Fatherhood can serve as a transformative life experience that fundamentally changes a man's perspective, values, and behavior toward others, particularly women. When Charleston White became a father to his daughter, he experienced an internal transformation that made him more respectful and appreciative of women's experiences, including the physical and emotional challenges of childbirth. This personal milestone prompted him to change his lifestyle, including stopping certain music and behaviors, and to develop a broader appreciation for women's struggles and sacrifices. The experience demonstrated that witnessing and understanding the challenges of another's life, especially through the lens of parenthood, can reshape one's character and relationships.
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Charleston White says he will be a preacher in 5 years. He has a unique way he would run his church.Added:
If you could picture your perfect life in 10 years, what would it be and what would you be doing?
Uh In 10 years?
Somewhere preaching. Got my own church preaching.
Church full of holes.
Church full of holes.
>> You serious? Dead serious.
>> Okay.
Uh don't you know the preacher is like the king in the Bible who has the first lady, which is the wife, the queen? Okay. Every woman in that church is his spiritual concubine.
She ain't in no with her husband.
These are women who come to they This is their mini god.
And my grandmama always told me is if you want to know how much a woman like you, try to get her money.
A woman's husband can't get the money like a preacher can.
The admiration in the the the the the respect that she have for pastor, she don't have for a husband nor a father.
Why wouldn't I want to step in pastor's shoes and get these [ __ ] holes?
And I'm going to [ __ ] them. I'm just going to [ __ ] the willing, not the unwilling.
I ain't going to pray on the unwilling.
I'm going to pray on the one that's showing up with them no panties on, uh peeking with the "Amen, pastor.
Hallelujah." Trying to get my attention.
Them the one I'm going to [ __ ] But the one paying to mind they being with them long dresses on, I ain't going to bother them. Mhm.
So, would that as in 10 years or 5 years? You can >> Uh in five. Five?
>> Yeah, Save a Hole Baptist Church.
>> Okay, let's go. You know why? Holes are important to God's ministry.
It's why he put one with Jesus, the savior.
He didn't put a woman, a lady, put a [ __ ] And highlighted her.
Nah, let's talk.
>> Wait, cuz I start preaching after my boys I start preaching about the hole.
They been They got the whole [ __ ] the hell out of us. That's a angel. She almost like the Holy Spirit.
What's the craziest thing a female has said to you in your DMs that almost got you to, you know, jump out there and highlight her or go to her crib or fly out, but you decided not to?
>> Boy, uh sent me one of them uh videos uh with that phone set up with that [ __ ] [ __ ] squirting sounding like them wet boots walking in the cafeteria with the water on the floor making all kind of noise.
>> Oh, lord.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
You almost uh You almost did something there? Uh yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Okay.
Um when did you become a major influence on the culture or when did you know you had the power to change it?
I still don't know.
Yeah, I I can't see what y'all see.
Okay. Cuz you're looking from the inside out versus the outside in.
>> don't know, [ __ ] And I'm just talking. [ __ ] I ain't impacting nobody. Cuz [ __ ] I ain't I can't see no change with from this point of view. You definitely have an impact on people.
>> I don't have the passion no more. Now it's all entertainment for me.
>> Okay. Okay. I bet. So, I'm saying at this point uh yeah, I'm saying some real [ __ ] But I'm just answering questions.
Uh Yeah, I I don't know, homie. Uh I never know. The most impactful thing that you said to me cuz even though I'm a grown man it had an effect on me was you can't kill somebody for what they say. Not to say I'm a killer cuz I'm not. Yeah.
>> But in your mind, you know how we'd be thinking, "Oh, I'll do this. I'll do that." You know what I mean? When I was listening to you speak, I was like, "Damn, man. He He's telling so much truth." You know what I mean? Like you just can't hurt somebody.
>> You didn't kill that [ __ ] that your sister said slapped her?
Most of us have had sisters that been in You ain't killed them [ __ ] You ain't killed them [ __ ] that killed your [ __ ] You don't find a reason to give him a pass.
>> Mhm.
So, why would I believe I would be killed for the things that I say? Mhm.
When I was talking to white people, I believed it.
Because when I made white people mad, they put it in their head they they they going to react.
You say things to offend white people and you're acting like you mean it, they're going to respond.
That's why I quit talking to white people. I started picking on you weak ass [ __ ] I feel safe over here. Mhm. Y'all think I'm dangerous. Uh home I want to live.
Uh Dough [ __ ] told me, he said the most dangerous thing that a black man in America can do is for white people to know that know his name.
They say white people know your name.
Uh Yeah. Yeah. Nah, [ __ ] uh Every now and then I get beside myself and say something to master.
Mhm. And he remind me that [ __ ] you by yourself brave.
You know what we do to the baddest one, don't you?
And I turn right back around and say, "Nigger, [ __ ] y'all did, baby." Mhm.
And he'll let me say whatever to y'all.
Uh and I say whatever to y'all cuz I know y'all ain't going to do [ __ ] as violent as y'all is toward one another.
I know they ain't going to kill me with the knowledge and information that I have because they taught me. Y'all don't know how smart I am. They do.
They don't know how [ __ ] don't know how dangerous I am. The one I smile, they know.
Is your voice that make you dangerous, though. I know weapons, [ __ ] I have knowledge of guns and weapons.
Black liberation.
They taught me how to work gun and what guns is this and I mimic them, [ __ ] I don't buy guns [ __ ] buy. I ain't got no switch.
No No I buy guns that the white folks buy.
I stock with they stock.
I read what they read.
Mhm.
They groomed me to go against y'all.
I just flipped.
When were you being groomed? I'm just curious.
>> Since I was a kid. I didn't go to school with black people.
Every [ __ ] who don't go to school in the hood is groomed to be against y'all.
Why you think your black celebrity don't send their kids to go to school with y'all?
That's why there's a good black and a bad black.
It's not like there They They've always There's always been a good black and a bad black.
Get the good blacks away from the bad blacks. That's why mama's move out the hood, [ __ ] Mhm.
That's why y'all mama's let y'all come in the house with the switches and hides y'all criminal activity. Bad black.
That's why you know how to not talk to the police. Bad black. Now we back at it with Charleston White. Um Charleston, um I always hear you talk about um you know, becoming a man and and the difference between a man and you know, someone that's not a man. When did you feel like you really became not to say, you know, you you're a man, of course. You're a male. But when when did you become the man that you are today?
Uh When my when my daughter was born.
Yeah, I became a different kind of man when I became a a father to a to a daughter.
Okay. Uh Yeah, I Yeah, I'm I was still [ __ ] whole kind of talking guy. Uh I'm I I missed my son's childbirth because I had gotten into it with with the nurse.
Uh so he called the police on me.
Uh so I had to wait for him to come home.
So, I never got to see what a woman go through to give birth to a child to even have an appreciation for women. [ __ ] naturally got appreciation for mama.
Yeah. Uh but you don't have a a a a broad appreciation for women uh and and what they got to go through as women uh until until you see a woman give birth.
Uh especially to your child.
So, uh Yeah, now man, when my daughter was born, [ __ ] uh something inside of me changed instantly.
And but I couldn't pinpoint it.
>> Okay, you're just a different man from that day on. I just know I had a desire to want to be a gentleman with all women.
When she was born. [ __ ] uh once you hear that first and it's a Yeah, [ __ ] uh you know, a subconsciously a [ __ ] teaches son how to be a dog with pride.
Yeah.
>> Boy, just [ __ ] them up. But [ __ ] ain't going to teach his daughter to be a hoe.
Nah.
>> And he ain't going to display that in the presence. Uh so so my daughter is what made me uh pull my pants up, stop listening to this kind of music uh because she looking.
Uh but to see what a woman had to go through is uh it it it it changed it changed the spirit uh of me as a man. Uh I couldn't be a woman.
Uh I don't like pain and and and and and and and and for her to give life uh on earth, she have to go to the brinks of death.
Facts.
So, experiencing that really helped you become the man that you are today.
>> Seeing it, [ __ ] Seeing it. Witness it.
Uh the process of it. Uh the epidural.
Lean forward and when you look up the needle this long and it got to go in your spine.
And and the doctor giving you specific instructions. You can't move or else.
Uh, [ __ ] the psychological mind of a woman is way stronger than a man.
Uh, we can't take abuse.
Nah, they can.
They can adjust to it and adapt to it.
We can't.
What do we do when we we we get abuse?
Uh, Most men don't get abused.
Boys do.
Male children do.
Most men don't.
Just not in prison. Yeah. When you say abuse, what do you mean? Like >> Uh, a woman will take a beating for love.
Okay. A woman will put up with cheating.
We won't.
A woman a believer lie knowing you lying. Charleston, I appreciate you coming out, showing love, spreading love, man.
Respect you, we love you. We definitely going to try to get him back around here, you know what I'm saying? Whenever you back in the area.
>> I enjoyed the conversation, man. Uh, not very often uh, do I get some good healthy conversation like this, so I appreciate it. The man, he's here in the flesh. Charleston White, once again, thank you, man. And everybody out there have a good one. Y'all stay safe.
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