In modern relationships, people increasingly value privacy and are reluctant to share intimate details publicly due to fear of judgment, with social media platforms like Instagram and TikTok creating new dynamics where individuals investigate each other's online presence and relationships, leading to complex interpersonal dynamics around trust, boundaries, and emotional connections.
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Where are the Traditional Women at? Women Don’t Cook or Clean Anymore!! Not Married Ep.23Added:
Welcome back to another episode of Not Married. I am Heather >> and I'm Trell. What's the deal, y'all?
>> What's the deal, everybody?
>> What's going on, man? We back.
>> We are back once again. We hope you guys liked our last video. If you have not watched it, make sure you go double back and watch that. Leave us a cute little comment. Leave us some likes. The comments have been going crazy.
>> I love that for us.
>> Oh, man. And this episode I will I know y'all loved the last episode we just dropped because y'all already heard about the welfare check. So I know that was hilarious.
>> Yeah. So we were supposed to have a guest today but he canceled on us and we are just like wow people are really scared to come on not Married.
>> I'm trying to figure out >> it's a real big thing because people don't like to talk about their relationship or put it on the front line or put it on blast and are able people let people judge it.
like us. We're just crazy.
>> Oh, so they don't want people judging how you know the little things that you do behind closed doors.
>> I think so.
>> Everybody not perfect. You know what I mean?
>> Everybody's not perfect. But why would you want the whole world to see how you are in a relationship so somebody can come swoop you up?
>> Well, you walk outside and you let the whole world see how you are in a relationship.
>> No, you don't. How >> you in a relationship, you walk out with your significant other. Like I can see >> I mean you get to know their way of thinking or how they how they move.
>> Oh, okay.
>> Right here, you're answering questions, being your true, you know, almost true self. Don't let some alcohol get into you.
>> I don't think it's about anybody getting swooped up any I think it's about people just getting embarrassed >> and that too.
>> Yeah, I think it's about people just getting embarrassed.
Well, I don't We not here to embarrass you. We >> We're not We're >> We just here answering questions. Like, we just having fun reading these fan submissions and what would you do if like and that's all it is. Like, we not trying to get into your business. Like, what do you do in the bedroom and all that [ __ ] I mean, unless we got a guest like that that's real crazy. Like, >> I'm only doing that probably with Bandy and Weezy, you feel me? Like, I'm not going super crazy and they they make me feel uncomfortable. the [ __ ] they be asking. But I still be on there. I'm like, "What's going on?"
>> But still, like, I'm not here. My regular friends, what do you think we f to ask you? And what are you embarrassed about?
>> Why are y'all so scared?
>> I'm not going on there. I'm like, what?
>> I do understand though because I get embarrassed a lot and a lot of stuff goes viral off this show.
>> I'm just saying everybody be scared. I don't know why, man. You know, it's just little things like um I would say just little things like even uh not posting your girlfriend like like why you don't post your girl or why y'all don't post your relation I could ask something as small as that and people like >> why you ask that with a couple here >> why not >> why would you >> like what's the what's the problem >> that's what people are scared of and that's what they don't want to >> people be like hey man I'm doing good in my relationship don't mess me up and ask me why I ain't posting nothing and then it's an argument when we get in the car.
>> Having a relationship is hard.
>> Okay. Okay. Okay. I get it. I mean, we need to Well, I we need to invite people that like to post their significant other then.
>> Yeah. Only.
>> Yeah. That's what we need to do. We not We need to We need to invite people to >> post your significant other significant other doesn't mean that you want to sit here and do a interview podcast with your significant other. Do you understand this?
>> Yes. Uh no, I don't. If you do content with your significant other on YouTube, you can do a podcast >> if there. So, there are people out there that we should just target then. We should just stop targeting the homies.
>> YouTube then.
>> Yeah, we should just stop targeting the homies. Y'all ain't Y'all don't know nothing about this [ __ ] Y'all just watch us then.
>> But even though that most of that is pretty much acting, it's different when you have to sit here and talk and explain yourself. Do you understand that? and talk on a podcast cuz the people that are doing content, they they know what they're doing. You know what I mean?
>> The people that's doing content are well media trained. So if we ask them these questions, they are so media trained it'll be ridiculous. They going to laugh their way out of every single question.
You feel me? I hope so.
>> And they'll have a correct answer and they'll be like team, you know what I mean? They'll have the they'll have the right questions. I mean the right answers. But yeah, I'm going just stop asking y'all, man. Y'all y'all too scared, man. It's all good. Y'all scared. It's all good, man. I don't know what y'all got going on in y'all relationship. Now I'm going to be questioning it on my own on my Insta story.
>> Why do you care?
I don't care about nobody else relationship.
>> I'll be like, "Oh, they broke up. Oh, they're not together. Oh, okay. Oh, the dang that happened. Wow. Okay. I really don't give a damn.
>> Girl, you lying. I don't >> She gonna send me all the reals. Look, look who broke up.
>> That's what I'm saying. If it's big things like that, that's the only thing that I'm just phased by. But I don't care. Like all the in between.
>> Uh what happened? And what what you doing?
>> Yeah. And just like I don't I don't I don't care. Did y'all break up? Are y'all still together? Okay, cool.
>> It's over with. No man, that ain't no fun. Y'all boring out here. What is going on? This boring. Just fake and boring. And nobody don't want to this can't spice it up. Be like, "Tell us what's going on in a relationship or tell us what's going on in y'all everyday life. What y'all eat? What y'all cook? Who cook? Who don't cook?"
Like, you feel me? Who pick the kids up?
How y'all have fun? Where the dates at?
Vacations. Like, what are y'all like?
You can't tell us nothing like that.
Y'all boring. Y'all want to post on Instagram or like even if you don't post on Instagram. If you don't post on Instagram, you even more of a real just weird. just just like just get off Instagram, man.
You know what I mean? Stop stop even looking. It's just weird.
>> What that if a couple doesn't post their uh significant other on Instagram?
>> No, you don't have to do that cuz a lot of people don't want to people in their business and stuff like that. You know what I mean? They don't want people in their business. And then you gota like you really out here, I get it. In 2026, you got to be locked in locked in because I don't know what you did in the past. I don't know what you doing currently or whatever. You could be li actually lying to me. So, I don't want to post you because you can embarrass me, potentially embarrass me because it might be somebody pop up like, "Yo, I mess with he or she." So, you don't want to do that. You know what I mean?
>> That's why people don't post.
>> Yeah. You don't be want to do that. And >> talking to multiple people.
>> Yeah. And you don't want to be connected to people. You know what I mean? Cuz when you when you got an Instagram, well, when you out now, the thing is, what's your Instagram? You know what I mean? So now you got to give me your Instagram now. Now if I look at your Instagram and I'm seeing all of this stuff like I know what I'm getting myself into. You know what I mean?
>> Yeah. I guess.
>> So if if I go out right now and a girl ask me what's my Instagram? It's over.
Immediat what are you even talking about? You wasting my time boy. You know what I mean? like I had to have a whole another Instagram with a few followers private and you know that [ __ ] weak. I ain't got time for that. You know what I mean? But I see it. I see it. But that's why people don't post they they girls and stuff. They just them because you don't know what they doing in their own in their real life, >> right?
>> You know what I mean? Instagram is everything right now and Tik Tok and girls is investigators cuz if you not posting he or she somebody you following is. You know what I mean? And they go look at your followers. They look at your comments. They look at everything.
They go investigate. Look. Oh yeah. He connected.
>> You That's how I know.
>> Wow.
>> You You feel me? I didn't know people did stuff like that. But you do that.
But it's all good now. I get it. Now I really get it though. I get it. I get it. I get it. I get it.
>> Rarely.
>> Girl, this is what you do for a living.
You are a private investigator.
>> Am I?
>> Yes. you know, every single thing.
>> If I feel if my intuition is telling me something, I'm going to go make sure that it's right >> and I'm going to go look and I'm going to make sure that I know that it's right. That's it though. I'm not just doing it for fun cuz I'm nosy.
>> You are.
>> If something comes up and I feel like something's off, I'm going to go do my research.
>> Stupid nosy. You like you be looking at everybody Insta story. Like I don't look at everybody.
>> In story watcher, I'm sorry. I don't scroll on Instagram. Rarely scroll. It has to be like the first like five couple scrolls before I'm just like looking at stories.
>> Never. I'm not looking at your story to see what you're doing.
>> I like >> It's the other way around for me. It's like boop boop boop. Yeah, this over with. All right, now let's scroll over here cuz I get into all type of stuff scrolling.
>> Even though cuz I won't see cuz my algorithm is so messed up now.
Like if I didn't see it and sometimes people repost it to their stories, I'm like, "Oh, she posted like, "Okay, let me go look and see." And you know, >> yeah, I'm glad I It's tight now. I don't follow nobody cuz everything you like I just see everything. So I'm just seeing all the girls, you know what I mean? All the fashion [ __ ] What's going on? I seeing everything. I'm being nosy now, too.
>> Oh my god.
>> So, damn. Look at So, you have my algorithm.
>> I got your algorithm. I'm like, what's going on?
>> What is going on? It's fashion and nails and >> Yeah, man.
>> What else is it?
>> I see why y'all want to go to Heather parties and stuff, man.
>> What are you talking about?
>> Talking to the homies right now.
>> Oh, like cuz I have cute friends.
>> Yeah.
>> I mean, you can find that out fast.
Like, you don't have to be of stuff I like. Oh, cuz like all other girls are popping up in your Okay, got it.
>> Come on, girl. Get it together. Come on.
All right, speaking of girls, a British influencer arrested for attempted murder after running over three people, including another UK influencer over an alleged dispute over a weak ass man and them unfollowing each other. I think that that is insane. And I think that that is the definition of a real jealous friend and people that really hate you and you don't even know. And over a man and the way that this lady, y'all have to watch the video, the way that this lady I don't even think that was her car. She just saw a car and she decided to get in it and run over the girl. And she ran over the girl and made sure she did it twice and then looked at her. Got up and stood over and looked at her. Got out the car, walked around and looked at her and like made sure like basically like I'm going to make sure you're dead.
But then the girl had put some like weird stuff on her Snapchat and she was like, "If you play with me something, I'll take you to hell or something." I don't know. It was crazy.
I'm like, see, this is why I don't [ __ ] with [ __ ] >> Was that the girl man she was messing with?
>> I don't know. I don't know if it was somebody's man. I just know that it was over him.
>> It was just a boy that they both liked that they both were talking to and then Yeah. Okay. I knew it was over a boy and then they both liked and or whatever the case may be. That's crazy though, bro.
>> That's crazy. If there's ever a time where me and my friend are talking to the same man, honey, you can have him.
>> How do y'all even get into that same >> If you both like we both like him, >> go honey. Go have him. It's not that serious to me.
>> If we homies, how do we even get in the same predicament to where we like to dude, >> which is so trash.
>> That's out.
>> And he knows he's talking to both of y'all, too. Like, dumb.
>> That's out. First of all, he got the one up. Y'all look dumb. That's one. That's one. Y'all look dumb as hell. He got the one up. He talking to two friends. Now the two friends arguing. He at home laughing at y'all.
>> And but instead of being mad at him, you going to be mad at your friend and be and you jealous of your friend at the same time. You going to take it to the extent to where you kill her.
>> It's crazy.
>> Over a man that's not even yours.
girls are so envious and so jealous of each other. It is sickening. Y'all the y'all the fakest creatures on this planet Earth. And sorry I know y'all all looking y'all looking at me right now.
But y'all can compliment and over compensate with the compliments with each other so much. But y'all are the most haters. Soon as she walk out the room, you seen her forehead girl? Oh my god. Like you seen her outfit, you seen this, you seen that, you seen that, you seen this. Like dudes don't do that.
Like we joking on you right then and there. Like bro, you ugly. You know what I mean? Like we own you. You feel me?
Like y'all be doing the most envious stuff to each other and that's super crazy dog. Like you going to do that to your killer? This girls be sitting right next to you, homie. Right next to you.
Right next to you.
>> And And talk about you. Hey, >> I hate you.
>> They hate you. See, that's why I can't be see you know cuz you be in the house talking, you know, you didn't had a few times you was talking to all y'all your friends or whatever and then y'all ask me for my advice or whatever like, "Hey, so what you think? I'm the wrong [ __ ] to ask." You feel me? Like I'm I'm the wrong guy to ask because I'mma tell you the real like, "Hey, y'all [ __ ] is fake D or you doing this, you doing this wrong, you shouldn't be doing this. You should do this with this nigga." N but I know y'all gonna do it anyway cuz one ear y'all it's going to go in one ear and not the other and all. I didn't I just stood over [ __ ] and called them fake like, "Hey, you was fake. You know you was fake for uh saying such and such to such and such." But I still let your ass come in my house though. I [ __ ] with you though. I I forgave you, but I still let you come my house. You know what I mean? Because it ain't that crazy. But don't think I don't know. I don't I don't remember. You know what I mean?
Your ass is walking on eggshells cuz if you do it again, you would never be looking at me again. You know what I mean? You got to be telling people [ __ ] like that. I be make But don't don't I can't do that.
>> Make you feel uncomfortable. I don't like to let people feel uncomfortable. I just won't ever [ __ ] with you again.
I'll just slowly just stop talking to you. Slowly just stop. Like I'll just unless it's a big blowout fight, if I feel some type of way or if I found out something, it's rare that I'm going to be like, "So, what's up? You said this."
Like, it's not going to be like that.
I'm just going to not [ __ ] with you.
>> Wow.
>> Cuz if I'm hearing it, it's true. It's not. Nobody didn't just make this [ __ ] up.
>> Yeah. Like, what? What? Why?
>> So, if I'm hearing anything about you saying or doing anything grimy to me, it's over with for you. And I won't even explain. You won't even know. You won't never know. Now, if I catch you on something, that's different. Or if you talk [ __ ] or if you're being rude or whatever in my face, then it can go a different way. But if you're just out here talking bad about it's always going to come to me. It always will.
>> But back to that girl though, that's messed up.
>> Girls are haters and you got to watch your surroundings and that's why I be on [ __ ] So, back to back to that episode where y'all watched that last episode.
you out with your friends and you're not with me and I'm seeing stuff and you I don't know I don't I don't know how you are when you get you going to get uncomfortable with somebody you really don't know. I don't know how you are.
You know what I mean? Cuz I'm I'm there.
I'mma see it. I know you uncomfortable.
We just gonna shake or something or we not gonna mess with them no more. I don't know how you are by yourself doing that. I cuz you could probably go from, oh, hey Disneyland ass Heather to be like, "Oh, [ __ ] it's over with."
And they not going to know how to handle that. Then you got to squabble with somebody and then it's over with. It's just it's super dumb over with with me.
You know what I mean? Like, and I don't with girls, I don't want you to get in that that that predicament, you feel me?
In that situation, I need you to know people wholeheartedly. You know what I mean?
And sometimes it take years to know girls and people like that wholeheartedly and trust them.
>> Yeah.
>> You know what I mean? And know that they got your best interest.
>> You know what I mean? Cuz you just really never know, dog. You never know.
You never know. And we be >> It's a It's a certain level of talking [ __ ] though, too, cuz we talk [ __ ] about [ __ ] I mean, you and a you you got you a couple. We We do. We pillow talking but we be making fun. It's that's what we do. Everybody do it or whatever the case may case may be. We do it but it's a certain level in a mean way. I'm just doing it in a like >> Yeah. Like it's a certain level.
>> Did you catch this? Did you see this?
Like >> I'm not I'm not going to say some wild mean [ __ ] >> No, I'm not saying anything mean evil >> like you know. No. No evil.
>> I don't care about nobody enough that much to be that rude or evil. Unless you really came for me.
>> Like, hell no. I'm not talking about your kids.
>> I'm not I'm not >> I'm not body shaming you. I'm not talking about your kids. I'm not doing none of that [ __ ] You feel me? But your shoes though, >> maybe your outfit or something. Maybe something. Maybe you failed or something. It was fun. I don't know. But we don't do [ __ ] like that. But I'm not going that far. I think that's like kind of overboard. But >> yeah, >> I just don't care about you enough.
Unless you really came for me.
>> Yeah.
>> Took money from me, me, talked about my family. It goes left that way.
>> Well, [ __ ] really came for you.
Somebody came for you before.
>> Yeah, I know.
>> And then it was good. And then you know, >> and still like, hey, and then shout out to my girl. You know what I mean? China came over here. I'm just making sure Terrell good.
>> That was bad. That was my worst one.
>> But it took me 10 years to get over that.
>> Yeah.
>> Like that's what I'm saying. It's over forever with me. Like forever.
>> And you just whenever you don't whenever you fall out with somebody, you never run into them again. Do you notice that?
Like I'll you'll never be in my presence ever again because we don't even belong in the same place to begin with. I don't even know how the [ __ ] you got close to me for real. I don't know what God was doing with that. And I do believe everybody that you meet is for a reason or whatever. God put everybody in your life for a reason. I do believe that.
But it's just like, >> all right, time's up. And you always you do have times up in people's life, too.
>> Yeah, you do.
>> And I always trust that God will show the real.
>> I mean, you >> or show me something to know how to move with this person or he'll always give me signs, >> you know.
See, I'm But you know, I'm faster than you with letting go. I I'll let go whoever. You know what I mean? If it's time to let go, check this out. I don't I didn't even know you existed. I don't know your name no more, who you are, what you looked like a few years ago. I don't know. I don't even remember. Your your the recollection of you >> is out of my mind completely. You don't do that. You don't do that yet. You know what I mean? Like you still Oh, hey. You you still know what a [ __ ] doing. I don't know nothing.
>> Sometimes.
>> Yeah, sometimes. But with me, it's no time. I don't know what you doing, how you doing it, when you did it.
>> I just because I be like, >> "Oh, I hope you're doing bad."
>> Nah. See, see, I don't do that. I don't wish bad on nobody. You can't do that.
You do can't wish bad on nobody cuz they gonna always be doing good. They gonna be looking at you. They going to always be blessed. You know what I'm saying?
>> I mean, I do hope everybody is blessed in life and everything.
>> Yeah, you can't. You got to move on cuz when you move on, it's like whatever.
However you go with your life is good.
>> People don't show the bad stuff that goes on in their life anyway. So, might as well just stop searching for it.
>> Yeah, you can't do that. I ain't But some people do do that cuz a lot of [ __ ] be Joe Button said that.
He said on his podcast, a lot of [ __ ] be doing podcast trying to copy him. Y'all used to be talking [ __ ] but he be looking at he be like, "I'm as soon as your podcast fell, I'm laughing."
>> That's what I'm saying. It's like you're not It's not like you're wishing bad on him, but it's like if it happened, but I knew it. I knew it. [ __ ] >> Oh my god. I mean, a lot of people do that. I mean, it's normal. I mean, but I'm not looking for you to do that, though. I'm not I don't know who you are, though. I don't You know what I'm saying? Shame on you. Watch out for your friends.
>> All right. On the latest episode of Scotty with the Baby, Scotty and Lemie got into it because she says she doesn't like him around certain females. If I let you know that you being around certain females makes me uncomfortable and you're out and see and you're out and see one of them, how would you handle this situation?
>> Uh h if he's out and he sees one of the girls or if she's out if she sees >> Scotty says she doesn't like him around certain females. So, if I let you know, hey, I don't like this girl, and you see her out, how do you handle the situation? Terrell's not [ __ ] with it. I can answer that question. He's not [ __ ] with nothing. I don't [ __ ] with.
So, especially if it's bad, [ __ ] it's over with for you.
>> Hey, don't answer for me.
>> No, I'm going answer for you. It's over with, honey. You might swing on you for real.
>> I'm uncomfortable with her.
Oh my god.
>> It's rare that you be like, "Oh, I like unless the person like unless it was petty or something that me and the person had, but if it was a serious situation and Terrell sees that person is up cuz Terrell is me." But if it was like petty or if it was just like something that wasn't that big of a deal, he'd probably like kind of be intimidating a little bit, not super friendly, but he'd probably like end up talking to him or something, >> right?
>> What if What if Yeah. Yeah. But what if it's um she's saying, "I'm uncomfortable with these girls cuz you be flirting with them or they they too friendly or I'm just cool on them." You know what I mean? Like what do you do when you see them without them?
>> You have to listen and you can't [ __ ] with them.
>> Like don't are you flirting with him?
Are you talking to him? Are you hugging?
If you ever tell me, if you ever tell me I didn't like how he did this with you or how he was all up in your face smiling or whatever, the next time I see him, better believe I'm not about to be talking to him at all.
>> You know what I mean? That's right. And if I see him without you, I'm damn sure not about to be talking to him >> because it's like I'm being friendly, but he could have other motives >> that I didn't see or I didn't catch and Terrell caught it. So, it's like, "Oh, [ __ ] you."
>> Yeah. It's over with.
>> Yeah. Shame on you.
Well, there that goes.
>> All right. The rapper David is finally arrested and charged after months of ongoing investigations as parents. Oh, investigation.
And then our question is, how would you handle this situation as parents?
I don't know. That mama should have been on it from the beginning. I don't know how she h wasn't. And she my 14 15 year old daughter daughter wouldn't even be talking to that man.
>> That is crazy.
>> That is sad. You can't do nothing. Your baby's gone. So I mean that the most that you can do is just >> she didn't care. She like man I'm going to go to David house. You good? Yeah I'm good. Go ahead.
>> That's what I'm saying. Like my daughter would never like you're going with who, where, what, when, why even you're 14. Sit down at the house.
>> See that's culture diffic.
No, that's parents not caring.
>> Culture that's out.
>> But I knew he did it.
>> So he's charged like with the murder.
>> They don't know for sure if he did it yet. They don't have concrete evidence on that young man yet. They just arrested him and charged him.
>> I've been saying from the jump I think he's he did it. But I don't know.
>> Well, um, if that's your car, that was your favorite car. You know what I mean?
And then all of a sudden you stop driving that car. This young lady ends up missing and then chopped up in your favorite car that happens to be parked over here just randomly one day.
>> Made a song about it.
>> You did it. You know what I'm saying?
>> This is too It's just >> And then your homie that he drove the car. Why are we not talking to him? Why is he not picked up yet? I don't know what's going on, but y'all did it. You feel me? Y'all did that murder, you feel me? But my thing is, and I was just explaining this to the homies, what?
First of all, this is this is the biggest clout chase of an artist or a crazy person ever. If you committed this murder a long time ago, cuz I think he committed this murder a long time ago, he could have got rid of that body. He chopped her up. He could have got rid of that body anywhere. He did not have to package that body up and put it in the damn trunk.
>> Yeah. Go throw it in the ocean or something. He could have buried, did anything, but what he chose to do was put the body back in the trunk of his car. I don't know what they did. I don't know how they they researched this or what they did, but they didn't. They can't find no DNA, no evidence, nothing that would trace that the body back to him. So, and I'm thinking he knows this.
So, he goes and put the body back in the trunk. So, right now, his name is just ringing bells. He was already on tour.
If this man beats this murder, gets out of jail and continues to do music, he's gonna be even bigger cuz he was already his music was already surrounded by death and caskets and [ __ ] when you walk in and it's crazy. But they really don't got nothing on them, man. They don't have they don't have nothing on them. I don't even know. They just was like, you know what?
The people the people are pushing us to arrest him. We don't have >> It just sounds crazy.
>> We have to do it. We have to do it. So now, you know, they just got to prove that he didn't do it. They let his boy go already. His boy got arrested.
>> My god.
>> And then they let him go. So, >> well, as a mom, I would really want to know who did it.
>> Like that's I would really want to know who did that to my daughter. So, I hope that they find that out. Even if it wasn't him, find out somebody >> as a parent. Somebody needs to be held responsible.
>> As a parent, I'm I would have been with to go find him.
>> That's what I'm saying. Like >> I'm not waiting on no DA, the police, and nothing. How Man, look, man. It's been two weeks. He is on heel. If you don't don't even worry about it, man.
>> It's been years.
>> Yeah. Don't even worry about it, bro.
>> Yeah. It's been It ain't been What? It ain't been no years.
>> It's been years. One year.
>> Almost a month. It's once a month.
>> She's been dead.
>> No, that he's been that he's been >> She's been dead a little over a year.
>> Okay. Yeah.
>> Damn. She didn't even >> She was in that trunk for half a year.
Six months.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. So, some months cuz she was frozen or whatever the case may be.
>> What is sick? Whoever did that is sick.
>> He on heal. Don't even worry about it, man. Y'all got a y'all got a few amount of time.
>> Like, imagine that's the worst way to die. I wouldn't even start. I would stop call I wouldn't even call the police no more. I would investigators nothing.
Nobody. I'm going to get you. I'm coming to get you. You, your manager, everybody in here.
>> To do that to somebody's kid is crazy.
>> You chopped up my daughter. Oh yeah.
Come on.
>> I'll be over there tomorrow.
Don't even worry about it. I'm over here.
What?
>> A man stole my garage opener and it was bad for him. That was the scariest [ __ ] I've ever seen.
>> Don't you ever do no [ __ ] like that.
It's my personal space. Imagine if that was somebody I know I knew or something happened to somebody. Boy, you you're killed around here.
>> Yeah.
>> Come on. And I'mma be nice. Come on with me, man.
>> Like, Terrell is [ __ ] crazy.
>> Yeah, I did. Come on.
>> I'm like, he is insane. He chased this guy down. We heard our garage open. I guess this guy left his car unlocked and by the time we found out the guy was across the street trying to break into the other people's cars and I guess he was like moving around or whatever. Had our garage opener in his pocket cuz I guess his plans were to come back when we weren't home and it went off when he was across the street. So he like runs through their back or whatever, gets on the other street. So me and Terrell get in the car. We find him randomly. Crazy actually that we found him walking on the street. Terrell parks a car in the middle of the street. It's like 4:00 am 3 4 a.m. Parks the car in the middle of the street. Gets out, grabs his fool by his backpack, slings his backpack, throws him on the hood. I'm like I'm in the car like, "Oh my god, what is happening?" Throw him in the car. He had a whole weapon. I don't know if I should tell the story on this. It's on Back on Fig. But it was crazy. Ended up >> he ended up um >> putting him on the trunk cuz he threw the he ended up throwing our our uh garage opener and Ter's like, "Why would Now why would you do that now? You got to go find it." He was like, "Where is my shit?" He was like, "Go get it right now." It was like pushing him wherever to find it. He finally found it. But he took him on the trunk. Like he's like, "Get on the trunk because I need you to go find where you just threw it at." So we took him back to the place to where he found it. Oh my god, that was scary.
Actually, >> that's crazy. We've seen that.
>> This is not my first time I've seen Terrell be violent and then turn right back around and be nice.
>> Or helpful. Helpful, I'll say.
>> He's helpful.
>> Violent. No, he was violent. He'll get mean. That's a Gemini. He'll get crazy mean, act wild, do something sporadically, and then be like, "Damn."
Kind of feel bad and be like, "Okay, let me I'll I'll [ __ ] with you."
>> Damn, man. I seen that garage open and we was like, "What the heck?" And we was looking like, "Are we tripping?"
>> Somebody It's a ghost or somebody trying to get us, man. And then we looking across the street and then we looking down at him and he looking at us like and I said, "You better be the fastest [ __ ] in the world because if I get to you before you get to me or whatever before you run, it's going to be a problem, boy." And I was in my boxers, homie. Went out there sprinting and I was moving fast, too. I was like, "Oh, he gone."
I was like, he didn't get down to this corner. Got my car and I just kept doing a circle because you got to come out.
>> Yeah.
>> Yep. I was like, you gotta come out.
Then I did two circles and then I finally seen him come walking down the street. I was like, I got you.
>> That was >> But anyway, let's let's move on. Hold on. It's my turn. It's my turn. It's my turn though.
>> Okay.
>> Excuse me. So, u it says, "How soon is it appropriate to bring someone over?
Uh, is first night meeting too soon? Do men look at women that don't wait different than ones who make you take them out first before sleeping with them?
>> I don't think they I don't I don't know if they look at you any different.
>> Um, cuz I feel like if you've been talking for a little bit and then you finally go out and you feel comfortable enough with have him coming over to your house after your first date, I think that's okay. as a grown woman.
Now, does that mean you have to do anything with him? No. But I mean, for the most part, you're probably going to do a little something more that you would do on the date.
>> If you coming back to my house, >> if you're coming back to my house, >> if you coming back to my house, you know what to do.
>> We might first and foremost, first and foremost, you know what's going on. And it we grown. If I like you, you like me, we going back to the house.
>> Guys are good. I don't I don't >> It's lit.
>> Yeah. And I don't feel like guys like, "Oh my god, she took me home after the first date." And Uh if you if anybody say that any one of the homies say that you a hoe, man. She man, she came back to the house.
>> Oh my god. I can't mess with her no more.
>> Yeah. Like then like is it a test?
>> There's no one. Where's some men that that do stuff like that? Oh my god. She has no respect for herself. She let me come right to the house.
>> Okay. I like you, >> man. Come on, dog. That we grown. It's, you know, I think when you as kids, I think we thought like that, like don't do that. Uh, one night stands is like, you know, disgusting. Don't do that.
This and that, the other. But I I feel like, you know, love at first sight is a thing. And then, you know, being so attracted to a person, highly attracted to a person is a thing. Like, you can do that. You know what I mean? Like, >> you can do that just as long as you use protection, you know, and be in your right mind while you're doing it. you know, don't go crazy, but be in your right mind. But if you doing that, yeah, [ __ ] live your life, man. I don't think I don't see if anybody judging you, then shame on them, man. Um, if you're out with your current partner and you see someone you've hooked up with, do you tell them? Do you tell them or do you leave it alone? So, do you start So, you don't start anything?
>> You leave it alone. You don't say nothing and you enjoy your time.
>> Would it be worse if you didn't tell them and they and they found out later?
No, don't don't ruin the moment. Don't >> No, no, no, no. So, if you was with me, but I ain't tell you. I I Me and old girl was we was smashing. You know what I'm saying? But she in your face like, "Oh, what's up? What's going on?" And I never said nothing. You feel me? Then we get back to the house and then a couple days later you find out like, "Hold on, you used to mess with old girl." And I like, "Yeah, >> I would feel some type of way, but it's like why are you in my face?
you know what you're doing with my man or what you've done with him. Why are you up in my face? I would never do that. Just be cool. Just play it cool.
Just relax. And then if you find out afterwards, oh well. Like, but don't ruin the the moment like, "Oh, I used to [ __ ] her."
>> Uh, >> why I don't want to know that right now?
Now I'm having a good time.
>> Like the dude TJ homie with LA. Did you see that?
>> Oh yeah. Yeah. Like he posted her or something.
>> Yeah. Like he used to mess with her.
>> That is the corniest [ __ ] that you could do as a man.
>> He's a do that. Like she's pregnant.
She's engaged. She's going to the next chapter of her life. Whatever y'all did in the past is what y'all did. You just got to live with that and hold that. But he she's so popping and beautiful and has a lot going on right now. He's hating so much. He's like, "Oh, I used to talk to her, too." Well, oh well, you don't got me now. So, I don't like that.
That is so corny. Cornball. Like, I should never have messed with you in the first place. I knew you were corny, >> but that still make me hot though.
Still, >> cuz if you >> It's going to make the man hot and the girl.
>> So if if if somebody posted you in the passenger like you just was in the passenger with >> Even though it's old, I'll be hot at like he's no weirdo, but I'll be hot at you too. LIKE LOOK WHO YOU WAS [ __ ] with.
>> Yeah. Look.
>> Yeah. In here talking to him like you dumb in a slingshot dummy.
But why WOULD YOU BE MAD?
>> I'LL BE HOT DUMMY IN THE SLOT.
>> People before you like, you know, I just talking to people before you.
>> You look dumb, too.
I'll be upset that [ __ ] >> He's corny for that.
>> A That is crazy. Let's get into some fan submissions real quick, man. Uh one said, "I found out my boyfriend cheated on me and at the beginning of our relationship. It's been three years. Do I still leave him?"
Um, no. You've been there for three years, man. It's over with, man.
>> Yeah.
>> Is he still cheating on you? So, you found out he cheated on you, that ended, but he ain't cheating on you now. And it's been three years. Just go ahead.
Stay down, man.
>> Yeah.
>> Go ahead. Who cares?
>> And in the beginning, it's all you never know like if you're really going to be with this person that long or not. So, if it's in the beginning, it's fine.
>> Okay. Um, one says, "I've been dealing with this guy for almost a year. We talk every day. He sleeps over multiple times a week. I cook for him. We go out together.
Everything a couple does. But anytime I bring up making it official, he says he's not ready for a relationship. The crazy part is he gets mad if I even mention other guys or don't answer his calls. Last week I found out he told his friend I'm just someone he chills with.
Am I getting played or am I pressuring him to pressuring him too much?
>> So she's saying what was the beginning?
>> They do everything as a couple. She could clean, do all the stuff, but when she asked him about a relationship, he'd be like, "No, I ain't ready for that."
You feel me? And then she found out the other day, uh, he was talking to his friend and then he was like, "Yeah, that's somebody I'm just chilling with.
Don't worry about >> Let him go chill with somebody else.
Stop cooking. Stop." That's what I'm saying. That's why girls are mean these days. That's why they don't even do that stuff no more because look, y'all are just going to play us anyway. So, I might as well just sit up there, relax, and get what I can because you gonna talk about me to your friends and tell you I'm just chilling. I'm over here busting my ass, cooking for you, spending my time. Like, no. Get on. Let him find somebody else to go chill with.
Girl, don't do it no more.
>> Dang, that's crazy. You know, my homie, he's talking to a new girl or whatever.
You know what I'm saying? One of my friends. And um they were talking about cooking. And I was like, "Do you know how to cook?" And she was like, "Absolutely not."
>> But you got >> And I said, "Baby, that's going to be a deal breaker. You know that, right?
>> Not absolutely not. That's what I'm saying."
>> I said, "What?" She was like, >> I was like, "Wow." She was like, "She could teach me how to cook or somebody could teach me how to cook with her friends." I was like, "You better get to trying."
>> It's like, "I don't I know I'm not the best cook, but you could you could pull up a recipe online real quick and and make something shake, honey. You can make some pasta."
>> Like, you could do something. You just don't want to. That's what I'm saying.
They're these girls are lazy and they don't want to do that nowadays. They're not worried about feeding you or if you even ate today. They don't care.
>> That's messed up, man. They want to get married so they can get your benefits and they >> That's crazy, dog.
>> What? Or be able to call you their man and get whatever gifts they can get.
>> That's crazy.
>> And care about their yourself.
>> Back to you, man.
>> All right. Here is another fan submission. She said, "My boyfriend works long hours and is always talking about this one girl from his job. He calls her his work wife and says it's just jokes, but they text outside of work, too. I saw messages where they're sending memes talking about their days and even inside jokes that I'm not in on. When I told him it made me uncomfortable, he said I'm being insecure and that it's harmless. I don't want to be controlling, but it feels like emotional cheating. Am I overthinking?
>> Nope. You're not overthinking. You got to see what's going on. Because if you give people slack, you cut them slack thinking they cool and they trustworthy, they end up not being trustworthy. They end up sending pictures of their ass and titties to somebody.
>> You know what I mean? Like, and that's crazy. You got to check up on them, man.
Make sure it's all good.
>> I would say that it would might be harmless, but when he told you that it's his work wife, he told you that that's his girl. Like, why would you tell me that that's his work wife? You could just be like, "That's my friend from work. That's >> why would you say that this is my work wife?
>> That's actually >> he told on himself without telling on himself and then he going to say you're tripping. It's harmless. Just my work wife.
>> No, girl.
>> Is that a thing though? Is like if if I say this is my work wife like you supposed to accept that?
>> I would never accept that. I don't [ __ ] with that.
>> Is that like a thing?
>> That is not acceptable at all. This is my friend from work. We're co-workers.
That's what you say. Why would you say that? That That's my work wife cuz y'all are attracted to each other.
>> This my work wife. Hey, this my work husband.
>> Like she makes sure I'm good at work and make sure I have a meal and No.
>> Hey, what's up? This my work husband.
>> My work. What if I was at work all day and be like, "Oh yeah, my work husband like we went out to lunch today and then like we No, I'm not ever going to say that. I be like me and my coworker were going to get lunch. He told on himself."
Anyways, yeah. Don't let anybody slide.
Don't let anybody slack. Good. Yeah, he he [ __ ] her in the car at work.
>> Oh, girl, you better see what's going on. He [ __ ] her in the car, man. In the parking lot at work, man.
>> Now you supposed to be at work and you doing that >> sending memes. He sending that emoji.
He's sending that eggplant.
Yeah, he put He put it He stuck in.
>> He stuck in tour, man.
>> I don't get like if you want to do all that and you like somebody else, just break up with the person.
>> Golly, homie. Um, okay. Another one says, "I know I shouldn't have, but I went through my boyfriend's phone while he was asleep. I didn't find anything crazy like cheating, but I saw him in a group chat talking about other girls, raiding them, and even saying one of his co-workers is fine as hell. Now I can't unsee it. He treats me great in real life, but those messages changed how I looked at him. Do I bring it up and admit I went through his phone or just keep it to myself?
>> Keep it to yourself. Keep that one locked in the You don't want to tell on yourself, but just know. And the coworker, I'd be on her bumper and that's when I'd be going to look and do all the stuff, my research.
>> He just called her fine.
>> Okay.
>> I say a lot of girls is fine.
>> Damn, she fine.
>> Yeah, but if I was like, "Damn, he's fine." He'd be like, "You want to go [ __ ] with him?"
>> Yeah, maybe. Like, what am I saying?
>> And you say that, too. Damn, you just said it too many times.
Like, who cares? like like okay like I'm not messing with her like you know what I mean like I'm pretty sure you see some cute guys or whatever like he's a cute guy or whatever you know and it's it's cute ladies out here >> literally most of the time that you're attracted to somebody once you start talking to people like I'm actually not attracted to you pretty much how it goes >> what you mean >> like if you see somebody that you're just like oh I think that he's cute or whatever the case or she's cute and then you start talking to them you'd be like Actually, you're not cute.
>> Yeah, most that's a lot of times.
>> Yeah, that's a lot of times. It's like if I know that I like you, it's because like we're talking and like we already have like some type of bond, you know?
>> Yeah.
>> Like us.
>> Yeah. Yep.
>> Because he you talked to me for how long before you knew you liked me?
>> Six months.
>> We were just like, "Oh, we're cool.
We're just friends. We're just talking here and there, but we knew that it was like that we enjoyed each other's, you know what I mean? Like enjoyed it cuz you could be talking to someone and be like, I don't feel like talking to her today. You know what I mean?
>> Yeah. I was talking about what? Yep. Six months >> every day.
>> I I don't like nobody.
That's crazy. I can't sit and talk to nobody.
>> That's what I'm saying.
>> I don't like nobody. I haven't found nobody that I like talking to for a long period of time but you.
>> Well, I hope not.
>> I don't I'm not I'm serious. I don't I can't I I can small talk you to death.
>> And you don't even like small talking.
>> Nope. I can small talk and laugh and all that, but I I can't be seeing myself talking to you every day and and be good and in no relationship. No [ __ ] I'm saying that's how you know that you really like that person. I feel like >> that's how you know that you could really like build a future with that person if you just enjoy like just like you know you enjoy the same things or >> you feel like you can talk to me about anything or you want to talk to me. You know what I mean? It doesn't feel like forced doesn't feel like um like we don't have anything like in common. We found out that we had a lot in common with just like being cool. Mhm. He was a real hustler.
>> Mhm. And you were too. So, we're like, "Oh, you like doing that? I like doing this, too. I'mma go do it."
>> Imagine her Imagine me meeting her and then having some type of fan base and then Heather going to print me t-shirts so I can sell it >> just off the rip. Like just off the >> Yeah. a month.
>> And then we just like >> clicking. Oh yeah. Get the t-shirts.
Boom. Boom. All right. Get the site or whatever. I'mma sell them. Boom. And I'm like, who is this guy? I've never even met him. I'm just talking to him over the internet, shipping him shirts, like buying him stuff.
>> We was locked in.
>> That's what I'm saying. You know, >> we was locked in, homie. I couldn't talk to nobody else like that.
>> Exactly.
All these pretty girls or this cute girl or this one that you find attractive or this one that you did something with and it was a great night and all this stuff.
But is it really truly that?
>> No. They just pretty. They just, you know, you can look at them and say they cute though.
>> Exactly what I'm saying. You can think people are cute all day. You can think people are attractive all day. But that doesn't mean that we mesh and we go.
>> I know.
>> Or that I'm just automatically going to like you because you are look good.
>> You know what I mean?
>> Mhm.
>> Except me. Do when you when you out, do you look at girls ass?
>> Yes.
>> Damn, you gay.
>> But it's not like I'm looking at a gay.
I'm just like, "Oh, she looks really good."
>> Like, damn, that ass fat.
>> I'm just like, "Dang, her body's nice."
>> ass gone.
>> But I'm not like, "Oo, that ass fat."
Like, I'm trying to take her home with me and >> No, you can say that ass fat, though.
You said that [ __ ] before, man. Come on, man.
>> What about it?
>> [ __ ] I'm just asking. I'm just asking though. You know, just asking. [ __ ] don't do [ __ ] like that.
>> I mean, I would hope. God damn. He [ __ ] looking at his six-pack. Godamn.
Look at that. Look at him. Yeah.
>> That's That's crazy, homie.
>> Like, do y'all be Do y'all know when guys are attractive or do you be like, "He corny?"
>> Like, if you know like a guy is handsome or something.
>> Hey, that's really funny.
>> Like a really handsome man that is just like handsome to everybody. Would you be like, "Yeah, he is handsome.
Like let's see Morris Chestnut. Like he's pretty much handsome to everybody.
>> He is.
>> Well, okay. Who else?
>> [ __ ] ain't going to just name a bunch of handsome [ __ ] like, "Hey, yeah, bro. Handsome."
>> He handsome, too.
>> Or like that lightkinned guy that all the girls liked. He had the light-skinned eyes and he was in jail.
Jeremy for a long like everybody thinks he's handsome.
>> Girls thought he was handsome.
It looks good.
>> That [ __ ] sounds gay.
>> IT DOES SOUND GAY, GUYS. NO. I'M TELLING YOU.
>> If anything, if anything, God be like, "Yeah, bro. Fly."
>> Yeah, bro. Fly. Okay. So, who's fly to you? Not clotheswise.
>> What? That's gay.
Hey, my [ __ ] Your lips, your ears, your forehead, you fly.
>> NO. N. LIKE WHEN WE see a beautiful woman, when I see a beautiful woman, everybody like Kim Kardashian, she's pretty much beautiful to over everybody in the world. Like everybody can agree that Kim Kardashian is a beautiful lady.
There's a man like that that all men and women can agree. Yes, there is.
>> No, it's not, man. Men ain't not going to be like out here like, "Bro, handsome as hell."
>> Yes, you can.
>> No, you're not. Hey, bro. He really handsome, bro. Like, and what if you like, man, you know what? I was just looking at you, bro. You handsome as [ __ ] >> That's weird. No, that's weird. But it's just like I don't know how to explain it.
>> Just like if you see bro out, you feel me? And he looking clean, you know what I'm saying? All that like, bro, fly. You know what I'm saying? You did your thing. You know what I'm saying? You put that [ __ ] on today, bro. Like, that's how you That's how you do it. Like, I'm not going to be out here like, "Bro, answer." Yeah.
>> You know what I mean? Like, but if I'mma be like, you know, [ __ ] fly, you feel me? Like, ASAP Rocky fly, you know what I mean? Like Fly, N fly, you know what I mean? Like [ __ ] like that. Like you like, "Oh, my [ __ ] fly." You feel me?
Like, >> yeah.
>> That's all it is, though. You know, I I know if a [ __ ] ugly though.
>> Exactly. So, you know, if somebody's handsome or is good looking, I'll say goodlook. a good-looking person. Like it's just a it's a fact. It's a good-looking human being. Like >> no, there's a goodlooking human being as a man that all the mans can say he looks good.
>> All the mans sound like [ __ ] smack.
All the mans can say he look good. Oh my god.
>> Let's see if we can um let's see if we can Google it.
>> Google what?
for sex.
>> Who is the most handsome man in the world?
>> Me, girl.
>> Chris Hemsworth. Who the hell is that?
>> Let me see. Okay, Brad Pitt is on it.
Like Brad Pitt is a good-looking man.
>> Michael B. Jordan doesn't do it for me.
He's handsome, but I don't. And these >> we didn't ask you all of that. You know what I'm saying? Is the man handsome.
>> This man is not handsome to me. The most handsome man in the world.
>> Who? Thor. Let me see.
>> Is he? I don't know which one.
>> I know. That's Paul.
>> This one's number one. He's Asian.
>> I can see if he ugly.
>> Kim Tang.
>> Pause.
>> Kim Tang is not the most handsome in the world. Google.
>> Man, we fa get up out of here. We wrapping it up on this, man. Yeah, let's wrap it up.
>> Come on, man. All right, we're going to go ahead and wrap up today's episode.
This was so much fun. This is episode 23. We are on a roll. Thank you guys so much for tuning in and tapping in. Um, make sure to check out all of our businesses, Money for Nails, Sorrella, Back on Fig, and use our code STS for a percentage off.
>> We'll be back next time.
>> And we'll be back next week. All right, we gone.
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