In domestic violence cases, police must balance victim safety with victim autonomy, as victims may choose not to press charges even when injuries are present, and officers must recognize patterns of controlling behavior that may indicate ongoing danger regardless of the victim's current wishes.
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Added:SHE'S THE ONE THAT SHOT ME. WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.
>> [laughter] >> WAIT, PLEASE.
Look at what you DID, BRO. DON'T TOUCH ME.
Don't touch me. It's your fault. Wait.
Don't touch me. I'm not going anywhere.
>> Stay here. This controlling girlfriend beat up her boyfriend and the cops would save him from her. Women like to talk too much sometimes. Quick to anger.
>> I know. A lot of women are like that.
>> Over something simple. Now, look at your dumb It started on December 26th, 2025 [music] after police were called regarding a couple arguing on the roadside.
Don't leave your car here.
Don't leave your car here.
WHAT'S GOING ON?
It doesn't sound like it's good.
DON'T LET HIM TELL YOU NOTHING.
We'll just hug it out. I'll hug it out.
Help me. About what?
I have TO GO TO WORK NOW.
I WILL TELL HIM EVERYTHING.
SO, what's going on? Nothing, sir.
Hey, don't go anywhere.
Let's go now. I can't because he's now saying bro.
It's turning into a thing.
Bro. He said what?
>> Cuz you wouldn't give me the Hey, HEY.
NO. NO, I can't Hey.
LOOK AT WHAT YOU DID, BRO.
DON'T TOUCH ME. IT'S YOUR FAULT. YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE EVER TOUCHED ME, YOU BIG ear idiot.
What happened to his car, sir? Nothing happened to the car. I'm I'm trying to figure out what happened to y'all.
Nothing happened. We just had an argument. Well, it's an argument the whole neighborhood can hear. So, they called us.
That's all. Take me to work. I have to be to work in a minute. I don't have time for this.
It wasn't clear what the male and female were arguing about, but the officers slowly realized that something very violent had happened during the argument.
>> TAKE ME TO WORK NOW.
HEY, HEY. I HAVE TO GO.
>> THEY'RE talking to him right now, okay?
THERE'S NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT. THEY need to be talking to me, not him.
>> now. It's not Nothing's going to change.
What happened to your shirt? Nothing.
Something happened.
>> Nothing happened to my shirt, sir.
Okay. Is that your boyfriend? [music] No. Your husband? No. How do you know him? Just my friend.
Stay here.
Well, I can't stay here.
>> You're going to stay here. Why? Cuz we have to figure out what's going on between you and him.
>> on. This is not my car.
Stay seated. For what, though?
And I don't want to be on your camera, so I'm not going nowhere. Don't touch me. Hey. Don't touch me. I'm not going anywhere.
>> Stay here. The heck?
There is no mistake.
Just sit. Get in the car.
No, it's too hot right there. Absolutely not.
Simple conversation we cannot have.
That's it. That's the That's the story.
Let's leave it at that.
>> Is that your girlfriend?
Yeah.
Okay, cuz she didn't say that. She said you're just friends.
That That's just Okay, [ __ ] whatever the She's lying. Yeah. You got scratches on your nose. Uh yeah, cuz that's when I fell on the floor somewhere.
Okay.
The female's dress was torn, and the male had bruises on him. So, the officers knew that they had been fighting, but it wasn't clear why or who caused the fight.
>> It was for you screaming and yelling and disturbing the peace. Exactly.
Yeah, evidently it was a fight cuz he got marks and bruises and scratches and everything on his face.
>> Well, it wasn't no fight. Okay. So, how did How did that happen to his face?
>> It wasn't no fight, though. All right.
It was not no fight.
Obviously, your face is scratched up, dude.
Yeah, cuz I fell on the cuz I fell on the floor.
Well, that's that's what the story's going to be. What the Why are you trying to change up my story, bro? my >> I'm not trying to change your story. I'm trying to I'm not trying to help you >> I want to be a police officer, too. I know I'm going to be a police officer. I know.
All right, bro. Um so, what happened? You guys got into an argument in the car or We got into an argument in the car, yes.
How did you fall? When I was tripping at my house and I just uh I just tripped over something and just fell face first.
And uh you fell face first. You got busted up here and nose. Yes, my nose. I tripped and fell, bro. I was like Stepped in first.
Yeah.
Since the man was injured and the woman was very eager to leave, the officers would do something that would force the male to indirectly reveal what actually happened. What's happening is he had injuries on him. You're saying that you two were the only ones who called us.
Well, we we were arguing at the house. I can't go.
>> You're going to be detained temporarily until we finish our investigation. But, that doesn't make sense. I didn't do that to him. I just asked >> What about me, though? Just give me a second. I asked you your I just asked you. Why am I going to jail? You're not going to jail.
>> going to jail. You're temporarily detained until we figure out what's going on, okay? Why?
For sure.
She's 34 years old.
Dude, I'm 34 years old. I wouldn't be dating a 22-year-old.
>> [laughter] >> What is Woah, woah, woah, woah, woah, woah, woah, woah, woah, no, no, no, no.
>> What do you think she's saying?
What do you think she's saying?
Woah, why is she being arrested for? I don't know.
Woah, can you go Can you go check this, please? Please, please, don't arrest her. Please, don't arrest her. Please, don't arrest her. Please, don't arrest her. Please. Okay. Please, please, please. She has a daughter and she has a a one job. She's living with him.
Please, do not arrest her. She didn't do nothing. She did not do nothing. Please, please, do not arrest her. Please, I'm begging you. Please, please. Please, do not arrest her. Please, please, please, please.
I'm No, I'm so serious. Please, can you please go talk to them? Please go talk to them. Please, officer. 13?
Uh apparently.
Does he have injuries? What do you know?
Does he have injuries? No, I don't have injuries. She did not hurt me. Okay.
Mommy, she's not being arrested. She's being detained. Two different things.
Oh. We haven't made a decision.
Hey, look. You never PUT YOUR HANDS ON ME. You never put your hands on me.
You She never put her hands on me.
>> cuz she's basing on that.
Okay.
Bro.
The male was 22 [music] years old and the female was 34 and the manner in which she spoke to him suggested that she was very controlling. But while the male denied any violence, it was increasingly harder to believe.
>> She did not hit me.
I don't know. She did not scratch up my face or do anything to me, bro.
You got ID on all of you? It's but Are you guys arresting her?
Huh?
Why?
>> conflicting.
It's one of them stupid Oh.
This is why I get so angry. Yes, it is.
Yeah, I know you all are asking for leniency, but if he's refusing Yeah, I know.
Yeah. Can't have a simple conversation.
Simple.
>> I know. Hey, what's your name?
It's okay. I fell and slipped on the floor, officer.
>> You don't get random scratches >> I fell and slipped on the floor. I'm leaving it at that. Leave me alone, please, if it's not anything else. If it's something else.
Bro, I just told you what the hell happened.
I know that.
But here's the thing, too, right?
Hey, look at me. Yes, sir. So, anything involving a couple if one person has injuries on them, usually the other person has to go. But that being said, if you don't want to press charges or anything like that, >> pressing any charges.
>> it. But we still have to take her and then when the court happens tomorrow morning She has work.
>> I get it. I get it.
Can I talk to her?
You may.
You'll be able to.
I know.
Stupid. Just talk, talk, talk, bro. Just talk, A SIMPLE CONVERSATION.
>> THE RELATIONSHIP was definitely affecting the male, so the female's arrest for domestic battery was hopefully an eye-opener.
But in this case, the officers had to physically stop the female from stabbing her boyfriend.
She likes to stab me. STOP. STOP GRABBING ME.
IF YOU'RE ENJOYING THIS VIDEO, please like and subscribe. It started on September 6th, 2025 when officers were called to a residence regarding a domestic disturbance.
Step out here with me real quick. Step out here with me. You got any guns or anything? Uh Taylor, she's nice.
Do you want me to take him to the car?
any weapons or anything?
Hi pup.
Come here, sweetie.
I need you to step out here with me and step out here. No. All right, what's going on?
You all right?
I got you. Anything else Anybody else in the house, man? He's a crybaby ass She likes to stab me. Stop.
Stop.
What's going on?
What's going on, sweetie? Hey, my foot.
I'm sorry. Stop.
What's going on today?
He's sitting in there talking to him.
Hey, what's going on?
Hey.
I'm not going to ask you again.
Chill out. What's going on?
I'm not doing nothing. I'm standing in my front door. Okay, but what's going on?
Hey.
Stop. STOP GRABBING ME. ME.
THE MALE CALLED THE POLICE TO THE HOME AND WHILE it wasn't exactly clear why, the officers immediately had their suspicions.
All right, man.
What up? How do you want EMS? No. Is there anything medical? She was just swinging and it barely nicked me. You kind of Yeah.
I was trying to go for the arm. I'd rather charge a gun than a knife. Yeah.
And yeah, she just got me a little bit.
Yeah, let me Did she get you anywhere else or just >> Not that I know of. Okay.
You care to turn around? I'm going to I'm going to just double-check, make sure.
Okay.
Yeah. All right, I'm going to take a picture of that real quick. Sorry, I'm shaking.
Uh you're fine, man.
All righty, so from the very very beginning.
Woke up >> Whenever Okay. to go piss. Um Okay.
Apparently she went through my phone. I have a contact J. Um I have a friend named J. She deleted every single female on my phone Okay. because I mean, I had to do the same thing just because giving her the same treatment she was giving me.
>> Yeah. Woke up, um went to go piss. She freaked out saying, "Who the hell is J?
This is Jasmine. This is Jasmine." I'm like, "I don't know. You deleted her off my phone. I do have a buddy named J."
Okay. She called. Yeah. My buddy didn't answer. His girl answered and so she freaked out. and she said, "I told you.
I told you. Grab the knife from in there." And then [music] I would try to cut you guys once, and I was like, "No, I'm just going to call her mom."
Her mom was like, "Did you text me?" I'm like, "Yeah, she's got a knife. I'm just going to call the cops." Yeah. Yeah. Her mom usually can calm her down, but she was a knife and Yeah. Yeah, you know, you did the right thing. 100% you did the right thing. So You want to pursue charges on her for this?
No.
No, she just needs to get back on meds.
>> You don't want to pursue charges for her stabbing you?
I mean, it's a little neck. I'm not It's up to you, man. Hey, it's any of the ones to contact. It does not matter.
Yeah.
I mean, she's going to jail regardless.
She fought one of her officers. She's going to jail. She just Yeah, so it's um it's if you want to pursue charges against her. It's totally up to you. No, let her deal with that. I don't I just need as a witness. I mean, I can't I'm not going to hit a No. I'm not going to hit a girl.
>> The man didn't want to press charges, which the officer is expected, but they also felt it was necessary because it wasn't the first time she did something like this.
>> Uh so where exactly did it happen? Did it happen Yeah, literally right here.
Okay, kind of in the hallway? Yeah, right here is whenever she actually started swinging, and then you were right there, and that's whenever I tried to grab her hand and she got her pinky.
So she was back where you are, and you were where I am.
>> She was right where you were at, and I was trying to walk out calling on the phone while she had my phone. Threw threw it at the wall, and I grabbed it, and then she grabbed the knife and Yeah, and then >> Is this the first time she's ever done anything like this?
>> on my phone of her on my face. That was the first time I should have called you guys. Yeah, I was like, "I'm just going to call her mom." So there's Uh it was a bigger one than that, but yeah, I didn't know I didn't know that one was in there, too. I bet it's between the bed and the wall.
So there's a history of this? Yeah, she she is doing this Not with just me but with the other dudes and uh uh Yeah, I guess I just got tired of it.
Linda, are you guys Are you guys dating or Okay, how long have you guys been dating? Since like uh Super Bowl of last year. Okay.
Of this year actually. Okay.
>> Not that long and it's been really it's been on and off because of her wanting to fight and just going off.
>> Yeah. The officer respected his decision not to press charges and the female was arrested and charged with battery. But the next man actually ended things with his girlfriend and she would go completely crazy about it.
>> Hey, look, you broke up with me three [ __ ] TIMES IN THE PAST WEEK.
IT STARTED on October 10th, 2025 when officers were called to a home regarding a domestic incident.
Oh boy.
Signal 14, she's here. She's just screaming from inside the apartment.
Copy.
Sarah, honey, it's the police. Can you open the door for us?
You're not in trouble. We just want to talk to you, make sure you're okay.
Please leave me alone.
Are you okay? Yes, I'm fine.
Can you open the door just so I can see that you're okay?
Sarah, does he live here with you?
Hey, are you okay? I'm fine. Okay, can you talk to us? Is that okay?
And I have a [ __ ] dog and he It's okay. Please leave my door. Like don't I don't want my dogs to get out.
Why are you here?
Why are you here? I'm not mad at you but like why are you You're not in trouble.
We just want to make sure you're okay.
Your boyfriend called us. He got his own my Okay. And he needs to mind his own [ __ ] business.
>> Okay. And I already got everything under control. Okay, [laughter] can you just explain to us why he'd be calling?
>> Everything's good.
Who is he to you?
Nobody.
>> [laughter] >> Okay.
Odin, please say no. Go. Go.
Go.
Her boyfriend wasn't at home, but he called the police [music] because something happened between them and he knew it would leave the female in a mess.
>> [screaming] >> You don't look fine. Are you okay?
>> I'm totally okay.
GO AWAY.
GO.
>> [screaming] >> GO. PLEASE GO, ANNA.
JUST TAKE A BREATH. I'm fine.
Because you don't seem like you're okay.
This is not Someone who's okay would be you know, you're you're screaming, you're crying.
It's all right, baby.
>> dude. I got to work later.
I don't have time for this Okay, so we're going to Zombies?
What time does your shift start?
It's fine. It's all right, baby.
What you doing, you're beautiful.
Hi, you're good.
>> Odin, come here. Odin, please don't let him out. He's mean. Come here, baby.
Come on.
Go inside. You're a good boy.
Go.
In there.
Go.
He's fine. Do you want to just step over here and talk to us, that way you can shut the door and not worry about him running out? It's okay. Here, I'll help you scoot down, that way you can sit or whatever you want to do. You're fine.
Here you go.
That way he's not barking like crazy.
I'm fine. I don't need this. I don't even know why he called you guys. You don't call my [ __ ] family. Like He don't call my [ __ ] family. Now they're mad at me.
IT'S ALL RIGHT, BABY.
>> [screaming] >> WHY DO YOU THINK HE WOULD BE CONCERNED ABOUT you to call? I don't I don't know.
I don't know. You're a [ __ ] rumor and decided to Look, he broke up with me three [ __ ] times in the past week. Like like The boyfriend broke up with her, then called the police to check on her, and it seemed like a smart move considering how she was acting. But his smartest move was how he broke up with her.
I want you to see what happened.
So, um I told her, "Hey, can you bring me a feed today?" She brought me a feed today.
We're talking. I was talking. I said, "Hey, can you bring me something to eat real quick?" And she said, "Yeah, sure."
So, I brought it up like, "Hey, I'm here I'm hearing that you're sleeping with other people and this and that." So, I tried to cut it off right there. I was like, "Hey, like I don't think we should be together and all that none of that."
So, I'm sitting across the table. She's sitting on this side. And I purposely sat in front of the camera cuz I know how like how she gets. So, I'm sitting by the camera. She gets up. She throws a sandwich at me. Throws a Starbucks drink at me. I'm like, "Okay, this is not going to be good." So, I tell her in her head like, "Hey, like you need to leave.
You need to leave. You need to leave.
Like I don't like I'm going to resort I'm at work. I don't want people to call the police. There's other people here this and that." So, she chased me up and down the jet ski dock with the hose with the hose trying to spray me down and what like wet me up and wet my phone up and this and that. I finally get past her onto the actual dock. I was like, "Hey, you need to leave. Like you need to leave." She picked the chair up from this room right here. My truck she literally parked in the back pit.
She picks it up. Literally runs around the whole entire way. Gets to the back to the back pit where my truck is. I cut through the middle. Cut her off so she doesn't hit my truck. Like like my truck it was um beat my truck up with the chair.
So, I'm like, "Okay." So, all the maintenance people like see it like guess at the hotel and then >> she hit you with the chair? Uh she tried to swing it, but I just I just put my hand up and blocked it. I just She's swinging at you or the truck?
I think she swung it at me.
Okay. Yeah, cuz I was obviously in the in between truck, you know. And then she finally started walking back this direction cuz everybody started getting on her like, "Hey, need to leave. You need to leave."
So, he uh parked over here but she finally got into it. So, I said, "You know what? Let me just hop in my truck real quick and move it." So, I waited for her to see if if she was going to leave and all she did was just kept on in circles, kept on in circles like following me, following me until she finally left. I was like, "Okay, it's like I need to call, you know, just in case, you know."
So, yeah. The male chose to break up with his girlfriend in public and on camera and it had the effect he expected. So, now he was safe but the female was unknowingly being investigated for domestic violence.
>> Well, I Were you just with him a little bit ago?
No, that was So, you've been home this whole time?
>> No, I have not been home. Okay.
Like he's a punk. Like I'm going to hang him. So, we're not going to do anything.
>> Like I'm fine. We're just trying to figure out why he's called us. That's all. Okay, well, he called you because he's a [ __ ] [ __ ] and he got my family at I don't know why he had to get y'all involved.
And why did he call your family?
[snorts] Because he didn't like the way I was acting, I guess. Okay, what did he tell your family?
I don't know. I wasn't listening. He did that in front of you?
Yeah, he called my uncle and my uncle man, I'm in so much trouble.
He was like, So, our our main concern, Sarah >> [laughter] >> Sarah, honey, our main concern is making sure that you're okay.
I'm okay.
I'm fine, dude.
It's going to go away. Like it's going to Sarah, this is not fun. I'm okay, wait.
Okay, please don't call anybody. We're not calling anybody. We're These are calls that are going on right now, yeah.
God, I He hates him and I He hates stupid cousin Bubba.
That It's cuz pregnant girl, too. The female officers weren't yet aware that the female had hit her ex-boyfriend with a chair, but they helped reveal just how emotionally unstable she was.
I don't want to go to jail.
Okay, so you had lunch?
>> And I don't want to go to the crazy hospital, either. Okay.
So, I've literally It's going to pass.
Like, it's fine. So, you had soup? You weren't feeling well?
Oh, dude.
Um what did he tell you? I don't know. I haven't talked Why did he call you? He's concerned about you.
>> I'm fine.
>> And I can understand why he's concerned.
>> I'm literally fine. I'm just pissed off that he's doing this. Like, you don't treat nobody like that.
>> you guys get into an argument?
>> [music] >> Yeah, because he was like, "Oh, I heard I heard this about you trying to Elias."
Which, no, I was there to sing.
Why the [ __ ] would I try to pick Elias up?
>> Okay, but you guys are broken up, right?
>> Yeah, he said I I He said, "I'm going to I'm going to We just got to go our separate ways. It'd be better." Like, for a while, that's a rumor. That's I even called Saint. Saint, put Elias on the phone. "Oh, no, no.
That I No."
It was a [ __ ] lie. Okay. So, he he's just believing a lie, and it's just pissed me off because, like, you just don't do nobody like that. Like, you It's like you You drive like you don't do nobody like that. Does he live here with you? No.
>> No, he has his own place? No, he lives with his mom.
>> With his mom? Mhm.
And how long have y'all been together?
Like, 3 years, technically. Off and on for 3 years?
What? I'm I don't like what's happening right now, guys.
What's happening? They're trying to call me on the radio for something else, but I'm obviously busy. Okay, I'm really going to be okay. My family called a family meeting tomorrow. They're probably going to send me off.
>> ask you, does your family live here?
Yeah.
>> Mhm.
What is happening?
Do you take Do you take medications or anything like that? I don't want to like I I actually don't feel comfortable like right now.
What? I don't feel comfortable right now.
I'm fine though. Like it's I'm fine. I'm not going to do anything. I promise. I just want to go to work and work my shift, take a shower, take a nap, maybe calm down. I'll be fine, dude. I just It's fine though.
He accused you of doing something that you didn't do. Yes.
And I didn't do it. I really didn't do it.
But he didn't believe you. No, he didn't believe me cuz of [ __ ] Bubba. He gives a [ __ ] what Bubba's doing right now. That's all he's got to say.
He's It's always [ __ ] Bubba, for real.
>> Is he always the trouble starter?
>> [laughter] >> I didn't [ __ ] do anything. Why are you believing this man?
He said "Bubba wouldn't do that to me."
And you said Bubba's his cousin? Mhm.
The woman was clearly unstable and the male had agreed to press charges against her. So, the officers now had all they needed to proceed with an arrest. Sarah.
Um Officer Ham is over there meeting with Daniel. Okay? Whatever he was told and video footage, Officer Ham has probable cause to place you under arrest, okay?
So, he's coming over here. I feel like you've been cool with us. You've calmed down.
Um and we thank you for that and your cooperation. So, I'm getting arrested?
>> Yes.
So, he's decided to press charges?
Yes.
Can I touch my Can I at least change my shirt? I don't want a sloppy Joe's mug shot, please. You're fine. No, I I really need to change my shirt. Like >> Let me know.
Okay. Okay, they're going to take that off of you anyway.
Please, I don't want to go to jail. I mean, I get it.
What? So, I'm going to jail? Yes.
>> [laughter] >> All right. want you to get all worked up again.
>> [groaning] >> Oh my god. Wait. Wait. Wait.
Wait, please.
>> [snorts] [laughter] >> Okay.
Okay. Look at me. Take a deep breath. I can't, bro. I'm getting arrested.
>> [laughter] >> She was arrested and charged with domestic battery. If you like this video, YouTube thinks you'll enjoy these, too.
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