A man is a man is a man

Added: 2026-05-28

[00:00:00]So, I did a little stitch earlier with this uh young woman right here who just started out really strong with a man as a man as a man is a man. Uh she gets a lot of things right and I want to do a little case study with her showing you uh where I agree with her point by point and when she starts to get it wrong. So, here we go.

[00:00:18]>> Gay men are still men. They're not giries and very many of them actually hate women.

[00:00:23]>> True. Uh, I think we all have our gay besties, but just because you have a gay bestie doesn't mean that some gay men don't hate women. But let's go on.

[00:00:32]>> I have gotten push back for saying this in the past, so I'm so glad the solid core metal glass guy is finally bringing this to the forefront and people are talking about it. But yes, a man is still a man is still a man is still a man at the end of the day. And I have always said that >> and I have always said that.

[00:00:46]>> I'm going to roll his clip that's going around right now because I think it's that important and we need to talk about this. He was like, "Yeah, people have been calling uh all day long, scared to come in. Uh, I just want to make sure that Tremble's a safe space." I'm like, "Are you freaking kidding me?" She knows I would never hurt her. I was just saying her name for my car. Jaden.

[00:01:04]Jaden. Jaden.

[00:01:05]>> Now, I want to preface all of this by saying some of my favorite people on this planet, some of my best friends, my greatest allies are gay men. That's why in the women's sphere, when anyone asks if they can join us, I say as long as you follow the rules. I love when men join women in community and learn from it. I love my guy friendss because they know where they stand.

[00:01:24]>> Girl, same.

[00:01:25]>> They are extremely self-aware. They would see clear as day that this is a grown man who has been for a while recording these women who have told them to stop. He is now harassing and stalking them to the point of showing up at their work before they go in to call them from his car. And I'll even go as far as to say I don't care how you identify in that moment. That is someone who is terrifying.

[00:01:46]>> Yes, indeed. I don't care how you identify in that moment. That is terrifying. That behavior. Filming women without their consent. That is terrifying behavior. It doesn't matter what your identity is. That is terrifying behavior. Whoever does it, >> but it's a perfect example of how so many men just come out and then they stop unpacking because they think they're woke now, but they're still just wildly misogynistic and lack self-awareness. Indeed, some men come out with new identities and they think they're so self-aware, but they're just wildly misogynistic. Girl, we agree so much here. Some men claim whole new identities and they think this gives them a special privilege to bypass the consent of women and girls in our single sex spaces. But just because they are so woke, just because they claim a new identity, uh they are just as misogynistic as other men when they do the behavior of bypassing our consent.

[00:02:48]And I talk a lot about how I've had a number of different level stalkers, some lowlevel, recently a few highle. But two that I would classify as mid to almost maybe high tier, cuz one of them really did scare me. They were gay men. And one of the things that I do think makes it worse is that when you call them out, they will weaponize their identity to lack any self-awareness of how realistically scary that is slash was for me.

[00:03:11]>> And I am so sorry for this because this experience that she has had is genuinely scary. That is a genuinely scary experience. And I completely understand because I have had the exact same thing with men who claim trans identities where they have said they are going to come to my house and k i l me. They have threatened my life. And it was genuinely scary. And when I called them out, they weaponized their identity and had no self-awareness about how genuinely scary that was for me. I mean, girl, we are just like for like here.

[00:03:46]>> At the end of the day, you are stalking me to the same degree, if not more, than many of the crazy straight men who do.

[00:03:53]>> Yes. Yes. The behavior is just as bad as if any other man did it. The behavior of men violating the integrity of women's single sex spaces is just as bad as if any other man was doing it. It doesn't make a difference what your identity is.

[00:04:10]If you do predatory behavior, you're a predator. That's the thing.

[00:04:15]>> And that is still really terrifying to any woman.

[00:04:19]>> I mean, we went all the way through and you can see that I agree with her point for point for point for point for point.

[00:04:25]I agree with everything that she is saying and yet she can't seem to extrapolate all of these points that she has made about when gay men have predatory behavior to when men who claim trans identities have predatory behavior. And she posted this right here where a woman in her own community called out men who claim trans identities and she couldn't get it. She could not get it. She got stuck. She she could get it as far as it went to gay men, but it when it went over to other men, she thinks there is a special category of man who gets to bypass the consent of women and girls.

[00:05:05]That's what she thinks. And I hope that she might see this and begin to get it because these men are men. Men are men are men. These men are men based on their physical bodies. I don't care what their identities are. I care what their bodies are. I care that they are men.

[00:05:23]And I'm sorry that they reject their sex, you know. I I but that's not my business. Uh I am not their mental uh health cure. I am not their psychological treatment plan. I'm not their human shield from other men.

[00:05:38]Nothing gives these men the right to bypass my consent. Nothing gives these men the right to violate my boundaries.

[00:05:45]Nothing gives the men the right to do something that I would not accept from any other man. All men are men. A man is a man as a man is a man.