Women Start New Trend.. Approach Men In The Gym

Added: 2026-05-20

[00:00:00]You literally just CAN'T DO ANYTHING.

[00:00:01]>> [laughter] >> WHAT'S UP, AMBER?

[00:00:17]I'MMA EAT IT.

[00:00:19]GYM BOYS, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ABOUT BEING approached by a girl at the gym? Do you like that? Or would you not like that because it's kind of traditionally the man's job that they want to like be approaching women? Like, how would you feel in that instance inside the gym?

[00:00:32]Okay. [laughter] WOW.

[00:00:38]I LOVE THIS GAME.

[00:00:40]>> [laughter] >> This is your sign to approach your gym crush because if I approach mine today, you can, too. I'm really still coming down from that high because it's crazy how I literally just went up to him. So, basically, I was at the gym with my friend and I told my friend about my gym crush that I had and I was telling her, "Damn, like, I really just want to say something to him. Like, I really just want to compliment him. Like, I really just want to let him know that my presence is here." I see him for the longest time. He comes in, he's working out, I'm working out, and we're just doing like our own thing. And for the longest time, I'm contemplating and I'm like, I Should I go? Should I not go?

[00:01:09]Should I not Should I go? But every time I leave the gym, I leave with like the sense of like regret of not saying something. Literally went around him, waved him down, gave him a little wave just to not startle him, you know, because you obviously don't want to startle them with like tapping their shoulder. And he took off his headphones and he looked straight at me.

[00:01:28]>> [laughter] >> I'm still like nervous saying that. All I said was, "Hi, I've seen you around the gym and I just wanted to let you know that I think you're handsome."

[00:01:36]>> [screaming] >> Mind you, this guy looks the most intimidating guy like at the gym. Like, he looks like he's mad at someone. He looks like he's like just like he doesn't want anyone talking to him.

[00:01:45]Literally, his face just like lit up and literally like he said, he was like, "Oh my god, thank you." And I just said, "Have a good night." And I just walked away. Like, like I just walked away because I didn't want it to like continue or anything. I just wanted to make sure that my presence was known. Not living with regret anymore. I'm living with, you know what? I'm at peace because I said my stuff and we'll see what happens the next time I see him or maybe nothing will ever happen, but I am at PEACE WITH THAT.

[00:02:16]>> [cheering] >> OH MY GOD.

[00:02:21]IMAGINE IF WE treated fat people the same way we treat like super tall people. Wow, how much do you weigh?

[00:02:28]You're huge.

[00:02:31]350?

[00:02:32]Wow, you're so fat. Who's fat? Your mom or your dad? Oh, you get it from your dad? You eat competitively? How well would THAT GO OVER?

[00:02:43]>> [laughter] >> IT'S SOUTH OF THE SEASON.

[00:02:48]DAMN, SHE'S bold and she's risky for her to go out there, show her face and be saying this.

[00:02:55]Cuz a lot of women usually gaslight other women, especially their fat friends.

[00:03:00]Oh, you're beautiful. Look under their Instagram comments. Well, 100% this will be good cuz you'll be saving a lot of women's life instead of lying to them.

[00:03:08]And what's crazy is women are out here approaching men now and I feel like this is going to be normal very soon because society, the way it's changing and women are coming with all these delusional >> [music] >> takes, a lot of men don't want to date anymore. So, women have to go out there and get it themselves.

[00:03:27]But, it's good to see the women are getting out there because you've got a high success rate if you approach the man first. I would say up to the 90%.

[00:03:34][music] So, good on them.

[00:03:38]Refreshing.

[00:03:41]Very refreshing. I'm going to tell you whether or not you should approach in the gym in less than a minute. Most people say you should not approach at the gym because the gym is a sanctuary.

[00:03:50]It's where people go to focus on their health and be left alone. Blah, BLAH, BLAH. FUCK THAT. The gym is a public place. If a woman is in a public place with a cute ass form-fitted workout set, and she's single, you bet she's open to being approached as long as you're smart about it. If she's mid-squat and she's got her headphones in and you're trying to talk to her, that's probably not going to go down well. But, if you approach her when she's refilling her water bottle or in between sets, then you might just luck out. Either way, at least you'll know instead of kicking yourself for not trying.

[00:04:22]>> Exactly.

[00:04:23]>> [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] [music] >> GOD >> [screaming] >> DAMN! GOD DAMN!

[00:05:10]GOD DAMN!

[00:05:11]WHAT ARE THE RULES TO hitting on someone or approaching someone at the gym? Uh, whenever I go to the gym, I see guys that I think are attractive.

[00:05:20]Maybe I wouldn't mind getting to know, but one, I'm way too afraid to approach them. But, even if I had the courage to approach them, do they want to be approached at the gym? I feel like people just go to the gym and they want to work out and they don't want to be bothered.

[00:05:34]So, what do we think? Are we approaching people at the gym? Is that okay to do?

[00:05:37]SHOULD I TRY IT?

[00:05:40]I'M JUST FUCKING AVERAGE. COME ON!

[00:05:45]I DON'T LIKE TO BE APPROACHED AT THE gym just because it is my safe place.

[00:05:49]>> One thing I do at my office in in London is we actually have a safe place for men in our office where women aren't permitted to talk in our meetings.

[00:06:00]>> [laughter] >> And it's just a nice place for men that they can feel comfortable to discuss ideas Mhm. and solve problems without women [music] interrupting. And it's really And it's really spiked our productivity in the last quarter by about 53%.

[00:06:15]Do you have a space like that for women?

[00:06:17]Where men aren't allowed to talk? So we have the conference room. Women usually have the women the women's bathroom and they could they could get there. That's the you guys' spot.

[00:06:24]>> That's where women should gossip.

[00:06:26]Yeah.

[00:06:27]>> Well, the cleaning supplies are there in our office. The women can help out with the cleaning of the desks.

[00:06:33]Mhm.

[00:06:36]>> [laughter] >> Hey.

[00:06:43]Hey, knock it the fuck off.

[00:06:46]>> [laughter] >> All right. So I'm always hearing men, whether they're in the comments or they're making their own post or something on TikTok, Instagram, whatever, they're always like, "Oh, females don't like being approached at the gym. Don't approach females. It's creepy. They think we're creepy." Oh my gosh, it's like this big like debate, okay?

[00:07:08]What about do men like being approached at the gym?

[00:07:12]I would love to know the answer to this because I swear I just saw the man of my actual dreams at my gym.

[00:07:20]I think I'm may have seen him like a couple times before, but it was like as he was leaving or something like that, but he was there today um like my entire workout, okay? Like there were a few times we were working out like right next to each other. I We even locked eyes a few times. And I was so close to saying something, but my nerves got the best of me again, because that's what happens. And I would just really like to know, like, guys, do you like when females approach you at the gym?

[00:07:52]>> [music] >> Yeah, her. Whoever she is, I love her already.

[00:08:01]>> When us girls say that we don't want a guy to approach us in the gym, we're lying. It's not that we don't want guys to approach us in the gym, we don't want guys to be weird in the gym. We don't want to feel like watched or stalked, or like someone is just being a creep.

[00:08:13]Like, nobody likes a creep. But some of the hottest hottest men are in the gym. I'm an avid gym-goer, and they say to place yourself in places where you think you would meet someone that would make sense for you. I want my husband to also be an avid gym-goer. So, the perfect place to meet someone like that is at the gym, right?

[00:08:31]But no, we've ruined it because we've said we don't want men to approach us at the gym, when it's not true. It's not true. And sorry, I'm not going to approach guys. I'm just not going to do that. And they're probably not going to ever approach me, because us women have screamed from the rooftops that we hate when men approach us in the gym. Please, guys, spread this message. It's not true. Approach women in the gym, just don't be weird.

[00:08:57]Next question.

[00:08:59]What? Next question.

[00:09:00]>> You're a woman that goes to the gym, and you ask yourself, like, why does every man stare at me? Why don't I get approached by these men? Is something wrong with me? I'm going to tell you the answer. I'm not being delusional, this is just facts. I know it, and I've heard it from men saying why they don't approach me. The reason why you are not getting approached is because these men see you as a woman with high value. A lot of men just want to have fun, so they go and push themselves on women that they think don't have high value.

[00:09:24]This is the truth. Like, I'm trying to be kind, but that is the truth. You are not getting approached in a place where everyone's breaking their necks to stare at you. They know that if they approach you, you will hurt their ego. And they know that you are better than them. Men can sense if a woman is better than them and that intimidates them. That just makes them scared like, oh shit, like no, no woman can be better than me. But personally, I take it as a compliment if I'm out in public getting a lot of stares.

[00:09:49]I think I can speak for most guys right now. That's actually not the reason at all. The only reason guys don't really approach girls in the gym is because they're shy. That's That's it. Oh, she's high-value and I don't want to hurt my ego.

[00:10:00]Type of weird psycho thing to say is that. And I think it's funny seeing someone confidently spew out nonsense on a subject they know nothing about and then to go ahead and label themselves high-value.

[00:10:09]Go outside and touch some grass, please.

[00:10:11]I can assure you it's not that deep, all right? Fuck, no.

[00:10:15]You got to take YOUR MEDS, PEOPLE. YOU GOT TO.

[00:10:19]THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH A LOT OF WOMEN.

[00:10:22]Anytime that they feel a man isn't making a move on them, they always feel like they're kind of rejecting them. So, they always come with some sort of excuse or some sort of cope for why that's happening. They're scared scared of me, they're intimidated, they're gay. All of these things you hear on a daily basis because women cannot handle it. They just feel like so much men approach them on the roads [music] that the men that they want should be doing the same thing. And if they're not, then there's something wrong with them.

[00:10:51]You can see most of the women have turned around and said, "You know what?

[00:10:54]It's our mess. It's our fault that men have stopped approaching in the gym is cuz we told them. So, now we're going to make it right and we're going to start making it easier for ourselves and approaching them." I don't really agree with what this guy is saying. He's saying that a lot of men are shy. There are There is a few men that are probably shy, but most [music] men just can't be bothered for the hassle anymore. And you got to remember we can go two ways in the gym. You can go in go out there, get rejected, [music] still have to see her every day. A lot of men are not confident with that. And then on top of that, if it all goes right and then ends up falling apart, you still got to see her every day where she still might act crazy or still might be hard for you all to detect each other's feelings, etc. So, I think a lot of men are just prioritizing peace. Exactly.

[00:11:39]Okay, so I need y'all to be dead butt honest. Do I look mean?

[00:11:43]Do I look mean or like unapproachable?

[00:11:46]Cuz I'm trying to figure it out. I've been going to the gym for 3 years now and one guy has approached me in the gym.

[00:11:52]One guy. I can name the situation. One guy. And I've never had a girl like come up to me and want to be my friend, which is like not their problem, not their fault. Like I'm not expecting anyone to approach me, but I feel like I'm always approaching others and like talking to others. So, I'm like there's got to be something wrong. Like something like Why do people not want to like talk to me?

[00:12:13]And not like in a sappy way. Like I'm genuinely curious. Like what am I doing wrong? I don't know. I'm like literally wearing bright pink right now. Like is that unapproachable? I think it is.

[00:12:23]Okay. I don't know. Um let me know. Men are not approaching you at the gym because of two reasons. Number one, you are attractive and that is intimidating and not just that it's intimidating, but his risk versus reward is higher with you. Just by looking at you, he knows that he has a higher likelihood of getting rejected and having a negative consequence to just saying hi to you.

[00:12:46]And then the second part of that is that this is his gym space. This is where he gets a workout in. This is probably his favorite gym. Like he's probably been to other gyms in the area and he doesn't want to ruin his space. He wants to be able to continue to go there. He has a set schedule. It's difficult to change that schedule. Therefore, he would probably end up having to switch gyms and he doesn't want to do that. Let's go home.

[00:13:10]LET'S GO HOME, LADIES AND GENTLEMEN. LET'S GO HOME.

[00:13:14]LET'S LET'S GO SENSATIONAL.

[00:13:23]>> [music] [music] >> WOO.