Women Finally ADMIT The Female Loneliness Epidemic Is REAL & BEG Men To STEP UP

Added: 2026-05-17

[00:00:00]Why are more [music] women suddenly talking about loneliness in 2026?

[00:00:04]Why does the conversation sound completely different now that men are stepping away? Did modern dating finally create a problem nobody expected [music] to become this big? Stay with us till the end because the accountability conversation around this [ __ ] is getting very uncomfortable.

[00:00:20]>> [music] >> We are now in the female loneliness epidemic age. A lot of women live boring lives and are more lonely than you think. You might say, well, they have a lot of guys in their DMs all the time.

[00:00:39]But most, if not all of those guys in their DMs, they just want to have sex with them. And you might think, well, they tell the girls that they want to marry them and do this and do that. But guys will say anything just to get a bit of coochie, man. And the reason as to why there's a female loneliness epidemic is because of feminism. That scam turned women into the very men they wanted.

[00:01:00]Focus on yourself, bro. You ain't missing out on nothing. Hit that follow button for more tips. For years, independence [music] was marketed as the ultimate goal.

[00:01:10]Freedom, options, endless [music] choice, endless validation. But somewhere along the way, connection quietly started [music] disappearing. So watching these videos from women that come across my for you page, I'm like, a lot of you are going to have to settle like greatly. Now even beyond the point of debating whether or not men should be providers. Like let's just say I agree like men should be providers, right? The life that you want provided for you, only so many men can do that. Clearly, I crunched the life out of these numbers, y'all. I'm talking about living in a house, you know, shopping trips, paying for all the food, nice food, you know, nice clothes, stuff like that. I factored in stuff like, you know, you being attracted to them. That That's like 0.8%. You know what I didn't even factor in? Height. So it's like if you want a man over 6 ft, you're going to have to go for like 0.14% of 0.08%. And then remember, they're going to have to be attracted to you, which you know, I'm not even going to do it. Let's assume you're like the most beautiful woman in the world. In fact, we have like oh, they got to treat you right, be emotionally intelligent. They're probably It's probably like.0 less than.01. These odds are not looking good.

[00:02:05]Now, I feel like anytime a man says this, like people are like, "Oh, no, he's trying to like lower women's standards so he date him." Look, I'm in a relationship, okay? So, I don't need any of that. What I'm saying is like now we talk about ooh, there's a male loneliness epidemic that no man actually care about. I think maybe in like 10 to 20 years, I think there's going to be a woman's loneliness epidemic. Like on a on a very serious note. Based off what you're saying, like assuming that you're not just like lying on the internet then being completely different in real life.

[00:02:27]Cuz again, in real life, I've never really ran into women who are like super into having a provider or anything like that. Just going off the internet, like bro, a lot of you are going to be disappointed. Because mind you, a lot of you like Again, like these men also have to be attracted to you. You know what I mean? I just I made a video on my backup account about it. Like it's it's not looking good for Now, the female loneliness epidemic is becoming impossible to ignore. More conversations, more articles, more people openly admitting something feels [music] missing.

[00:02:54]I have decided that the annual to bi-annual rattling of Carolyn Bessette Kennedy's casket is a symptom of a female loneliness epidemic because every It's It's not just her. It's not just CBK. It's not about the pasta la la, but it's the tin fish. It's the wake up at 5:00 a.m. for lip balm drops. It's the park sweater of it all.

[00:03:23]Um you're You need to talk to a friend.

[00:03:26]You're missing community. You want to be a part of something and I get that. We all do it.

[00:03:31]When I see, you know, cooking trends that I'm like, "Why I should do that, too." I've never thought about dumpling with onion once in my life. I don't care. Like I just want to be a part of something. So, it's like every time you have that urge to go buy a 15 white cotton shirts and get a hot democratic boyfriend that's going to kill you in a plane crash. Um you need to call a friend. Go have a drink with a friend. Talk to the girl next to you in your Pilates class. Uh that's what you're missing. You can't convince me otherwise. Do not argue with me in the comments about it. The urge to consume and be able to buy an identity or buy taste, uh you want to be a part of something.

[00:04:10]You want to be on the wave.

[00:04:12]You need to find a friend. That's my old lady on the internet opinion of the day.

[00:04:17]I'm right. And the twist, [music] many of the same men once labeled boring or replaceable are no longer volunteering to play the dating [music] game. I spent the past week living with my grandma at her condo in Idaho, and after experiencing her life for a week, I am fully convinced that we like my generation is in such a scary place with how little we prioritize our friends, our community, inconveniencing ourselves for our community. Like it's actually terrifying. It was one night where we had like a whole day of activities. Like we were out all day.

[00:04:52]And she starts we start like prepping dinner, like making the table and stuff, and she like sets a third setting. And I'm like, "Huh? Like what? I thought we were just having like a chill dinner.

[00:05:01]Like is someone coming over?" And she's like, "Oh, yeah, I invited my name my neighbor Don over." I'm like, "What?

[00:05:06]Like we're hosting people? Like, oh my god, this is going to take so much energy. Like I'm so exhausted." And she's like, "What? No. Like it's literally not that big of a deal. We're just having him over for dinner. He eats dinner every single night by himself. He also is has like dementia." So we like need to be there and like invite him over for dinner. And then the dinner, it like really wasn't that big of a deal.

[00:05:23]It was great. It was casual. He left after like an hour. It was so chill. It got me thinking like, how am I 25? She's 86, and she has more friends, more of a social life. She's more outgoing. She has more energy than I do.

[00:05:38]And I'm like, "Well, one big difference is she doesn't have a phone that she sits on and doom scrolls that sucks so much energy out of your life." Every single day she wakes up at like 6:00 a.m. and goes to church. And from her church group, she has like a million groups off of that. People from her church that will go and get coffee with her after. Like lunch groups, dinner groups. She has like a bridge group.

[00:05:57]Then also, while I was there, I noticed how much time she took out of her day to do things for other people. Like there was one day where we So, her town doesn't have like a Costco or a Target or anything, but there's a town like 2 hours away that has all of that. And she like asked all her friends if they need anything. We went and stopped We did a whole stop at Costco just to get her like 93-year-old friends her like curing coffee pods. The other day we were we were driving like an hour away to go horseback riding. And on the way to horseback riding, one of her friends has a property that he wanted us to look at just because of I don't know. I guess he thought something like sketchy was going on or people are like people were like squatting or something. So, we like stopped at the property. Like it was a little bit out of our way. And she like took pictures and sent it to him. All these little things where I was like, "Wow, you are really A, going out of your way to help your friends and be of use. But also B, like you are investing so much in your community and so much time and effort and energy in having friends." For that visit, I literally felt like a sociologist. I was like, "Oh my god, like I feel like I'm doing a case study on how people live without phones versus like comparing it to my life and my generation as a 25-year-old." And I want to change everything about my life.

[00:07:10]That's where [music] the panic starts creeping in. Because when men quietly stop chasing, the silence hits harder [music] than rejection ever did. So, am I the only one who absolutely hates hates being single? Cuz I've been single for a year now, and it it sucks. I'm not for the streets. I'm I'm wife material.

[00:07:28]I'm not This isn't fun. I don't like it. Where do you find men? That is the number one question I receive on a daily basis by single women. Ever since I started sharing my single life or my dating life or etc. Like a lot of men just don't talk to me. They'll stare at me, right?

[00:07:45]They'll think of me, but they don't talk to me. They don't [ __ ] approach me.

[00:07:48]I've given up talking to women. I think the stat is 45% of men ages 18 to 25 have never asked a girl out in person.

[00:07:57]Where are the men? Who is holding them hostage? Please set them free. I am begging you. This is what happens when you spend a decade punishing men for being men. Women told men to leave them alone and men said, "Okay." Now suddenly it's where the men? Why won't they approach? Ladies, you just got exactly what you asked for.

[00:08:19]I have never been, in my adult life, as chronically single as Some women are now asking men to step up again, but many men are looking around thinking, [music] "Step up to what exactly?" Notice how there's no such thing as the female loneliness epidemic right now?

[00:08:34]We're at peace. I already have too many dogs to take care of. Like I don't need any more.

[00:08:40]Years of unrealistic standards, [music] endless comparison culture, and disposable dating habits didn't exactly encourage long-term [music] trust or stability. It has nothing to do with being scared.

[00:08:52]Can we please like bring back men coming up to us?

[00:08:56]Like why are you Why are you so scared?

[00:08:59]Why are you so scared of coming up to us? It has nothing to do with rejection.

[00:09:04]Like generally, I don't want Like I get it, like rejection, okay. Okay, I I get it. However, if you go up to a girl in a nice way, I don't think you can fail.

[00:09:18]Men are not afraid to walk up to you, and we have no problem actually initiating. Everything you said in the video is disingenuous. And respectfully, you don't get it. At the end of the day, you might have experienced rejection, but you've never experienced the male experience. So no, you don't get it. And that's the reason why you're not getting approached because you don't get it. Men are definitely exhausted. They're very tired.

[00:09:45]And I'm going to tell you why you're not being approached, and it's very simple.

[00:09:50]We're tired of the no text backs. We're tired of spending money on dates, and then all of a sudden you disappear, and we have no idea.

[00:09:58]We're tired of scheduling and trying to get a date, but you're constantly busy and always going some We're tired of all the insult. The I don't need a man.

[00:10:09]Adulting, that's just being confused for independent. The gaslighting, the lies, all of the over-sexualization of yourself, but then we're wrong for even joining in or calling it out. The constant going out every weekend and not expecting to be hit on or make a mistake ever. Mind you, not every guy is experiencing this, but this is the thing that is the biggest deterrent to everything.

[00:10:38]Stop expecting us to just be okay with the mind games and the constant pain of not understanding. Why is it so difficult to get to know you?

[00:10:52]So, stop trying to I mean, you know, honestly, you seem very genuine in your video. It's just you don't know what you're saying is disingenuous. But just insinuating that we have a fear of something that we're very used to take rejection. Men have to be rejected for the most part. Like, guys aren't going to walk up to majority of the girls in their life, and they're going to say yes. And rejection isn't always at the beginning. A lot of times rejection is later on in the end. It takes a lot to deal with just y'all as a person.

[00:11:30]The nagging, the constant beration, the the problems, the the meanness, all that stuff is culminating into well, I'm just not going to walk up to her because I just don't want to talk to that anymore.

[00:11:43]I have experienced it far too often where I am talking to a girl and in the middle of me having a pleasant conversation, she'll just make a gay joke for some reason. And it's just like it wasn't funny. I'm I'm not trying to find a girlfriend for her to be my homie.

[00:12:04]I'm looking for someone soft, feminine, sweet to talk to, to ease my day. Not trying to come and play the dozens with you after a long day of work. So, no, this this this idea that you are like the idea that we're afraid of rejection or to walk up to you is not the problem.

[00:12:27]And until y'all start addressing these root causes, this is how it will remain.

[00:12:32]Meanwhile, many men discovered something [music] unexpected. Life became calm after stepping back. Less pressure, less confusion, less emotional chaos. I'm in my mid-20s and I can confidently say that I have no friends. And I understand that we're in a loneliness epidemic, but when when y'all are saying you don't have friends, it doesn't seem the same as when I'm saying I don't have friends because from what I'm seeing, it's people have friends, like human beings that you communicate with daily and you hang out with and you just haven't found your good good friend group. Like you haven't found your best friends, which is fine. That's what our 20s are for and and some people will say that they have work friends, they don't have real friends. I don't have work friends because I work from home and everyone else doesn't live in California. And I I don't have anybody. Like I genuinely I'm confidently saying I don't have anybody.

[00:13:21]Like I don't have anybody that I could send a meme to. I don't have anybody that I could go to lunch with. I haven't been out to lunch with someone that's not like my mom in in over a year it feels like and it's just what am I supposed to do? Everybody just says, "Oh, making friends as an adult is hard, haha." And then [clears throat] they move on and it's like, "Okay, I understand that. We've acknowledged that. Making friends as an adult is hard. Where do I go from here?" Like Okay, what is the next step? And I know that I have to put myself out there and I do and I don't drink so I go to I find like all these youth events in in my city and I go to I don't know like trivia nights and I go to bingo and I go to anything where it's like it's an opportunity for me to meet people and talk to people and it seems like everybody already has their own friends or even if you like exchange Instagrams they're not interested in in pursuing anything further which I understand because I also like being in my room and being on Tik Tok and I understand that's probably what we're all doing but at some point like we have to do something like we have to move forward and I don't know how to do that and I feel really alone because again I just feel like nobody else has like literally nobody and everything [snorts] that you see on my profile is like I go out with my sister all the time which is good and I'm very lucky that I have my sister and I have such a strong bond with my sister but it's like this is the only person that I ever spend time with and I don't know.

[00:14:52]Like my birthday just passed and I spent it with my sister again for like the fifth year in a row.

[00:14:59]And I don't want to do that anymore.

[00:15:01]Like I do want her there but I also want other people. Like I want a community.

[00:15:06]I'm sorry.

[00:15:08]I don't want [snorts] to be like crying on this stupid app but like I want a community of people that like care about me that I care about and and I know I'm not the problem which I know sounds crazy to say but like I know I'm not the problem because I'm I'm really nice and I'm fun and I'm I'm very respectful. Like, I just [snorts] don't I don't know what to do and I feel very alone and I don't know.

[00:15:34]I don't know what to do and I don't I just genuinely do not see like a point to this anymore. If if you're alone, like what is the point of being human?

[00:15:45]Like, it literally sounds like philosophical, but like but like, the point of like being alive is to connect with people and I can't.

[00:15:55]I don't know why.

[00:15:58]And let's be honest, [music] accountability is finally entering the chat. Modern dating rewarded attention [music] over connection for so long that genuine relationships became harder to recognize. Is that why every podcast bro is screaming from the top of his lungs that women should just give themselves up to these lonely men in order for us to not have violence in the world because if we don't give them what they want, they're just going to become violent? Like, how many times have I heard that narrative from some [ __ ] podcast bro?

[00:16:32]But you know what?

[00:16:34]If you're so peaceful on your own, that's great.

[00:16:38]Thank you. Thank you for being peaceful, but it's funny because you still felt the need to respond. You still felt the need to go out of your way to leave a comment. So, how is that you enjoying peaceful silence?

[00:16:53]If you wanted to enjoy peaceful silence when you see a video like mine that's obviously very triggering to you why don't you just block me?

[00:17:03]Right? In order to keep your silence, to keep your peace?

[00:17:06]Why didn't you just block me? Why did you have to respond?

[00:17:10]That's weird.

[00:17:11]Hmm. The uncomfortable reality is that loneliness [music] doesn't disappear just because someone has followers, likes, or endless online attention. This is going to get me in trouble, but nobody wants to talk about the female loneliness epidemic. They only want to talk about the male loneliness epidemic.

[00:17:26]If we were to actually unpack female loneliness, we would have to also look at the behaviors that contribute to it.

[00:17:33]It only takes one excruciating friendship or friend group experience for a woman to kind of want to wall herself off from friendship with other women. Women are often socialized and taught that relational harmony is a primary goal. So, when there's any disagreement, it tends not to happen through direct conflict. It's more of like subtle shifting social dynamics.

[00:17:54]And yeah, sometimes the conflict is an inherent jealousy. Sometimes the conflict is a growing apart or a changing of opinions or beliefs. And even if it isn't intended to be malicious, the indirect nature of it can cause a lot of women to act like some shady ass [ __ ] And all it takes is one bad experience with somebody acting like a shady ass [ __ ] for you to think isolation is better. And again, because this is all indirect, a lot of women are lonely inside their existing friendships, precisely because they have a lot of friendships that don't feel emotionally safe. In the end, [music] this isn't just about men or women struggling. It's about a dating culture that slowly traded sincerity for ego, and now everyone feeling the consequences.