefit.

[00:27:44]And in the moment it starts to crumble because the oppressed class they've always subjected, women, is waking up.

[00:27:51]They start to put the blame on us.

[00:27:52]Cowards and dangerous misogynists. So, first of all, nobody is putting the blame on you. Nobody did that. I didn't do that. You made that up in your heads.

[00:28:00]And second of all, this system wasn't created for the average man. It was created for the rich and powerful. It benefits the rich and powerful. They have their boots on our necks and the handmaidaidens are like, "Oh no, they look kind of sad, >> brother. Oh my god."

[00:28:15]>> Who has their boot on your neck? All men. You know who has on your neck? The satanic pedals in charge of our government. The soulless demonic corporations that would throw your mother into a wood chipper if it made them make an extra penny. That's >> I just think it's funny. I'm pausing it here cuz I need to get my head out of my my thought.

[00:28:37]Whatever. I just think it's funny that females are taking this personally when she said it was a society issue and then she blamed literally our government or like this the living situations the like everything else but females but they're taking it personally and that it's still the men's fault that they're here. She never once blamed a female in that video. Never once blamed a woman but the women feel attacked and that now they're blaming it back on the men. I don't know, man.

[00:29:02]>> Who has the boot?

[00:29:05]Joe Schmo working two JOBS SO HE DOESN'T GETED. HERE'S some male loneliness discourse for you. Do you ever at all, even for a second, consider the problem is you? That maybe, just maybe, the reason you're lonely is that you are an awful human being?

[00:29:21]>> I don't even want to let this person cook. I really don't.

[00:29:24]>> Truly just awful and that it's burning it. It's on fire.

[00:29:27]>> It's fair. I mean, yeah, they probably do consider that uh the suicide rate doesn't lie.

[00:29:34]>> Maybe if some men weren't bigots.

[00:29:36][music] THE SOLUTION TO LONELINESS IS LITERALLY just being a better person.

[00:29:41]>> Brother, most men are good people. Most men are good people. It's society and the I can't She was not blaming the female. I can't target them. But you guys are really proving that there's some You're the problem. I love that the implication here is that lonely people are bad people. Every lonely man is just a bigot AND A RACE.

[00:30:04]>> LITERALLY, I AM A lonely person. AM I A BAD PERSON? Likeist >> and an Andrew Tate fan. I guess it makes it easier for them to like not care about this if they paint these people as the enemy. If you dehumanize the enemy, it makes it easier to sleep at night, I suppose. Now, I started noticing a reoccurring pattern >> with a lot of these accounts. A lot of these accounts getting mad about or like dismissing the male loneliness discourse. Many [laughter] of them have only fans. This is relevant. This is relevant because like you're joking. I know she's about to show us. I know she's about to show us, but that's ironic that most of them have Only Fans.

[00:30:46]>> Out of everyone on Earth, why would those PEOPLE BE SO MAD [screaming] ABOUT SOMEONE wanting to solve or at least attention to the male loneliness epidemic. This is like a >> getting mad at people talking about crap.

[00:31:00]>> Oh jeez, what a shock your opinion and this is where it belongs.

[00:31:07]>> I remember seeing this on Twitter. There were so many people mad about this spot.

[00:31:12]I was just like, bro.

[00:31:15][laughter] Oh yeah. People's two cents is why they discontinued the penny. I love it. I love it.

[00:31:22]>> Have a good day. I can say that. Okay.

[00:31:24]I'm a YouTuber.

[00:31:26]>> That's far more degrading than being an Only Fans model. HER FACE LOOKS LIKE [laughter] SHE'S pandering to >> Bro, her makeup style. Have you Are you Are you looking at your own profile picture?

[00:31:37]>> That makeup style is so catered to.

[00:31:40]They're actively trying to make themselves >> She's cute.

[00:31:43]>> Ah, yes. Children notorious for wearing big fake eyelashes and 10 lbs of eyeliner. What? 100% [ __ ] in her side part. [ __ ] with this makeup style piss ME THE [ __ ] OFF. SHE always wears that type of makeup. Looking at her makeup, I already know the type of >> Why are we insulting her makeup? Why Why are we attacking the way someone looks because we're upset like we're You definitely didn't watch the video. You did not watch.

[00:32:14]>> No logic, just insult by her makeup. Not rude, but that makeup tells everything I need to know. Her makeup says everything I need to know. This is literal NPC behavior, >> not watching the video, blindly spewing the exact same insults, just have no argument, and I must scream. They don't even know why they're mad. They just saw a woman in the thumbnail of a video about men and their brains just broke.

[00:32:40]Her makeup doesn't look like ours. Her hair is styled differently than ours.

[00:32:45]Should I be like extra cute in this thumbnail?

[00:32:48]>> Yes, please. Would that piss them off?

[00:32:49]Probably >> like other girls.

[00:32:50]>> WHY? [laughter] >> DUDE, I can't tell you how many times I've heard a female say, "I'm not like other girls." It is such an iconic face.

[00:32:59]Oh my god.

[00:33:01]>> I'm not like other girls. [laughter] Hate her again. Guys, why do we hate this person again? Can't form my own opinion. Help. Why do we hate her? Why do all inceladent women look like this?

[00:33:14]You're a woman talking about men's issues online and they can't outright call you an incel. They just call you incel adjacent, I guess. And when they're not calling you incel adjacent, they're breaking out all reliable pick me. Pick me behavior. Pick me girls are so does this mean I'm a pick me? [laughter] Does this mean I'm a pick me? Does it come to this?

[00:33:40]Oh my god. Oh dear god. Oh my god, this is Yeah, calling Shu a Pikmi is so ironic cuz she's literally married with a kid. Married with a kid and you're calling her a pickme and picking on her makeup. What are we high school teenagers? I bet most of you are above 30 and you're doing this. Why are you above 30 asking like a high schooler?

[00:34:03]>> Pick me girls.

[00:34:05]>> CEO of Pikmi, high priestess of Pik. So, I am the CEO of PickMe and the High Priestess. Maybe this video will boost me to PickMe goddess. Watch out, bro.

[00:34:16][laughter] I'm coming for your title.

[00:34:18]I've already talked about the Pick Me insult in other videos, but >> it's just so lazy, man. I'm so tired of it. I've been hearing it for over a decade now. And yes, there are people who absolutely do fit the This is like the thing that drives me the most like the mad underneath my comments is like I've deleted like I have people going through like it's usually me and Unity and we go through and there's so many like she's a pick me. I'm like brother.

[00:34:44]Oh, no one wants your two cents, brother. Like [laughter] can someone explain the makeup insult?

[00:34:52]basically when they have nothing like the people will insult you on anything when they really have nothing like factual to say. So they're going to attack your looks. They're going to attack how you talk. They're going to call you pick me because they just don't have anything factual to say or anything smart or like they didn't actually watch the video. It's >> definition of a pick me from both genders. Men who talk about how much they hate men. Women who talk about how much they have nothing to say.

[00:35:19]>> But I don't hate women. My mom is a woman. My sister is a woman. My friends are women. I am a woman. I am a woman phobic. I have women parts [laughter] parts and overused nowadays. Every woman who doesn't tow the current line is a pick me. It's just a way to socially ostracize other women to make you fall in line and agree with their opinions.

[00:35:42]But it's not going to work here because I am socially [ __ ] AND BORDERLINE AUTISTIC. SO YOU HAVE NO [screaming] YOU CAN'T TELL ME WHAT TO BELIEVE. You can't change my opinions. You're not my boyfriend. I hope this her husband now, but [laughter] I mean, I'm gonna be opinionated on my own. I don't need no man telling me what I should do and what I should say. Like, I'm just going to be the badass I am and be stupid.

[00:36:09]>> [ __ ] fails to wake up in the morning.

[00:36:10]>> My coffee tells me what to say.

[00:36:13]>> STILL HASN'T STOPPED. OH MY GOD, she's still relevant. She should have went down with her anti-feminism STICKTICK A FEW YEARS AGO. I thought she would have fell off by now. If you want to know how I didn't fall off, if you want to know how I'm still relevant after 10 years, >> look in a mirror. You stop being cringe.

[00:36:31]I stop being relevant. Deal? Fun.

[00:36:34][laughter] >> I was going to say the exact same thing.

[00:36:37]Like the day someone like they stop being cringe is the day she will not be relevant. But you know what? People are still going to be cringe.

[00:36:46]It's never going to stop. Someone commented that under my Twitter post today. Like I don't remember what it was. It was something along the lines like I will stop crashing out when people stop being cringe. And I'm like I might be perished by then and they're like it's okay. We'll revive you.

[00:37:00][laughter] Like are you kidding me? LIKE YOU I I I become a voice for you, BUT LIKE I CAN ONLY put up with so much.

[00:37:07]Okay. She reached out to Incel accounts for help with this video. No, I'm not kidding. Well, yeah. It's good to go to the source and talk to the people who have experience with the subject I'm talking about. I'm not lonely and I'm not a man despite what the mainstream media may say. I do not in fact have a penis. Do not I have so many people saying Z is just a guy behind the screen using her VTuber model. Have you not seen my Twitter posts? Have you not seen my my Instagram posts? Like I'm definitely female. What you going to insult my body next? Cuz I've already been told I can't be thick cuz I'm short. Like that's the most you can do to me. I'M NOT A MAN. I DON'T HAVE a 19 inch.

[00:37:49]Put in the paper that I have a penis.

[00:37:51]>> We scour the internet.

[00:37:52]>> Breaking news. Zika has a large 19 we've seen in the wild.

[00:37:57]>> The problem is Shu just affirms them instead of converting them.

[00:38:02]>> Uh you mean she's actually communicating and relating to them with their personal issues and the struggles they're going through and they have someone to actually talk to and vent to and have understanding. Oh my god, it's communication and empathy, >> brother.

[00:38:15]>> Converting them to what? This is exactly the thing I talked about in my video.

[00:38:20]These people don't want to actually men.

[00:38:23]They just want to recruit them into their little political tribe. Would it be cool if everyone agreed with me politically? I was going to say yes, but honestly, that would be a little horrifying. That would be a very scary world. My goal wasn't to convert men to agree with me politically. My goal was just to bring attention to this issue and put a spotlight on it. It is cool when people tell me, "Oh, like you've changed my mind on this. You've changed my mind on that." I love that. I love to see that. I was >> And that's exactly why I switched my content cuz like I want to give my opinions. I don't want to be another reactor who just sits there and giggles.

[00:38:59]Like I want to be a voice. I want to have meaning and I want to be able to put meaning out there. But apparently I'm a pickme.

[00:39:08]But yeah, I literally had someone comment on one of my community posts saying, "I can't be thick because I'm short." And I literally I tried to debate with him because I'm like, "Brother." He's like, "No." I'm like, "Okay." So, my last comment was, "I don't need your two cents. I literally go to the gym six times a week and I weightlift." You want to tell me that I can't have an ass? Hello? Like, my community knows I get up at 5 a.m. I go to Pilates at 6 and then at 7 I go to the gym with my personal trainer and weightlift. Like I am a gym rat. I literally work out six times a week. Go to my Insta. My pictures are on there.

[00:39:42]So like [laughter] I'm 52. 52. So that's like 155 in centimeters.

[00:39:48]>> Unaware that was my job. My job is to get on YouTube and say poo poo pe >> and everyone go ha [laughter] and give me money. But in this case it was for me to go hey the the men are not okay. And for people to go damn that sucks.

[00:40:02]>> Pull up your bootstraps >> and give me money. Prageru is sharing she want heads video now. Explain to me how she's still a leftist. I personally think it's a good thing when people agree on good things. There should be more people agreeing on good things.

[00:40:16]Quite frankly, I feel like a lot of good things would be done in this country if more people agreed on good things. I don't know. I think I think it's pretty neat that this might be the first.

[00:40:28]>> But we can agree because once one side becomes happier than the other, we have to make the other side miserable.

[00:40:33]There's something dearly wrong with society and that we've made everything a competition. Like we definitely [laughter] need to fix something, but it's not going to happen cuz we just can't agree. We just can't get along anymore. And last time a video that talks about alienation under capitalism and says the term material conditions will be shown to a massive right-wing audience like Prageru. But hey, don't worry your a little hard. This This will never happen to a left-wing YouTuber you watch. The internet feminists weren't the only ones booty blasted about my video. I also rustled the jimmies of some in the manosphere. You just fans subscribers.

[00:41:14]>> Doesn't she like have a feetinder as a joke? [laughter] >> Like it's a joke. But the fact that men who are getting upset by this is just kind of like brother is your only insult. Oh, you probably have an Only Fans because I see that so often now.

[00:41:30]Like, no, I don't have an Only Fans. I don't want to sell myself. I don't need to pimp out my body. I'll just pimp out my idiotic opinions.

[00:41:38]>> You don't care about male loneliness.

[00:41:40]She's actually a man dressed as a woman.

[00:41:42]That's why.

[00:41:43]>> Sorry, guys. I have a 19.

[00:41:44]>> Is there speaking about men's issues?

[00:41:47]Fellas, protect your sanity, your seed, and your wallet in these.

[00:41:53]>> These women are shape shifters.

[00:41:56]I am a shape shifter. I'm a VTuber. I have an anime face. Cuz you know what?

[00:42:00]Why not?

[00:42:01]>> This chick is going to hit the wall in 10 years. THAT'S WHY SHE HASN'T YET LONELINESS.

[00:42:07]>> She sees many cats in her future.

[00:42:09]>> I do see many cats in my future. You want to know why? Cuz my cat will not betray me.

[00:42:14]>> Actually, it does. My cat's been stealing my socks.

[00:42:16]>> They want us back on the plantation.

[00:42:18]Gentlemen, hold the line. I don't really understand what the conspiracy here in general is, though. Like like I'm just talking about a subject I found important and interesting like I've been doing on this channel and these guys are like stay strong brothers don't give into temptation. Why are >> she's literally defending men about male loneliness. Plenty of male figures discussing this. Honestly, I'm going to say it. SJW behavior, liberal behavior, women behavior to imply that I shouldn't speak or be listened to about a subject because I'm not the correct gender.

[00:42:54]Anyone can talk about anything they want. That's free speech, [ __ ] You don't have to listen. You can make your own video talking about subject, Mr. Man. But, you know, they're just going to call you sexist and misogynist, so you might as well just use me as a human shield. IT'S NOT THAT SHE'S A WOMAN OR CARES. SHE'S the kind of person who will only talk about an issue because it's popular.

[00:43:15]>> No, I'm the type of person who talks about an issue because it's actually genuinely an issue and I've experienced it firsthand and would like to be more than just a VTuber laughing and giggling when reacting to gaming content when I can actually put my opinion out there and make people feel better and understand they're not alone and actually make a change in the world. But you know what? Continue on.

[00:43:32]>> Women suddenly want to help men, but only because it benefits them and their causes. Well, now not only are conservative women talking about it, but also the left. This is the problem >> with the women that decide to come forward and speak about men's issues. They don't care about men's issues.

[00:43:54]>> Yes, they generally question >> now that they're coming around.

[00:43:59]>> Shu does. She's she's married. She has a kid. She definitely got My god. You know what? I know why you're bald.

[00:44:05]>> And talking about men's head.

[00:44:07]>> Is it to help men? Yes.

[00:44:09]>> To win men into their cause.

[00:44:11]>> So, first, >> what cause?

[00:44:14]>> Let me just clear something up because some of you seem a bit confused. I started talking about these subjects 10 years ago, way back before it was popular to do so. Back when I was doxed, harassed, had angry feminists calling my job and trying to get me fired over mocking pop feminism and talking about men's issues. And a lot of these people coming at me now telling me I'm jumping on a bandwagon started like two or three years ago when it was safe to do so. So with all due respect, sir, >> stay out of my territory.

[00:44:52]>> But [laughter] in full seriousness, it is good when more people talk about this subject. I'm glad you talk about this.

[00:44:58]I'm glad there are people like the Honeybadgers who have been talking about this >> this like I just want to talk about this subject because yeah there is other VTubers out there but you could probably count them on one hand who actually talk and discuss about this these situations and like society because the VTuber community is I feel like we don't have the guts to step out of this box. We need to grab our non-existent balls and like give them a tug and finally like hey it's okay to talk about this. Hey, it's okay to talk about this cuz if no one talks about it, nothing's going to be done >> for a very long time. This girl is a fake who wants every man to be a castrated beta male feminist COMMIE LIKE HER BOYFRIEND PROBABLY IS. [screaming] >> WHAT?

[00:45:40]>> SHE TAKES ADVANTAGE OF MEN like this. Do not listen to her. Lefty women want to help men become good feminists who devote their lives to helping women have all the power so they can make men their servants. Basically, we need to help men, destroy men. That's the only way MEN SHOULD BE HELPED.

[00:45:59]>> WHAT? LEFTY WOMEN want to help men. Help men become good feminists who devote their lives to helping.

[00:46:06]Holy skitso.

[00:46:07]>> We women go >> shoe on head.

[00:46:11]Real quote, never trust a woman, even if they ARE SAYING THE TRUTH. HOW LIKE THEY NEED TO CONVINCE themselves that even when a woman is showing empathy and like caring about this subject that she's just like a snake in the >> literally I can't speak up on Twitter about this because then the Twitter the Twitter drama gets me man like I can post on YouTube and have a nice discussion like we can have a debate but the second I post it on Twitter it's just all for nothing and all for one like oh my god I think recently I posted about that VTuber who was like doing the the funny football jokes and like would root for a team and they'd lose. Like it was a joke, but people on Twitter were going as far as threatening her life, doxing her, and furthermore. And when you get you call them out on it, they're like, "No, you're just stupid." I'm like, "Brother, you're the one with an issue with a VTuber having fun." Yes.

[00:47:08]>> Literally just a mirror universe of these fem cells. It's mommy and daddy issues all the way down. Ladies, >> be a good mom to your sons, fellas. Be a good dad to your daughters. Try to prevent creating the most insufferable, annoying people on Earth, please. I don't know if it's because I grew up >> with a good relationship with both of my parents or what, but this gender war [ __ ] is just so men and women need each other, you know?

[00:47:33]We're yin and yang. The yin and yang is being torn apart by miserable people.

[00:47:38]Miserable people who want to make you miserable as well.

[00:47:41]>> Exactly. It's the miserable people who doesn't want the opposite of them to be happy. So, they must make the opposite of them miserable, which means putting each other constantly against each other. And the second someone else is happy, they have to make them miserable because they are miserable and they can't be happy.

[00:47:54]>> Well, one of the most valid criticisms I got about this video was that I didn't offer any solutions. And honestly, >> that's because I don't have any. I wanted to talk about the problem, but I don't know who a lot of YouTubers and streamers and talking heads will get up on their platform and like pretend they know the answers to everything. But the truth is >> no answer.

[00:48:19]>> I don't I just think that it's a step in the right direction to be like, "Hey men, you're struggling, but you're not a bad person."

[00:48:26]>> But that's the thing. You got to bring it attention to people who aren't seeing it, who aren't understanding or like just generally don't know because then it gets talked about more, right? That's the concept of bringing up the situation. So yeah, maybe we can find a solution in the future. It's not easy to solve. It's not We can't solve it within a month. This is like a societal issue that's been going on for ages now. It's been going on for so long. You can't solve it within a day. It's just not possible.

[00:48:54]>> You matter. And if I could snap my fingers and cure this, I absolutely would. But at the end of the day, men are men, and man problems require man solutions. And that solution, of course, is giving me money. Thank you guys for watching this video. I'm reading the comments on that video all the time, and I will read the comments on this video as well. If you see some people talking about their experiences and venting about their issues and their problems in the comments, reply to them, support them, join in on the discourse. The shoe on head community is a very diverse community. Not like race-wise. I'm pretty sure you're alling white, but like like politically diverse, but we can all come together to talk about the issues that matter. And I think that's I think that's really cool and we love to see it. And I will see you in the next next one.

[00:49:46]>> I feel like I crashed out a lot that video, but settled down in the end. I think I did okay. I didn't kill my squishy. It is a little bad, but you know, I don't know. It's just something we have to take time to solve. It's not something we can solve instantly. But holy, just proves Twitter is more crazy than I ever thought it was. [music] [music] [music]