Myron Gives Her a Brutal Reality Check About Her Standards for Marriage!

[00:00:00]All right, I [laughter] got a question for the girls real fast. How many of you want to get married? Do all of you guys want to eventually get married? All of you? All right, sweet. Okay, well, let's start here and then work our way. What are you actively doing right now to make yourself a better wife for that guy?

[00:00:11]>> I was just going to >> then one thing you're doing, >> what am I doing?

[00:00:15]>> Yeah, if anything, if you're not doing anything, that's fine.

[00:00:18]>> I would say me more of working on things I need to do more than focused on, you know, somebody else more. So >> the question is, what are you doing right now >> to make yourself a better wife that benefits him?

[00:00:30]>> I'm not worried about getting married.

[00:00:32]So I'm not really focused on >> So nothing, you know?

[00:00:34]>> Yeah.

[00:00:35]>> All right, great. What about you?

[00:00:36]>> I mean, me, I'm keeping myself like emotionally reserved. Like I I talk to some guys, but then deep down I think to myself, one day I'm going to marry somebody, and I don't want to give the same love that I'm giving to this stranger to my future husband. So, I'm just kind of like reserving my heart and I'm trying not to get too >> You're just not going to suck their dick with the same veracity. Fantastic. What about you?

[00:01:02]>> Yeah. I'm just going to cut through all the [ __ ] cuz I've been I'm not going to lie. I've been frustrated listening to you guys just say a bunch of dumb >> keep them wanting more.

[00:01:07]>> Like um are we on TikTok still? Move these on TikTok over to over to Kick uh or or Rumble. Um so I could say what I really want to say because I've been holding back.

[00:01:17]>> Um what about you? What are you actively doing to make yourself a better wife for a guy in the future? right now learning how to like cater to my man.

[00:01:25]>> How so?

[00:01:26]>> Like in terms of whatever he needs, not just like physically or sexually, but emotionally too.

[00:01:31]>> Okay. How are you doing that when you haven't had a boyfriend before?

[00:01:34]>> I mean, like I said, I talk to guys and like I'm trying to work on my communications, too. So, >> I [laughter] don't like I've been paying attention to all you guys. You guys are >> Oh, you know. Yeah. It's it's >> honestly I I uh this is why I'm a big advocate for taking women's rights away because you guys are all [ __ ] >> but um but it's fine. We'll have a conversation about it because it's because it's interesting to kind of see the discrepancy between like you know how the road war works versus like how you guys view things and how you kind of like look at things but it's fine.

[00:02:04][snorts] Um so for you, you said you were trying to find a way to cater to a guy. What have you discovered so far then?

[00:02:10]>> Um now I'm realizing like I'm stubborn.

[00:02:14]I don't listen too much. So, >> so you don't cater at all?

[00:02:18]>> Well, I'm that's what I'm trying to learn. I'm trying to work on it.

[00:02:20]>> Okay. So, you're learning how to listen more.

[00:02:22]>> Yes. So, you're cold. You're coldarted.

[00:02:26]>> I guess you should say that.

[00:02:27]>> How did you discover that you have a listening problem?

[00:02:30]>> Oh. Um, someone I was talking to for couple weeks, I realized like every time they would say tell me to do something or I just wasn't with it, I just would look at them dumb.

[00:02:40]>> That's That's interesting.

[00:02:42]>> So, you just wouldn't do it and you look at them crazy.

[00:02:44]>> Yes. Yes. And then what would they say back to you?

[00:02:46]>> They just start trying to argue with me.

[00:02:48]>> Oh, they would argue back and forth.

[00:02:49]Yeah.

[00:02:51]>> Okay. Interesting. Okay. So, you just don't listen or obey >> pretty much. Okay, >> queen.

[00:02:58]>> That's a bad interesting >> running. [laughter] That's a bad >> Yeah. All right. What about you? What are you doing actively uh to make yourself a better wife for a guy that benefits him?

[00:03:08]>> Like I said earlier, trying to get out of the SW world. Is that okay to say?

[00:03:14]>> Yeah.

[00:03:15]>> No, no, you can say whatever you want now.

[00:03:17]>> Okay. Okay. Trying to get out of the industry completely.

[00:03:19]>> We're on YouTube still, but who gives a YouTube? [laughter] >> Okay.

[00:03:22]>> Say what you got.

[00:03:22]>> I was trying to be respectful. Um and then yeah, just work on my own skills.

[00:03:27]Uh I >> So get out of the sex industry.

[00:03:30]>> Yeah. Yeah. And then um uh uh continue building my business up and also just Yeah.

[00:03:36]>> Well, the question is that explicitly benefit that like benefits? That's what I'm saying to like give up that to have a proper business I think is way number one way more respectful. It still won't fix anything. So that's showing respect to like say like hey I'm going to choose a proper job. Yeah I have to clock in like 12 hours but whatever like I'm going to take that and work over the quick easy money. I'm like trying to you can't buy your respect back but you can put the work into it you know. And then also just working on myself uh because of Moring background like I was taught to be very codependent and not independent and that's a skill that I think it's important because I can't be a wait is this from I can't be a child mindset forever you know like you have to grow up and you have to learn how to be an adult and >> so let's go through this one more time.

[00:04:22]So the first thing is leaving the sex industry.

[00:04:24]>> Yeah. Number one >> that benefits him.

[00:04:26]>> Yeah. Of I mean of course it's already mad disrespectful if I even try to approach a dude. Like imagine I go like I really like you but here's what I do for work. You know like that's not what I want in life. It's okay for other people. Uh it's not what I want and that's you know >> I would argue being in it in the first place is already cooked.

[00:04:43]>> Yeah. I I get that doesn't matter. Like >> I mean everyone's opinions are different on the topic as well. Like our opinions.

[00:04:49]Okay. All right. Listen. Let me be very >> How about you just shut up while I talk?

[00:04:53]Let me be very candid with you. Your your past absolutely matters. Like >> I never said it didn't >> when it comes to a guy. So like you leaving isn't really going to benefit him. I would argue if anything it's going to hurt him because at some point it's going to come out whether you tell him the truth and say, "Hey, I used to do this." Or you don't and then he finds out through somebody else. But >> the video is always going to be out there. People are always going to say something and it's always going to be brought up. I >> I never said I would lie though. I mean I'm I'm never going to be >> What I'm saying is that you getting out is going to benefit him is what I'm trying to say.

[00:05:21]>> Basically saying if you leave anyway >> Yeah. It doesn't matter.

[00:05:24]>> Like that doesn't benefit him. I still think that stopping all of that type of work, it it's beneficial in a sense of showing respect to my man and I think that's the most important part. Not only that, it will take away stress, but like it's just disrespectful to him. And that's what's important based off your question. You asked me, what am I going to do to benefit and like cater to having a husband one day and it means sacrificing everything that is not okay towards him? And for me and my values, that's that. I don't know you could say that I don't have values due to what I do, but when it comes down to the basis of who I sleep in my bed with for the rest of my life and that I, you know, commit myself to, I think to me that's important. And it's okay if you disagree.

[00:06:01]>> What's the most important thing for you when you're like assessing a guy in your opinion? What's like important?

[00:06:07]>> Um, well, there's several things, but mindset, discipline, um, character, uh, could be character development as well.

[00:06:14]I think it's really interesting to see how someone's grown, the mistakes they've made, um the things they believe in, core values. Uh >> all right. It seems like you're looking at things that like are big predictors on a future.

[00:06:25]>> Yes, obviously. Of course. You know, I I think it makes sense. Just like if when they look at me like like you said, you're already cooked. Like I'm very clearly aware of that. So it's like I should also be looking into someone and see like, okay, if I will devote myself to you, I want to see where you're going to lead us. Especially I want a family one day, which I know that might also be another thing. I I understand. I understand. [screaming] I I understand fully and it's still something I highly I'm not sure if one day I could do, but I I would like, you know.

[00:06:54]>> So, all right. So, it seems like cuz you mentioned discipline and you know these certain things that like are very big predictors on someone's future. Yeah.

[00:07:01]>> Um so, you're interested in a guy with like a promising future then. Would that be fair to say?

[00:07:05]>> Um well, of course, but not monetarily.

[00:07:08]Like whatever he's able to do to himself. I mean, you can laugh and giggle as much as you want, but I love >> No, no, because because women are fantastic at like dressing up like their interest in money in different ways, but that's fine.

[00:07:19]>> I'm I'm just being honest. I You don't have to take it. I know there's a lot of different stories and scenarios that are painted here and and I'm sure you've seen thousands.

[00:07:26]>> What does discipline lead to?

[00:07:28]>> Discipline leads to a promising life.

[00:07:31]>> Promising in what way?

[00:07:32]>> Character de development. Like how who you are, what you do.

[00:07:35]>> What does having discipline and uh character like lead to as a guy? More than likely >> confidence. success.

[00:07:41]>> Okay. But okay, >> respect.

[00:07:43]>> Okay. But how is that success in that respect garden?

[00:07:45]>> It literally depends on what he does with it. That also comes from like having um excuse I'm having a hard time translate right now, but motivate. It's not motivation the word that I'm looking for, but um what a drive.

[00:07:58]>> Ambition. Thank you.

[00:08:00]>> Yeah. What does that all equate to at the end of the day?

[00:08:03]>> Well, it depends on the person. I mean, it's kind of like it's pretty general.

[00:08:06]If you're >> What is the metric of success for a guy?

[00:08:09]I I mean once again you're like stereotypic pulling it. Well, no, it's not money. It's about the promise of a good life that could be you don't have to be the richest, but you have the right things in life, you know?

[00:08:20]>> All right. See, this is why I don't like talking to women because you guys don't mean what you say or mean what you say.

[00:08:26]You You guys don't like mean what you say or say what you mean. Let's be very honest about this. Women Women are interested in a man's status, his ability to earn, acquire resources, >> acquire resour like cuz here's the thing. Women say, "I want a guy that's disciplined, ambitious, blah blah." What the [ __ ] does that all equate to? His ability to earn income. So, let's just like stop dancing around it. And like, you obviously care a lot about money.

[00:08:47]That's why you stop doing what you're doing to earn money. So, obviously, the man that you deal with, he's going to have to care about money, too. You're not going to >> about money. You don't want to be homeless.

[00:08:56]>> No, they don't.

[00:08:56]>> No, they don't.

[00:08:57]>> I said it don't care about money right now.

[00:08:59]>> Say that again.

[00:09:00]>> No, I said all people care about No one wants to be homeless. Like, >> you can't you can't put a certain price on. That's fine. But like what I'm trying to say is like women don't aren't honest about like that's what what matters. Like I'll be like oh what trace do you want in a guy? They'll say I want XYZ ambition, discipline, blah blah blah, you know, uh wanting to want more.

[00:09:17]That all equates to wanting more money.

[00:09:18]And that's fine. There's nothing wrong with that. But I get it. Like women don't like to say that over it comes off as like very gold diggerish and pompous and like you only care about material things. But that's the truth. That's what women care about. And I know well for you the amount of money you make, there's no way you're gonna give that up for some guy that's a brokeie making 50k per year or something like that. He's gonna have to make a significant amount of money for you to actually give up what you're doing right now. And um >> 4K a month's not that bad if you have two incomes combined together as you're working. My thing is I got two income if there's two people.

[00:09:49]>> Okay.

[00:09:49]>> I I >> Okay. What do you mean?

[00:09:51]>> You're you're not going to quit doing what you're doing to get with a guy that's making like $50,000 a year, bro.

[00:09:55]Like you're just not like >> see >> you you want data broki is what he's saying. So just just >> pretend. She's trying to dance around like be honest. Just just say it. But just >> I come from that thing like and they had beautiful love. My family has beautiful love.

[00:10:07]>> But not anymore. But not anymore. That's what I'm saying.

[00:10:09]>> So what's the ideal guy?

[00:10:11]>> But that doesn't matter. Like I'm sorry.

[00:10:12]Like you can walk into a room where you consider high value men because they have watches, Rolexes, whatever, cars.

[00:10:17]But also like what if someone in this studio right here meets someone up?

[00:10:20]There's thousands of guys that are >> I know those are the the whatifs, but like seriously. Yes.

[00:10:24]>> That are not rich that would date you right now. Why don't you just stop doing Only Fans now?

[00:10:28]>> Yeah.

[00:10:29]>> Would I have to get to know them first?

[00:10:31]Yes.

[00:10:31]>> Yeah, sure.

[00:10:32]>> That doesn't mean that just So, you want me to run through a thousand dates?

[00:10:35]>> I'm not I'm not multiple guys.

[00:10:38]>> Well, you just I'm going based off what you said, but I'm not in the moment to wanting to talk to people. Also, like >> it's >> Anyway, let me go with where I was going with this. Um, so the point I'm trying to illustrate here is that like it's very obvious you care about the guy's future, which is fine. I I would agree.

[00:10:53]I would argue that most care Yeah. Most women care about a man's future. Fair.

[00:10:58]>> Let me say let's say you you met a let's say you met a guy, right? But you had a crystal ball. You knew that like in 3 years he was going to become an alcoholic and poor. Let's say he makes a lot of money now. But you had a crystal.

[00:11:08]>> Will he go to rehab?

[00:11:09]>> What's that?

[00:11:09]>> Will he go to rehab?

[00:11:10]>> No, he's going to >> Will he work on himself?

[00:11:12]>> No, he's just going to drink and party and >> Yeah.

[00:11:15]The partying's not going to work anyways.

[00:11:17]>> Like Chris, you know, like like him.

[00:11:18]Yeah.

[00:11:19]>> You're an alcoholic. [laughter] >> You couldn't tell.

[00:11:22]>> What? Me? Alcoholic?

[00:11:23]>> Well, no. I don't know him.

[00:11:25]>> Anyhow. Yeah. So, yeah. Well, the guy's attractive, but like you know that he's going to become a bum and alcoholic and in 3 to 5 years he's going to be broke and he's not going to want to go to rehab. Would you stay with him?

[00:11:36]>> Are you sure you won't go to rehab?

[00:11:37]Like, for sure.

[00:11:38]>> No. You have the crystal voice says no.

[00:11:39]>> Oh, okay. Okay. Um, well, no. I wouldn't be with someone who's an alcoholic for yourself.

[00:11:43]>> Fair. So like >> alcohol and like drug abuse is like a no for me.

[00:11:48]>> All right. So uh so you know like what his future is so you would not get with him, right?

[00:11:52]>> For that part. Yeah. I mean he could be broke though but like we could build something up.

[00:11:56]>> I I know you don't like hearing that and I get it.

[00:11:58]>> You're full of [ __ ] but it's fine. I mean you're full of built businesses up.

[00:12:02]>> Yeah. You're full but it's fine. You're very I can tell you're very prrained.

[00:12:06]So, um, you know what I mean? She's getting like it's [laughter] PR, but >> how am I like it's just saying like they only say the politically correct thing every single time. So, just like you said that like you know if you knew that he was going to be a bum and destitute in 3 to 5 years and you know he had it all then he becomes alcoholic and doesn't want to go to rehab you and not date with him. That's exactly how men feel about girls that have like certain pasts.

[00:12:25]>> You should help him instead.

[00:12:27]>> That's honestly a very good thing for young young men should not be okay with what we do. should not force them to like tell you that I'm I'm saying cuz you're like oh cuz I asked you what would you do for your >> your future husband like that would benefit him and you said well I would I'd find a way to get out of this and it's like >> and work on myself like I'm kind of childlike I need to grow up I need to make sure that I come to him with peace I you know I'm a I'm a girl I am in a world that's very dramatic like there's certain things that I don't think yet I deserve a good man and that's what I'm trying to say and they do exist >> why don't you think about dating a guy that also does Only Fans >> cuz I don't WANT THAT FOR MYSELF.

[00:13:07]>> I DON'T WANT TO DO THAT.

[00:13:08]>> THERE WE GO.

[00:13:09]>> OKAY. The truth goes out. This is what we need. The truth guy who does drug so so it's funny because I've been around the industry for a little bit, right? You know, I've been dabbing my foot here and there just like watching from afar. You know what I'm saying? Uh not like that. You know what I'm saying? And uh very [laughter] far. And uh it's come to my attention that a lot only fan girls will say things like this on front of a camera cuz it sounds good. But in reality, you actually date people that you match with. For example, moneywise, you're not dating a broki because that would deteriorate everything you work for.

[00:13:42]He's going to take your money, finesse you, and you're going to end up with pretty much like not much after that.

[00:13:47]So, you need guys on your level or above. Pretty much above. And if the guy's below you, you don't you don't like So you're you're stating that my likeness is about the income and not so because I said I want to work with a I guess a worker like no I don't want to be dragged into more of that. I want I want out of that I don't but you know >> but he's just saying for example be honest because >> I I am being honest though like I'm sorry that it's not the correct terms that you guys want to hear or answers like but not everyone is not about brainwashed.

[00:14:18]>> So what kind of career guy would you date that like a doctor? No, I'm not going for that either. It's whoever eventually that I when I decide that I am in the right stance and I'm doing good and I think that I'm ready to, you know, not embarrass myself with someone that I want to try looking for.

[00:14:35]>> But you you've made enough money to stop now, haven't you?

[00:14:38]>> I'm sure I'm sure you have.

[00:14:39]>> I'm not at the amount that I need to be able to have like at least 15k come back to me for the next like 20 years. So, no, I'm not there. Um, >> but you're pretty close. not there. But I >> Either way, my point is is that you're not a brok You're not going to get a broki for sure. That just that's just standard. You're not >> I don't if I'm older. I don't know.

[00:15:01]Well, what is brokie? Like you're saying 50k 50k is 4k a month.

[00:15:05]>> Well, like after taxes like that's [snorts] >> you're not doing that. Keep it real.

[00:15:09]>> I mean, is he nice?

[00:15:10]>> You could do it right now.

[00:15:12]>> But I don't want to date yet. That's what I'm saying. Like I don't think I have a good girlfriend.

[00:15:16]>> You'll date Broki then. broky or wait, whatever money you have.

[00:15:22]>> See, here's the thing. I don't want to sound like an [ __ ] but like >> No, you can't sound like an your podcast.

[00:15:26]>> Yeah. No, but like I I understand. I know you do realize that like I know women better than they know themselves, right? You're 22 years old. Your income's only going to go up. As your income goes up and you get older, your standards are going to go up alongside your age, your income, and your status.

[00:15:40]>> And I also did this test for like what I do and the reason why I need to >> Sure. But but the point I'm trying to make is your standards are going to go up as you age and as you make more money. So as your standards go up, >> right? Guess what? Your value kind of declines.

[00:15:55]>> So my age makes it decline, too. If you want to like talk with the whole, you know what I mean?

[00:16:00]>> What?

[00:16:00]>> The older you get as a woman and then my values go down. And then of course, like there's a whole list if you want to name them.

[00:16:06]>> Yeah. Sure. So So think about that.

[00:16:08]You're you're making more money, you're getting older, your standards going up, but your market value is going down. So, if anything, it's going to be harder for you to find a guy later on, and you're gonna have more content out there, too.

[00:16:19]So, like, yeah. Do you not see like kind of how you're burning the candle on both ends, but saying like, "Oh, I'll find a guy." Like, your standards are only going to go up. So, you're saying you'd settle for a guy that makes 50K. We know that's not going to happen right now.

[00:16:29]So, it's definitely not going to happen four years from now either.

[00:16:31]>> Like, I don't know. I I like >> And then a guy that makes 50K, he's going to be a regular guy. He's not going to be able to accept you like being on internet like, >> you know, stuff. I'm very aware of that.

[00:16:39]And that's why I'm not dating cuz I I would like a normal guy one day. when you decide to enter the marketplace, I'm saying it's going to be even harder.

[00:16:47]>> Again, am I? And that's just once again a consequence I've accepted.

[00:16:50]>> If I was a guy, I wouldn't mind dating an OF fan or a >> female. You wouldn't be a guy I'd want to date. [laughter] >> Like, you know, too, cuz like she said that she doesn't want to date OF guys.

[00:17:00]Imagine how a dude feels about dating an OF girl.

[00:17:02]>> Yeah. Imagine our body count doesn't even matter. Our sex doesn't even matter. Like, like because here's a here's a thing that women need to understand, right? No guy wants to walk into a room with a girl and everyone's like, "Oh, oh, I've seen her naked before or whatever." Like, that's incredibly embarrassing and very >> it's emasculating. It's like It's horrible. It's the worst thing ever.

[00:17:23]Everything worst thing ever.

[00:17:24]>> Cook almost.

[00:17:25]>> Yeah. So, it's like I don't think women understand like this deep level of like um shame that men experience with like being with the wrong girl and then like like your girl's like on the internet doing it. It's like oh [ __ ] You know what I mean?

[00:17:36]>> Yeah. That's well that's comes back to the story as to why >> I would just be as very jealous as a man if she was >> you wouldn't be jealous. You'd be sometimes men are appalled or >> I saw that video. It was too long.

[00:17:47]>> They like the girl but then they have to be done with her cuz they're like I respect myself more than this. And it could really suck cuz you could like someone.

[00:17:53]>> Question. Your work partner may more than you or less than you?

[00:17:59]>> I don't know actually.

[00:18:01]>> What do you think?

[00:18:02]>> Well, he's a guy but he works with a lot of girls. So, >> but would you would you have dated him?

[00:18:07]>> Oh, we tried. We tried. Um I had a girlfriend at a time. We tried to have a trouble. We tried twice. Uh cuz like I said, I'll date girls cuz of course, you know, I want emotional attachment to someone.

[00:18:17]>> But let's for example, you wanted maybe to go out to shopping or dinner, he would cover it, right?

[00:18:22]>> No, we could split. Like I don't >> you split?

[00:18:26]>> Well, yeah. Or sometimes you'll buy like coffee every like he doesn't give a [ __ ] about her. They're just >> like come on, man. Like come on. You know this. smash. Well, some guys try to like be a boyfriend, >> but he doesn't give [ __ ] >> No, no. I like I said, I understand a job, you know? It's >> Yeah, he just like she just like they just literally >> the trouble didn't work.

[00:18:45]>> But then maybe you guys become best friends and then in the future like in 10 years >> that's not realistic. Fall in love already. Like this whole idea that I can find someone is delusional and I get that, but that is like >> even worse >> in the stars. [laughter] Look look look look I'm just keep it a million with you. Um, you being a trad wife for a man that you like, respect, and admire is slim to none. Just being very clever.

[00:19:07]You're gonna have to like >> change your name, have a fake identity, go off in a farm somewhere, and pray to God that that guy doesn't know who you are.

[00:19:14]>> That's that's the only way. If you as a girl, like if you've done porn or only fans, the only way you're going to be able to find a guy that's like worth a damn that you respect and you like and isn't like some is you're going to have to basically I don't go [ __ ] this like it's YouTube who gives a [ __ ] Anyway, um you're going to have to basically like change your name, be on a form somewhere, and like lie about who you are.

[00:19:37]>> I fully I fully get that. And just like how the unrealistic thing of like I want the sex blah blah that the girls will say like it's the same idea, but like hopefully hopefully I can find that, you know, like >> is it depressing to think that way?

[00:19:50]Yeah, but like I try.

[00:19:51]>> We're going to have to lower standards significantly and get with like a more average guy that will accept that. But I like but >> but that's that's okay if that's what I found it >> and especially that tell you [laughter] let me tell you something about women that live in Miami that have been with high rollers that got experience a certain lifestyle y'all will never be able to go back to a regular dude ever >> but I haven't been but I I >> you have bro you've been model you've been places in South Beach you have >> yeah bro like here's the problem with women you guys can never go backwards like if you date a if you get into a certain caliber of guy you get a certain cal a certain caliber of lifestyle y'all can't go backwards it's it's impossible it's Like it's very difficult to like date a guy of a certain caliber and then like go backwards and deal with something else, especially when you've had more.

[00:20:31]This is why virgins do so well. The reason why virgins do so well is cuz they don't know better. Oh, this guy makes 20k per year, but he's the best.

[00:20:37]He's my first. You're going to stick to him. But like if a girl's like dated a bunch of guys before, she has comparison. She been on a private jet before. She been to Sanrope before.

[00:20:44]Whatever. She can always compare the man that she's with to dudes before. This is why women typically the more partners they have, the more men they've been with, the harder it is for a relationship to last. Because women always base the guy that they're with off of other men they've been around.

[00:20:56]They always compare everything. So I've always said it like if a girl gets accustomed to a certain lifestyle or certain class of men, it's over. That's why women have a type and they typically always stick with that type and it's very difficult for them to deviate from that. So I'm not trying to be an say you're cookest to a certain caliber of guy and unfortunately like a normal guy is just never going to do it for you. You're gonna get bored and be like, "What the [ __ ] This boring? I'm out of here."

[00:21:19]>> Well, I mean, isn't boring and safe and kind better than nothing? Like, loneliness does suck after a while.

[00:21:24]>> That would that would work if women weren't? But they are. And I'll explain why. The problem with women is they need this constant emotional turmoil from a man that like like agitates certain uh you know, emotional things. So women need to feel like, okay, I got a guy who's like attractive, but at the same time he keeps me on my toes, but at the same time he's a nice guy, but at the same time he's able to, you know, be a gentleman here, but then also be an here, put me on my place here. So in other words, you want a guy that can like kind of do it all. And the problem with that is that like >> a leader. Yeah.

[00:21:53]>> Yeah. But the saying leader won't ever pick me, >> right?

[00:21:57]>> Yeah, kind of. It's kind of >> I know. Like I said, it's a dream, but like I >> Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

[00:22:03]>> Not just that, but like um >> was that bad to say? I like leader.

[00:22:06]>> Well, yeah. And then then also it's like, you know, he's got to have like all these traits like he's got to be a bad boy, but at the same time be a nice guy, but then be a gentleman. It's like uh I call it like being the dark gentleman. Very few men have this ability to like >> turn on this ability to tell you to shut the [ __ ] up, but at the same time be a gentleman and give you roses on on your on your anniversary. Very few men can do that. And the guys that can do that, like, they typically are going to be very selective with the girl they get with.