This video explores Thai dating culture through an interview with a 20-year-old Thai woman named Norify, revealing that modern Thai women in Bangkok expect partners to be financially stable (around 30,000-100,000 THB monthly income), prefer older, more mature men, and value open-mindedness over traditional views on intimacy. Key cultural insights include the Mia Noi tradition (wealthy men having second wives), the importance of hygiene and communication in relationships, and the expectation that men should be providers who pay for dates and shared expenses. The interview also covers preferences for sexual compatibility, including size, technique, and positions, while highlighting red flags like excessive cursing and poor hygiene.
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20 cm >> It's possible to be that small?
>> Can you see it on my face?
>> Never experienced that.
>> Okay, we can [music] speak about behind camera.
>> He's not going to let me pay.
>> Probably we should go to shower, right?
5 minutes. Maybe he will be so excited.
>> It is a problem. Are you asking me if I ever like fake [music] when I come?
>> Yeah.
>> [music] >> So, hello.
>> Hi.
>> My name is Marcel. I'm from Russia.
>> Okay.
>> Sawasdee krap.
>> Sawasdee ka.
>> Sawasdee krap. We in Thailand in Bangkok, guys. And what is your name?
Beautiful girl.
>> Norify.
>> Norify. Something about Wi-Fi. Norify.
It's like next generation of Wi-Fi.
>> No.
>> How old are you?
>> 20.
>> So, you said me before you have already some stage, zero stage, right? It's like talking stage.
>> Yeah, talking stage.
>> we can see you single, right?
Talking stage it's >> Yeah, basically >> Sounds good. Talking stage.
>> Yeah, talking stage.
>> With foreigner.
Interesting.
>> Yeah, for >> Because because I think it's very rare when you have some talking stage with foreigner.
>> Mhm.
>> Do you have already kiss?
>> Yeah.
>> So, it's something interesting stage we can say.
>> But yeah, but nothing nothing crazy.
Like nothing crazy, okay?
>> Not so talking already, [laughter] right?
>> Not that crazy.
>> Did he suggest already to you to try something, next step, next stage? Did he offered for you already some next stage?
>> What do you mean?
>> Sex stage.
>> It's not going to happen.
>> She didn't suggest.
>> Not directly.
>> Okay, what he what he suggest not directly. It's very interesting.
>> [laughter] >> It is um do you want to do you want to hang out at home like my place?
>> Hang out at home?
>> Or something like that. But but >> I think it's very direct in mind.
>> No, actually I set my boundaries already. Like we're not going to do anything besides that.
>> How he's react?
>> He respects it.
>> Okay.
We will wait more.
>> [laughter] >> Something like that.
>> Yeah. Until we get into the relationship.
>> how you will understand when you ready for next stage?
>> When I decide to to be in a relationship.
>> But what if sex will be very bad? So you will not be ready for relationship.
>> I don't think so because I feel like we can talk about it. What what do you mean by it's bad?
>> Yeah, we can speak about more. Bad sex, okay.
>> Yeah. Like I I mean I mean like it's not it's not bad.
>> like size. Maybe it's not compatibility.
>> Okay, let's talk about the big big size doesn't matter.
>> But maybe it's too big.
And it's will be too painful.
>> Not sure. I don't have the experience of that.
>> Okay.
>> [gasps] [laughter] >> Maybe you will have in future.
>> We'll see.
>> What is more important in sex for you?
>> Oh, well we >> Energy, something like that, chemistry.
Passion.
>> Not not just chemistry, but we we have to be compatible in terms of like mindset and goals.
>> You feel yourself more like open-minded girl or like conservative?
>> Open-minded. I'm so happy.
>> Do you have any but like borders in social sexual way? What will be okay for you and what will be not okay?
>> Probably not prison.
>> Okay. Did you have already somebody suggest for you? Like your maybe previous relationships, something like that.
>> No.
>> It's rather not depend who is will be like man or girl.
No?
>> No, no. Cuz I feel like sex for me it's like intimacy thing.
>> I mean what is it?
>> Intimacy.
>> Intimacy, yeah.
>> Yeah. And >> Between two persons, right?
Feeling two >> people. Yeah, I mean two to get to know one another and like shouldn't be something that you get to do it with anybody, you know, for me it's like that.
>> Yeah, I think so. I also actually I don't like it. At least extra man I will not like it because [laughter] it's weird for me. I think it's mixed, you know.
>> Yeah. First of all, I don't want to see naked guy >> Yeah.
>> around me.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, it's very a lot it's almost you gay, I think.
>> [laughter] >> I have no problem with gays, I mean like around, but I'm kind of straight and for me it's little bit problem.
>> Okay.
>> Maybe not little bit. And what is it?
You also can be if you have feelings for this girl, probably you will be also jealous or something, right?
I don't know, you should be I think very open person to do something like that, right?
>> Yeah, I'm not that open.
>> Or maybe if you really just want to experiment with some kind of like not with your exact partner, right? Like maybe if you just like single and they single, maybe something like that only maybe.
Just fun stuff, not in relationship. I can't see it.
>> Only for money.
>> What do you think about some experiments on the bed? You said before you don't like threesome, right?
>> Yeah.
>> But do you have anything what you like?
>> Not so traditional.
>> Anal sex?
>> No.
>> Okay. Interesting that. [laughter] >> I mean why would you want to do that?
Like >> It's just like something different.
>> No.
>> So but you tried you don't like it.
>> I don't like it. It's scary.
>> What about do you like some different styles like positions or you prefer just few favorite?
>> Uh >> For example, my favorite I think doggy style.
>> Mm.
>> And usually in sex maybe I prefer three or four positions.
>> I think I'm okay with anything which is not too crazy.
>> What do you think about food fetish?
>> Oh.
Never experienced that, but I think it's >> I don't >> okay if he likes so okay whatever.
>> [laughter] >> I mean if I don't have that and he has that so it's kind of like >> Mismatch.
>> Yeah, mismatch.
>> Mismatch. And what about uh sex toys? Is it like kind of popular in Thailand or I thought something it's like illegal or something, right? Or it's not here?
>> I think it's I think it's still illegal, but you can see a lot in Pattaya.
>> In Pattaya?
>> Yeah, by the street.
>> show?
>> Yeah, stuff like that. But actually if you go to Pattaya and then you walk on the street, you can just see like sex toys all over the place.
>> everything can be sex toy. You just putting everything to your vagina it's already sex toy.
Fork, bird.
>> Okay, that that makes sense, I guess.
>> How do you feel about toys? Is it okay for you or it's something like too much?
>> [gasps] >> Um.
>> Just relax.
>> Never.
>> Just [laughter] relax. Little bit I feel little bit of pressure or something.
>> I have never experienced it before so I can't really say.
>> Still have time.
>> Yeah, I'm not in a rush.
I'm not in a rush.
>> Let's speak more about dating, about this guy. You said he's foreigner, right?
>> Yep.
>> And uh where he's from?
>> I want to keep it as a secret for now.
>> Come on. It's nothing like uh I don't know adult content or something. It's just Okay, what? Let's go. Let's say.
>> Oh my goodness.
>> try guess.
He's from US?
>> In Asia.
>> What Why? What's the problem?
>> US.
>> You said he's from Asia.
>> Yeah.
>> Korea?
>> Nope.
>> [laughter] >> Okay, what we have? Japan?
>> Nope.
>> China?
>> Nope.
>> Interesting reaction. No. You have some any problem with China?
>> No, >> [laughter] >> not really.
>> Okay, and what is that? Vietnam?
>> No.
>> Philippines?
>> [laughter] >> You not sure where he is from?
>> Complicated, okay.
>> Malaysia?
Singapore?
>> No, somewhere there.
>> Taipei?
>> No.
>> Indonesia?
>> No.
>> So, he's from Asia, but >> Yes.
>> from where?
>> It's one of the countries you just said, but I'm not going to say that.
>> So funny riddles. Uh what about how did you met with him?
>> Through friends.
>> In friends?
>> Yeah, through friends.
>> In friends?
>> Like when when >> You friends?
>> My friends, yeah.
>> You was in friends?
>> No. I mean, we were We we were in Thailand, but I met him through my friends.
>> Ah, friends by friends.
>> Yeah, yeah, mutual friends.
>> Sounds boring. Okay.
>> Not boring.
>> [laughter] >> Okay. Okay. Uh did you have experience when you faking it orgasm?
>> Are you asking me if I ever like fake when I come?
>> Yeah.
>> That that sucks.
>> Maybe I thinking it sucks, yeah.
>> Yeah, it does suck.
>> So, but you didn't say like did you try? Did you had this experience or >> Yeah, yeah.
>> [laughter] >> Of course.
>> Ah, of course. Oh, okay. How often it's like?
>> Not often.
>> But it's What is the reason? Because you thinking like oh, it's we should finish it faster, it's very bad, or what is it?
>> It's just the awkwardness, you know.
>> No.
>> Yeah, like It's like Okay, give me some time.
I think >> No pressure.
>> Yeah, I think it's the pressure.
Like from I mean in the early stage, it's like you also expect >> Mhm.
>> something to be good or something like that, right? And >> Yeah, and I think guy also trying be better in his side.
>> Yeah, and and you just don't you were not mentally ready for for the talk, so you just stay quiet. I think that's how it is.
>> You're staying quiet.
>> Yeah.
>> Are we talking about same things?
>> Yeah, yeah. I mean stay quiet. I mean like just just do it. Like just pretend that it's like it's already happened, but actually it just it didn't happen, but like you just you were not ready to talk about it.
>> How often you doing it?
>> Not often. It's just the early stage.
>> Early stage.
>> Yeah, and after that like I said like >> "Oh, I I prefer like that or like that."
>> Yeah, yeah, yeah. You got to know each other more and then >> [laughter] >> So, it's more like easy to talk to, yeah, to talk about it.
>> Easy peasy Japanesey. And uh Why?
>> [laughter] >> Nothing. Keep going.
>> What do you think? Thumb in or thumb out?
>> What? What's that?
>> It's just riddle. You give me riddle, right? You gave me riddle before. I'm giving you right now. Thumb in or thumb out?
>> What was that? Thumb in thumb out?
>> Guys, if you know what is it, you can text the comments.
You know doggy style position?
>> Oh, okay.
And >> Thumb in or thumb out?
>> Time in or time out?
>> It's not time. It's thumb.
>> Thumb?
>> Yeah, it's a finger.
>> In and out. What What do you mean by in and out?
>> Uh big finger.
>> And >> It's a in >> Love it.
>> or out.
No, okay.
>> [laughter] >> Okay.
>> Sorry. You a bit of >> I never experienced that. Sorry.
>> Maybe you should try.
So, are you using dating apps?
>> I >> You tried?
>> I've tried, yeah.
>> I think probably yeah, next time you should try much more best application. Its name is findmate.app/marcel.
There have what a really nice features there.
>> Mhm.
>> Video verification.
>> Okay.
>> Which is I really like. There have a 5-second video and you can see exactly how, for example, she is looks >> Yeah.
>> in real life and her voice, for example, in Thailand it's important about voice.
>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> Do I need to >> [laughter] >> explain it?
>> Yeah.
>> Also, all profiles checking manually.
For example, if you will register there, you will like make something name, something like that, right? And after they will check it like 24 hours.
Especially for guys what's interesting.
There have nice mechanic. You, for example, buying some credits, 100 credits just $10, less than common tips in US. And you spending this points for messages and video calls.
And in this case girls very active. They also like speak with you and you don't need spend so much time for swiping and something like that. So, guys, if you really want to try it, link will be in in description.
And QR code will be right here.
>> Okay.
>> [laughter] >> We can also register you if you want.
>> No, it's okay. I'm good.
>> Uh you have some stage >> Yeah, going on.
>> [laughter] >> Yeah, we will see.
Some Asian country. I think you just making your mind some country [laughter] thinking you have some foreign >> You just have to find out.
>> Okay. What about you said before size doesn't matter, right?
>> Yeah.
>> And what if it's really small, you know, micro penis, something like that?
>> It really small, bro.
>> 1 in What like how many centimeters? Like 4 centimeters for example.
>> It's going to like it's possible to be that small?
>> Uh I don't know.
But okay, it's probably it's very rare.
Okay, let's pick more about like I don't know 8 centimeters.
>> How long is it?
>> Okay, it's around half this.
Something like that maybe.
>> Oh, okay, that's kind of small. But if you love that person, it shouldn't be a problem, I think.
>> Do you think so?
>> I I think so, yeah. But I never experienced that because >> You just 20, maybe you will have you will living in Asia. So what?
>> Um >> [laughter] >> Yeah, I you're right.
>> Yeah, I'm right. It's not my first interview, so I know a lot.
>> Okay.
>> Very small, maybe it's not problem, but you said if it's very big, it's also not problem. Like >> How how big is like >> every time every time you will feel some pain or something. Oh, how big? Okay, maybe like 9 in.
I don't know how many centimeters 20 centimeters.
>> Love it.
>> And you know, maybe he will be not so like gentle in this way because I think if you will be like slowly and something, maybe it's kind of working.
But if you every time you will be kind of rough >> I we we need to talk, I think.
>> Okay, we can speak about behind cameras.
>> I mean me and the guy should talk, you know? Like about that the size.
>> Um okay. Yeah, we start to speak about preferences. Guys, what is your preferences? Can you describe I don't know perfect guy for you. Maybe not perfect, but oh, this is good. This is [ __ ] and sucks.
>> I like older guys.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah, older guys. More mature.
>> 69 >> Huh?
>> S- How old?
>> [laughter] >> Just Just be older. Just Yeah.
>> Uh I'm 32.
>> 32 is not too bad.
>> It's okay, right? Okay, uh do you do have any limits like about age? I don't know, something like that.
How old is your boyfriend? Not really your boyfriend, he's something, right?
>> Yeah, he's [laughter] something.
>> How is your stage guy?
>> 20 22. He's still young, but >> Very old.
>> But but at least he's older.
>> Not so not really. I I don't see any difference between 20 and 22.
>> have talked to older guys, so I I think I like older guys.
>> Me?
>> No comments.
>> [laughter] >> Ah, okay. Be careful, stage guy. I'm also in some stage already, I guess.
[laughter] Okay, I have blitz questions.
It's uh you should you should make just some choice.
>> Yeah.
>> Money or amazing sex?
>> Money.
>> 10 minutes or 1 hour?
>> 10 minutes.
>> It's just a choice. Size or technique or technique?
>> Technique.
>> Dominant or submissive?
>> Dominant.
>> Shaved or natural?
>> Uh shaved.
>> Shaved? Biting or kissing?
>> Kissing.
>> Kissing? Ice or wax?
I had something kinky stuff, I think.
Ice or wax? You know, sometimes uh people using some wax or ice for some place, I think, on the bed.
>> I never >> Okay, okay. [laughter] If you never, it's okay. What do you think about face sitting? If guy will ask you, "Can you sit on my face?" Something like that.
>> Do you have like >> Yes or no?
>> Yes.
>> A rough spanking or gentle?
If you if you Okay, if you thinking question too much, you can skip if you want.
>> Skip.
>> Okay, last one. Swallow or spit?
>> [screaming] >> Skip.
>> So long thinking like >> Skip.
>> [laughter] >> Okay, it's uh was uh blitz questions. And what about time?
Timing? Duration?
>> Duration.
Uh >> okay.
>> Okay.
>> Okay. Do not ratchet.
>> What [snorts] is it? Ratchet?
>> Like you just enjoy it. Take your time. You don't have to like ratchet and make it like crazy.
Like >> No, I think but yeah, how I understood, people have different preferences about timing.
>> My preference is like you should care about me too, not just you coming or not.
>> Yeah, I think it's a very good. And 20 minutes, how do you feel? Is it around enough? What?
>> I never said the [laughter] alarm.
>> Alarm, yeah.
>> I I mean I never set the time. I >> But I think for some girls need not so much time for to come. For another maybe little bit more.
>> Mhm.
>> Mhm.
>> For me, I think it depends, but not too like short.
>> Short?
>> Short time.
>> Uh time?
>> Yeah, not not too I mean I I need some time.
>> [laughter] >> What if he will be very fast on the first date?
5 minutes, maybe he will be so excited.
Is it like problem?
>> It is a problem.
>> Wow.
>> [laughter] >> Sounds like you had experience.
>> It is a problem.
>> So, you will say something to him or what?
Like oh, I don't know what >> Not really.
>> You will you will is it will be minus point to him something like that?
Or you will think ah, it's okay. I I just try to understand, yeah. Is it like deal breaker for you or not?
>> Yeah, but I I think I think it's like if you are in the relationship with that person, you can talk about it later. But if you're just like doing it like >> But it's first sex. It's some stage.
>> It's some stage. So, it's like >> talking stage.
>> That's like that's like um not good.
It's not a good impression.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah.
>> Different way, different way. Maybe he was also so excited. And he was a little bit nervous, and he didn't get like hard, you know?
>> oh [ __ ] >> Yeah.
It [laughter] also can be. What do you think? Your reaction?
>> I think I would get upset. Like >> Will you say something, or you will try to understand him, or you will just say >> I just give him some time to >> To you will you will give him like another chance to show what he can, something like that?
>> Yeah. I mean I mean he just need to calm down.
>> Mhm.
>> And he just need the time.
>> Time, yeah.
>> Relax, you know? I think.
>> Uh in this case, can you like I don't know. For example, he couldn't get hard.
>> Yeah.
>> Can you try support him, like try to help him, maybe by hand, for example, or like [ __ ] or you will just finish it? Like okay, maybe we can try next time, something like that.
>> I think I'll try the first option first, and if still not working, then I think we need a lube break. You know.
>> Yeah, yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> What about money? Do you have like some model of roles in relationship?
Should a man be provider, or you prefer when it's like equal, like you're spending kind of same, maybe not exactly, but around? How do you like more?
>> I think I spend a lot of money. So a guy is supposed to be able to provide for himself and for me, too. Not like I'm not saying that he should provide for me, but he should have enough to take care of himself and to be in a relationship. Because why do you want to be in a relationship if you're broke?
>> What is the most big expense in relationships?
>> Like when we go out, when we hang out, or like special special occasion stuff.
>> Like some gifts?
>> Yeah, I do. That's my love language.
>> [laughter] >> What kind? Something expensive?
Luxury something?
>> No, that that's No, that doesn't have to doesn't have to be something expensive, >> just something meaningful.
>> Handcraft something.
>> Yeah, that's that's okay.
>> Masturbation, but handcraft also. So, he should be kind of like provider, we can say. Like maybe not totally, but >> Yeah.
>> What is it? 70/30?
60/40?
Yeah, I mean like he's like not exactly like everything paying, but generally, right?
>> Yeah, yeah. Right, right. Cuz like I said, I I make my own money.
>> rent an apartment together, should you pay should you split or he should pay?
>> I have my own apartment, so if he wants me to stay with him, he's supposed to pay.
>> He should pay to you?
>> Pay I mean pay the rent, not me, because he wants me to stay.
>> if you want to live in same apartment together and maybe you need bigger apartment, right?
>> Yeah.
>> How do you like split or you prefer he should pay?
>> Depends on the situation, but I think my man would pay.
>> Why?
>> Because he has the provider mindset.
He's not going to let me pay.
>> No. How much he should earn at least? We can say in Thai baht.
>> For a man?
>> Yeah, for relationship with you, for example.
You know, you say it uh before you say it for comfortable his life and also for kind of some entertainments, maybe restaurants. So, we can say about gifts, something, right?
>> Yeah.
>> Everything with money.
>> I don't have the exact amount in in my mind right now.
>> I can call amount, you will say yes or no.
>> Okay, all right.
>> 5,000 baht.
>> 5,000 baht?
>> Yeah.
>> No, that's not enough.
>> Okay, 10,000 baht.
>> Not enough.
>> Uh what is it? 20,000 baht.
>> Higher.
>> It's already it's higher, okay.
>> My kitty cat stopped drying.
>> 30,000 baht.
>> Higher.
>> I don't know how much is it, but it's already a lot, right? 50,000 baht.
>> Okay, that's not too bad.
>> It's not too bad, but it can be better, right?
>> Yeah, it can be better.
>> What is the This is really good. 100,000 baht.
>> That's good.
>> It's already good or it's still not enough?
>> It's good.
>> What about Mia Noi?
>> Mia Noi?
>> Mia Noi culture.
>> Oh, that's [ __ ] up.
>> Many rich men in Thailand have a second wife. Is it true?
>> Would you accept being a number two if if he provides luxury life?
>> No, I'd rather make my own money.
>> But do you have any like like friends or somebody who like what is it?
>> Yeah, I know a few people. I would say the culture is very [ __ ] up, but you do you girls. You know, it's like maybe they do that because they need the money and yeah, that's what they need for now.
>> You think it's not good?
>> It's not good.
>> Something from old generation stuff centuries.
Something like that.
>> I don't even think it's like the from the old generation. It's just it's just how >> Is it kind of like freelancers?
>> I think so, yeah.
>> Do you have any like red flags on the bed?
>> I do.
>> Nice.
>> Um if the guy curses too much.
>> What is his?
>> Curses.
>> What is it?
>> Like say some rude words all the time.
Like you know.
>> sex?
Like some dirty talk?
>> No, no. Curses like in general. Like while we talk, have a normal conversation and you just curse. That's like red flag.
>> Like [ __ ] [ __ ] something >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, all the time.
What the [ __ ] >> But what about bed?
Red flags on the bed.
>> Okay.
Um >> Hygiene for example.
>> Hygiene, yeah, hygiene.
>> Is it >> [laughter] >> like is it like very important or it's like >> It is very important.
>> It is very important.
>> prefer every time go to shower first and he should go to also >> Um >> You're very serious. Relax.
>> [laughter] >> I'm just thinking, you know, cuz like I I feel like maybe not shower right away before doing it, but like you just you just you just need to be clean and >> For example, right now probably we should go to shower, right? If we will have sex.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah, sounds good. I mean like sex is usually kind of like hot countries.
>> Depends on the situation.
>> If guy kind of submissive, does it turns you off also or you like it? He likes when >> That's a turn off.
>> when you maybe like dominant girl or something like that.
>> That That's a turn off.
>> Turn off? You prefer when he's a strong dominant guy?
>> Yeah.
>> Doing hard some work.
>> [laughter] >> We know the answer.
>> Yeah, okay. Thank you for you. It was kind of funny actually interview. I think also our guys little bit understood dating culture in Thailand >> Yep.
>> in like modern way like in Bangkok, for example. If you like this video, you can What is it? Put some thumbs up.
Text some comments and you can subscribe and something. Thank you.
>> Yeah.
>> And thank you for you.
>> Thank you. Also I'm open to work.
>> open to work.
>> Yeah, open to work.
>> Which in which role like what?
>> Yeah, of course. We can put link in description or something.
>> Okay.
>> All people [laughter] can subscribe and text >> Okay.
>> maybe they have some offers.
>> Thank you.
>> [music]
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