I'm Not Her 'Sugar Daddy' But She Has Major Daddy Issues | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

Added: 2026-05-12

[00:00:00]This is my boyfriend Ola. I'm 58.

[00:00:02][music] I'm 37. Major daddy issues. It's not a good look for other people because I'm black and he's older. It's so many judgmental [music] stare. People think that he's my sugar daddy. I was of course a little bit skeptical [music] at the beginning.

[00:00:21]What's the deal? Welcome to my closet.

[00:00:24]Here's my shoes. I don't know how many shoes I have because I don't count. I'm just buying >> [music] >> whatever I like.

[00:00:32]My name is Bonchie. I'm a model and I make spicy content. I just love to [music] dress up and just make people jealous. That's what I do.

[00:00:43]>> [laughter] >> I love pink as you guys can see. This one is one of my faves. I cannot walk on this one, but I do content with them.

[00:00:52]This is my boyfriend Ola. Sometimes he dress me [music] up. So, today he's going to help me to pick some outfit for the photo shoot.

[00:01:03]How about this, daddy?

[00:01:05]Yeah.

[00:01:05]>> That's nice. Yeah.

[00:01:07]I love this. Yeah. The one that is tall.

[00:01:10]Mhm.

[00:01:11]And maybe I can wear this.

[00:01:16]Mhm. Mhm.

[00:01:18]That's true. I I've been a photographer in 20 years and uh Bonchie is my number one model all the time. I love when she dress like this.

[00:01:33]You love when I have this dress that I own. She love her daddy.

[00:01:37]>> [laughter] >> Major daddy issues. Yeah. Oh.

[00:01:42]Yes, I do have that. We've been together 3 years. I'm 58. I'm 37. It's so many judgmental stare. People think that he's my sugar daddy. It's not that. We just love to be together. I never call him Ola.

[00:02:00]In front of my family, my friends, I always say "Daddy".

[00:02:05]What do people say about the age gap?

[00:02:08]People have a lot to say. In the beginning, they were like, "Oh, how can you be together with him? [music] Be careful because he's older than you and maybe he's using you." And people like think that he's a nerd and some people can think that I'm using him. It's not a good look for other people because I'm black and he's older.

[00:02:29]I'm like, "No, I love this." Sometimes, in the beginning, I was like, I felt a shame. As long as I know that we are happy and that's the only thing that matters. So, I don't feel ashamed anymore. What did you post? I posted [music] this one.

[00:02:47]Yeah, that's a good one. Some people can be like, "Oh, she's she will be on the drag race next time [music] because my look is very extra." Otherwise, so I only have positive comments. I have clothes on this one, but it's still hotness. I had comments like, "Hot, hot, hot, hot, hot."

[00:03:11]"Fire, fire, fire, fire, fire." What inspired me to do the spicy contents was I found somewhere I can be myself without getting judged. I get some money from it, too, so I can buy more shoes.

[00:03:26]My look is sexy, sassy, beautiful, Barbie, bimbo, >> [music] >> and awesome. It takes maybe 3 hours, sometimes 5 hours.

[00:03:38]>> [laughter] >> Better come late than [music] ugly. I have [clears throat] a lot of wigs because I can just choose who do I want to be today. I want to be Sarah, Linda, or Raya. It depends on the mood. I think women should spend more time to take care of themselves. Other people hate me and I don't care because they're ugly.

[00:03:59]>> [laughter] >> That's why they hate. I'm not 80% natural. The 10% is my lips and my boob.

[00:04:08]I want to do more. I want to have this Barbie look-ish. [music] I want to make my breasts huger, like bigger. I have spent $7,000 on my look. Very worth [music] it and I want to spend more. People out there, they see me as the inspiration. Yes, I am obsessed with my own look. Have you seen me?

[00:04:31]>> [laughter] >> Oh my god. Yes, [music] I am so obsessed with myself. Yes, if I saw myself on street, I'd be like, "Damn, girlfriend."

[00:04:41]I fell in love immediately. I love extra and I love [laughter] Bambi.

[00:04:46]Aw, hmm.

[00:04:47]I love you, Daddy. He's my biggest fan.

[00:04:50]It's very good to know that I have some someone who have my back and who just loves me for who I am. We don't harm anyone. We just love what we are doing.

[00:05:13]Yeah.

[00:05:14]That's a wrap. Yeah.

[00:05:17]So, my best friend Maralyn is coming over. We are going to go out and take some drinks. But first, I have [music] to change and I want to convince her to try some of my high heels. I don't think she will handle it, but I just want to see [music] her fall. I've been knowing her since we were 13. Has Bambi always been kind of out there?

[00:05:41]Yeah.

[00:05:41]>> [laughter] >> I know when a lot of people see her, they're like, "Okay.

[00:05:47]I wish I could do that. People are afraid to, you know, just express themselves and be themselves. Would you ever dress like she dresses? No.

[00:05:57]>> [laughter] >> I don't It's not me. It's It's not me.

[00:06:02]Although I appreciate the beauty of seeing other [music] people dressing like this.

[00:06:08]I was of course a little bit skeptical at the beginning. He's a little bit older than what I've seen before, so [music] what's the deal? After a couple of months and then a couple of years, I'm like, "Okay, this guy is great." They uplift each other. They have been people >> [music] >> that's been like, "Why is she with this old white guy?" Like, "Okay, but >> [music] >> why are you with this ugly man?" This takes me to some gay club [music] somewhere in the dungeons of Brooklyn. Not that many people would die for this closet. It's time to get dressed and [music] go out and have some drinks. Are you going to go out with him? Oh, she can dream on, but I will not wear those shoes. No.

[00:06:55]>> [music] >> No. No. No. No. No.

[00:06:58]I know that I'm going to end up in the hospital. Ready for some sh- I've been I've been ready. Yeah. Let's kill them.

[00:07:13]What do you love about me? Everything.

[00:07:15]Don't say my boobs and my ass.

[00:07:17]>> [laughter] >> I love everything. I love that you're fun. [music] Yeah. I am.

[00:07:22]Yeah. I am fun. The future is bright.

[00:07:26]Sexy and nasty. Higher heels.

[00:07:29]Bigger boobs. Bigger lips.

[00:07:32]Bigger More up there. Yeah. That's my future plans. Have you got anything that you'd say to haters out there?

[00:07:41]I don't have anything to say to them.

[00:07:43]It's like they're ugly, that's why they hate.